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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 70 | Red pill ≠ Manipulation | THEORY | Muriana_of | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Can an engagement ring be a non-negotiable? | FDS RESCUE MISSION | Muriana_of | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:26 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Why do some women get proposed to a lot?I have been proposed to in all but 1 LTR. Idk why exactly but I have a couple guesses. For me I think what helped was- that I never slept with a man I saw a future with unless we are in a verbalized committed relationship. I also didn’t commit before dating non exclusively for at least 4mos. I’ve dated many men for 3-4mos and I don’t even remember most of their names. I initiated one divorce, andI broke off 1 engagement, and now very happily married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/24 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Approaching Men: the Art of the Bad Excuse.This is gold. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Red pill ≠ ManipulationDread is choosing to accept lack of clarity. Don’t like dread? Don’t entertain it. Tell the man how you feel (unclear/confused) about whatever, and ask him for clarity. If chooses not to give it to you, honor your boundaries and cut the tie or get over it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/22 08:46 PM |
| 45 | There’s a reason why no branch of the US military has officers start as Captain…because being a Captain is earned.Basically- find better dudes. You can’t polish a turd. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 3 | How do you date in a very liberal city?Consider volunteer at church or if you’re conservative consider young republicans group. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/22 07:22 AM |
| 192 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?He ate like 3 things ever and total. Pepperoni Pizza, rice with corn, and plain burger (meat and bread). It was borderline psychopathic. We would go out and he’d watch me eat if one of those things wasn’t on the menu. Cooking was a nightmare. At first it was cute and “easy going”. Seriously jumped into a rebound relationship only because he took me to decent restaurants AND ATE WITH ME. It was that traumatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 27 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Not necessarily, but it will mean nights out won’t get nicer than typical American chain food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 11:05 PM |
| 10 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.I can ALMOST understand sex with a friend that you don’t want to pursue romantically… but that’s about as casual as I can wrap my head around . With the threat of sexual violence literally everywhere I don’t know how women can easily go home with a whole stranger and not bat an eyelash that they just risked their whole life for an orgasm. Not saying all men are murderers, but it takes just one deranged dude to wreck your whole life. Are the odds worth it?! I also explicitly do not stay friends w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:46 PM |
| 57 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!“Open minded” is a loose way of asking people to destroy their boundaries. No thanks. I used to listen and support people thought different situations but nowadays I just ask we don’t discuss it especially if I don’t think whatever they’re upto is something that’ll add to my life in a substantial manner. It’s one thing to like pineapples on pizza (that’s just like your opinion man…) and indulging destructive abuse just to get a dopamine hit and cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 246 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!I’ve gotten vanilla shamed, and makes me wonder how we got here as WOMEN. Girls, do your shadow work and get therapy! Seriously, sometimes our mind uses sex to process trauma but all that does is reinforce unhealthy coping habits. Sex can become like a drug in that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 12 | Big kids v Man childTrue, and they assume that the girl THEY want will also be the one that wants them. Wishful thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 07:16 PM |
| 78 | Easy Vetting Hack : Are you proud?This. My ex would brag about my accomplishments to others and it made me feel weird in ways I didn’t get. He wasn’t proud of me as a partner, but as a trophy “successful Gf”. That’s not normal right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:58 AM |
| 13 | Again with the height thing....Lol and all the short guys clapped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?SISSSS this and THIS. An overly intimate Mother Son relationship means YOU are going to be the third wheel. Be especially careful with only sons and single mom duos. That’s oftentimes a marriage already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?Can you give examples? I used to be those “let’s ask deep questions from the get go” chick, but realized this creates false sense of intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Its ok to feel bitterThat bitterness is you honoring yourself and grieving what you sacrificed for a LVM. Luckily it’s behind you, and the bitterness will fade. What’ll be left is pure love and respect for yourself, and not being able to settle for anything less from a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 04:40 AM |
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