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Bingo.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 01:22 AM
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Just finished court last Thursday and my Ex’s allegations were shut down by the judge pretty quick. All claims and no proof meant it went no where for me which surprised me to be honest.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 04:04 AM
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Yep scorched earth here as well and it drastically simplified my life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 08:00 AM
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I cannot up vote this comment enough.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 10:08 PM
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Dam that was shockingly on point for me.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 06:21 AM
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Slow 👏
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 11:57 AM
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Yep.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 12:09 AM
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Dam that is exactly what I needed today mate - thank you for the reality check.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 07:32 AM
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Make peace with and accept that you don’t have a chance, watch for the warning signs in a woman that your divorce taught you and act accordingly. Whomever she is in your life realize that she is not the prize you need to win and keep, she’s a teddy bear at some fair ground game that’s nice to win/have but ultimately useless.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 07:29 AM
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Yep I got banned over there for pointing out a woman’s hypocrisy.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 08:13 PM
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Congratulations mate, little wins pile up over time and make the fight well worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/25 06:11 AM
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Yeah mine is being very vindictive and destructive now in the divorce that she wanted, looking back I am disgusted with myself and how much shit I put up with over the years.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 12:21 AM
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OP fully understand the above final sentence, once I understood that my EX wife’s happiness supersedes all other family requirements mentally cutting of any love for her was relatively straightforward.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/24 10:51 PM
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That is the simple yet effective formula when dealing with Ex wives.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 08:59 PM
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Mate take a really good look at what she has done and get fucking angry about it, why would you feel empty for a bit h that pulled that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 03:30 AM
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Australian courts as well mate.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 12:55 AM
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Spot on mate and exactly what I needed to read this morning, I must remind myself that my STBXW is simply not happy irrespective of any of the sacrifices I have made.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 07:46 PM
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Mike drop.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 10:14 PM
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I am so close to being g where you are I can smell it!
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 10:12 PM
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You got this mate, I had a sad one yesterday yet today I have my son for the weekend and the wheel has completely turned.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 10:05 PM
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Yep same for a lot of us, mine pulled exactly the same shit. Turned up today at drop off with her new bullying nose piercing to complete the trashy, whore look- standard playbook which makes her not being around a blessing tbh.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/24 12:08 AM
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There are the facts that we all realise eventually- well said mate.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 06:48 AM
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Similar to my ongoing experience, have to say I’m relieved that she revealed who ahead of her truly is finally as it has made my complete detachment from her much easier. Focus on the kids and retaining as much wealth as possible is my goal, she is no longer my concern.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 08:51 AM
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I’m in the same boat mate and I have decided not to do any of those family things anymore. My kids don’t need to see dad sucking it up as an example of how to treat someone who has betrayed and broken his heart. She made this choice and caused chaos and will live with the repercussions of those actions.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/24 06:48 PM
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Exactly the post I needed today- thank you brother.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 02:46 AM
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Sounds like an awesome trip mate, enjoy the hell out of it and do t get eaten!
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 09:08 PM
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Definitely interested if you have the time mate.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 02:07 AM
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Do not give her an inch mate, avoid the trap of being a ‘good guy’ and for the ‘kids’ as you will get steamrolled. She has declared war and is the enemy - treat her as such. Do the best for yourself as your kids will need a well set up and stable dad in the future.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 11:20 PM
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Mine just got served yesterday here in Aus as well mate. I mate a reasonable offer at the start but she now wants 70%- ah well time to get to court and make the lawyer’s wealthier.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 03:57 AM
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52 and currently in the meat grinder as well.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 01:59 AM
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August 10 2029 is already set in my calendar as eject Ex completely as my boy hits 18.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 10:33 PM
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Happy birthday mate.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 08:14 PM
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That’s a no from me……better the devil I know.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 10:31 AM
1

Have to say I agree with you mate, different for others but I believe that forgiveness/understanding is for the weak.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 03:26 AM
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Yeah I’m in Australia and having spent the last 3 yrs living in the states am absolutely confident that we have just as bad a marriage shit show here.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 08:16 PM
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Yeah I understand the sentiment mate however mines actually just a cheating whore who I happen to have kids with and am this forced to sometimes interact with. While I miss the conceptually ‘good’ times her actions and character are what she actually is and I want no part of that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 05:48 AM
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The house being a disaster zone of clothes and dishes.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 05:17 AM
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Facts right here, mine has changed her attitude once my lawyer contacted her and can’t believe that I am not ‘fighting’ for her……dumbass.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 11:17 PM
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Dam that last part hit home in my case.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 05:58 AM
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This comment is 💯% on point OP - read and internalise.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 01:30 AM
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Bingo.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 06:35 AM
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Mate I understand completely, I’m now 10 months out and simply cannot be bothered with women in general. Actually enjoying time with my son when I have it and riding my MTB with my mates followed by a cold beer.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 05:48 AM
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I simply ejected all the mutual friends from my life, couple of blokes were a bit pissy however once I explained the why it was all good.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/24 07:42 AM
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17 years for me as well mate, mine just wanted to stay at my house for the night to make her hospital trip the next day shorter.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 09:04 AM
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My female staffy is absolutely amazing and cuddles up to me at night, always happy to see me, constantly wants to be around me and makes sure I get out for a walk with her daily - truly man’s best friend.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 06:22 AM
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Well you’re not on your own mate as apparently I did all of these same things unknowingly.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 07:43 PM
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So not forgive her period, learn the lesson and think whatever deity’s you choose that you don’t have kids with this piece of trash.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 01:42 AM
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Mate I get the sentiment however if you think she will ever be ‘accountable’ your deluding yourself. Better to pay the maintenance your obligated to and if the child is not looked after then proving g that - you do the right thing even if she doesn’t for your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 04:55 AM
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Lawyer ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 04:44 AM
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Mate sorry to welcome you to this group, when I read stories like yours I remember that my ongoing divorce could be far worse. Please reach out to me anytime if you need to chat - I’m I. Aus so not sure about time differences. Either way you will come out of this better and wiser.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 04:27 AM
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Facts.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 04:16 AM
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They 💯% believe what they say as it’s their objective reality, logic and reason are not applicable and a waste of your mental processing power.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 10:18 PM
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Looking at my STBX MIL definitely made me realize that my cheating wife actually did me a favour - when my own mother said ‘this is your out’ the emotional fog lifted!
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 10:08 PM
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Mate mine said all of these same things, she is lying and is done - shit to hear and harder to accept.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 07:28 AM
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Anyone who exposes that nonsense is a fuckwit.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 07:09 AM
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Crocodile tears mate - fuck her.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 04:52 AM
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👆this is the only reply to this fucked situation mate, you are all that matters now and not the cunt you married.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 05:36 AM
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Awesome breakdown mate.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 07:39 PM
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Thanks mate, this is the tack I’m following and hopefully she comes around one day.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 08:26 AM
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I’m in exactly the same boat mate, it seems the more effort I make with my 16 yr old the more stand-off ish she gets.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 05:10 AM
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Great advice I needed to hear today - thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 07:02 AM
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Good to hear mate.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 07:01 AM
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👆👆👆everybody should re-read this response whenever there is doubt.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 10:59 PM
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Not a chance am I forgiving any of her shit.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 01:19 AM
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Thanks brother- a good community like this one is a great help.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 09:15 PM
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Good luck mate, I’m in an eerily similar situation right now and slowly coming to the realisation she is simply fence sitting as the situation is all to her benefit.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 07:37 PM
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Awesome reply mate, thank you as it was just what I needed to hear reminded of today.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 02:56 AM
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