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I see... I'll just keep improving. Thanks for the input
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:45 PM
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Right this is what I was looking for. And the topic of her bullshitting as well as the severity of the bullshit indicates if you should call her out on it or not. The iron frame is huge, and I feel like calling her out on small bullshits (not the one in my example) could help slowly create that iron frame. Edit: could help slowly help build up that iron frame. You create it with your confidence, lifting, SMV, etc...
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:38 PM
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It wasn't playful, and I'm sure she was actually constipated and uncomfortable, so like you said I just dropped it made a joke and went on with my day. But it had to be an excuse, apart from it being on the topic of sex, if you somehow find out your wife is lying/bullshitting you do you call it out?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:34 PM
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Haha noted. You're right this was a bad example. But it just got me on this train of thought that if it was some made up excuse would I want to confront her to stop it or just ignore it and improve until she doesn't feel the need to use bullshit excuses.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:30 PM
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3 is definitely playful and fitting, but I'd follow your gut and go with 4 to get that hamster going. Have fun
/r/askTRP20/07/17 10:02 PM
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I don't ask her if I'm good enough, that's beta af. Sex God Method
/r/askTRP10/07/17 02:57 AM
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I see what you mean but in this context I'm not going crazy because she turned me down for sex. I have pretty good O.I and I know I'm "good enough". I'm the prize. I'm just trying to determine what is going on in a woman's brain when in one moment it's flooded with pair bonding hormones, and within a few hours sleeping she not only no longer desires it, but won't accept it as a way to spend her time.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 02:44 AM
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Just a noob Red Piller with questions/observations so take it for what it's worth. Do you game your wife? That seems to be something that's not enforced as much as it should be in the MRP community. Do you honestly feel and internalize OI? Do you take the time to just STFU and listen to her? They say to treat your wife like a girlfriend you're trying to fuck, and it makes sense.
/r/askMRP16/06/17 07:07 PM
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Uh-huh... I see. I appreciate the input
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:10 PM
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Alright will do, thanks for the feedback
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:50 PM
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So stick to comfort? Or am I fucked?
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:39 PM
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I think you're right man. Moving forward, should I address this situation at all or just move forward providing more comfort? Also seems to be a common theme in the comments that I have to legitimize the dread, I think I'm going to kick it up a level
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:26 PM
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Shit man, you're probably right, fuck
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:23 PM
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Yeah I could see her get bored and almost lose her interest after I explained myself. Just do. No explaining. Got it
/r/askTRP21/03/17 08:58 PM
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Right, right. Thank you
/r/askTRP21/03/17 08:56 PM
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Fuck. You're right man. I gotta chill
/r/askTRP21/03/17 05:00 PM
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genius if works...
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:54 PM
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I thought it was something generic enough that she wouldn't be able to do that but your point still stands, I gotta cut that shit regardless. Gotta stay on those toes of mine. Thanks
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:53 PM
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Yeah that's definitely something I have to work on for sure, and I like the concept of addressing her as "woman" in a playful way...may have to implement that
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:51 PM
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So true, I have to drill this into my brain. Appreciate the comments vamp
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:29 PM
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That's a great point man. So when she hits me with the "don't treat me like a dog" just STFU or change the subject?
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:23 PM
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Ahh, well the domestic violence shelters are set up for people who don't have enough money to get their own place, and I think women on average earn less, but not "thousands of women shelters to one men shelter" less. Men do the dangerous jobs because we're wired for them. There are natural imbalances in nature which reflect in the job market. I don't think that's something to complain about
/r/askTRP15/03/17 02:10 PM
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A lot of those issues can be solved on an individual level... Domestic violence? Leave Men are at the highest risk of dying on the job? Work in a safe environment The only thing I think mentioned in the film that is actually worth being lobbied against is infant circumcision. That shit is fucked up and you have zero control over it happening to you.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 01:33 PM
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Yeah you're right man. But it's ok, I'm not studying physchology. Not taking advice from someone who can't spell psychology lol
/r/askTRP10/03/17 11:10 AM
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Ohhh I see, duly noted
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:42 PM
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Anymore time to do what? Get an education?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:02 PM
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That's somewhat reassuring actually. Having uncertainty about my future really fucks with me, I guess I just have to have some faith that whatever I do if I work hard I'll get a job SOMEWHERE and work up from there. Were you living at home throughout this whole undergrad and graduate process or did you take out some loans? I think there is that "dream job" for some people, but I think for majority of people that's not attainable, and I think I'm one of the latter. Thanks for the comment man
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:10 PM
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Oh ok interesting
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:29 PM
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Oh ok I gotchu. Sort of unrelated but are you worried about the way your industry is headed with this age of streaming things online (in particular the licensing deal with YouTube) or will your job still be safe in the future?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:24 PM
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What education did you have to get into that industry? And did you just apply to a few companies after graduation or have some connections? Really appreciate the input
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:06 PM
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I'm definitely going to check that video out shortly. I think what you're saying about trying a lot of different things is important, the only thing for me is I only have so much time to try things. Hopefully the "right thing" for me earns enough money to live comfortably. Thanks dog
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:37 PM
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Yeah good idea, I'll have to make some calls today to get this figured out.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 02:25 PM
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Yeah I'm definitely in the "what the fuck am I doing?" stage too. I like the input dude, very helpful
/r/askTRP09/03/17 02:23 PM
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It's tough man. I'm feeling like doing a business degree (another 4 years of uni instead of 1) and getting those networking connections I don't have now through work terms. Fuck. Wondering if a business minor is enough to get my foot in the door to start working full time for some shitty company and start saving? I'll have to ask in a business subreddit. Appreciate the comment man
/r/askTRP09/03/17 02:21 PM
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Veryyyy few nepotism options unfortunately, but I will milk the few ones I have so that's a good tip. I'll graduate without any university debt, paying only ~$12,000 over the course of my 4 year degree (I live in a rural part of Canada). I'll have roughly $6000 or $7000 in savings after graduation.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:54 PM
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That makes a lot of sense man. My only concern is I'm 3 years deep into a university degree, and better yet, its in the useless field of psychology. If I finish my degree I will however come out debt free from staying at home. I guess my game plan moving forward will to be finish this degree and find the highest paying job I can get regardless of using the degree, then implement what was said earlier about renting out real estate. This is helpful though guys I appreciate it
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:35 PM
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Interesting... When you mentioned "fuck-you money" is this a savings for when/if you get fired so you can survive until you find the next job? Also, if you could recommend a field of study/degree/diploma or job to strive for (I'm assuming in the business sector) what would you recommend?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:21 PM
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Add me to this list homie he got me
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 09:18 PM
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Great FR man, pretty much followed all TRP teachings and did it in your own way. These type of stories are the ones that show me the light to keep moving forward. Good shit brudda
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 05:55 PM
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Bag of skittles it is. Just kidding, that had some great insight, thank you
/r/askMRP03/02/17 08:28 PM
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To answer your question yes I can do it without expecting anything, and that's the game plan.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 05:20 PM
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Yeah this works way better, and I'd answer that question if I didn't fuck up and knew who I was asking. Fuck.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 05:02 PM
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That's what I was looking for. Should've known. Thanks
/r/askMRP02/02/17 03:27 PM
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I'm far from the sahara brother, but I see what you're saying. I'm not going to buy her anything fancy, I will take her out though because I want to.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 01:44 PM
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Hahaha god damnit the passive aggressiveness is real, I gotta get my shit together. She's getting skittles and a good old fashioned dickin' for Valentine's Day, it's settled.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 12:16 PM
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I like this idea, but could you explain how she will actually get turned on by this? I'm sure it's a principle in the RP readings somewhere, but will this just peak an emotion of disappointment in her so strong that she'll think I place no value on her and want sex to seek validation? Elaborate sir
/r/askMRP02/02/17 02:21 AM
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Was thinking about that, good call
/r/askMRP02/02/17 12:38 AM
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You've provided some great insight here. I'm not married, but these are still valuable lessons I can internalize and remember for my LTR right now and in the future. Good shit brudda
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 10:39 PM
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Little bit late to the party but I'll pitch in... Like others have said before me, be her rock, which you already know how to do When it comes to the husband dilemma, he's probably thinking the same thing as you... "do I address this?" "If I do then how so?" "Maybe if I just pretend it didn't happen he won't say anything"... I would definitely bring it up if you're close with this guy, not in a "wtf your wife is retarded for doing that to my wife" attitude, but a sort of "so that thing that happ…
/r/askMRP18/01/17 04:55 PM
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OP can you elaborate on how she was or was trying to control you? Doesn't necessarily change the answer to your question I'm just curious
/r/askTRP16/01/17 08:32 PM
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Very helpful man, now I know what I have to focus on. I'm on the right track to having high SMV, need to keep my dread game sharp for the future. I think a lot of guys would get comfortable in my situation thinking they'd have this girl locked down, and reading TRP everyday keeps me aware of possible downfalls. Love the comment, thanks.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 12:58 PM
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It is a good sign but I feel like with a lot of these women they can just switch shit up on a dime after 5 or 10 years. I think the losing our virginity's to each other is important, in the 3 years I've been with her she hasn't even entertained interest in anyone else, so I'm hopeful it continues. Appreciate the comment
/r/askTRP04/01/17 01:48 AM
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Lift. You'll see it all over this sub and for good reason. It's something that improves your looks, confidence, discipline and much more. There's resources EVERYWHERE. Salvage those friendships. Not for some shoulders to cry on, but at least to distract you and elevate your social status. Get some new hobbies. Anything that slightly interests you give it a try. Anything physical is optimal but any activity would be a start. Focus on yourself. That unibrow you've been neglecting? Pluck that bad b…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:22 AM
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Damn, glad this post turned into this comment, appreciate the advice
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 03:10 PM
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I just don't feel like I LOVE this girl, isn't that what you should feel towards your end girl?
/r/askTRP19/09/16 06:36 PM
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