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Fair is only fair. Generalize first you'll get generalized back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:35 AM
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I think this guy just wants to be single forever tbh, I couldn't imagine a woman wanting to date him as he invalidates her hard work and life experience because of a perceived "easy mode" that never applied to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:11 AM
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I'd rather everyone stops gendering usefulness and necessity. Men should respect women's work as much as the other way around, and maybe they'd see women aren't just the "lazy bitches" they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:59 AM
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Again, conflating single women with single mothers. 84% of single mothers is what percentage of women as a whole? Single women do not get child tax credit. That would require a child. Would you rather the child starve? I am a single woman and I have never been given free rent wtf? I've had to earn my money like everyone else. Gender quotas vary from place to place, but even with the quota, are you implying the people hired or admitted aren't also qualified to do so? You think they are just accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:55 AM
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Not anymore than men make sweeping generalization about all women are sluts, all women are gold diggers, all women are stuck up bitches with standards that are too high, women will automatically sleep with chad, women are lazy and don't work, women are stupid, women should stay home and out of politics.. I could go on and on about the sweeping generalizations. Hell, if a man starts a business and that business fails? "Oh, well, the economy is weak, and not everyone succeeds" or "Its that man's b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:41 AM
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Single women do not get these benefits. You'd be surprised to find out the government doesn't care about single women anymore than single men. You're mistaking divorced/single parents, which are just a section of the population. Second section would be the disabled and elderly. Are you saying the disabled/old shouldn't get financial assistance? What tax cuts do single women get? Like, name the actual tax law that strictly applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:25 AM
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They are just a bitter butthurt asshole, don't feed the troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:56 AM
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*Men are a thirsty hive mind Fify
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:15 PM
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You can't be reasonned with. Its good you don't make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:01 AM
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Cannyou point where the fender was in my statement? Men's attempt to extrapolate blame on women for everything no matter how nonsensical is truly incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 11:32 PM
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Cool, so they should go for murder instead of divorce. Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:49 AM
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And the guy is free to move on jf that's a deal breaker for him, but you have to consider some people genuinely change after a time. An 18-20 year old is drastically different than a 25 yearbold, who is different again from a 30 year old. To hold a woman to the same exact standard she had in her early 20s is silly. What if she tried it, and realized she didn't like it? Should she then be doomed to "put out" just because her new potential partner has hurt feelings about her past from before they …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:20 PM
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And you're making an assumption that I'm only giving these two binary choices because that is what you want to see. I never limited to these two binaries and simply offered an example that would be considered the "ideal of modesty" by most tradfem standards. Of course there's options in between, I shouldn't have to list every single possibility for you to understand the meaning, though. An absence of evidence if not evidence of absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:15 PM
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Baggy is different than "Flowy". Men's baggy clothes are hardly long enough to get caught in workout machines vs long dresses that could get caught in bike gears, turning mechanisms, not to mention tripping hazards. The comparison is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:11 PM
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Depends on the person. There is no single reason why or why not someone will wear something. In the 1800s it was considered "loose" for women to even show their ankles. Thankfully we've gotten passed that, but unfortunately men will impose their perception (i.e "I find this hot") on women regardless what they wear (Turtleneck bans anyone?). Since women can't escape the leer no matter what, they may as well carry on their lives, like wearing a tank top in 65° weather, or wearing form fitting clot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:02 PM
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This sounds like a skill issue if you're this easily manipulated by your own dick, just sayin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:50 PM
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I'd argue most redpill data references (or rather their interpretation) operate more in a binary of "Slut" vs "not slut". They lack nuance and humanity, paired with hypocrisy (by design). You could also argue that men are incapable of pair bonding from the start due to their biological predisposition, hence why they fear comittement, but I don't make that argument because humans are complex being that can't be reduced to simple data, especially not simplified data. Secondly, the slutshaming come…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:23 PM
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If you have spent any amount of time here, Men, especially redpillers, call any woman who isn't a virgin a whore/slut/thot. Pick any thread discussing men's preferences and there it will be, in the comments and sometkmes jn the OP itself. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:25 PM
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The only thing they care about when they block someone is the fact that person is bothering them in some way. Neither should be interpreted as romantic or "caring" in any way. Blocking and unblocking people on a whim is toxic. It should only be a last resort to cut that person out of their life permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:57 PM
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You would have cried at some point. Strictly about dating, not about your whole social life. Though, I will caution that you have to make sure they are good quality friends who actually listen to you and are there for you, as well as ensure they are not the self-pity, sabotaging types. Therapy is in fact expensive. Thankfully there are [usually] ressources the government can provide, or insurance, but also? Mental health Hotlines are free. There are also ressources online of what makes a person …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:37 PM
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I haven't seen anyone who didn't come into the world screaming murder and covered head to toe in blood. My experiences with men should tell me they are shallow horny dogs that only care about themselves, and yet, I am able to look past those experiences and not lump them all in with the "bad actors". We are all shaped by experiences, the difference is whether you are ready and able to take a very hard and frank look at yourself and go "you know... I get it. I get why no one wants to be around me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:23 PM
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Saying "Talk to the woman in question instead of assuming what she wants" is not enlightening? Saying "don't treat every woman like a carbon copy of eachother" isn't helpful? Men has more success when they can switch up their strategy based on the woman. One size fits all approaches don't work, and then they come back to have tantrums on reddit about how women are all hoes when they have tried with like.. two women, both whom reject them. Dating is a war of attrition, not a gender war. The ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:13 PM
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Are you sure its not the jaded bitterness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:50 PM
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The OP is asking which bar is Low, physical, emotional or intellectual. The poster I responded to made a broad generalization about a specific subset of often unattainable traits, and made the claim "All women want these specific [physical] traits". I am a woman, looking for a longterm partner where physical traits are far outweighed by other moredesirable traits (to me). I am not unique in that I need more than a man who only takes pride in the superficial. I've started myself that looks can ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:46 PM
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I've seen plenty of smart people not even make it to college. I've seen smart people work thankless hours at dead-end jobs. Nothing is guaranteed. It does however lessen the chance I'll be bored to death talking to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:36 PM
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Does dating end at Sex? I thought it was about forming life long relationships. Are you implying that my sexuality means that I am not allowed to desire a life partner? Am I then not allowed to desire a partner based on traits I find attractive (outside of sexually)? Do I then, not qualify as a woman, living a woman's experience? If your idea of dating is one night stands, then sure, I'd keep my nose out of it. Not my circus. When it comes to longterm dating? My voice is as valid as any other an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:32 PM
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Careful, you're sounding emotional. If the only thing you got from this whole exchange was "UH YOU'RE AN OUTLIER" then you have thoroughly missed the point of the exchange. People are all outliers. That's what makes them people. Diverse, with views outside of your own. He said "All women". I am a woman, thus, I am qualified to speak on the topic. My sexuality doesn't affect what I've said, nor does it change the meaning, nor does it mean I never interact with the opposite/same sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:57 PM
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I know this was sarcasm, but thank you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:28 PM
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Well, I guess you're right. No girl is after your brain cause that would require you to use it more efficiently. Secondly, I'm a woman, not a girl, so as a woman who screens for intelligence, you did not pass my metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:16 PM
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Are you aaying that because I never met your intelligent friend, and thus haven't dated him, that I don't hold intelligence as my primary factor? This is.. quite the leap in logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:11 PM
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Its almost like women are also individuals with an infinity of combinations, and so trying to lump billions into the same 5 traits isn't going to work as well as you think. Personally, the primary trait I'd look for in a partner would be intelligence. I don't see the use in physical factors. Looks fade, height shrinks as you age, erectile dysfunction is right around the corner for men. Money is lost, and can be gained. What stands the test of time is a person's character, dementia/alzheimers dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:08 PM
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The only relevant part of this comment worth answering is [What are girls attracted to then?] Here's a little secret, this might shock you: It depends. "Depends on what?" The woman, of course. "How do you find out?" Have an open minded conversation, and use active listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:59 PM
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Except that's not how that works, but if thinking all women are cookie cutter in terms of wants and needs helps you sleep at night, sure. To someone like me, these are all shallow traits that don't matter in the grand scheme of life (except maybe money, but only because capitalism is out of control), and definitely won't matter when you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:48 PM
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Do you typically go around telling people how they feel? Like do you go up to someone who just ordered chocolate ice cream and say "No, what you really want is mint chip"? This is strange behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:39 PM
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I don't care about Men's exact height. I do however care when they make their height insecurity my problem, which has happened. I've had a guy literally beat a dead horse about how short he was and me, repeatedly, telling him "I don't care about your height or lack-there-of, can we talk about literally anything else ?" Only for it to loop back like a broken record.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:33 PM
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Aq
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:26 PM
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You are free to debate what you like. No one can legally stop you, freedom of speech ect ect. What you fail to realize is that no one is obligated to humor you, just because you chose to insert yourself where irrelevant. You jumped to the conclusion that the individual was being vague for no other factor than being born female, rather than ask if they had been clear. Then you ignore their response on their clarity and nit pick their answer they did in fact give you. You don't know this person, Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:28 PM
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I did not, I just humored you to keep it simple for you since you find it difficult to reply. I gave you several questions you could have chosen to answer and yet answered none. I'm sorry about your deficiencies though, but its a skill that can be improved upon. I'm sure there are classes in your local area that may be of better assistance to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:04 PM
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Specify which answer needs to be expanded on? As far as I know, we're still on the initial question. The one that ends with "?". Just because you use questions as answers doesn't make it an answer to the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:00 PM
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Hmm I see. So you cannot come up with an answer to the a tual question, so instead you attempt to obfuscate by posing a question in a way that puts words in people's mouths instead. Terrible debate form. Well, no point casting diamonds before swine. Come back when you're more enlightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:55 PM
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You cannot answer a question with a question. Try answering the question first, then ask your question. That's how debate works. Give it another try, I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:52 PM
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Except your points were irrelevant to the individual's personal experience. You wanted to make it about you, so let's talk about you. Why do you vehemently disagree with someone's personal experience? Do you have relevant insight into their lives? How long have you known them? What is your core argument? How versed are you in debate ethics? Why is your view of reality the only correct one? Do you struggle socially or are you sociable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:40 PM
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By "jump to conclusion" do you mean "Made a conclusion based on my pattern of comments" then, sure. Thing is though, you're showing poor form in terms of debate. What you're actually doing is obfuscation, so I doubt you're here to debate. You are exhaustingly obtuse even when people break things down to their most simple points. I read: Troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:33 PM
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Ngl man, you seem exhausting to deal with. Is this kind of behavior normal for you or are you just bad at being considerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:28 PM
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The men who do their part are not the ones women complain about. No woman has ever complained about a man not doing chores is he is in fact doing said chores, like dishes, sweeping, wiping counters, laundry and all the chores you mentionned you do. They typically complain about the men who do not do even these basic things, or only do them when their partner asks them to do it. Normal women are not flying off the handle as a spec of dust (unless they are severely mentally ill). Usually they flip…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:48 PM
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Why is there never a middle ground between a pigsty and having the place deep cleaned every weekend? Most women will clean to a presentable level, what you're referring to would be considered obsessive in women's circles. There's a timing to when thinfs need to be done, and the fact you don't know that tells me you either don't clean well, or enough. The problem is people such as yourself only think about thing when they impact you personally without any consideration on how that impacts the peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:47 PM
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Except for a long time people would judge the woman for an unkept home. There's a societal pressure to be clean and organized in tbe home so I am not sure why men don't care about these things. Like, don't you want to onvite friends over? Dinner parties? Parties in general? Hosting Christmas, thanksgiving/any other holiday that involves family togetherness? Would you really feel comfortable hosting others in your personal dustbowl? Also you realize dust is primarily from you right? Literally you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:42 AM
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I have been in an open relationship because I knew my significant other had needs. Unfortunately that didn't stop him from cheating even with the parameters set in place, and was then dishonest with his sexual partners (if he could even pull them in, most of the time he couldn't). This probably colors my views that any cheating is unethical and detrimental to the relationship. Its at best, a form of disrespect to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:39 PM
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If the spouse agrees, sure. But here's the thing, sex takes two people and relationships require constant work. If you go straight to cheating before even attempting to solve the underlying issue preventing sex then there's a bigger problem in the relationship. I am not equipped to understand the constant obsession people have with sex and its transactional nature in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:32 PM
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Its not really a strawman, these are real scenarios where men have decided to start cheating on their spouse for "Not putting out" enough/fast enough so its a valid question to determine the parameters of what/when it makes cheating "Okay" in your view. Does the woman have to be healthy? Is it okay to cheat if they are sick/recovering? Is it okay to cheat if they are too tired from caring for a newborn/infant? Is okay to cheat if she is putting out but the man deems it "Not often enough"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:19 PM
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They do another option: Therapists. I'm not sure in what world therapists are saying men trauma dumping in relationship to mean men are not allowed to go to therapy. That's illogical. If anything, therapists should want more men to access their services to "trauma dump". That is what they are paid to help you navigate through. Also if you want compassion, its a good idea to not insult, demean or hurt the person you're trying to get compassion from. That's like punching a hole in a pool and wonde…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:48 PM
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I gave them two shots and we spoke for a couple more weeks. I had enough problems in my life, I didn't feel comfortable taking on his problems as well while I was figuring out my own. I validated his feelings when he shared them, listened endlessly... but where was his compassion for me? He never gave me the room to do the same. Also if that's not compassionate enough, what is? How long should someone sit in an uncomfirtable situation? When does the other party have the right to say "this doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:26 PM
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Getting advice exclusively from one type of person is not a rounded approach to getting advice, everyone knows that. Or perhaps this is news to you, I'm not sure, but you should try broadening your mind. My life is fine though, thanks for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:14 PM
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How should I have reacted then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:10 PM
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I'm sure someone cares about you, go reach out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:08 PM
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Oh I can read just fine. I'm not the one putting words in people's mouths though. Yes, people with bad upbringing often don't break out of the cycle. Should we forever punish those who do? I don't believe so. You're very amgry, you should go talk to a friend if you have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:47 AM
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I'm just pointing out you lack logic. You assume his current relationships are compromised despite admitting you have no proof of that. They stuck to the facts and seem to be realistic about their upbringing. You can ignore his opinion all you want that's your right. From an outside perspective, honestly they have come accross as fairly reasonable and non-confrontational. You, in contrast, came to dismiss, devalue and twist words to fit a narrative that you're trying to prove at their expense. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:24 AM
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Except you seem very comfortable in assuming all their relationships are trash. So I guess the fool is you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:02 AM
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1) I would rationalize a person based on the current state of their relationships and how they carry themsel es socially. Not all children with subpar upbringing are automayically damaged goods, and even if they were damaged by it, if they have taken the steps to adjust their lives and break the cycle then who am I to tell them they are not good enough to have an opinion? 2) My contention is with your generalized assumptions that their upbringing automatically devalues their opinion. Its a low i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:59 AM
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Yeah its pretty telling they only engaged with the inflammatory comments and none of the comments that are reasonnably challenging their assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:35 AM
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I went on a first date with someone (just coffee, we each bought our own) who then kept talking about their awful last relationship, family problems, and in the hour we spoke they kept bringing up their ex. This is a trauma dump. I had talked about my past vaguely, but not to the same extent or depth. In spite of that, I figured they were just awkward. We met again, and... same thing. This was on top of trauma dumping me in personal messages as well. I realized I got therapist-zoned and they/me/…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:29 AM
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I mean, I wouldn't trust you to have a healthy relationship either with all the assumption jumping, confrontational replies, dismissiveness and word twisting. I wouldn't trust your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:12 AM
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Looks can only get you through the door, but it doesn't guarantee you a place to stay. Looks was not a factor into why his relationship failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:41 PM
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My question would be: Why are you more concerned that she be beautiful over being able to handle living with your condition? Untreated Bi Polar disorders are very chaotic and often rife with abusive behavior towards others, and I don't think you're being honest (with yourself) as to how much of an impact your condition has on the people around you/living with you. Does this mean your options are limited to "ugly women"? No. However your options are limited in who will be able to tolerate your fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:14 PM
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You have not stated the reasons how these issues are feminism's fault. Please clarify and walk me through your thought process as to what led you there and what you believe the solution is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:07 AM
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"I was told something once by one person and will proceed to stereotype their entire gender for it"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:03 AM
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You seem to have placed the responsibility of your self-worth and self-respect strictly on others and their perception of you, which is a big responsibility to outsource. Truth is, its such a big responsibility that most people fear taking such a responsibility on their hands. After all, if they make a mistake and something goes in any way, then they are the ones who'll take the brunt of the blame. The ones who aren't afraid, will either burn out being your only source of validation or they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:43 PM
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10 years is an excessive amount of grace and patience to give someone, I'm not sure why you view this as her not being generous? How long should someone wait for someone else to change then? The reality is, change can happen in less than a year. Change doesn't mean everything is fixed in less than a year, but there should at minimum be signs of progress. If there isn't, then what you're doing isn't working, try something else. Keep trying different things until something sticks. At the 10 year m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:11 PM
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In your shoes I would look inwards and ask myself why your first act when feeling emotional is to be dismissive and demeaning towards someone who didn't deserve it. Its really odd behavior to just take it out on someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:41 PM
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What does your wife bring to the table? Or does she just "exist" like a weird sponge creature?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:29 PM
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Cool story bro. Anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:56 PM
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How was I whining? Why is it my job to give you a definition that is easily googled? Why is itwrong for me to tell someone not to waste their time with people who don't want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:04 PM
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You're going to have to use other words than "Patriarchy". Men here don't believe in patriarchy and will refute anything a woman says. Honestly you're better off spending your time elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:34 AM
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That will largely depend on your area. Where I live its "Boys are good at math, Girls are good at languages". Its only recently that there has been some pushback on that and starting to equalize. However because girls keep being told "women are bad at Math" its a hurdle in getting them interested in STEM and math based careers. Keep in mind this is my area, other areas may face different challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:58 PM
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I have dyscalculia, an actual learning disability. I was excellent at all other subjects. My whole life, instead of looking into why I was struggling in math I was dismissed with "Meh, you're a girl and girls aren't usually good at math". Like, verbatim. So its not a stretch that girls play dumb because its expected of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:43 PM
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This is why you are struggling. Look inwards and figure out why you are pushing people away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:59 PM
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Then find a women who doesn't. I don't control them, but you control your own behavior, which is what I am addressing now. If this is who you are, then I can't say I am shocked by your lack of success becausw this certainly doesn't paint you in a virtuous light. You've clearly forgotten what it means to be virtuous though. Perhaps you should look inwards as to why you're pushing people away when you desperately don't want to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:57 PM
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Exactly one woman. Out of 4 billion. Look man, women are actively discouraged from having or gaining muscles. This sure as hell ain't news to you. And just because they don't occupy the same exact jobs currently, doesn't mean they don't excel at other jobs and careers that are worthy of acknowledgement and respect. It's okay to be different and have different roles. It's not okay to think someone is lesser for it. This shouldn't be spelked out that it doesn't rake much to be the bare minimum dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:46 PM
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So do most men. Next. Why is your only metric of worth "Can u lift bro??"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:40 PM
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Except they don't. They just accept different risks, which I outlined above but you conveniently didn't respond to. Also why do you need 50% of women to occupy a spevific set of jobs in order to respect the 20% who do? Why not start with respecting the ones who are doing those jobs amd show that its worth putting up with men's demeaning bullshit to take on thosr jobs... oh wait, you won't. Because then then you'd complain women are taking all the jobs and you'll find something else to demean and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:35 PM
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Dirty jobs occupied by women: Nursing/Medicine (If you knew the amount of trash that can come out of a human body you wouldn't deny this.) , Daycare(Kids are dirty goblins), Stay at home Mom(See Daycare), retail(People are gross, but also the amount of warehouse dust and deoending what you're sekling it can get dirty quick), Assembly Line, Cafeteria, Janitors/Cleaners, Factory workers, Farming (Crop and cattle), Fast food (Fryers anyone?). Dangerous jobs occupied by women: Traffic/crossing guard…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:20 PM
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