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| 1 | Q4W: Is there anything a "loser" low-value man can do to raise his chances on Tinder while still being himself?Like something I’m into, lol. The best thing is to make sure you have interests that will interest women more than your looks (so for me that would be an obsession with Transformers, but for someone else might be, say, comic books, a tv show, or a movie series, music, art, cooking, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | So I was on r/unpopularopinion and saw this postFormer glorified janitor here - definitely not my experience. The men’s room I always cleaned had piss all over the floor from their lack of aim at the urinals, water scum on the sinks from them never wiping the counters when they splashed, and the toilets always had shit under the lids. When I did the men’s bathrooms I usually set aside a full hour to scrub it out. In contrast the women’s room took half the time despite being significantly larger, and the worst I’d seen was a couple of spots of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men are more likely to help you or hurt you?It depends on who you are. I very much hit guys in the “protective instincts” balls - mostly because I’m small and bright and young looking, like a Disney character’s little sister. I’m the kind of girl most men have been socialized to want to help - and I’ve definitely reaped those rewards, from simple things (asking strangers to get things off of high shelves) to harder ones (changing my tire when I blew a flat). It’s definitely not related to sexual attraction in my case: most often it’s fath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: when was the last time you felt uncomfortable or in danger?The last time I felt in danger from a man? I went on a date with an older man who would not listen to my ‘no’s. Every time I told him no he’d push and push and try to get me to let him do something more than what I was comfortable with ... until eventually I just lied to get out of there. I blocked his number and ghosted him; I couldn’t trust that he’d respect my boundaries. The first time I was made uncomfortable by a man I was seventeen and walking with a friend. We got catcalled. I wanted to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Is your fear of men analytical and based on statistics?Experience. My fear is based on experience. Z | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t you ever hear about a woman locking a man in a shed they built specifically to hold someone involuntarily and raping them for decades?I said in another reply that physical punishment should never be practiced, but it is legal. Abuse is abuse. If someone can prove that another person did real, evidenced harm against them in a relationship, then it’s abuse. It doesn’t matter what the source of that harm is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/19 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Why don’t you ever hear about a woman locking a man in a shed they built specifically to hold someone involuntarily and raping them for decades?Is your evidence purely anecdotal? Because in my experience, it is expected for the man to punish his children. I don’t agree with that expectation, but it’s considered culturally acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/19 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t you ever hear about a woman locking a man in a shed they built specifically to hold someone involuntarily and raping them for decades?The same laws concerning physical punishment apply to men and women. If a man cannot keep himself from leaving a bruise or welt, then he shouldn’t be laying a hand on his child. Of course hitting your kid is wrong no matter what, but legally it’s about how bad the punishment is and not the person doing it. Also emotional abuse is bad, ya dillweed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/19 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t you ever hear about a woman locking a man in a shed they built specifically to hold someone involuntarily and raping them for decades?No. Men hitting children and women hitting children - with the same amount of force - is usually seen as equally “insert own ideas about how you’re allowed to treat children here”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/19 05:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men Are DangerousYeah, but most women also have a reason to believe that they’ll be attacked at night, or their drink will be spiked, or they’re being followed home - because we all know someone it happened to or had it happen to us. I was perfectly fine walking in the dark from my college campus to my car alone until someone decided to take photos of me from their apartment window, hollering nasty shit and terrifying me. After that? Yeah, I had my professor walk me to my car every night. I know women who have h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/19 05:12 PM |
| 28 | Why don’t you ever hear about a woman locking a man in a shed they built specifically to hold someone involuntarily and raping them for decades?Because the types of horrific crimes women commit are almost always against: Children or young family members - see murdering their own children, or the way nuns ran orphanages. Their cruelty is very much running on the same power dynamic, but it doesn’t run “uphill”; they abuse those people with less power than they have, which are usually younger women and children. They don’t get caught as often. Women are usually better at staying under the radar when it comes to serial crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/19 04:53 PM |
| 11 | In an LTR/marriage, is the loss of a woman's sexual desire for her man inevitable, or can it be prevented?My parents had sex. A lot. I know this because 1) they had no sense of privacy and 2) they locked their doors or went to the boat when they wanted to smash. They still have lots of sex, and gods I wish I didn’t know that. Most of my parents’ friends also have sex with their spouses, and I wish I didn’t know that, but I do. Most of them are in their 40s-60s, with grown children, and are close to or already in retirement. The main factor in their sex lives seems to be having leisure time together.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/19 03:18 AM |
| 0 | Congratulations, God gave you the authority to biologically restructure human males and females, what do you do?Everyone has all the genitalia. There’s no discernible difference between the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/19 02:58 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men severely underestimate the work women do in terms of working out/diet to just "not be fat".There’s a lot of scientific and annecdotal evidence for it. I think the most obvious sign that this is your “set point” is the fact that you feel good at this weight and that your body stays there with little fluctuation even when you’re taking care of yourself. I eat ... wellish (I like my sweets, so sue me), with plenty of veg and protein and healthy carbs, I exercise, and I sleep okaying. If someone else is doing the exact same thing and feels good at my height and fifty pounds heavier, then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men severely underestimate the work women do in terms of working out/diet to just "not be fat".Some women are just fat, no matter what you do. I’m 5’2 and tend to be between 130-145lbs. At my heaviest in high school I was 165lbs, and at my lowest in college I was 120lbs. At 120lbs my body thought I was dying. I got dizzy when I stood up. I couldn’t think straight. I was anemic and exhausted all the time. I couldn’t sleep. I started having panic attacks again, and dipped between manic and depressed every other month. I looked amazing! I was like a size 2 and was pretty much all muscle! But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you consider a LTR material a low-medium earner man with a irregular, long work schedule? Why/why not?I love working. LOVE work, and my job, and keeping busy, and I’d need an SO who could make the same effort I do to meet up in our free time. If he works nights, then we could meet up on his days off and do date night things. If he traveled a lot, I’d expect us to do virtual movie dates and calls every few days. I expect him to make it work. If he doesn’t make the effort, then I won’t want to keep the relationship going. If he does, what do I care about the weird hours? As long as we can live com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Why are women generally not honest about the characteristics they are looking for in a man?Because women who have gotten the guy they want (and who stayed the guy they want) aren’t going out looking for guys? Almost every woman I know in a relationship is in a relationship with a partner who exhibits the former characteristics. All the women I know looking for a relationship are doing so because their partner exhibits the latter. Unless the relationship is abusive, I’ve never seen a women stay with that person; usually the guy has misrepresented themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Tinder Experiment, 2019 Edition. Thoughts?Fuck, where’s that for me? I’m a decently pretty 21 year old woman.. who is fully clothed in all photos and declaring interest in LTR. You have to use different metrics, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4 Anti-Child Support members of PPD, how much do you think raisingI would have loved to have enlisted (free college and healthcare for the word, yo) but I’m literally incapable of it. I’ve also only been doing online classes for the past two years due to my work schedule and despite going to a Real University, I pay more than a traditional student but I get no actual instruction when it comes to my classes and am basically paying for a “guided tour” version of the classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about suger babies?Tried it, got a lot of attention, first date didn’t take "no" well, reaffirmed I’m asexual, never looked back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are there seemingly quality women in online dating? Anyone else finding it suspicious?I’m a moderately attractive woman with a tinder profile because I have an extremely isolating job. If I want to date, I’ll either have to meet someone on the street or online date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 03:41 AM |
| 3 | CMV: If you take out the cultural expectations of feminism and do the math, a woman (especially with children) is mathematically in a better position with a man who does no housework than with no man at all.I actually took so,e time to think about it ... I would need; A nanny (minimum $40k/year, between wages, OT, taxes, and marginal costs) A housekeep ($5k at minimum) A laundry service (estimated at $10k) And that’s just to make up for the cost of the mental load he’d cost me. Exhausted as I’d be from working 24/7, he’d best not expect sex or affection or thoughtfulness. He gets what he gives - nothing but the money I bring into the household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 03:21 AM |
| 6 | CMV: If you take out the cultural expectations of feminism and do the math, a woman (especially with children) is mathematically in a better position with a man who does no housework than with no man at all.It’s mostly for abuse survivors. It’s a lot of useful information for people attempting to get out of dangerously abusive situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 02:59 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If you take out the cultural expectations of feminism and do the math, a woman (especially with children) is mathematically in a better position with a man who does no housework than with no man at all.Yup. Unequivocally. Especially if she’s getting child support/SIS. A partner who only adds to the work is useless unless he’s paying for more than half the cost of running the household - the mental load alone is worth more than his salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 02:56 AM |
| 11 | CMV: If you take out the cultural expectations of feminism and do the math, a woman (especially with children) is mathematically in a better position with a man who does no housework than with no man at all.But she’s also cleaning up after him. Hang out on JustNoSO for a bit. Almost all the women there are relieved to get away; not taking care of their husbands relieves 2/3 of the mental load. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?Eh. I think my numbers are off. I do know that it’s as significant a subculture as gamers are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 02:21 AM |
| 6 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?50 Shades was an awful book by any measure of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?... from personal experience because it’s like watching and partially experiencing porn? I mean. Reading is just like watching a movie except you also get sensory details to go along with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?No, not really. I mean... what’s small to you? This encompasses a subsection of every fandom (and I mean every fandom) and a good portion of the non-fandom sections of the Internet. This is hundreds of thousands of people, largely women, working to create together. There are over half a million “explicit” stories on AO3 alone, a site that hardly encompasses a third of the works written by these types of writers, and for every story there are dozens of readers. This is only small for people who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 02:11 AM |
| 7 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?Just pointing out that there’s an entire online culture dedicated to writing explicit porn, including its own lexicon and a history spanning over twenty years, driven for the most part by women. Guys who think women don’t like sex don’t know women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 01:51 AM |
| 10 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?...noooooooo. No, you are very, very wrong. The most graphic, BDSM, dirty porn I have ever read was written by women. The most explicit (non-Japanese) drawn porn I’ve ever seen was drawn by women. I could link you to stories that are just 60k words worth of filthy, filthy sex because women write a lot of porn. We tend to write it under pennames online, but we write it all the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?That’s not the point of any of this. The point’s mostly that women who don’t get what they want from a guy during sex - ie, an enjoyable experience - aren’t going to be able to hide that they don’t like it. Women clearly enjoy sex because they write a lot of porn about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?Most of my post was about how women fantasize about having orgasms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 01:31 AM |
| 16 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?Lol, all women want a guy who makes them orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 01:17 AM |
| 48 | Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex?I grew up on porn written for women, by women. Most of them had a unifying theme that I think a lot of PPD guys are missing - their partners put in a looooot of effort and consideration into making sure their partners orgasmed. A lot. There was a lot of emotion in the sex, too, and not just between people in LTR, but FWB one’s too. I don’t think a lot of men realize that if a woman doesn’t get hers, of course she’s not going to enjoy sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4all if there was a situation where you could meet the people of ppd in real life (in a safe environment)to discuss what we talk about here would you?I got mistaken for a fourteen year old a few weeks ago. I feel your pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Would you date for a LTR a man with no college education?Depends on where they are in life. My current crush? Went from high school to a factory job. He makes good money, he’s responsible, he’s kind, and he’s intelligent - he just didn’t like school and found a job where he could make decent money without it. Huge history buff, I make him tell me stories about Ukrainian wars when I’m sick, he can recite them from memory. Some guy who plays video games all day who I can’t have a decent conversation with, who has no money in the bank and makes absolutel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | If you had a choice, would you rather have a boy or a girl? Why or why not and state the problems / difficulties of the gender you wouldn't choose.A girl, then a boy... mostly because fucking potty training. I nanny girls. I got potty training girls down pat, okay, I can do that. I can’t handle peen spraying piss everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been the cause of a past relationship failing? Did you own up to it at the time?My last two relationships ending were my fault, and I owned up to them - one, because I was having a personal mental health crisis and I couldn’t continue it in good faith knowing that I didn’t feel anything for him due to my brain basically breaking - and the second because I just sort of lost interest. I told them straight up that it was me, not them, when I broke up with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD:Have you ever chosen a betabux,or a normie,well let's say a normal man instead of Chad?I’ve had the choice. If the only difference was looks (exact same interests, exact same intelligence, same person just hotter) of course I’d go for the person I find more attractive. That said, if the normal looking guy is more my type - ie, if he’s a functional adult who will act like a partner in a relationship, and the hot guy isn’t - I’ll go for the normal looking guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Examples of toxic femininity.No, that’s an obvious result of abuse. She edited her post to say that her mom’s a narc and she was the family scapegoat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toWhen I was twenty... a year ago ... my type was “nothing” because I worked 50-60 hours a week. Of my two crushes, one is on a guy with a steady factory job who works on the weekend to fix up his elderly relative’s homes and puts money away for early retirement, and the other is a woman I write with who works a steady job and loves transformers. ... so I guess what my true type is, is “actually a functioning human being”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/19 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Follow-up to the height thread, what do you consider “tall enough”?I’m 5’2 and pan. When I date I tend to go for people who I can cuddle with comfortably, so usually 2-3 inches taller than me. That said, I’ve developed feelings for people who were my height or a little shorter (men, women, and neither) and height isn’t a factor as much as other things are. Mostly smell. You could be 4’0 (I can admit to having a massive crush on Tyrion from GoT) and if you smelled good I’d be willing to date you, but you could look like a model and if you smelled nasty I’d avoid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What makes men fall out of love for their wives?... probably because she’s not as pretty/doing as much stuff for him anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireYou’re not including the emotional/mental needs of a child. Seeing one parent get to live their full life while their custodial parent struggles to support their basic needs is gonna fuck them in the head, mentally. It’s also likely that in places like Canada, where children are required by law to financially support their parents, the child will instead choose to abandon/abuse the parent who refused to support them. Not only that, but children who grow up in homes like that, or homes where thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireDude. Dude. You obviously have no idea what you’re talking about. Child support is there to 1) make sure the child is provided for and 2) make sure that both homes the child lives in are fairly equal in standing, ie that one home isn’t the “rich” home and the other the “poor” home. When one parent declines to maintain the proper, equal relationship between the two households, receiving it retroactively is more about seeking damages than anything else - people are required to pay for their damn k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireWhat do you guys think child support goes to? To maintain a home a custodial parent must at least provide: Clothing/ Toiletries/ After school child care/ A room for the child to sleep in/ Healthcare/ Dental care/ Enrichment objects (toys, books)/ Food I did my own calculations for child support. With a partner that I out-earn by 25%, while paying half what they pay in healthcare, and having the child for 50% of the time, my payments came out to a whopping $212 per month. Y’all fuckers are selfis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireYou... do realize that there are at least eight stares pushing through or who have already pushed through numerous abortion laws severely limiting a woman’s ability to get an abortion? Or even a child’s ability? Ten, eleven, twelve year old little girls who don’t even understand how their bodies work who won’t and haven’t been allowed to get an abortion because of the cost, the travel, the laws... little girls who didn’t choose to be irresponsible because they’re just children, and now they’re b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 12:01 PM |
| 2 | To one-sided pro-choice women: what would you do if you got pregnant?... I don’t want a partner. Mostly because I don’t like being in relationships. I have a tentative plan to be in a secure financial place (finished with law school, owning my own home with land, getting started on my homesteading) before I have kids. If it comes up before then? Abortion. I’m pretty regular with my periods, so if I was pregnant it’s likely I’d know within the period of time that allows me to have a chemical abortion. Even if it’s illegal in my state, I’ll take out a loan and go s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys know any long term bachelors/bachelorettes IRL?My Boss (who I nanny for) is a single mom who adopted twins. She almost married once when she was younger but the guy showed his true colors and she left him. She’s in the army and she’s one of the strongest people I know, and she’s honestly not at all bothered by being single. She’s gotten to live an amazing life, and she’s genuinely happy that she chose to adopt rather than marry and have bio kids. Before she had kids (lol, they suck up all of her discretionary income) she had a ton of hobbies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 10:40 PM |
| 2 | What women mean when they say things like "sex would ruin our friendship"? Why friendship and sex are mutually exclusive?I’ve had several friends express sexual interest in me. And ... that was it. Cool. I’m still friends with them. Nothing got romantic. They don’t have any desire to put our friendship aside in favor of some fleeting sexual interest (especially since they all know that I don’t really do LTRs) because they see me as a person, not a sex toy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How many married couples have the wife as long term breadwinner?My mom’s technically a SAHM and has been since she got too sick to work (I was eleven at the time, so about a decade ago). She hates it. Losing the ability to work sent her into a literal spiraling depression that she only got out of after she starting working with my father and volunteering with an adult social club, putting in the same number of hours as she did before she had to go on disability. She’s much happier now, but she also works out of the home 9-10 hours a day and loves it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | How many married couples have the wife as long term breadwinner?My mom supported my dad through law school and the years it took to help him set up his practice. There’s a photo of them graduating together, her with her BA and him with his JD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Women cannot be creepy. CMVGirls can definitely be creepy - there’s something about how touchy women get that squicks me out. No boundaries with other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 02:07 AM |
| 0 | My wife dropped this controversial bomb today... your wife has very unsafe kink practices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Women act more entitled than menYour general attitude, as well as previous remarks in this thread, made that clear. And you’re obviously not worth debating, seeing as you just ... Lied? Is it even lying if you can see that I obviously said nothing of the sort just a few messages up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women act more entitled than menYou’re the one saying that all entitlement is wrong. I think you’re mistaking entitlement in a lot of cases for vocalized self respect or a desire for self respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Women act more entitled than menWomen feel entitled to respect in relationships ... because relationships need respect. Wanting to not have a shitty partner isn’t entitlement, it’s a sign that society tells women to stick with shitty partners for far too long. ETA: read your study. You didn’t mention that 1) those numbers include violence perpetrated in self defense, 2) the sample was of troubled youths, meaning a higher likely rate of abuse anyways, 3) that the authors pointed out that this was all self-reported, and that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Women act more entitled than menSource? https://www.speakcdn.com/assets/2497/domestic_violence2.pdf shows that it’s usually men who perpetrate violence against women - men are far more likely to murder their partners than women are, and women make up 94% of murder-suicide victims. People in relationships deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and mutual affection. That’s how relationships work. When you lose one of those things, the relationship usually devolves into abuse. If you don’t think that, then you probably sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Women act more entitled than menBecause men’s entitlement is an unspoken expectation - men don’t say that they’re entitled to a wife who makes them dinner every night, who cleans house, who handles the household and child care, but how many men do you know that wouldn’t be pissed if their wife stopped? Especially men whose wives work equal or longer hours than they do? It comes down to social expectations. Women still have to say it because these are desires, not expectations. Women rarely expect to be treated well by their SO… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do women often think it's ok to let themselves go once in LTR/married?So everyone gains weight as they age - not to the point of obesity, but 20-40 pounds is a normal expectation. Add in kids (baby weight can be hard to lose, especially if you breast feed; for every kid a lot of moms can expect to add on ten pounds of permanent weight), a more hectic life style meaning less time for the gym/exercising outside, and exhaustion from taking on the mental load of a household, and it’s not that surprising that a lot of married women gain weight? If you mean “women letti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What exactly is a "creepy older guy"?So when I was 18/19 I worked at a yacht club. I worked there from age 16, but since my family were members many people there had known me since I was a kid. The month I turned eighteen I had three separate adult men - men who had known me since I was young, who had seen me in bikinis, who I had served alcohol to and who I had been alone with in the early hours of the day and late hours of the night in the galley, men I trusted - hit on me. That was creepy. I was eighteen, I was just barely older… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Those who indentify as women, what makes you feel feminine? Those who identify as men, what makes you feel masculine?...I’m a genderqueer female and feel like answering this! Because honestly, there is nothing that makes me feel more or less feminine. I “feel” female during some times - mostly when I’m bogged down with feminine-identified work - and I can “feel” more female when someone is obviously identifying me that way (someone saying I’m “a lovely woman” makes me feel more feminine, but only in the same way that someone saying I’m a “rugged guy” makes me feel more masculine). I present female for a lot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Gap in Criminal SentencingThere are a lot of gender disparities in sentencing. It’s honestly pretty horrific, which is why I think we should have firmer, gender-unbiased sentencing guidelines for certain crimes (ie, anyone 18+ who has sex with a minor more than three years their junior should be convicted of rape and sentenced to a minimum of seven years, no matter their gender). You see this a lot in trials for prostitution, DV, and child abuse, too. Women who commit violent crimes are more likely to receive longer sent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How do you emotionally experience messiness/dirtiness? How does this differ in varying environments?If it’s “my” mess - ie, in my room or bathroom - I can leave it for weeks before getting to it. It bothers me (every time I pass by the trash in my sink I want to scream, but the steps needed to take care of that - ie, empty the trash in my room, get a new trashbag, grow trash away - just isn’t something I can do at the moment I notice it) but if it’s in my public spaces where I do things like relax or cook or nanny? Fuck that, the floor needs to be washed three times a week, everything has to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Beauty Habits That Aren't Makeup?So I’m low maintenance on skin care for a girl - mostly because I’ve given up on getting rid of my acne, so why bother - so I average ~$40 a month on that (moisturizer, skin toner, two Korean skin care brand facial cleansers, acne pads for when I don’t wake up with the spoons to deal with water on my face, plus sometimes a splurge). Then it’s another $30 on hair stuff because my hair is fabulous and deserves pampering ($20 on alternating conditioner/shampoo, $10 on hair oil because my hair is ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The effects of hormonal birth control on womenSo I have awful, awful period cramps that I take BC to control, and if my parents had been able to afford putting me on the Pill in high school - and if someone had told me it would get rid of my cramps I would have gone and figured out a way to do it myself - I would have had a much easier time in school. So I love that I can do that - take a pill and not spend three days in 10/10 pain, barely able to function as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | The effects of hormonal birth control on womenSo I have awful, awful period cramps. Remember getting your wisdom teeth out? I had four impacted (sideways, one almost upside down) wisdom teeth surgically removed. I refused to take more than a half-dose of my ibuprofen. Not because I wanted to pretend to be tough, but because it hurt less than my period cramps and I’d gotten used to the pain and I didn’t think I needed it. I used to miss school (at least once a month) because I’d either spend the night or most of the day in so much pain that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Females in this subreddit?Yeah, but you have to look at a range - and there are definitely people here who hate women, see at least one post above mine - or you don’t get a full understanding. Plus here I could actually be part of the conversation, you know? I couldn’t do this on the original MGTOW. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/02/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Females in this subreddit?I’m a woman, so when I say that I mean “Men who hate women”. In this case, it’s just me being facetious, but really when you’re working on policy the extremists - the ones who will brook no argument and give no ground - are the ones you have to think of as “the enemy”, because they make your job impossible and tend to be incredibly selfish and stupid. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/02/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | why do women seem to not care about historyWomen tend to concentrate on different types of history - you’re more likely to find a female historian with a concentration in ancient time periods, foreign cultures, or peace time. Men tend to concentrate on periods of war (WW2, the Revolution, the Korean War). It has a lot to do with how women vs men synthesize information. Women tend to prefer social history (for example, you’re more likely to find female historians with concentrations in language) while men prefer the history of “hardware” … | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/02/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Females in this subreddit?I like looking at things from different perspectives. I value the way other people think even if I don’t agree with it, and understanding why people think the way they do means that you can work together to make things better. I want to work in government writing policy one day. Knowing that men need certain things (even if they don’t say so outside of areas like this) means that I can help make society better for everyone. Things like child custody issues, mental health support for victims of D… | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/02/19 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I love Gordon RamsayAlton Brown has a great cooking series on YouTube too! If you like Asian food, JustOneCookbook is good too. Tasty is great if you want quicker, silent videos (I have issues with audial processing and those are my favorites). My mom didn’t teach me to cook, but I’ve learned a lot from these. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/02/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do people pretend they don't know why couples don't want to be raising multiple kids?Nope. Boss is a single mom who works all day. The minute she’s home and changed she’s with the kids. She doesn’t go out anywhere if she doesn’t have the girls with her, unless she has to run an errand like grocery shopping (something most parents would do without their kids anyways). Some people just genuinely enjoy spending time with their kids. Hell, right now I’m technically working but she has the day off, so I’m cleaning house while she’s at the park with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do people pretend they don't know why couples don't want to be raising multiple kids?Boss adores her kids - and if I didn’t love them, I wouldn’t be in this job. The hours are awful, I usually work 10+hrs a day plus weekends, I don’t have a life of my own because I’m in a house alone with kids without coworkers or much time to explore, and the money isn’t anything to write home about. I love these kids. They’re absolutely wonderful, and I often spend my weekends and after hours hanging out with them because they’re so much fun to be around. Hours I’m not getting paid to work. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Womens main disadvantages besides physical strength emotional stability and mental differences are all from being coddled so much and having it so easy that nobody takes them seriouslyWhen I was working in a kitchen serving a largely male clientele, if I didn’t want people fucking with me (or on a few memorable occasions, didn’t want the one creepy club member cornering me as soon as I turned eighteen...) I had to turn up the female charm. A lot of these men treated me like one of their daughters because I knew how to dress, how to pitch my voice, how to wear my hair, how to talk, when I would have otherwise been treated more like an object. I was leading a kitchen at eightee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do people pretend they don't know why couples don't want to be raising multiple kids?I’m a nanny, and I watch twin toddlers. Kids... aren’t terrible? It’s all about how you raise and react to them. My beans are polite (they say “please” and “thank you” and take their plates to the sink after meals), generally well-behaved (one or two time outs a day) and are all around joys to be around - and that’s according to complete strangers! It’s all about how you regard them. A lot of people probably want to give their kids the best lives they can, and a close look at their finances make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 05:30 AM |
| 1 | How to get over redpill rage?Then why are you hanging out with these women? If you know they’re not good people, stop being with them. It’s that easy. There ARE people out there who you know would have treated you well (...unless you had a hygiene issue. Sorry, dude, but smelling will just get everyone to treat you like trash) but you’re choosing to put effort into women who you know you can’t build a relationship. Stop putting energy into them. They don’t deserve it - not your attention, not your anger, not your time - so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Ladies! Think of the last few men you dated/ slept with outside of dating aps. Has being 'cold approached' at a non-social setting ever resulted in you going on a date?A couple of times! I go out to museums to draw portraits of the exhibits as a hobby. Twice now I’ve been approached by someone and asked for my number - and, after some friendly conversation (laying down common ground) I’ve given it out. It was a mix in interest in my interests and the generally friendly air about them that decided it for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?Honesty and kindness. The minute a partner lies to me, I’m gone. Period. There have even been potential partners who, when I’ve found out they’ve lied to me, have been stonewalled. I just can’t handle it - my parents lie to each other and it’s terrible. Same with kindness. If you’re not kind to the world, what says you’re going to be kind to our kids, my friends, my family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you want an low ambition SAHM, you agree to take on the risk of alimony if you two divorce at any point.The work of a SAHM has actual, monetary value (most SAHM I know are such because they have young children, and it’s actually CHEAPER for her to stay home than it is to pay for childcare). I’m a nanny. I make (at minimum) 24k a year. I’m a live-in, which means that I do not pay for rent, food, or utilities. I’m considered underpaid for my profession. At 24k. Add in everything else a SAHM does (cooking, cleaning, laundry, outings, household management) and you’re looking at something like $4k/mont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Only women experience financial abuse.My mom experienced financial abuse - when she got home her ex-husband would have spent hundreds-thousands of dollars on useless shit (gambling mostly) and then when the bills came he’d use her account to pay all the bills. He refused to work at all, and part of her divorce was proving that he spent her 12-14 hour shifts sleeping around and wasting money on booze and cards. He was also physically abusive (hit her), emotionally abusive, and medically abusive (she had an ectopic pregnancy and woke … | /r/MGTOW | 07/02/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Q: Violence against and persecution of gay men vs. violence against and persecution of lesbian women?So because of social expectations, the results of homophobia against lesbians and gay men are different. Women are more likely to face sexual violence (or in countries like Iraq, forced marriage) because it’s an effort to “fix” them, but because men tend to feel more threatened by gay men the reactions are more severe. One theory is (esp since men who commit violent homophobic acts tend to be violent towards women/sexual partners) is that they’re afraid to be treated “like a woman”; another is t… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | For dads frustrated with the lack of changing stations in bathroomsIt’s required by law that bathrooms have changing tables. Report them to your nearest applicable body, especially if they don’t have a family bathroom. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 11:41 PM |
| 0 | TIL Men Can't have a public erection in Indiana... but women can have a visible cameltoe?Has anyone commented on your public boner? Then you’re probably fine. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 11:39 PM |
| -1 | Why can men be charged more for car insurance, but women aren't charged more for health insurance?Healthcare is a protected right (or is on its way to being one), having a car is a privilege. Same reason women get charged more for haircuts. Also the insurance companies base their rates on studies/audits of their own records - so older drivers pay less because studies show younger drivers cause more wrecks, same thing with women/men. Plus women have to pay extra for things that aren’t covered - birth control, etc - that men don’t, so it offsets the price. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Pay gap hysteria- the results are in!... you do know why women take time off of work, right? A year. Why do you think women take a year off of work? Because babies and the expectation that men will continue to work to support the family while mom takes a year off to counteract (abhorrently high) childcare costs. Usually without voicing the fact that a lot of men would like to take the time off to stay home with their kids too. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 11:23 PM |
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