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| 30 | I think I finally found the HVM character in Gilmore Girls 🐾🐶I remember liking this show in high school, watched it multiple times into my early 20s. Now I can't tolerate even 1 episode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | How are you leveling up?I am working on a change in my career, including leaving my soul sucking job. I bought a spin bike to improve the health of my joints, and got weights and a nice yoga mat. I found that yoga really helps my joint issues and I'm enjoying every minute. Also, I finally started reading all the books I have purchased in the past year, since I've had a long reading slump and I have been just re-reading older books from my collection. Also, I got a cat :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Best friend is on her way to being a forever GFWow, I feel like I wrote this about my friend. She's been engaged to her boyfriend for 4 years now, and she really wants to get married and have children, but he still is not sure that he wants an exclusive relationship. She also does everything for him, and caters to his every need, it just hurts me to see her in this relationship. How do you even help her? If I say something bad about him she immediately defends him, and I don't want to lose her. I just can't imagine what their life will look … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 08:38 PM |
| 20 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEOh my god, ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 08:21 PM |
| 9 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪I've seen this post on main, and immediately knew what kind of comments I'm going to see. Why is it so hard to understand? You wouldn't send an ice cream delivery to someone lactose intolerant, or meat to someone vegan, or gluten to someone who is sensitive. This guy was dating her for six months and had complete disregard to her health choices? Or even worse, he may have paid zero attention to her food preferences. I wouldn't send my sister balloons because she hates the waste of plastic. I wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Excuse me?How do you even get past something like that as a couple? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Just realized my brother and I were raised differentlysimply a coddled moron. Pretty much, yes. I love my brother, but he is a coddled moron and I wish him best of luck getting out there with zero skills to take care of himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Just realized my brother and I were raised differentlySame. My brother is 16, I'm already moved out, and he won't. Do. Anything. The boy has never cleaned anything in his life. Never swept or mopped the floors, did laundry, made a meal, any meal!!!, Never folder laundry, hung laundry, cleaned a toilet, did grocery shopping, anything! And of course I knew how to do all those things at his age. Don't even mention my dad, he does nothing at all around the house, so he is not an example. It is my parents' fault for raising him like this. It is my mothe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:46 PM |
| 5 | guys quizzing you on datesWhen I used to be on dating apps, when I mentioned that I liked running I always got questioned "oh yeah, how fast do you run? How many km/h? What's the farthest you've ran?" Like, do they not get that this is not how conversations work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | guys quizzing you on datesYikes. This one guy at my job was personally offended that I left the first book in the middle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PRYay, I'm proud of you! It's so fun to see your own work turning your personal space into something that feels like home. I recently moved to a new apartment and I had to assemble most of the furniture alone, and it was amazing seeing everything finished and in its place. I assembled a table that can a part of it can be pulled out so the table turns bigger, all by myself! I also unclogged the kitchen sink all by myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???I have a co-worker (a lesbian) who's girlfriend can't eat gluten, and she goes out of her way to buy special flours, almond flour, etc to accommodate her needs. Men, however.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 3 | How am I the first to introduce Ben Dahlhaus?! You’re welcome, lol!😉Well hello there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoOh my god this made me gag. I just moved in to a new place and the shower was pretty gross (not this level, just the tiles were moldy). I took a rough brush, mold (mildew?) remover, a bucket and a towel - and made that shower look like it's new. Because I fucking live there. How can someone live like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 14 | I hate Adam Sandler’s films.I liked Spanglish because it reminded me of my mother, because of the immigration culture, and how she had to work serving other people, not knowing the language, and etc. I really wanted to show her the movie, but an Adam Sandler sex scene is something no one needs to see ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:15 PM |
| 9 | They aren't women, they're children.I find it strange that when we see news about rapists or abusers, men are quick to jump and say "these are not real men, these are boys/animals", but when it comes to the victims, it is always "underage women", as if to shift the responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Please don't give them any more excuses..This makes me think of my little brother - has zero life skills - can't clean a house, do laundry, cook anything for himself, can't fix anything, not even change a lightbulb. He was definitely not abused, he was (is) just spoiled by our mother. While me and my sister surprisingly "have" those life skills. Edit: I just keep coming up with more, and keep getting madder at my parents for the difference in how we were raised - he doesn't know where his clean clothes are, where the spices are located… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:19 AM |
| 31 | Pickme Narcissistic Women Who Look Down At Single Women Are the WorstShe is probably jealous... And I hate when co-workers intrude my personal life like that. The decision of having or not having children is very private, I always wish I could say "get out of my uterus" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:15 PM |
| 17 | Pickme Narcissistic Women Who Look Down At Single Women Are the WorstYep, one of my close friends is like that. She keeps trying to introduce me to guys because she worries about me being single, she worries that I would end up single in my thirties. She says that I should've started looking for a husband years ago and that it might be too late now, and that she herself started doing so at 19 [we are both 26] Meanwhile, she does all the cooking, laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, appointment scheduling, keeping contact with parents (hers, his), keeping up with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Men that do chores wrong on purposeThis is my brother now. Somehow me and my sister always see what needs to be done around the house, yet he needs his face shoved into it. And then does it badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Re-read the best seller "Memories of a geisha" after 9 years and I am shocked at the misogyny/pick me brain washing!I remember reading it in early highschool, I found the book charming and romantic. Now in my late twenties, I know better.. I also thought recently about The Thorn Birds, and how I loved reading it and thought the story was so beautiful and sad. Now when I think about it - Ralph was 27 (30 maybe?) when he met Maggie, and she was 9. He was her mentor, and they ended up together. Literally 27 against 9 years old. That's awful. And disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | "The sheer amount of traffic a woman's body experiences..."I have looked into it, my joints are very flexible and I am often in pain, but that is the least of my problems and I am currently looking for answers to what affects most my quality of life. I don't want to overwhelm the doctors, as soon as they see more complaints, they immediately go to the "ahh I see, a woman with multiple problems...I diagnose hypochondria!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 04:55 AM |
| 37 | "The sheer amount of traffic a woman's body experiences..."I just finished reading this book for the second time (and gave it to a co-worker to read, hope I'll see it back...), and that other comment made me want to read Gone girl again. This also really hits close to home because I have a ton of undiagnosed chronic issues, and I have had (mostly male) doctors dismiss me and tell me that those issues are caused by anxiety and that young women tend to make themselves believe that they have medical issues... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 9 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilityThat sounds actually terrifying, I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Then I realize something else, to exist as a woman is, in addition this nice girl facade I had to put on in service for the peace of the people around me on a daily basis, I constantly have to strategize for my own safety. I have been doing this all my life actually, but I just didn't know that's what I was doing. Sometimes it surprises me how much this becomes a routine for us, strategizing out own safety. I am currently look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 27 | My father is a LVM, and I began to learn not to marry the same man like my father.I unfortunately don't look up to him as my father. In fact, I lost my respect in so many senses I can really relate to this. I don't want to steal your post - but my father is like that as well. My mother always prepared our school bags when we were little, made breakfast, school lunches, kept up with appointments, followed up with grades and homework, always, always! listened to us when we wanted to talk to her about friends/school/life, anything. She did the laundry, all the cooking, all the c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 22 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedRight?? How do these women have sex with these men?? I could never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 82 | I found this thing called MDS.Definitely. What's the idea, to keep the facade your entire life? That sounds tiring. While FDS exists to make sure that you are safe, happy and satisfied with your relationship, this MDS shit is all about deceiving women to get in their pants. Is it really all there is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 27 | Mango's>MenI love this one! (Why are mangos so expensive??) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:56 PM |
| 4 | Sexism in MedicineI wish, I just tried not to cry and left as soon as I could... It wasn't my first time hearing something like this, it's pretty common unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:48 AM |
| 48 | Sexism in MedicineUnfortunately I have close familiarity with this. I have a few chronic conditions, some of them are undiagnosed for years for these reasons. A (male) doctor I've been to told me that "sometimes young women make themselves think that they have a problem and this actually makes them believe that the problem exists". And a few more were quick to blame my problems on anxiety without even trying to check what's wrong. And let's not even start talk about experiences with male gynos... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Sis, No! You obviously didnt want to.I started to give away some of my books to friends, because I simply have no room anymore, and I still regret giving away some of them ... I gave away the "my brilliant friend" series and I deeply regret it. Did you get rid of yours for reasons of space too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Sis, No! You obviously didnt want to.Nooo how horrible, I can't imagine getting rid of my books, that's awful (or for that matter, any other belonging that is dear to me) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:46 AM |
| 7 | "I don't have to do chores, I work" (a rant about cleaning)I feel like my brother is growing up to be a man like that. He doesn't do anything around the house, you have to beg him to even take out the trash, and he can see his mother (57 years old, with knee problems) crouching and cleaning the floor - and not offer any help. No grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, organizing the house, laundry, whatever, from his side. I tell my mom that she has to talk to him, or he's gonna grow up and be a useless man who will look for women to take advantage of, but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:43 PM |
| 5 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️Looks like the trash took itself out I'm gonna use that one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:36 AM |
| 18 | It do be like thatSame, after all of this I decided jeans will never enter my wardrobe again. I only wear comfy pants (joggers as the previous comment said), and dresses/skirts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:47 AM |
| 11 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown."I will never be a pushover, I will set him straight" Just the fact that you have to set him straight makes me angry. Why do I have to set him straight? Why does he need to be "set"? Why do I have to educate him and ask him to do things around the house? How come I know what has to be done, but he doesn't? Is he a child? Why do I need to assign chores? (Just FYI, I am single and never been in a relationship. I just watched my father behave like that for my entire life, and now my brother grows t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:28 PM |
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