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You try talking only to 2-5 year olds for 13 hours straight and then get back to me with that. I repeat myself: I was and am more than happy being the breadwinner and having my wife cover the home front.
/r/MensRights18/06/26 01:09 PM
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Define work. My wife was busy running the house, rearing our kids and doing the lions share of instilling our morals. You try cooking cleaning and disciplining, as well as being a taxi service. I may bring home the bacon, but she puts very much equal effort into this marriage.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 10:29 PM
7

So common law marriage without saying marriage. Love my wife but no, if I’m ever single again not doing that.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 03:18 PM
7

Being happening 50+ years.
/r/MensRights29/05/26 11:44 AM
1

Just ride the wave. Let it pass. Keep yourself occupied. For me it was her cheating. I kept picking at the scab for years until the angst of thinking about it finally burnt itself out.
/r/MensRights22/05/26 01:17 AM
14

I’ve been married 24 years and counting. If she passes before me I’ll be forever wearing at least one black component to my outfit. Sorry, I’m still grieving. I couldn’t possibly consider… Then again, I was invisible before I met her. I’ll probably still be invisible if I find myself single again. (Yes, Virginia, sometimes blind dates do actually work out).
/r/MensRights20/05/26 12:28 AM
30

Id skip happy hour entirely. If pressed: I’m a teetotaler.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 12:19 PM
13

I’ve told my son that if he is in any doubt about whether adult beverages were consumed he should nope out. To the point of making sure she has a ride, but he isn’t it. I’m married, but if I ever find myself single I won’t be signing up for another tour.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 09:44 PM
0

Sorry, don’t have time for that juvenile bs. The kiddie table is over there.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 01:00 AM
3

I’m a decade behind you in my early 50s. Still married to my awesome wife. If for some reason I ever end up single it will probably be because she passed. It would be very hard for me to consider opening back up. Certainly I’d be flighty about getting back to the altar or intertwining lives to the point of cohabitation. It’s not you, it’s the statistics. Besides, it took a blind date to meet my wife. I’m not exactly the outgoing type. Chances of meeting another woman for a relationship are proba…
/r/MensRights15/09/25 11:37 AM
1

I understand that. My point was the commenter was downplaying the taxes here. Yes We don’t pay as much as some states and there is certainly less nickel and diming going on. But there’s still an outlay. If you move into a town or city that likes to be spendy it’ll be more so.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 10:34 AM
2

I pay $12k in property tax this year. Southern nh hcol. It’s where my job is. We don’t live in a McMansion. My bil lives further north and pays half that. Anyone who works in Maine or mass pays income tax on top of that. I don’t remember if vt has am income tax. We don’t have sales or property tax but there is a meals tax of 9%. Auto registration effectively works out to a 13th new car payment the first three years. After that it goes down. My point is it’s not nothing. Don’t move here assuming …
/r/MensRights11/09/25 02:38 AM
1

Yep. My point is everyone assumes since we have no sales tax or income tax it’s a low tax burden. It depends on where you move to in nh. My property taxes are 12k this year. We don’t own a McMansion. My bil lives up north and pays half that.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 02:34 AM
2

Don’t kid yourself. Property taxes are big. If you’re renting it’s still built into your rent by your landlord.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 10:43 PM
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Tf?
/r/MensRights25/06/25 01:44 PM
3

We had that problem with preschool. My wife would be told every day at pick up our son was bad. She was often in tears. Elected to put him in kindergarten. He was a bit young and should have been held another year but we didn’t want him going back to that environment. That summer my wife ran into the assistant teacher. She said no, our son was great. The main teacher was old and couldn’t handle high energy boys anymore. Rather than recognize the problem she vilified all the boys. We didn’t put m…
/r/MensRights16/03/25 05:27 PM
1

Tf do I care about what they think? They don’t have my respect, why would I care? If they want to project, that’s their problem.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 02:54 AM
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You do have a choice. That choice is to not participate. Sucks but then again you won’t be saddled with a kid you didn’t want.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 10:59 PM
51

A relative of mine is a doctor as well. He’s said the same thing - if they ask for a doctor on a flight no way is he speaking up. He said all you’re doing is opening yourself up to certainty of a lawsuit.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 12:28 PM
10

I remember when my wife and I first moved in together. Had to find a new place she could afford half the rent on. My previous place had been perfect, good size etc. went down 500 sq ft to find something. Oof. It was her insistence. I was making 80k at the time. She might have been making 25. I was fine with us not going 50/50 figuring I was already paying it alone anyways. Nope. I love that woman. Just sayin, op. If all the stuff is already bothering you - don’t move in. It’ll only get worse.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 07:58 AM
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And it takes longer like two days iirc to do the full partial birth abortion. 36 weeks while a premie would be not needing a nicu. Sorry that’s murder.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 04:19 PM
57

Narcissistic personality disorder has no treatment. At least as of 10 years ago. That’s the first thing that came to mind reading that story.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 08:12 PM
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I know I’m going to get downvoted on this one but… Sorry. The BSA is screwed. They screwed themselves well before this for multiple reasons. No chance my son was going in to that. No the Girl Scouts are not an equivalent organization for girls. It’s a freaking glorified home economics group class. Don’t worry. Alternatives will continue eating bsa’s lunch. Baden Powell association is one. They don’t gaf what you are, all are welcome let’s go scouting! Do I think we need some men only spaces? Sur…
/r/MensRights12/09/24 10:49 AM
2

Teach your kid to clean their wanker properly and this isn’t an issue.
/r/MensRights13/08/24 09:32 PM
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As much as I hated at the time my then girl friend/now wife pushing to get an apartment she could afford to pay half the rent on (I had previously been paying the full rent on my previous place myself) and losing a room and lots of stove to boot, I now appreciate the fact that she was always half in on our day to day expenses when we moved in together, despite the huge disparity in income (I think I made 3-4x the amount she did at the time).
/r/MensRights21/07/24 05:14 PM
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Yeah because it got posted in the GenX subreddit. Otherwise, meh. All I’ve seen about the guy who died Saturday was he was a father and husband who shielded his family. And that trump had not called the family while Biden had.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 03:04 PM
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Brady. Yeah I remember him. How can you not if you’ve ever seen him post that event?
/r/MensRights18/07/24 02:57 PM
3

French king who was short. Look it up.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 03:19 PM
6

Ever notice the dearth of straight men in the fashion industry? At least what they show us in the media? No offense to our gay brethren on this sub, but I’m not taking any cues from y’all about what I should and should not find attractive in a woman. My own countenance will I keep regarding what I find attractive and don’t find attractive in a woman.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:15 PM
4

Literally Dr. Cut Your Cockoff
/r/MensRights25/05/24 06:08 PM
7

Yeah it’s only that RIGHT NOW. If they need bodies that number will change pdq.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 02:52 PM
7

Yeah, no. Supposed op hasn’t written a single response back. The bs piranha smell fake puffy in the water and are feeding.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 01:08 PM
1

Worst case you can flush your history. I’ve not done it but my wife has to resort to it’s because the algorithm thinks it’s your watch one stream tire suddenly very interested in that and want to see much more like it!
/r/MensRights22/03/24 03:19 AM
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I always rinsed mine out: filled with water, made sure there were no leaks, tipped the contents out into the toilet after. That and I used the ones with the spermicidal lubricant.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 05:31 PM
7

If used correctly. In the wild iirc statistically the actual numbers are lower. YMMV.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 12:37 PM
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My wife was in a super physical job that took a toll on her body because the company wouldn’t buy certain devices that would make it a bit easier on you until will after she left. She was living on Tylenol and aleve. She decided it wasn’t doing her any favors getting pregnant and quit. We got lucky within a year after that. Raising children is a full time job. We both looked at it this way: we’d rather have someone with our morals (aka, one of us) raising our kids than some stranger. The kids di…
/r/MensRights10/03/24 01:17 AM
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Welp. Guess I’m not watching that. Too bad was looking forward to it. I didn’t care about them making kynes a woman.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 11:03 PM
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I never approached at work even well before Covid. I remember at my last internship my mentor pointed out a particular woman walking past and saying, “If you even think of looking in her direction she’ll have you in hr. “. That was the mid nineties. I decided then and there maintaining a position was vastly more important than seeking a relationship at work.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:29 PM
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In other new, scientists discover for the first time that water is actually wet.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:40 AM
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I don’t sync up with my old friends very often either. Once a year. You are only as old as you allow yourself to be. Yes, our bodies fail us over time. But you can be a curmudgeonly 25 year old or a 75 year old with youthful outlook on life. I’m an introvert. I can only take so much before I have to go find a quiet space and recover/recharge. My wife’s closest sister- oh my gosh her family are LOUD. I’ve don’t think a single person in the three generations has an indoor voice. 50 pounds for a bo…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 11:42 PM
2

Best I can say is find something in your circumstances to be joyful about. Best analogy I can make: I am a music nerd. Mind you I am not a band geek. I play bassoon in an amateur orchestra. I practice to improve and take joy in reaching new plateaus. And still take lessons even though I’m still old and gray. One of the unfun tasks is playing a piece that sucks. Either your part sucks or you just dont appreciate it. Recently my teacher said that it is our job to find enjoyment in everything we pl…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 10:30 PM
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40s: you are only dragged down if you let yourself be. Be mindful of your health now. Your are the caretaker of your body. Joyful: you are responsible for your own happiness. Find what makes you happy and cultivate it. I absolutely love going to the horticultural gardens with my wife next state over. Unfortunately it’s a 3-4 hour one way drive. I especially love the rhododendron garden they have. I could spend hours there just chilling.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 09:28 PM
2

Define successful. I got lucky. But then I grabbed ball and ran with it. You can get lucky, screw around and the opportunity is lost not to return.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 07:37 PM
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There’s a given. For Pete’s sake don’t tell them what you actually want to do or go.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 10:48 PM
2

No. Just depth and breadth. There were 3 different bins. Had to have one class from each, and choose one to have three classes. So five total. I did my depth in music and took history and economics courses to round it out. There may have been more bins but that was long long in a galaxy far far away.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 05:10 PM
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I’m a Gen X sw programmer. The skills that got me my first job or of college… I learned at my internships in school. My EE degree, including the sw courses I took - useless. I knew almost everything before I took any relevant course. So nothing new. Maybe for the hw engineers some of the stuff we learned would be applicable. So it was just a check box and an in to get those internships. I especially roll my eyes at the humanities courses we were forced to take. I still chuckle at the whining, “I…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:16 PM
2

My FIL seemed to be treated ok by the canadian health care system. They did right my SIL who had cancer. My wife's problem with Canada is the government has gone too far left, and yet not. Health care wise: it depends on where you are. The maritimes generally can't keep the doctors. They go there to put in their time and as soon as they can they go to a more lucrative place, either state side or one of the wealthier provinces. As for wait times: ERs are just as crazy in the states. My cousin is …
/r/MensRights06/01/24 07:27 PM
3

My wife is Canadian. She said, “It’s not that we’re nicer. It’s that we were raised to be more polite than Americans. There’s still plenty of assholes up there. “
/r/MensRights06/01/24 06:43 PM
1

How the fuck is this still the case in ma? I would have thought after that whole brouhaha they would have changed the laws.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 04:19 AM
2

Why yes. Yes I did. I lucked out with my wife. But I’m very cognizant of what is going on, especially so I can hopefully guide my son.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:58 PM
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Back in the late 80s as a teenager I told my grandparents I thought I would marry but didn’t want kids. I done remember why, some stupid phase. Their response: I’d you don’t want kids don’t get married. The only reason to get married is to have kids. 😳 I don’t remember their exact ages at the time be at least mid to late 60s iirc. Old enough to have been adults in wwii.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 01:23 PM
10

My father works for the local school bus company. School board tried to force them to or a placard with their personal pronouns up so the kids wouldn’t stress. The bus drivers all told them to go kindly go have relations with themselves. When the board threatened to fire the response was: you are having a hard enough time filling the positions. This is the hill you want to die on?
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:36 PM
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Or manspreading
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:32 PM
8

I always filled my used condom to search for obvious leaks as an early warning that maybe an oops occurred. I tipped all contents down the drain and then chucked the condom. Spermicdal lubricant inside to be doubly sure nothing happened. Bring your own condoms, and prep appropriately, boys. If I’m ever in a position to be in the market again as it were, snip snip. I’ve had my kids. I don’t need more sprung on me.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 10:58 PM
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lol my wife and kids saw the trailers too and noped right on out. I didn’t say a thing.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 12:02 AM
2

I’ve often told my wife i prefer her sans make up. She continues. It’s on her, not me.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 10:56 AM
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Every company I’ve been at since 1993 have had mostly men in it. Where’s her proof? No data? Baseless claim.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 01:23 PM
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I have a Facebook account but i never post. It’s only there for things like reunion notifications
/r/MensRights14/10/23 06:41 PM
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Good for her!
/r/MensRights04/10/23 11:38 AM
1

I’m too busy tending to my own household to care about what you do or don’t do with yours. All us guys “in the patriarch” aren’t off sitting in some stronghold Backroom not yet greeted out by feminists and invaded plotting to make sure every woman of breeding age is barefoot, in the kitchen, baking pies. You don’t want kids? I get it. You’re life is not your own. Ever. Again. Guys get it a bit less, but pretty sure if you are a good mother you worry about your kids. Every. Day. For the rest of y…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 12:18 PM
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I am not a touchy feely person. Are you a close friend or a relative? Sure. Otherwise stay away.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 11:18 AM
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Concentrate on mens health and help. Check the women bashing at the door. Ranting won’t help. Grouping up and sing up help groups and infrastructure for those of us who need it will.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 07:13 PM
1

Especially if you keep marrying the same one.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 11:21 PM
1

Alec isn’t exactly the sharpest tool in the shed anyways.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 11:19 PM
6

This. My wife has pcos. While we were going through the process to get help, both kids were conceived naturally without helpers, when we weren’t stressing because we knew it wasn’t going to happen month. 2 miscarriages when we weren’t trying for kids too. A friend of ours has pcos as well. She’s a fertile Myrtle. They’ve got four. Four. Plus a couple miscarriages. Oh yeah and they thought they were done. Number five is on the way. Husband just has to look at her wrong and she’s preggers again. O…
/r/MensRights24/08/23 04:08 PM
7

Which is why no cohabitation.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 09:35 PM
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Study Where’s the link to the raw data? No raw daya provided it’s not a factual study that will stand up to independent review.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 07:40 PM
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The source has already been proven to be a deep fake.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 06:56 PM
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Women thin the ranks of dateable men further. Unicorn chilled along with the rest. Women most affected.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 01:26 PM
1

Eh. They’ll just make it so that single men can’t purchase harvested eggs.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 05:44 PM
4

This. And it’s nothing new. I married and have kids. But I remember having a chat with my grandparents in my teen years. I was hypothesizing about getting married but not having kids. My grandmother: why would you get married if you don’t want kids? Don’t get married if you don’t want kids. Noted.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 03:00 AM
5

Lol. Never had to deal with this yet but if it does: “Bless your little heart! I’m sorry, I thought I was talking with a fellow adult. The kids table is over there. Come back when you’ve graduated and can actually have a discussion without throwing pointless insults around. Bye bye now!”
/r/MensRights04/07/23 05:24 PM
3

Yep. My father has a cousin who is getting a divorce in his 70s. Granted he’s a pain in the ass to live with, but I don’t know her. She may be the cause of his curmudgeonliness.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 10:15 AM
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I’ve got kids. Almost grown. I’ve got a hobby that could expand if I were single that involves social interaction. You’re only alone if you choose to be.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 10:13 AM
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If I weren’t already married I’d be noping out of the dating culture. Not worth it. You can’t lose if you don’t play.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 03:06 AM
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/s
/r/MensRights02/07/23 03:05 AM
5

Lol. Keep telling yourself that. They make you medics. My fil was a medic paratrooper during Korean War. Armistice was signed before he made it over. One of my fathers cousins was a medic during Nam. He did make it over and he’s still messed up.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 10:38 PM
0

For sure. I know for my wife it’s a matter of a) it just hit, b) she’s got enough time to get there and get it done, 3) yes the extra few seconds it takes to realize the seat is up and lower it is the difference between success and got to take a shower.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 12:54 PM
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All joking aside- I get why there’s a need to put the seat down. Guys - imagine if your valve was faulty and prone to lying loose. It’s a mad rush to the throne and you just have time to drop trousers sit and the floodgates open. It’s common for them, more so after having had kids. Just one of the ways our plumbing differs. Leaving the seat up means a greater likelihood for cleanup on aisle 3. Same reason why the lid doesn’t go down in my house. I wouldn’t call it sexist to forget. I’d call it c…
/r/MensRights29/04/23 10:42 AM
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Women, put the toilet seat up after yourself. Leaving it down is sexist. Meh.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 09:41 PM
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I'm sorry, wtf? He was the divorce judge presiding over her previous divorce? Yeah, she shouldn't have killed him. But talk about conflict of interest.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 09:31 PM
3

It’s always been there. I had a teacher in hs who would rub my shoulders during quizzes and tests. I was the only one who got that treatment in the class. I didn’t know then. Now? I’m just glad that she didn’t escalate and I was clueless. Ugh. We had a student teacher start to get too friendly with one of my classmates. Parents figured it out and she was gone. Didn’t finish her rotation or anything. At the time we were bummed because she was pretty cool. Now as a parent - I say damn skippy she s…
/r/MensRights17/04/23 01:43 AM
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I keep thinking the same- start up a consulting business. A bit nervous cutting the safety net though
/r/MensRights13/04/23 09:18 PM
8

Where’s the raw data backing up your claims? No raw data? Just the facts, ma’am. Just the facts please
/r/MensRights25/03/23 01:09 PM
3

It's another made up holiday/whatever. "With everyone super, no one will be." Am I getting a day off? No? Doesn't factor in to daily life. I'm pretty sure if I asked my wife about it (and IMD as well) she'd roll her eyes at me too.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 04:25 AM
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LOL. You know, they love making medics out of conscientious objectors, right? And not just run of the mill medics. My FIL was an Airborne Medic during the Korean war. Ended up not making it over there before the armistice. OP: The odds of the draft being re-instated are low. It's only a weight over your head until 28, IIRC. Plus: I saw a recent article claiming 80% of those of serving age aren't fit to serve. I didn't read into the specifics (I've more than a few grey hairs).
/r/MensRights15/03/23 03:52 AM
1

Who says we don’t go to therapy? I got thrown for a loop when a friend from college died. She was feeling run down, went in, got diagnosed with cancer and boom gone a month later. It was wrecking me. I went and saw the shrink for a couple months. Once a week. Sometimes it helps to have someone outside your life asking your questions to force you to think everything through. Still miss my friend. But I was able to work through that grief and come out the other side. Would do it again in a heartbe…
/r/MensRights07/03/23 09:52 PM
3

The evangelical free church my niece and her husband used to attend started being wishy about stuff, trying to pander to both the conservatives and liberals in their congregation. Both sides got offended and now they have a much diminished congregation.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:35 PM
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Where did all our parishioners go?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 11:54 AM
1

I always filled them with water to check for leaks, then tipped the contents into the toilet before chucking the condom
/r/MensRights25/01/23 03:35 AM
2

Let your parents know. Make sure you can record (2 party state, but if that’s in public setting i don’t know what rules are). But I’d you can yeah record and mom and dad lawyer up
/r/MensRights24/01/23 07:44 PM
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Show me. Concrete examples. Let’s compile a list: you with male privilege examples , I’ll counterpoint with female privilege examples. Everybody says doesn’t count. If you can’t refer to actual data it doesn’t count
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:24 PM
2

My maternal grandmother had Npd. She hid it well when out and about. I had no clue until she started losing it late in life. Had to be committed at one point. A nurse at the facility let it slip. Mom didn’t have medical power of attorney yet so we shouldn’t have been told. It explained a lot about moms childhood. My father sister and I found out a lot we hadnt been told over the years. Like hey it’s Tuesday time to beat the kids. My moon and her sisters used to clear out at sun up and not come h…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 11:48 AM
3

Either you have a basic mastery of your profession or you don’t. I’m an EE. by training, software programmer in real life. Having gone through the schooling but not taking the test (we don’t have one for software-like trying to hit a fast moving target) yeah if the person can’t pass the engineering exam they have no business fucking with chemicals, electricity or load bearing structures to the degree that a professional engineer does. You want the extra money and responsibilities that come with …
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:05 PM
2

American with British roots so I dunno. My grandfather on that side was polish so we had a mix of traditions.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:54 PM
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Same. I took on the tradition of making the Christmas pudding. It was previously done by mom and before her her Nan.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 12:11 AM
1

Wtaf? My wife watches some content creators who are paranoid about not showing any cleavage because if they do they’ll get demonetized. Looks like you tube had no problems with spring skin but they want all the money for those peep shows
/r/MensRights18/12/22 01:29 AM
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A real man doesn’t give af what society is trying to redefine them as.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 04:51 PM
1

Ah. There it is. I read the article again. Missed that one because not in the bullets. They worded it as persistent staring. Noted.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 06:59 PM
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Just remember, the very fact that they stoop to name calling tells you they haven’t really ever left middle school…
/r/MensRights09/12/22 06:40 PM
4

I was reacting to what the poster wrote too. But nothing about staring in the article. I totally agree: women should be able to feel safe while out and about. All of the behaviors listed in that article just shouldn’t happen. To people of either sex. I think the concern guys have is what is the actual wording of the law?
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:19 PM
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Sure it’s a good law. As long as lady justice is truly blindfolded and it’s applied equally. when I’m out and about I look past people. I never liked looking into people’s eyes anyways. I want to see where I’m going. I just hope no one misconstrues that for staring at them as I’m walking. But I’ll be darned if I’m forced to keep my eyes downcast because someone might take offense.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:10 PM
2

Its ok to cry. Been there done that when one of my college frothed died from ovarian cancer a decade ago. It’s not that we were in love, just a close friend. Hit me hard. My wife is still shaken about our two and it’s been years. I find my wife and I have to be each others rocks.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:04 AM
2

I’m so sorry you and your wife are going through that. We have the right to feel care. We have the right to be shattered. That’s far enough along to have seen something if the ultrasound. I’d be gutted too. It was bad enough for us at 6 weeks with a clear the lights were on but nobody was home. I was more disappointed than entering when that happened. But if we’d gotten to toe stage, I’d have been gutted. Thank you for the reminder: we’ve got to look out for each other and ask. So: how are you d…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 02:21 AM
9

It’s difficult for single people period. Also if one or three has had cancer.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 11:31 AM
6

Dude would be reported and off to jail
/r/MensRights28/11/22 08:59 PM
1

Stay at home if you can afford it and she can handle it. Who do you want raising your kids? They are most malleable the first five years or so. After that it’s just finishing touches. So. Some stranger who may or may not have a congruent set of morals to you and your spouse? Or you and your spouse? My wife chose to be a stay at home mom. So did my mom. She tried working for a bit while I was young after I first started school to bring extra money in, but my parents decided pretty quickly I neede…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:22 AM
4

Statically condoms are only as effective as rhythm method. When properly used they have a high chance of working. What studies have found is the population doesn’t use them properly. What I’ve been telling my son is if you aren’t ready to be a father keep it in your pants. It’s the only way to guarantee if you both have functioning reproductive systems.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:47 AM
1

Being slightly nearsighted I keep my glasses off unless I’m driving or watching a movie in the theater. Never been accused but if that day comes - sorry, lady, I’m near sighted, can’t see crap that far away without glasses. No way I could have been staring. It’s not always about you. Everything looks better with a slightly impressionistic blur anyways.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 01:26 PM
2

Good to know. Either way, this young doctor didn’t think about it. I don’t want to be one of his oops.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 11:52 AM
4

This was my wife’s experience with a husband/wife couple who were both ongyns. She was great for what was going wrong with it trying to conceive (it’s what she researched) but she was awful doing the exams. Ugh. As for my experience, my pcp for about 18 years was a woman. I had no problems with that. I used to worry that my body would decide to sport a woody at the wrong time, but that never happened. I don’t care admit who use in there chaperoning either when they have to check certain things o…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:45 AM
3

Yeah, I’m going to let some celeb tell me which way my moral compass should point. Screw that.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:14 PM
3

I haven't had problems with them, but they did get rid of the scent I liked, can't even remember what it was called now.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 11:10 AM
3

Well, crap. I liked old spice deodorant. I guess back to Dr. Squatch for me. Hadn't really thought about those ads before, other than, "That's stupid", and, "WTF do you need body wash for? Soap for the face, pits, and nethers. That's it"
/r/MensRights25/10/22 11:09 AM
23

I know this is too late, spilled beans, but: whatever side of the abortion debate you come down on, if it isn't a wholehearted totally into it agreement from both sides that is congruent for both parties, you shouldn't be getting to a physical relationship. You were drunk. I find it ironic (and frustrating) that NY has ruled it such that as little as one drink makes women unable to give informed consent yet men aren't provided the same standard. Because by that standard she !@# you. Except, we'r…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:58 AM
1

Lol
/r/MensRights18/10/22 02:09 PM
1

Who cares? All you can do is clap back, and congratulate them on failing to graduate from H.S. The rest of us have moved on. Throw names around? Sure, go ahead. I got no time for that. Why don't you go do something useful that actually contributes to society.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 12:51 PM
1

Holy crap. Woman are to be trusted. Men have to prove they got consent.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 12:10 AM
3

I don’t care. I write software. I don’t see that many female interns coming through. I don’t see that many female New hires. As a male software engineer I’m not losing sleep over this. I know my worth. I know what I can produce. I’d a company would prefer to virtue signal than pursue the best candidate they sent producing the best product and l likely won’t be a major player for much longer.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 04:48 PM
-7

I don't think you're in any danger.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:43 PM
1

Did things change with the amount you're allowed to make and not pay? When I was looking 10 years ago it was on a location by location basis, not just country, but where in the country.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 06:11 PM
6

They're women. They have no idea what we deal with. There is no way for them to know, any more than there is any way for us to really know about their day to day, other than what they tell us.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 04:21 PM
4

Oh goody. A whole bunch of Hapsburg babies.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:08 PM
29

I remember one coworker in his early thirties telling me about his then long in the rear view mirror honeymoon. They were sitting on the beach and she turns to him saying, let’s get one thing straight. I wear the pants. As long as you remember that we’ll be fine. I’d have said come on let’s go. Go where? I believe there’s still time to anul this farce. Something I should have been told about the contract before I signed. A marriage should be a partnership. Do I check in with my wife? Yeah I do. …
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:06 PM
1

I was shocked when I first saw 'Upload's portrayal of obtaining consent for sex in the future. Both people have a personal device on a neck string, and would both speak into it giving consent. I thought, "No way!" Now: hell yeah.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:03 AM
2

Huh, my wife thought it was trashy trope as well based on the previews and said no way in hell. Besides, it's got "I can't act" Kristin Stewart in it. Why would someone want to pay good money to watch bad acting?
/r/MensRights18/08/22 07:08 PM
1

This
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:59 PM
1

Why are you worried about what they say? Screw them.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 11:03 PM
4

There was a women's only gym in Boston. a guy successfully sued to gain access as it was closer to his apartment than any other gym. Mass then went and passed a law saying it was OK to have single sex gyms.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:52 PM
1

Sperm jacking: I always ALWAYS took my condom into the bathroom directly after, and rinsed it out in the sink. And then chucked it. For two reasons: the smell, and this.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:09 AM
1

I believe if it can be proved (DNA) that the kid is yours, pay up. You made the decision to dip your pen in the well, knowing that it's a crapshoot. You should own up to the responsibility of the results. Don't want a kid? Don't go having extra curricular activities of that sort. Just saying.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:07 AM
24

I'm pretty much invisible. Always have been. Then again, married for over 20 years so... IDGAF.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:51 PM
2

Can't do that in my state. Two party consent. I think it doesn't apply in public, but in private... It is what it is.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 02:13 PM
3

Hey, congrats!
/r/MensRights26/07/22 06:21 PM
1

Incel? LOL. Every time I see or hear that term, I just think, "Wow. Someone never got past elementary school! Their parents must be so disappointed." You're not going to do/say what I want you to, so I'm going to call you names? WTAF? How about finding your adult underwear, actually putting it on, and grow up like the rest of us.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 06:21 PM
2

Classical Feminism: I'm all for it. Equal pay for equal work, etc. But this current toxic environment? Hard pass. If they want to be that way, good for them. But don't expect me to stick around and participate. I got better things to do than be stressed out by their B.S.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 09:45 PM
2

The only viable proof would be a blood test showing the hormones flowing in her blood. Even then, events can mess up b.c.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 05:46 PM
1

I'm sure there are - I'd trust my sister to do that stuff. But... She doesn't have time or patience to put up with that b.s. ... any more than she has the time or patience to put up with a male dominated office expecting her to make the coffee. Love you, sis!
/r/MensRights01/07/22 02:50 PM
18

I'm not getting my (or my son's!) penis cut because some ducking quack promoted it in the 1800s as a way to prevent masturbation. Fuck you, Kellogg. Asshole also advocated no anesthesia during the procedure for those who were caught taking care of business.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 07:59 PM
3

Wasn't even a bill. SC said, "Hey, we overstepped our bounds in the 70s. Our bad. YOU WANT IT, YOU NEED TO PASS A LAW."
/r/MensRights28/06/22 03:11 PM
5

Yup. Hadn’t thought of it that way before, but declaring there is no difference between man and woman except secondary features really did open the door to the new argument.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 11:22 AM
18

I'm near sighted. I don't wear my glasses at the gym. Sweat would streak all over them anyways. I was looking at you? Was I squinting? No? How the hell could I see what you look like in any detail (and thus be a creepy lech) if I CANT REALLY TELL WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE?
/r/MensRights18/06/22 01:23 PM
-1

Roe vs. Wade.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 11:17 AM
10

Constant access sex partner? You haven't been married very long.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 11:16 AM
1

Because it's a huge industry at this point. Right up there with the NFL, right?
/r/MensRights07/05/22 07:22 PM
88

This happened to a friend of my Fathers.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:17 PM
1

BC can fail. Then again, so can vasectomies.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:16 PM
13

Do you, or do you not want kids in the future? If you want kids, Don't do it. If you're not sure, don't do it. You're 20. Our prefrontal cortexes aren't fully formed yet, blah blah blah. Your decision making center ain't all there yet. Don't fucking do it.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:16 PM
5

I know one guy, but he was in his 30s at the time - mature student path for him. We went to college together. He kept telling me, "As soon as we graduate, get that job, and benefits kick in, snip snip". Gee, don't you wan't kids? "Nope." Senior year, he shows up late to a meeting. He had been to the doctor with then wife. "We're having a baby". WTF? "Luckiest 8% kid in the world!" He loves that kid. He had primary responsibility for the kid after the divorce. And... he still got snipped and didn…
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:15 PM
4

I'll do mine if you do yours - lets go book it so they happen same day same time... Won't happen. If you get snipped, look into cost of getting some frozen. And, while sometimes they can undo it, 1) it isn't 100% effective and 2) it hurts like a MF. I haven't had that experience personally but one of my bosses did. Besides, at your age they'll probably deny you. Not married, spouse may have other opinion, blah blah blah.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:12 PM
10

My understanding is you're cutting off about 1/3 of the nerve endings in the boys junk when you do that. Fuck that shit. It isn't that hard to teach your kid proper maintenance so the "issues" aren't an issue. It was never an issue with my wife - we were both anti-cutting. If it ever came up again with someone else, I'd tell them sure, just as soon as you have your clitoral hood clipped...
/r/MensRights27/04/22 09:29 PM
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