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| 1 | My gf says i'm too clingy and our relationship is too serious. (M17) (F17)a majority of girls at that age says something similar to that. It just means that she doesn't know what she wants and doesn't want to feel like she is limiting herself and/or being limited. Consider it a sign that it may be time for you to move on before either of you end up getting hurt. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Do you find that you only attract one type of woman?yeah, usually princess types. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to older women/milfs, are they into younger guys at all?sharing the vibrant energy that helps them forget that they are getting older, rekindling a spark of the good times in their life. Care-free and wild. People, regardless of their sex, go through changes as they get older. Physical changes aside, our mentalities change. The way people respond to us changes. Sometimes its nice when someone helps to break us out of the 'role' that society has placed us. A small example of mine would be with how common it is becoming for people to address me as 'sir… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 03:31 PM |
| 6 | How to talk to older women/milfs, are they into younger guys at all?Make them feel young is probably the best advice that I can come up with. Different ones have different mindsets about chasing after young meat but they are all at that age where they are fed up with the bs in their personal lives and are ready to let their guard down for someone who makes them feel good about themselves. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:11 PM |
| 5 | I like a girl but my body and bank are not where I’m taking them at the moment.As silly as it might sound, those factors aren't nearly as important as you might think. I've seen guys that have tried to impress with flash and pizzazz only to struggle once they land the girl and the truth comes to light. I have also seen guys that look like something right out of goodwill catalogue land some incredible women. You have get to know your audience. I am fairly average myself as a guy and I'm not on the fast-track to any path or destination in this life. Some care about that, mos… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.something like that, but for me personally its more about keeping them interested. Its a long distance between courtship and relationship and there will always be other males that will come challenging your intentions. If you can secure her genuine interest, it won't matter who else comes knocking at her door. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Quite the opposite in my opinion, the tricky part is to manage just how much you let on. Surprise your pursuit with an occasional nudge that says "hey, I know what you're trying to say." They are experts at haptic communication, so if she is at all receptive to that kind of advance then she will inevitably want to dig deeper and find out just how deep that rabbit hole goes! | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?There is plenty of that going around in this world. It speaks more to the cruelty of this current system more than it does your own shortcomings. But you have admirably demonstrated that you have a capacity to reflect, analyze, and make changes in your character. You might teeter/oscillate from one end to the other in the emotional spectrum, but have the capacity to balance yourself out. Keep that one in mind when you are putting yourself out there. Women do like aggressive men who can protect t… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?Now this makes more sense. I would really recommend that you talk with someone about all this stuff that you are holding inside. It is eating you alive. The world isn't as dark or as cruel as you think it is. I can completely understand that you have gone through some really bad times, but don't let those times dictate your whole life. As men, sometimes we will face the darkest crises on our own, this is just how the world works. But you shouldn't let yourself give up on seeing the light. Talk w… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?I'm going to be honest here, a lot of what your saying is incomprehensible so I think I will take the time to bow out of this conversation. I have written what I have written, apply it or don't. But these individuals are able to land women whereas you are not. Perhaps its time to reflect and analyze why that is and hopefully make some good choices. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:15 PM |
| 4 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?They're certainly more humble than the guy that presumes to know what is going on in their lives. You don't know what that depressed individual is going through. You don't see what they do every hour of every day. One of the goals of a depressed individual is to build up their own self-esteem. Tasks that might seem menial and unimportant to you, might be a monumental task for them. For some depressed individuals, making an effort to go outside and be around their fellow human is making an effort… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.>Girls don't see me as a dating material. Do I take this as a sign of being physically unattractive? I do have an high EQ. Is high EQ not a masculine trait? It is uncommon for a guy to demonstrate a capacity for EQ so yes, you may be singling yourself as the odd one of the bunch. But this in itself is not a condemnation, it is a virtue. Scientific studies have concluded that women are the more observant sex and have an innate talent to read body language. In these same studies they conducted tes… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?Judging by the content of your message, its no surprise that you're not getting laid. An insecure guy is playdo for her to work with, a person that looks down on others and overestimates his own worth is repulsive to anyone. I can only offer perspective for someone to digest. My words are not meant to be a 1-2-3 step guide to getting laid. But clearly you have your preconceived notions in place. Maybe you are wise enough to discern that it is exactly these notions that are keeping you from landi… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 02:49 PM |
| 25 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?Those men have ambition and passion in this life. Both of those are like peacock feathers, they are traits enormously valued by women. To put it simply, they are likely the types of individuals that have dimensions of complexity to their character. Everybody eventually gets bored of reading an ABC book, but if you refine yourself as an individual then you become more like a best-selling novel. Unpredictable twists and turns and all manners of cliffhangers. If you're one of those dudes that's out… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Why do people think babyface and gym body is a good combo?they tend to produce some beautiful offspring. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Is tinder a scam for average guys or am I unlucky?I mean probably, yeah. Tinder was designed for hypersexual individuals, it is inevitable that it attracts a certain type of personality. It is definitely not the place to go if you want to boost your self-esteem. I'm a firm believer that when one window closes, another opens somewhere so this might just be life's way of telling you to move on and seek more dignified grounds to pursue your interests. If you're looking to just get laid, try the bar. It has been the worldwide institution to get you… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I socialise at a party???If you are nervous and anxious at huge gatherings, try arriving with a friend and let them do the leading. There is no formality to a party, just be yourself. When I was in high school, I was always known as the quiet kid, until I started getting invited to parties. I don't want to be a bad influence, but grab a beer while you're at the event. Heck, even a glass of wine does the trick, alcohol is a great way to loosen your inhibitions. In moderation of course, as all things. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meSo? Let her get offended. She sounds like one of those people that want to tell you how to live your life because theirs is so out of control. I don't believe in sugar-coating things for people because that's how we have gotten into a lot of societal problems that we have now. You have your preferences, they have theirs. If you were out there trying to screw sixteen/seventeen-year-olds, then my opinion would be different. But as far as it has been explained, there is nothing out of the ordinary … | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveThat sounds more like you are chasing after the acceptance of a certain crowd. I think everyone goes through that feeling at some point in their youth because it is scientifically documented that the most common experience youth experience is the desire to be accepted by their peers. But the truth is not nearly as bleak. The more you begin to expand your worldview and refine yourself as a person, your tastes will change and you will find yourself surrounded by many women. Rather than being the g… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 06:11 PM |
| 0 | A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected?any normal guy would be offended, yeah. I can't help but sympathize you wanting to confront dude like a man one to one about it, there are far too many low lives like that in this world my dude. Scummy people that gladly fuck you in the ass if you let yourself. Life is too short to hold a grudge but, yeah those feelings are justified. Anyone who says otherwise is lukewarm in their hearts and has very little real conviction. They live on the pleasantries of what ifs instead of what is. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like dating is completely pointless now?A lot of people are going through that struggle so you're not alone in that. It's all temporary because everything in our lives and in this existence is always undergoing constant change. It's perfectly natural to be weary of it all and to start losing hope in some things, but I assure you it is a bodily reaction to the uncertainty of the present. We are sentimental creatures after all. An old eastern philosophy tidbit that I learned in my time is that there is a time to contract and a time to e… | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex?Learn how to love yourself and invest time to improve yourself. People have a great capacity to read people and understand their motives. There are all kinds of people in the world and a portion of them just want to get off as much as they can but the average individual is not just strutting around like a cat in heat looking for their next mistake. The media and all sorts of shysters have had a profound impact on society where they mislead people into thinking that it's all a game of numbers and… | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have dedicated a majority of my adult life to focus on myself and work to develop myself instead of playing that game and it usually rewards me with interesting women coming into my life. It might sound like old and cheesy advice but just being yourself and focusing on bettering yourself is one of the best ways to attract quality individuals. No hate on the people that dedicate their lives to playing the game, but in my personal experience, people that do that are just doing it to fill a huge … | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?you feel free to argue against it all you want, that sounds like a personal thing. But I read about it when I was younger and now that I am reaching the age its becoming clear as to why girls go after older guys. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?i dunno about the rest of these guys but I'm in my thirties now and I don't even have to really say much. The kitty just jumps on my lap all on its own. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I would imagine it has a lot to do with the fact that you are twenty-one. You are still growing and developing into who you are going to be. Who wouldn't like to learn from someone more who is more experienced? Older women are confident in who they are, they have mastered their charisma and charm. It is a completely natural phenomenon. When I was in my late teens and twenties, I was almost exclusively interested in older women because I couldn't stand the childish games from the inexperienced gi… | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:49 AM |
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