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discussionMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 12:27 PM
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social issuesMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 11:06 AM
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legal rightsMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:15 AM
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discussionMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 09:34 AM
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misandryMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 05:50 PM
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social issuesMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 09:04 AM
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legal rightsMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/24 11:36 PM
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progressMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/23 01:34 PM
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social issuesMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/23 03:39 PM
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discussionMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/24 10:55 AM
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articleMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:39 AM
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articleMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 09:33 PM
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progressMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 07:15 PM
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legal rightsMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/25 08:03 AM
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discussionMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 09:33 PM
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misandryMustard_The_Colonel/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/22 10:16 PM
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The man who said his parents disowned him... that just brought tears to my eyes. I would feel more sympathy for him if it wasn't for a fact that he must have been cheating on his partner of 5 years. What was he doing on dating site if he was in 5 year long relationship. But it's horrific that accusation alone caused his parents to disown him without any evidence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/26 03:10 PM
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Harassment is reportable crime. Women feel unsafe with man walking on the same street. That doesn't make it an issue though because walking while male shouldn't be illigal
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 11:47 PM
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It really should. I would agree to suspension while investigation is pending on full pay but once actions are dropped person should be treated as what they are an innocent man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:38 PM
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No you see this actually proves the patriarchy even more! /s but only on this subreddit, because out there someone will 100% claim that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:36 PM
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It is purely because of online discourse. Voilent crime is at all time low accross all western world. I will ask you just one question then on the % scale on any given night what do you think are chances that a woman walking home at night will be victim of crime. Just estimate what do you think in your mind first gut feeling answer that comes to mind
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:34 PM
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She may have a house. I would like that being forced into sale to repay this man loss of income
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 09:40 PM
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Oh so the bad experiences only count if women have them?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 09:37 PM
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The one thing I like about the US, in the US he would be suing the fuck out that woman and getting compensation for this crime. In UK this isn't even a thing. Court should be forcing her to pay him all the lost earnings as result of that and his job should be paying compensation for unlawful dismissal. We need to stop the court of public opinion giving people excuse to punish people who have not been found guilty.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 08:23 PM
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Even over life time statistics are broken. We lump av13 year old boy pinching girl without consent and a 40 year old man forcing himself into intercourse in the same category of sexual assault. If we did that for men then speak to any young guys who bumped into a group of drunk middle age women on hen do and you would have similar stats
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 03:32 PM
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It's insane that is where we are as society
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 03:07 PM
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Sun is shit but let's don't pretend Guardian would write about it. I have no reason to doubt this woman is facing court there are multiple outlets reporting it. This isn't opinion piece.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 03:06 PM
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Also fucking 12 cops raiding your house must be insane. I can't imagine even having 12 people in a flat who aren't trying to wrestle you to the floor. He could easily be arrested distinctly considering amount of the impact this will have on his life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 01:40 PM
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The issue is that it didn't even go to court in a lot of cases. Just the act of being accused ruined those guys life even when no further action was seen as necessary. I think it also comes from the fact that we conditioned society to believe that every man is a rapist waiting to happen given opportunity where other crimes aren't seen as such. So if someone accuses a man of stealing people can say "I don't believe John would every steal anything, he doesn't have it in him" but when John is accus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:25 AM
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Further on even issues that affect men are framed as gendered for women's sake we all remember the infamous "Women are primarily victims of war, they lose their fathers, husbands and sons" but also even "1 in 5 homeless person is a woman stop the homelessness now" campaign. Or "There has been industrial accident, 300 people have died including 30 women and children" reporting by media. If something affects men more can still be phrased as women issue if there is enough women victims even if ther…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:24 AM
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On some other subreddit majority of coments focus of course on how unfair it is to women victim of rape and how it may affect them potentially rather than how it very real affected men who she accused
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:19 AM
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We have stopped some screening for prostate cancer in UK recently. Imagine the out cry if we stopped screening for cervical cancer
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:18 AM
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Perception of threat is insane ask random woman what are chances she will be attacked and she will likely place it at well over 20% which of course is insanity because she left a house more than 5 times in her life without being attacked
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:13 AM
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Some of those are over exaggerated I have been previously called a creep for "following" the woman. It happens that 20 min walk to my house shared 18 min path that she also used to go to her house. According to some I would argue a lot of people on the left I should have waited for her to leave before I walked home. This is crazy because I wasn't making her uncomfortable I was just walking home. If my mundane behaviour of walking home after work makes someone uncomfortable it is on them not me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:11 AM
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That makes zero sense. If women are murdered less tgey should be scared less not more
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 10:06 AM
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Every time I hear this comment I want to laugh. Are you suggesting some state enforced rape at the end of war effort? If there is 1 man and per 3 women it means 2 women most of the time will be childless. So what your comment is suggesting is that at the end of the war 2 out of 3 women are forcefully impregnated
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/26 11:21 PM
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because there do not exist any charities that help men only. There do but very few. Andy's Man Club is one example. Issue is that not only few charities exist but when they do they are actively protested against. https://www.foxnews.com/media/brooklyn-residents-protest-proposed-men-only-homeless-shelter-neighborhood-going-war
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/25 10:39 PM
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The general definition of patriarchy in most dictionaries is "a family system where the father is in charge." If that system existed it would be logical to assume divorce laws would favour fathers, child custody would favor fathers etc it doesn't. Nothing in modern western life favors fathers over mother's. System you describe doesn't exists and have not existed in centuries and even then only among noble houses
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 06:55 PM
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What is that? Cornerstone of moder femins movement is that all society issues are because of patriarchy which they describe as system designed by men for men that oppresses women. You may as well try to debate astronomy with flat earthers. Most women that i know who support equal rights will sell describe themselves as not feminists. Because they recognise that movement that was once positive e got hijacked by nutters and cranked up to 11. Any movement taken to extreme is harmful. Opposite of cr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 06:52 PM
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Agreed I have seen that so many times with different charities. Even when working in mental health so many campaigns to stop male suicide come from "women loose fathers, brothers, and husbands" like stopping someone killing themselves isn't good enough reason. You never see that the other way round.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 02:31 PM
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This is so true my relationship with kids mum ended because she decided that she doesn't really feel in love any more. Which I get we grew apart over the course of relationship but she put zero effort in fixing things and when I tried to fix things I was "fixing them wrong" but she wouldn't communicate. Over timer relationship grew into resentment and she is acting like some irreparable harm was done to her even though I would put reasons for split to be about 70/30% with 70% being her fault. I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 02:28 PM
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My dude you need professional help. Please do yourself a favour and get it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 01:51 PM
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Some do, some don't.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 01:47 PM
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Your suggestion will create motherless problem which is also stupid
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 01:30 PM
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Because it is stupid opinion best outcomes for children are both parents involved so neither should get custody it should be split 50/50 by default
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 01:28 PM
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Some very left wing people have some shockingly far right views when it comes to groups they hate. Shocking amount of people who normally advocate for human rights was hoping Tate brothers get raped in prison. Like you can agree that Tate brothers are vile human being want to see justice without needing to give up all your moral principles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 10:20 AM
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I am very involved dad in my kids life I have them 50/50 but if I don't drive to pick them up she won't drop them off. If I do the same police would be knocking my door down within 30 min of drop off time. We don't have the same rights. Mother rights to have kids is God's given, fathers right needs to be faught for often lengthy, costly battle. My Uncle was in this situation he had child from previous marriage, 2 years after divorce she moved abroad took a kids with her didn't share address he h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 09:16 AM
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The default should be you have kids every other week UNLESS court say otherwise not waiting for court to give you permission to see your kids. That should be your default right until taken away. The wai it is now is backwards
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/25 10:28 AM
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That would make more sense. Yes that would be true
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/25 06:51 AM
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I will call BS. 83% of mothers are single mothers. Like for real only 2 out of 20 mothers are in relationship with kids dad, have kids dad involved in child life or haven't started relationship post break up?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/25 11:25 PM
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It extends to white races too. Issue people her with Poles, Romanians, Lithuanian working in the UK is primarily with men. Foreign women experience much less racism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/25 11:58 AM
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UK isn't exception you just hear about it more because news is in English
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 08:44 PM
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No but I'm also not okay to with my son dying. I would be fucking devastated the fact you are not upset is shocking to me. If we had to draft in 8 years when my son is 18 I would 100% volunteer in his place if that was on option. The fact that you are so casually okay with it is baffling
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 01:52 PM
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I mean the idea that you still okay with your son dying makes you bad father in my opinion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 11:52 AM
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Sadly I have to agree with you. In general Im pro equal rights, but truth to tell, I dont want my daughters to be drafted and sent to die in frontlines when Russia invades. You okay with your sons being drafted and send to die thought that is mental
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 06:42 AM
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Why even discuss something that is obviously outrage bulshit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 06:29 AM
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As I said 2 things can be true in people's mind. If I belived there is 20% chance of death I would only leave house for absolute life and death scenarios and nothing else. People are just insane she both knew that it was crap and believed it wholeheartedly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 11:49 PM
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I think this is the main thing at work here. It's part of the broader phenomenon of exaggerated "stranger danger." The media makes violent crime seem more widespread than it actually is, creating a discrepancy between people's perception and the actual crime rate. Ask any woman what is a chance she will be murdered walking down the street. Anyone who says numbers bigger than 0.0001% is delusional. I guarantee that you will get a number between 5% to as much as 50%. People in general are shit at …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 10:51 PM
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The only rule that should apply here is "If it's not creepy to do by a woman it isn't creepy to do by a man". If it's okay for a woman not to cross the road it's okay for a man not to cross either. If it would be creepy for a woman to walk 2 feet behind someone on large empty street for no reason it's creepy for a guy. Unless it's okay for a woman to walk so close then it's also okay for a man. I don't care but just wish people stood consistent with their rules. Creepiness of a behaviour should …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 06:16 PM
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Can we stop telling people that street is dangerous place and simultaneously ask them to not pay attention to surrounding and take out £1000+ easy to still phone and make themselves a target. 101 of street smarts is do not show you have anything worth robbing We also seriously don't need to tell people to keep their pants on do you think that a guy who flashes his dick does it because he doesn't know it's not okay? All those rules added specifically add to anxiety people have. People know the fl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 03:48 PM
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If there was only some way for them to have conversations with men like starting it first.. Women are finding that risking rejection isn't pleasant and are unwilling to try it. Bigger issue is that "worst she can say is no" is bulshit. Worst she can do is accuse you of being a creep harassing her, get police involved and ruin your life. The risk to reward ratio isn't in their favour here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/25 10:44 AM
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Anecdote not Antidote even though some of it is indeed poison. My example is there was woman at my old work who was a senior staff member who was hitting on this new guy who was very blunt and told her he wasn't interested and she isn't his type. He wasn't rude he just said that exact words as she was trying to flirt in public. He left work to find "gay" written with chalk all over his car. Culprit was never found but it's not rocket science to figure out who it was.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 09:27 PM
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I voted for left-wing as socialist pro worker.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 09:22 PM
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I love that subreddit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 09:08 PM
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Feminist have swing so far left that they ended up spin that dial all the way to far right when it comes to men issues. If you replace "men" with "immigrants" you wouldn't be able to distinguish arguments between 2 groups.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 05:54 PM
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I am 40 year old and I still think of one and only time when my father slapped my mother when I was 8 year old. They had argument late at night I don't know what it was about but I remember my father saying "They are as much my children as they are yours I should be able to decide" to which my mother replied "Are you sure?". To this day 32 to years later I think about this argument. For the rest of my life that she have put a doubt in my mind and in my father life if he is my real father. I hate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 05:52 PM
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Who Labour?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 05:42 PM
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Most of the sub recognises that capitalism is the source of difficulties for men. Most of the sub recognises that people should be treated equally, that human rights are important and should be protected. Sub is friendly to LGBTQ+ community. Most of the sub supports the left leaning policies such as unionisation, worker protections, free healthcare publicly owned services. Focus of the sub is discussing men's rights and activism for men. When discussing broader politics people go to broader subr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/25 10:13 AM
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I will answer both of your questions. Focus on use of female is because it is commonly used in circles that don't tend to align well with the left wing. Primary by right wing edge lords and incels. If we want to have a conversation we need to use language that is inducing to the conversation. The only logical reason to why I can see you insist on using term females to describe women after it has been pointed out to you that most women find it offensive is to offend not to spark conversation. If …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/25 01:23 AM
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We can say women we don't need to say females because noone actually speaks like this and they don't like it so why sound like incel. But I agree circumcision is wrong unless done for medical reasons and should be treated as equivalent to FGM. I come from a country where circumcision doesn't really happen at all outside of medical need so US obsession with it is wierd to me as hell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/25 07:21 PM
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The best part is that guy whole channel is rightly criticising current president and congress to then somehow claim that it is privilege that he has current president.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 09:52 PM
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Issue with all those thing is there is male privilege just like there is female privilege we benefit in society in some spaces and lose out in others For example 64% of domestic homicide are women but but 78.4% of all homicide are men. Even if you go by "we get murdered more" it's actually not true because men on average are more likely to be murdered than women. 90% of all deaths at work are men 80% of all deaths by suicide are men. Just because you loose out somewhere it doesn't mean you don't…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 09:49 PM
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This is common. Prevent the guy from doing any work, complain he isn't doing work. My ex was like this with house works. We had arguments because I stacked dishwasher wrong. Eventually I decided if we going to argue anyway I may as well not bother and have day to myself
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/25 08:40 PM
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Op is right wing lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 10:54 AM
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Can we not lie. US aid was used to support healthcare, education and agriculture. It was used to provide medication to HIV positive kids, it was used to provide vaccines and perinatal care and nutrition to new-borns, it was used provide education to kids and improve agriculture and food output. Musk is not men's hero.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 10:53 AM
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>It is a false narrative, that you extremists claim Extremist claim that we should encourage society to support men. Get out of here my man >As a centrist At least be honest who you are, name 5 left wing policies you support as centrist or stop lying who you are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 10:49 AM
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The fact that every conservative policy is harming 90% of society which includes majority of men who are not millionaires. Opposing worker rights hurts men the most, opposing free healthcare hurts men the most as they already have poorest health outcomes, supporting stereotypical gender roles hurts men because it reduces their choices. Cutting checks in police brutality hurts men the most as they are primary victims of it. Supporting Russian dictator taking over foreign country hurts men in that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 10:46 AM
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I am aware hence why I illustrate that both left "fight patriarchy" and right "pull yourself" are equally useless solutions to actual problem that is far more complex than this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 10:41 AM
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if we could have this discussion without putting things in other mouth that would be great. No one say we have no power but we can recognise that 2 things may be true. Society has huge impact on men wellbeing and needs changing and men can do some work to improve their own wellbeing. I am low intensity CBT therapist who works with people with mental health problems. It is well establish that yes people need to put work to improve their mental health and social situation but if they have support …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 10:35 AM
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Pull yourself is the most dismissing sentence you can say it's basically saying the same what left is saying "it is your fault you are in position you are so sort your shit out". It doesn't acknowledge any wider societal impact on male mental, social, and physical health. Big complex problems require big complex solution. The biggest lie populist sold to people is that there is "3 tricks successful people don't want you to know number 2 will SHOCK your" and you can solve complex social issues wi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 10:31 AM
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I think we agree here. Video was overall good balance take, if she was open to changing the term into more accurate one I would agree with her 100%. I don't know what the solution is to be honest. It may be that society needs to go through some sort of burn out phase where nothing happens at all between people before next generations start living normal lives. Gen Z are less likely to have sex, date etc than millennials have been when they were the same age. I think if that is allowed to happen …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 07:03 PM
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But that is not what the term means. It is nor first instinctive thought anyone have upon hearing "rape culture" why use the term that is not accurate, self explanatory or helpful to discuss this issue? Use "sexualised culture" instead and everyone will agree with you. Even something as "sexual conquest culture" would be more accurate than rape culture. There is million terms that could be used for this discourse that would be much more productive than rape culture so why insist on using it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 06:48 PM
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100% agree here. If you need 1 A4 page essay to explain what you mean the term is not intuitive. I don't think anyone would contest that we have hyper sexualised culture in western societies that can lead to pressure to have sex on people who don't want to have sex to fit with those social norms. But we definitely don't have have rape culture. It is nor normalized. "Me and the lads are out to the pub to rape some women" is not normal sentence you can say to anyone without police knocking on your…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 06:28 PM
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Pretty much what u/BandageBandolier have said if we use terms as Rape Culture we imply that rape is culturally acceptable. We can try to play games and change definitions but words have meanings and ignoring those meanings is stupid. What is first thing that comes to mind to anyone who hears things like: Throw away culture is a culture that promotes use of single use items and that it's socially acceptable to do that. Hustle culture - culture in which hustling is encouraged and we celebrate peop…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 06:24 PM
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He wanted to turn this place into tinmen fan subreddit where he is in charge. I like his content but man is a bit of a dick
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/24 07:19 PM
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If you are into any hobby, be it cycling, table top gaming, PC gaming you see it every day. The amount of men who need to lie, in order to be able to spend their own money is insane.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/24 12:29 AM
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Again no one is blaming men's issues ONLY on hypermasculinty. Hypermasculinty is part of a problem, not the biggest part but still part. You have chosen some strange hill to die on but hey you do you my man. However you are starting to look progressively more and more silly with this argument so in order to save you embarrassment this is where I will end it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 11:30 PM
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Sadly this is also not uncommon argument. Also usually from the right side of political spectrum.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 11:17 PM
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Because they are the cancer. Just like Tate is a cancer. People still have responsibility for their own behaviour. Joe, Tate, Elon and the lot are the cancer on today's society. They are not the root off all evil but they are definitely not helping it. Acting like somehow poor multimillionaire Joe is a victim in all that is rather silly. He benefits greatly from that system and contributes to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 11:16 PM
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>Blaming "hypermasculine men", let alone calling them a cancer is radfem behavior. You stated that Blaming Joe for not caring is radical feminism behaviour. It is not. I can blame multimillionaire Joe Rogan for not caring about about men and dismissing sexual abuse on men while also understand that issue is much deeper than Joe or self proclaimed alphas. They are part of a problem but not all of the problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 11:13 PM
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Both can be blamed. Hyper masculine men existed years ahead of modern feminism. It is fine we can both acknowledge that society in general doesn't care about me. But also acknowledge that neither does Joe Rogan.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 10:59 PM
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In my experience every republican is pro-statism when state does what they want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 10:26 PM
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Mate my dude you are defending a man who said victim of podophile should be grateful. People like this yes are indeed a cancer. The hyper masculine men are among the people who undermine male issues and female agency to the extent that society accepts this unacceptable predatory behaviour from women and think boys should accept it or even be grateful for it. As seen on the above video...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 10:23 PM
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That is true. But it is much harder to fight for the causes when certain groups support them and make them their whole personality. When you muddy the waters too much it is really hard to separate opinion from the group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 10:20 PM
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I get that yes, I am not opposed to have the conversation with opposite site that is the only way change happens, but Joe definitely at this point smells his own farts at this point. A lot of moderate right wingers went full nuts since Trump. Other example would be Jocko Willink who was obsessed with extreme ownership and accountability yet refuses to call out Trump on anything that he does. Hardly any right-winger at this point is able to be critical of their own.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 10:12 PM
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I like his populism no further questions... I actually blame the left for Joe, Tulsi, etc..., turn rightwards, cancelling folks Yes, Joe Rogan number one podcast in a whole world with nearly 200 million downloads a month is the very very definition of cancelled... I understand now though that yes you would like Joe Rogan.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 10:06 PM
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Of course he doesn't because in his mind if she wasn't attractive man wouldn't have sex with her hence not a rape. Which of course isn't true at all because that is not how grooming works.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 07:39 PM
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Out of curiosity what do you exactly like about Joe Rogan
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 07:34 PM
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The biggest part of this whole discussion is when she asks "would you be comfortable with a kids seeing 35 year old women" and his argument is "if she is hot". It's literally "it wasn't a rape because she was attractive" so if she was ugly it would be what a idiotic frame of mind to have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 07:31 PM
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We are not but it's good to talk about this because in a lot of more right leaning circles people like Rogan will be celebrated as something positive to happen to men when in fact he is horrible human being and net negative for men in the world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 07:29 PM
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Plus speaking for all men "Man is going to be okay" what all 100% of the men who have been in this situation will be okay? That is idiotic statement. There will be girls who are 15 having sex with 20 year old man who also will be okay we would never use that as a reason for arguing why this is okay for all the women to experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 07:25 PM
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TIL, will be linking that from now on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/24 01:22 PM
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My rule is what I call a Nazi test. Replace men with Jew if it reads like a chapter of Mein kampf it probably needs a big step back
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/24 09:16 PM
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You are talking about the rumoured of needle spiking where someone made it out that people jab you with a needle to inject. This is extremely rare to none existent drink spiking is however a nightmare plague on nights out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/24 09:34 PM
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It isn't gendered but when campaign is 100% focus on women resources aren't spend proportionally to the need. For example we are investing in bar staff training on keeping women safe while ignoring same for keeping men safe. Where is should be just spend to all people at risk of spiking to be kept safe. If resource allocation doesn't match demand then the those policies become gendered in practice while being ungendered by law
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/24 01:14 PM
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Any positive movement cranked up to 11 results in caricature of itself. Feminism is positive but taken to extreme gives you what we have. Patriotism is positive taken to extreme gives you nationalism Equal rights for all is positive, taken to extreme gives you affirmative action and racism by supporting minorities to the point where non-minnorities are discriminated Etc. I'm with you though we spends so much attention on things that affect such a tiny number of people where focus on wealth inequ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/24 11:19 AM
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Let's not prise the right too much shall we margaret thatcher the milk snatcher did massive harm to British Society that impact of we still feel now. The right did definitely not follow what people wanted in the 1990s. Britain under Blair has been arguably more patriotic, more united and more hopeful that under previous conservative goverments and governments that followed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/24 09:37 AM
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School seem to follow the rule doesn't matter who started it. Which is idiotic because of course it fucking matters who started it. That's exactly how it works in adult life. If you get assaulted, and defend yourself who started it is the most important information court will want to know
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/24 08:46 AM
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My theory is that probably 70% of all mental health is resulting from parents not knowing how to parent and schools not addressing issues before they escalate
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 05:09 PM
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We in CBT often talk about "unhelpful behaviour" or "safety behaviour". It is behaviour you learned to cope with difficult situation that worked in that scenario but if you carry it on to other scenarios it doesn't work well for you. For example: Your parents always punished you for the smallest of errors, in order to cope you learned to never admit fault and become very good lier. It helped you survive abusive childhood but it doesn't work well for you to form meaningful relationships in adult …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 01:24 PM
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Woke is the right wing equivalent of left wing incel it just means person I disagree with it lost all it's meaning
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/24 04:41 PM
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I pride myself on being banned from ukpolitics for being left wing nut job, when I called someone who advocated shooting at the immigrants boats a terrorist. I also am band from unitedkingdom subreddit for being right wing sexist for stating the fact that women being afraid of men is their problem to resolve and we can't pander to people's delusional views
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/24 04:39 PM
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Interesting observation tho look how this hot man from diet coke looks like a normal dude you could meet in real life. Where adverts now will show you jacked, steroid pumped and dangerously dehydrated movie star. So while men were objectified since sexual revolution started only not that long ago we started to crank it up to 11 with unrealistic body images for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 07:44 PM
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I think difference between then and now is that 20 years ago it was "Poor Sally I hope she leaves him what a knobhead she deserves better than that" and now is "What a monster I am calling police". That is the biggest cultural difference I have seen that people are willing to report things more over my 40 years of life. I remember when I was 12/13 everyone knew that my neighbour was hitting his wife she had bruises, I have seen her cry in my mums kitchen many times. But despite the arguments tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 07:37 PM
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I would say go see how it is. Patient I supported to this appointment also was anxious as hell bit towards the end he was chatting away
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 05:14 PM
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It was not normal but it wasn't challenged as often. We all knew the neighbours who beat their wife back in 90s early 2000s everyone thought he was a knob for doing so but also everyone thought it was for them to sort out between them and people shouldn't get involved. 20 years later people would call police, back then likely they wouldn't but also wouldn't be friends with them either
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 03:37 PM
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I agree teaching boys what is acceptable and what isn't is vital. Many probably seen those interactions from their mum to dad so they assume that is what relationships look like
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 11:59 AM
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Initiating sex with a sleeping partner when you either have a solid relationship where you know that's ok or you've already been getting busy that same night is fine, IMO. I think there is difference between initiating and streight PIV situation. Unless partner Saif "Babe I would love to be woken up like this" it's a really huge leap from we had sex last night yo this is okay
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 11:30 AM
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Also you would still be responsible for paying childcare should she get pregnant that is how fucked up the law is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 11:28 AM
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Want to see abusive relationships go to ant Warhammer store and watch all the men bending in knots trying to convince their wife/girlfriend to let them buy something. 1000s of men are financially abused by their partners. So many guys are controlled speak to any guy who can't meet you because wife won't let him. Those things are commonly accepted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 07:46 PM
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What's wrong with that? I only keep people in my life who are positive impact on it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 11:49 AM
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It was good. So Andy's man club os all about peer support. There is 10 guys per room, the lead passes football around if it gets to you you can speak or pass it along. They always start with 3 questions: 1 something positive 2 something of your chest 3 how was your week Then there is break tea,coffee biscuits and guys will mingle around. And they meet back the 2nd hour of the meeting is always different discussion so it's hard to tell you what it can be. They have couple of ground rules: no reli…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 11:48 AM
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What country are you based in?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 11:03 AM
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I see that "Let's talk about positive" flew out of the window for many in this thread...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 09:34 AM
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Then block those people why have them in your life
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 09:32 AM
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I don't think patriarchy is a solution, but if we lived in patriarchy the way feminists describe it men wouldn't hurt because of that system
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 06:32 AM
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That is not definition that is commonly used. You cannot just chose the well established word means something else. For example, if a man is considered more able to do something, he is also expected to do it more. Your own definition doesn't say that anywhere. It says if man is considered to do something better he will be valued more
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 11:57 PM
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all of those downotes just confirming this. youre just biased and dont want to see the truth People disagreeing with me is evidence I am right is sure as fuck way to live in echo chamber
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 09:06 PM
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Nothing on that list is related to patriarchy. What is even patriarchy at this point if it covers everything?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 09:05 PM
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In my mind, I separate feminism from feminists quite a bit. The concept of feminism has and will help men. Patriarchy definitely hurts men as well as women. That's like saying Natzism hurts Natzis too. Being rich hurt rich too etc. It really doesn't. System designed from ground us to support one group isn't going to hurt said group. We don't live in patriarchy that is why men hurt too. If we did they wouldn't hurt.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 09:04 PM
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Conscription Reporting victims of disaster as "women and children" being seperate category. Parental leave not being even. Child automatically belongs to mum in many countries until court says otherwise. Many countries still have different retirement age for women and men with women getting better deal while also living longer. Multiple 100 of positive discrimination programs like women only groups, women only gym classes or swimming hours meaning women get more of gym access for the same price.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 08:59 PM
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I know, people like you don't think that matters but it does. It's going to be hard to discuss if you going to claim you can read my mind and know what I think matters what doesn't. So refrain from doing that please. The issue is you have no solutions just complains. I get dude you go home horney and alone and that sucks but what practical steps do you suggest we take not on individual level but systematically to resolve this issue for men in general. So far you have suggested nothing and are al…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 09:36 PM
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The plan doesn't ignore sex and daring. Just the fact that Billy no mates with no hobbies, no interests no social life is not exactly dating material. Dating comes after that not before that. I work professionally with people with depression first thing we do is rebuilding slowly their social circles and life and that leads to more enjoyment, less feeling of loneliness and as byproduct leads to better dating life. It's hard as fuck to meet anyone when you don't go anywhere and have no friends wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 08:53 PM
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A man with a healthy sex life, who has a decent job feels like a success. That guy want to hang out with other guys, male friendships and community come as a result of that. I would argue the opposite. Man with healthy social life, solid comunity and decent job will have no problem finding life partner. I think you are confusing cause and effect. Plus your solution is not actionable. While we can create communities, we can't give every guy a state issued girlfriend. Like what practical steps wou…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 08:21 PM
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Could it be that both are true. Most men want relationship like most people. But problem is more complex than men don't have girlfriends.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 06:23 PM
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I can imagine it would help. Doubt that line would help. "Can I be your friend" is not something I have heard since I left nursery. Men having more friends is always good. Just questioning the approach :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 06:20 PM
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I think large portion of fear of night comes from us pushing down believe that strangers are a risk to us over family. Both men and women are significantly more at risk from people they know and trust than from stranger but it is much harder to stomach. Women's friend, boyfriend or co-worker is far more likely to assault her than random dude walking home in a middle of a night. This is hard to stomach and also hard to stop so we focus on stranger danger. There is also there is also Missing white…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 05:49 PM
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That is the weirdest sentence I have heard to be honest lol if so someone approached me like this I would stay away
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 01:54 PM
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Rebuilding youth clubs would be good start here in the UK 15 years of Tories have absolutely gutted the support for young people. In NHS we have started to use very successfully peer support workers. Those are people who experienced episode of mental health problems recovered and are now working sharing their experiences with others who are currently going through similar problems. Introduction of peer support in schools wouldn't be bad idea. Men who suffered with loneliness as boys figured out …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 11:19 AM
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It's more than feeling vain. The plague of juiced up influences selling to young men unachievable without pharmaceutical help body physique is a real problem. Demographic of what would be your typical eating disorder patient is rapidly changing. It should be recognised as real problem for boys rather than another reason to bash them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 03:30 PM
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Men are put under huge pressure to reach unachievable body standards, often falling into eating disorders. Women most affected...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 02:59 PM
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We did it reddit! But seriously the fact it wasn't banned sooner was absolutely crazy. Every one of those women should be reported to police for child abuse. Reddit should pass the whole archived version with IP addresses of everyone who posted there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 02:54 PM
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You continue to accuse me of things I haven't done haven't said. I think we are done here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 05:05 PM
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If you can show me where I worship abusive therapist I will apologise, my advice to change therapist if they aren't working isn't worshiping, my advice on need to be person centred isn't worshipping. On the other hand your angry outburst are a bit silly. Subreddit isn't evidence. It's anecdotes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 04:43 PM
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Incredibly hard time =/= abusive therapist does it? How many classes did you have on mens issues or treating men? How many classes did I have on female issues treating women? Also 0. I had classes on treating specific conditions not specific genders
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 04:39 PM
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Stop lying to people because it makes you feel better about the dumpster fire of a profession that you're in. That we are in. I chose not to be a therapist because of this. Please stop lying to people. Evidence or GTFO if you going to accuse me of lying
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 03:27 PM
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Some not a lot. If you look at downvotes, up votes ratios at least her you will see the radical views being pushed down
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 12:53 PM
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One of the most shocking part of article is Mr Malkinson fought for 20 years to prove he was innocent of the rape of a Salford mother-of-two, who cannot be named for legal reasons. Woman can falsely accuse this guy whose name has been made public for years and can't be legally named for doing so. Other shocking thing is He could have been released after six and a half years if he had given a false confession - something he has said he was never willing to do. Coercive as fuck.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:42 AM
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Some of the most progressive circles I know hold shockingly conservative views when it comes to groups they dislike.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:36 AM
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Take a huge step back my mate and then take another dozen of those. Simping, Miss thing, her sisters, you talk in memes rather than showing any sort of rational thoughts. Imagine thinking that somehow promoting more conflict between genders is of any benefit to anyone. Imagine thinking this is more marketable. Have a long break from the internet interact with people in real life, come back in month or 2.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:32 AM
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As a therapist. Find a better one. This is not issue with all therapist but it definitely issue with quite a few. There is nothing wrong with changing therapist. Relationship with therapist is bigger indicator of it being effective than anything else. I also champion the idea that we are not person centred when it comes to men. We wouldn't tell any other individual that their problem is society. That doesn't help. In individual therapy we focus on individual experience. Unless you address person…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:27 AM
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We can’t pay them in kind! We need to be better than that. Especially that we know this is losing strategy in a first place. It is our best interest to be welcoming to people who want to change opinion. Demanding purity of thought is what causes pushback for feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:17 AM
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She started her channel 4 months ago, it's one of videos that consistently promote her new view point. If you just take the tiniest step back and look at bigger picture you would see it. Even if people change their mind after election. Like what does she has to gain from from it. She is therapist well paid job, I guarantee you that by making her videos she is potentially jeopardising her career growth more than she is helping it. She has zero gains from those videos.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 10:58 AM
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The backpedaling of these feminists is laughable. They are doing this just because they realize men aren't taking shit anymore. I think this is very unfair statement. If you grew up as a woman you are constantly reinforced the idea of being a victim and men being a threat. If you grew up as a woman who went to university especially in social sciences etc especially so. People change their mind it isn't backpaddling. There is nothing in the entire vide that makes me think she changed her mind bec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 10:30 AM
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Yeah it's bizarre. People who will come to our line of thinking will absolutely come from the groups that were critical of men previously. Shitting on newly converted is the most stupid thing ever. We need to build bridges with those who want to help not push them away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 10:22 AM
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Red pill culture and red pill documentary have any one thing in common name. There is zero red pill massages in the actual documentary.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 08:32 AM
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Thar moves to "if you are upset, then maybe you deserve it, what have you done?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 11:46 PM
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Because of environmental impact and a evidence of it being dangerous. Not many left wing people would oppose someone here in a UK going to shooting range but they would oppose gun ownership. Nothing to do with manliness at all
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 11:40 PM
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For me, it's about promoting equality and inclusion. I believe the majority of men are good people who just want to live their lives and be treated as equal members of society. Unlike the right-wing perspective, I don’t believe there is only one way to "be a man" that everyone needs to adhere to. A man with more stereotypical needs is just as much a man as a gym-going fitness enthusiast. One is not superior to the other. I support many left-wing initiatives, such as expanding welfare, investing …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 09:00 PM
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I will be honest I know very little about Jack Black and Shane Gills activism and what issues they speak about that other men are "afraid to". I dislike phrase "afraid to" because it implies we know what goes in other people's heads and they may not be interested on speaking about. Like I am quite outspoken about men's rights and struggles because this is topic that I am passionate about I speak less about say animal abuse, not because I am afraid to speak about it but because I am more passiona…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 06:32 PM
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I am confused with what you consider traditional masculinity is it just rich men, successful men? And then as counter to that you propose we use other rich successful men like Jack Black, Shane Gillis? I'm really confused here what traits do you imagine traditional masculinity has and what traits should we promote instead
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 06:10 PM
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Aragorn is obviously still very traditionally masculine in appearance and deed, but nontraditional in how he shows respect and honors the wishes of others. You could say he is chivalrous, you know traditional role model since middle ages. There in nothing traditional in being non respectful. The most traditional role taught to boys since I was a child was to look after weaker in society. Can you give me example of what you imagine those patriarchal gender roles are? Like name 5 from say movie hi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 05:29 PM
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gender roles for men are still largely perpetuated by patriarchy and continue to harm men. What does that actually mean? Could you explain that. It's such a vague statement. In practical sense how exactly is Patriarchy forcing those roles on men? I strongly disagree that alt right was able to recruit men because they were not equipped for world in which women are leaders. Alt right recruits because alt left does the best campaign for them by demonising men. Men aren't worried about woman leaders…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 03:30 PM
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It's not the left doing it It's agreed practice by mental health professionals following feedback from people who attempted to end their life and familiesof those who did. You didn't have a problem with it. People who were affected by it on average said that the change in language would be welcomed and make conversations more likely. But I suppose if you wasn't bothered then noone should be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/24 04:00 PM
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Can I suggest one change. Replace commit suicide, with complete suicide or die bu suicide. We are trying to move away from that phrase due to negative blame like language you commit sin, or a crime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/24 01:53 PM
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I was raised centre right. As I understood more that is going on in the world and seen injustice through my late teens early 20s I would say by mid 20s I was centre left, with now being all the way left in my 40s. I cannot see myself shifting the opposite direction. Sadly in my 40s I had to cut off most of my conservative family. As I shifted more left they shifted more right to the extreme that I am unwilling to tolerate in my life. Things like supporting riots in Britain and justifying setting…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 08:45 PM
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Comments don't matter as much. On any platform you can find someone with unhinged take on the situation. What will matter is what actual politicians do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 08:34 PM
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Pretty much in line with what I see in my practice as mental health professional. Addressing some problems makes it more bearable despite still being a bit rubbish. But a bit rubbish is far far better than hateful resentment far right has to offer and self hatred that far left has too offer. There is a middle ground that while not perfect is somewhat good. The solution to do something is better than whatever it is that we do today
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 05:22 PM
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Quite the opposite. I acknowledge that there is several problems men face some can be elevated easier than others. Just because we can't address all of them doesn't mean we shouldn't address some of them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 05:00 PM
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Fun example. I work in mental health. At least once every couple of weeks female patient will refuse seeing me for being a man. Bare in mind we are sat in the room just talking. It's mental health, there is zero physical contact. Male patient declined female psychologist once, that drama was kicking off for 3 weeks with everyone raging about why should we pander to his sexist views. Who is privileged now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 11:25 PM
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I don't think this is a case fully. I think combination of things is at play. Yes women look to date up. But I think there is more to men problems than not getting a date. Complex problems tend to have complex causes and elevating sone of the problems men face, high mortality, poor health, loneliness etc can help without increasing his swipe rate on tinder. Additionally changing narrative would help men feel more open to pursue relationship.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 11:21 PM
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Left could offer solutions. Compassion is already build in the left DNA just for some reason it didn't apply to men. Left could easily advocate for more services, better 3rd spaces, better support, youth clubs, support groups, it could portrait the men as allies worth cherishing and supporting. I think if message change a lot of what Left stands for would be very appealing to men. We just need to include men again not treat them as root cause of all evil
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 10:39 PM
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Maybe there is a hope after all. Maybe this slap down will be good long term for the left. This was shockingly down to earth mini interview and message with zero blame. Some of interesting coments "when you are unemployed, depressed, single living at your parents house in late 20s, do you think conflict in Ukraine or Palestine are your top worries?" Exactly. Let young men feel the left care for them and they will care for others. Majority of young men are exceptional allies, but they started to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 10:16 PM
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Blaming capitalism does not do anything said in left wing subreddit is some of the most bizarre thing I have seen. Are we not by default in support of social support structure that mitigate impact of capitalism and pro distribution of wealth?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 05:44 PM
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I oppose this eugenics approach. We should not have society in which anyone can be too poor to have children. As a left leaning person I believe there should be systems in place to secure people's basic needs with need to procreate included. Blaming poor people for having children they can't afford is looking at world backwards. We should be blaming government, capitalism and society for creating condition in which anyone can be too poor to have children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 05:40 PM
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Rich women aren't in a look out for poor men either whereas men are far more willing to marry down on socioeconomic scale as well. Poor women have less difficulty getting a child than poor men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 05:02 PM
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I 5hink people feel stronger about left because we came to expect right to be shit, it feels like something you can't control while left feels like something you may have influence over. Is it right? No. But you tend to be the most critical of things you are passionate about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 10:45 AM
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If it help you give some hope. In the UK we had to see Labour being handed the biggest slap down in past 100 years to see roles reverse in just 4 years to have a landslide victory and wake up to being a bit more sensible and cut out the crazy. There is hope for you guys too. I just worry that you didn't loos bad enough. If results were 65% to 35% that could definitely wake some people up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 09:42 PM
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Yeah fuck me this is something else. Imagine if any subreddit was obsessed with little girls vaginas people posting there should all be on some sort of a list.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 09:41 PM
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Some interesting snippets "In Finland, the wealthiest women are the least likely to end up childless involuntarily, whereas low-income men are the most likely." "For men, financial uncertainty has a compounding impact on involuntary childlessness. It has been called “the selection effect” by sociologists, where women tend to look for someone of the same social class or above when they choose a partner." "Hadley has interviewed other men in Britain who are childless, not by choice. They also expr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 09:38 PM
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Remind me whose supporters storm capital, wanted to hang vice president and shat on Congress member desk...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 08:23 PM
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Why are you even on left wing subreddit if you hate the leftist. You can leave at any time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 08:20 PM
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The only person throwing tantrums in this whole thread is you...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 02:45 PM
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What i do know is seeing all this footage of toxic democrats raging/crying makes this all worth while Basic your political views on how upset other people gets is rather crappy behaviour as a person don't you think. It always boggles my mind that somehow right wing people take some perverse joy in making others upset. I have seen it so many times. Last time I remember someone complaining about Trump “He’s not hurting the people he needs to be”, it's like in your mind someone needs to suffer for …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 03:16 PM
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His stance on NATO is horrifying to majority of NATO allies. He is not pro worker rights. 91% worker deaths are men, anyone who doesn't make worker rights and safety a priority is putting men at risk. His stance on climate change will put many many lives at risk long term. Trump is as bad outcome for America and the world as it gets.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 12:37 PM
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Trump is a huge security risk to the world both in his stance on climate change, NATO, trade policies etc. Trump is absolute 100% bigger of 2 evils. Anyone who thinks trump will be good for average working man is deluded. He will be fantastic for rich men but your average worker from middle class downwards will be worse of because of Trump any pretending otherwise is silly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 12:34 PM
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That's so very wrong. People fear a female leader not just because they think she's going to be emotional or whatever. But also because we know that she is going to have a natural bias against men. I don't think she was feared by people because of being female leader. She didn't speak to many people outside of white middle class women. Many people who voted her in were still voting against trump not pro Harris where as people voting trump voted for trump not against Harris.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 12:29 PM
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Democrats loss had nothing to do with their position on male issues in the slightest. They lost because Trump energizes the fuck out of dumb people and got them to vote. The vast majority of college educated people voted Harris. The issue is stupid people and Trumps ability to attract them. If stupid people can be easily manipulated then why didn't the intelligent democrats manipulated them into voting. Little kids are pretty dumb any parent can convince them to do what they want. If voters are …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 12:28 PM
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Because as left wing subreddit obviously we agree with left wing views in general. Be it democrats in the USA, Labour in the UK etc. It makes sense to campaign to people you actively vote for and agree with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 12:25 PM
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Don't shy away from supporting LGBT rights, but don't let that messaging take an anti-male slant. This one is difficult, because the right works double-overtime to associate pro-LGBT anything with anti-Male as if they are synonymous. I'm not sure the best way to counter that narrative from a messaging perspective -- but finding the answer to that question would be a campaigning priority. Simple solution would be to give issues as much time as the percentage of voting population. Something like 7…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 12:23 PM
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Agreed every time you are asked to participate in culture war just reply I think that majority of men in our country are caring family people. Small portion of population commit crime that affect law obeying man and women and we will tackle those but I don't think there is a reason to demonise our father's, brothers and friends for crimes they haven't committed. Bam vote winner
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 11:35 AM
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That is true but it wouldn't win the election. We are not there yet. It would be too drastic and radical change in today's climate
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 11:32 AM
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The other thing is as well "forgot to take a pill" is not treated the same as forgetting to put a condom on. Woman who says she is on a pill but isn't should be classed as sexual offender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 11:30 AM
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What happens if 8 months into a loving pregnancy the father dips out? Now she's forced to raise a child on her own adopt or something or have this child literally murdered in my eyes at that time. 8 months? Child murdered? What are you even talking about. Even the most relaxed abortion laws don't allow abortion at 8 months.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 11:27 AM
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Equalise parental rights. No automatic mother having priority. In the event of relationship ending kids are by law default 50-50 split unless stated otherwise by court. Courts should be free for that and there should be stated issue layers supporting with it like you would be given state defence attorney. Equal parental leave. If your partner give birth both men and women should be given equal parental leave by law. Forbid companies from favouritism. If company by law gives 1 year maternity leav…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 09:02 PM
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Honestly I joined this forum to learn about the struggles of men and educate myself to avoid bias as I am a feminist but reading all of this made me realize I won’t learn nothing from y’all because you guys are actually misogynistic! How can you say men have cared for women all this while meanwhile they’ve controlled women’s sexuality, women’s reproductive rights, basic human rights which eventually led to the feminists movement, even though women have a voice now, there are still social methods…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 08:49 PM
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I also strongly agree that in any society prior to modern times in general everyone was screwed acting like somehow average peasant or factory worker had some immense power is just silly. We didn't even have laws to secure weekend. Average man was working every day in jobs with no worker rights or safety laws risking death and injury daily in order to provide for family. He was to tired and too busy to have time to exercise any form of male privilege. Then we had 2 world wars and average man at …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 08:27 PM
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My facebook is full of "this proves men really hate women" we will learn nothing and meet here again on next election shocked why left lost
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:46 PM
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Women aren’t wrong for feeling frustrated about it. None of the woman posting about it on twitter lived through any of this. They are frustrated about things they have not experienced and we have moved on. In order to be affected by not having bank account till the 70s you would need to be around 75 or older today. It isn't grandmas complaining. Nor did 99% of men alive today have any impact on this. It's like blaming random German living today for Nazis crime how is that his fault that 3 genera…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:43 PM
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100% they will double down
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:43 PM
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It is bizzare isn't it, but lessons learnt from this will be that bashing wasn't harsh enough not that left didn't feel welcoming enough for men. I doubt we are at the point where lessons learnt will be beneficial. Social media created environment where nuance is gone and 100% purity is demanded
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:39 PM
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because this shit makes me agitated online anyone talked to me like that would've been very glad of the fact we were already at the hospital. I don't think you help our case my man with coments like this...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 11:09 AM
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Well, the UK is actually one of the countries that prosecutes women for making false rape allegations, although their standard of evidence for that is very high (their standard for prosecuting anyone any man accused of rape is basically that there be someone saying he did it, i.e. as much evidence as exists for ghost sightings). That isn't exactly true as someone who regularly works with victims of rape due to work I do. It is really hard to get The Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) to bring rape …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 09:14 PM
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Also the massive black hole of service for men. I had to find emergency housing for a patient in my little shithole of a town every service in a county was catered to women and children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 02:59 PM
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How is that going to help other than further alienate people and make you look like a twat. If you have argument in professional setting only way to not get in trouble is to be super clean so other side looks crazy if there every is hr meeting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 11:38 AM
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If you want a mental model to understand what happened, imagine a demonic looking creature approached you and gave you air tight logic for why you should murder your child. Perfect logic, you can’t refute any of it. Would you still murder your child? No. What are you even talking about? I'm so confused. We are living in real world any analogies to demonic creatures are just crazy. She wasn't approached by a deamon but by coworker of few years who passed DBS check. As safe men go I am probably in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 12:10 AM
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Yes. In the conduct policy "covertly recording meeting" is listed under example of offence that is classed as gross misconduct. Argument is that you should tell HR that you would like meeting recorded or bring union rep/trusted co-worker as a witness but covertly recording is not allowed. I have attended meetings in the past as witness for people
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 10:04 PM
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I don't tend to start those topics of conversation but when someone starts randomly unprovoked attacking men I will challenge thing. I don't walk around office with crusade but this scenario I felt it was deserved after initial comments about men not deserving support.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 09:45 PM
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I feel their argument is all men are agressive and dangerous men fighting other men proves that in their eyes. Lack of nuance of course is that 99% of men are not violent and agressive and are far more likely to be a victime of a crime than perpetrator of that crime
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 09:41 PM
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Recording meeting without permission is gross dismissal in the NHS
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 09:39 PM
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I used to work in secured high risk mental hospital with people who literally murdered people before. Guess what genders were assigned to looking after the most volatile of patients on the same pay as all the other patients.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 10:54 PM
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To be honest "the unacceptable treatment of some guest" is direct quote from the venue PR team spoke person no one ever will say "yes we discriminated". PR team will always say something like above. Ward discrimination is used 3 times in article.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 10:51 PM
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This is common experience by any man wearing a fancy dress outfit or a kilt. Women can talk about up skirting and I don't dispute it happens but the herds of women that were flogging my Scottish mate on the night out who were determined to grab his dick were insane. If you ever want to be mobbed by the hoard of middle aged drunk women wear a kilt in public to the club.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 10:48 PM
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Agreed. Single man being outcast further contributes to male loneliness epidemy. Not to mention that there is lots of things I just enjoy doing alone. I have some different tastes to my friends and will try things that they wouldn't do with me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 10:45 PM
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Not to mention that we keep talking about male loneliness epidemy and number one advice for men to socialise is "go out to the things you are passionate about meet likeminded people" to then have those men be interrogated. I go alone to many events just to see try new things if they happen to be in my town. I could easily end up at a concert that just happens in my town for a band I have never heard about would I be denied entry for not being a true fan. It was discriminatory and I am glad that …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 10:43 PM
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Read my post history sweetheart before you coment. You can advocate for men rights without believing that somehow 100% women hate us. Just like 100% of men are not violent rapist neither are 100% women agresive managers. Like in day to day I don't believe every woman OP met have been nasty to him. This is simply impossible. Are there women who hate men? Of course but just like men who hate women they are vocal minority. Male advocate subreddit is not women hate subreddit. We can respect women as…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/24 05:20 AM
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When we feel like people hate us we can see it everywhere. I guarantee that you had 100s of non hostile interactions with women but you focus on limited few that were unpleasant. This isn't healthy man. Seriously. If I were you I would spend some time each evening listing all positive interactions with women. We pay attention to what is on our mind. If all on your mind is that women hate you it is all you will see
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/24 10:37 PM
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I believe you but it had nothing to do with you being single as they couldn't have possibly know your relationship status. Your conclusion then that women hate single men based from that experience is really flawed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/24 10:24 PM
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And did you have a word "single" writen on your forehead. How did those women you never met in your life before knew you were single and this was a reason you were judged by them?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/24 10:20 PM
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So I think issue may be in the interpretation. Frankly you don't know what women in the restaurant were thinking. You assume they were negative. I somehow struggle to imagine any woman would look negatively at a man taking his mother out for dinner. I think you overestimate how many women have issues with single men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/24 10:13 PM
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Is that US? I haven't experience that at all in the UK at least not overtly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/24 09:40 PM
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I will save you a read. Men don't understand that feminism is good for them and are more sexist, we need to show them how their behaviour has negative impact on women. As always guardian learns nothing With views like this there is no wonder boys who feel like they have been punished for crims they haven't committed turn to people like Tate who gives illusion of caring
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/24 03:22 PM
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They are experiencing it first hand when they can't apply to school due to quotas or easier exams. When I was applying to be paramedic fitness exam for women was easier than for men. Like what's the logic there will patient become easier to carry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/24 09:53 AM
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Vot for anything else you end up with tory government
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 08:06 PM
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I mean Labour Party is predicted landslide election win it's hardly falling apart but it would be nice if we moderated the loonatics like her
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 07:10 PM
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Lol. After 15 years of Tories wrecking everything in the country you would have to be absolutely to crazy to look at this dumpster fire and think "I want another 5 years of that please"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 07:08 PM
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It wasn't even regular debates, she laughed at dedicating a single day a year on international men day to men issues because according to her every day is man issue day unless issues are specifically about women issues. She is disgusting. I couldn't vote Labour if she was in power
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 07:07 PM
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That is what happened when we demand purity. Any views of oposit party is bad so our views must by 180 degree opposite direction. Left supports abortion right wing opposes it. But then we go extreme right wing needs to be purer so they will propose banning abortion even for victims of rape, left wing needs to be purer so they will want increase age of abortion to extreme. And every issue is like this. Opposite of crazy is still crazy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/24 03:39 PM
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Aka politically homeless there is no party that represents me. Right wing has nothing to offer left wing somehow thinks I'm the problem. Both despise me. My left wing views have me brandished as communist in right wing communities, my support for men right had me seen as alt right rapists defender in left wing comunity. One thing I pride myself on is that I am banned from ukpolitics for my pro male views particularly and banned from Unitedkingdom for calling someone who actually wanted to murder…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/24 03:35 PM
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Surprising if anyone haven't been paying attention turns out group of people vilified by one wing turns towards the other wing. As most left wing person I know I feel politically homeless many men are in the same position. Right wing has nothing of value to society but left wing somehow manages to claim that I 40 year old single dad of 2 who spend 2 decades working in health and social care have some insane power and am the root of all evil
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 04:38 PM
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Thank you will check some I don't know very good list
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/24 04:54 PM
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I wouldn't mind uk links send to me I know a few but always good to have more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/24 12:19 PM
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Because of the frequency. Do all black men commit crime? Do all men rape? No, but women are frequently victims in a way that men generally are not. A non gender comparison is risk of driving versus flying. Either could crash but the car ( man) is more likely to rape and assault me than a strange woman. More likely yes but at the sane time extremely unlikely. You have interactions with 1000s of men over the course of a year. The balance of probably is that you are for more likely to get run over …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/24 06:41 PM
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Yes there will be some that do. Majority will want you asking
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/24 09:51 AM
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Why not about a kiss then? What's the difference? Do you just assume she owns you a kiss? You see how silly both scenarios are. Obviously there is stage between raming your penis inside oh her vagina and "may I kindly as your permission to have sex". It isn’t unusual for a establish couple to start kissing to then have sex without anyone asking about it. If I lay in bed with my girlfriend of 5 years we are kissing hands are wondering it's reasonably to assume we both want sex. This is different …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/24 01:44 AM
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Are you going to ask your wife seriously if you can kiss her every time you leave a house I think that would be wierd
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 10:53 PM
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Not to mention treating is as "adult topic" and making it a taboo that sure as fuck will make your child open up to you if something goes wrong in their relationship...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 10:02 PM
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I don't think boys and girls below age 16-18 should be exposed to such adult topics. Lol. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1417165/australia-average-age-of-young-people-first-experience-with-sexual-practices/ Average reported vaginal sex was at age of 15 but ranged from 14 to 18. I expect there will be also some 13 year old who had sex. If you try to teach them at 18 you are at least 3 years too late often 5 years too late.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 10:00 PM
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If it's followed by "is that okay?" it also asks for consent of other person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 09:56 PM
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I'm skeptical of a non-judgmental approach that doesn't also acknowledge a young man's own personal boundaries and right to "consent", as well as the likely implicit message that he needs to unlearn assumptions that he is presumed to have, despite likely never having learned them in the first place. Especially that we are looking at teaching kids likely of pre sexual age so probably aimed at like 11-12 years old like where would they have those assumptions from even?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 09:21 PM
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Guys are rarely asked for consent but when we are this is also extremely hot. While kissing with the woman I was seeing over a decade ago she said "O my god, you are making me crazy I could fuck your brain out here and now, is that okay?" and it was like the hottest question I have ever been asked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 08:55 PM
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On the other hand when I asked woman while moving my hand in direction of her boobs while we were kissing "Is that okay?" I have been told that she found it super hot that I bother to ask.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 08:49 PM
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Is explicit, verbal consent always possible and attractive? I once asked a girl: shall we kiss? (not even for moral reasons but because I was too shy and scared to act spontaneously) and her response was: sorry, I can’t do it this way, if you had just started I might have gone along. You can ask in much better way that "Miss do I have your permission to have sex with you" Obviously "Shall we kiss" is such an awkward way of asking. "I really want to kiss you right now" "What would you say if we m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 08:35 PM
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Even if you were Mr Olimpia level of fitness. Knife punctures your body all the same if I see someone harrasing people I will call police when it's safe to do so but I'm not jumping to defend anyone
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 06:18 PM
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I think there are times where approaching in the street is fine and times where clearly it isn't. If someone is jogging through the street with their headphones on everything about them tells me they don't want to be approached they communicated that by having headphones on and running. This isn't woman casually walking her dog in a park where you as fellow dog walker can strike a conversation. She is clearly busy just let her train.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 03:09 PM
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In my town we have couple of very troubled people charities located in one spot. Food bank, addict support and homeless shelter and job centre. I have a friend who told me how she gets harassed most days when she goes to town and that this happens all the time. We discussed more about it her trip to town was always pass basically street where every homeless, drunk and drug addicted guy happened to be in his spare time. While not every homeless or drug addict harasses women obviously like hood is…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 12:54 PM
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I agree that by increasing the pressure on men to leave women alone in public, we increase the ratio of negative experiences they have with men versus positive experiences they have with men. What I would like to understand is how those women imagine relationships are formed. If you can't chat up women in public, including socially agreed-upon places such as pubs and clubs, and you can't chat them up at work or school, what are the exact places where men who are not interested in harassing women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 12:47 PM
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You can experience trauma like responses by just hearing or reading about trauma of others. I don't think we are at PTSD level but we have definitely installed some crazy anxiety of normal human interactions. COVID didn't help with people being locked away for months not having normal interactions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 12:30 PM
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Also no one owns you anything but at the same decent guys own us protection by calling out the agressive ones. I can't fight to save my life, I am not Batman to police the streets and dish out justice. If guy calls a girl a bitch in public he already have much higher chance of being agressive dickhead why would I risk my life getting stabbed for a stranger to defend her honour. I am pretty sure my kids would rather see me get home safe than die a hero. She is right women don't own men anything b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 11:40 AM
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Imagine an isolated village of 1000 women and 1000 men. In that village, there are 10 men who will act like this, say, 3 times a week. Over the course of a year, every woman in that village will experience street harassment, despite the fact that 990 men didn't engage in harassment and probably didn't witness it either. This is a problem with posts like this—shared spaces aren't 100% safe. They are 99% safe, meaning that 99% of people you meet will be normal people going about their business. I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 11:25 AM
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I think what is mocked is making your geeky hobby your entire identity. I am a gamer, I play DnD I like superhero movies. Those aren't the only things I talk about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 09:44 PM
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I worked mostly women centric professions as healthcare professional. Anyone who thinks groups of men are bad, should spend a day in office full of women who forgot you are sat with them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 04:26 PM
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Wrong! Wow you definitely convinced me with such a solid argument
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 02:38 PM
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Red pill also tells you that you should manipulate women, that women worth is measured by your desire to fuck her and that women over 30 have no worth as you should only be interested in women under 30 as the most fuckable ones. Red pill is as misogynistic as it gets.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 02:10 PM
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are hardly distinguishable from trad-cons. We all need to stand up to men who harass women is my favourite argument from male feminists. I am not a fucking Batman to walk the streets and fight crime. If someone is prepared to harass women they have already proven that they don't care about a social convention and like hood of them assaulting me is significantly higher than average. It is not my duty to risk my safety for safety of others. If you say that you are immediately called coward for fee…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 02:05 PM
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I'm not a fan of having heated discussions especially at work or in public. Same but I started calling out some of the most stupid sexist views. Had co-worker once come in and say "I had a huge argument with my boyfriend and I am angry at all men I warning you in advance if I am a bitch". I cut that crap very quickly with "If you are a bitch I will report you. I have done nothing wrong and will not be held responsible your couple argument, because that is just sexist shit I won't stand for. I do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 02:01 PM
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Are we going to ignore the fact that for the first 5 seasons Penny is slut shamed in this series? It's like whole BBT needs to be taken with a huge pinch of salt. Role of comedies is to mock things and make fun of things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 01:41 PM
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I agree. It is entirely possible and also very common for people to hold two contradicting views that should exclude themselves yet they can believe in both. I am very left leaning person, majority of people I know are very left leaning people. We strongly believe that prison should be primary focused on rehabilitation like a Nordic model of prisons. When Tate was arrested I have heard the very same people who strongly believe in second chances loudly expressing their view that they hope he gets…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 11:05 AM
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I don't know what confused you, but I've answered everyone else's questions. I will explain. I have posted your post in https://hemingwayapp.com/ and it puts your writing at grade 15. It isn't everyone one reading it but you. Some of your sentences are over 35 words long with multiple points in one sentence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 10:48 AM
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No, but I also don't think conservatives give a toss about improving the quality of life of random man. It's still a lot of "pull yourself up by your bootstraps," aka "clean your room" BS. As someone who professionally works with people with depression, telling individuals who are depressed and struggling to clean their room is as productive as telling them to smile more. Notice that every conservative channel hardly has any positivity; it's either "you are weak, stop being weak" or "look at thi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 10:23 AM
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It's always worth challenging this thinking if you are in a position to do so. The thing is, we lived in systems that oppressed groups of people for years. In Poland under Nazi occupation, anyone who was not a Nazi was seen as feminists describe women in Patriarchy: weak, less capable. What actions does this result in? If a German had a child with a Polish woman before the war, and then the Nazis took over, leading to a childcare dispute, would the Polish woman be seen as motherly and worth look…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/24 08:22 AM
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My favourite is to play stupid. "What does it actually mean I keep hearing it all the time but don't actually understand how it works" They come up with something like "Is system that benefits men and disadvantages women" "Oh I get it so like the system in which if there is dispute in court man has higher chance of winning for example?" You tend to get the struggle from them so it's get rewritten. "No its like system that treats women as weak and men as strong and discriminate against women" "On…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 07:59 PM
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I think it will happen eventually UK has changed both to match
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 07:46 PM
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I have moved out of Poland 20 years ago so only hear what I hear from family, friends and Internet but if it makes you any better. UK is not even hiding the fact that equality is for women. It's called Women's and equality minister here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 07:02 PM
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Logic is just bizarre there isn't it so they already are on average working less and then they retire even sooner.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 06:54 PM
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Goto therapy my dude. Sounds like a lot of happened on your life that is shit. Reddit hot tips aren't going to cut it you need to work with professional to help you unpack all that trama in safe and supportive way. Go to actually therapist though none of that better help crap. All the best
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 06:49 PM
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https://schm.org.pl/ They translated the mane obviously it isn't called in English in Poland
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 03:28 PM
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Article explains it if you read it. It's not good reason but it's explsined
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 03:26 PM
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Corrected thanks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 12:18 PM
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PKP is huge employer so probably that's why it comes up now. And yeah I agree You burn as much as 600kcal if your job is to be a bed tester laid in bed for 8 hours. So it's not too difficult to have a job that burns extra 600 kcal on top of that but it's rather hard to have a job that burns extra 1400 kcal on top of that. If you Have a job in which you walk continuously for 8 hours you burn around 1500-1700 kcal. The 2000 limit is very unrealistic to hit. You need proper physical jobs to get to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 12:20 AM
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It's to comply with the law that dictates that you need to feed your workers if during shift they burn X amount of calories but limits are crazy stupid. Women are set to 1100 while men are set to 2000. That is crazy disparity also doesn't make sense. It makes even less sense because men need more calories a day to exist so if anything you should feed men more as their caloric needs are higher.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 12:01 AM
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Haven't worked with them directly but heard positive opinions. They are support group for male victims of domestic voilence in UK. Fairly positive without being obsessed with women hating but also free from man blaming. They did adverts on male abuse, sorry for telegraph linls but of course it will be hard to find coverage from left wing media https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-health/10858831/Domestic-violence-viral-ad-the-real-difference-between-attacks-on-women-and-attacks-on-men.html M…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 09:34 PM
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It's exaggerated. I like u/NullableThought had seen people warned and banned for sexism towards men. Depends on subreddits.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/24 03:11 PM
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Take anything crank it to 11 and you end up with lunacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 08:19 PM
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100% if agreed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 08:14 PM
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by the sounds of it all of them but white straight male
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 12:17 AM
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I think there is nothing wrong with telling your friend you meeting new person for a date. Many years ago when I was online dating I would still tell my back then housemates that I am going meeting someone at this location wish me luck if I don't come back without texting you please call police because I am likely getting murdered by some catfish. But to turn up at a date with 2nd person would be a good bye from me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 12:17 AM
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What's wrong with Lesbians at a straight bar? Is there even such a thing as straight bars or more of anyone bars? I have have bunch of friends who are gay and lesbian we go to all sorts of bars both regular and those advertised as LGBTQ+ friendly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 11:18 PM
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Here is the paradox with oppressed groups. The moment you make it okay to discriminate against any group that is "not oppressed" that group immediately becomes oppressed making your while point void. I have heard it so many times "It's okay because men are not oppressed" well if you do that they will be so this point is no longer valid second you start doing it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 11:15 PM
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Floor is also discriminatory in 2 ways. It further pushes idea that average man is a creep just waiting to target the lone women while he is not. 2 It is pretty much priority booking for women. If there are 3 floors with 10 rooms each and 1 floor is dedicated to women. It means that women get on average 33% higher chance of finding a hotel room than I do limiting my options to go to places. It is discrimination. By number 1 is my biggest problem the more male free spaces we create the stronger f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 11:09 PM
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Yes obviously goes without saying on this subreddit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 10:50 PM
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A bit harsh but I agree that it is a bit strange to actively look for specific sexual preference people to hang out with. When I am out there I don't think "I really want to hang out with some lesbians today" all I think is "I really want to have a good time with group of nice good people". I think OP has a lot of work to do because he is doing fair bit of stereotyping. Not all gays will be wonderful and not all straights will be horrible. "I really want to befriend some LGBTQ+" is a bit weird s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 10:49 PM
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Different poster but I think my recommendation here would be to not decide your friends on bases on who they are attracted to. Gay, Straight, Trans people are just people. Some will be great some will be not so great. Just by knowing person sexual preferences you know nothing more about person than who they have sex with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 10:46 PM
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Funny that the same people who lose their mind at Trump saying “When Mexico sends its people, they’re not sending their best. They’re not sending you. They’re sending people that have lots of problems, and they’re bringing those problems with them. They’re bringing drugs. They’re bringing crime. They’re rapists. And some, I assume, are good people.” Are the same people who also are saying Mexicans are rapists and we need to protect women from them in Mexico. You can't have it both ways. If you d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 10:41 PM
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On the other hand if you feel excluded from all social spaces I think it's much more on you here. I think some therapy wouldn't help. Majority of social spaces are fairly okay and you can find really good ones that are very accepted of many different personalities. You don't need to avoid all social spaces and try to fit in with other minority groups. This kind of level of social isolation isn't helpful for your overall mental health. I work with people with social anxiety it wouldn't be too har…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 09:59 PM
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Because solution to the women harassment isn't Apartheid but better policing. You cannot pre-emptively treat any man as criminal because crime happens. London has a huge knife violence problem where majority of the people committing those crimes are black. Would you be in favour of white only double decker buses?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 09:41 PM
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With men you can even be officially excluded not just as feels. Gym I was a member off offered women only swimming but my monthly subscription was the same as the woman next to me who clearly could access it for more hours. Hotels do women only floors now. All those actions keep saying "any man is danger" We had conversation at work once was called ashole for not crossing a road when lone woman goes my way at night. Imagine using any of those for any group. Imagine hotel having all white floor, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 09:10 PM
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I agree loneliness is a mindset sometimes. You can be lonely in busy house and you can be very content being alone but not lonely on your own.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 02:30 PM
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He is also overly violent in the ways that are not acceptable in society. Scene in which be beats a random guy for mistreating his dog is not healthy masculinity. Report that to police. Walking around administering "justice" on people around you as you see fit is not healthy masculinity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 02:29 PM
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I expect in their dream women do the work and their only job is to stay at home watch TV and have sex after all they won the war for those women so what else should they do. /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 07:27 PM
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I think some dudes just have a very primitive dream that if there is a war they will be somehow awarded a little harem of women just waiting to have sex with them. It's laughable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 06:44 PM
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Yes Breadfruit comments are. If we don't band LGBT within a year they will start brain washing 12 year old girls into becoming 12 year old boys and that you can just make up your gender whenever you want. He is also hell bend on supporting old party that was heavily conservative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 06:28 PM
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OP is on the fascist and conservative spectrum his post in r/poland is far right bullshit and LGBT hate vitriol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 06:20 PM
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It’s because women have far greater role in repopulating a species. In the event of a disaster, a population comprising a 100 male individuals and a thousand females can multiply a lot faster than the other way around. How do you imagine that working. Make it a law that every man must sleep with 10 women? If they say no forced impregnation? It's such a fucking mental dream of some guys that if somehow there is a war and they are the one who survive they will all each get a haram of 10 women read…
/r/MensRights06/01/24 06:12 PM
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War with Iraq and Afghanistan wasn't at our door steps. Now Europe is potentially seeing war at it's door steps I hear even self proclaimed feminists stating we should bring compulsory military service (for men only of course)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 06:02 PM
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Yeah this argument is always so stupid. It only makes sense if you somehow make it compulsory for women to get pregnant as part of their "duty to repopulate the country" so either every woman of child bearing age is forced to sleep with random men until she get pregnant or we implement some massive invitro program to all women. Both scenarios sound fucking horrific.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 05:58 PM
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10 years ago average feminist was not potentially facing the war where this can be tested. Funny how suddenly when we face life and death scenario that is very much possible to happen we revert into "it's men duty to protect" as part of society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 05:49 PM
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You can repopulate a society with much fewer men than you can with women. Are you advocating for government forced rapes? If not women can choose not to repopulate nation. It's absolute bulshit that if you end up with nation of 1 million men and 5 million women every guy will impregnate 5 women. Unless this is forced upon you will end up with 1 women per man more or less some guy may sleep with more but no you will not end up with any significant number of women being pregnant over 1 million wom…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 05:23 PM
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It was nice knowing you bye ;)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 09:43 AM
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https://m.imdb.com/title/tt0114626/ Polish 1995 film showing custody battle and what absurd power women hold over kids and how they weponise access to children
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 08:53 AM
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Fuck me male privilege on top of that we are done as I said.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 08:44 AM
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This system doesn’t exist in western society any more. 50% of workforce are women. Young women out earn young men Nuance is not warping words to mean different things than what they do
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 05:53 PM
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Plus noone will come to the rescue as a man. Guy assaulting a woman has good chance of someone running to rescue. Guy assaulting a guy is just two men fighting noone will give a fuck
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 05:50 PM
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I think we are done here. If you are incapable of seeing that system which both benefits men and is detrimental ro men is contradictory in existence I don't think you can be helped. Saying patriarchy hurts men to is like saying being billionaire hurts rich people too no it fucking doesn't. Either patriarchy benefits men or whatever it is it isn't patriarchy if it hurts both genders.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 04:41 PM
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it is commonly stated that women cannot walk around at night, as an example But they can. There is no law preventing them from doing so, statistically speaking as well they are safer doing so than a man when you look at assult and murder rates by stranger. No one is preventing them from doing so but themselves. There is nothing they cannot do There are things they may think they cannot do but when you actually break it down they absolutely can. Not feeling comfortable and not being able to are v…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 04:31 PM
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While men have higher agency, they actually have less safety, so that way they can do more things I don't understand what are the things that men can do that women cannot other than urinating standing up?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 03:57 PM
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How is that related to patriarchy the system that benefits and empower men and disempowers women? If you say that it is men who are disempowered? Isn't men being disempowered the exact opposite of Patriarchy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 01:50 PM
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The post you linked to is deleted
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 10:48 AM
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Apart from some insanely abusive relationships, when people say "I have to," they mean "I chose to." My ex was like this. "I have to come home and restack the dishwasher because you always do it wrong." Like no, you don't have to. I am not holding a gun to your head. You added a task to your head. No one will die if you don't do this task you added to your ever-growing list of tasks for no reason. It is always me having to remember to buy Christmas cards for your family. Like no, you don't have …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 08:56 AM
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Nothing that starts with "men need women more than women need men" is worth reading as purpose isn't to understand but to divide and spark gender war
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 09:17 PM
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emotional labor I despise that word so fucking much. No it's called being in relationship as an functioning adult. Relationship isn't some trade agreement. You are not at work you don't provide labour you are investing into relationship. Difference between labour and investment is that labour is a work on behalf of employer while investment is something that benefits you. The idea that listening to your wife for 2 hours is Labour is fucking insane. You are listening to her because you care and t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 09:09 PM
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But that is a very narrow minded view. You can't make conclusions of "men need women more" while ignoring all the ways in which women need men. This is called cherry picking to fit agenda
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 09:01 PM
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You are allowed to have your emotions, you just shouldn't be having them when there are threats to your safety or others around you. Even then you can have them Stoicism isn't lack of emotions it is emotions not controlling you. If you feel anger, sadness, excitement you have power to choose not to act angry, sad or excited. Emotions are there to send the signal to you about something but as stoic you are in charge of making decisions what to do with this signal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 08:59 PM
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So I read about it a bit. I think it's nice. It has less to do with homesexuality and more with segregation from women according to what I read as they don't show affection to women in public. I think it would be good if men could touch each other in the west without it being wierd. With make loneliness epidemic some men haven't been touch by another human in years
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 04:42 AM
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Who else do you hate so much that you dont think their opinions matter? I am in stitches. He uses his right to have opinion just like I and people upvoting it use our right to express our opinion that his opinion is stupid. That is what freedom of speech looks like. Both people disagreeing without either wanting other to lose their right to opinion lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 09:02 PM
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I would be interested I which ones?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 07:50 PM
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Ah yes the well know woke mob the right wing lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 05:07 PM
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You joined the left leaning subreddit of course we think left leaning views are valid and right leaning views are wrong. I have more sympathy for average person than politician. But yes I think that right wing people are just wrong in majority of their right wing opinions
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 05:01 PM
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If you start trying to say "those men can't contribute" you first off chop your support in half Again unable to not forbidden to. I am not chopping support in half because the right wings politicians were not support in a first place Big difference between right leaning randomer and between right leaning politicians. They are not men's friends
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 02:44 PM
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Imagine using cuck as insult in male right subreddit lol especially in topic unrelated in any way to sex lol Proving my point for me. People like you are not the people who can make positive change in men's lives
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 02:42 PM
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"the right can't be a part of this". Can't as in are incapable of, not Can't as in are forbidden to. Big difference. I hope right wing can support men's rights but from my interactions they lack maturity to do so and majority of support is to do it to spite left leaning feminists not because they genuinely care
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 02:17 PM
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But that has very little to do with lefties or righties and more to do with society. Dad being looked at weirdly for kissing his 8 year old is different issue than adult father kissing his adult son here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 01:36 PM
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It doesn't matter. That isn't a topic of discussion. We are discussing if kissing your son on a cheek. Your political bias shouldn't affect if something is okay or not
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 01:35 PM
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What dad kissing a child? I kiss my 8 year old son all the time. I also hug him and tell him how much I love him every day. It saden me that you had never experienced dad being comfortable to show you affection. It clearly damaged your idea of what normal is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/24 12:12 PM
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I was called incel before despite person discussing with me knew already I am father of 2. This word lost the whole meaning. Tate was called incel in the past. Like man is being prosecuted for human traffic domestic abuse on his ex and general sexual abuse he clearly has sex and can't be incel. He is absolute moron and despicable human being but not incel
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/24 04:41 PM
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Not just incels. Small dick complex, angry vergin is a common insult from group of people who claim men are obsessedwith sex. People here are both simultaneously anti shaming people and shaming those they dislike. They also further perpetuate idea that man's value is somehow dependant on getting laid which is hilarious because they also complain about men wanting to have sex
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/24 01:42 PM
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You can't sue if you aren't aware you are being slated behind your back. You would have to join the group as fake woman and actively police it daily for your pictures. You can't sue in advance just in case that isn't how it works either. Best way would be to presure MPS to pressure Facebook to act but majority of MPs don't care enough to bother some probably will actively defend it as a good thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/24 08:58 PM
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For reference London has 80 000 members. Assuming that half of the population are women that is 4 500 000 who are women. Roughly 34% of all those women are between 20 and 50. That makes it likely 1 530 000 women who are around dating age. On average 70% of women that age are in relationship/married So pool of single women at any given time in London is 459 000 with 80 000 members. That means that on average 1 in 6 single women you meet is member of such a group. That is insane. As for leaving da…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/24 06:47 PM
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I vaguely remembered hearing something about the UK's rape laws stating that women cannot be the perpetrator of sexual violence against an adult male They can. They cannot be perpetrator of Rape. It is still appalling but let's not make up things to make them more dramatic. There are 2 things that annoy me about this law. First to any normal person being forced or tricked into sex act is rape. If you asked a person on the street question "What crime is it if woman takes a knife out and threatens…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/24 11:34 AM
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on social media That is the problem as I said. No one does that in real life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/24 11:13 AM
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Do we have examples that actually happen or are we just playing gotcha game. I think we are done here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 10:14 PM
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I don't think there is hard definition. I would consider someone leftist if they have majority of leftist views.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 10:06 PM
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Left and right is a spectrum. If 99% of your opinions align with left wing you are left wing even if you don't align on some. Purity isn't required.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 09:55 PM
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It only takes into account gaps between women and men, so any gains are unaccounted for and comparison of rights within one country to another are unaccounted for, and it only accounts for gender gaps where women are disadvantaged compared to men. That's sounds like UN alright. I can't be bother which study it was from UN but it was something like if in category A women were 30 vs men 70% this was classed as women being disadvantaged and if in category B women were 70 vs men 30 this was classed …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 09:52 PM
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It does. Just like female privilege exists. Man are treated better in some aspects of society that is the privilege of being a man. While women are treated better in other aspects of society that is a privilege of being a woman. The problem is people who use terms like male privilege are unable to recognise that it applies to vet limited and specific situations not entire experience of life
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/23 10:33 AM
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Will be honest in real world outside of twitter term pick-me is unheard off. You guys need to seriously stop purposely going to feminist communities because it does you no good for your mental health. They aren't people that need changing. The general public is. You can have a reasonable conversation with average woman and actually make her more compassionate to male struggles but you can't do that in echo chamber of radical feminism so why do you bother? Touch grass, speak to normal people make…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/23 10:30 AM
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Men should open up about their problems is said by people who also unironically speak about drinking MRA tears. Like you can't tell men to open up about problems and at the same time laugh at men for showing emotions. Men are angry and sexual predators only thinking about sex is often said by people who use virgin or small dick energy as a insult. Those people are not interested in addressing men's problems. Men don't need to talk more about their problems. They more people to be willing to list…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/23 03:48 PM
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In this sense I will agree. Not everyone showing misandrist behaviour is misandrist but we need to be very careful not to validate people's behaviour by being too empathetic. There is a difference in say a woman after break up saying in the office "All men are pigs" and say Jess Philips Labour MP laughing out laud at idea of celebrating international men day and focusing on men's issues that day in parliament. We should not be afraid to call out JP on being misandrist. Just like Trump doesn't ne…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/23 02:55 PM
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I absolutely support what you are saying. Automatically associating a person's character with their attitude is never a good way to frame an issue, or to make them empathize with you. We should point out the misandry in behaviors, not call people misandrists. Isn't that like saying we should call out racism in behaviour not call them racist. If someone drives behind a black man yelling N wards at him it's not good enough to just call his behaviour racist he IS racist. Person posting "Kill all me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/23 12:50 PM
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Things like this will be a testing point for the left. Politics have become so polarised that if one party supports this I wouldn't be shocked if other party opposed it for a sake of not agreeing with the other people. Things like this over years will determine if Labour is capable of capturing the young working men or not. I am Labour supporter myself because this is best time we have to remove Tories. But if somehow Labour opposed this I would seriously consider my support elsewhere. Wouldn't …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/23 09:59 PM
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Regardless if you agree with scholarship or not this is good because finally recognises what we have been saying for years now. Working class boys are neglected and their social mobility is almost non existing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/23 04:23 PM
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Yes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/23 04:18 PM
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If you wonder why here is why but if you are here you probably already know it. White males eligible for free school meals are less likely to go on to higher education than any other groups, according to government data published earlier this year.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/23 01:36 PM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat" - Hillary Clinton.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/23 06:43 PM
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Potentially every role Men are already in that does not require endurance or heavy lifting, including things like operating Heavy equipment and Tank crews can be filled with Women. Even the heavy lifting ones. It's not exactly like there is a strength test before enlistment. I know lots of women who would outrun me and outlifted me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/23 02:39 PM
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Noone is thinking we should stop supporting your war effort. Obviously Ukraine needs all the help it can get and Rusdia should be defeated but the fact that people are forced to do it against their will is wrong. The fact those people come from one gender only is especially a problem. When we discuss men's right. Right not to die in a war should be extra high up there
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/23 11:00 PM
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100% you will be shocked how many woman even mothers I have heard here in Britain saying we should bring conscription back all it tells me that you value life of your son less than life of your daughter. Conscription even in time of war is nothing else than state slavery. I understand that country is at war but if men fighting for this country are not doing it by choice is it even worth fighting for. We often hear about "duty to the country" but if country then decided that woman need to repleni…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/23 09:47 PM
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But he ruled out any proposals to mobilise women. This is very much men issue 500 000 men are being sentence to fight in this horrible war. Russia is 100% at fault here but if this was 500 000 women send to a front line whole world would be stepping in to stop that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/23 08:21 PM
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Men-bashing is quite normal in day by day life. People see it as inoffensive. Since in the popular narrative men are powerful, mocking them is seen as "punching up". It is. Situation at work. Woman had argument with her husband comes to office says "All men are Pigs, sorry Mustard_The_Colonel but I am just angry with all men today" imagine if this conversation was me walking to the office saying "All women are sluts, sorry Jane I am just pissed of with all woman today". You can't even challenge …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 07:37 PM
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Calm down you are sat on 25 upvotes Reddit karma doesn't matter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 07:34 PM
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You should be able to find some who would try to fix some men's rights issues. My experience is that people who do will be either absolutely sexist far right wingers, who will immediately make everyone on the left oppose the issue just because they are supporting it because they will mix it up with like 8 different repulsive things they do. If they come from the left they will try to do it by educating men "to be better" rather than actually addressing issues. It will be "men need to talk more" …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 01:25 PM
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No one is afraid to call anything gay apart of things that are not gay. hugging or kissing your friend as sign of affection isn't gay. There is no discussion to be had. You being gay doesn't give you monopoly on deciding what is and isn't gay as intents of the action matter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:51 PM
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I don't keep a count to be honest but as always MAJORITY of men and MAJORITY of women are not homophobic. Yes there is probably more homophobic men than homophobic women. This still doesn't change the fact that majority of men are NOT homophobic. If you throw a dart in busy room full of men 9 times out of 10 you would end up hitting man who is not homophobic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:45 PM
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No one is blaming women for all their problems no one is even blaming woman for ANY problems in this particular topic. People have expressed concerns about double standards held by society as a whole.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:44 PM
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Enjoy seeing gay experiences where they are not I suppose.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:42 PM
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WTF. By that logic when my mum kisses me when visits that means she is expressing her sexual desire for me? When I kiss my 8 year old son goodnight does that make me a pedo? Dude you have issues. Progressively as times goes on you are showing how unhinged you are. Physical contact between people is just that physical contact. Intent is everything. If I kiss a man because I am attracted to him that is gay if I kiss my mate as sign of affection this isn't gay this is me showing affecting. You seri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:42 PM
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Women in general on average have more friends than men. This may be surprising to you but you aren't exception. Average woman will have multiple of friends to compare to average man you aren't that different to anyone in society this doesn't have anything to do with your sexual orientation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:35 PM
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Men aren't a group. You need to understand. I have zero in common with with for example Trump, Boris Johnson, Joe Bidden or Bernie Sunders as a member of a "man group" other than having a penis. I may hold similar views as some men and opposite views than other men. But treating a 50% of society as some monolithic group that is responsible for faults of individual members of it is definition of bigotry. I think we are done her. Men's Lib where you can self flagellate on behave of all men is not …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:33 PM
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toxic masculinity made me nonbinary is some serious level of mental gymnastic I haven't seen yet. Consider me impressed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 07:30 PM
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Of all the gay everywhere? No I am not, are you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 05:24 PM
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Is there any other single group you would expect to solve their own problems When we discuss any other wider social problem is there a SINGLE other group than men that is expected to fix all their problems on their own? I am talking from left wing perspective you know subreddit we are on right now. When we discuss problems affecting LGBTQ+ community solution isn't well LGBTQ+ community needs to fix it. It's we need to work on society in which LGBTQ+ people are accepted When we discuss Muslim com…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 05:22 PM
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It is insanely common. If your view point is that woman are naturally good and caring woman doing bad things is something that isn't in her nature therefor you need to find explanation for why she would do such a thing. She wouldn't do it on her own because all woman are good by nature. So she was either forced or tricked into doing it. And the only other group you have left to blame then are men so it must have been men who tricked her to it. Therefore woman being bad to men is men own fault re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 05:10 PM
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Thank you. It was long time ago I don't think about it at all apart of those situations where it comes up in discussion like this one as a story to tell. It just annoys me when some woman tells me "you don't know what is is like to be worried about being sexually assaulted" where I have been actually sexually assaulted. When I then say this I will hear "it's not the same" like somehow my sexual is lesser than anyone else sexual assault happens to be a woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 05:05 PM
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we befriend them and rely on them because other men ostracize us. Only Sith thinks it absolutes my young Padawan. 100% of women accept you and 100% of men ostracize you. When you say "us" do you speak on behave of all the gay people on the planet or is that royal us?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 04:56 PM
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Basically if women do it it's still men's fault if I understand the person above correctly. Woman don't have agency according to them and if they ever make a bad choice is because men forced or trick her to do so. Who is sexist here really...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 04:54 PM
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I will post what I said before People just aren't logical at all our views and values are fragile and can change if someone from the group we hate does something. There is a reason why first thing the dictatorships do is demonise opposition because we as humans have this bizarre ability to believe in our values while simultaneously act the opposite way when it comes to people we hate. We can believe in second chances while simultaneously demand that person from the opposite group rots in prison …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 02:31 PM
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The biggest problem I find is that things like this can never be apolitical. Nate is huge Trump lover. He will never cover any story about Trump in negative light even if all evidence is pointing to it. World have become so polarised that each side have claimed their opinions and no one is willing to touch them or be accused of betrayal. There is genuine discrimination of women in some places, there is sexism and harassment but this will never be covered by right wing media unless migrant or per…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 02:12 PM
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Protecting hypothetical woman over very real man is those peoples way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/23 12:16 AM
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Opposite of crazy is still crazy. Take any generally positive movement crank it up to 11 and what you end up is equally crazy. It applies to many things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/23 11:03 PM
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Men's lib is just like watching someone self harm in real time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/23 10:16 PM
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We moved past that we tell them they are oppressors and make them apologise in advance for being rapists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/23 10:03 PM
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Paternity testing at birth. Fun fact in France it is illegal to have a paternity test done. It is punishable with year in prison and up to 15 000 euro fine. Imagine being forced to pay for a child you suspect isn't yours but you can't prove it because you go to prison this is the most mental law I have ever seen.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/23 10:02 PM
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That shouldn't be a primary focus of a minister for men. Just like primary focus of minister for woman shouldn't be being anti-MRA. If you don't recognise that I can only recommend taking month long break from Internet and news and spending more time around real people not thier Internet personas
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 06:33 AM
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In all fairness 20 years ago is long time our perspective has change. Back in 2003 gay jokes were standard in mainstream TV so was using words like retard. We have progressed a bit since then.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 06:23 AM
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The biggest thing is we need to not look at this as Anit-feminism minister. Their job shouldn't be fighting feminism it should be to champion men's issue. They should focus on that in positive way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 06:21 AM
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The phone in today was good, very varied and balanced, although they did have a guy in the studio to discuss who seemed to be so desperate to tow the feminist line he came out with some brain-dead takes Michael was such a absolute bellend. Basically spend most of a program saying all men fears come from entitlement. Fuck that guy. People like this don't want to solve men's issues they want to beat them in submission and shut up and apologie for even rising it in a first place. The more I listene…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 10:20 PM
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The fact it is even published and taken seriously to discuss is progress go back 3 years and it would be a laughing matter and reported as comedy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 08:49 PM
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Our own Shadow minister for domestic violence and safeguarding will be the biggest opponent of it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 08:48 PM
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Sad thing is we are in such a mess that we can only hope tories do it because there is no way anyone on the left would do it. Political suicide for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 08:39 PM
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Rishi Sunak should appoint a dedicated minister for men to champion issues such as reducing male suicide, improving paternity rights and tackling misogyny, a red wall Tory MP has suggested. Nick Fletcher, who in 2019 became the first Conservative to win the Don Valley seat, said the government should act to mirror the existing minister for women arguing it would help improve society overall. He highlighted statistics showing that 75 per cent of people who take their own lives are men, life expec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 07:18 PM
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You don't need to express that. "I think it's important that there are spaces where men form bonds with other men and create the friendships it is just and important for men to have male centric spaces as it is for women to have women centric spaces. If someone wants to join our club it is because they like it in a current for that feels those needs rather than because club morphs into something else. There is great benefit in keeping things as they are to allow club members to thrive as they do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/23 06:40 AM
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Probably but do you want the culture to change into date hunting grounds. I think there is benefit in allowing male centric spaces to remain male centric. If women want to join it should be because they enjoy such a space rather than because space have adapted to their needs. Not everything needs equal proportion of men and women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/23 03:01 PM
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No it isn't. It's ridiculous that you think that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/23 08:59 PM
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That was the greatest thing I have watch all week
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/23 08:53 PM
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That is silly generalization.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/23 08:47 PM
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"Patriarchy hurts men too" like how does this even work. That's like saying that "being rich hurts billionaire ls too"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/23 08:45 PM
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I have zero issue with women equality. Noone on this subreddit has issue. What people have issue is constant attacks on men and bizzare conclusions of feminism. Men are almost twice as likely to die in attack by strangers than women but feminism conclusion is we need to stop voilence against women because men deserve to die because other men did it to them so it doesn't count etc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 09:45 PM
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Many women orgasm and get wet during rape. Sometimes that further adds to the shame and confusion of being raped this is same level thinking. Agreed with erections. Especially when I was younger in my teens and 20s random bonner could happen at any time for any reason without any warning
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 09:36 PM
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Not sure how it is applicable to men's advocates. It doesn't touch on any of the issues related to men. One thing that struck me as all the faults of this he described are the faults of patriarchy thinking. Just like women COE does nothing to benefit women cleaner nor does a man CEO mean that male cleaner life gets better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 09:32 PM
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Left wing always suffers from this problem that anything left to me is loony land and anything right to me is Hitler. I am the furtherst left person I know IRL father of 2 and yet have been called natzi incel many times online. If in doubt of anything feminism says do a Jew test. Replace world men with Jewish Men and see if it tragus like a chapter of Mein Kemp. 99% of a time it does
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 12:14 PM
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but..Personally, I believe men should You mean "shouldn't" just a misspelling but worth fixing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 06:31 AM
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It is impossible to rape a man by a woman under UK law and a lot of feminist I know fight tooth and nail to protect this from ever being changed. The legal definition of rape is when a person intentionally penetrates another's vagina, anus or mouth with a penis, without the other person's consent. Then but then we have claims like less than 1% of all rapists are woman. Well yeah because there isn't many of those around with penis walking around. Change the definition to what people actually thin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 06:26 AM
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Philosophy of this sub is to be pro men issues through the prisms of left wing views. We believe in equality, diversity and respect that extends to respects to men for what they are just men. We oppose and call out movements that blame men for their own discrimination and support men to make being a man whatever it means to them without judgement as long as they respect other people dignity and rights to exist undisturbed. Modern feminist movement have shown strong anti male bias rather than ega…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 06:16 AM
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So let me get this streight you think those people are sick and you wish rape on sick people? Do you hear yourself and how absolutely twisted and sick does that make you sound? I am 100% for solid long sentences for people who are danger to society they should be kept secured and prevented from harming anyone but there is a massive logic jump from this people are sick beyond help and jeed to be secured to they should be raped. Your views are frankly disgusting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 01:08 AM
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A lot very left leaning people show some insanely right wing views when the person from a group they disliked is accused. I know people who advocated for greater rehabilitation in prisons and would fight anyone who wanted tougher punishment to suddenly turn 180 degrees when Tate was arrested and hoped he gets voilenly raped in prison. I watch people who were against the capital punishment all their lives to suddenly call for execution of US Capital riots. People are not logical at all in their v…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 01:00 AM
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It only has been 4 days since this change so I will give it time I unsub around Barbie movie drama posts
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/23 05:26 PM
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Finally I have unsubscribed because of low effort and constant victimhood outrage posts. Only check it every few weeks. Keep keeping standards high
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/23 02:49 PM
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If you need to look for hard it it isn't that common then is it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/23 02:48 PM
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Yeah same especially with house prices now in nearly 40 years of my life never experience or witness shaming for not owning a house. He being wealthy is advantage but average person isn't shaming men or anyone for not having a house
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 08:12 PM
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They aren't? I have never in my life encountered anyone being shamed for not owning a house as Milenial in my late 30s not owning a house is as common as owning a house roughly 50/50 noone cares
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 08:10 PM
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100% go to somewhere any prominent subreddit where feminists gather and as what they think of this sub and you will hear how much of a right wing den we are all here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 05:54 PM
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I do regularly read through my posts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 05:45 PM
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Men own the media conglomerates Didn't know that men owned it. Last time I checked there was no check arriving at my account. Could it be that it isn't a men owning it but the very rich people some of whom happen to be men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 06:58 PM
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We lived in patriarchy but patriarchy is a system build to benefit well the patriarchs the rich land owning heads of noble houses. Over time rich heads of corporations and generations of politicians. Patriarchy never benefited common man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 06:55 PM
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Then is should be trivial for you to explain why they are wrong, then? If you cannot (or will not) explain to someone why their belief is incorrect, then how would you ever expect them to change their mind and see the truth? OP above me explain already why they are wrong you proceeded with "Well if you ignore all evidence of why they are wrong, they aren't actually that bad" we are done here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 12:05 AM
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No. You can't discuss ideas by only focusing on positives and pretending negatives don't exist. Ideas exists as a whole and as a whole red pill is a shit way of looking at the world that doesn't reflect what world really looks like. There is no point discussing it just like there is no point of discussing climate change denial or holocaust sceptics. They are just plainly wrong and giving them platform is pointless.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 08:46 PM
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I will bring what I also said in 2 days ago. We should not be just complaining subreddit but positive change subreddit. There was 5 threads about Barbie the movie and in my opinion 1 was already too many. We also don't need 10 self wanking posts about why feminism is bad. We get it feminism has been morphed into something it wasn't originally planed as but is there a point in talking about it all the time. If there is example of people in power saying things let's discuss it but if its random fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 07:19 PM
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I work professionally with large caseload of men with mental health problems and suicidal thoughts. What have you done?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 10:40 AM
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Then we should talk when this happens not have a rant about Barbie the movie...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 10:36 AM
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This. If you are on the fence on being pro male and all you see coming here is feminism bashing would you stay? I know I wouldn't. This was exactly what stopped me from engaging in more right wing subreddits and hate seeing the trend develop here. Especially over stupid things like a fucking movie
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 10:35 AM
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Difference is that this was done by Mayor or London not random feminist. It was someone in power.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 10:33 AM
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Yes it's just sad I feel very much lost for space that reflects my views that doesn't turn into either most silly complaints. Like is Barbie movie seriously the most pressing issues for men rights. Pick your battle and opinion of some random feminist on Barbie isn't a battle worth having.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 09:06 PM
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What is the purpose of this discussion? What is it meant to accomplish? I see little point in things like this on this sub. This is Left Wing Male Advocates. Not Left Wing Feminism Hate. Threads like this only put people off from joining us. While modern feminism is full of flaws it shouldn't be a focus of this sub. Men should be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 09:27 PM
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Men suicide is a problem, men loneliness is a problem, politicians ignoring male issues are a problem. What famous professional feminists opinion of a movie is, isn't really worth discussing. Trying to speculative or congratulate each other how smart we are and how silky they are is pointless discussion that can errode subreddits like this one into just bunch of people moaning. Let's focus on important issues instead
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/23 11:28 PM
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100% I have said it multiple time in the past I'm not a fucking batman to challenge random dickheads in public. And none of my friends are dickheads either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/23 04:41 PM
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You are missing completely what I'm saying. There is usually noone to question in friendship group of people who would be willing to question things. I have daughter who will soon be turning into teenage girl, I have sister and mother. If someone is sexist I am very unlike to be friends with them. As result of that my group of friends is all normal non pervy people. So even if I am a kind of person who would challenge sexism when I see it I wouldn't have opportunity to do so because I don't know…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 04:47 PM
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I work in mostly female lead profession- healthcare, I have heard extremely details of my fellow nurses partners bodies, I know dick sizes of their husbands, I know who lasts how long in bed and more because they simply forget I'm in the room typing my notes. As comparison I have worked with one guy for 6 years only 2 years ago I have learned he has a wife and they were expecting a child. I think women on average are worse for objectification than men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 03:53 PM
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Absolutely the idea that average man knows 10s of other men is crazy. I have a friend who can meet 4 friends on 4 separate occasions in a single week and she still complains about not having social life. I think so women seriously have little idea of how little average men have interactions with other men in average week.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 02:15 PM
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There was someone on other subreddit who was like "I have heard 100s of men say aexist things" like dude I don't think I have held conversations with 100 different men over last decade unless we count "can I have ketchup with those fries" as conversations
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 02:08 PM
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But is needlessly hostile. You wouldn't call knife crime in London toxic blackness would you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 09:22 AM
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You may have also seen that the rest of the modteam called me a “strikebreaker” in our modmail discussions and gave me grief for being the lone dissenter not wanting the sub to be shut down. I also disliked that you kept on talking poorly about the other members of the mod team and requesting I remove them, despite the hard work they put in over the years to develop and maintain this subreddit. In all fairness the other members of mod team have set this place on fire and should be removed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 05:43 PM
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I get that. Yes unless I am dying I am not going because standing 2 hours waiting ti be told to see if it clears in a week and come back then is pointless. I work 45 min away from my home if I need go pop in to doctors it's half a day off from work. If appointment is at something like 11 I may as well nor bother going at all because I will get to work for 9 need to leave at 10 to then get back to work for 1300 may as well take a day off. It is not a problem for my ex who finishes her part time w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/23 12:42 PM
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Try living in Britain you simultaneously hear that men hold the power so all men benefit while just a year ago both the Prime minister and the fucking Queen were women holding most powerful positions in country and that didn't mean anything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/23 08:21 AM
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Have you heard of person centred care? It is corner stone of how we run things in Britain we adjust services to suite people needs we don't adjust people to suit service needs. Men don't need to talk more we need places that allow men to be heard in a way that works for them not for us. As a low intensity CBT practitioner I have had more indepth conversation with my patients when doing things. Example of that is I have done a home visit and patient was sleeping on a mattress with unbuilt bed. I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/23 08:10 AM
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Do you think that by being a man, the world’s powerful men somehow care more about me? My ongoing problem when I discuss with anyone on UK subreddits "You are a man and laws are made by men" like Tory billionaire PM gives any fucks about my NHS working class male ass. Yes majority of the powerful people in the country are men often white men. It doesn't mean that they somehow care about all other white men in Britain. Quite the contrary they care about small minority of less than 0.1% of other m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/23 09:28 PM
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It's always the assumption that men do it to themselves so society doesn't need to act on it. Mental health- men need to talk, physical health- men need to stop trying to be manly and go to doctor, suicide- men need to stop using violent methods, education- men need to stop misbehaving at school and learn. Every conversation about any men problem in society starts with "men need to..." or with "men should not..." every other group problems are addressed with "we need to" or with "we shouldn't". …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/23 04:37 PM
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I think you should step down, setting it to private and restricted was ridiculous and you guys have acted extremely selfish with this temper tantrum almost destroying subreddit. If you want to go, go but killing this space on the way out was not okay. You have done so much damage to the only positive male spece out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/23 02:13 PM
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I reached out to mods to take over if I don't gear from them I will put request with admins this is silly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/23 08:56 PM
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I reached out to mods to take over if I don't gear from them I will put request with admins this is silly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/23 08:55 PM
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Thanks for blocking all domains other than kbin and then setting sybreddit to approved posts only and not approving any. 3 days ago I posted self post still waiting approval. I think burning place down as you guys leave with temper tantrum is probably the lowest it could be
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/23 09:26 AM
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And post complaining about it is one of most upvoted in this thread while post explaining it is the most downvoted in a thread community changed its mind. It ain't Brexit we can change our mind
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/23 08:51 AM
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As always excellent write up. You are in the UK not sure what sector you work in but as a household of teacher assistant and NHS staff I know how much emphasises we put on reasonable adjustments and person centred care for people. All the people BUT boys. I rarely heard about adjustments to boys and young men. I worked in secured mental hospital we have reduced incidents on male ward by nearly 80% over weekends by simply offering to run different groups with patient. We used to get a lot of comp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/23 09:09 AM
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Yes it doesn't surprise me my kids school doesn't have a male teacher. The only male person in the school is handyman and all kids love him. Boys worship him and follow him everywhere if they get a chance to see him fix stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/23 09:03 AM
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At least don't block this place from still working. You have blocked links to all sites but kbin which isn't cool.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/23 06:30 AM
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I know right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/23 11:56 AM
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Mate... I'm sorry to hear that but I get that I work in mental health majority of people I see went through similar neglect and trauma you are going through. You got this, life can suck a lot and families can be dickheads at times. I hope you can find friends and other people that care for you even if your own family does not
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/23 12:07 AM
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When your theory explains everything it explains nothing. When your answer is always the same regardless of question you may as well replace the word with "magic". My favourite is the argument that system allergy build to benefit men also hurts men like how that this even make sense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/23 06:19 PM
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Even people sympathetic to men's causes approach it from a very misandrist perspective, it becomes the responsibility of men to address and rectify the situation. How many times have we heard, "My uncle/friend/brother/dad ended his life, I wish he had talked to someone," instead of "My uncle/friend/brother/dad ended his life, I wish there were more resources available to keep him engaged and safe"? There's a TED Talk video I watched featuring a woman who lost her uncle. She mentioned something a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/23 06:07 PM
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100% "men need to talk" and then "I am not here to provide the emotional labour" and my favourite "We don't need awareness days for men issues" including from our very own MPs. Men need to always prove they are deserving of help. Women are deserving by default. Even stats like 1/5 victims of homelessness in a woman. Then proceeded by "We need to do more to support women" like WTF Surly we should be doing like 80% to support men and 20% to support women in this scenario should we not?! The issue …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/23 01:54 PM
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The biggest issue with all men's problems is that every solution starts with "Men need to..." On the other hand, every other group's problem solutions start with "We need to..." Listen to the language of adverts, like even male suicide prevention. Take this one, for example: https://youtu.be/0qC1_HRMZHM. The solution presented is "Talk to your mates, we men don't talk about our problems." Here's an advert supporting women: https://youtu.be/yVQ78xZSCG8. The solution is to stop people from harassi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/23 01:38 PM
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Boiling the frog. It will become gradual and they will get used to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/23 08:36 PM
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That will see subreddit banned in no time or mods removed within few days.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/23 08:35 PM
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There will be plenty of volunteers with their own agendas who will take over.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/23 10:59 PM
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Full blackout will just result in mods being replaced by reddit adminis. You can't boycott the site on their own website for ever without them stepping in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/23 09:50 PM
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Terms like toxic masculinity serve one purpose they are designed to make men angry and then point out to the fact that this anger is evidence of toxic masculinity. Imagine saying say black people are angry and aggressive and then using black people being angry about your generalisation as evidence of what you said. If goal was to improve communication and facilitate the change they wouldn't use such a loaded terms. But that isn't a goal, goal is to further demonise men as a whole group. Men are …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/23 07:19 AM
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Do you remember this quote? When Mexico sends its people, they’re not sending their best. They’re not sending you. They’re not sending you. They’re sending people that have lots of problems, and they’re bringing those problems with us. They’re bringing drugs. They’re bringing crime. They’re rapists. And some, I assume, are good people. Toxic masculinity is the same idea. Trump didn't say that all Mexicans are rapists just the bad ones but was rightly criticised for it because implication was tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/23 07:01 AM
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No empathy is ability to put yourself into other persons shoes. It has nothing to do with experience. I do it for a living as it's my job as mental uealth practitioner to be empathetic without needing to suffer ill mental health
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/23 10:15 PM
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That's not how empathy works.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/23 04:51 PM
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I attended a training with a nurse who worked a lot with victims of domestic abuse her view was that men are dangerous women are victims and need all support. Mostly because all her patients at that time were women She then was given couple of men on her case load who lost access to children because woman was making it difficult, moved counties etc. Some of this men lost a house as result of alogation. She was trying to support them to find a house. Bare in mind it is middle of winter only to fi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/23 11:24 AM
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Not right now because of time commitments but maybe recruiting few mods to get us over this hurdle would help?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/23 08:10 AM
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They leave it unmoderated or pick up mods than can work without mobile apps closing it will only damage men advocates reddit couldn't care less
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 08:59 PM
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That's just silly closing the only space I have to talk about men's issues without it turning into women hate group is the worst decision you can guys make
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 04:02 PM
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Empathy gap for men is huge many women struggle to put themselves in the shoes of a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 03:55 PM
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Don't talk about men, talk about individual examples. People can't connect with men as a whole but they can see individual. I have seen feminist turn around when they had a chance to work with individual men. I have worked in mental health for almost 2 decades I have seen very much brain wash feminists see men issue when they had to find housing for a male patient
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 01:54 PM
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I remember seeing poster all red "women make up 1/6 victims of homelessness" which is wierd way of saying 83% of all homeless are men. If women didn't make any homeless figures would we not care? Probably.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 10:31 AM
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I haven't experienced it in education luckily I am a bit older. But I work in Healthcare and can see it quite often there. When a woman is emotionally abusive she is described as chaotic in the notes, when man is psychologically abusive he is described as manipulative. I have seen it on multiple occasions from multiple practitioners that some notes describe same events have different judgment value from professionals. Same for things like self neglect woman self neglecting is described as strugg…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 07:30 AM
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The other problem is as well that if there is relationship breakdown woman can take kids and move back with her parents. Man doing the same will end up with police and will ruin his chances of custody ever. Woman custody is a default stance man needs to prove he deserves it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 09:39 PM
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It does traumatize them but they do succeed They do succeed if we ignore all the one that don't of course. Male suicide is the biggest killer of men so the one that don't succeed end up dead, man take lion share of homeless so the one that don't succeed end up homeless. Men take the disproportionate deaths from drugs and alcohol so the one that don't succeed end up adios. So yes if you ignore EVERYONE that doesn't succeed then the remaining people left do succeed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 09:30 PM
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Those movements are complained by women not men. Go to school and offer to run girls can code class and you will be welcomed with open arms. Go to the same school offer to run boys only group and you will be escorted out before you finish the sentence It isn't men opposing mens group it's women. Men domestic abuse shelters are being campaigned against by women not other men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/23 11:22 AM
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Also just the cost of housing across the English speaking world (don’t want to generalize to the Western world but certainly the US, Canada, UK, and I think Australia) because WE NEED TO BUILD MORE HOUSING, there just aren’t enough homes even for people without mental health issues and with jobs There are enough homes problem is that some people don't have any while other own 10s or 100s. Solution is implement rent controls so people cannot increase rent into oblivion and by doing so you will ma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/23 06:11 AM
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Many men call other guys cucks, soyboys, betas, gay, etc which are all just gendered misandrist insults I will be honest with you I have not heard a single one of those used in any setting where participants are above the age of 14. I think this is a myth that keeps being repeated. Every time I or other men have open up about our struggles I have seen nothing but support from other men. Yes we don't spend 2 hours talking about a problem but we do talk. "We are doing a BBQ why don't you come over…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 03:08 PM
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I strongly encourage you to work in woman centric job say nursing there is no more bitchy place than office full of women. I am yet to see men bring each other down but I have seen 100s of examples of women reduce other women to tears. We keep paddling this myth that it's men doing it to each other it isn't. If you start crying on front of your male friends non of them will laugh we get life can be hard
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/23 09:09 PM
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Here is a neat part it doesn't have to be either or? Opposite of crazy is still crazy. Opposite of depression is manic episode, Opposite of psychosis is apathy. Opposite of radical feminism is radical right wing ideology. Neither are good for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 09:08 PM
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No I won't. This sub is the only sub where as left leaning person I can express myself about men issues without being swamp with far right views I will call them out every time. There are other places where people with those views can go
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 06:34 PM
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You min minus the little bit about sex trafficing?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 05:29 PM
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Wokness has lost all meaning and should not be used especially not on this sub. Wokness is basically far right equivalent of "toxic masculinity" or "patriarchy" which is catch up all word for all things they dislike. We are not right wing sub let's not let it be run over on their ideology if we don't eradicate it give it a year and this sub will become MRALittle
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 05:29 PM
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Agreed that Peterson does appear to have mental health problems. But he says things that make sense and are helpful besides some stuff that is off the mark. He does have the honest drive to help people. He's also not as far right as you make him out to be. Every far right nut says some stuff that is true. This is how they onboard people into far right ideology. People can keep telling themselves "I disagree with his other stuff but he says some useful stuff" and continue to listen more and more …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 05:26 PM
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Can we refrain from far right talking points? No man is a slave to the woman in any modern society. Men definitely have less custody rights but this isn't slavery no need to demonise women by comparing them to slave owners.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 05:18 PM
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I think equal parenting rights would be good step. 70% divorces are filled in by women because they know court will give them guarantee 50% with kids as a bottom line base line and likely 90% with kids most of a time. It's near impossible for mother to lose custody of a child in marriage battle unless she chooses to give it up
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 09:20 AM
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Topics like this easily turn into woman and wife bashing fest so hopefully this subreddit manages to avoid it. Marriage is dying for many reasons one of which legal frameworks around marriage are not in favour of couples and people have seen divorce number climb so marriage is no guarantor of successful relationship. Paradoxically becoming married and having a child are 2 single biggest factors increasing your chances of of becoming victim of domestic abuse both for men and women. Often this is …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 12:31 AM
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Nah I have little desire in connecting with right wing men or women. I am not obliged to cater to every political stance and curate my groups of friends to people who have similar view point to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 12:22 AM
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Anything that is connected to the sry gene and by extension testosterone (eg body hair or an increased sex drive) would be objectively masculine. So a girl with increased sex drive is masculine by this definition? I disagree. I think /u/hotpotato138 is right in the sense that Masculinity or Femininity for that matter is a bit of everything and nothing at the same time. Is being caring father who plays, changes nappies (dippers) and cooks dinner home masculine? It is now it wasn't necessarily 40 …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 12:19 AM
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I know it's absolutely mental. I had argument with a student recently who was convinced she can't go out after dark or she will get murdered. That is in a small city 100k population city where I live that has seen 4 murders last year and she thinks that the moment she opens her house doors and steps outside there is a rapist and murderer waiting to stab her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 12:28 AM
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Also not really true. I'm in the UK and there are defacto white men only spaces which I cannot enter-certain men's football teams from certain areas (racist areas basically). I think you are confusing things. There may be sound racist groups that won't make you feel welcomed but those are social unacceptable. It is not official place and everyone would be offended by it. This isn't the same as BAME only clubs that can be run in any school or women only clubs that can be run in school. If I went …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 09:42 PM
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I think we have lost ability for nuance. Either you are all in or you are traitor there is nothing in between as of late. It's not even about solving problems it's about staying angry. Social media doesn't help it's so easy to surround yourself with people who confirm your bias with whole group actively looking and sharing with each other reasons to be angry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/23 01:36 AM
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Here is a thing. I work professionally with people with anxiety. Guess what is a treatment for being anxious. Yes it's exposure therapy. All those women only spaces do is further cemented anxiety some women feel around men and then amplify it. They aren't helping they are making things worse. Solution here would be to invite those women to positive male spaces so they can test their assumptions that every man is a rapist waiting to happen in a safe way and see them completely unfounded. The issu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/23 09:47 PM
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Every alt right recruitment group has some truth in it enough to be legit enough to attract people into it but the purpose of redpil and similar places in alt right on boarding nothing else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/23 09:17 AM
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Of course not. In London we have significant portion of a knife crime committed by gangs primarily composed of black teens. There is no way you could say that black teens should cross the road when they see white person walking to prove they are not in the gang. The same people who are pro men crossing would go mental if you said the above and rightly so because the idea itself is wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/23 12:35 AM
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We also need to understand that those advantages are different at different stages of life. It isn't that one group only has perks and the other cons but we have different perks and different cons. There are areas of life in which men have advantage and areas of life in which women have it it's never one-sided.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/23 11:46 PM
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The biggest issue is we are policing feelings not facts. If woman is scared of men that is men's fault regardless if they directly contributed to it or not. All that matters is that she feels scared or uncomfortable and that means you are the one making her uncomfortable. Problem with this is that you have no control over it. Say you are walking down the street and there is woman walking ahead of you alone. If she feels not bothered by you, then you are doing nothing wrong. Now say you are walki…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/23 11:11 PM
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Yes it is shocking that someone actually believes that. I have asked many times to explain to me who was being oppressed by a working man from a factory, plumber or car mechanic in the 70s/80s to be then immediately blocked by those people. They aren't interested in discussion they just want their dopamine hit of hour of hate. In this respect they aren't in any way different to alt right hating on minorities, motivations are the same just a target group is different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/23 10:51 PM
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I've seen straight men be treated like they're not welcome and dangerous by default so many times. Even if you're creating a space for minorities to mingle you should never project these things on others, it's not rational. I had this exact argument with someone not long ago. Argument was that man should cross a road when he sees lone woman walking in his direction to show he is not a threat. Like what sort of apartheid thinking is this that people demand that one group in society removes them s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/23 10:48 PM
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Very dramatic you are entitled to your opinion I am entitled to calling it baseless noone is banning you ease out on the victomhood.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/23 10:37 AM
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It doesn't even taste good to me though, personally speaking, never had appeal for redpill or 4thwavefeminism due to the blatant if not comical sexism it comes with I think it can be appealing to some people if caught at a "right" moment say after break up or rejection and then once they get sucked in it's hard to get out. I am worried about generation of boys we will raise who are now about 10 because left wing has absolutely learnt nothing about making our political stance appealing to young m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/23 03:10 AM
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I think this point should be used a little bit like a CBT therapy, in which a therapist questions the thinking patterns his patient has developed, before he questions the "content" of his thoughts. I did that during a Will Smith slap drama. A lot of people I knew said he did the right thing to slap comedian for a joke. I questioned why was this right. They tried to explained that you can't make jokes about other people, I drilled a bit further about if being offended by a joke is enough reason t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/23 03:07 AM
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I'm not so optimistic as all that, and I have about the same respect for CBT as I do for witch doctors' amulets, homeopathy, and conversion therapy. CBT is evidence based and has incredible results ranging well above 60 70% being sceptical of CBT is like being sceptical of electricity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/23 03:01 AM
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Even if the customer was hard of hearing and being a bit difficult to work with Especially if he was hard of hearing. She basically assaulted her disabled partner.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/23 06:13 PM
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Fathers is doing a lot of heavy lifting in this article.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/22 10:55 PM
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Group has to defend following equality at work act because man have been chosen for position that advises businesses how to comply with new regulations in Scotland that aims at reducing period poverty. Some famous people call out for discrimination at work and say a woman should be given this job even if less qualified on a virtu of being a woman
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/22 08:47 PM
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Until the results of the case of course. If it's proven he's a rapist he definitely deserves to be outed... but the accuser does too if it's found out she lied. The biggest problem here is that a trail doesn't find that she laid. Those are separate trails not guilty means there is too little evidence that crime have happened it doesn't mean she lied that there isn't enough to be certain. In order to prove she lied you would need a separate trail to prove there was deliberate lie that would be mu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/22 06:53 PM
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Just because you aren't a part of the problem doesn't mean that you shouldn't listen to and have input on a discussion of the problem. You say that but people who call out ALL men will shut you down faster than you think moment you admit to being a man. Your opinion is invalid regardless how useful it is because of your gender to those people. I also don't think I should listen. While some societal problems are caused by some men why should I listen any more to those than a woman? Just because I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/22 09:18 PM
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