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| – | What makes women attracted to men?Would you have kids with him though? He might make a good companion, but on some level you must know that his genes are unfit for reproduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 08:35 PM |
| – | What makes women attracted to men?Height, face, hairline, jawline, being neurotypical. Basically all things that are signs of genetic fitness. Women are hardwired to assess whether your genes are suitable for reproduction. Being extremely short, balding prematurely, and being autistic are dating death sentences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Do men like plus size women?Yes. And if you doubt this look at how popular thicc, chubby, or even outright BBW porn is with men. There are lots of men who love bigger, thicker women. Some are embarrassed about it so they don't come out and say it. Lots of guys absolutely love it. I think women get the wrong idea about this because they look at the fashion industry and how thin the models are. The fashion industry is run by gay men who like thin twink bois. If straight men ran the fashion industry I'm sure you'd be seeing f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menI don't see millions. I see a few Republicans and religious prudes shaming people for watching porn. I have no shame about my sex life. These people have always wanted to control what people do in their private lives, and Nofap is no exception. It's just the modern version of religious nuts shaming people for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menA few weirdos on a subreddit doesn’t equal millions of people. The subscriber counts are always buffed up by bots. Nofap probably only has a few thousand active users at most. I’ve been on subreddits that supposedly had 100K subscribers, and there were maybe 20 or 30 people actually regularly using the subreddit, lol. There’s nothing wrong with watching porn. It’s not shameful and it’s not an addiction. I’m not religious so I don’t care what Christian prudes have to say on the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:43 AM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menSex is a basic human need. Maslow placed it at the very base of his hierarchy of needs alongside food, water, air, and shelter. I don't think shaming what are mostly depressed virgins for getting their sexual needs met the only way they can is helpful to them. I also don't like that Nofap is very cult-like in nature, or that it has connections to Evangelical Christianity and alt-right groups like the Proud Boys. The psychiatric community has determined that porn is not an addiction and that ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menI’m not angry or bitter about anything. I’m a happily married man. I also fap to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:09 PM |
| – | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?I was. I was trying to help him figure out his sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menEvery other post on r/nofap is an adult male virgin who thinks that if he can just stop fapping he will finally get a girlfriend. And porn addiction isn’t real. It was studied by the psychiatric community and they determined it’s not an addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?Looked up who she is. Looks like a woman's face on a man's body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:52 PM |
| – | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?Because I’ve known gay dudes who followed a similar pattern of either claiming to be into muscle women or anorexically thin women who later turned out to be gay. For an example or this in fiction look at the story arc of Mac on It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia. Other dead giveaways are wanting to be pegged and making lots of homophobic jokes. I have two gay uncles. A gay cousin. Lots of gay friends. I’ve been to gay weddings. I’ve known guys who didn’t put all the pieces together until they wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:19 PM |
| – | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?How do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:11 PM |
| – | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?Because you're attracted to men, can't accept it, and look at manly looking women as a psychological coping mechanism for feelings you aren't ready to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:10 PM |
| – | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?It's okay to be gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:05 PM |
| – | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?You're probably just gay and haven't come to grips with it yet. Starts with the muscle girls. Then MTF trannies. Then men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What are the most effecient ways to improve SMV for both men and women?What’s wrong with Chad worship? Everyone loves Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageYeah I'm not talking about people like that. If you got sex and a relationship and it ended, I'm sure you can do it again later. I'm talking about incel/femcel type people who go through college with no sex, no relationships, no attention from girls/guys, still virgins, invisible to the opposite sex. That's a really bad sign. If you can't get laid in college you probably couldn't get laid in a Bangkok whore house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 01:45 PM |
| – | What are the most effecient ways to improve SMV for both men and women?Men: be born a Chad Women: just exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:41 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageI'm guessing we run with very different crowds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:36 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageMy wife and I started dating at 19 back in 2002. Pretty much everyone I know who is married with kids met and coupled up with their partner in their teens and 20s, usually in college. I was in a fraternity and my wife was in a sorority, so we were in with the attractive, popular crowd at our school. I don’t know anyone who failed in college who went on to have success. The two incel type guys I knew back then are still single (and presumably still virgins) 20 years later. One had autism and both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageIt's not very common. Most girls in their early 20s think much older men are gross and creepy. Redpillers are delusional about this stuff. My wife and her friends never would have dated 30-40 something year old men at that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageDating peaks in high school and college. If you can't get anything at that time you are most likely doomed to a life of transactional betabuxx relationships. It's ridiculously easy to get laid in college (or find a long term serious partner if you prefer) if you are an attractive guy. You don't have to do anything really. Girls will make everything easy and obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageIf you are actually attractive women will make things so easy and obvious you hardly have to do anything. Obese women have the same taste in men as non-obese women. If you can fuck obese women, you can also fuck normal women. Edit: lol he got butthurt and blocked me because he couldn't handle the truth. Imagine having such a fragile ego that you block someone on reddit. And I don't know how women work? I've been with the same woman for over 20 years. And unlike you I fucked in my late teens and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageBeing popular =/= being sexually attractive If you didn't fuck, you aren't sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageI'm guessing you weren't popular with the girls in high school and college. What you're talking about has nothing to do with sexual attraction. You're talking about making yourself a betabuxx provider so some used up woman will settle for a transactional relationship with you once she's had her fun with Chad. If women weren't attracted to you in high school and college, they aren't attracted to you. That time period tells you everything you need to know about your level of attractiveness because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:47 PM |
| – | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageBut by that age their looks have faded and it isn't any real accomplishment to sleep with them. They gave their youth and beauty to Chad and you're just getting his sloppy used up leftovers. You didn't get to have them in their late teens/early 20s when they were at their peak. This is like bragging about being able to finally afford a luxury car once it has 250,000 miles on it and it's falling apart. Someone else got to have all the real fun with it when it was new, and you're just stuck with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageMen peak in attractiveness in their early 20s just like women. Most men age like shit. The options on the dating market get worse as you get older (single moms, sluts, obese women, dramatic mentally ill girls with BPD, etc). The best women couple up early and leave the dating scene. Get past your mid 20s and your dating options are going to be pretty bad. The "your 30s and 40s are you're time to shine bro!" stuff is just guys who failed with girls in high school and college coping. It doesn't ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:18 PM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menDid you get anything from girls in high school or college? How late in life did you get with your wife? I don't know your backstory, but it sounds like you might be an incel/nearcel tier dude. A lot of them do eventually get women later in life who settle for them. And the heavy porn use was a symptom of your lack of success with girls and not the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:06 PM |
| 12 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menPorn use has nothing to do with your success or failure with women. The biggest Chad in my fraternity who was dating and fucking a super hot Brazilian girl was also the biggest porn fiend I've ever met in my life. Nofappers are just deluded incels who think that if they can stop watching porn they will magically get a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?I think casual sex is gross and degrading (but to each their own I guess). My wife and I met as teenagers. We both only had 1 previous partner (she had a long term boyfriend who went off to join the military, I had a high school girlfriend I broke up with when I went off to college). I never wanted anything to do with hookups or casual sex and neither did she. I never would have seriously dated anyone with a high previous partner count who was into casual sex. It would have been an instant nope … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Yeah and out of those 5 guys, 4 of them just aspire to be part of hookup culture and aren't actually physically attractive enough to ever participate in it. Hooking up is just for Chads and slutty girls. Edit: imagine being so petty that you block someone on reddit. What a loser this girl I replied to is, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Yep. And this is why there are so few women on Tinder. Tinder was based on Grinder which is a gay male hookup app. Gay men are into hooking up. Most women are not. Women risk pregnancy, are more likely than men to get STDs, and risk encountering dangerous men who might beat and/or rape them. Getting with random strange men from the internet doesn't appeal to most of them. This is why Tinder is 80%+ male in most markets. Women don't want to sleep with 500 Chads, and the idea that they do is men p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationOr getting into lesbian relationships when Chad isn’t an option. It’s over for sub-Chad men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 08:05 PM |
| -1 | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationKeep coping. One of these days you will realize the truth. Women can only love Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationI have. One of my frat bros would date anywhere from 3-5 girls at any given time, and would have frequent threesomes. I know this because the girls confirmed it. And this was 20 years ago. By all accounts Chads hoarding girls has gotten much worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:46 PM |
| – | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationThe simplest explanation is usually the correct one. It’s Chad harems and women turning to lesbian relationships when they can’t get Chad. Gen Z women have no use for sub-Chad men. Lots of mental gymnastics in this thread to try to explain away what deep down we all know is happening. It’s feast or famine out there for young men. You’re either a Chad who is drowning in pussy, or you get little or nothing. And Pew Research is about as mainstream as it gets. Things are really dire when even they’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy 2.0 Is ComingThis is basically the femcel version of those deranged posts on incel forums rambling about how the collapse is coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How much of a halo are muscles for a short/shorter guy?She's kept up the lie a long time then. We started fucking and dating as teenagers and we're 40 now. For all of that 20+ years she's maintained that she's only attracted to tall men and thinks short guys are gross. It's cool that you had sex one time though. Good for you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/06/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How much of a halo are muscles for a short/shorter guy?And you've had success with women or no? | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/06/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | How much of a halo are muscles for a short/shorter guy?Well my wife is a woman and she says roid muscles look disgusting. She's gotten grossed out when we were watching action movies with muscle men in them (I really like classic 80s action movies). She has also told me to take it easy on the gym and not go to far with it. So I think I'll go with what a woman says she finds attractive rather than a bunch of dudes. My wife has also said she doesn't find men under 6' physically attractive. I'm 6'2". She's 5'9" though so similar in height or taller tha… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/06/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How much of a halo are muscles for a short/shorter guy?Women don't care about muscles. And if you overdo it and get that roided out, bulging, veiny look you can end up making yourself less attractive. The obsession with muscles is a male gaze thing. Men think muscles look good, especially gay men. Women either don't care or are downright grossed out by them. Women care about height, face, and hair. And I think height might be more important than the other two. You can get away with a lot if you are 6' or taller. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Has everyone here actually done everything they possibly can before verifying their insane beliefs?If you go all the way through high school and college and get absolutely nothing from girls, that tells you everything you need to know about your level of attractiveness. Sex and relationships just come naturally for most people. If you're having to try really hard to make yourself attractive, that's a very bad sign. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/05/23 12:59 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenYou think Andrew Tate is mainstream? I've never heard his name mentioned in the real world, and I don't know anyone who would have any idea who he is in real life. He's popular (and unpopular) with people who are terminally online. He's completely unknown to normal people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:32 PM |
| -2 | My Analysis of Hook-Up CultureThe vast majority of women are not into hooking up, and the idea that they are is men projecting male qualities onto women. This is why there are so few women on Tinder. Tinder is based on Grinder, which is an app for gay men (who actually are into hooking up generally speaking). This is one of the areas where the manosphere is way off base about women. I think it stems from incels who get into manosphere stuff having so little contact with women outside of watching porn and anime (which are poo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/05/23 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Women dont deem enough men attractive to "end the patriarchy/gender roles"I'm not the one who's a 27 year old incel. I got laid in my teens and 20s. Do you bust out the charts and graphs about the dating market when you go on dates? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/05/23 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Women dont deem enough men attractive to "end the patriarchy/gender roles"And all three of my degrees involved analyzing data. I used to tutor people in statistics because I'm excellent at it. Surveys aren't a good source of information. People routinely lie on them or don't take them seriously. They have sampling problems. Provide me with some actual studies, not surveys, that show what you're saying. The way you're getting so offended suggests I hit the nail on the head with the autism stuff. Social skills can be learned and rehearsed to some extent. Go get some pro… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/05/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Women dont deem enough men attractive to "end the patriarchy/gender roles"Surveys are pretty meaningless. They're the least powerful source of data. Maybe take an actual college level statistics course. You sound like you're on the spectrum. Maybe go get some social skills training with a mental health professional so you stop coming across as weird and creepy to girls, which I would bet money is your real issue. Dumb asshole? I have a 160+ IQ. Was in gifted courses in school, have two bachelors degrees and a doctorate. lol. Asshole maybe, but definitely not dumb. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/05/23 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Women dont deem enough men attractive to "end the patriarchy/gender roles"Busting out statistics to talk about dating is pretty autistic. Not even great statistics either. Surveys, which are the least meaningful source of statistical information. I was one of the higher ups in my college fraternity. I've seen how dating plays out for lots of young men. Unless you're neurodivergent to the point of being socially retarded, really short, or really ugly, you'll do fine. You just have to grow some balls and actually talk to girls. I'm nothing special in terms of looks othe… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/05/23 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Women dont deem enough men attractive to "end the patriarchy/gender roles"Nobody is getting sex or relationships? According to who? If you're struggling with women you're probably either a non-neurotypical (usually autistic) social reject, extremely subpar looking, or both. That's usually why incels are incels. And the truth is that you would have struggled with women in any time period. Maybe in the past some woman would have been forced to unhappily settle for you for financial stability, but that's no longer the case. Women aren't into ugly, weird guys. Thankfully … | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/05/23 03:33 AM |
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