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| 1 | Society's treatment sex-crime - is it adequate?Are you really equating someone touching your ear with forcefully shoving something inside your genitals?. You really can't see how they could be different? Rape is damaging physically. That is why they do rape kits because rape causes lacerations to the vagina. It is painful and terrifying and lasts longer than the millisecond that a wet willie lasts. Have you ever been scared someone who gave you a wet willie would hurt you? Have you ever thought "if they are capable of doing this to me what e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/16 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Society's treatment sex-crime - is it adequate?The reality is most rape happens between people who know each other, or involves drugs or alcohol so the victim wouldn't be able to respond to such a threat. Rape is far more insidious than the stranger jumping you in a dark alleyway thing that people are led to believe is the only true definition of rape and it means targeting rape with some mace doesn't really help the situation at all, but it does encourage people to blame victims who didn't have mace on them. It encourages people to think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/16 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Womens sexual and physical safety is affected by societies treatment of women.At least those families aren't asked "are you sure it was murder?. Admit it, he totally wanted to be stabbed 20 times.". When it's murder no one tries to convince you there was no crime. Brock Turner neither accepted responsibility for what he did or showed remorse for how he ruined someone else's life, and even then legally he got little more than a slap on the wrist. Would you accept the same for a murderer?. Would you say well he can't swim anymore so thats justice? Once his three years proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/16 07:36 AM |
| 4 | Womens sexual and physical safety is affected by societies treatment of women.Honestly, only a quarter of rapes result in arrest because so many rapes turn into a he said - she said situation. Actually going to the police involves rehashing and reliving the incident again and again. Then going to trial involves lawyers trying too pick your story apart, belittle or undermine your experience and make it appear you were asking for it. Even when physical evidence is involved there are huge back logs of rape kits in the US meaning often there just isn't enough evidence to brin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/16 05:12 AM |
| 6 | Womens sexual and physical safety is affected by societies treatment of women.It will go to court and your rapist will get time as rape is a super serious crime akin to murder. Ha. Hahahahahahahahahahahhaha What planet are you living on? I mean really, maybe he'll get 6 months, like the swimmer from Stanford. If he's convicted at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/16 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Womens sexual and physical safety is affected by societies treatment of women.Again, you are talking about abnormal stuff, no harm at all, and no violence. You really have no concept of the female experience at all if you think sexual harassment is abnormal. It is a daily experience for some women. It is also not harmless, being molested while you're minding your own business fucks with your head. Maybe it isn't "violent" to grab a girls arse uninvited but the threat of rape is implied whenever you deny a person the right to decide what happens to their body. Maybe you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/16 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Construct this scenarioMost behaviors that we develop are reinforced by consequences, either negative or positive. You're going to find it hard(perhaps impossible) to find a behavior that isn't developed that way. I did debating in highschool before I worked in customer service. The negative consequences if we didn't maintain our composure were that we would lose if we did. I went to an all girls highschool, all of my team was female. We won a lot, none of us ever lost our cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Construct this scenarioI work at a call centre, I hear all kinds of shit all day which I politely disagree. When I have to tell a customer that no, the product doesn't just work that way because they thought it works that way I politely explain how it was outlined in their terms and conditions. When I have to converse with racist family members I'm still polite about it because calling them a racist fuckwit hasn't really done anything apart from making the racist fuckwit double down on their fuckwittery. I'm not the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 11:50 AM |
| 5 | if all men are potential rapists, why do you hang out with people you wouldn't consent to having sex with?It is 100% possible for someone you would be willing to have sex with to rape you. I remember a friend of mine staggering home from a date that she had been very excited to go to. She had liked the guy for a long time beforehand and she came back from it shellshocked and a complete mess. She'd gone to a movie with him, he'd escalated sexually with her in the empty midday cinema and she'd said no. She'd REALLY liked him, but she was a virgin and it was their first date. She didn't get up and leav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 11:36 AM |
| 0 | Men vs women who go for a long time without a romanceYou were complaining that men don't get a choice about pregnancy, that is why I talked about male choice and not dual choice. I'm pointing out that excepting cases of rape, forcing a men to have sex without a condom seems unlikely. Don't put your dick in if you're not wearing a condom. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/15 11:32 PM |
| -1 | Men vs women who go for a long time without a romanceThe failure rate in condoms also includes when people's main form of contraception was a condom and they DIDN'T use them. That is definitely a male choice not to use them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | This "no pill" thing is really getting out of hand.I say just do away with flairs, make it hard to brigade comments because their flair is a certain color. People are more likely to find common ground and read the content of each other's posts if we aren't primed to agree or disagree beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why would you say some people stay in abusive relationships ?The victim comes ti believe that the abuser is the only one who could ever love them, after all they are so flawed. All their flaws are the reason why the relationship has problems some times, not the abuser. It isn't about preferring abusive Alpha to Beta, it is about reprogramming a person slowly and methodically until they have a warped sense of self and the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/15 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Why would you say some people stay in abusive relationships ?Abusive relationships generally follow these patterns: everything is awesome. Partner is sweet and attentive Isolate the victim from support network. Slowly cut them off from friends and family. Begin to escalate abusive behavior. Place the blame on the victim, "Look what you made me do." "I wouldn't hit you if you didn't make me so angry." Compensate with sweet behavior to make up for it. Apologize and promise to change. Do so for a day. Gas-lighting. Make the victim question their own sanity. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Those of you from both pills who keep saying "Why are these guys obsessed with getting laid?" What's the longest dry spell you've had since 18 and how frequently do you have sex?Implanon. I have a period every 3 months or so. Caveat is my best friend got one and didn't stop bleeding for 6 months. If they work for you they are awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers: do you think feminists are unhappy and unfulfilled?Yep. Win-win. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers share your success stories with friendsAll of my partners were friends first, but also they never became my friends in order to get with me, they just thought I was a cool person. If you are becoming friends with a woman because you don't think you're worthy to out and out date her she's going to pick up on it and most likely accept your valuation of yourself as truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Dominance does not mean domineering. It means a man's mastery and control over himself.This is self-discipline, not dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: do you think feminists are unhappy and unfulfilled?I feel the same about terpers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers: do you think feminists are unhappy and unfulfilled?It probably just stops guys who would have a problem with it from wasting their time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 08:17 AM |
| 2 | A generation of “commitment-phobes”: Are monogamous relationships seen as ‘uncool’ in modern society?Monogamy works for lots of people and I definitely don't think it is dead. If monogamy works for you and your partner tells you they don't want to be then let them know it is a deal breaker. People who cheat are dicks and they are NOT material for a poly relationship, actually the exact opposite. A poly relationship only works if you have a strong relationship to start with and you feel you can share the love without weakening what you already have. I personally am fine with Poly, life is short … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 07:59 AM |
| 2 | What is the solution for an ugly 5'9" male? Be honest. I'd like TRP to present their case to me. [CMV]Check out /r/SkincareAddiction for your skin. Get a 2% BHA to treat acne and an 8-10% AHA for fading scars. Oh and suncreen. Stridex in the red box is cheap and effective. Kick the alcohol. Swimming is low impact and LOTS of women go for swimmer bodies. You don't need to be jacked to be attractive. Get a membership to a pool in your area and try to go minimum three times a week. Find things that interest you and do them. Meet people, make friends. Learn how to listen to people. Learn how to make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers who have "equal relationships" , how would you describe your relationship dynamic ?We make decisions together, obviously we're together because we want similar things out of life so usually we want to do the same kind of things. If we don't want to do what the other person wants then that is cool, we either compromise or we just do it on our own or with other friends. We split shared expenses and do whatever we want with our own money. We share housework but we don't give each other shit if we don't feel like doing it. I make decisions all the time and it doesn't effect my att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/15 07:03 AM |
| 2 | RP: In what ways do you conclude that a woman is promiscuous?Lol. Like 2 don't apply to me(the christian stuff and smoking) and my n count at 28 is 3 and unlikely to change soon. I think your list is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/15 08:56 AM |
| 5 | [Debate] Women of PPD, how does it feel to be told that you you 'secretly' think/feel/behave in ways because of X by men?I hear this 'TRP is a cult' thing quite a lot. If you don't allow for questioning of your ideology then yeah, pretty cult like. I met my partner at work. As far as I know he doesn't fit the RP mold at all and I'm pretty happy about that. I earn more than he does, he's not macho or dark triad. He tells me he loves me enthusiastically and often. I think he's attractive but there aren't other women falling at his feat. We have a great sex life and we're really fucking happy, pretty much everything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 03:23 AM |
| 2 | BP: Have you ever encountered a manipulative woman? How did you deal with her?One of my best friends was raised by a bi-polar manipulative women, my friend could be manipulative sometimes too(in part because she'd been raised that way). I love her like a sister but at times I just have to call her on it, sometimes gently and sometimes not so much. It is hard for her, she inherited her mums crazy a bit. We grew up together and during our teens there was a period of about 6 months where we couldn't be friends, my dad had just died and I couldn't deal with her shit and mine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 03:01 AM |
| 5 | [Debate] Women of PPD, how does it feel to be told that you you 'secretly' think/feel/behave in ways because of X by men?A key tenet of RP is that, basically, women cannot be trusted to even know what they want, let alone speak the truth about what they want to men. Why do you think this is? Because TRP in its own way is fairly cultish and accepting that women fit outside of AWALT would be detrimental to its following. It is the same way that there is no criticism of TRP tenets allowed on the sub. Women of PPD, how does it feel to be told that you you 'secretly' think/feel/behave in ways because of X by men? Perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 02:26 AM |
| 1 | BP Men: Would you date a woman that weighed more than you? BP Women: Would you date a man that was shorter than you?I have dated guys shorter than me. I also weigh more(and have always weighed more than my partner, but honestly I'm pretty tall for a chick and he is pretty skinny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/15 03:20 AM |
| 6 | Blue pill, what's the source of your claims that RP purports to be a sub about self improvement?How would someone discuss sexual strategy without discussing how the opposite sex acts and thinks? But you just improved my point. TRP isn't a sub about self improvement, self-improvement is sometimes a byproduct of it's actual goal which is gaining sex and control over women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/15 06:35 AM |
| 5 | Blue pill, what's the source of your claims that RP purports to be a sub about self improvement?The clue is in the "self" part of self-improvement. If it was about bettering yourself you wouldn't be talking endlessly about what everyone else(specifically women) are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | What are Red pills thoughts on ayn rand and objectivism?They just didn't admit knowing it because they were afraid of being sued. facepalm I'm just going to assume you have never studied the history of big tobacco and you aren't being willfully ignorant. They got convicted of rackateering in 2006. I promise you, they absolutely 100% knew what they were doing. Boosting the nicotine actually makes smoking safer. Cigarettes are more carcinogenic today than they were in the 50's. They are more deadly now than before they knew they were deadly. Why not ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Question for BP: When is the right time and context for a man to approach a woman?There is nothing to say you can't be flirty with a girl while talking about something intelligent she said. Flirtation is pretty much just the act of making someone else feel good so they feel attraction. In my mind the best ways to do this are through playfulness and humor and if someone strikes up a conversation with me that is playful or funny about our class discussion I'm probably going to be more attracted than if you come up and compliment me on my eyes or whatever. Most women like to thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/15 04:18 AM |
| 2 | BP: If you have a teenaged son who discovered TRP and he felt it was having a positive effect on his dating life, what would you say to him?Hey son. I'm really glad you're taking the time to find ways to better yourself and achieve your goals but I have misgivings about the ideology you're buying into at the moment. I've always encouraged you to be the best that you can be and I want you to be succesful and happy in your relationships with the opposite sex but I also want those relationships you have to be healthy for you and the women you have them with. One of the things that I see really wrong with TRP is that a lot of what bring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/15 03:41 AM |
| 6 | How A Girl Gets On the Cock CarouselYes. They do. I can tell you all about conversations I've had with all of my female friends where they've told me way, way more than I'd ever want to know about their sex lives. I know one woman(out of about 50 friends who have told me about their sex lives) who fit the higher than 5 n count and she had slept around as a result of a traumatic rape before settling down. In her mind if she gave it away no one could take it against her will, which seems crazy but it gave her back a sense of control… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/15 02:51 AM |
| 2 | What are Red pills thoughts on ayn rand and objectivism?Tobacco has gone down in popularity because more people are smoking weed instead. I'd like to see some figures to support the weed taking over hypothesis. I can't see a whole heap of people replacing a ciggie with a blunt, especially when you can't run out to the carpark to have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/15 05:41 PM |
| 4 | What are Red pills thoughts on ayn rand and objectivism?Dude, they knew that there product was dangerous in the 50's and the companies conspired together to hide it FOR YEARS. They have been increasing the nicotine in their products as well as adding ammonia so you get a bigger hit of nicotine. Nicotine went up 15% between 1998 and 2012 because they know it will make them more addictive and harder to quit. They market to kids and they sue governments when they lose the right to market their dangerous and addictive drug such as is Australia where they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/15 02:04 PM |
| 3 | What are Red pills thoughts on ayn rand and objectivism?Cigarettes companies come to mind. They knew for years and years that there products caused cancer and they formulated them to make them as addictive as possible and funded studies to provide a "smoke screen" to the danger of their product. It may have been a slower death than a gas chamber, but it was still industrial slaughter just the same. Almost half a million people die a year from tobacco related deaths still. I can only imagine how much blood is on the tobacco execs hands when all of it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/15 12:14 PM |
| 3 | What are Red pills thoughts on ayn rand and objectivism?Industrial-level slaughter is still done by self-interested individuals, it is just done in the name of profits, not morality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/15 10:24 AM |
| 15 | Why does TBP have a problem with RPW?No, that isn't the goal of TBP. We reject TRP ideology, it doesn't mean we believe you shouldn't do anything TRP recommends. I agree Self improvement such as getting fit is good for you. I disagree with getting fit just to put your partner in constant fear you will leave at any moment so that you can manipulate them. I'm BP and I can see how TRP practices(get fit, set boundaries, women are human too) may help improve men's lives, however the ideology is unhealthy, the way it encourages men to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/15 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Would you consider the following situation rape?I don't know if I agree with HelenBeck that it would be but I can see her point of view. If a guy forces his way in to my home this is no longer a normal dude that I am hanging with. It is unreasonable to feel threatened by a guy you invited into your home to the point where you consent to sex you don't want, it isn't unreasonable to feel threatened by a guy who breaks into your place tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/15 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys realize that a lot of us sometimes **hate** the fact that The Red Pill works as well as it does?I agree with you. I have a similar experience of relationships, I'm also in an open relationship where there is no social consequence for hooking up with a random guy. I never have though and I never felt like I wanted to. Chad isn't just unappealing, he's actually repellant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/15 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else notice that bisexual women hold their male partners to a higher standard than their female partners?Maybe the "bi" women you've met are actually lesbians, or swing so far that way that putting the effort into chasing guys makes zero sense. I've approached every guy I've dated, and I'm pretty picky about the women I date too, so I don't think your experience is typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/15 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Why are men and women unable to be friends?I don't keep girls around how I know want to fuck me, but I don't do it because I'm not attracted to them? What about women you know want something more than sex? Isn't that what spinning plates is about? Squeeze as much sex out of em, once they push for something more than sex next them. That sounds a lot like spinning orbitors. Squeeze as much time and energy out of your male beta, once they want something more friendzone them. Spinning plates and spinning orbiters is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/15 11:19 AM |
| 2 | What is a man's legitimate and effective defense against a mattress carrier?Here is the thing, many TRPers accuse women of having mass hysteria about rape and that it happens way less than women think it does, then you tell us the only way to defend ourselves is to dedicate massive amounts of time doing martial arts to protect ourselves. Either we're being paranoid and all that martial arts are going to be statistically a waste of time, or we aren't and rape is common as we think it is. If it is the later then we sure as shit have to do something about society as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/15 09:12 AM |
| 2 | What is a man's legitimate and effective defense against a mattress carrier?There is so much mental gymnastics among bluepillers. I though TRP was full of rapists? I never said I thought TRP was full of rapists. The only mental gymnastics here are the ones you are going through to make it seem like I'm blaming one group of men over another. Even now on TBP you can see women circlejerking about that waitress that beat up that man who sexually assaulted her. Why didn't she have the evolutionary instinct to freeze? Why the fuck do some people have blue eyes and some people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/15 09:06 AM |
| 0 | What is a man's legitimate and effective defense against a mattress carrier?Also they don't have enough "confidence" and usually just freeze. So that doesn't say anything about the effectiveness of a martial art, but something about the one who is practicing it. It doesn't say anything about the one who is practicing it, it says something about biology. You have millions of years history of rape and millions of our ancestors were conceived because the female froze during terrifying situations to minimize her potential of being harmed. Instead of poking someone's eye out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 09:19 PM |
| 9 | What is a man's legitimate and effective defense against a mattress carrier?Why people get upset with the people that sleep with their partners instead of the cheating partner is beyond me. Sorry that happened to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 02:09 PM |
| 7 | What is a man's legitimate and effective defense against a mattress carrier?Not an American so no, I can't carry a gun. And considering most rapists are known to their victim you'd have to wear it all the time. Any form of martial arts? Most of them are fairly useless at actually defending yourself in close quarters against someone with twice the mass and strength as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill Women, what Red Pill advice would work on women like you and which wouldn't?Amused Mastery in the form of sexual mastery. I had a partner who knew how to turn me on so well he'd push my buttons and leave me hanging on the edge just to watch me dance to his tune. He loved to give pleasure but he was a terrible tease so every sex session where he was in charge was a colossal marathon of edging and orgasms were mind-blowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?As I said, I've been HL in a dead bedroom, so I know what no sex at all feels like. When I am talking about non-pleasurable sex I'm not talking about no orgasm. I'm talking about something that should be a celebration of two bodies being mechanical, frustrating even painful to the point where doing it becomes arduous. To the point where it is anxiety provoking. Would a guy really kill for that? Would a guy kill for that if it is all he got ever as well as pressure to do it often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 11:35 AM |
| 16 | What is a man's legitimate and effective defense against a mattress carrier?I don't think there is really any protection for men against mattress carriers, the same way that there isn't really any way for women protect themselves against rapists, psychopaths and abusive partners(same for men). It just is. Choose your partners with your best possible judgement, read warning signs and gtfo quickly when they appear. EDIT: because about a dozen people have told me that at least women are protected from rapists by the Law I'm just going to edit this instead of replying to al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?I get it. Society has got serious bipolar when it comes to gender and sex. Women are sluts or empowered and in control of their own bodies. Men are meant to sow their wild oats and also not to expect sex. But that is society in general. I think most often the people who aren't supportive of people going through dead bedroom just are too deeply wrapped up in their own shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?If a chick says that to you in a defensive way I'm willing to bet it is because she's felt the stress and pressure that puts the LL partner into the position where they don't want sex because it frankly sucks. She's saying it to protect herself and her self identity. If she agrees with you that it is terrible then she is the monster that denied her own partner when she was too tired to make it work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?A random guy hooking up with an unattractive woman on tinder isn't interested in her. He has a biological need he wants to fill(sex) and she is available with a little effort. A prostitute hooking up with a client isn't interested in him. She has a biological need she wants to fill(eating) and he is available to give her money with a little effort. The idea that men have no outlets for sex is ridiculous. I only have to open my newspaper or go past a thai massage parlor to know that isn't true. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 11:37 AM |
| 10 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?I'm pointing out that if you hooked up randomly with someone at a bar maybe you'd feel validation and pleasure. I would not and it is the same for many women, so the fact that I can go out and pick up and many men can not is not as significant as you expect. RP goes on about how men are the gatekeepers of relationships and tries to not have them at all costs and then completely misses that the reason why women want relationships is because sex alone is not fulfilling. In fact for women who can o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 12:33 AM |
| 21 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?You don't value the constant validation you get from knowing you can easily find someone who wants you because you've always had it. RP has this whole thing about how women can have sex whenever because their is always a guy out there who is desperate enough and think that this somehow validates a girl. If I come up to you at a party and say "I'd prefer to sleep with anyone else at this party but none of them will so you'll have to do" do you feel validated? We don't think you know what constant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 03:30 PM |
| 16 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?OP is talking about dead bedroom, not incels. People who have found companionship but are having their needs ignored in a relationship. Like I said, I've been on both sides of a dead bedroom. The LL, and the HL. I've felt unloved and trapped in the HL situation. I've slowly grown more and more depressed in the LL situation as I realized as hard as I tried to make sex work it would never be pleasurable for me. Yay, I can choke down mouldy burrito as often as I like!! Nay, I'm forced to eat it eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 03:09 PM |
| 26 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?Still not the same because the fact is, you know you can get sex whenever you want. Sure, I can find someone who will probably want to sleep with me, but will he do it well? Will he care about my pleasure and work to give it to me? If he doesn't give a shit about me why should he? Maybe men can equate any sex with validation and love. Maybe it is always pleasurable and lovely for you, not so for women, at least not for me. Anyway, do I really want those few hours of pleasure and the rest of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 02:10 PM |
| 47 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?I'm a woman and I'm a sexual person, I do get frustrated if I have to go without it. I get frustrated if the only sex I can get is mediocre(i.e. doesn't get you off at all). I've felt defeat when I've realized that the partner I loved deeply couldn't satisfy me sexually. Imagine loving someone so much you never want to hurt them, never want to leave them and seeing the future stretch on forever without any real pleasure for yourself ever. It is bullshit women don't understand sexual frustration.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many single women have affairs with married men?I don't see any message boards dedicated to single men whining about how married women won't leave their husband. So? There could be many reasons for this, not the least of them that men are less likey to reach out for the support in general, but you know your own TRP philosophy gives a reason for why there aren't message boards for single men waiting for a woman to leave her husband: they don't care she's taken, they are getting sex which is what they want. No one is going to do research that p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/15 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Why is being shallow considered a negative thing?I don't think of shallow people as people who are attracted to beautiful people, we all are. You're shallow if the only thing you care about are looks. If you are just after someone to be a pretty sex doll for you then you're probably lacking in depth. If you're only interested in you're own looks you're pretty lacking in depth. Look at people from Jersey Shore or The Kardashians and see how vapid and vain they all are, to me that isn't sexy at all. I like pretty people but I also like witty, ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/15 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Did this guy swallow TRP without knowing it or is he another Elliot Rodger nut-job?ah, cool. Let's just open that up as a question to people who do identify that way. Do you agree with what this guy has to say? How much and why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Interesting article "Why do we victim-blame?"No, but I think there is a shit load of difference between your level of maturity at 13 and 18. We're talking 40yo with 14 yo, not a 17yo with a 19yo. http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2009/10/teen-maturity.aspx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/15 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Did this guy swallow TRP without knowing it or is he another Elliot Rodger nut-job?What a fucking nutjob. wow. I just can't. no. all of the things that are wrong and disgusting about what he just said. I need a shower. What he is saying pretty much boils down to women should die because they don't use their vaginas to solve fucked brain chemistry of serial killers. Like they could, like people with fucked up heads just need to be laid.. He thinks they deserve to be murdered because they don't fuck everything that moves and that makes him feel bad. what the fuck? Do you really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/15 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Why the fascination with the red pill?Sorry this is kind of long. There are many things the Red Pill and I agree on. I believe in setting boundaries with people, which is like a less douchey version of dread game. I think men and women should value themselves and not put up with other people's shitty behaviour. If people are behaving badly respect yourself enough to tell them "I don't want this as part of my life. You can do whatever you like, but if you keep doing this I won't be here." That isn't manipulation of behaviour like dre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/15 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill, what do you think of a woman if she has a low sex drive? Or just doesn't want to have sex?Ew, are you into child brides? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/15 09:38 AM |
| 5 | Why the fascination with the red pill?Pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/15 12:42 PM |
| 9 | Why the fascination with the red pill?I don't remember how I ran into the red pill. I remember being disturbed by it though. Both at the behaviour of some of the women it talked about, and the philosophy about woman on the sub. Never posted on BP. Just read jokes about Alfalfa eating hamsters mostly and felt better that I wasn't the only one who found parts of RP ideology completely out of order. The BP sub mostly points the finger and goes "your ideas are bad and you should feel bad". TRP sub does the same to BPers as well. Neither… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/15 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Female RPers and Male BPers the side you disagree with seems to be more in your favour so why do you think it's bullshit?There are many things the Red Pill and I agree on. Like setting boundaries with people, which is like a less douchey version of dread game. I think men and women should value themselves and not put up with other people's shitty behaviour. Keeping frame is akin to "don't follow shitty behaviour with shitty behaviour". If someone is being unreasonable and you either fold or be unreasonable right back you aren't going to get anywhere. I agree with not putting women on pedestals, women can be arseho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/15 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Interesting article "Why do we victim-blame?"Did you have an adult who has authority over you encouraging you and telling you it is all right to do fucked up things? Kids do dumb shit, but its an adults responsibiility to guide them away from harm, not toward it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Interesting article "Why do we victim-blame?"Why do you think an adult having sex with a child is illegal? Because the position of power the adult has over them means that force isn't necessary to rape them. Someone who is passed out can't consent because they aren't conscious. Children aren't conscious about what sex means and therefore can't consent. This is a discussion about victim blaming and the article is 100% relevant. They are still victims and they are still being blamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/15 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Do women judge men's sexual past?Experience, for a man, is not a negative - it's a requirement. I've had guys reveal their virgin status to me and been more attracted to them. Usually they're virgins because they're super shy, not incel. The idea of breaking them in is very appealing to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | "But the past is the past and that doesn't matter! I'm not like that anymore!"I know, I wrote it in a fit of pique last night. There is so little actual debate on purple pill debate that sometimes I get caught up in the "your ideology is stupid" game that both sides play. He could have quite reasonably said I prefer not to date women who have slept around because I'll never be sure if they've really changed. But to imply that people never change is to basically say TRP is fundamentally useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone actually believe that "mansplaining" is a thing?What is mansplaining? I don't think I've come across this term before. Is mansplaining the feminist equivelent for TRP's hamstering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Interesting article "Why do we victim-blame?"So your plan to stop rape is to return women to being property? Maybe upper class women were protected more from potential date rapists 100 years ago but that is not to say women weren't raped simply because they didn't dress provocatively. What about working class women who either had to work or whose parents couldn't afford chaperones? Back then to admit you were raped would ruin you. You'd have to withdraw from society. There is no real data on rape 100 years ago because no one would report i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 11:03 AM |
| 2 | "But the past is the past and that doesn't matter! I'm not like that anymore!"Once a beta always a beta. As far as I'm concerned every sad sack whose ever joined TRP will forever be the loserly, frameless, bitter sad sack that can't satisfy a woman or stop her hypergamy. Yes, that is exactly as ridiculous as you sound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Interesting article "Why do we victim-blame?"This public awareness campaign http://www.savedmonton.com/about-our-campaigns.html was associated with a 10% decrease in the incedence of rape in that area. They've done studies that show a huge amount of rapists actually don't know what they are doing is wrong. They literally just think it is okay to sleep with a chick if she's passed out, or feed her more drinks until she is.. Why would she care? It isn't like she'll remember. Then there is the fact that female rapists thinks it's okay because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/15 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Interesting article "Why do we victim-blame?"People confuse responsibility with blame all the time. Pretty much all that "victim blaming" is people pointing out the responsibility aspect. I agree with a lot of the rest of your post but this, which seams to be your main point, irks me. The way people victim blame is in no way to do with placing responsibility. It is vitriolic and attempts to waive away any wrong doing by the rapist. Fuck, some of the shit on the net in response to this stuff turns the stomach. 12 year old girls raped at gun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/15 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Do Women enjoy having a victimhood status? In regards to Rape/Sexual AssaultI'm certainly not saying all women are submissive in nature when attacked. Just that many like myself experienced the freeze response rather than fight or flight. Fear effects everyone differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/15 09:57 AM |
| 2 | I believe we should normalize male to female gangbanging (men generally don't have the capacity for reverse gangbangs anyhow) as the preferred reproductive system - so the healthiest sperm wins and that the one man one woman system is an evolutionary mistake.The only trait that will develop is fast sperm. That's a pretty lame eugenics program. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 09:19 AM |
| 7 | [Discussion] If gender is purely a construct, how do we account for transgender people and other extreme outliers of their sex?I agree that it is a mix of the two. There are some differences in hormone levels between boys and girls invitro and then again during adolescence that can really change the way they behave. For instance I think on TRP you can find the documentary about the studies they've done that show being subjected to more testosterone in vitro makes infants more attracted to pictures of technical abstract things like cranes and less attracted to social things like humane faces. The thing is that each child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 02:59 AM |
| 7 | I believe we should normalize male to female gangbanging (men generally don't have the capacity for reverse gangbangs anyhow) as the preferred reproductive system - so the healthiest sperm wins and that the one man one woman system is an evolutionary mistake.dafuq? This is the weirdest eugenics program I've ever heard about. Why not just only allow people with good genes to reproduce? Why bother with a gangbang at all, you could just add a lot of different guys spunk to a turkey baster. What if you're the kind of woman who doesn't enjoy gangbangs or no emotional attachement to the man you're producing a child with? Do six guys go in, do the deed and just split the cost of raising the progeny even if it is really obvious it isn't yours? Like a geneti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Do Women enjoy having a victimhood status? In regards to Rape/Sexual AssaultMartial Arts training is only going to give women a false sense of security, the difference in strength levels between the sexes is too great and most situations where rape happens women wouldn't even think to use martial arts before it is too late because the rapist is their friend/spouse/date. It doesn't even occur that someone so close to you could violate you so badly. It doesn't occur to kick him in the nuts because girls are socialised not to be rude and surely there is just some mistake a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Do Women enjoy having a victimhood status? In regards to Rape/Sexual AssaultMost women are raped by men they know, like spouses and friends, many times in their own home. If you want an equivalent it's like letting a friend into your house for a cup of tea and then them punching you out and stealing all your shit. Then he tells people that you wanted to give him all your stuff., that he wasn't stealing at all. And because he seems like a stand up guy people believe him. When you go to the police they question you about how attractive your tv was, whether you'd given oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is there consensus that the female corollary of the friend zone is the "fuck zone"? if not why not? Also which is preferableI know, I was pointing out that many gay men don't experience sexual scarcity and still want a commited relationship. Your explanation of the situation doesn't really align with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/15 11:23 PM |
| 20 | Do BluePill men truly believe they are the ‘best their girlfriend/wife ever had”?Not a BP man, but woman. I have friends that arguably rode the cock carousel when they were younger. So many of them tell me that it was just sex, just mechanical and then they met their partner and they had this emotional attachement to the other person. Sex finally meant something and physically they got off on it more too. What makes a man the best you've ever had isn't just limited to looks or sexual skill, how you feel about the person you're getting intimate with matters a lot for women. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/15 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there consensus that the female corollary of the friend zone is the "fuck zone"? if not why not? Also which is preferableSure, loneliness could have been a factor, but its also probably just because I'm awesome. :P How does RP's sexual marketplace explain gay guys that don't screw around then? The sexual market place for a gay male is completely open, but I know plenty of them who are attractive enough to go out and ride the cock-carousel like crazy but prefer to be in a commited relationship. Some men do want an emotional connection with their sex, you may not care but some do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/15 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Is there consensus that the female corollary of the friend zone is the "fuck zone"? if not why not? Also which is preferableI had a one night stand with a friend once, guy cried and told me I was the one the next day as I was leaving. Fuckzone can exists for both genders I guess. Some of my female friends have also experienced the same thing where they've hooked up and the guy is wanting more than just sex. As to what is worse between friendzone for guys and fuckzone for girls? Well both of them involve deluding yourself into thinking something will happen when it wont. Realizing the truth is always going to be painf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/15 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Not RP, but I do think a specifically American kind of feminism can be quite annoying on the Internet.In my childhood it was OK to yell to a screaming 6 month old to shut the fuck up and slam the door. It toughened us up I guess. Do you really think a 6 month old can control the fact that they are upset or even understand why they are being screamed at? Absolutely not, they don't have the cognitive ability to. It is understandable some parents lose their cool but studies have shown screaming at a child has a negative effect on their emotional development and can lead to behavioural issues. It do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/15 08:46 AM |
| 2 | "The Wild Oats Project: One Woman's Midlife Quest for Passion at Any Cost"Absolutely, but if your partner tells you that they are unfulfilled and you aren't willing to step up and fix it then break up, nothing worse than people hanging on to each other and making each other miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/15 09:20 PM |
| 6 | "The Wild Oats Project: One Woman's Midlife Quest for Passion at Any Cost"This is one of those cases where both partners are behaving badly. Her husband didn't want to have kids and took steps to ensure they never did even though he knew it would leave his wife feeling unfulfilled with her life. If you love someone but you can't make them happy in life then break up so they can find someone who can. That applies to her as well, instead they sound dangerously co-dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/15 10:28 AM |
| 3 | If a woman refuses to do certain sexual acts for her Bf/Husband, does it mean she isn't truly attracted to him?That is fine, but the question here is whether or not a woman is not sexually attracted to a man if she doesn't do sexual acts she did with previous partners. I'm pointing out that there isn't direct correlation. Deal breakers are another matter entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 11:40 PM |
| 4 | If a woman refuses to do certain sexual acts for her Bf/Husband, does it mean she isn't truly attracted to him?I just want to point out that what turns you on can change. How you feel about yourself can change. I use to always be the giver in the relationship, the person putting myself out for the other person. I enjoyed having that kind of power over my partners body. Believe me, it turned me on, even if I wasn't particularly stimulated to actual physical pleasure. Now I don't find it particularly as exciting to be all give and no take. Even my fantasies have changed. I don't give as much head as I used… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Are women willing to have STEM careers, but not able? Are they able, but not willing?People tend to share interests with their friends and most women are friends with women, so even if you have aptitude for a STEM field if all of your friends are studying nursing and humanities you are more likely to go into one of those fields. It is also seen as fairly "uncool" for women to have nerdy interests, I can still remember my friend telling her mum that she wanted to study computer science at Uni and her mum saying "Why do you want to do that for? You're pretty, you don't need to." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/14 02:55 AM |
| 4 | TRP doesn't advocate for rape, except when it does.Hey guess what? You have no fucking idea what you do when you're being raped because you haven't been. There isn't just fight or flight response to danger, there is also freeze, ever seen a gazelle go still after a lion grabs it? That is the freeze reaction kicking in. When I was attacked I said no repeatedly, he kept coming at me and trapped me where I couldn't escape. I didn't want to hurt him because I thought he was my friend... and then I was too scared to fight him because I thought he wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/14 07:43 AM |
| 2 | What's Your Alignment?Chaotic good, which I guess makes sense because I don't care about rules or people pleasing but I will help people when I think they need it. Oh there is an even longer quiz for DND nerds, brb... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/14 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Unconditional Love: Difference between the sexes?BP woman(purplish tinge) here, I know I'm not the target of your question but I feel like I should add my idea of what healthy unconditional love is in a relationship. I love people unconditionally, it doesn't mean I stay in relationships that are bad for me though, I have to love myself too. My ex and I were together for three years, but he wanted children and I don't. Between the choices of staying, making him unhappy without children, having children I don't want and making myself and maybe t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/14 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Why do you identify as Blue Pill?You can find plenty of data on how widespread the use of corporal punishment was back to classical civilizations. Trying to control behavior is not a bi-product of feminism. Out of curiosity was your private school single sex or co-ed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/14 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What sort of relationships do you have with your own gender VS the opposite gender?I'm female and identify as Blue Pill I guess. My closest friends are female but I have more acquaintance type male friends because my hobbies skew to things like strategy games, fantasy and sci-fi etc. Besides nerdy proclivities my interests are wide so I can chat with just about anybody about anything from human nature to physical sciences to history to philosophy. I notice some of my friends with narrower and deeper interests find it hard to do the same. I'm very close to my mum who is incredi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/14 11:47 PM |
| 0 | [Question For Redpill] How important is it to have your own place if you're gonna hook up with chicks?You can mark something as a question for red pill or blue pill when you want to posit a question or argument for that group specifically to answer. Some questions might be irrelevant for a group. But it is a debate forum, so the purpose is not to ask for advice but to discuss and question ideologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/14 08:28 AM |
| 0 | [Question For Redpill] How important is it to have your own place if you're gonna hook up with chicks?To debate the merits of both groups ideologies and to find common ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/14 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Questioning the value in subscribingHi, this isn't really a debate question and you've kind of broken rule 3. Please ask this question in The Blue Pill subreddit instead as it has no value here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Do women have a right to birth control?The happiest countries in the world: Norway, Sweden, New Zealand and Canada all have fairly high tax rates and socialized health care. Sorry, but your argument doesn't hold water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/14 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Do women have a right to birth control?Not if I make sufficient preparations to defend my property... Get guns, buy gold and build a bunker all the while always looking over your shoulder? Enjoy your life. It sounds like you'll be miserable. Society is built on co-operation and looking out for one another. If you reject society you better learn to sleep with one eye open because no one else is going to watch your back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/14 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Do women have a right to birth control?You will pay for other people's children in one way or another, either now to provide them with adequate support so they can grow into productive adults. Or later when out of desperation they take what you have that they do not because of the parents they were born to. We're animals. We can be domesticated but unless you throw a dog a bone and show it kindness often enough it will revert back to its wildness. People are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/14 01:29 AM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?Dread Game works because it's setting boundaries. No, when I set a boundary I tell someone that their behavior is putting me out and work with them to come up with a solution or a compromise. I use communication and problem solving to make sure we both get what we want. When a red piller uses dread game he makes his partner feel insecure about herself and the relationship so she'll jump through hoops. There is no recourse if he is over-reacting to her behavior because dread game aims to make her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 09:29 PM |
| -1 | [Question For Redpill] How important is it to have your own place if you're gonna hook up with chicks?Then he would have marked it as question for blue pill, not question for red. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?Yes. TRP is hypocritical. Then why do you care if TBP is hypocritical? It is satire. Mockery through mimicry. That is why they call Terpers Alfalfa. TRP is a group who is advocating manipulating women for sex and TBP is against that! Ugh, no. That's not what TRP advocates. Explain to me how negging or dread game works if not to manipulate a woman so she will be compliant to your wishes? But I have to wonder, why it is that out of all the things in the world to be against or to fight for the most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 02:06 PM |
| 5 | In terms of game theory, what would happen if red pill ideas became mainstream?About the same amount of both men and women would still reject manipulation as an acceptable behavior in relationships. Most men and women are aware it is possible to manipulate your partner they just don't want to. Those people would remain the same while being more aware of manipulative behavior which would lessen TRP's viability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 12:01 PM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?Right. Because hate keeps someone from love. Are you kidding me? Hate is the OPPOSITE of love! No, you can't love something you truly hate. Hate is mistrust and dislike, love is trust and affection. They are diametric opposites. Your argument is illogical. How would you feel if women started calling so called beta orbiters "Wallets"? Guess what? There are women that do that. And on TRP, the behaviour of those women is shamed. You've just admitted TRPs own hypocrisy, again. It is fine for the men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 10:26 AM |
| 4 | In terms of game theory, what would happen if red pill ideas became mainstream?It's interesting that you view two people having consensual sex as the man stealing something from the woman, as if she is a victim rather than a participant. Plenty of TRP members believe that women who engage in casual sex lose their value. While they would use them for sex or "plate rotation" they wouldn't have LTRs with them and they would call them sluts. I have no problem with you demanding commitment per se. But that's probably harder to get in a world where fewer and fewer women do that.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 06:59 AM |
| 1 | [Question For Redpill] How important is it to have your own place if you're gonna hook up with chicks?This isn't a debate topic. Go and post this in Red Pill if you want specifically Red Pill answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 06:34 AM |
| 8 | On language and its uses: RP vs BPI think the real reality is that both sexes are capable of horrible acts of manipulation and deceit towards each other. Teach your children to value themselves and respect other people's needs without letting them walk all over you or vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/14 05:53 AM |
| 10 | On language and its uses: RP vs BPI personally wouldn't want TRP to change its language use unless its philosophy and behaviors actually changed, most of their terms seem to reflect exactly what they mean them to. Some behaviors that TRP and TBP agree on in principle are very different in practice and it would be confusing to make them sound more PC when they really, really aren't. Take dread game for example, it shares the same principles as Setting Boundaries. Both TRP and TBP agree: You should value yourself and stand up agai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Can I classify her as an alpha feminist woman?Magic: The Gathering collection does not generate sexual attraction in women (nor does it necessarily detract). Not for all women. I admit it, I'm hypergamous for magic cards. Show me that black lotus baby! (I'm joking, I hate the vintage format. Modern all the way). Back to the issue at hand. If TRP is correct then women who only value themselves for their attractiveness to men will see their self esteem plummet post 30 so discouraging women from following careers that provide them fulfillment … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 11:34 AM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?When you express an opinion like "TRP loves women" when you've already admitted the misogyny and rage on the TRP forum in an early reply you undermine your own credibility. Certain members of TRP may love women, the base philosophy might not explicitly hate women but the way that philosophy is interpreted by TRP members is often as misogyny. I've already pointed out the things that I have read on TRP that debase women and you yourself agreed with them enough to say they should be mainstream poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Differences between how you conduct romantic and nonromantic interactions?Another female perspective: I like people so I'll try to draw people out in conversation whether I'm attracted to them sexually or not. I flirt with everybody, not hyper sexual flirtatiousness but playfulness of speech, gentle ribbing and compliments. I find out what they are passionate about and make it the topics of our conversations. I tell jokes, often at my own expense. In the appropriate crowd I have a pretty(VERY) earthy sense of humor and a bit of a sailor's tongue. I like to make people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Differences between how you conduct romantic and nonromantic interactions?It is playful which is the essence of flirtation. And it makes your eyes look bigger and your jaw look narrower which are two traits of feminine features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 07:47 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what proportion of women experience long sexual dry spells, as in years or decades, compared to the masses of beta herbivore forever alone men?There was once a time when physical affection between hetero men was seen as normal and not labelled gay. I think it is shitty how little contact some guys get today, you need that shit for your mental health. I have a friend from college who I treat like a little brother and give him hugs whenever I see him because I know he's having a shit time, but there is not much else I can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 07:07 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what proportion of women experience long sexual dry spells, as in years or decades, compared to the masses of beta herbivore forever alone men?Dude, most chicks aren't gay and even the ones that are don't want to invite awkwardness if they are hugging straight friends so they suppress it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 07:03 AM |
| 3 | In your opinion, what proportion of women experience long sexual dry spells, as in years or decades, compared to the masses of beta herbivore forever alone men?You are looking at this from the view point that some sex, regardless of whether you find the quality to be bad, is better than no sex at all. Which might be true for some people but not all people. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and my libido is fairly high but I'd rather get myself off than have mechanical sex with a handsome guy I have no connection to. Playing DnD with a guy makes her feel connection and attraction, who are we to judge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 06:56 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what proportion of women experience long sexual dry spells, as in years or decades, compared to the masses of beta herbivore forever alone men?You have pointed out in your post that the female re-productivity declines post 30 as well, it's quite possible that many of the single women who are sexless post 30 are that way by choice due to reduced hormone levels killing their libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 06:10 AM |
| 3 | How is society teaching men improperly?Wouldn't you also care about whether you approve of the woman your son would be marrying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Treating women like childrenMy hunch is that BDSM may as well be called "the feminist kink." It makes sense, as just like homophobes who always see "gayness" everywhere, feminists always see rape/abuse/violence against women/objectification/humiliation everywhere - constantly. Seeing "gayness" or sexual violence everywhere is a form of hyper-vigilance. Hyper-vigilance is caused by feeling threatened, sometimes brought on by past trauma. It is not about a secret longing, it's a reaction to fear. Homophobes fear gay people b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/14 04:50 AM |
| 6 | Treating women like childrenSo certain PUA tactics definitely are targeted to either lower self esteem or work on women who already have low self-esteem Negging is a tactic that seeks to lower self-esteem to make a woman more compliant and to get her to lower her standards to accept you. Push and pull seeks to give validation to a women and then remove it so that she complies with your wishes as she wants to receive more validation. If a woman has a healthy self-esteem she won't feel as though she requires a newly acquaint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/14 04:40 AM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?My cuteness has nothing to do with your argument or my argument. "Don't be cute" is not a saying that has anything to do with your physical appearance. It means don't do anything underhanded - such as trying to give the appearance that I support your viewpoint when I clearly and logically do not. It's a personal attack, and this subreddit does not support personal attacks. I'm pointing out a flaw in your argument, not a flaw in you therefore it isn't a personal attack. Because here you're absolu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/14 04:02 AM |
| 8 | Treating women like childrenTRP does not equate women to literally children Tie this into TRP's assertion that women don't mentally mature beyond the age of 18 and TRP is actually kind of equating women with literally children. Either way they are saying women are incomplete people whose choices and point of view can't be trusted. in the confines of a relationship or when building attraction, what is inherently wrong or deficient about this method .... if it works for you of course. If I did have low self-esteem and daddy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?Don't be cute, Don't police behaviour of my gender. Lets be clear, you attempted to "score a point" by saying that I supported your viewpoint without any logical argument as to why. In a debate that doesn't fly, so I called you out on it. It had nothing to do with your gender and everything to do with the fact that this is a DEBATE. Like it or lump it, but only reason matters here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/14 10:29 PM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?So you agree that the posters on TBP are hypocrites. That is awesome. I don't agree with anything. You're the one that called TBP hypocrites, I'm just pointing out that by your own logic TRP is a hate group that seeks to make women disposable. They call women plates, call them children, call them sluts who ride the cock carousel. AWALT they say. All women are worthless apart from to pump and dump. They call men who don't think the same Beta losers. All of it is said with deadly seriousness, all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/14 12:49 PM |
| 2 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?Terpers tend to go from one end of the spectrum of putting women on a pedestal to denigrating them as hopelessly flawed. I do think of Terpers as human beings, misguided in some ways(we all are) but still valuable people none the less. So you view TRPers the same way they view women. Okay. However I understand how a lot of people on the Blue Pill forum feel frustrated that there is nothing they can do to change terper's opinions and they need some cathartic release from said frustration. If I ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/14 02:33 AM |
| 2 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?So you're saying, someone's inability to treat a person as a person is a result of a lack of social skills? No, I'm saying a lot of terpers assume because learning social skills worked for them that all of the other nonsense TRP preaches is true. Terpers tend to go from one end of the spectrum of putting women on a pedestal to denigrating them as hopelessly flawed. Both views treat women as "other" and neither views are helpful. We are human like you, often different in some ways but very simila… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 07:29 AM |
| 2 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?Draw people out, find out what interests them, make them laugh, put them at ease, demonstrate yourself as interesting and worthy of their time. Value people who do the same for you. If someone seems to be taking advantage of you or is acting in a way that is negatively effecting you set boundaries and protect yourself against their behavior. At the same time realize that no one is perfect. You may be doing the same to others without realizing. Most people's behavior is a product of their upbring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | If Red Pillers just need to treat women like people, can Blue Pillers explain how to treat people like people in an affirmative way?You still have to set your boundaries and protect yourself, you just don't act like an asshole to other people because TRP says AWALT. I'm a generous person. I like for my friends to enjoy the things I have, I will go out of my way to help when someone needs me. But if I find someone who only covets my things or my time but doesn't respect me, I'm out of there. I know not all people were raised like me but it isn't my job to be a doormat. I'm not a bitch about it, even if the odd person who does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Why does TRP think that it is ok to use dehumanizing labels for people?I stand corrected. That app is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/14 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Why does TRP think that it is ok to use dehumanizing labels for people?The differences is women who enjoy sleeping with many men don't get together online to rag on the men they sleep with and talk about how worthless they are. Promiscuous women think that the deal goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/14 09:53 PM |
| -1 | Why does TRP think that it is ok to use dehumanizing labels for people?I'm comparing behavior and showing the dangers of that behavior in a historical context, nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/14 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Why does TRP think that it is ok to use dehumanizing labels for people?So its just a coincidence then that you're using dehumanizing language to describe someone you intend to use for sexual pleasure and then discard. Right... Puffing out your chest and describing yourself as "Alpha" and all the other men who don't agree with you "Beta" is not cutting through bullshit. It is bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/14 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Why does TRP think that it is ok to use dehumanizing labels for people?It's not just that someone is controlling someone else's behavior for their own amusement. It is also that calling someone a plate is taking away their humanity and describing them as a "thing", and historically when we've started calling people things we've done some really horrible shit. It brings to mind the case of the Bio-warfare testing camp in Japan in the second world war who described the people that they did horrific human testing on as "logs". Asking "How many logs fell" was code for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/14 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Why does TRP think that it is ok to use dehumanizing labels for people?I feel a man has a right to call a woman whatever he wishes, especially how to refer to his own woman. Your last comment about a man's right to call "his own woman" whatever he wants is pretty telling. You didn't choose to say "Partner" or "Significant other" you said the woman he owns, as in the woman that is his property. I guess you're okay with this view because at least you're not a plate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/14 12:08 AM |
| 4 | What exactly is the "Red pill" aspect of the theredpill? Who is the pill for?"Confidence"? Really? No. Women use the word "confidence" when they don't want to say "rich". Rich is what you said. Rich as in money in the bank. See this is where your theory falls down. I do have a partner who has skills and a temperament to make him well liked by society but I KNOW he has no plans to use those skills to acquire heaps of resources and I still choose him over guys who are much wealthier but lack those skills. Neither of us is particularly interested in money, it's useful, it s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 04:23 AM |
| 1 | What does /r/TheRedPill make of this: "Record share of wives are more educated than their husbands"I think you read from this article what you wanted to read. Sure, some of the women use their higher earning to look down on their partners but some of their partners where actively not contributing to their relationship. The artist who didn't paint. The daddy who didn't dad. A marriage is about both contributing to your goals together, it doesn't have to be financial, value comes in all shapes and forms. But when one person is working their butt off and the other is coasting how can you not exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Financial AbortionFunny how pro-choice people quickly turn pro-life when the man argues there should be an opt out option. What? Where am I arguing fetuses have to be brought to term? Pro choice means exactly that. You get to choose. Unplanned and unwanted pregnancy is always shitty and all of the options have consequences but their impact is different for different people. There are legitimate reasons not to choose abortion: My mum still cries about the abortion she was pressured into having, she's religious and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 11:54 PM |
| 7 | What exactly is the "Red pill" aspect of the theredpill? Who is the pill for?I have a confident partner. He's socially well adjusted. He knows what he wants in life. He's never petty or mean. He doesn't have to dominate other people or bring them down to make himself feel good. He is confident enough to show parts of himself that aren't stereo-typically masculine. He's honest and unguarded. His bank account isn't even vaguely rich. There be tumbleweeds. I earn more than he does and probably always will. Yet, he is my soul mate, my companion, my best friend. I've had othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:06 PM |
| 6 | What exactly is the "Red pill" aspect of the theredpill? Who is the pill for?I just wanted to extrapolate on your post because like you said nobody gets told that setting boundaries is the only way to have happy, healthy relationships and both partners need to be able to set them. Everybody behaves shitty sometimes. We have shitty days at work and take it out on the wrong people. We get scared about stupid shit and lash out in the wrong ways. We mirror our parents shitty behavior because we think that's the way it's meant to be. Worst of all most times we don't know we'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 01:37 PM |
| 9 | Financial AbortionRed Pill can't really condone adoption because Red Pill believes the worst thing in the world a man can do is a raise a child that isn't his. You'd be forcing someone else to take care of your progeny because you didn't want to. You're right, choices have consequences. Sex has the possibility of pregnancy. Women don't get a clean break either, if you think abortion or adoption don't have consequences for the women choosing them you're gravely mistaken. Financial abortion is just a way of saying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What does /r/TheRedPill make of this: "Record share of wives are more educated than their husbands"Even though the article linked doesn't relate to choosing to marry people of a potential earning power it does have an interesting fact: That men who are not employed, regardless of their marital satisfaction, are more likely to initiate divorce suggests that a marriage in which the man does not work "does not look like what [men] think a marriage is supposed to," the researchers write. Sure, women were more likely to initiate divorce when there partners became unemployed, but men weren't choosi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 10:44 AM |
| 2 | What does /r/TheRedPill make of this: "Record share of wives are more educated than their husbands"High-earning women eventually run out of options and deign to marry a man making less then she does. So how does this interpretation fit with the studies that show that men are subconsciously threatened when their partners are successful? How does women deigning to marry a man who earns less fit with RP's view that men are the "gatekeepers of commitment"? Doesn't it mean that some men are deigning to marry women who are higher earners, not the other way round? Aren't they the ones who are still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Bill does the dishesMasterRod. I respect your opinion on so many things. Not this one. Gates enjoys the way he washes dishes, so what? This isn't some big conspiracy for his wife to get out of housework. Gates is a man with a lot of complex work to do most of the time, a vast majority of it that includes delegating. Is it really that surprising he can take pleasure in doing a simple task himself to his own standards? I'm sure Obama is the same way. Some people meditate, some do yogo and some people de-scale the tea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/14 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Purple Discussion The slut double standardThink you've got the cold sore virus or partnered up with anyone who has? You probably already got it. Sorry. You don't even have to pick it up through sexual contact and they don't have to be having a visible outbreak to transmit it because of something called 'viral shedding'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/14 11:25 AM |
| 6 | Purple Discussion The slut double standardI agree with you; it's fine to have preferences, it's fine to announce preferences. My problem is the moment you vilify the people that are outside of your preferences is when we have a problem. I remember listening to a quite obese guy rant about how he hated fat chicks and I remember thinking at the time that's fine as long as you accept that there probably aren't any thin women that want you. (Needless to say he's been incel for a very long time and his anger about it has been growing steadil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/14 11:12 AM |
| 5 | Do red pill men typically agree with the goals of r/redpillwomen?he suggests something for us that I view as inefficient, and I stfu about it because the advantage to pushing my agenda (more efficiency, or whatever) is really minor compared to the cumulative damage I could do to my relationship by undermining and arguing with him over small shit all the time. See that is the part I have difficulty with. I could never be in a relationship with someone who wouldn't hear my suggestions(even on small things) and who would feel lesser because I thought of somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/14 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Do red pill men typically agree with the goals of r/redpillwomen?I remember reading this when the poster hadn't deleted their account. The point wasn't to get sex(that was for his pleasure as well) but to make him "wife" her. Sadly the follow up was after her partner demanded she make him dinner and it be on the table by X time he dropped her like a week later. Oh well, she can always fall back on being a lawyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/14 04:20 AM |
| 1 | If a man tricks a woman into an abortion, the fetus is treated under the law like a person (gets 14 year sentence). If a woman wants it, it's fine.Actually it is more like he's guilty of assault and maiming. A fetus is considered part of a woman's body until a certain age of gestation after which we no longer allow abortion. If a woman chooses to abort before then she can do so as she is altering her own body. Anybody who is interfering with her body with the intent of harm and without her permission is committing an act of violence against her, not just fraud and deceit. 14 years is not unreasonable for a charge of assault and maiming, es… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/14 09:46 AM |
| 1 | The very real danger in allowing male passengers to sit next to unaccompanied children.Still gobsmacked you're ignoring the point. Those allegations still mostly made by women. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/14 06:00 AM |
| 0 | The very real danger in allowing male passengers to sit next to unaccompanied children.If something is not bad/wrong to them, then it by definition is not molestation. Subjecting children to improper sexual advances is molestation, period. A child cannot consent to a sex act with an adult, it doesn't matter if they are not bothered by it at the time, it is still molestation. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 10:44 PM |
| 0 | The very real danger in allowing male passengers to sit next to unaccompanied children.There's lots of other people around, a predator would have nowhere to run. Anyone stupid enough to do something in that situation, would have been arrested long ago. Plenty of predators are known by the parents of their victims. Running isn't what they worry about, they just don't get caught because people see only what they want to see. I had a friend who was sexually assaulted by a family friend practically in front of her parents who failed to see what was going on(he was petting her genitali… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 03:46 PM |
| 3 | The very real danger in allowing male passengers to sit next to unaccompanied children.And I should just ignore the part where he said 9 out of 10 women lie about being raped... Because his other completely made up and non-verifiable statistics are "true". This post has over 80 upvotes and the 1 person bringing up the ridiculousness of OP's statement has negative karma. How can you guys not see this is absurd? | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 03:27 PM |
| -1 | The very real danger in allowing male passengers to sit next to unaccompanied children.Holy shit. I didn't even read this last part. I did notice OP was making up statistics when he said it was more likely the plane would crash than a random man would have pedophilic tendencies. I'm willing to admit they are fairly low but the chance of being in a plane that crashes and people die is like 1 in 3 million and according to Fergusson and Mullen about 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually assaulted before they turn 16. Even if that is an exaggerated amount(anecdotally I think n… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 02:17 PM |
| 8 | The very real danger in allowing male passengers to sit next to unaccompanied children.We keep unaccompanied minors seated separately from men for the same reasons society tells women not to go out alone at night, we are conditioned to believe that bad people are "out there", strangers on the fringes of society. Yet, the vast majority of rapes are perpetrated by people the victim knows and we can pretty much assume the same is true for child sexual assault. The thought process is that rapists and child molesters are shadowy monsters not men and women who hide in plain sight. The p… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I think some woman put her kid up to this.The kids frustration seems genuine to me, but I may be projecting my own childhood on it. As a chick who grew up loving lego I can remember being frustrated as a kid that there was a girls section that had barbies, and dress ups and doll houses which were boring to me while the boys got mechano, cool lego and cars. I never got Lego as a gift, I always had to buy it with my own pocket money. I had a huge space collection but not a single female lego astronaut. If I wanted a female head to trade w… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/14 09:58 AM |
| 12 | MRA's, please don't do this! What other groups within MRA do you think give us a bad name?This. I'm not interested in blaming men or women for X,Y or Z. I don't want to study why men or women are genetically superior or inferior and use it as an excuse to treat them badly. All I want to do is find solutions to problems that make every man woman and child's life better. Why is that so hard? Why does every one turn to flinging shit at one another instead of actively trying to make the world a better place? Still searching for people who feel the same. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/13 06:06 AM |
| 1 | You know what they say about assumptions... (link to story in comments)There are plenty of high-class, well-paid prostitutes who work because they enjoy it and the money. I think you're probably right that the average street walker would choose to do something else if she could though. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/13 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Our so-called “Rape Culture”I am 110% with you on how awful false rape accusations are, any woman or man who has actually experienced rape would be, because not only do they make some innocent person suffer but fuck those people who make people question your experience as well. But there is a culture of rape, otherwise the statistics that 1 in 20 false rapes are reported and 2 in 3 rapes are unreported would be reversed or the very least closer together. Nor would the amount of rapists brought to justice be so ridiculously… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/13 01:14 PM |
| 1 | "For the under-40s, women have won their battle. It's young men we need to worry about... We’re looking at a new inequality being incubated, because male horizons are narrowing."I'm not quite sure what you mean by olden days. Do you mean black people a couple hundred years ago or serfs in the middle ages? Because women worked beside the men in the field as well as home in both situations. A house servant of course would be a cushier position than manual labor, so would any skilled craft and both of these positions would have been open to men. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/13 10:33 PM |
| 2 | "For the under-40s, women have won their battle. It's young men we need to worry about... We’re looking at a new inequality being incubated, because male horizons are narrowing."House maid wasn't a great job as I understand. 17 hour days and you usually didn't earn a wage just room and board. A man could still also be a butler or a footman etc. which wasn't that different except you weren't dealing with peoples chamberpots. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/13 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex?I do actually see the biological drive toward finding a mate who can 'protect and provide'. During caveman times we would have been especially vulnerable during pregnancy and a strong partner would mean the difference between survival and death for us and our child. Women are always going to be attracted to men that fulfill that roll just like men are going to be attracted to women with good genes who are healthy and young enough for childbearing. Yet we look down on men who leave their wives fo… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/13 01:21 AM |
| 7 | Ladies of MRM: What do you really want us normal, non-rapist men to actually *do* about rape?You obviously don't want advice on how to avoid, deter or defeat attack, of the same kind that we men give each other about every crime including rape, and give you about every crime but rape. So you don't want to be treated like we treat each other, for one, nor do you want us to treat rape like we treat every other crime, as far as giving advice goes. ("Lock your car door; keep a rifle in your closet; don't wear blue on Blood turf, etc.") Or do you? I don't mean to be disrespectful by not aski… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/13 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex?I didnt say all women. I was generalising. Most women want that. Most women also want men to pay for dates, they actually did a study into it where they found of those they surveyed only 18% of women answered that they were genuinely happy to pay for things equally. That is actually really infuriating. We've put all this effort into getting women equal pay and into high paid positions and now we are just undermining it by acting as if we can't pay for shit ourselves. It was different in the 1950… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/13 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex?Unless you've actually lived in Japan and this is your experience you are kind of reading into it based on our culture not theirs, and not the article. The girl interviewed states that she cares more about her job than her boyfriend which is why she breaks up with him. That doesn't seem like a defiant joke to me. I totally agree with you that more and more men in the west are withdrawing from actively seeking relationships because of pressure to both be the emotional rock, bread winner and sensi… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/13 02:10 AM |
| 5 | A question of 'Rape Culture'Ok sweet, that really explains it for me. We need to be working towards identifying attitudes and social influences that may lead to greater propensity for deviant behavior, I totally agree, have we got any peer reviewed studies on these kinds of things? | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 11:10 AM |
| 4 | A question of 'Rape Culture'I think I understand why it is such an inflaming issue and I guess it's because it has been misused to shift blame onto a sex instead of to point out a problem and then find a solution that solves the problem without making one sex or the other suffer. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 11:01 AM |
| 4 | A question of 'Rape Culture'That is an equally reasonable point. Thanks for explaining it. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 10:49 AM |
| 19 | A question of 'Rape Culture'So, I know this is a hot-button topic in MRA but all of the points actually seem pretty reasonable and valid to me. I mean, looking at isolated cases like Steubenville it seems pretty clear that a rape culture DID exist there. The way those kids talked about 'rape-parties' and the way the girl was demonized for 'ruining the boys lives' seems pretty clear to me. Edit: Not saying it exists everywhere or that all men are rapists or patriarchy is responsible or any of that other shit. Just saying I … | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 10:32 AM |
| 5 | Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex?I think the point was that they enjoyed being independent and career focused and relationships and sex were too much work. Doesn't sound like wanting to be taken care of at all. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 10:14 AM |
| 2 | What's your view of circumcision?I don't think it makes a man lesser for being circumcised, I think it makes a person lesser for doing it to him as a helpless infant. There is no justifiable reason to remove an important part of a healthy child. Not even religion: your god is not necessarily your child's god and interfering with their body is abuse. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 09:59 AM |
| 1 | What's your view of circumcision?This sounds 100% awful. Sex is so important(imo) to intimacy and togetherness and it is meant to feel fun and enjoyable but instead its laborious and painful. I'm guessing that is really tough on you both emotionally as well. I think I've heard of something where they stretch the skin to create a new foreskin. It is called foreskin restoration, it is probably worth a shot. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 09:37 AM |
| 1 | CNN: Boys (especially black boys) perform better in single sex schools: near perfect graduation, 80% go on to college. Kimmel, feminists, screech misogyny.I'm pretty sure studies show single sex schools are better for girls too. Girls and boys learn differently and if you treat them exactly the same one or the other is going to fall behind. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/13 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Oh the irony (xpost from r/funny)He-Man is many things besides muscular. He is courageous, strong, adventurous, independent and a leader. He-Man taught boys to aspire to those qualities too, not just being muscly. What is barbie? She is pretty. Occasionally you'll see a barbie with an occupation instead of a fluffy dress, but there are a lot less of those than the other kind. Barbie doesn't go around doing stuff like solving mysteries or defeating enemies. SHE. CHANGES. HER. FUCKING. CLOTHES. And that is what barbie teaches gir… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/13 02:24 PM |
| 2 | No better than Misandrist Feminist.The fact this is even a conversation here when it was nothing to do with the main point I made (definition of misogyny) shows the problem we have with people like you. The discussion had already been derailed from your original topic by the time I started posting. Check the usernames, I'm not Wafotapa. I don't neccesarily agree with their comment either, I was merely pointing out that I could see an argument for their position that the emphasis on the differences between sexes can be misused and… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/13 06:00 AM |
| 2 | "Women Live Longer" and Other Horrendous Statistical ButcheringsIf you were actually raped (not regrettable drunk sex) then I am very sorry. No alcohol involved and I told him no repeatedly. It was a long time ago, but being angry about it keeps the other emotions out so I stick with that one. I reckon if I was male and as big as you I'd probably be pissed off about people fearing me being around them or their kids. I know in America there is a bit of hysteria about pedophiles to the point where lots of innocent men get verbally abused and accused by parents… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/13 04:32 PM |
| 1 | "Women Live Longer" and Other Horrendous Statistical ButcheringsThe degree of variance among males is staggering. I get what you are trying to say, individuals can vary a lot. However when I'm talking about men being stronger than me I'm not just talking about height and weight. The way men and women form muscle is kind of different. I'm not a sports scientist so I may be explaining this wrong: men have more fast-twitch muscle fibers which on average leads them to be roughly 50% stronger concerning brute strength. So yeah, the playing fields are roughly leve… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/13 04:10 PM |
| 0 | No better than Misandrist Feminist.It isn't toxic. It's reality. The custody battle argument you're using is terribly flawed. Women are more often given custody not because they are more natural nurturers (which is true), but because judges have been convinced that that's the only thing that matters. There are other factors that need to be considered which aren't often given proper weight. Also your point is moot because no one has said that all women will be good at it, or should be considered good at it just by virtue of being … | /r/MensRights | 13/10/13 10:44 AM |
| 2 | No better than Misandrist Feminist.there are some x's and y's that a man is better than a woman at and a woman better than a man at. I can see an argument not to make generalizations about the sexes even if they may be predominantly true. For instance judges favor women in children custody battles. Why? Because they had the kid inside them for 9 months and fed them from their boobs, and they have naturally have more empathy and nurturing and shit. Plus men can go sow wild oats but women's evolutionary investment is in her kids. T… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/13 01:54 AM |
| 6 | "Women Live Longer" and Other Horrendous Statistical ButcheringsAs a woman who knows she can be easily overpowered by the vast majority of men, yeah it does piss me off. I keep in shape, I lift weights but I will still always be easy prey for any man who wants to assault me. And I have been. I've rough-housed with three older brothers and taken self defense courses but that doesn't help when some 15 year old kid runs up behind and grabs your genitals then runs away faster than you can catch him. That doesn't help when the guy you thought was your friend slip… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/13 01:05 AM |
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