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| 1 | Cold approach in 2024l dont remember guys cold approaching in 2005, but l mostly knew outgoing/popular guys. recently l met alot more wierdos, social misfits, and outcasts. then l started to realize that cold approach was a thing. but even in previous decades, l dont ever recall meeting any couples that met through cold approach. even today, you dont meet any 30-40yr olds who met via cold approach, and they woulda been young and dating back in 05. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?i know alot of people who live in big cities who get roomates specifically to enlarge their social circle, and thats more effective than cold approach. but as i said before, it's not that cold approach doesnt work, its because the vast majority of guys who do cold approach are guys who have no other choice because they have flawed personalities. and im only speaking based on the men i know who do cold approach | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?you have to also remember, if you had a likable personality, everyone you talk to will want to talk more with you. when l go to restraunts, females who are interested, will generally ask if l live or work in the area, so if you give off good vibes, there will always be people who want to know you more. if you give off bad vibes, then cashiers, and everyone else you come in contact with will not want to know you better, and thats what forces alot of guys into cold approach. but heres the problem.… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:23 PM |
| -1 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?social skills are not easily learned. most of the guys who do cold approach are autistic, so by nature, theyre not good at reading body language. that puts them at a huge disadvantage. l like to compare it to barbers. if you tell a bad barber exactly how to cut your hair. you show him a picture of exactly how you want your hair cut, yet he will still mess up your hair, whereas if you just tell a good barber to cut your hair, without specific instructions, they do a good job. same thing goes for … | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?i can only go based on the guys i know irl. l know about 10 guys who cold approach, and theyve never gotten a single date from doing it. all of them are average looking guys in their 20s. l would believe it was effective if l actually saw some men who got something out of it, but l havent so far. furthermore, lve never met any couples who met that way, and l ask alot of people how they met. none of them ever said, yea, i met my man through cold approach | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?i know about 10 pua, and they been going for years, and have a 100% failure rate. l wouldnt have known it if they didnt tell me. sometimes, these females legitimately look like theyre enjoying themselves while talking with them, but when it comes down to dating, they simply do not return calls. so a female can show interest, but it doesnt guarantee a date | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?if a hot chic comes up to me for no reason out of the blue, i'd be suspicious as to why she was approaching me, just as you would be if someone with beautiful pictures on instagram contacts you out of the blue. people by nature are suspicious of peoples intentions which is why cold approach doesnt work. lve had hot chics come on to me, but it's never in a cold approach. every single time, they had a reason to talk to me, whether it was because we were doing something together, or part of some gr… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?cold approach has a very narrow definition, and that is to approach when you have no business talking to her. seduction might more be used towards someone you have a reason to talk to, or someone you already know, ie, seducing a neighbor; a customer when youre making a delivery; or toward a customer when youre installing an air conditioner. in all 3 of those situations, you are not going up to a random guy on the street, whereas cold approach is. cold approach also doesnt have to involve any sed… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach in 2024i dont remember cold approach being a thing in 2005. and at the time, i dont remember ever knowing any couples that met that way | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:14 PM |
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