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Confidence is sexy. Things like career wealth ect are all good on paper, but the true attraction comes from how you feel around someone. Do you feel free to be yourself, and have that wierd quirky fun, or do you feel like you need to tread lightly around them to not upset, or put up a front for self preservation and image.
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:30 AM
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So that he doesn't make your mistakes :p
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:02 AM
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Let's be real, this is just a self congratulatory wank dressed up as advice hahaha
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:54 AM
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Asking can get a result but I wouldn't call it a quality play
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:46 AM
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You shouldn't have to buy a meal for her. From a principle standpoint it reflect inequality from an outdated era. But the reality is you can buy affection as long as you don't make the other person feel like they are being bought.
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:42 AM
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Good to hear your taking steps man. I'd say don't get too fixed on the end goals, but more so on progress. Don't derive your confidence from the sum of your life and how it compares to others, but each step you take and how that compares to where you were.
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:47 AM
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Don't take this the wrong way but it sounds like you're too invested. This is probably also affecting the energy you are giving off without realising it. Unfortunately it's one of those things that I've been guilty of myself, but trying to fix things only makes it worse. Move on to the next, and if your lucky you might get another shot in the future.
/r/seduction01/03/21 01:33 PM
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In the name of bettering yourself, it might be worth considering how you presented it. If your phrasing it as "getting ass" or presenting it to similar effect, then you probably won't elicit positive attitudes from women. This could be a good opportunity for self analysis and results.
/r/seduction27/01/21 11:57 AM
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I dunno man. Although i agree that nothing can be the best choice of action, i think you need to consider where you are currently sitting. The whole problem is there isn't enough interest, but sometimes you need to take action so you can build interest, especially in initial stages like this. For example attractive tinder girls rarely message 1st, so you got to put in the work to secure the date and get your foot in the door.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:49 AM
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Honestly i figured i had a fear mindset, so i'm refraining from any further actions atm. At the same time i'm doubtful that doing nothing will bring her around. I can send snapchats which i think has potential, but i figure there is no point if i'm not doing anything interesting. As for the abundance, i'm hitting a struggle at the moment. My mates interest in going out is dropping so i find my regular hunting ground depleted. Also my tinder isn't picking up many matches since they introduced the…
/r/seduction01/02/17 01:51 AM
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yea i figure if i do make a last ditch effort i will just say this time then leave it.
/r/seduction01/02/17 01:18 AM
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Well i kinda figured this, but i like the idea of getting the girl i want, rather than waiting for stuff to come to me. Do yea as i mentioned im ready to give up and move on i just wanted to know if there was anything more i could do 1st
/r/seduction01/02/17 01:15 AM
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The problem is i said pretty much that, then she isn't getting back to me
/r/seduction31/01/17 09:21 AM
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On the theme of this thread. What is the best way to get their availability. Honestly jm pretty free most days andbthis girl im looking to see works shifts that could fall on any day. I want to find out when she is free without conveying that im not busy
/r/seduction17/01/17 01:43 AM
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For me i dont think it would be helpful. I feel i will miss more social cues, feel a bit wierd knowing tgey aren't on the same buzz, and if my eyes go red that's bad. If im smoking with a girl it might be alright, but i dont think it would help me otherwise.
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:32 AM
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Try to smile more. Have fun and most importantly look like you're having fun. I should clarify that when you smile don't make it a big toothy smile unless it's somewhat legit. Because if you hold a fake smile too long, that will look creepy too. More of a smirk really. If you look happy and like you're good time, then other people will feel more comfortable around you and want to share that energy you are putting out there.
/r/seduction14/10/16 05:23 AM
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I try to do this but the only problem in having something im already doing is i am going to do that thing just to hang with them. I feel it risks giving me some level of commitment to something i won't do if they cant come. Any good ways around this without then lying about doing it?
/r/seduction12/10/16 02:01 PM
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I sometimes find myself going on dates with multiple women but i don't usually try to hide texts. Now i probably wouldn't be texting one while im with another as that's disrespectful, in fact i generally try to be off my phone all together. But if i was to be questioned on it I am prepared to give an honest answer along the lines of this. I will happily be loyal to one partner when i believe we are entering a relationship that could be going somewhere. But at this point I do not consider us to b…
/r/seduction29/09/16 03:48 AM
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I must say I agree with woujo's position. Yea the girl was pretty timid and a bit naive/conservative. But unfortunately not every girl operates on the same social rules you like to play by, and sometimes you need to apply emotional intelligence and or accept that her expectations are not compatible with your own. By the account this guy went pretty hard pretty fast which clearly wasn't working on her. He then started putting the blame on her, because she wanted a relationship when he wanted sex.…
/r/seduction28/09/16 03:24 PM
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I agree with you mate. The guy fucked up his game because he was pushing hard for sex with someone who clearly just wasn't ready for it. Unfortunately much of the mentality of seddit relies on girls being disposable sex objects rather than people.
/r/seduction28/09/16 02:57 PM
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yea but i think i just used the other girls name. I don't really have a built up rapport with this girl either other than we hooked up on the d floor for a bit. There is a good chance i wont get a message back either way but i'd atleast like to give it a good chance. Also i kinda want the fb of the girl i do have the correct name for because i can no longer remember what she looks like.
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:09 PM
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oh right, you're correct i missed that part. Fair enough i retract that point.
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:01 PM
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Not my post but I have some feedback for you. You need to make your advice more applicable. It sounds like you are tailoring to some very upper class clubs that the majority of the readers wouldn't relate to. To gie you some examples most people don't go to clubs that are likely to shut them out to be picky most clubs don't have tables that people buy out most people treat the club as the last stop party, nor do they have any cool location to take people back to other than their own house/bedroo…
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:26 AM
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She probably got put off by you wanting to take her home and mentally she wasn't at that point. To me that advice about kissing just before you bring them home sounds terrible. When you kiss, it makes it easier to start escalating a bit more, and can be used to transition the date from getting to know each other and making out, which can in turn lead to the comfort and physicality to go home together. However it sounds like you had a very fast transition from kiss to take her home, like you were…
/r/seduction11/09/16 06:37 AM
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Honestly i find there is no one opener you can send that guarantees a response. I have never found much success, with asking them legit questions from the bio. To me it seems like they already need to have above average interest in you to warrant answering the same questions most other guys would ask her about, and im sure she probably talks about those things all the time. Its safe but i find it leads to rather boring conversation, that i'd much rather have in person. an unconventional complime…
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:31 AM
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