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Are you in an at fault state? If so get proof of the affair. If not don’t bother unless it speeds the process. Drink water when you can. Eat when you can even if you have to force yourself. Don’t drink alcohol or at least not to excess. Get a therapist you are experiencing grief and trauma. Try to exercise to keep from sitting around. Don’t talk to her about anything other than logistics. Separate your finances. Close joint accounts. If you are direct deposit into a joint account change it to a …
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 07:41 PM
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Look up the 180 and grey rock. Just interact when needed. Stay out as much as possible. Get moving on. Show her you have a life without her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:19 PM
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I just saw him mention in a comment that there is another man also her being bi-polar. So he really needs to just work on the lawyer and getting all his ducks ready to serve her. Maybe she will get her act together but I would not count on it. And like I said his first priority has to be supporting himself and his kids.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 02:21 PM
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Please don’t fall for this with her. She’s just trying to keep you in limbo. Limbo= no action on your part. It’s time to man up and protect yourself and you kids. I know you love your dog but that can’t be the reason you don’t work. Court won’t accept that. Be the man your children need you to be. She will not stop the bs because she knows you are in a tight spot. But you can take the actions I mentioned earlier. Tell her that not knowing is not acceptable so you are going to get yourself ready …
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 12:32 PM
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You do! But you need to beg, borrow, scheme, whatever and find a lawyer asap. She blindsided you. She expected you to be frozen and shocked. But you’ve got to react with your head not your heart. Do not leave the house and record any interaction with her so she can’t accuse you of domestic violence. Get you and your kids documents ie birth certificates passports etc., also gather as many financial documents you can of hers. Tax returns, pay stubs if you can, insurance documents etc. credit card …
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 07:57 AM
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NJ probably sucks used to live there and sucked back then.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 10:33 PM
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