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phony larper, stop responding if you are oh so alpha, what a loser pseudo alpha you are
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:10 AM
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ok
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:06 AM
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ok larper
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:04 AM
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wait can you block someone here? nah man im cool with him posting but didnt know that
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:03 AM
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I take the good advice if he stops the larper bullshit, don't you worry for him. Posting on reddit is not something that makes stalking non-possible. He's stalking all my posts. Annoying shit. But what can you do right?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:58 AM
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Thank you man, I mean the ons are not sticking around tho, yeah they are internet bitches but still..
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:50 AM
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He is knowledgeable but he is 1) stalking me for a few months now 2) is fucking annoying so I poke him back. Not that I don't think otherwise. Would do more good if he wasn't like a larper.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:49 AM
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School has 2 more years though, gonna be 23-24 with a degree I am not sure that I want to work with. Definetly gonna move out then, probably this year even. The reason I post is probably because of the reasons I wrote in inter-edit parts. But yeah you are right. How did you conclude I am HV? I always thought I am unattractive.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:29 AM
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define yours.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:38 PM
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ok larper
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:24 PM
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ok larper
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:14 PM
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I know you are a larper in this sub, so maybe I shouldn't even reply but that's exactly what I'm asking for. I am looking for advice on how to fix it. Maybe some guy's ideas will help me, that's what I'm looking for. Your comment is like a doctor saying to his patient: "well you are indeed sick, get well". Useless.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:57 PM
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Sadly the hard truth. It's attention seeking behaviour. The main reason my last LTR failed. Sad.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:09 PM
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Sure buddy. Give me a shout. Okay. And yes, you’re not a beta for trying to plate your ex that you broke up with. I always thought this is lowkey beta, that was the reason I haven't written so far. Are you being sarcastic?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:40 PM
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Alright, then this is the final situation: Hit her up like she's not special. Expect nothing, but the probability is high because of her previous offer. But things may have changed as well, so be ready. It's not a disgrace or a beta thing to hit her up, especially since she initiated that offer. Follow the texting "guide" you exemplified some comments above. Did I miss anything? I guess you helped me immersely here man, thank you for it. You want me to update you next week? Also I'd like to hear…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:32 PM
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You are right man I need to take some time off to get all these shit off my mind. But I still wonder what you think about the shit I written, I mean I'm trying to give a meaning to all that. What is your final verdict about her response?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:13 PM
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What do you expect to come from this interaction btw? I mean, be honest. I unfollowed her social media accounts after I broke up. She continued to follow and like my shit up until last friday. She posted songs on her stories that may be messages, posted stories that may be messages. One story song was "You will return" and the last one was "New person, same old mistakes (song about changing to a new person but keeping the same desires)" after he changed her hair last week. Her spotify (which I c…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:44 PM
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Thank you man, Ive fucked some other girls after the break up but they were ons so nothing as meaningful. Im probably gonna hit her up next weekend and set the meeting for next monday, since I have exams this week.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:40 PM
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“Wyd? Her response Oh ive been doing this this Her response Come over to my place this monday Her response” Are you talking about this? What if her responses are not as willing as I expect? Should I cut it or push it until the come over part. This is the first time Im doing such a thing so bare with me, I expect a rejection or a half-ass answer. Thats why I push for the come over part fast. Also I dont want to seem like I couldnt find anyone else or something, or regretting my decision
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:02 PM
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“Lets meet up at my place this monday” But that is not playful or anything man, i wouldnt even greet some rando, shouldnt I add a hey or how are you before it? Like: “How are you doing?” .her response. “Lets meet at my place at x this monday” Shouldn’t I even remind her of the offer she made while breaking up?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:50 PM
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Fine fine, but isnt this playful enough? “What you doin ex? Come over this week” is that it? No nothing like come over for a coffee? Yeah I know I ask the same thing but, i really dont understand the difference? Maybe you can give an exact example? I was even thinking about being direct as fuck like “hey lets fuck this week”
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:28 PM
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As I told, she had offered continuing fucking 2 months ago during the breakup. Should I mention that? Like this: "whats up ex?" "i thought about your offer, we can see each other next week"? Is this too weak? Also I have exams this week, thinking about texting next weekend, would it be too late since she removed me from instagram? Only concern I have is that she may reject me, low possibility but still...
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:48 PM
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nah im milking the shit out of your replies because the way you look at it is gold
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:25 PM
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Thank you. I may initiate a booty call next week, after my exams are done. Any ideas how to do so? Like, should I be direct and say “wanna come over?” before saying anything else? Or any ideas?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:03 PM
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see what you learn about women and yourself. What is the expected lessons? Btw, thank you for your advice man, means a lot.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 01:40 AM
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idk man, ego. she offered being fuckbuddies, then tried to make me write to her by doing the girl things after a breakup. lots of posts from her friends who i didnt unfollow with her as well. thought she'd write, that's why.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:53 AM
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No, it was me who broke up because she broke a boundary of mine.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:16 AM
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Okay I see, thanks for your good advice man. Finally, you think texting her is beta or weak? What if she refuses, then I'd lose the upper hand in the breakup, don't want to seem like she is the one refusing.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 10:20 PM
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Your advice seems sound man. Thank you for it. Have you ever experienced something similiar? In reality, I miss the memories, her unfollowing me on instagram made it clear but I know it won't be the same ever. Oh and finally, how do you make a booty call text?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:28 PM
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hmm. so you are saying the friend's text was related to my ex, but it didn't mean anything because the convo died down?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:47 PM
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Her friend DMed you to help her figure it out But the talk was brief and we didn't talk about her at all. How did that impact the situation then?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:34 PM
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I didn't react for shit since 2 months. Some friends were telling me she was doing that to make me react. Guess that's indeed what she was trying. But now that she unfollowed me, doesn't that mean she no longer wants it? And finally, why did her friend dm'd my story before she met with my ex? You have any ideas? Please respond to all 3 of my questions.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:09 PM
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Hmm. Won't I be seen like I couldn't forget about her if I text first? In my mind, she was the one that said "I'm down for casual" so she should have been the one to initiate. I removed her soon after this offer tho to keep myself from stalking. But she kept following me. Was she trying to get me to write? If she wants to meet with me why not just text me, she was the one saying casual is fine. Also, any idea why her friend texted me and met with her? Her friend's messages were strange. Oh and f…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:46 PM
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The thing is I've been with other girls after the breakup. But they didn't work, only ons. Add the lockdown to that and makes it worse.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:42 PM
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Made it an ego thing. Also thought she should be the one to initiate because she had offered. Some friends told me the stories she's posting, the shit she's doing was to make me to write. Is that correct? Should I text her now?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:01 PM
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Call me a beta, but she was my first everything and a 2,5 year LTR. I still think about her. My decision of breaking up was 100 percent correct but still man, it became an ego thing. She said she'd be down to continue fucking, I waited for her to text me for that to happen. She liked my photos, opened my stories lightning fast, made a spotify playlist full of sad breakup songs etc. I was waiting for her to reach out. But it never happened. Now she removed me back. I am kinda sad. Should I text h…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:47 PM
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I see. What say you about her meeting with my ex just after and then my ex unfollowing me?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:51 AM
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thanks but i mean why did she dm'd me? she knows i broke up with her friend. the dm's are meaningless shit too, like asking if the place is x? wtf.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:56 PM
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I am exacyly in the same situation, the only difference is that I broke up with her because she crossed a minor boundary. Mine hasn't written so far.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:15 PM
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what did you say to the one that asked?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:43 PM
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who cares man its a plate anyway
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:43 AM
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what i thought as well, i was thinking about visiting her profile back but then said fuck it, i feel like she's gonna push even more.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:40 PM
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ok larper
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:36 PM
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You sound entitled. I met the dude, he was a simp. I dumped the stupid bitch too. This post is nostalgia
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:57 AM
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Dude how tf you replied to this post lmao. Ended up dumping her. Turned out the guy was a beta orbiter too btw.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:08 PM
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Mandingo. Take it in the arse like a real alphamale champ.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:30 PM
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It's worth it bro, go for it. Edit: Trust me.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:02 PM
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I don't think she was aware of that and maybe even thought OP could ditch other shit for this event. All in all, birds of feather but this instance alone is not problematic.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:24 AM
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she asked if i would come too she didn't do anything wrong dude wtf. i opened this post with an expectation to read some guy's ltr going to festivals without telling him. go with her and enjoy your time wtf.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:21 PM
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It does, and honestly what's even better is when you actually don't look at this sub because you already implemented the basics and you know the advice so you are implementing it automatically. I was like that for about a whole year, the best period of my relationship and my sexual life. It was so natural.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:22 PM
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Dude wtf.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:06 PM
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not getting together man ofc not. just for pussy
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:40 PM
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In my story it was me though, if it changes anything. She told me that we could continue. Idk if she fucked someone else, she probably did. But seems very odd to me that she didn’t reach out ever again after saying something like that.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:09 AM
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I initially thought about the LS effect too. But read my other responses, she seems to be still wanting me. If so, why not just call me? Also can you specify how you broke up? Who initiated and how did she say you can go casual?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:54 AM
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Lol that means she gonna reach out? Btw the playlist is likely to be dedicated to me not 100%. However the new songs are... quite relatable to our relation. You think she added them because of the breakup and not some other reason?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:14 AM
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Usual redpill advice. Also I was bad the first week stalking her. So I stopped it for good. She follows me on ig still. Checking my stories in less than 15 minutes, liking my alt's photos (lecture account, weekly post about lectures). I also found out that she added some new songs to her spotify playlist (which was most likely dedicated to me because some reasons I am not going to write here). The songs are very popular songs about "the girl loving the man but the man not loving back, yet she wa…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:17 AM
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I obviously want some, but I was the one who broke up, so kind of making it an ego thing tbh.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:10 AM
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That's their fucking purpose
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:45 PM
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I mean... I didnt choked her that much, more like ass slaps tit holds etc. Tried to keep it as vanilla as possible. You are right its the feels, but still man damn. She was saying we gonna be amazing in bed since our kinks our a match etc a few days ago, wanting facials, stalking me everywhere on social media etc to “i decided not to see you no more, that will make me feel better” damn. I recently broke up with my 2,5 year ex and im in 20 day total lockdown so this shit hits harder than normal. …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:32 AM
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Probably she found another guy and her friends didn't like me as much, maybe I came across as too strong idk. You are right girls are random. That said, I replied "np" to her, after that I guess she deleted my number and unfollowed on spotify (yes bitch had followed me on spotify and linkedin after the date, openly admitting to stalking me and my recent ex). She was needy and such few days ago, saying she'd love to be tied with ropes etc. Now she says she doesnt want to see me anymore after I se…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:04 AM
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It wasn't period blood I can guarantee that. She was a virgin but my guess is she just wanted to lose it so she could officially start the slut phase. I know that her friends are complete sluts. Probably found another guy right after as well.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:33 PM
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The best comment for this thread. Thank you man. I replied with "np" to her some hours ago, I think she deleted my number as well so I don't want to look like a pussy doubletexting after hours just to get a half-ass answer.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:32 PM
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i will never know the real reason i guess, probably found some other guy and/or i texted too much
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:18 PM
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idk man she was very keen on having sex, i didnt want to pump and dump if she wasnt okay with that so i asked her every step. you wanna see my dick? looks nice why dont you taste it etc. she was always into that so it was a good experience for her. took her virginity, then she looked bonded, even following me on spotify and fucking linkedin. then 4-5 days pass, i hit her up with a handcuff photo because we had talked about that previously, she says she doesnt want to see me anymore. so im like w…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:17 PM
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Light banter is okay if she insists but cut it short. This is what I did As for the lockdowns, it's fucking forced not voluntary. You get a fine if you are seen outside. Motherfuckers. As for bed, previous encounters were good, not sure if I'm bad.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:29 PM
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No problem to make mistakes, the real problem here is probably that she found another guy and/or I texted too much, too soon. Well, you learn from experiences.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:49 PM
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I don't know guys, she explicitly told me she wants to be tied down. I sent her the bdsm test and she was 98 percent sub, I am 98 percent dom. So we were explicitly telling each other what we want at that point. Thought a little tease would be good, turns out she made her mind. Probably found another guy online. My mistake is that I texted too much.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:45 PM
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She was not a virgin to begin with. Wtf. I fucked out the blood. Other than that your comment is true man.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:44 PM
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You have kinks babe? Yeah. I see that you have as well, you are quite dominant, I love it. What's yours? You like getting choked? I want to try it. Basically everything in 50 shades.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:43 PM
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Yeah true, shouldn't have texted. But texting once in a while in quarantine usually works to keep up. I mean it was how I kept in touch with my ex-LTR, for this girl it was a mistake.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:41 PM
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She was curious and keen for sex. Probably also found some other guy from okcupid. But still, its fucking bizarre man. Usually virgins bond well.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:16 PM
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The thing is I was quite dominant except those few instances I choked her and did the other stuff that the sex god advises, the only time I wasn't 100 percent was when I let her pick the music because I wanted to give her a good first time and when I asked whether she wants to fuck after she told me she's a virgin. However, probably the real reason is that I texted too much. I texted too keep the attraction alive because we are in a 15 day lockdown with no chance of meeting. But still man, it's …
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:16 PM
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Haha I'm not going nuts, maybe I emphasized too much because I'm too tired right now. In short, I got nexted by a girl from okc that I took the virginity of without any apperant reason. I wonder other trpers have any idea why she did this? Oh and also should I ask her directly why? Not that I'm ever gonna see her.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:10 PM
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Who dumped who? Was she the dumper?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:15 PM
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Dude, I already wrote that I don't think its loyalty, its the closest a girl came to staying loyal. Which is not loyal at all.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:23 AM
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Yeah, guess this girl was the sweet loyal princess until she came to our country, here she cheated mentally probably masturbating to this guy while her bf at home was unaware, probably also initiated a light switch effect for the other guy.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:16 PM
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"okay i trust you"
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:06 PM
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Fuck, but dont get back in a relationship again.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:59 PM
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Well, from what I've seen in not only my ex-LTR but for any girl my age group 18-22, that shit ruins the relationship one way or another.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:43 PM
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Okay buddy, something similiar had happened me some months before we broke up. She had posted a selfie for the close friends tab (not slutty but lowkey attention seeking), I had told her to behave after seeing that. One week later, turns out she removed me from the close friends tab, found out while she was texting a guy (a simp). This really annoyed me for weeks, I made posts on asktrp, the best advice was to check the stories nevermind looking insecure -its a LTR in the end. So I checked, turn…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:06 PM
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you may have hit that if you didnt say sorry like a retard, they are usually dtf, regarless you want it or not
/r/askTRP26/04/21 12:17 AM
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What are the responses?
/r/askTRP26/04/21 12:04 AM
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Read the room. You don't want to make enemies. If everyone is openly feminist, do the bare minimum to not get cancelled. I mean don't go full feminist but frame it into "Women are individuals". And change the fucking subject soon. If it's a 1v1 convo, tell them there are differences between sexes and feminism may unsee some of those. Don't explain yourself but make it known that you are not a feminist. I'd make fun of my feminist ex by saying "thats soooo sweeeet for a girl" in a joking way. Don…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:54 PM
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well i excluded those parts, these are the requirements for a ltr, that one is the bare minimum for a plate
/r/askTRP23/04/21 07:52 PM
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yeah included in the extra part. its normally some requirement but in todays world it became an extra smh
/r/askTRP23/04/21 07:52 PM
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ex-LTR. New plate. Be grateful you learned about it now and not later.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:08 PM
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Sadly yes. I like the fulfillment a LTR brings, but I am young and I don't want to be with a whore or a landwhale just because I laugh at her jokes. Very few dateable women out there.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:54 PM
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Exactly. These are the bare minimum normally.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:53 PM
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You are now my bro, because I had the EXACT situation with my recent ex, except the feminist scum was her slut cousin. Now listen bro, this situation is terrible and probably won't end well. I know it because I lived it and trust me it's the same to a tee as you've written. First terrible thing is this: Girls are very open to influence. They are like water, hopefully wet and take the form of what surrounds them. In this case, she is surrounded by her mom's bullshit. Mine was surrounded by her sl…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:51 PM
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I don't plan to. Maybe one will cross roads with me. Very unlikely though and also depressing. Basically these are my boundaries: No whoring or attention whoring Don't be too ugly or fat or retarded Have non-slut friends Not a lot of orbiters / simps Anything else is extra and open to evaluation. These 4 can even be minimized to 2 actually. However, they all fail somewhere in these most basic boundaries. That's why I don't plan on LTRing soon. I mean it's very hard to find a girl that's not reta…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:34 PM
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I have no frens
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:23 PM
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Somewhere in the sidebar, there is a article on how they love "toxic" males and that feminism is a huge international shit-test.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:35 PM
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Height is important as fuck. Anyone telling you otherwise is simply coping. A 6'4" is never gonna be the same as a 5'2" guy. The important thing is to note that height is just a factor, not the entire set. We are dealt different hands. The thing is to do what you can do best with the hand you're dealt. Would it be better if you were taller? Yes. Would it be better if you never needed online blogs to learn how to interact with women? Yes. Would it be better if your dick was longer? Yes. Would it …
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:24 AM
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Where do you live in? I'm exactly in a similiar situation. This covid shit is really bad. I don't know what to do either. I work out yeah but the best years of my life, the college years are from my fucking desk. I really feel bad about all this.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 10:38 PM
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27.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:58 PM
2

Dont even speak. Make a hand gesture of a micropenis. Very classic shit test.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:12 PM
3

If he looks like callmecarson or some shit and has 0 game. Who cares? But if he is closer to you SMV that may cause problems. My ex had a chubby 165 cm beta guy as her girlfriend. I literally fucked her once this guy was next room. He was no threat. Dont get intimated by guys sooo lower than your SMV.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:09 PM
6

Nobody here is actual scientists, so most have no idea what they are talking about. However, from anecdotal experiences, we can say that yes they pairbond better with their first. Hypergamy is there, but the first guy is usually remembered.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:51 AM
1

Interesting. May I request the link? I dumped my gf about 3 weeks ago and I started to miss her a lot as well these days.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:09 PM
1

weeks or months?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:58 PM
13

Learn frame you got angry too fast
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:28 PM
23

Irrelevant advice. Some of you fucks keep spamming this shit to people who asked a totally honest question.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:37 PM
5

If its the only friend, that's a problem but girls having gays in their friend group is not a problem. Remember this though, gays are very promiscious. They may encourage that shit if exposed too much.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:04 PM
6

LDRs aren't real my friend. Can't trust these hoes even if it's for a short period of time, let alone permanently.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:12 AM
61

This girl should have been eliminated during the vetting process. Getting drunk without you is a huge red flag my man. You can try to set a boundary against girl nights out, but trust me she won't abide it.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:12 PM
0

I've recently reread the sidebar after my recent breakup. It said no closures. I broke up with my ex on text, after we broke up, we talked a bit about what we've been up to recently (after as in 10 minutes not another texting session btw) and I told her that I thought she was bored or something and she said "no, but you didnt love me, i still desire you" then I asked her whether she cheated, she said she didnt. I went full no-contact since this (been 15 days). Was this giving closure?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:26 AM
1

No no, I mean what does it mean? Like with examples. I know you shouldn't give "closure", but I don't know what that means.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:05 PM
1

No no, I mean what does it mean? Like with examples. I know you shouldn't give "closure", but I don't know what that means.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:04 PM
2

They cancel to feeeeel better about themselves. They are hypocrits. I mean obviously a racist person or a obvious rapist etc. should be "cancelled" in fact that's what the law is for. But these twitter sluts think they bring the street justice to their ex because once he was too harsh in bed to them. In my country there was a "cancel" that legit went like this: "I am a nude photomodel (body positive, she's chubby but sexy af ngl). Her boyfriend is her photographer. She tells him she wants an ope…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:57 PM
1

I see man. Well I get you but finding a LTR from Tinder is nearly impossible. As for the post, better if you'd keep her as a plate.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:43 PM
8

If its a plate, who cares? If its a LTR, why give a LTR to a Tinder slut?
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:24 PM
0

Dude you posted this the 3rd time. You are gonna fail anyway if you think this much.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:18 AM
6

When I told her to leave the house, she was like "You can't be serious" but left anyways. I am sure it fucked up with her ego. But we went on and had a 2,5 year LTR with this girl. Blowjobs never were an issue after that. But I'd handle it without going nuclear if it happened right now haha.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:37 AM
1

Can do that
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:18 PM
22

I once kicked a girl out of my house politely for not blowing me. Lmao no need to go nuclear, but trust me you'll get your cock sucked next time. Also don't go im out or youre out if this happens. Simply start masturbating to her without touching her or anything, deny her sex but use her as a flesh porn at that moment. Watch how she starts to want to suck some dickus.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:23 PM
1

I have some bad news and a snack for you
/r/askTRP11/04/21 01:39 PM
1

What country is this? Also how did you meet? May put in more context for a better advice.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:56 AM
7

A wise man on this site once told me a few years ago this: "The relationship should end when the stress it brings is more than the joy it brings.". I was like yeah right boomer then. But seen that was the truth.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:55 PM
3

but still sleeping with each other. Are you continuing to have sex? It seems you care too much for a plate. My advice would be to open up to a friend. Also read the "war brides" post on the main sub. These had helped me.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:46 PM
16

"ok np" for the first time, no response and soft next for the second.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:56 PM
1

Which country? Also how did you meet?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:26 PM
1

You are a low iq person but you have good intentions. That's why I'm gonna forgive yo ass.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:38 PM
0

Thank you for your reply man. I am going to plate her if I be able to care less for her. If by the time she arrives here, I still think that I care about her, then I won't see her. I think the correct thing to do here is to decide based on how much I care about her. The less it is the more it is likely for me to plate.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:54 PM
1

I know that this is not healthy and I already said it in the post. It's one thing to know what is right and one thing to do it. I am feeling down, the breakup was 1 week ago and I wasn't caring much until I found she liked the photos etc. I mean I appreciate your comment but sometimes you feel down, you know? Yeah I'll probably cut her if I can't refocus on myself before she arrives. If I still care by then, then she's gone.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:49 AM
1

True. I meant "later" as in a future where I can give it a try to see if I still care, not as a plan. You speak the truth my man. I already unfollowed her on instagram, she still follows me. The last I wrote something to her was on the day of our breakup. The next day, she sent me a meme which wouldnt open for me, last we talked was a week ago. I won't text her or anything.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:07 AM
1

You are probably right. But I haven't started plating her yet. She's abroad for 10 more days. She has options there as any non-obese woman would have too, which makes me sick. Probably the best route is to delete her because I care too much like you say. Maybe later.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:37 AM
7

My father is an artist. He is also an alphamale v1.0, pretty based overall. Needless to say he'd get laid like a champ in his college years during the 80s. He never needed to search up the internet to live the most basic human interaction. He was a natural based guy. Mix that up with the social awareness of an artist who has lots of females in his department. Also he gives them the tingles because he's a "spiritual" guy who understands feelings. He was never muscular back in the day but it worke…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:10 AM
0

Thank you kindly man. I am 100 percent sure that I won't get in a relationship with her whatever happens. That said my only concern is that would I respect myself after she fucks another person. She be dirty then. Still undecided. May take route 2 and see how much I care after one session. Idk man.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:48 AM
1

This is the only correct answer in my opinion. May seem like an autist but let me rephrase then, how can I decide that I can or cannot handle it? Like what's the giveaway for that? I am very inexperienced, may seem like a sperg for this lol.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:10 AM
0

Thank you. But I don't plan to have a relationship with her anyways. Plate at most, but I'd feel disgusted if she found someone else this soon (1-2 weeks after the breakup). I mean, I'd continue to plate her, but my inner voice would call me a cuck or something even if I kissed her let alone fuck after someone else fucked her.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:29 AM
7

Text "hey". It's a 0.5 fuck given aloof response and also a response. So she won't feel as needy when retexting. After the hey she'll probably disclose what she wants to say.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:09 AM
3

Something's wrong. I ended it with my last LTR like this too. She may be thinking you failed comfort tests and she thinks you are emotionally distant, did she ever say something like that? Not the usual u don luv miii. Something more serious? If yes, there's your problemo. If not, she's losing attraction probably.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 09:55 PM
1

I see. Well it was me breaking up but she also said I was unloving etc reinforcing it. Maybe an excuse to feel the breakup was not my choice but of us both. Idk
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:32 PM
15

Kinks are normal and expected even though a gangbang kink is a redflag for me
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:36 PM
2

Maybe. It's still strange though, because the country she's in is in lockdown. Still possible to cheat but idk man. Do women breakup from a LTR because they feel unloved?
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:36 PM
15

Probably found another dickus. Light switch effect in play as well. No biggie man.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:24 PM
1

I guess this aint it then. But wtf is this then lmao
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:23 PM
1

She was always like "You don't love meeeee" throught the relationship tbh. But never acted on it, it has been 2,5 years bitch. Personally I think she wasn't branch swinging or doing anything like that but then why say things that reinforce my breakup decision.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:23 PM
1

Had it happened to me a few times, reasons I have gotten is "dont want to raise my body count, I enjoy sex with you but the relationship part is too stressful, dont want to go adding bodies to her body count while knowing what can get from you, etc.. This is what she meant to a tee, except she didn't explicitly said the dont want to raise my body count part. this is redpill in action.. I agree. She was whining about me not loving her etc. Then she stopped and said I have no regrets with you thou…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:22 PM
1

Hmm. That's a bit interesting. Why would she do that though? I mean she's going to keep giving sex but stopped taking the comfort? Why? If you say she wants to fuck others too, then why not do it in secret also why keep me then by saying such positive things about my sexuality? Also I am her only lay so far, that seems a bit out of character. I appreciate your comments, just want to see the thought process you think she has.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:17 PM
14

Which country? If he's not a full emotional retard he'd understand the breakup. I'd say go with it.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:55 PM
1

My friend’s thought as well. But then why say “we can continue to fucking, I find you attractive” immediately after the breakup and insist on it?
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:00 AM
1

Well, it made me kind of impulsed and eased the breakup. But I want to learn what causes it, because apperantly it's very widespread.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:26 AM
2

Nobody cares abou that shit lol. Just clip your nails and look like an human and you're good.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:47 PM
2

I hope you shower daily when going out, then you have clean non-stinky feet. Given that you actually meet the requirement above, the only thing you need to do is clip your fucking nails. If you don't smell and have your nails clipped. You are good to go.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:05 PM
1

They are addicted to that shit. However, if you are in a LTR, you need to throw in some betaness too. Edit: I meant toxicness by THEIR standards which usually means masculinity. They are addicted to masculinity, their toxicness desc =/= real toxicness.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:29 PM
3

Get rid of the cringy quote. Actually put some of your hobbies/academical achievements if you have there. Other than that's a great profile. Maybe getting rid of the beard and moustache would make you look classier but that's your choice. Nice bro.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:30 PM
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/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:32 PM
1

Obviously. I may not be okay with it if she's been with another in between too.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:58 PM
1

Boundaries are for LTRs or more serious shit though. She's not relationship material obviously. But as a plate? Idk. Only reason I'm not so sure is that she may fuck someoneelse in between and that's disgusting because we were together for a long time, she's no ONS. That said, I don't know whether I'll care about it or not yet neither. Just wanted to know her motive tbh.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:56 PM
6

This. Childish people tend to do that. Most are childish basically so it's pretty common.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:00 AM
5

Never. Only set a boundary. You set a boundary by saying this: "I wouldn't stay with a girl that does x.". NEVER say you won't to x. Disclose YOUR boundaries for the relationship, you cannot do shit to hers. Also if you give an ultimatum its already over. You can set your boundaries during vetting or at mistake one. After a boundary is set, you show no mercy to these thots.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:39 PM
2

instance 1 or 0 = boundary setup, 2 dump.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:24 PM
3

If it was always like that, it may be anything from her cucking your ass to her thinking that's okay. If this behaviour recently changed, oof you are in trouble. Btw this trust thing is important for LTRs my man. It won't work. Tell her your boundaries, if she disrespects them it's bye bitch time.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:47 PM
2

It's easy to live with what you got at birth: pussy. It's even better if you can live good with it. As RomanH said they are like water. Society encourages them to slut it up especially during their 20s. They are all whores. Maybe not, but expect that to be true, any singular counter-example is what you may call an unicorn.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:26 PM
11

She loves getting fucked rough in the arsehole by motorbike gangsters who think the world is flat. She loves getting dominated and used as a cum dumpster. She loves being a worthless sex doll in her encounters even though she won't admit to it. Read that again and again until you realize she's probably not as bad as I wrote above but has the possibility of being so nonetheless. She is not special.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:38 AM
2

Well you exchanged nudes already, you can't fuck that up easily. Just don't overthink and overcomfort. Other than that I see no real problem here. But chill about the text thing man. Corona depression is real, it made my LTR fail too. However, after we ended it, I asked her some shit about my doubts and all my doubts were bullshit it turns out. Corona depression made us all weak man, try to not think that much. Trust me, it ruins it.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:23 AM
8

You care too much already. Do NOT, I repeat DO NOT DOUBLE TEXT. Other than that, the ball is in her court wait for her move. Don't worry about not texting as well. It may be anything from her talking to Chad or her talking with her schoolmates. No need to overthink trust me. Just wait and see.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:08 AM
6

Fucking weed man. My 2,5 year LTR just ended mainly because of it. If you have a boundary that you CLEARLY stated, you MUST walk away if they break it. It's simple as that. My ex is on a 3-week trip. I told her no partying no weed with other classmates. She goes and smokes weed with classmates at a class gathering. I had already said that was a boundary for me and I enforced it and I am proud of it even though I am nostalgic about ending a 2,5 year LTR. Thats a huge time my man. It aint easy. Bu…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:57 PM
9

I failed at my just ended relationship on this. Firstly vet not only her, but also her friends and social circle. My ex's cousin was the "empowered woman" that got in her mind. The circle is important. LTR a woman that polices herself. Remember you are the captain of the ship and they are the first lieutenant. They need to be okay with following your orders (boundaries in this case) without questioning them much. For example, I told mine to not get high from weed, she did it anyways, so it ended…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:53 PM
0

You reacted correctly don't worry about it. Being a man is risky sometimes. You didn't eat shit, but also didn't escalate. Some sons of bitches catcall your girl and she tells you this- imagine just accepting it and saying haha no biggie. You'd get killed if you fought, by verbal escalation you chose a correct 3rd approach.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:48 PM
1

I was able to carry all my 3 lays without any workout. One was 40 kg one was 50 and the other 60. Any regular workout will help you no problem.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 06:45 PM
15

I just got out of a relationship similiar to yours. This fear will ruin the relationship I'm telling you. Stop worrying about it because she will leave trails if she cheaths (most of the time) and you may get out then. False cucking is a huge problem in young people new to trp, like you and I. We think there is a shadow gigachad plowing the girl but in fact its usually not true. Even if it IS true, fuck that hoe, you'll get out easy.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 06:29 PM
1

You are right, her being the my first for all is what's making her feel like special. I have an exit plan. But what should I do if she texts today? Or some days after. I mean what should I do if she does in fact text or reach out to me before the time for the planned return arrives?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:55 PM
1

Exactly. During the 2019 summer, I went to Europe with 3 of my friends for 2 weeks. During that time she'd constantly text and check in. We have started dating November 2018. She probably texted me every day since then except some 2-3 day breaks some times. During corona she pretty much spammed me every day. Shit, even before she left she'd text everyday. Something is off yes. It'll probably die off yes. But the bad thing is I don't care about "losing" her neither. I care about the memories and …
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:45 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:06 PM
1

I read it but the corona lockdowns really hit me. I stay in my room all day have nothing to do. Losing my will. I won't text her then.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:13 PM
1

Not race but different culture. I am from the predominant culture while she was from the minority. Well, the culture and values are different so marriage would be problematic. However you learn a lot of new things and if you enjoy the person, I see no problem. However if she's from a minority expect some victim mentality and leftist ideology. It usually is bullshit but they cling to those because you know they are in survival mode. Anything except marriage is okay if you have similiar personalit…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:50 PM
3

She's a friend of us both that happens to be a dancer as well. I never like posts of attention seeking bitches unless they are my direct friends. Which in case she was. And I kinda like it when my gf gets mad about it.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:55 PM
2

Where are you from?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:04 PM
3

That's a 10/10 move btw. Grats my man.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:38 PM
1

Well it is in French. Im no americano man
/r/askTRP14/03/21 03:52 PM
1

Of course meeting one on one with some guy is an instant bye. But I dont think she's meeting or planning to meet one on one. I mean she's only texted some guys. This alone bothers me, but I can't decide if it is me being insecure or is it indeed a red-flag.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:31 PM
1

Thank you for your reply. This is my first relationship ever so I’m a bit inexperienced. I don’t know what are the things that are usual and not problematic and those that are. How do I know she’s texting for school work or as a ‘friend’? Personally, I don’t want any other male to be around for too long, but is this too insecure or am I right?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 01:10 PM
2

She's leaving for a internship trip next week. It'll last for 3 weeks however the place she's going updated the quarantine rules and going out until the 6th is forbidden. She already bought her ticket for the 20th of March. One orbiter she's been texting with is there too. The guy is less attractive than me and is probably a beta. Last day she was over and I "unknowingly" opened the texts she had with this guy. It's obvious he's a simp from some of the texts (she opened the texts herself) but ev…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 01:39 AM
2

Thank you man. I was thinking the same in fact. But the twist is this: She had posted a normal photo in December. No photo after that ever. Some guy commented a heart emoji for that. I was very annoyed by that even though I didn't tell her that. She posts stories sometimes but they are not selfies or anything. Straight up goofy memey stuff. I had a brief moment to check her phone last week. DMs were cleaner than I thought. 2 males were there. 1 is probably an orbiter. Other one is the heart emoj…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 01:13 AM
1

Let's continue on this specific example. How do you approach this as in drawing the lines? Do you tell her that you are not okay with it? Doesn't it sound very insecure? I mean I geniunely wouldn't want a girl posting photos or stories or texting with some other guy she's claiming to be her friends. How do you approach this?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:54 AM
2

For example, let's say that I don't like my girl having social media like instagram and I don't like her texting with other guys. How do I actually set the boundary here? The Black Jesus guy below advises a very different approach. I wanted to see your approach to the exact example he has given below.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:51 AM
0

You say "thats what we doin" then proceed to text girls in front of her? But doesnt that like lowers the quality of the relationship? I mean I've been doing like the other guys in these comments said and was like "I wouldnt be able to be with a girl that does x". But that sentence is not very pointy at all. I mean it doesn't specify what she needs to do. She thinks "hmm he doesnt like me doing x but what should i do instead". For example, lets continue on the texting other guys subject. Do you e…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:48 AM
2

Well, for my future relationships, I am thinking of straight up telling them what I am not okay with instead of waiting until they make a mistake.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:33 AM
1

I noticed that I am a person that gets annoyed with a girl that has social media like instagram that gets her DMs. But people say girls having orbiters are a part of the game. I am not sure that I am ok with that at all. I guess that's why I have a problem whether to set it as a boundary or not.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:31 AM
3

Great reply. I noticed that I was in fact doing what you described above in my life. But I guess I should be more direct with what I actually want them to do.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:28 AM
1

Boundaries like "I don't like it when you talk to guys" are implicit. It's not overt. How do you set the boundary for this? Do you tell "I dont like it when you talk to guys" directly? I thought this sentence would be overt, if that's not overt what is?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:12 AM
1

Because I had responses that werent actually answering it and I gave about no context so people the responders thought I was thinking of limiting a person. But I am only asking the method you guys use to set your own LTR boundaries.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:07 AM
1

They exchanged heart emojis though, is that orbiter behaviour? I want to be able to trust her for this trip. Ill see the stories no matter what, telling her to post a photo of us would increase my trust of her. If she doesnt, its done. If she does, would it be that problematic? Telling her she looks single on instagram and I want to be able to trust her if she is going for a 3-week trip, and posting a photo of us or something would be a good start. Is this really that basd? I dont think so.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:02 AM
0

Other than my reply, how do I make it known? When she opened it on September, she asked me to open it. She said she got into university, and everyone had it so she'd be left out (also because of the pandemic she'd be away from school). So I said yeah np. I regret letting her though. How can I set a boundary now?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 12:38 AM
2

Exactly my thoughts. I snooped for the first time yesterday and found that her DMs were rather clean. 2 guys in DMs, one seems very beta and SJW by the looks of it. Other was a colleague (international school project) from 3-4 years ago. This motherfucker annoyed me though. I couldn't snoop for long but saw that LTR rejected her (for what idk, it didnt load) then there were shitload of emojis (including heart emojis which annoyed me very much) then she sent him some text post (didnt open so no i…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 12:36 AM
1

I mean yeah. I guess I worded myself very poorly in the post. I am going to tell her that I'll need to be able to trust her since she'll leave for her 3 week school trip and for that I need to see the stories she posted, then tell her to post a photo with me. If she refuses to do any of these, it's done this week. This plan excludes the DMs though. I believe I acted too aloof in this relationship not caring at all. It's time to set some boundaries. I still want to see the DMs though.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 12:23 AM
2

Cucked? No. Beta or obsessive? Maybe. I am not okay with a girl whoring on instagram
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:52 PM
1

You are right sadly this is the modern game. However, I think that's pretty cucked tbh. I have other girls that I'm talking to but I this is beyond abundance. I think this is a boundary I have for my LTRs. I know a girl can cheat whenever she wants but I also don't want to facilitate it you see.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:08 PM
3

Meet as in have a date, I've known her since 2 years. She is a 2 year LTR.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 07:24 PM
1

I would bro. But there wont be a time like that, she living with her parents. Is being direct too bad?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:49 PM
3

I live in a huge city. 1 hour by public transport is considered as medium range. So if you lived in such a place, that'd be considered as the usual. But I guess you literally put an effort to go to their place. If you really want to do that, go ahead. But never let them learn you put such an effort, it'd seem needy af.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:16 PM
1

Exactly. These hoes aint loyal. Sadly though, I probably won't have such a moment as she's leaving for a 3-week school trip next Saturday. I will have to decide by then. You got any ideas on how to check? She lives with her parents and their house is empty only once a week. I can rely on that time when she's in the shower after sex or something but that may never happen. I was thinking about meeting her outside for a regular date and then telling her to show me her instagram. (For more context, …
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:00 PM
1

If it was a plate or a FWB, you are 100/100. But in my opinion this is kinda a boundary that's she's crossed or in the wake of crossing. And I have no chance to know it if I don't verify.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 03:42 PM
3

To be honest, I don't care to keep her in line at all. I want to verify that's all. In the end, TRP says trust but verify. We've been together for 2 years, and I have never checked her phone before. I wanted to check it yesterday for some reasons. My confidence in her slowly decreased over the last few months and I really wanted to see how her DMs were yesterday. It wasn't full of males. In fact she had talked with me and some family members she had. But this one motherfucker had commented with …
/r/askTRP06/03/21 03:41 PM
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You got it wrong though. I met her 2 years ago. I wrote "meet" as in have a date. Last date was not on 16 march either. It was yesterday. We met 3 times this week 2 included sex.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 03:33 PM
1

Thank you. I guess friends are the way to go for the most part.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:56 PM
2

Well, I guess that's the guy the Bette comment is talking about. I posted about this one yesterday and another one 2 weeks ago or so. But yeah I get your point.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:54 PM
1

But why is he a celebrity though? I only post when I am very unsure about what to do or in a need to vent a bit out (like now).
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:51 PM
1

I hear that phrase every once a while. Who is that guy?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:48 PM
1

Thank you man. It is true that the other girl was less attractive + I met that one on an app so there was no connection at an emotional level.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:48 PM
5

Thank you man. I lined up some meetups for this week. Being alone makes it x5 worse especially just before sleep.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:47 PM
0

Wrong. -Trump probably
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:19 PM
1

Medicine. And you are the first person to say break up afterwards, doesn't it defeat the purpose? I am breaking up because it is probable that she finds someone while she's away. Why keep her during that time and break up afterwards?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 03:44 PM
1

She texts everyday though, its not like your case here. I literally wake up to her texts, be it about memes or just regular talk. I almost never text first.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:02 PM
1

Oh and one more thing, do you advise me doing anything specific in the next 2 weeks before she leaves?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:38 PM
1

I believe I could've accepted it easier if it weren't for the lockdowns. They started to affect me mentally as well sadly. Thank you for your advice man. It helps.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:57 AM
1

I see. Thank you man. Well, this is going to make me sad for a while then.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:24 AM
1

I newly understood that she is indeed very affected mentally because of the lockdown. I am older than her so I can go out freely for the most part but she gets fined if she goes out outside permitted hours. So she stayed in for weeks only going out for her most basic needs (she also lives with her parents). However other things she did still annoy me very very much. Idk I'll probably next
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:26 AM
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Well, I don't know if I am overreacting at those as well but I believe the overall attraction she has for me has decreased over the few months, first she reopened her instagram and thats the core of all the problems I have with her. After that point I was very untrusting of her. One day, after a date, we are sitting before she leaves, she says she literally adores me and how awesome I am etc. Then after a few minutes she said I see lot of attractive models on instagram, it makes me want to do so…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:57 PM
0

Well, I don't know if I am overreacting at those as well but I believe the overall attraction she has for me has decreased over the few months, first she reopened her instagram and thats the core of all the problems I have with her. After that point I was very untrusting of her. One day, after a date, we are sitting before she leaves, she says she literally adores me and how awesome I am etc. Then after a few minutes she said I see lot of attractive models on instagram, it makes me want to do so…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:26 PM
2

Well, I don't know if I am overreacting at those as well but I believe the overall attraction she has for me has decreased over the few months, first she reopened her instagram and thats the core of all the problems I have with her. After that point I was very untrusting of her. One day, after a date, we are sitting before she leaves, she says she literally adores me and how awesome I am etc. Then after a few minutes she said I see lot of attractive models on instagram, it makes me want to do so…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:26 PM
1

Well, I don't know if I am overreacting at those as well but I believe the overall attraction she has for me has decreased over the few months, first she reopened her instagram and thats the core of all the problems I have with her. After that point I was very untrusting of her. One day, after a date, we are sitting before she leaves, she says she literally adores me and how awesome I am etc. Then after a few minutes she said I see lot of attractive models on instagram, it makes me want to do so…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:26 PM
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Last paragraph is literally being a cuck. You break up, you break up for good. Agreed. Most I can do is plate. Now as for your question. Seriously you can’t wait 3 weeks in a 2 year LTR? Are you that codependent on this girl? Relax and don’t be so retarded. Are you sure? 3 weeks alone in a foreign country, with other college people so far away from me. Even though she's going to stay with a couple that is from our origin country, but no guarantee that she will stay loyal. Especially with people …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:31 PM
1

Yeah i know, just she was my first everything and its been 2 years man. Too much memories and shit, we are humans after all. I told her to leave a month or so later but she wants to go as soon as possible. I don't think she doesn't care about me leaving her. But I believe that she thinks I won't leave her if she goes there. I guess it's all coming to an end with her then. I can't trust her when she's there alone and so far away from me.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:28 PM
2

Why not my man
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:14 PM
5

"I want a sweet, understanding, supportive and reliable boyfriend." "Dad bods are sexy." "You are an asshole, I don't like you." "You are so selfish, this is the last time we see each other. (Wyd text in ~2days)" "Goodbye. (It wasn't.)" "My friend Kamala's boyfriend memorized her car's plate and phone number, why can't be more like hiiiiiim? (before a very enjoyable sexy time session)" "I don't want you to think I'm that type of girl (before sucking my dickus in a bar bathroom, then getting thro…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:35 PM
5

Life isn't fair. Sometimes you need to be the bad guy or the tough guy to win. Life is grey. Politically, you can't trust anyone, full conservatism is retarded, but pure liberalism is also retarded. (As an european, we always have other options in politics, feel bad for the americans in this matter.)
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:46 PM
1

Her ex, who supposedly ruined her life and she doesnt speak to She didnt tell me that was him I said her name and motioned for her to come here. She turned her head but claims to have not heard me She walks over and starts chatting with her ex When i returned, they were standing very close and clearly enjoying each others company i lost my shit It's over. She wasn't worth it tbh. Delete the hoe.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:10 PM
7

100 dollars, may seem small for the USA, but quite a sum in our country.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:44 AM
1

Fuck other women duh. Jokes aside, I actually look forward the replies of the truly rp people.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 11:11 PM
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He literally said he's working on it ffs.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:18 PM
0

I've read it and noticed I've done quite good so far. I also noticed the core of the problem is my own insecurity. Maybe a side effect of the scarcity in the quarantine but I've been increasingly insecure over the last month. Whenever she talks about someone, or I see her online at night or after she make a little joke about me, I suspect her losing interest and maybe cheating on me. I am paranoid about it. I should work on that, got any leads? Btw your advice actually made a change, when you ar…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:05 PM
1

What’s your advice then?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 09:47 AM
1

Can you clarify the level of attention withdrawal? Like not even opening texts? Keeping her on read? Giving one worders? And for how long? Until she starts spamming nudes or just as long as I can? Thank you for the advice.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:29 PM
1

English is not my mother language, in our language that question is meant to be interpreted something like : “you wanna break up or smtg?” I dont know if that makes a difference but its not Oh princess are you going to decide to break up? Instead it is something like are you thinkin bout that and kind. Maybe it makes a difference idk
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:27 PM
-1

When she sends again or right now?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:32 PM
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in a non serious way ofc, i do it all the time
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:05 PM
1

Should i text her if she doesnt?
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:00 PM
1

I tried that in the beginning she wanted to be near the group. Maybe I couldve done it afterwards, but I tried mang. Anyways what should I do now, I cant change what is done
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:25 PM
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