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How the hell are we supposed to know. Show us some screenshots of what you put in text. What are we psychics we’re supposed to know what you’re doing wrong?!
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:52 AM
9

You need to ask him directly. It’s possible that he just wants to be with you and not put a label. Also possible that he enjoys your company and having you as a friend and lover but he doesn’t want to settle he wants to keep his options open. Maybe he hates how stifling monogamy is. There’s no way to get a solid answer without asking the man directly.
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:48 PM
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Offer up your number. That way the balls in her court. If she doesn’t call you’re no worse off than you would have if you didn’t give it.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:40 PM
1

“Cute” usually means long term potential. Bravo if that’s what you’re looking for 👏
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:24 PM
4

Exactly! A big dick on a ONS can feel like a drug to us women. When you need your fix it’s what you want. When the craving subsides you want to put it behind you and you almost feel disgusted for indulging. He is a one trick pony and his only purpose was to give them their fix that night
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:56 AM
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I’m a woman and I will tell you right now if she tells you she’s not interested it means she’s not interested! She’s not denying seduction, she’s denying you
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:36 PM
1

If you know better than why you asking. You must be really young
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:33 PM
4

Wow creepy. This is a recipe for date rape! “Her words said no, but her actions said yes” DUDE get a grip! These women are not into you at all and quite frankly this made my skin crawl
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:27 PM
3

What does he have that differs from you? Better looking? More alpha? It could be a matter of chemistry and you will not win this one. You may still have a shot but chances are he won
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:05 AM
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Yea I’m late but you gave her nothing interesting to reply to. Morning😘should have been countered with good morning sweetie how is your day so far?, not something stupid about a phone bill. Also relaxing” should have been followed with awesome! What are you doing to relax?. Careful with “jokes” in text with someone you don’t know well…you can’t read the tone. You came off wrong.
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:14 AM
1

I think it means her relationship is rocky at the moment and may be nearing the end. She might want to keep you on the roster for the future. So she’s probably somewhat interested but she’s not available emotionally or physically yet
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:24 AM
3

Maybe she thought she looked hot in that pic. You’re reading into it way too much
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:34 PM
2

This is a great approach. I didn’t get the impression that OP is trying to game on the women he’s more just practicing his social game with an array of different women. Also learning a skill like salsa is perfect. It’s win-win and about time I see a post that’s actually beneficial and productive.
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:56 AM
6

That’s what I think too
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:05 AM
2

No. In fact I think it helps to not have it. Remaining a mystery is one of the most intriguing things a human can do. Having social media displays aspects of your life upfront so without it, there’s more for her to figure out on her own which makes you more interesting. That’s just my humble opinion from a girl without social media and likes men the same way.
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:08 AM
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You sound super sexy and those women prob just want a thug. Not all women care about that. Find your niche
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:43 PM
25

Lol exactly! If your not gonna meet her send her somebody else’s dick lmao. Or yours, who cares
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:22 PM
3

I’m a woman and this all sounds so lame! But I’m not in my 20s soo whatever. But a chick that into IG 100% won’t look nearly as good irl as she did in her photos. Prove me I’m wrong.
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:01 AM
1

It’s lose* not loose. Also you sound like a shitty friend.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:04 AM
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It’s gonna be hard no doubt. Having a fabulous sense of humor will do you wonders. I’m seeing a lot of people talk about money and that’s a given, but a sense of humor is also detrimental. You can even embrace your height and get ahead of it with jokes like Kevin hart does so successfully. Just don’t limit yourself to women smaller than you. Go for all heights even really tall women. Believe me you will succeed if you accept your size and show people that it doesn’t define you
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:33 AM
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I’ll answer for him. The hottest one most likely knows she’s the hottest because she’s always approached first. If you approach her less hot friends than she’s going to feel slighted and work hard for your attention
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:16 PM
1

Work on your social skills, confidence, just start talking to more women irl. You’ll have to hone in on your conversational skills
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:10 PM
2

Lol well maybe you need to be more marginalized. Like try Facebook groups for chicks who like rockers. Or Something like that
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:06 PM
2

There’s a market for chicks that like that look, but it’s slim
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:02 PM
2

Idk I would have to see a pic to give an honest critique. You don’t sound unattractive just unconventional. Sometimes they carry the same weight 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:50 PM
2

You’re in a rock band and you don’t do well with women?? That’s odd. I’m a female I wasn’t trying to shit on your style choices I just wanted to offer advice. I personally don’t care for long hair in men (however some women do) and I am certainly not a fan of a stand-alone mustache. Maybe you need to get your hair styled differently like you mentioned ^ or maybe wear it back more in a pony or even man bun . However would you be willing to part with the mustache? Do you have a beard too?
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:42 PM
2

Okay, you said don’t tell me to cut my hair. That’s literally the only feedback I can give you. That would explain everything. Especially the mustache you are describing. It doesn’t sound very desirable and I’m sure it doesn’t photograph well. I don’t know what kind of advice you’re looking for. That southern rock look is super outdated and unless you’re trying to attract women that were alive for Woodstock, I don’t know what to tell you
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:33 PM
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Lesbians don’t approach?!?!?! That’s hilarious.. get a clue bro.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:00 PM
9

Not required, but you don’t have to work as hard. Girls honest opinion
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:30 PM
1

Don’t catch her while she’s working out, Try to time it out in the parking lot and leave around the same time. Just wave and say “have a nice rest of your day”. Then Next time you see her you can smile and wave again because you’ve already broken the ice.. you’re gonna have to play long game with this one.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:25 PM
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OP is trying to tell you to work on yourself! He’s right, sitting here complaining and passive aggressively arguing is pointless! Go see a therapist like he recommended, and start practicing your social skills in real life! Make friends, get out of the house more. Find new hobbies with people whom share common interests. I can’t help guys get laid, I am a woman and I don’t even know how this sub Reddit ended up in my feed but every single day I am also getting sick of all the self defeatist atti…
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:20 AM
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I’ve been cold approached by dudes at the gym and there’s never been any success on their part. Me personally I always feel vulnerable at the gym. Yeah I’m wearing a cute yoga set but I’m sweaty, I don’t have any makeup on, my sweaty hair is sticking to my scalp. I’m feeling the opposite of confident. It just makes me uncomfortable. Aside from using music to get in the zone I think headphones are also a suit of armor to keep people away. That’s just me though. Look for eye contact or some other …
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:01 PM
21

Whatever you do don’t say “your age” Ex: “ you look good for (your age)” I hate when people say that
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:23 PM
1

Why don’t you just try having this conversation with her instead of us. Tell her sex is very important to you. Also tell her you don’t want sex with just anyone you just want it with her. Ask her if she can give you a time frame because you want and need sex and it’s important to you. She might not be a very sexual and that’s going to suck for you. It’s better to find out sooner than later. She might also be very conservative and she’s waiting until you are in love. Just talk to her have a real …
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:54 PM
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Girl here..I give my male friends advice often. And it’s sound advice I don’t steer them in the wrong direction. However the type of game that might work on me isn’t going to work on every woman. All women are different obviously. So best thing would be trial and error. See what works and what don’t. You will win some and lose some. And as you said you should have went with your gut on the beard comment, but oh well…you live and you learn.
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:26 PM
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So many of these questions people ask are all about timing. Timing is everything. Who knows why she rejected you the first time! Maybe she was already seeing someone atm. Maybe she wasn’t feeling you initially but after seeing you a few more times she saw you in a new light. Maybe she had a bad day and she was in no mood for it! Could be anything! Bottom line is you got her number now so why dwell on the past. Use it, or don’t.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:30 AM
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I agree ghosting is rude if they agreed to go on a date. I think they just got cold feet. You’re right they should have told him
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:42 PM
1

You may not like texting but for some that’s all they want to do. She was most likely enjoying your chat but felt uneasy about a meet up. Maybe just ask her if that’s why she stopped replying because you initiated a meet up irl. If you don’t like texting, and that’s all she wants to do, it’s not going to work out
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:19 PM
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Sometimes girls aren’t ready to meet. You have to play long game. Not with everyone but that’s how it was with me since I’m new to the dating world. You might be arranging irl meetups too quick for their pace.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:15 PM
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Idk I was on a dating app recently. Messaging with a few people and then just decided I wanted to put the whole dating thing on hold for a while. I wasn’t ready, and I deleted it for now. So I might go back on in a few weeks, I might not. Bottom line is, my decision for withdrawing had absolutely nothing to do with any of the men on the app, and everything to do with me. Could be the same for her.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:12 PM
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I’m a girl. My take on it is she’s keeping you on the back burner just in case, but she has her sights on somebody else as her main priority. If I were you I would keep her number maybe for the future but I wouldn’t invest in her right now. It’s all about timing. It’s not time
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:33 AM
5

Well said. And a 44-year-old probably is swamped until New Years! That was immature of him to say and I would be regretting giving my number to him at this point.
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:55 PM
3

Could be the camera on your phone. If you don’t already have it, download Snapchat. Sure they have a lot of silly filters but it also has a really good camera that makes you look flattering especially when you change the lighting. Also some people are just naturally photogenic but a lot of people are using filters. So don’t compare yourself to others most of the beautiful pictures are Photoshop and filters
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:59 PM
3

I personally love a man who doesn’t drink.
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:59 PM
3

Sometimes it’s obvious like I’m not physically attracted. Sometimes they are just boring or we don’t vibe. Sometimes I’m still hung up on somebody else and they are just not him. Sometimes they have beliefs I’m not into or their personality just doesn’t mesh with mine. Could be various things.
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:59 PM
1

Girl here 🙋‍♀️ I agree with a lot of the other comments. I don’t think she’s that into you. If she were, she would have responded back very quickly. She’s probably exploring other options. That’s exactly what you should be doing. If she feels something for you, she will come back, if not there’s nothing you can do.
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:47 PM
1

I know you’re sad but you have to come to terms with the fact she’s not the right one. It sucks. You should stop thinking about all the things you like about her and think more of the things you don’t like about her. That will help you forget her more easily. I’m guessing you might be young and haven’t dated much, so just remember you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your princess. Take whatever you learned from this experience and move on to the next.
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:40 AM
1

Why would you ignore it? Just keep the conversation going. She laughed and said hi. Were you actually expecting for her to answer your question?
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:47 PM
10

She hits you when she’s attention starved, and there’s no one else feeding her ego. There’s somebody else right now. If you message her it will fall on deaf ears. She doesn’t care about you right now. She’ll be hitting you again when whoever’s feeding her ego no longer does and she’s thirsty again
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:27 AM
1

It depends. Does she already know you are interested? If yes the balls in her court. If she doesn’t know you are interested then let her know in a subtle way and wait to see if she feels anything back.
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:17 PM
6

Yea..when someone throws themself at you it reveals desperation, attention seeking, on their part. It doesn’t feel flattering to be on the receiving end of that at all. It shows this isn’t their first rodeo, if it wasn’t you it would be someone else, and doesn’t make me feel special at all.
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:36 AM
1

Lol it’s annoying though. It’s like shit or get off the pot! Either you dig me or you don’t!
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:19 AM
4

Yea she was a clinger and it’s suffocating. I think human beings innately like a little hunt and I’ve noticed at least in my life, a lot of them like a slight mystery in the beginning. I never show my hand too soon
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:40 AM
47

Sure, we sneak in sometimes
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:43 PM
106

As a woman, there is some truth to it. Just like men, I don’t want someone to throw themselves at me, but there has to be a little interest or I will move on and never look back.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:45 PM
1

Maybe she just felt like flirting that day. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:09 PM
1

In my experience. That’s all I know. I can’t speak on your experiences.
/r/seduction10/11/21 08:00 PM
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Just my opinion, not the word of gospel
/r/seduction10/11/21 07:56 PM
2

What would make you assume that
/r/seduction10/11/21 07:52 PM
3

Actually I work in a auto factory with 85% men!
/r/seduction10/11/21 12:33 PM
16

Men don’t want to talk or let alone think about sex around someone they don’t want to have sex with. The guy wants to have sex with you 100%
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:32 AM
1

Ask her! Could be a multitude of reasons. Is she a virgin? Maybe she isn’t attracted to you. Maybe she is scared. Maybe she’s not very sexual. Maybe she’s insecure you won’t like the sex and dump her. Or maybe she’s afraid she won’t like the sex and want to dump you. Maybe you’re friend zoned and she just likes your company, and your bed. Could be anything which is why you should ask her !
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:58 PM
1

This was perfection. All men take note!!
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:55 PM
3

You can say hi and “nice shoes” etc.. to the girls that you say smile at you. But leave the others alone unless they give you a cue that they are open for chit chat. Ex:smile, long eye contact, speak first
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:59 PM
1

Yes super turn off
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:39 PM
0

Be polite.. keep tissues in your glove box and before the deed put one in your hand. Unless otherwise discussed beforehand
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:22 PM
5

I’m a woman, I don’t really know how to answer it. I would say don’t. Personally I don’t like being looked at when I’m at the gym I feel vulnerable and I’m definitely not looking my best or feeling confident. But There’s also been times I find myself extremely attracted to someone and wouldn’t mind them chatting me up. This is case-by-case though. If you get signals (I.e smiles, intense eye contact etc ) that she’s interested that’s a greenlight. Otherwise don’t even go there
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:52 AM
2

You’re absolutely right. There’s no formula. Everyone is different and looking for different things. When you check off all the boxes or at least most of the boxes that someone is looking for, that’s all it is! Whether that’s physical or mental or both! Some people lean more toward one or the other and usually they are unhappy in the long run because ex: they got short and wanted tall, or they settled for silly when they wanted serious, but when they find someone that checks all boxes in looks&p…
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:42 PM
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Toned leaned muscles. Not 1980’s veiny bulky meatheads. But that’s just my opinion. Everybody is diff
/r/seduction12/06/21 12:54 PM
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It’s all fair game until you say “I love you “
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:27 AM
5

You shouldn’t just approach women minding their own business. There needs to be a little eye contact first, a warm up, eyeball foreplay. Read the signals. You will know whether she wants to talk to you by her body language.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:22 PM
5

I’m a female and from my perspective it’s not the sex that makes us think were in love, it’s the kissing. Stop the kissing and they won’t think they love you
/r/seduction01/05/21 05:35 PM
2

Absolutely and most of the people with top 1% wealth are the boring ones! Lol she’s asking for too much.
/r/seduction28/04/21 05:58 PM
2

It’s true some people are an absolute delight over text and in person they are a complete snooze fest, or the other way around
/r/seduction28/04/21 05:56 PM
2

You like taller women?
/r/seduction24/03/21 10:21 PM
2

You sound like a real man. I’ll date ya 🙋‍♀️
/r/seduction24/03/21 09:58 PM
2

You could learn a lot about someone by looking at the shopping cart. How do they eat? How do they shop? Do they mostly buy processed food or do they buy whole foods and ingredients? If the latter that means they cook if processed they are probably unhealthy, don’t cook. Do they have kiddie food? Are they shopping for a family or for a single person? Do they have a lot of booze in their cart? They probably drink too much if they do. Do they drink sodas, juice, expensive water? tells you a lot abo…
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:47 PM
5

Tall woman here 🙋‍♀️ and there’s nothing sexier than a little man owning his height and approaching me, regardless of his “shortcomings”! He won’t always have luck with me but some do and it’s their confidence that most likely won me over. Short guys approach me more than tall guys. I’m a short guy magnet. I don’t care much about height in a man it’s their face that I have to look at all day. Its their personality that I have to deal with. That’s what matters most to me
/r/seduction06/03/21 06:52 PM
10

I agree ^ they were attracted to you. The fact that you said you were nervous is cute. But the bottom line is if they thought you were ugly you being nervous wouldn’t matter, you would still be ugly lol
/r/seduction03/03/21 07:55 PM
1

I might not think “oh my god that guy is handsome” but I still might think he’s sexy. They mean two different things to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:35 AM
7

I always found Steve bushemi to be hot lol. Also it’s the characters he plays. In boardwalk empire he was powerful and sexy. Even when he plays in comedies he’s hilarious which also makes him sexy. The fact that he volunteered with the firefighters on 9/11 makes him extra sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:47 PM
5

Directly across! I hate when someone tries to share a booth with me when there’s only two of us. That’s so creepy! and god forbid you have opposite dominant hands and you are bumping elbows while you eat! Eeekkkk yuck always sit across!
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:44 PM
2

Girl here 🙋‍♀️ I get nervous around guys all the time if I find them attractive. On that note I can always tell when a guy finds me attractive by his body language and the way he speaks
/r/seduction05/02/21 10:29 PM
1

Sorry if I’m late on this thread but how old are you? Bar game comes with age, that’s why you always see the older dudes with the most chicks. If you’re in your 20s you need to take more classes, get out more and practice your verbal skills. You win some you lose some. Also how’s your friend circle? Maybe you need to broaden that as well. Make new friends. Groups with men and women. A whole variety; single friends, married friends, friends in relationships, because those friends may have single …
/r/seduction05/02/21 10:26 PM
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