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| 5 | Silver divorces are more common among couples where women have health issues. Does your personal experience support this study's findings?What a piece of shit that mf is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:52 AM |
| 4 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleErm, yes, because you’re a woman? Why would the description of male experience match yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 09:56 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Thank you for a civilized discussion! Well, there’s a world of difference between sticking out for someone who isn’t you and sticking out for someone who not only isn’t you but also hates you. Of course I do the former but not the latter. Likewise, it’s one thing when the values you hold simply align with your personal stake. E.g. I am in favor of treating men and women equally, which is a value, but I’m also a man myself, which is a personal stake, and they both make me oppose modern day femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 08:23 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Reciprocated just and fair treatment across the board IS the fair and right thing to do. Correct, which is why I support this guy’s points but am not a feminist since I don’t align with the modern day feminism, which is a hateful sexist anti-male ideology and not one standing for equality. Funny because incentives are what gets most people to move their ass and actually do something. Then most people have no values. If you only stand for something because it benefits you, it’s not a value, it’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 07:47 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025I agree with this man’s points. While not a feminist myself, OP, for fuck’s sake, your values shouldn’t be dictated by what benefits you, instead, they should be dictated by what’s fair and the right thing. Otherwise, you have no values. Incentive my ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 07:15 AM |
| – | Autistic women are not "better at masking"Erm, yes? And where’s the debate part of it, dare I ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 11:27 AM |
| 19 | Getting women is just like getting another jobAnd also it has NOTHING in common with “studying related subjects”. Men struggle because they want a silver bullet, one-size-fits-all textbook HowTo guide on getting themselves a woman, and refuse to acknowledge one doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:09 AM |
| 9 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.They are NOT becoming more available to women, that’s the whole trick! Visible, sure, but not available. If anything, they are less available than ever. And it’s not the “lower classes” this is happening to, I’m talking about top 10%-ers, just not top 0.1%-ers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:33 PM |
| 15 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.That however applies to the top 0.05%, not to everyone “decently attractive”. Social media and dating apps made the women compare the “decently attractive” ones against the “probably more attractive than anyone you know” type guys. And the latter is who women become to think they deserve. And with whom they try their luck again and again, unable to secure a relationship but refusing to even consider anything less. So the ones who are only decently attractive, but not hotter than July in Africa, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 02:00 PM |
| – | The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies.I did not. I didn’t say they’re saints or heroes. I said they’re fun to be around. That is not the same. Also, feel free to keep denying the role of personality and blame it on your appearance and income level. At least that way you most likely won’t procreate and won’t pass down these inadequate views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:39 PM |
| – | The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies.This is not a just world, this is reason and consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:22 PM |
| – | The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies.Personality, your, problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:19 PM |
| – | The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies.This way of speaking is exactly your problem. Not your height or facial features or bank balance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:13 PM |
| – | The best course of action for unattractive beta males is to utilize the sugar dating and passport bro strategies.Here's the thing though, as an unattractive beta male your relationships will be transactional anyway Not true. I personally know quite a few men who date attractive women while looking very beta themselves (I’m talking unmasculine features, shorter than average, dadbod, balding…) and making less than $10k a year (yes, it’s not a typo, LESS THAN TEN GRANDS). These relationships can’t be transactional cause they don’t got shit to offer. The common trait they have? You wouldn’t fucking believe it,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 02:19 PM |
| -3 | Realistically, what qualities would make you overlook a conventionally attractive man for an unattractive one?But when you get that you call that clingy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 06:19 AM |
| 3 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.“You”? Who are you referring to? I haven’t made any other reply than this one to your comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 08:29 AM |
| 11 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.What lived experience? Of being intimidated? Because there is no such thing as an objective experience of someone being intimidated by you. You can tell they are to yourself to feel good, but it doesn’t make that “lived experience” valid. Say, if I’m on a bus and some drunk idiot shat his pants, I’m probably gonna try to sit or stand as far away from him as possible. He might think it’s because I’m scared of him but that’s not actually the case. He might even reinforce his delusion when as I get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 08:15 AM |
| 7 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.When they see a man who has never had sex, they feel their poor little fragile femininity is threatened, so they’re intimidated by that man! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 08:08 AM |
| 8 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.Your “there is a research, how dare you question its absolute correctness, unbiasedness, and lack of assumptions taken for granted!” approach isn’t helping much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t women find effort as attractive as men do?Oh it very much is. And I was a local celebrity in college years so it’s not out of desperation. It’s out of genuinely falling in love with effort she makes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women find effort as attractive as men do?I mean, if there was ZERO attraction from a man to a woman, her effort will fall on deaf ears. But if there was 0.1%, she usually can effort her way to 100%. In essence, effort is like a multiplier for men. And a very big one. Sure, you can multiply zero by anything and it’s still zero. But multiply however small amount and you get something big. For women, apparently, the case is that simply most men are exactly 0% attractive for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:58 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Maybe because absolute most men never had the phase when they’d be in 15 different relationships a year which taught them that the correct way to deal with any smallest problem is a break-up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:33 AM |
| 2 | What's YOUR experience with dating apps?Non-existent lmao. Never had an account there cause the last time I was single for more than a few months, it was the year 2010 on the calendar. All I know is from this subreddit and r/Tinder Anyways, out of all places to look for girlfriend, what man in his right mind goes to a place where male to female ratio is about as promising as on the construction site? Completely understandable why are women signing up, but men?.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 09:49 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youMore like a Captain Obvious comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Not by much. Like I said, 5.5 is precisely average. 6 isn’t anywhere far from that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:28 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youSee, redpill statements are correct about SOME women. However you cultists will religiously defend to death the idea that they are correct about ALL women. While she’s one of those whom these statements don’t apply to all that well. So you consider her a liar because daddy Tate can’t be wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 04:47 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youNah. The comment you replied to simply says “attractive people are more attractive than unattractive ones” lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Well, yep? As they should be? Like, on a scale of 1 to 10 the median is 5.5 and, well, 6 is pretty damn close to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?I also think that’s the case, but what matters here is that they’re bullshit and shouldn’t be used as a proof by anyone unwilling to turn themselves into a laughing stock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Btw I’m pretty sure the apps are going out of their way to make sure people who’d form an LTR don’t ever meet each other but the ones who are likely to fall apart and come right back sometime soon, are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?No man who isn’t as rich as tech CEOs and as handsome as the guys from Men’s Health cover page at the same time, has a luxury of only dating 8 and above. OP is on Reddit so the above description is most likely not him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?There are single people, taken cheaters, and taken non-cheaters. You forgot that the last group is the vast majority IRL but is completely missing from the dating apps by their very definition. So by simple math, since the singles and the cheaters are both minorities IRL, but they got the dating apps just to the two of them without the that is the majority IRL — their percentage on the dating apps is much higher than IRL. And I’d imagine the singles on the dating apps vastly outnumber cheaters, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:54 AM |
| 13 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Statistics are inexorable. Pretty much every right swipe she makes is a match. Pretty much every right swipe you make is not one. Simply because you are a man and she is a woman, that is honestly enough, nothing else can overpower that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:38 AM |
| 20 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?So we got two options. Either buddy takes the second hand experience of what he sees on Internet and in media at face value because he lacks any first hand experience to compare due to being a mom’s basement dweller, or he has that first hand experience but willingly or unwillingly ignores whatever goes against his narrative. Neither is surprising on this subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?In our college we had those boat parties which took place on a big boat sailing off for like 5 hours every weekend when it’s hot outside. They are known to produce one night stands and pretty much never anything else. And THAT is where the most adorable family I ever met, met each other. He’s currently defending his motherland from the hordes of barbarian invaders and she’s an animal activist, rescuing them, helping the shelters, vegan, and actively participating in anti animal cruelty movements… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:24 AM |
| 6 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?I am the guy who “gets calls from the recruiters left, right, and center”. Well, not really calls, those are rare in our day and age, but DMs on LinkedIn. Last time I was looking for a job (am currently newly employed, about to start my 2nd week this morning) I was on the brink of signing up to all the other job seeking platforms that are out there. Cause even though the inbox was always full, most of those reach-outs resulted in nothing. So I still needed to widen my pool if options. I can imag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:15 AM |
| 24 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Are you referring that joke of a study where the participants had only 3 options to choose their status from, namely celibate, in relationships, or widowed? Without the option for simply single? Yeah that’s a great source of info, highly professional! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?OP’s question was about women who are conventionally attractive, socially active, emotionally intelligent, and highly extroverted, not about the female equivalents of Steve Urkel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.This crayon thing is the creation of the YT channel Ho Math or something like that. The guy that runs the channel is full blown insane and lives in his own world that doesn’t correspond with reality. Everyone who takes him without a truckload of salt has a similar problem. They just invent their own lore for life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Apparently this isn’t as fun for our guy here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Are you gang affiliated? Because if not, talking like a Crips OG is, like, weird. “Fuccbois” ffs.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 12:50 PM |
| 13 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Covert contracts are worse than real / honest badboys simply because the latter are honest and don’t trick anyone. If she doesn’t like his approach or himself, she knows upfront what’s happening and can reject that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 12:45 PM |
| – | Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating.Then it’s probably the area you live in because you don’t sound like a jerk or a moron at all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 08:01 AM |
| – | Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating.If you stop looking for a silver bullet, one-size-fits-all approach and embrace the two ideas (that women are not all the same hence no silver bullet exists, and that these advice improve your odds, not are a fail proof plan), you’ll be able to use it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:39 AM |
| – | Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating.he knows that women care about all that astrology crap and so he is using that as a crux to get in her panties Speak for yourself fucking Goddamit. I’m a straight man and this is not true about me. I am genuinely interested. Now if I mentioned to her whatever I read in a Dawkins or Sapolski book, THAT would be me using bullshit as a crux to get into her panties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:19 AM |
| – | Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating.I feel insane reading this thread. You’re the only person here I can relate to. Everyone else telling stories that never happened to me and that I never saw happening to anyone else, but what you tell — that happens all the time to me and everyone around me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:12 AM |
| – | Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating.What in the honkey donkey 1855 Anno Domini fuck did I just read? Not a single woman ended friendship with me once she’s in relationship. Yeah now most of the time when we’d hang out, her man and/or my woman would also be there, but more often than not the dude would actually turn out a cool guy so we’d become step homies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:10 AM |
| – | What's actually a normal dating progress most men feel comfortable with?For me, 2 is too late. If you date someone, that automatically should mean you only date that person and are exclusive. If that is not the case, it has to be explicitly agreed upon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 10:16 PM |
| – | What's actually a normal dating progress most men feel comfortable with?A lot of people there also lack the experience, at least a healthy one. Reddit is a terrible place to look for an advice on being a normal, sane, and adequate human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 10:14 PM |
| 11 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childOK, go ahead and do it. I’m tired of talking people out of fucking around, letting them find out is by far more effective. Your type frequently still doesn’t learn after that but it’s a different talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 01:49 PM |
| 16 | Would you help a desperate man who has 2 weeks to live? What would you do to help?Like, buddy knows he has 2 weeks to live and his response to this is “pls give sex”? That’s a severe mental health issue and character non-development | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?You can’t predict all the possible disagreements of this kind ahead of time and figure all of them out before you get serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?I don’t push the “man has final say because man”, don’t be putting words in my mouth, that’s what OP said, not me :) My point is “someone has to have a final say every time”. As in it may be the man on Monday and the woman in the next argument on Thursday, it just has to be at least someone every single time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?And when the middle ground can’t be found, it’s still doesn’t mean y’all should break up. It means one of you makes a sacrifice and y’all stay together. It doesn’t have to always be the same one of you, that’s where I disagree with OP. Unless it’s something, like, extremely hyper deep-rooted like having kids VS not having any or monogamy VS open relationships. But that basic of disagreements are a very limited, easily predictable set, and nothing is stopping people with common sense to align sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?Well, definitely. But in my experience people who become more and more divergent and different by the day, and more and more hostile to the other one’s ways, instead of becoming more and more similar and accepting — they break up really quick, after a few weeks, maybe after a month or two. They don’t get to the stage where they have a common life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?Out of all the replies disagreeing with mine, this one is an actually fair take. You’re conceptually correct, the only thing our positions differ in is in how deep-rooted is deep enough for this effect to kick in. Children VS no children is definitely deep enough. Countryside / suburbs or downtown & nightlife… I guess also deep enough. PC or console gaming is definitely not deep enough. Moving 6 time zones for a job opportunity or rejecting an offer and staying where you are — also not deep enou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:26 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?Fair enough, thanks for the reminder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:18 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?Yes to both questions. When you can’t find a common ground or a compromise in a disagreement (because its nature excludes the possibility of one) 99 times out of 100 the correct response to this is one of you sacrificing their position for the sake of the relationship, not breaking up. It doesn’t have to always be the same one of you so don’t think I share OP’s view, I don’t. That 100th time when the correct answer is still a break up is when it’s an incompatibility around something truly life-d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:15 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?Well yeah, but people out here be acting like EVERY disagreement can be solved by finding a middle ground, a solution that makes everyone happy, or by someone who objectively makes more sense persuading the other. Which is simply not true, that’s not how life works, that’s just how we wish it worked! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 12:34 AM |
| -4 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?I am married to the most fantastic woman this planet has. Being aligned on the bolded doesn’t exclude situations like a 6 time zones relocation that are hard to predict way in advance. And it doesn’t exclude wanting the opposite things when stuff like that happens. OP sees everything as black and white while you refuse to see anything as black and white. Like for real, you can’t predict every possible disagreement ahead of time. Besides, goals change, life around us changes too — COVID and full … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 12:31 AM |
| – | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?Are you an r/relationships_advice mod? Because how you solve everything with a break up sure gives that vibe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 12:21 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?OP, what if in different cases it’s a different person? Sometimes her wish comes true and true, sometimes his | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 10:23 PM |
| -5 | Q4W: Do you want a submissive man, or do you want to submit to your man?But while some disagreements root from misunderstandings and the common ground can be found by communicating; in others a middle ground can be found by bargaining; there is still the third type of disagreements that root from opposite wishes and no middle ground exists. Private house or an apartment? Homeschooling or go to school? Relocate for a great job opportunity 6 timezones away or reject the offer and stay home? Be a 420 friendly or a weedless household? Own firearms or not? Pets or no pet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Is it true that women give sex to have love? That the end goal for women is emotional bonding, not any sort of physical fulfillment?More like, of red pillers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.Wait, isn’t hygiene praised everywhere universally? Even those preferring a masculine man prefer him to not stink, y’know. And to have hairy arms, legs, face, and torso, but not hairy armpits or rotten teeth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 06:09 AM |
| – | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraAlso idk about y’all but most men I know aren’t single. They can’t all be five percenters. I don’t even know a single athlete, male model, or buy-property-without-mortgage type rich guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:13 AM |
| 1 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Those matches will be from people who swipe right on EVERYONE without looking at the profile. Not judging them, just questioning the idea that they will truly be interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”?To put it short, beggars can’t be choosers. And now that women don’t need a man to live a moderately decent life, plenty have become “happily single”. And it’s her singledom that you’re now competing against, it’s not the other dudes. Us men on the other hand… Let’s be honest, unless he’s supermodel level hot AND worth 7 or more figures, him claiming to be happily single sounds like nothing but copium, doesn’t it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”?So they tell about try harder and do better and lose weight, but do they tell about take accountability and be a decent human being that gives a damn about the others as opposed to only caring about their own feelings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?Testing, sure. If I can afford that. Pretending to like it? Hell naw, wtf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 01:52 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women should not sign prenupsAs long as they stay with me, sure. But should they dump me, I no longer do. Instead, I would then be willing to share it with the next person that is with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 09:29 AM |
| 9 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsIf they got kids of their own and are annoyed of you having kids too, it’s an entirely different story and they’re the delusional ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | You nearly always know within 5 minutes if you have chemistry with someoneI’ve only had 2 cases when an instantly (as in within the first minutes, what OP described) attractive person turned unattractive to me later on. One spat on the asphalt as we were walking somewhere. The other one turned out to be an atheist. Instant wipe of attraction in both cases. But everyone else who was attractive initially, stayed attractive down the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable?Maybe it’s because the people who are elderly or disabled are the least likely to be interested in what prostitutes offer? The former ones because they lack sexual drive due to their old age, the latter ones because it’d be inconvenient or embarrassing to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable?They can want whatever they want. If they end up getting that, good for them, if they end up not getting that, not my problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable?Nobody should be judged for their preferences as long as they’re not being assholes about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable?The truest words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:55 AM |
| 12 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsDude. If you got kids, you should be OK with your potential partner also having kids. That’s how it goes: you get to date childless people if you’re childless yourself, and if you got kids, just date people who also got kids and be happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?How would he know someone is trafficked unless he himself is involved in trafficking? In which case of course that’s some horrible shit that is not forgivable as the time goes. But if he’s not the one doing the trafficking how would he know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?Replies here are not representative of anything really. This right here is not a good place to source your statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:30 AM |
| 9 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?I’m a software engineer, I would still create software for fun as a hobby even if I’d got so rich I’d never need to work again. Just wouldn’t spend 40 hours a week on it and would make all the decisions about its future development and would prioritize on my own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?She wouldn’t cause fun doesn’t pay your rent and doesn’t put food on your table | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:22 AM |
| 10 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?Well not everyone is like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:21 AM |
| 6 | To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser?Do you think a female loser has all that much of confidence tho? Would she be a social outcast if she had it? Especially as a teen?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 07:39 AM |
| 7 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyFinally, some voice of reason in this thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsHow do you know he blocked you? 8 years on Reddit and I didn’t know there’s a way to know it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue?Nowhere did I say there aren’t liars and frauds among men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 05:04 PM |
| 21 | Why is there such a significant disconnect between what many women say they want in a man and what they actually pursue?Men take stuff at face value because that’s how men communicate. In the men’s world, only a fraud and a deceiver would omit an important part of the information. In the men’s world there is no such thing as “it should have been understood without saying it out loud”. That’s why, when some of y’all say you want a nice guy, some of them will interpret that as niceness being the only requisite, and will genuinely be confused and consider y’all liars and frauds when it turns it isn’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 09:43 AM |
| 7 | Women should not complain about being left for younger womanYeah the hairpiece had me on the floor laughing. Balding is tragic, bald is beautiful on many men, and hairpiece is a notorious lack of confidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 07:25 AM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Well yes, everything you said is correct, but how is it related to what I said? I genuinely struggle to see a reasonable connection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:47 AM |
| 6 | Every man should live the fuckboy lifestyle if they can at some pointYou do realize redpill morons believe every woman (obviously including you) has a hoe phase and see what OP said as a mere equivalent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:28 AM |
| 15 | Every man should live the fuckboy lifestyle if they can at some pointDo you seriously believe checking regularly is a form of protection? How come you survive with this little understanding of how anything works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situationHalf the Poles look like him as well, no need to go look at Ukrainians to find his lookalikes when you live in Poland. He is average af. He’s “not ugly” at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situationJust go out and see that half the motherfuckers roughly his age look just like him. Idk what’s the thing with America but out here he’d be average as fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 11:58 PM |
| 0 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractiveNice flair! Your write, “a lot” is in deed two words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..Who the fuck said that, I haven’t. Check the posting history maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..You are absolutely correct. I believe OP was talking about the long term thing though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..And? Anyone who uses that to decide whom to build future with is an absolute fucking retard. Qualifications for a one night stand and for marriage are not the same, nowhere near that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 08:44 PM |
| -1 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..Not significantly younger. And most men who do go this way once never do it again. They regret it. Life isn’t porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..Well, it ain’t like I could disagree. IMO a bit offtop, yet true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..Read my comment again please, I said “if given choice”. Then again, virtually everyone who had this choice and went for the much younger one will testify it was a terrible idea. Being with someone who’s on a different stage of life is miserable. That person will constantly want something you wouldn’t find yourself busy with out of your own volition in a million years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:55 PM |
| 15 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..Your base assumption is that any man, if given choice, will pick a significantly younger woman over a woman his age. That is not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Men can't date/marry out of their league with career success and moneyI do, yes. I’m Ukrainian. Sucks to be in the US apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Men can't date/marry out of their league with career success and moneyYes. I’m an engineer and my paycheck is 10 times the city’s average. If I still was on the dating market, not already married — I’d have no problem dating a woman who works at McDonalds if I like her personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 04:40 AM |
| 10 | Men can't date/marry out of their league with career success and moneyDudes date up lookswise all the damn time, no amount of parroting the rejection of this reality can change that. I see sub 5 dudes with 8+ gals all the time everywhere I go, heck, I myself am one. Now the metric in which dudes don’t date up — it’s not the looks, it’s the social status. I never saw a dude who looks like he works at the gas station, or like he sells stolen car parts and drinks away the profit, date a woman who looks like she’s got a PhD. I’ve also never saw a woman looking like a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 04:23 AM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenSummary: guys can’t date outside their league; women can but that will lead to being pump-and-dumped, but like a gambling addict, they keep spinning the wheel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 03:33 AM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenPosts like this one don’t ever get deleted, I keep getting replies for weeks sometimes until it naturally dies out. This place is not an echo chamber one bit, it’s truly purple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ?Oh! Played me lmao. Have a great day bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ?My ex was both, only she viewed videogames not as unmanly, but as immature and retarded in general, unrelated to the gender of the person in question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ?English, please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 06:18 AM |
| 8 | Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ?Anyone sending money to IG / OF models needs professional help, it’s absolutely insane. Even as a single person it is, but especially as a person in relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | If a man was wrongfully castrated, what would you support for him ?Unless we talking about seized assets such as a large amount of cash. It’s not the state that bears the burden of proving it’s obtained illegally, it’s you bearing the burden of proving it’s obtained legally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | If a man was wrongfully castrated, what would you support for him ?I mean, it can only be considered in any shape or form if it’s NOT applicable to the cases where the statement of the victim is the only evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsThis does not occur through government intervention. Women having been forbidden to do certain jobs and hold certain positions in the past was a government intervention. Lifting this prohibition is not the government intervention, it’s the lack thereof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsNobody is forcing anyone to create predominantly female HR departments. It's just that most of the workforce of this speciality consists of women. If whenever you have a job opening in the HR department, most applicants will be women, it's no wonder that you'll end up with a predominantly female department. It's the same way to how when you have an engineering job opening, most of the applicants will be men, so engineering departments usually end up being predominantly male. Both things happen n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:56 AM |
| 4 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsSurvival of the fittest is by definition very much the essence of the civilization as well. The only thing that changed is what makes you the fittest. But by definition it means that the one who fits the ecosystem the best (either by being born like that or by being good at adapting to changing conditions), survives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsI still suggest that in the actual world we live in. The higher the chance that a randomly picked victim will put a few extra holes in the perpetrator, the less likely is the latter to commit a violent crime. More legally owned guns = better ratio of legal to illegal guns = safer comunity. And women are created physically weaker, but the heater makes that difference unimportant. It benefits everyone but it benefits women the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:43 AM |
| 9 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsSo the women used to need at least some men for survival, but no longer do. That was the external force shaping their behavior on the dating market, now it's gone. Doesn't that mean the market has become more free now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.So then I'm guessing you're dating really ugly chicks? Or men? Something weird. No and no. Of the chicks I dated, fat or ugly are a small minority. And out of the three who actually were fat or ugly, two ghosted me after the first date and one dumped me after a couple dates. Don't know if it even counts as having dated them, probably not. As for men, theoretically I could date one if I found any I'd be attracted to, but in practice that hasn't happened a single time so far. you live in the third… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:05 AM |
| 0 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.What fucking cope, I got nothing to cope for. I’m in my early 30s, married, and since the age 17 I’ve spent probably a total of about 8–10 months being single, and I’m ugly as fuck. Face severely asymmetrical and I only got 1 ear. For dating long term looking hot doesn’t fucking matter, being nice does. Half the hot guys I know are single, and most taken guys I know aren’t hot by any kind of standard. The cope is claiming you can’t get dates because you’re unfit for the Men’s Health cover page, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 06:24 AM |
| 0 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.You gotta be boring or annoying or have bad breath or be the “akchually” type guy, or dorky, or something then, just like all those people. If we’re comparing to The Office characters, most boyfriends and husbands that I know resemble Dwight Schrute much more than they resemble Michael Scott or Andy Bernard. For one night stands sure, being physically attractive probably plays the second biggest role after attitude/self presentation. But for long term relationships… Let me tell you this, the mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 05:26 AM |
| 0 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Why do you care? I make 10 times the average income in my country (by being a remote contractor for first world corporations). My take-home income is just a small bit above the American average, like 2–5% above it, but why would I care? I don’t live in America so how it compares to the American average changes nothing for me. The only thing that matters is how it compares to the local average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Most men’s genetics are not bad enough to disqualify them, most men’s genetics, just like most men’s everything else, is average. On virtually every scale ever most people are averages, not 1/10s and not 10/10s. Due to the sheer game of numbers of a species with 8 billion specimen, that’s how the distribution works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 04:50 AM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.While that might be true for the biggest villains of history that bathed in innocent people’s blood such as Joseph Stalin or Adolf Hitler, your average burglar, car thief, or paid hitman is probably well aware that what they’re doing is bad, they just don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.I’m befuddled with other people assuming they know what you meant better than you do lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 04:37 AM |
| 2 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Well, the chronically online people are usually not from high gang activity areas, but instead they’re from boring areas where nothing ever happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 04:32 AM |
| 3 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.What kind of criminal? Will a tax evader count? What about a drug dealer who does his business honestly and never swindles anyone and doesn’t use violence outside of self protection? How about a petty thief or a kleptomaniac who may go unnoticed for decades? Are you talking specifically about gangsters, as in the known participants of organized crime, or just about anyone breaking the law? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 04:25 AM |
| – | Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinityThere is no such thing as toxic masculinity. Being a complete jerk isn’t a masculine trait and having a backbone isn’t a toxic one. Also the two are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingWelcome to Reddit. Don’t try to learn anything here, most of the stuff you’ll learn will be deranged nonsense from someone needing professional help. Just enjoy and treat it like an entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingWhat’s with the magical 1200 number mentioned all over the place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingYou will be shat on by cynical degenerates who don’t believe in love and think it’s a fairy tail bullshit chemical reaction in your brain. But stay strong and ignore them, they’re stupid as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?LMAAAAAOOOO indeed not sentient this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?So do women, and at a faster rate. As for men dying earlier, that changes the men to women ratio among senior citizens who, regardless of the gender, by and large don’t really do dating anymore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?Well, COVID? In the today’s society where everything is online / remote it’s damn hard to meet any new people. And the online dating is the absolute recipe for misery for 99% of men who aren’t 7ft tall jacked supermodels with 7 or more figure yearly incomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?Bro. The competition decreases by the fittest men leaving the market and starting families. But best believe on their way out the market they’re taking the best women with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?Either dating life in America has NOTHING similar with the dating life I know, or Reddit is disconnected from reality. I’d believe the world of dating to be THAT different in Muslim countries, but America culturally too close, so I’ll go with the “Reddit is disconnected from reality” option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?That’s because men love justice in general. Hence why they prefer to see the success of the one who struggles, not of the one born with a silver spoon in his mouth. This is why a self made man gets respect from everyone and a trust fund baby, even if he’s richer, only gets it from other trust fund babies maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?But in the movies bro’s usually successful but somehow: a) has all the time in the world for her; b) never does anything in the way she considers wrong or incompetent (frequent result of disagreement about approaches in real life); c) day-to-day life just doesn’t exist, everything is always exciting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 05:11 AM |
| – | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?Nah sis you’re just projecting your own approach onto us. We stick within our class in terms of manners and intelligence. Sure, we don’t marry no hood rats who already got 5 kids from 4 different baby daddies, 1 of them dead after a drive-by shooting, 2 more serving time, and the last one fresh out the rehab. But regarding specifically income and accumulated wealth? We’re not you, we just don’t give a single flying fuck. I make 10 times my city’s average, my wife makes about half the city’s aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:54 AM |
| 6 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?Look, we are interested in a huge amount of things about you besides sex, it’s just that your career and paycheck isn’t one. 7 figure making men can merry a McDonalds worker no problem. This is NOT because sex is the only thing they care about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 09:50 PM |
| 2 | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areI mean, I’m a dude and I absolutely did prefer relationship over FWB / no strings attached from some people. But this one with her charming personality… Nah this time around I’d be fine fuckzoned lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:46 PM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?It might indeed. Where you from? I’m also not an American | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:26 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Nope. Everyone who wants just sex should find other people who want just sex and make sure there’s mutual attraction. Struggling to find such people is not a fucking justification for deceiving people by pretending to want something more serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:41 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?I don’t surround myself with anybody, that ain’t how the offline world works. I just live my life and meet other people while living it. All that without purposely selecting to only deal with so-called Chads, Tyrones, Rauls, and Changs, as you assumed. Besides, I work in a predominantly male field (software engineering), I have two hobbies and both are predominantly male (I’m a car and desktop PC enthusiast), I do predominantly male sports (gym now, martial arts in past), and I volunteer in a pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:25 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?I doubt all, but I’d believe if you said most. Everyone knows this guy who’s fucked up in the head, annoying, and insufferably boring and scrupulous. He doesn’t have sex probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:09 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Wrong conclusion. HAVE A DIFFERENT INTENT. If all you’re interested in is sex, you’re probably not getting it no matter upfront or not. And that is fair and well deserved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:02 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Well then Chads are 90%+ of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:00 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Lmao ironically whoever will build them won’t have to use them. But NOT because he will be rich. Instead, because he will be the one with a hold of his life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 09:58 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Ikr! I’m in my early 30s. Out of the men I know probably less than 10% are single. And out of those singles most are recently broken up with / divorced from. How many of the taken are in a dead bedroom situation I have no idea obviously, but that’s a whole ass different conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 09:51 AM |
| 1 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?That’s because they never wanted that to happen in both cases. Absolute majority of men wish their wives stay alive, also the absolute majority of divorces are initiated by women. Someone who initiates the divorce picks being single over accepting their partner’s downsides. Men virtually never make this choice, men are far more accepting and willing to compromise. For a man to make this choice, something must be seriously fucking wrong. Like he must find out that she’s cheating or that she’s cru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Why do *some men, try to convince virginal & low n count women to have sex without marriage/commitment?Or better yet just remember you don’t need no appreciation from randoms on Reddit, so just post in good faith whatever is right to the best of your beliefs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 10:05 PM |
| 10 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menAin’t no fantasy out here, shit happens left and right. How tf do you think single moms whose baby daddy is nowhere to be found ended up in that situation? Cases of him missing due to being dead or in prison are a small minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex?Because now with online dating women are presented with so many options, everyone who’s not in top 1% is now considered not average, but ugly and undesirable. And they don’t want to see the truth that they stand a nearly 0% chance of getting commitment from the 1%-er | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 06:31 AM |
| 4 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.The real superpower is having more time than things to do and not having no bills to pay. I firmly believe that learning is so much harder as an adult first and foremost because of the way of life, and the changes in brain play a minor role, at least before you start forgetting stuff en masse (and that’s not 20s or 30s, that’s 60s and onwards) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guyWell why, yes I sure do. I prefer her peers envy her for being with a man like me rather than pity her for the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guyThe XXL nails, the fake eyelashes, the fake lips the size and shape of a baboon’s anus… They think we like that rotflmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guyHuh? Ron Pearlman is attractive as fuck, just old, homie’s 74. But hey, he had his years of being young and attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guyr/MenAndFemales reversed lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:01 AM |
| 2 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.Cuckoldry has NOTHING to do with children. It’s about her fucking someone else WHILE she’s in relationship with a cuck. Not BEFORE that relationship but DURING it, otherwise it’s not cuckoldry. Whether she got pregnant and/or gave birth as a result of that, changes nothing and doesn’t matter. If sex with the other guy happened DURING the relationship, it’s cuckoldry regardless of whether it resulted in a kid or not. If sex with the other guy happened BEFORE the relationship, it’s NOT cuckoldry r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.My purple is 99.9% blue, 0.1% red. I’d never say that “you’re insecure if you don’t find them attractive” nonsense. That would be insane and very far from the almost entirely blue pill position I hold Also I don’t got shit in common with radfem, I despise of them and of Tate’s fanclub equally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 5 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.The fuck? Cuckoldry implies a woman fucks someone else WHILE BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE ONE WHO’S CUCKED. If she fucked someone else BEFORE your relationship started, that’s not cuckoldry. Are you a troll or are you clinically insane and seriously believe that if you’re not her first, you’re automatically cucked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.U high? The hell are you even talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.You got a very weird idea of blue pillers, you confuse them with radfem or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.It is nowhere near the same, haven’t you read the post? Knowingly and willingly becoming a step dad is one thing, having to continue to raise the kid that you just learned isn’t yours, and as such who is a walking talking manifestation of you having been cheated on like that — is a whole different one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 3 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.Yup. What are you punishing the kid for, the kid ain’t done nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 3 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.There is no such thing as cuckoldry that doesn’t involve cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:47 PM |
| 2 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.Dude was probably speaking about 3rd world or far east Asia, the so to say 2nd world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 0 | What are your opinions on beards?That certain type that can pull off the long beard — is that the viking type? 6ft6 tall, 300 lbs of muscles, body silhouette in the shape of a triangle turned upside down, and a lot of tattoos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:28 PM |
| 4 | What are your opinions on beards?Well, pretty much everything looks better than a hobo beard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subAnd that “but” is there for a reason. Go somewhere where other people be and you’ll see for yourself. Not to a backstage of a fashion podium though but go somewhere like a food court of a mall. You’ll see a lot of people who are walking talking embodiments of the fact that this “but” deserves every right to be there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 06:00 PM |
| -2 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subSis he’s not a Tate’s fanboy, he’s tryna explain to you how come Tate has fanboys, and how come they ignore everything you mentioned and still praise the dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subFor fuck’s sake. Of course looks matter, ain’t nobody denying that you’re more attractive if you’re handsome than if you’re not. Redpill amd blackpill don’t have any monopoly here. What they have monopoly on, is the bullshit statement that it’s the only factor that matters. Let me reiterate. “Looks matter” — according to fucking everyone and their mom “Only looks matter and nothing else does” — blackpilled bullshit “Looks, status, fame, wealth, dominance matter but the personality besides its ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subYup. It’s like… Hitler was a vegetarian but it’s not what everyone hates him for. And OP could say “you know what, Hitler is cool cause he was a vegetarian and if y’all support vegetarianism, hating him would be hypocritical” Of course being rich, beautiful, ambitious, and well respected is more attractive than being a broke ugly loser abandoned and forgotten by everyone he knew. Ain’t nobody denying that lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:30 PM |
| – | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesI am paying for Reddit? Can you make any statement that wouldn’t be obviously false? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:38 AM |
| – | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesWhat you’re saying has literally nothing to do with either the situation described in the post nor with the comment you’re replying to. Get off 4chan and turn off that Andrew Tate podcast you been listening to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:36 AM |
| – | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesMen frequently have no backbone when it comes to disagreeing with their girlfriends or wives. Which is a huge mistake, as instead of improving the wellbeing of the relationship (which they think they’re doing) it actually causes her to lose respect to him and eventually dump his ass. Bending to her whims like that is the 3rd most unattractive thing after 1) crying in front of her and 2) behaving “soft and sweet” just because that is what you want her to behave like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:12 AM |
| – | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesI can’t imagine wellbeing of my marriage affected negatively by me condemning a cheater lol. Men y’all need to stop being scared shitless to say something your wife won’t like. Catering to her whims like that only makes her lose respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:04 AM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageI’m a 31 year old dude and I honestly don’t know what the fuck would I have in common with a 20 year old and how could spending time with her be even the smallest bit enjoyable. Our lives are too different and so are our priorities. And before anything, I am not a boring Bob from finance. I used to have dreadlocks until earlier this year when my fav barber and I decided to experiment and ended up getting me a movie star looking ass haircut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Do men these days still only respect bitches?Shoulda been called “Why the most pathetic men you look with complete disgust at love bitches while the rest of them are grossed out by bitches” but it probably wouldn’t sell as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Flirting is a learned skill by men.You might not know how relationships work, it seems like you haven’t updated your notes since the medieval times, or maybe you’re from a country that lives by Sharia Law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 08:38 AM |
| 0 | Do men these days still only respect bitches?Who told you we respect bitches? One of the biggest misconceptions women have about men. We’re not afraid of them, we don’t respect them, we despise of them. “Ewwwww, gross” is our only reaction to the so-called “boss bitches”. There is nothing LESS attractive to a man. We feel about them like you feel about a dirty drunk homeless man smelling of piss, not the way you feel about some corporation’s CEO or a king. We actually respect the “wife material” woman exactly for being that. Soft, tender, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:22 AM |
| 13 | Flirting is a learned skill by men.You think people who already are together don’t flirt? My guy that is just sad, I’m not gonna even hate on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?I like you. You seem like a person that’s easy to deal with, for whom nothing is ever a problem, who’s highly rational, efficient, and is in general a perfect partner force any kind of plan or activity. Problem-free. On the contrary, your opponent seems like someone who’s freaking out over everything, makes a huge deal out of the smallest things all the time, blows everything out of proportion, and sees the smallest differences between the reality and their ideal imagination as an absolute disas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?Just switch between a couple neighboring countries every few months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?Pre COVID that would be the loss of your American income. Working a middle class job in Thailand would only get you a middle class life in Thailand. But now that the jobs became remote it’s a whole different situation, go for it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | No fault divorce but with a twistWelp… IMO if you leave your SO simply because you “no longer feel happy in this relationship” AKA because you got bored, but they didn’t actually do you any wrong — you shouldn’t be entitled to anything that heartbroken person provided. You should be immediately stripped from access to any communal property your savings weren’t used to purchase. In other words — if you’re willing to break a heart, you should at the very least walk away empty handed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:40 AM |
| 0 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenGood point tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenHow often do straight men have flocks of gay orbiters? Approximately never cause the aforementioned gays know there’s definitely nothing to expect here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenWhat are you even talking about? OP is a dude, men aren’t orbiting him waiting for their chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:40 AM |
| 8 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenI swear we’ll see the 2nd coming of Jesus before we see these mfs admit that the secret code they were looking for indeed doesn’t exist and their so sought after one-size-fits-all approach works just on some women, not on all, not on most. Whenever their approach fails, they blame it on any random shit, like being too short, or too ugly, or not rich enough, too skinny, too fat, “not having enough game”, whatever under the sky, just so as to not admit that their silver bullet approach indeed is N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenFinally someone with an actual good reading comprehension. Nice to see that for a change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenWhy the fuck would it be a bad idea to get yourself a friend and a romantic partner in the same person? Couples who are also friends tend to last much much longer and happier. And if for some reason y’all can’t be friends, that means y’all are incompatible with each other. And that is NOT looking good for a couple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:27 AM |
| 11 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Right?! Attraction is not debatable. When you already are attracted to one another, requirements are debatable (such as, say, you can’t spend all the time with her and also work a full time job with overtimes to be a provider). But the attraction itself is not something you can convince her to have towards you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?Good point. Then you misinterpreted it in good faith maybe? Still a misinterpretation, only the intentions are different, but the result is the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:25 AM |
| – | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Someone posted a reply claiming he has the same situation (and even the same asymmetry), is invisible to 90% of women but wildly attractive to the remaining 10%. His theory was that it’s because he reminds them of their dad, as most of those 10% would be blond and he’s dark blond himself. He later deleted the reply while I was typing in the response, but I’m not wasting that effort. So here’s what I replied to him: Idk my guy, I’m pretty certain I don’t resemble 10% of people’s dads. Also I can’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:36 AM |
| – | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.In your region maybe, in mine I’m average. If I ride in a subway, the amount of men definitely shorter than me = the amount of men about as tall as me = the amount of men definitely taller than me. Like, literally, it’s an almost 1:1:1 ratio | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Women complain about traits of high T but don't want any side effects of a low T maleOh. I thought your comment is in a different thread. Sorry, pls ignore me, I got confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Women complain about traits of high T but don't want any side effects of a low T maleCan’t agree. However, considering everyone hostile by default is toxic. Thinking everyone wants to make her life miserable and acting accordingly is toxic as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Women complain about traits of high T but don't want any side effects of a low T maleNo. When they perceive everyone as hostile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Women complain about traits of high T but don't want any side effects of a low T maleNot exactly this. Being sure that the goal and dream of everyone around is to make your life miserable, this perceiving everyone as hostile and acting accordingly — now THAT is toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.I am by all means not a 10/10. My jaw is tilted sideways making one cheek way larger than the other, I only have 1 ear, and I stand 6 feet tall which is not short but also not outstandingly tall either. And I’ve still had that my way. Maybe just in lesser numbers than 10/10s have. To be honest though I got very masculine facial features (think Adam Driver in terms of both the phenotype and the defects) but that’s that. Not super tall, not too deep of a voice, not supermodel handsome, not even wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:46 AM |
| 2 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.Yes, I am proving you and supporting your original point, I thought that’s obvious and undoubted lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:34 PM |
| 3 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.Well yes, but neither me nor the guy you’re replying to are women. Both him and me are dudes who get their advice from the people who are in a place in life where we also wanna be. Not from the ones living a completely different life than we’d like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:33 PM |
| 4 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.This observation comes from a red piller who believes all women are the same and that a one size fits all approach exists. And when reality proves him wrong and his approach fails he just brushes it off as “I probably just wasn’t tall / handsome / jacked / rich enough, the approach would’ve worked otherwise” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:30 PM |
| 6 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.Well obviously yes, who the fuck would get his advice from a person that’s not where he wants to also be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situationAlso, I just looked the guy up. Idk about his area, maybe he’s considered attractive there, but he looks like an absolutely average Ukrainian, like 5 men out of every 10 look like him or almost like him. Most Americans I’ve met are also more attractive than this guy… Idk really, I expected to see someone Robert Downey Jr level hot, but instead what I saw was just a guy. As average as it ever gets, besides the tattoos, the only thing that makes him stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.99% of all relationships ever fail You pulled this out the ass. This simply has nothing to do with reality. You could as well claim claim water is radioactive whereas uranium is good for your health, and that we live on the planet Saturn, not Earth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a man?Redpillers don't come to sensible conclusions anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.That is factually not the truth, the 99% thing. Also one way or another, if all you really need from relationship is sex, you're not having anything good coming your way. Missing out af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.The guy with the free course wants to take your money in the end, I don’t. So he bullshits you, I don’t. If you don’t care, not my fucking problem, it’s your life you’re bringing misery into, not mine. What fucking actual argument of yours should I address? That I say what I say for karma whoring? This isn’t a valid argument to begin with, and also I’ve addressed it already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Yeah because men of your age group either only recently joined the relationship game or haven’t joined yet. Nobody makes experienced decisions from the get go, you need to watch your peers make mistakes and make some rookie mistakes yourself first hand before you get to know better than to repeat them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Spot the fuck on. Couldn’t have said it better myself, thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:25 PM |
| 0 | So what is the alternative??I mean, they dig up from the bottom where their “just be a selfish prick” approach that they sugarcoat as “dark triad” actually works. And then they assume it directly translates on all women. However, women who are not from the rock bottom don’t fall for it. They don’t recognize the approach as wrong, and just dismiss this experience as “well, I was probably too short / too ugly / too broke for her”. And come right back to the bottom where this approach works and where bitches belonging to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.I don’t give a flying fuck about karma. I’m giving good advice that worked magic for myself. Game is free, OK If someone is too stubborn or arrogant to use my free pro tips, not my problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsThe post was also about treatment in general. With the hookups, the “relationship” just doesn’t last long enough for the magic to wear off. With the LTR it does. Here goes the shittier treatment of an LTR than a hookup would get. That comes with a downside tho: the hookup, should he actually want a relationship (and contrary to the popular belief, THAT is what most men actually want) will probably get dumped by her, and much sooner than anyone “bf material” would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 07:35 AM |
| 6 | So what is the alternative??Also this allows to avoid the trash tier women that actually indeed are what redpill ideology portrays all women as. And my strategy as a purple (predominantly blue) piller is to avoid that type of human trash. This way my life experience is good, enjoyable, and vastly contradicts redpill beliefs. If I would instead pick women from the absolute bottom I’d probably believe redpill is correct. So the purple pill for me means: generally blue pillers are correct and adequate; red pillers got a few m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Men do find most women attractive. You came here to learn about men, here’s one correct thing everyone’s been telling you and you deny it in every damn comment thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Yeah but the men would be happy with a much larger percentage of women just the way they are — than the other way around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Only morons want to marry hot women period. And whatever shitstorm is coming their way, they brought it upon themselves. Smart men want to marry women who treat them right, who value the relationship, are willing to fight for it when unsatisfied (as opposed to easily dipping out), and who believe that marrying this man is akin to winning the lottery. Those are the men that live happy life free of misery and are still healthy when they’re old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.You’ll only learn bullshit here. If you trust what Reddit tells you’ll have an image of reality that has close to nothing in common with the actual reality itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.That last sentence — you plain out don’t realize that sex isn’t the main thing a relationship gets you? You really think attractive people get into relationship for the sex? Like dude, for most people who aren’t dorky as shit, sex is attainable when single. This is not at all what we get into relationship for. And those who get into them for the sake of sex are doomed to misery and failures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.r/IHadAStroke and it gets progressively worse towards the end of the comment. I hope you’re still alive and was just getting more and more drunk as you typed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.while men desire to fuck as many 95%ers as possible Fixed that for you, and yes, that also applies to men who are top 10%ers themselves. Men who have options within top 20% of women are still attracted to top 95% of women, denying that is delulu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.He’s not special. He just has experience to know better than grade based on physical attractiveness. And is not braindead enough to ignore that experience and still go for the hottest one with a shitty character thinking that it’s definitely gonna be better this time around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Well, yeah, most definitely evolution, or more precisely, selection is behind it. If in your tribe men have to fight over women and compete for their attention, and women are attracted to the strongest men and best fighters — then the next generation has best chances of survival, an specifically the next generation of men will be better as providing safety and resources to the tribe and their offsprings. Compare that to a tribe where the women in general are attracted to all kinds of men. The ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 05:52 AM |
| 4 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Well… Yes. That is realistic. I’m your average Joe, not coming from generational wealth. I work from home, on most days hardly more than 2 hours a day because at my position I’m also engaged in a lot of meetings, and with my personality that is not an issue. But even with those, I probably work like 5 hours a day. I don’t really have to report because the fact that the product is delivered is basically a report itself. So I have a manager, but that’s more like the person I come to when I need he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 05:24 AM |
| – | Who Opposes No-Fault Divorce?You're answering something else I guess. My question is, why shouldn't I marry someone who would then become my financial dependent? I make enough to support a family of two off of a single income AND put money away towards buying a house. Once we own a house and no longer have to pay the rent, I will be able to provide for a family of three, given I keep the same income. I want my wife to only work if she wants to. When looking for one, I consider other qualities than her capacity of being a pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:15 PM |
| – | Who Opposes No-Fault Divorce?You’re telling me people should only marry those who make about as much as themselves? And that income gap should be a deal breaker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement is a scamFirst off, I like to exaggerate things a bit and paint a more vivid image than the bare minimum. Second of all, yes, that is the actual pinnacle of refusal to self-improve. Nobody is born a high quality human. When we’re born, we only know to scream at the top of our lungs, shit ourselves, and suck a titty. From there on, some people learn and do things that aren’t the path of least resistance, and that’s self-improvement. And some don’t, and that’s the lack thereof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Self-improvement is a scamEverything correct except that death is also not guaranteed as we don’t really know jack shit about what’s the actual results. Maybe you see stats and main menu after lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Self-improvement is a scamThat is why most guys fail. If you’d stop becoming any better if that was guaranteed to not affect your chances of getting laid — then that’s fake. And fake shit don’t work, you’re not fooling anyone besides yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Self-improvement is a scamWell there you go. If you don’t actually see any point in it, and if it wasn’t for attracting women you’d rather be a lazy stinky obese slob with dirty hair and in worn out stained clothes, making minimum wage but also putting minimum effort, thus saving plenty time to chill and shitpost on 4chan and in Discord… And if the sole reason for you not being like that is that you wanna snatch some pussy — man you’re destined to fail. All your self improvement is fake and women smell that from a mile a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 07:54 PM |
| 0 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Well then he is gay now, but wasn’t at the time, maybe he was bi at the time tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Constantly late is OK. Canceling plans because of the mood swing over the smallest shit is not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?But aren’t you concerned that they’re with you only because of your income or the prestige of your passport, and don’t value you for, you know, yourself, your personality, your traits, beliefs, and life choices? That’d be a deal breaker to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:41 PM |
| 2 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?You and your missus probably just don’t have this kinda days when you wake up only to immediately get to work or chores and end the day with passing out in the middle of still doing one of them. I have this curse tho, so I’m happy for you but literally just finding time 20+ times a month is borderline impossible in my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?She’ll turn a blind eye to all that and just believe he’s gon get to a better place in life. If she wants him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:29 PM |
| 11 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?A very small portion of men. Much more man have emerald green eyes than are rapists, and yet nobody runs around claiming “when meeting a man you should expect him to have emerald green eyes” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Only propose to the one that believes being with you is akin to winning the lottery. Better be alone than with someone for whom being with you is a compromise and a chore, and God forbid with someone who settled for you only cause she couldn’t keep the guy she actually wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Dude he wasn’t in elementary himself at the time, nothing weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:14 PM |
| 5 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Brotha I don’t think buddy was gay tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Women with high relationship standards--please tell me about what you offer in returnGod bless your soul if you believe in the two, people like you make this world a better place merely by existing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Do women think hypergamy doesn’t exist?Been hit on by a girl who had two high paid jobs and a hundred dollars in her name in cash and stocks. Whereas all I had at the time was 3 shitbox cars cars worth like 20 grands combined, 5-ish grands in equity awarded stocks from my last job, and a computer maxxed out at the time of its build worth like maaaaaybe $2000. Also a job but it paid about as much as just one of hers. Nothing came out of it since she’s scared to come back to our home country because of war, and I can’t leave for the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 04:04 PM |
| -1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.The second part is not true. It’s a hoax believed by anti-religion folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.To be a girlboss, you don’t need to be an actual boss of any, even the most unprosperous business. Likewise, you can actually own a business or lead a department and not be a girlboss at all. It’s a model of behavior, not a societal status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Hey, thank you! Not much to say but greatly appreciated :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?If you have no standards or preferences, aren’t actually ever attracted to a specific person, and basically every adult human with a vagina is good enough — then yes it works. You just apply your one size fits all approach to everyone until you find someone it works on. Just like a piece of clothing of a specific size indeed fits some people well. Sure if you cast a wide net like that, you will find someome it works on. It’s just like swiping right on Tinder on literally everyone without even lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:43 AM |
| 25 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?People don’t realize the difference between attractiveness in general and attractiveness in the eyes of a specific woman. As long as one thinks all women are the same and believes in a one size fits all silver bullet approach, one will continue failing miserably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:11 PM |
| -1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.No need to learn, comparing side by side in notifications would be enough for someone with minimal situational awareness. Besides the non-similar usernames, my avatar is blue and customized, and that fine gentleman’s is green and default. You tried to disrespect but you just proved you’re absent-minded as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I’m a different person you blind fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:14 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Username doesn’t check out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man focus on building up his personality(as long as he has basic social skills) when there are 4 or 5 other factors that are more important to attracting a woman?Ahh, you’re OP with his “build a personality” bullshit. Dude, that’s not how it works. It’s not a MMORPG character stat like strength or agility is. Top level comment we’re talking under is trying to share some reason with you. You refuse that, well, whatever, not my problem, Danny boy fan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man focus on building up his personality(as long as he has basic social skills) when there are 4 or 5 other factors that are more important to attracting a woman?All those people are self made men, while Danny boy is just making it rain with the cash of his poppa. There’s difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man focus on building up his personality(as long as he has basic social skills) when there are 4 or 5 other factors that are more important to attracting a woman?He’s rich as shit and there’s literally nothing else about him, if you can’t put 2+2 it’s on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Late bloomer breakup: Who is really at fault?You have to make exception for literally every religion to be objective. Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, Rastafarianism, Shinto… None of them teach cruelty to your SO. You’re chronically online if you think you do. Touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Why should a man focus on building up his personality(as long as he has basic social skills) when there are 4 or 5 other factors that are more important to attracting a woman?Yup. “Build personality” smh. Mfs got such a completely UFO ass approach to life and wonder how come nobody wants them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Why should a man focus on building up his personality(as long as he has basic social skills) when there are 4 or 5 other factors that are more important to attracting a woman?Dan just pays hookers with his dad’s money. Everyone with a job can do that if that’s their priority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 11:50 AM |
| – | Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off?First of all, huge respect for taking part in smuggling East Germans over the border! Secondly, it is with great pleasure that I inform you that in Ukraine even Gen Z knows communism is purified evil, and when it comes it brings literal death to the best of people and death of any dreams and prospects to the rest of them. Out here nobody thinks it’s cool except for maybe some old people on whom dementia took a heavy toll. And even those probably actually miss Soviet times because back then they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 08:49 PM |
| – | Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off?Well they probably vote blue, hate Trump supporters (who are the most pro-Russian group in America, which is very ironic considering how they are the loudest about them being patriots), and all that. And as such, just like most dems, they are probably definitely pro-Ukrainian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?This is why my original comment said “if they’re collectors”. I’m well aware that most ultra rich people aren’t car collectors. But the ones that are — they collect what I said they do, not something like the most expensive BMW coupe you can get at a dealership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?As for the last paragraph, Arab sheikhs whose wealth is practically infinite off of peddling oil would like to gave a word with you in their hangars that fit 200 exclusive collector cars each | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:46 PM |
| – | Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off?Jokes on you, part of my family is from there, as well as about 1/3rd of friends. Literally everyone shares the same stance as me, but for them what happened to their homeland hurts even more (at least my home region wasn’t turned into a shithole like Donbas was) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 7 | What does a top 20% man look like?BMW and Mercedes are for boys who want to look richer than they are. Wealthy men, the “I can afford to retire my grandchildren before they’re even born” type men — they got either a Toyota Land Cruiser (which is fuel hungry but literally never gives you headache cause nothing ever breaks in it, and is also comfy af) or a beat up Subaru Forester (cause it reliably gets the job of transporting them done and they don’t care about anything else). Or exclusive cars like 1950s Porsches or Nissan Skyli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:27 PM |
| – | Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off?Yes after what communists did to my nation, Ukrainians. I wanna see the looks on their faces when they find out virtually all Ukrainians fucking hate communism and consider it the worst nightmare ever, and are giving away their lives just to have it never return to Ukraine… While pro-Putin Russians love it, want to re-establish USSR, and that is basically the entire reason and grand goal for them starting this war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Dating advice by men, for women?Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Dating advice by men, for women?I’m one of these men with options. If she makes me feel like she’s mad in love with me and we will meet old age together as long as I stay — other women don’t exist to me. If she constantly makes me feel like I’m about to be broken up with — they very much do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Dating advice by men, for women?Don’t blow shit out of proportion, be tolerant to the shortcomings of the man you’re with, and don’t make him feel like you’re one foot out the door if you are looking for commitment, overstep icks, and focus on positive in your train of thought. In other words, treat him like you would like to be treated yourself. If this is hurtful, you are the problem and should seek help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:20 AM |
| 0 | Dating advice by men, for women?Why? “Don’t blow things out of proportion and make him NOT feel like you’re one step out the door if you’re seeking for commitment” doesn’t sound like something useless for a tomboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Do people really go to clubs primarily to get laid?Don’t we all adore that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Do people really go to clubs primarily to get laid?So did I. But anywhere other than the toilets, you needed to scream at the top of your lungs to be heard at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 06:30 AM |
| -1 | Do people really go to clubs primarily to get laid?I wouldn’t call them that. More like spaces where you stand a chance of being heard at the arm length distance as long as your lungs are really strong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Do people really go to clubs primarily to get laid?However, whoever goes to a nightclub to TALK is clinically insane. What next, you go to a death metal concert to TALK during the performance? Or maybe to a construction site? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"?That’s not adoration, that’s approval | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"?Because that ain’t how that works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"?Well the entire thread is full of people battling each other cause none of them can agree what’s chemistry. So conclusions 100% logical for ones feel like absolute absurd to others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"?Gosh, chemistry isn’t tingles. It’s adoration. Why would you ever get with someone you don’t adore? And if you’re Mister Practicality, it’s more practical to stay single than to get with someone you don’t adore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 09:27 AM |
| 3 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Not common knowledge and also not true. In America maybe but I don’t give a flying fuck about American women. Now Imma enlighten you on something that is not a common knowledge among redpillers. The type of women you see on redpill podcasts as guests to bash are not what you normally expect a woman to be. In fact, they barely have anything other than anatomy in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather be stuck in the woods with a bear or with a woman who believes it’s morally ok to falsely accuse men of rapeYeah but OP said it’s some absolute unit. Maybe a Ukrainian or Israeli woman who was dropped in that forest straight from the battlezone lmao. That would also explain why she might jump to killing you — in the first seconds she might not yet realize enemy troops are no longer around and still be in that “shoot first, ask questions last” mentality that lets you survive the enemy raid. Also the premise is apparently that she’s packing something capable of one shot kill without extra luck, not some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 07:38 AM |
| -1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Virtually all redpill advices are worthless as fuck. The only things they got right are not unique to redpill, they’re common knowledge. Like, you don’t have to be a redpiller to realize that being loaded, healthy, and young is more attractive (higher SMV in their language) than being sick, broke, and old. There are few small exceptions though. Such as the revelation to many that women find it more attractive when you just let her know the next thing y’all gonna do (she sees this as you gifting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 07:24 AM |
| 2 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.And it’s also normal and healthy to not marry someone you don’t trust. It’s not like staying unmarried is a punishable offense or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.Look pendejo if you can’t, without the test, trust the woman that the kids are indeed yours — then this itself already means this isn’t the woman you should be marrying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.This is not out of some abstract ideals or whatever. This is simply because the more exes she has, the less she values the relationship, the easier she dips out of one, and the higher the chance she’s gon do the same shit to you no matter how perfect you treat her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 10:14 PM |
| 0 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.Double sided sword. The last two imply lack of trust, which itself is a legitimate dealbreaker. If some woman agrees on it, and then goes “here’s your prenup, here’s the DNA test that shows you’re the real father, now get the fuck out of my life” I would perfectly understand her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureTwo hundred and eighty seven | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 09:07 PM |
| 9 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureSomeone pointed out that you didn’t make a connection that you claim the post would be about, hence it’s a clickbait basically. You go on a tantrum that yes you did and if someone doesn’t see it they should see a doctor, instead of taking some accountability and doing an honest retrospective. Like a child, my guy. “I’m definitely right and whoever disagrees, all these stupid adults, they just understand nothing”. If someone ever told you you behave immature, this is one good example for you to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 09:06 PM |
| 10 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureJustangryneckbeardthings… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 09:02 PM |
| – | If you really believe that having great social skills doesnt give you a huge leverage in dating as a man you are delusional.how do you help a person that doesn’t want to be helped There is no way. This is the core of most struggles on this subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Women are unable to handle rejectionMy brain is perfectly clean and smooth Homie you done did yourself dirty lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do people associate being a provider with power/dominance? It's just not the case any more.Also probably why most lottery winners go broke again in a couple years. It’s your regular income that defines your level of life, not your current at-the-moment balance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:39 AM |
| 11 | Its impossible to be high status and not completely dominate in terms off women. It beats looks, money, and status by a mile.Also he said right there in the title that status beats (a number of things here) and status. Homie was high when composing it all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Teenage girl watching red pill content.Idk, I am not a red piller my man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 10:39 PM |
| 7 | Teenage girl watching red pill content.Don’t make conclusions about people in general from the ones Internet is trying to shove down your throat. Otherwise you’ll guaranteed come to a conclusion that it’s best to avoid all humans altogether and live in a cabin deep in the woods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRMy dude you are just too accurate, you’d be a good sniper lol This “emotional labor” is exactly the stuff I heard. I paid for virtually everything (that was fair, since I made more in a month than she made in a year) and solved all the problems we ran into. Still more than enough time she claimed that she feels like this relationship is exclusively holding on her effort and that she’s exhausted and tired. And then in the very same relationship with the very same person, as soon as I start tellin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRBtw that was one hard to swallow pill that I should NOT be obsessed with “checking in” with her view on everything. And I’m not talking sex, I’m talking day to day life. The frustrated and annoyed look when I ask what would she prefer and the loving and affectionate look when I just inform her of the decision I already made is something I will never truly understand. Apparently it’s something that you just learn and use without trying to figure out why tf does it work like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRDirty talk is cringe as fuck. Especially when it’s learned from porn, then it’s double fucking cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRAlso about flairing things as “Debate” when there’s not a single debatable statement in sight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Being more dominant and primal in the bed can dramatically improve your LTRThey wanna be someone’s “daddies”, the answer is contained in your question homeboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating inequality cannot be fixedAlso, most 80-percenters I’ve met definitely could be in top 20% if it wasn’t for their half-ass approach to literally everything. Heck, I myself passed this transition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Question about the man vs bear debate.This is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?Nope. Everyone else has to lower their standards. There aren’t women who can’t attract any man, there are just women who can’t attract a the kinda man she thinks she deserves. 99% of women would never be single if they were ok with the dude they keep swiping left on cause he’s too much one thing, not enough the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Do women often marry men that they don't passionately love?Yeah. Which is why I meant an ick resistance of a woman. In a sense that she should be able to overcome and ignore that shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Question about the man vs bear debate.This is fucking ridiculous. Absolute most men aren’t murderers or rapists. Virtually all bears will kill you to eat you. How brainwashed by feminists do you have to be to even compare the two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Do women often marry men that they don't passionately love?Yeah, but ick-resistance is like the most important thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | “It is a red flag to date a woman who accepts you as you are, because it means you won’t reach your full potential” do you agree or disagree ?Justin Kruger and David Dunning knew about the Dunning-Kruger effect the longest. Russell’s dummy btw is an invalid and off point argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:04 PM |
| 14 | “It is a red flag to date a woman who accepts you as you are, because it means you won’t reach your full potential” do you agree or disagree ?Did you not know that people who spread absolute nonsense do this extremely confidently? Otherwise they wouldn’t get traction. That’s the curse of social media btw. Smart people have doubts, sound less confident, and get no traction. Dumb people don’t give a second thought to anything ever, sound confident, and get traction like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?So, why? I personally wanna puke from the mere idea of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?By that logic any kind of sex is a porn thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:49 AM |
| – | Why do women like giving blowjobs?The dude clearly gets that idea from the concept of “I probably wouldn’t like it and I saw some wannabe Andrew Tate podcaster say he also doesn’t like it, so apparently most men don’t like it” Also I imagine OP is the kind of guy to act like a complete alien and have zero success with women because of exactly that, but to blame it on him not being 7 feet tall or not having a jawline so sharp it could cut glass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:35 AM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?I tried googling up toe policing, nothing that would make sense came up. What’s that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Expand please, with specific examples ideally, cause that is a very general answer (however, exactly the type thereof that I was looking for) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:47 AM |
| 4 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Finally an answer that is undoubtedly correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:45 AM |
| -1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Look around. Take a look at the guys who have girlfriends or wives. How many of them are 6 ack, 6 figure, 6 feet tall? Yeah some women may have those as hard requirements but they’re also doomed to stay single most of the time too, that’s their fair punishment for not agreeing to any less. It ain’t like that’s everyone’s hard requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Tbh not what I expected. I thought you would provide examples of bad/inconsiderate behavior. The things you mentioned are merely the things you would accept from someone you like and refuse from someone you don’t like, which is perfectly normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:38 AM |
| 4 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Genuinely the first time I hear of any of this. Literally no idea who are any of these people, too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?That’s not a “degree of passability”, we’re talking an “out of 53 employees, 51 are men” kind of situations. Gotta agree with the “you can’t favor what doesn’t exist” part tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:24 PM |
| 0 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?I agree with your point made but not with the argument lmao. The literal thing you’re talking about is called “racial profiling” and it boils down to considering someone more dangerous if they belong to “bad reputation racial-ethnic groups” such as Hispanic White, Black, Indigenous, South East Asians, Arabic… Or to consider them less dangerous if they belong to “good reputation racial-ethnic groups” such as non-Hispanic White, Far East Asian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:03 PM |
| 4 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?No, I don’t remember anything like that, what are you talking about lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:56 PM |
| 3 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Tbh now that I think of it, the last time I saw a dude approaching a girl at a large party where everyone was at most 2 handshakes away from everyone else, was like 8 years ago. Also the dude was a very skinny slightly below average height professional photo model, so he was both hot and absolutely not intimidating. And the last time I saw anyone approach a complete stranger in public was never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Hmm, but for all I know, in all male dominated fields except military, HR is still female dominated. I’ve switched many industries and on virtually all of my jobs the overwhelming majority of co-workers were men, whereas HR dept would be exclusively women or almost exclusively women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:46 PM |
| 4 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?I would appreciate if you provided some examples off the top of your head about stuff that a woman would usually let slide when it’s done by another woman but not when it’s done by a man. I don’t disagree or intend to oppose you, I am just interested in your train of thought and want to read more of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:40 PM |
| – | How should a man address the issue of his SO gaining weight?“There are cases”… Homie what planet you from, Redpilia? On Earth that is the case 99 times out of 100. It’s a very rare exception for only one in the couple to gain weight. Usually due to the other being genetically unable to stop being skinny as match no matter absolutely anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 03:07 AM |
| – | France has constitutionally protected abortion and illegal paternity tests.Yes, how else would I know it’s a verbal diarrhea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:09 PM |
| – | France has constitutionally protected abortion and illegal paternity tests.You gave a verbal diarrhea there homie. Although ban on paternity tests is indeed infuriating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:04 PM |
| – | How can a woman differentiate between actually wanting a relationship versus being unsure of what she wants?Redder than a fire truck driven by Santa Claus eating strawberries. She probably has a very unrealistic image of life and how the world works in general. As an SO, she will probably hit you with expectations no living breathing human being would be as much as able, let alone willing, to meet. Or with the behavior that you wouldn’t be able to withstand. Or both. Still, ask her how come so, listen to the response and use your best judgment. If it seems like, according to her, everyone always did h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | For men - things you can't control are what is most attractive whereas things you can control are of minor valueIdk about the immutable part. I was the opposite of popular in school. I was quiet and got constantly picked on and pushed over. In the university tho, closer to the final years, I’ve became like hugely popular. Completely different personality at that, I really got sick of my old self so there you go. Right now that is also past, I no longer have that local celebrity status, but to this day am the most extrovert and communicative of all my friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 11:57 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderWell, to be completely honest, the beard helps mask the asymmetry to a degree. It’s mostly the jaw and cheekbones that are fucking Chornobyl level screwed, my eyes and nose look regular. On top of that, I got a generally masculine appearance. Think Adam Driver but with a beard and mustache like this. Still got a teenager voice at the age 30 though. But for it all to work, the key is actually the personality. I've only ever dated people I knew for a while before. It's never been like one day we j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:59 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderIdk again. Got only one ear, face is severely asymmetrical and I’d get picked on for that all the time throughout the high school, and I’ve been broke till the age of 26–27, but the last time I was single for more than a couple months, I was 17 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:10 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderYup. As a man who is very extrovert, a total social butterfly, and has almost never been single in his adult life, friends and activities aren’t the solution. Of course if you go full on hikkikomori and literally never leave your place for anything other than grocery shopping or a stroll alone in the forest, you’re depriving yourself of any chances you could have otherwise. But unless you lack social life to THAT degree, your problem has to be something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 10:59 AM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?Why are you such a mfing jerk? You read like a middle schooler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:18 AM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?Quite the opposite really. Passport bros are the ones who get a long term girlfriend or a wife from a low income, low cost of living country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 04:02 PM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?I’m a Ukrainian man and I fully support them. If he’s a nice man, why would I have a problem with a woman marrying a nice foreigner. If he’s a jerk with a fat wallet (fat by Ukrainian standards) and she’s only with him for the money — by all means, take all the gold diggers we have, you’re doing us a favor. I see this as a win in any case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts?Excuse me but you agreed and then stated the exact opposite. Men will date those whom they love spending time with. Who gives a flying fuck about kudos from buddies? That’s some high school ass bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts?Bro how are you posting from like 2008 but have your comments show up in 2024? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general?This wouldn’t happen, there is no such thing as her having to work for it. Throwing oneself at a guy would always, always be enough, unless he’s already got a woman and is loyal to her. And if THOSE are the ones you’d be after, hell no you’re not getting any positive reputation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongOK but for the love of God how tf is this a debate?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:53 PM |
| 4 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Is it so hard to grasp that for sex the physical attraction matters, but for the relationship — attraction as a personality? It’s no Goddamn hypocrisy, it’s logic. Different qualities are required for different scenarios. For instance, when you pick a singer, that person must have a good voice and hearing but might be as much as completely blind. When you pick a sniper, that person might absolutely suck at voice acting and have degraded hearing, but as long as they can get an order and report ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 07:13 AM |
| 3 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?No the fuck we’re not. Sexual attraction doesn’t factor in a woman’s value. But when you plan to build a future with a person, value is factored in obviously. For sex, it inly matters how attractive you are physically. For the relationship, how attractive you are as a person. 0% hypocrisy here. It’s women who are hypocrites. You say you value a man who treats you with respect and compassion and care, who’s a nice person to deal with… Yet the planet’s nicest guy will be not only unfuckable, but a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 06:54 AM |
| 4 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Low value is not repulsive sexually. The idea to date or merry a woman like that is repulsive, the idea to have sex with one isn’t, it does not correlate with value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:06 PM |
| 58 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Yeah. A low value woman isn’t unfuckable, she’s undatable and unmerriable. OP is a woman, for her and for most other women a low value man is unfuckable. She thinks that is how it also works for men, which is not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:04 PM |
| 3 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.But the thing with a 7 mile list, unless it’s basically the same thing said over and over again with different wordings and examples, is that everyone will hit one point in it or another. If everything is a non-compromise, well, you do you. You could as well include “breathes air” in the list and virtually nothing would change, but then again if you’re actually happy with being single, none of that is an issue at all. Anyways, I wish you live a happy life one way or another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from womenYes. And those who are out of that — for 99 out of 100 their life sucks. Even if they’re rich as shit and reached their other goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.Huh? For all I know, women initiate 80% of breakups across the population and 90% of breakups across the population with higher education. Besides, showing that you’re afraid to lose your SO is only a put-off for women when done by men. When done by women towards men, it’s adorable and appreciated. So something that contributes to her fear of a breakup more than it contributes to his — that’s something that introduces equality, not something that puts a woman at risk. That of course if the man i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 08:03 AM |
| 2 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.Yes, and? The one who breaks up because of a no-fault lost interest or out of boredom is the unreliable one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.The abusers should surely be held accountable. But vastly more relationships are being ended because a woman “got bored” or “got an ick”, or met someone who, at least to her belief, could rock her world like her current SO can’t, than because a man was an abuser. I would say, probably an order of magnitude more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:03 PM |
| 8 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.The woman being more invested balances out by the facts that women initiate the overwhelming majority of breakups and have vastly more replacement options, both making them less reliable partners. And the woman being more invested in turn makes her a more reliable partner. So hence the balance. On the other hand, the man being more invested is not balanced out by anything. He is statistically an order of magnitude less likely to initiate the breakup and, unless he’s in top 1% most attractive and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:42 AM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?Those of us men who aren’t oonga boonga Neanderthals are also stupid for love, not for sex. As far as the sex drive goes, jerking off completely satisfies us and then we go about our day. But the urge to love, be loved and cherished, that is what makes us wind up in all kinds of shit. And I say this as a high libido man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenAccording to redpillers, you either don’t exist, or every word is a lie, despite that making zero sense for an anonymous account | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:54 PM |
| 19 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenOn a side note, a $200K car, OMFG! I really hope it’s a maxxed out tuner like a Skyline or an old-school hotrod like a 60s Challenger or something crazy enjoyable like a 90s Viper… Something that he would still be able to enjoy for himself when he realizes the women he wants don’t care. But we all know he blew all that money on something retarded like a Lambo or a Rari or a maxxed out current year BMW coupe. He’s most definitely a guy with a car, not a car guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist?Because you have to state your intentions and not misrepresent them as intentions of forming a non-romantic friendship. If your romantic advances are rejected and you didn’t have any other intentions regarding that person, move on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:09 PM |
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