MyOwnWave Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Addicted to hookers. I need advice (21M) ^ that's the real shit.	/r/askTRP	02/10/18 05:20 PM
2	Big dread game improvement but kissing is a problem, advise please I had to show my wife this, very clearly, before I saw any real changes in her attitude. The look on her face was addicting. It still requires constant work, and it always will. For now, the whole family is together and happy, because of the willingness to burn it down and move on in a different family format.	/r/askMRP	02/10/18 02:33 PM
3	If you been dating a girl for 2 years and she’s been distant, and she knows about it cause y’all talked, and you hint to her that you want to break up and all she said is “well can we be friends?” Is that a sign saying that’s what she wanted all along ? You need to pass comfort tests, but don't "tell her how you feel" unless how you feel is that you're a bad ass mother fucker with a life plan - and she is welcome to come along for the ride as long as she's being cool. Seriously, lift and read the sidebar.	/r/askTRP	02/10/18 02:03 PM
2	If you been dating a girl for 2 years and she’s been distant, and she knows about it cause y’all talked, and you hint to her that you want to break up and all she said is “well can we be friends?” Is that a sign saying that’s what she wanted all along ? I had a girl once that started becoming distant when she wanted commitment. In my experience, most women are pretty straightforward about it, asking outright "what are we?".	/r/askTRP	02/10/18 01:56 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 02, 2018 OYS Month 3 39 yo 186# 5'10" (~20-22% BF) BP 140 \| OHP 95 \| Row 115 \| SQ 170 \| DL 240 Mission Be the rock my family relies on. The steady current bringing the family into the future. The other metaphors as well, all of them. Make enough money on my side hustles and contract work so that I don't have to work for anyone else. Achieve 13-15% body fat and maintain that while adding strength. Then maybe a bulk. Improve my lifts, particularly bench and squat. Being cool Over the past few years, I'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/10/18 12:31 PM
1	Long time member, still heartbroken To each their own, but I think women are pretty awesome to have around. You just have to lay down your previous expectations and don't let them tread all over you. Understanding combats anger.	/r/askTRP	02/10/18 11:43 AM
7	Why do women think dating is hard? Very challenging. A better answer would be fear for one's physical safety. I'm still surprised at the number of women willing to meet a strange man from the internet. God bless them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/18 11:02 AM
3	Why are women so obsessed with taking hoodies, shirts, jumpers etc off their spouse Yeah. I mentioned it specifically because I also think it's unusual. I suspect she's been doing this for a while, longer than she's known me. What you mentioned above, regarding smells and possession of your things, is spot on (and much, much more common), in my experience.	/r/askTRP	01/10/18 05:52 PM
26	Why are women so obsessed with taking hoodies, shirts, jumpers etc off their spouse When I'm gone for extended periods of time, my wife takes the additional step of buying and consuming food and drink products I enjoy, just to feel a bit of my presence. She's still as hypergamous as they come. AWALT.	/r/askTRP	01/10/18 05:42 PM
5	I'm in the gym losing weight and gaining muscle and LTR says " I don't want you to get too skinny" My wife likes to buy me unrequested sweets. Lazy mode.	/r/askTRP	01/10/18 05:25 PM
4	OLTR and plates Please sit. Observe. You will see in the first column I have identified each of the women and have assigned them each an index number, for future reference. The second column is their SMV, followed by a matrix indicating what sexual activities each has submitted to. Continuing on, as you can see, each woman has an effectiveness score attached to them, as a means of comparing relative value. Do you want to see where you fit in in the breakdown graph?	/r/askMRP	01/10/18 12:56 PM
1	How did you meet your wife? Good! It meant for OP.	/r/askMRP	29/09/18 01:37 PM
7	How did you meet your wife? Just lift already. I regret the months I wasted before starting. Or years, depending on perspective.	/r/askMRP	29/09/18 01:18 PM
10	First post Take it from another new guy. 3 months in, this shit works.	/r/askMRP	29/09/18 01:15 PM
3	Married Red Pill changed my life I recognize you from your replies on some of my posts under my discarded handle. Anyway, just wanted to say good job on turning things around. Ain't easy. I don't have as far to go as you did, but I have more ground I need to cover. Stories like yours helped me gather the momentum I needed to get started. And like you said, there's no stopping this train now. And it feels awesome.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/09/18 07:36 PM
7	Married Red Pill changed my life I've said it before: MRP has probably saved my marriage, and possibly even my life. It certainly saved my life in terms of my path, desire, and modus operandi - in creating a plan for my own fulfillment, absent anyone else, especially women. It may have also saved me from following a path that could have led me to suicide. Even though I haven't been on this path too long, everything has changed for the better. I owe it to MRP and the people that hang around here to help other men. I feel like a …	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/09/18 07:31 PM
9	I’m such a fucking pussy I had both parents in my household, but my mother was way more involved in my life and upbringing. My father is a dyed in the blue beta, but one thing he has going for him: he doesn't give a fuck what anyone thinks of him. Anyway, I also had a lot of trouble making moves when I was younger. I missed out on a LOT of pussy because of it. Don't be like me. Learn early (and don't marry).	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 01:15 PM
1	First Cold approach and I did it in the Gym Me- "Yeah" (At this point I'm thinking that Hypergamy would never allow me to fuck her or, more likely my game is weak) Once she established you as a 'first year', you threw her up on a pedestal. You need to be superior, even if you are younger. Act like you DNGAF. Be amused. In control of the situation and yourself. Don't worry, it takes time and practice. Also, I still wouldn't do this in the gym.	/r/askTRP	26/09/18 01:48 PM
7	Average Female Body Count Hah! My wife told me that BJs don't count towards her total. Yes, I married her :/	/r/askTRP	26/09/18 12:10 PM
1	Shitting where I eat This is just a restaurant job. All those people fuck each other.	/r/askTRP	26/09/18 11:57 AM
8	First Cold approach and I did it in the Gym Don't shit in the temple. edit- Also, you're second guessing yourself. You're not in your own frame. Stop doing that, women can see it.	/r/askTRP	26/09/18 11:50 AM
2	Can you keep frame if you’re wrong? Own that shit once and be done with it.	/r/askMRP	26/09/18 11:35 AM
5	Insecure girls My wife is a frustratingly strong character. Back before I swallowed the pill, I thought this was an endearing quality: to be challenged and as such to remain interested, instead of becoming bored with her. I wish I had known then my own power to create the situation I desire, to mold an appropriate character. It's amazingly difficult these days, but when I can make her nervous regarding my commitment, the resulting look she gives me is like pure heroin. I chase that look now, because for 2 year…	/r/askTRP	26/09/18 11:30 AM
2	RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game. 39 y/o married man. Yes, now that I've swallowed the pill, I realize I have to be attractive again and remain that way. That's the way of dealing with women and hypergamy. So also does she need to remain attractive and available to me. If I'm not attracted to her, or she is unavailable, my own attractiveness will mean I can outsource my pleasure. Either way, I have to remain attractive to get what I want, it's the fuckin way she goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/18 11:18 AM
1	Taking it the next level My wife also loves being tied up, spanked, thrown around; generally dominated. She also dislikes giving direction. She wants to let go and give total control. I suspect that little would be off the table when she is sufficiently aroused, but I haven't pushed that too far, yet. If you want to do it, I would just do it. Your wife doesn't want to give permission, whether she likes it and knows, will like it and doesn't yet know, or will not like it. One way to find out.	/r/askMRP	25/09/18 02:28 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 25, 2018 OYS #whatever 5' 10" 190# 22%BF BP 150 \| OP 100 \| Row 100 \| SQ 160 \| DL 235 (week 5 on 5x5) Married 6 years, two young kids. Former drunk captain. Read the sidebar. Took the pill around 3 months ago. Physical Had a couple tough sessions at the gym. I'm doing IF 16/8 most days and depending on my schedule, lifting while fasted can be great, or a struggle. Still adding weight to every session for every lift, but I think my BP will need to stagnate a bit, which is disappointing. The good thing …	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/09/18 02:01 PM
2	Your wife really doesn’t want your love... Machiavellian individuals often make good managers. I'm the same way.	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/09/18 06:22 PM
16	I think it is time to leave This woman is the opposite of my wife and reading this puke has helped me to realize the extent that my anger has been affecting my view of her in our relationship. I mean, she's not perfect, but she's no shrill, immobile, grating twat. WTF are you doing OP? I suggest you read those books that you so easily dismiss. Maybe you would actually learn and internalize something here.	/r/askMRP	24/09/18 06:06 PM
2	Why You Need To Get Huge Me too, but I smoke every day. I love pushing weight with a good buzz, it really helps me stay in the zone and appreciate each rep. Eating is never a problem.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/18 04:50 PM