MySadOrgans Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
448	In an ask men post, I came across hundreds of comments in a thread talking shit about FDS, saying no one here has a boyfriend or has ever been near a man, and that women here have only baby daddies and have no jobs. What the heck?		MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 02:30 PM
301	Quarantine has forced me to look at so many issues I didn't even know I have. I hope this resonates with someone else and inspires you to improve your self and your life	MOOD FOR LIFE	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 02:05 PM
141	Saw a quote, like "What a man has in his camera roll says a lot about who he is." I thought about my camera roll; it sounds silly but I have no one with whom I can share FDS/self empowerment memes. This sounds really edgy and lame, but it's lonely at the top	SHOWER THOUGHT	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/20 03:15 PM
136	Seeing memes like this makes me feel hopeless. Who fucking makes these miserable text memes? Do you want what you're writing to be true? If you are like me and get sad when you see this kind of fear inducing trash meme quote, what do you do when you are feeling hopeless after seeing shit like this?	NAH, SIS	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 01:34 PM
101	From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.	LVM LOGIC	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 08:16 PM
89	Being in a relationship is too much for me sometimes. I am so insecure. Thinking about my boyfriend imagining other girls, or even in the car with him and driving past a pretty woman jogging makes me want to break up with him.	FDS RESCUE MISSION	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 04:46 AM
69	25f, I'm feeling insecure, that I will nEveR bE gOoD eNOuGh because I am not as fit and attractive as I could be. I feel like I am wasting the pEaK oF My yOuTh and BeAutY because I'm not iNsTaWoRthY. Fears of losing value as I age. Help me change this silly attitude and replace these shit beliefs	SEEKING ADVICE	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/20 04:37 AM
53	What are the differences between Keeping Secrets/ Privacy/ Having Boundaries in a relationship? I really struggle with these concepts. I would love to hear your definitions, examples, and what you think is acceptable or not among these categories.		MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 01:37 PM
45	I'm very insecure/jealous/compare myself to every woman. Feels like other women are competition. With regard to my bf, I view women thru a lens of "is she a better choice for him than I am?"/ "she would be better for him" /"this is the type of girl he will leave me for"		MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 01:12 AM
45	"That's it?" I thought instantly when I got in bed the first time with my ex and he removed his pants. I wanted to stop instantly but didn't want to offend him. How to tactfully handle getting in bed with a guy but he instantly does not have what you want (particularly in the length department)?	STRATEGY	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 02:35 PM
28	Women who are already in FDS approved LTR: how much about your insecurities (about your self/ looks), fears (specifically about relationships), or mental issues do you tell your partner? Should you ever share your insecurities with a bf? Any advice on this topic?	DISCUSSION	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 07:14 PM
26	I have chronic trust issues. I feel like trusting others is stupid and that it's no one's fault but your own when you get lied to or deceived. By trusting, you train your SO that he can lie to you, and you'll always silence your inner voice to believe him		MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 09:27 PM
21	Hey mods: Yesterday I commented (link in comments) on a post here in FDS about the man who saves kids from sex trafficking, and said my first thought is that this man is also a predator... I got this DM from a lurker. This POS is proud to be a predator. Screw you buddy, you're super fucking gross	MALE DEPRAVITY	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 02:13 PM
11	In a LTR that did not begin with FDS standards, how can rising queens overtly or covertly remind their boyfriends that they are not married and that he is taking her for granted? BF is overly secure in 3 year relationship but I feel like a burned out housewife with promises of a future but no ring		MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 04:04 AM
8	Is it a red flag if a man loved you before you leveled up and stayed with you when you were acting Low Value yourself? I worry that my boyfriend must have something deeply wrong with him for staying with me when I was at my worst. I changed my behavior and leveled up, he stayed and still loves me.	DISCUSSION	MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 02:53 AM
4	Should you ever share your insecurities with a man? When you're married? Why or why not		MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 09:25 PM
1	My boyfriend makes me feel like I am being gaslit but I am realizing that it's just that there is so many awful things about me for him to call out on a daily basis. I am in a bad place mentally.		MySadOrgans	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 02:57 AM

Upvotes

Title

In an ask men post, I came across hundreds of comments in a thread talking shit about FDS, saying no one here has a boyfriend or has ever been near a man, and that women here have only baby daddies and have no jobs. What the heck?

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

29/09/20 02:30 PM

301

Quarantine has forced me to look at so many issues I didn't even know I have. I hope this resonates with someone else and inspires you to improve your self and your life

MOOD FOR LIFE

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

26/08/20 02:05 PM

141

Saw a quote, like "What a man has in his camera roll says a lot about who he is." I thought about my camera roll; it sounds silly but I have no one with whom I can share FDS/self empowerment memes. This sounds really edgy and lame, but it's lonely at the top

SHOWER THOUGHT

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

24/08/20 03:15 PM

136

Seeing memes like this makes me feel hopeless. Who fucking makes these miserable text memes? Do you want what you're writing to be true? If you are like me and get sad when you see this kind of fear inducing trash meme quote, what do you do when you are feeling hopeless after seeing shit like this?

NAH, SIS

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

16/09/20 01:34 PM

101

From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.

LVM LOGIC

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

09/09/20 08:16 PM

Being in a relationship is too much for me sometimes. I am so insecure. Thinking about my boyfriend imagining other girls, or even in the car with him and driving past a pretty woman jogging makes me want to break up with him.

FDS RESCUE MISSION

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

13/08/20 04:46 AM

25f, I'm feeling insecure, that I will nEveR bE gOoD eNOuGh because I am not as fit and attractive as I could be. I feel like I am wasting the pEaK oF My yOuTh and BeAutY because I'm not iNsTaWoRthY. Fears of losing value as I age. Help me change this silly attitude and replace these shit beliefs

SEEKING ADVICE

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

23/08/20 04:37 AM

What are the differences between Keeping Secrets/ Privacy/ Having Boundaries in a relationship? I really struggle with these concepts. I would love to hear your definitions, examples, and what you think is acceptable or not among these categories.

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

08/09/20 01:37 PM

I'm very insecure/jealous/compare myself to every woman. Feels like other women are competition. With regard to my bf, I view women thru a lens of "is she a better choice for him than I am?"/ "she would be better for him" /"this is the type of girl he will leave me for"

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

04/09/20 01:12 AM

"That's it?" I thought instantly when I got in bed the first time with my ex and he removed his pants. I wanted to stop instantly but didn't want to offend him. How to tactfully handle getting in bed with a guy but he instantly does not have what you want (particularly in the length department)?

STRATEGY

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

13/08/20 02:35 PM

Women who are already in FDS approved LTR: how much about your insecurities (about your self/ looks), fears (specifically about relationships), or mental issues do you tell your partner? Should you ever share your insecurities with a bf? Any advice on this topic?

DISCUSSION

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

10/09/20 07:14 PM

I have chronic trust issues. I feel like trusting others is stupid and that it's no one's fault but your own when you get lied to or deceived. By trusting, you train your SO that he can lie to you, and you'll always silence your inner voice to believe him

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

16/09/20 09:27 PM

Hey mods: Yesterday I commented (link in comments) on a post here in FDS about the man who saves kids from sex trafficking, and said my first thought is that this man is also a predator... I got this DM from a lurker. This POS is proud to be a predator. Screw you buddy, you're super fucking gross

MALE DEPRAVITY

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

26/08/20 02:13 PM

In a LTR that did not begin with FDS standards, how can rising queens overtly or covertly remind their boyfriends that they are not married and that he is taking her for granted? BF is overly secure in 3 year relationship but I feel like a burned out housewife with promises of a future but no ring

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

19/08/20 04:04 AM

Is it a red flag if a man loved you before you leveled up and stayed with you when you were acting Low Value yourself? I worry that my boyfriend must have something deeply wrong with him for staying with me when I was at my worst. I changed my behavior and leveled up, he stayed and still loves me.

DISCUSSION

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

02/08/20 02:53 AM

Should you ever share your insecurities with a man? When you're married? Why or why not

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

10/09/20 09:25 PM

My boyfriend makes me feel like I am being gaslit but I am realizing that it's just that there is so many awful things about me for him to call out on a daily basis. I am in a bad place mentally.

MySadOrgans

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

11/09/20 02:57 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨ "I'll have to decline then, enjoy your day." If I am interpreting it correctly, I think this better conveys the non-aggressive tone you were originally aiming for through text by using "sorry". You have nothing to apologize for, so I recommend dropping sorry from your vocab from being used in this way	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 03:24 AM
1	The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to. I had this opened as a tab on my mobile browser for about a year. I read it, and re read it. It made me feel a bit better about myself	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 05:52 PM