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| 1 | The general wisdom about texting is to do it as little as possible, but what if she's 3,000 miles away and you like talking to her?Also I'm going to clarify if you can't detach from the emotional aspect of all this then it will never work. You have to be indifferent to what happens in the long term with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | The general wisdom about texting is to do it as little as possible, but what if she's 3,000 miles away and you like talking to her?Ok you need to be ok with losing her because you should also be looking elsewhere. If you find something great take it, if you have a negative mindset saying you won't then you won't and you'll be stuck on someone 3,000 miles away. If you want 3 that's easy, cut the contact down a lot maintain your SMV in ways that she'll know about (others have said how to in comments). Don't lie about it actually do it. I have this sinking feeling you lied about going out because you don't actually want to be … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The general wisdom about texting is to do it as little as possible, but what if she's 3,000 miles away and you like talking to her?Do you know what you want? Your post says one thing but reads another way. So answer this what do you want? I did a LDR for over 3 years it's incredibly difficult. Now we're in a unique situation. I'll answer whatever questions you have but after reading your post you sound incredibly unsure of what it is you want from her over the next few years or however long it takes. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Commitment is your pussy. The sooner and more frequently you give it up, the less respect you get.Different social groups. You go out with them to bars/parties while being honest with the LTR at those places you ignore your phone and have fun. You can answer once if you feel it is absolutely necessary. She'll hamster that you're with another female and ask you about it later, when she asks be vague or go the amused mastery route. Who cares if it is a double standard? This isn't about fairness, this is about being successful. If you did not respect her why would you develop an emotional attac… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Commitment is your pussy. The sooner and more frequently you give it up, the less respect you get.You have the wrong cause in this cause and effect problem. It wasn't because you committed it was because you broke frame and went more beta than alpha. You would have been fine in the LTR had you maintained frame it wasn't your commitment that did you in, you more than succeeded in making her earn it but you failed once you had it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 04:52 PM |
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