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To lack romance. What else could it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:25 PM
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Have you actually paid attention to what sexist people say? Yes but I'm not defending those types of posts. I don't think we're as much at odds as you seem to believe. You are right, they are sexist. But I see plenty of guys who are just sad and lonely and get labelled a misogynistic, sexist piece of shit when they're really not. Give me an example of someone being bitter and they’re not being an asshole. Me, I guess. I don't exactly archive sexist conversations I see online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:13 PM
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I think we're talking about different people. Of course misogynists are misogynists. I won't defend guys who act nice IRL but have actual misogynistic thoughts and outwardly blast them online. It's not always inherently misogynistic to have complaints about common female behavior, though. No more than it is misandrist for women to do the opposite. Being bitter because you're unsuccessful isn't being an asshole. Not inherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:00 PM
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I'd say it depends on how you approach female friendships. If you're already a lonely, struggling guy with no girlfriend and no friends, any attempt to meet women is probably going to come off as romantically motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:46 PM
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And it wouldn’t go around being bitter at women just because they struggle. It's easy to tell people to not be bitter when you're not the one struggling. I don't condone being outwardly rude and bitter to random people in real life, and I would say lashing out at women in public would be an indicator that you're not as good as you may think, sure. But coming on the internet to anonymously discuss and debate your qualms isn't a showcase of being bad. THAT is how men get labelled bad I hope you re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:41 PM
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Assuming they already have enough friends, there's no desire to go out and make a bunch of new friends when you're romantically lonely. Also making friends with women as a man isn't as easy as it sounds. Even if you're 100% genuine about just looking for friends, women will assume you're trying to get into their pants anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:52 PM
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You're also not a bad person just because you proclaim to be good. There can be actual good people who struggle, and bad people who call themselves good who struggle. It's disingenuous to assume anybody who claims to be good is actually secretly bad. How was the guy wrong? He was expressively rude. Who can't explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:41 PM
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This post is one of the most misogynistic AND misandrist things I've read on this sub. Women are all helpless little flowers who need protection and men all have a monster in them waiting to come out? You're suggesting that if I take issue with how a woman behaves and treats me, that I have no reason to complain because... I could just beat the shit out of her if I wanted to? I'm not a caveman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:57 AM
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How can you possibly deduce they suck at it when they're not even getting it? Yeah, maybe they would suck due to inexperience, but your logic is a bit backwards. There'd have to be guys who got sex many times and always stunk at it and never got it again as a result. But even then - how could new women he meet possibly know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:16 AM
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At least you're consistent with your mindset. I respect that. There's definitely a conflicting take in general that approaching women with romantic intent is too forward, creepy and makes you come across as shallow because you're trying to flirt with nothing to build on, and that you have to actually befriend her first, while at the same time it is creepy to befriend women with the hopes of forming a relationship because it's manipulative. So are you okay with first-time romantic approaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:05 PM
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But women are always saying that guys should befriend them instead of directly approaching with romantic intent, so which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:45 PM
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I've been that my whole life and it has gotten me nowhere. And no I'm not just doing it in a transactional way to get sex in reward. It's just in my nature to act pleasant to people I encounter in real life and to not do anything unsolicited towards women without asking. Or even men. People often falsely assume that frustrated men who rant about their failings online act like assholes in real life, but that's not really the case. I, and many men, may come to places like this to vent, but when we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:59 PM
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No. Have only been in one that lasted about a year. That was now 8 years ago. Somewhat. I'm not sure what exactly "being" Red Pill means. I don't agree with everything Red Pill people spout, just some of it. The extreme comes off as far too misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:24 PM
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Well, nobody has to be anything for anybody. That doesn't mean we don't like it when they are attractive. But I'm not exactly resenting the obese 50 year old woman I pass in the grocery store for being the way she is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:36 AM
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Same reason you have friends of any gender; Because you enjoy their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:23 AM
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But women on here are always telling guys to befriend women before they can develop a relationship, so which is it???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:20 AM
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So you know a guy who got a lot of girls from a young age... Okay? What does that have to do with anything? I also didn't say you were supposed to harass anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:05 PM
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Aren't women on here always saying that guys are supposed to become friends with women before attempting to initiate anything flirty or romantic? But if they do, they're orbiters?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:00 PM
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So you're asking me if I have considered being more dishonest with women? I'm not trying to be snarky, I just don't know what else your comment can mean. Clarify if I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:08 PM
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You think I'm lying about not being fat, styling my hair and wearing good clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:51 PM
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Last point is a good question. I legitimately wonder if they're just ignorant because it comes so easily to them and conclude it should be the same for men, or if it's just a manipulative tactic to get undesirable men as far from the dating pool as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:49 AM
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Done all of these for years. Why am I still lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:45 AM
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I am only 26, but yes, I would love to get back to the good old fashioned ways. Unfortunately this is the reality we live in now. If I delete the apps, I'm not going back to the old fashioned way. I am cutting myself out of the market entirely, because everybody else will still default to the apps. The top comment on this post said as much already, but you can't just socialize and find connections when you have no friends and nowhere to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:20 PM
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Using a standard slap as an example, isn't it absurd to think that a grown human, woman though they may be, slapping your face with all her strength would somehow not hurt? I'm not saying it'll break your jaw but there's still strength to it and the face is a sensitive area that you'll definitely feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:49 PM
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I know they are. And it sucks that that is the case. Though I specifically used those examples because of how segregated they are. I'm sure other stuff like exercising, cooking, certain TV shows or what have you could make for good mutual interests. On a side note I never understood girls aversion to video games anyway. They are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:54 AM
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This is true to an extent, but I don't think it's that men and women don't like each, rather that people get into relationships with folk they have nothing in common with. Why would they do this? I haven't the foggiest idea. I could never see myself in a relationship with someone who I share no hobby or interest with to the point that I need to seek out other guys just to engage in them with other people. At that point why even date? I always find it weird when women rant that a guy plays video …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:27 PM
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Show me a woman who has been alive for hundreds of years. You do not get to claim your ancestors experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:47 AM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:41 PM
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I didn't report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:39 PM
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I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:12 PM
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Weren't you gonna stop giving me attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:56 PM
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...You are schizo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:07 PM
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Are you genuinely schizo?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:48 AM
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I genuinely don't even understand this response. You're just baselessly calling me broke? Even if I was, what's that, or my dental insurance, got to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:44 AM
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You don't get out much, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:37 AM
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I literally don't have an Instagram account. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:31 AM
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You are so weird. How is it simping to have an account so you can read some memes or see updates in famous people you enjoy? If you don't post yourself, it makes perfect sense why you'd have a low number of followers and more follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:40 AM
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Okay, I get it. You're just a troll. Sorry, your rage baiting didn't work. Try on somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:07 AM
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Huh? I made one very calm comment where I articulated my thoughts on what was going on, and you somehow equate that to "ranting" and "screeching"? You're a prime example of what I just described. I made actual points, and you dodged all of them just to toss a "gotcha". But I will give you the benefit of the doubt - reiterate to me where you thought I was screeching. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:28 AM
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He gave a response, but he didn't add anything of value to debate. All he did was reiterate that he thinks what was said is nonsense. The issue here is that the basis of a good debate is to explain how and why. What about it is nonsensical? How does it not make sense? If he genuinely thinks it doesn't, he should clarify so that people can clear themselves up and maybe he'd understand that re-explanation, to which he might actually elaborate on what it is he disagrees with. Instead he essentially…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:49 AM
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I don't. Any man who would bring this up on a date with a woman is literally just shooting himself in the foot. Not to mention if he's having success with this woman in a wholesome manner, he wouldn't exactly have all these redpill views on the mind. I primarily come on here to read and post out of frustration and loneliness. And mild curiosity about the discussion it sparks. But if I landed a woman and it went well, I wouldn't really have a reason to come here now would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:16 AM
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Misconstruing my post to say something I clearly didn't say while contradicting your own initial point isn't "disagreeing."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:34 PM
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Yes, being someone worth dating is within your control. And you can have all the "worthy" qualities and still fail. She's implying that any guy who's involuntarily single is only so because it's his own fault, essentially claiming that if you fail, you don't have good qualities. Which, to reiterate what I just to her in a different comment, stings quite a lot if you are a legitimately good guy trying his best out there and still failing. I guess it's because they're simply not worthy...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:09 PM
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Seriously? Why are you intentionally being pedantic and arguing in bad faith? I obviously didn't say those were the ONLY qualities needed to get a relationship or that anybody with them is owed one. I simply mentioned three generic "good" qualities as examples. Because your initial comment is implying that single men only have themselves to blame for being single because they aren't somebody worth dating, my response was clearly saying that a man can have many good qualities that actually makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:00 PM
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Exactly, so the point ThatBitchA was making is completely nonsensical, because some outcomes are simply out of your control even if you're a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:18 PM
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Nobody has legally forbid me, but it's an unwritten (or rather, written all over social media I suppose) rule of modern society. I don't disagree with your second sentiment, the problem is you might still get a lot of accusations and actual repercussions even if you tried being respectful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:42 AM
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You also need to regularly be in circumstances where you can showcase that personality. Something that for a lot of guys doesn't happen very often because their general hobbies and lifestyle might not have a lot of female interaction, and they've been told that approaching strange women in public is weird so you're not allowed to do it, and it's also wrong to join events or clubs where women might reside because doing that just to get women is gross and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:21 AM
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But you're not allowed to approach women at XYZ. They're just trying to go on about their business, they don't want to be bothered. If you try flirting with them, you're a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:05 AM
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A guy could be the most caring, nurturing and selfless man a woman might ever meet and still not get an inch of success because he's simply not as attractive as Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:03 AM
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With sex, a good rule of thumb is "ladies first" because most women can't get off from penetration, and most men aren't actually in the mood to satisfy a woman after they already came. I agree with this sentiment, but I have a genuine question: Is it still satisfying to have sex after an orgasm for women? I wonder because I did always make sure my ex orgasmed before any penetration. But after she did, we could go PiV for up to half an hour. From a man's perspective, I could not imagine smashing …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:25 AM
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My parents have told me many times that my dad met my mom after becoming great friends within her sister's (my aunt) social circle. It sounds like such an idealistic, alien scenario to me. The kinda thing young adults today only dream up in their own heads. Why are people so averse to helping each other like that today?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:25 AM
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It sounds horrible if you don't want to do it, yes. I assume anybody interested enough to try the app in the first place are not the flaky Tinder ladies, but ones who are fully willing to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:10 PM
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Couldn't you just lie about not being a virgin? How often does the topic of body count even come up where you'd even need to be honest about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:00 PM
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This take is only good in theory. No, young men shouldn't focus all their effort into getting some pussy. But you shouldn't completely ignore it either. Takes like these fail to consider that humans are pack animals. We crave connectivity. Having a good, loving, supportive partner will arguably push you even further to better all those other aspects of yourself than loneliness. And in turn you do the same for them. If somebody follows your take, they're not gonna get that. They're going to get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:55 AM
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This. People like to throw out arguments about how unfair it is that women dismiss men for showing any vulnerability or how a victimized woman gets more attention than when a man is a victim of something, but who are the people favoring women in these cases? It really is mostly men. If every man started showing deep empathy for one another tomorrow, a lot of these issues would disappear, and it would not require women to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:26 PM
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I can berate both. This is pretty much a "not all men" situation, because while I agree it would be ridiculous to complain about womens standards if I was chasing after every single one I saw, I do not do that. It's other men as a collective who are ruining the system for myself and other level headed men. It's unfortunately and endless circle. Women have high standards because men are desperate, men are desperate because women have high standards. And as somebody who does not chase desperately,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:11 AM
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Because why would you stay with somebody who makes you unhappy? I know you go on about the vows, but they can only go so far. Somebody can be a loving person but through whatever changes happens throughout the years, is eventually a person who makes you miserable. Staying with them just because you vowed to is absurd. You only live once, why would you waste the rest of it exhausting yourself to make life "work" with somebody with whom it is clearly not? I don't disagree that marriage is for when…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:17 AM
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Yeah that sounds like a warped idea of relationships. The "work" part is simply making sure you're living your lives in tune. If somebody is inherently unhappy, that's just a mental health issue on their part, and marriage was probably not right for them to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:28 PM
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I've been hitting the gym several times a week for 7 years now, and I've had a skincare routine for probably about as long. Glad you're happy with where it lead you, but as much as I enjoy doing these things for myself, they have not aided me in dating whatsover. I don't have low confidence, I know I'm not ugly. I have a healthy body. But at the end of the day my face will always just be average and I will never be over 180+ cm tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:24 AM
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I was giving him the benefit of doubt when I first interacted with him, but reading this following conversation, he just comes off as a dope. Like, he doesn't only not believe you, but seems to think your interests are really your partners interests that you claim to be yours, because you're a woman, and women do not have hobbies. I think that pretty much tells you how he views women. Like a hivemind of NPCs. The way he speaks, he doesn't seem to believe they are even capable of having "good" in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:43 AM
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Well, I don't find most of your hobbies interesting. Guess they're autistic. Keyword is most. Scuba diving is pretty cool, I admit. But what is your point here exactly? That you wish more women were into them so you could find a partner to enjoy them together with? That's lovely, I feel the same way about my hobbies, and sympathize with the inability to find someone like that. But there ARE men who are actually into birdwatching, so to them, the woman commenting is probably a catch. Hence, I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:55 PM
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What are your hobbies then? What are these fun and exciting interests women should have? I can't imagine a lot of men posting here have any more thrilling hobbies than playing video games and complaining on Reddit. And that's not even a jab, I'm not beyond that either. I LOVE spending hours playing video games. I just find your comment, and use of autism as an insult, confusing. Just look for women with similar interests, don't put down the ones who don't align with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:23 PM
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Huh, funny theory given the opposite is usually said. That men are the shallow ones who just wants big boobs and ass and he'll be satisfied, whereas girls want something deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:03 AM
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