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MyWorkHereIsDone/r/seduction02/12/11 11:47 PM
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Since I know someone is eventually going to say it: Requesting a FR. Sedditors that are still working on this would probably appreciate details. But good for you man! See, it isn't so scary is it? Getting past the mental block is the biggest part.
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:54 AM
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You would be amazed at how much it really is about the value you project. You are instrumental in shaping the way others perceive you. It doesn't matter so much about the reality of the situation, but rather about the image you create in their mind. I'm not saying that anyone should outright intend to deceive, but your words and actions should paint the best picture of yourself possible. If you haven't seen it, check out The Pickup Artist and watch some of the most severe stereotypes of "hopeles…
/r/seduction17/04/13 09:25 PM
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"Fake it until you make it." I thought that was the absolute most stupid phrase I had ever heard, especially regarding confidence with women. But much to my surprise it actually worked. I changed the way I interact with women simply by having the mindset that I am going to act as though I've known this girl forever. I'll talk to her with the same confidence I would talk to anyone I've known for a long time. I don't think about the fact that I actually don't know her. Again, I wouldn't blame you …
/r/seduction17/04/13 07:41 PM
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Work on your outcome independence. If you are fine around girls that you "aren't interested in" but turn into a mess around the others you care more about you are too concerned with results and it's screwing with your performance. The mentality that you likely have with the girls you don't care about as much is probably "if this goes well, sweet, but if not it's totally not a big deal" and that is the same mentality you should have with all women.
/r/seduction17/04/13 06:29 AM
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You have a point, but you don't really address his concern. He is trying. I didn't see where he said he was going to stop dating. He just keeps running into this catch 22 of girls ditching out on him for his lack of experience while he is trying to gain said experience. I'm not really sure what to tell you OP because I haven't been in this situation. Worst case scenario, you'll eventually find a girl who doesn't care. I honestly don't know why you should have to disclose if you are a virgin or n…
/r/seduction12/04/13 08:48 AM
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There was 0 kino or what have you. Why wasn't there any kino escalation? Was there anything actively preventing it, or was it just you failing to make the move? Legitimate question. The expectation is on you to push for kino. You are the man, you are expected to lead. Kino is so important. Physical touch awakens feelings by releasing chemicals. Straight up science. It didn't help that we had talked about her having hooked up with a lot of guys in the past, even running into a guy who she has in …
/r/seduction12/04/13 05:01 AM
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I think we can all agree that being able to put a smile on her face is a good thing. If you can do it with humor, awesome. Just don't go overboard and become Mr. Funny Guy because that will work to your disadvantage. Moderation in all things.
/r/seduction12/04/13 12:21 AM
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Guys, it's totally true. If you've spent any significant amount of time on this sub-reddit then you likely know everything you need to know to go out. Sure, you can always learn more and improve, but after a certain point you don't do that from reading, you do that from actually practicing what you've read. Crazy, I know. And for all of you that are petrified, don't be. Get over it. No amount of reading will make you get over that feeling, only exposing yourself to what is causing that issue wil…
/r/seduction12/04/13 12:02 AM
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she's a cool girl and we have lots in common so Im not opposed to becoming closer friends with her. Shooting yourself in the foot. Either go for it or don't. Don't waste time on a woman who is trying to push you into the friend zone. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you are here because you want to end up in a relationship right? Becoming her friend is not the way to do it. You'll just end up satisfying her need for a friend while someone else will end up satisfying her need for a lover. How should …
/r/seduction12/03/13 09:37 PM
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It's a shame that the content of the blog is hidden beneath a ridiculous amount of glaring writing errors. Every time I started to get back into reading, another error would slap me upside the head and pull me right back out. Honestly, with errors that prolific no one will take you seriously. Proof read.
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:52 AM
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rape-like wrestling ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction12/04/12 07:47 AM
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Sidebar, my friend. Hot Babe. This basically refers to any girl. Typically seen in front of a number (1-10). The HB “scale” doesn’t just refer to how beautiful a woman is- it also refers to how highly she’s valued by other people, as well as how highly she values herself.
/r/seduction05/04/12 04:29 AM
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You know how relaxed and natural you feel around your friends? Take that with you to your interaction with the opposite sex. A mantra I live by is, "She is what she is -- nice, pretty, fairly smart, fun to hang out with. But not a princess or a goddess; she's just some girl, imperfections and all." The same goes for men. Once you ingrain this into your mind it will do wonders for your confidence. As much as people hate hearing this, it really is as simple as just saying hi. The hard part for mos…
/r/seduction01/04/12 06:07 AM
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If she isn't pulling away or actively expressing that she wants you to stop then it is a good sign. Escalate from here.
/r/seduction01/04/12 05:51 AM
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If you feel like you have to rely on pheromones then you are in trouble. Don't waste a second on that garbage. Your behavior and actions should be hundreds of times more intoxicating.
/r/seduction26/02/12 08:35 AM
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The point is, for once, Cosmo isn't giving women terrible advice. So yeah, they knew.
/r/seduction05/02/12 09:08 AM
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This thing was staged like an intervention. They tried to ambush that dude.
/r/seduction08/01/12 07:23 AM
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I have no problem with confidence or manning up. Then you say I'm just not pushy enough to make influential moves on a woman. Apparently you do have problems manning up. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you really want something, or in this case someone, you have to just go for it. Do you really want to be the guy that sits there night after night wondering what could have been? Are you just wondering about this in general or is there an actual specific situation that we're working with?
/r/seduction13/12/11 08:44 AM
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This is more than r/seduction. This is r/conquerlife. The stuff in this subreddit has changed my life overall, not just in seduction. I love all you guys (and gals).
/r/seduction04/12/11 09:46 AM
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You definitely don't have to rush into sex. There are other ways of establishing attraction and connection. Sure you should be shooting for it sooner rather than later, but just because you don't immediately bed someone doesn't make you a failure or kill her interest. You can be a decent person and treat her right without being an AFC that gets walked all over. She will be able to tell the difference and she will appreciate it. Now, that being said, I'm not pushing the idea of being complacent a…
/r/seduction02/09/11 04:07 AM
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