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Everyone has to work. Both partners
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:53 PM
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and I are progressives but still have the “trad” aspects in our relationship. my very progressive friends are the same. I think the difference with real trad is that nobody is forced into those roles. In my country it's a running joke that the conservatives in government, who complain about the fertility rates, are all single and childless. And the most popular feminists have kids and a trad life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:08 AM
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Cooking and cleaning every day takes more time than fixing a few simple things once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:55 PM
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as you should
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:53 PM
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Quite the opposite actually, someone who is out there experiencing the world knows that learning and maturing is a part of life. When I was a teenager I thought I didn't need to learn anything new, boy was I wrong I'm not sure why this offends you though, oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:51 PM
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Liberal women would never even want to cook in the first place. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:46 PM
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Communication is a skill that needs practice too How you ask, when you ask, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:43 PM
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still not fair to the amount of time it takes to wash the dishes and clean (unless things break constantly, in which case you are not a very good Bob the Builder lol) but, again, you find yourself someone who is willing to fulfill that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:41 PM
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If you have a partner then what you are practicing are your own movements (for example not scratching the dick with your teeth) testing what they like and what they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:35 PM
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sounds like a paid maid you can have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:32 PM
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It's like when your 5year old is trying to help with the chores and the mother goes "awwww thank you sweetieee!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:30 PM
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Cooking and cleaning every day takes more time than fixing a few simple things once in a while. Most of the times, though, you are going to have to call a real professional to fix stuff. Doesn't seem fair. I'm sure there's plenty of conservative women who are eager to fulfill this role!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:27 PM
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Yes, this is great. Instead of trying to change women who don't even like conservative men, you should all go for conservative women. Yes, go be a provider for a woman who is actually looking for a provider. and then shut up about what a woman is supposed to do and think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:06 PM
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"if my grandma had wheels, she'd been a bike"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:19 PM
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A mother is working 24/7 only she doesn't get paid for that, hence the pay gap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:17 PM
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Absolutely It takes practice to have good sex. I should've clarified that it takes practice, even with the same person, to have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:08 PM
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mostly yeah but I was talking about some stuff that most people can agree like don't scratch the dick with your dick. How to communicate is actually something people need to learn. When to ask, how to ask, maybe it's with your body, maybe it's with words, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:06 PM
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It's not something that you need to be taught now to do correctly there's definitely things to learn though. Mainly because every body is different. It takes practice to have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:29 PM
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I really really really hope that's the case. From all the possible reasons for wanting an inexperienced woman, being inexperienced is the only one that makes sense. All the other possible reasons are creepy af. "I can teach her" makes my skin crawl. Gives me "I want to be in a relationship where I'm more powerful". She's vulnerable to a guy telling her "it's supposed to hurt" or something horrible like that. Screams insecurity Purity culture teaches men women can be "used" when sex is just an ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:24 PM
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you are allowed to say your preferences and people are allowed to have an opinion on those preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:17 PM
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Ideally parties or gatherings where there are friend's of friend's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:07 PM
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this is socially much more accepted than a creepy diffident shy guy having the same preference. actually no, it's the opposite. It makes so much more sense that a shy inexperienced man looks for an inexperienced woman. People don't judge them because the inexperience level is the same. The first guy you described makes me want to call the police lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:31 PM
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I think it's ok to shame purity culture. Preferences sometimes are rooted in very toxic and patriarcal ideas and I think it's ok to talk about it. Like preferring a certain race because you think those people behave a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:28 PM
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She had seniority before she got pregnant but anyway, your personal experience doesn't really matter, even if you tell me "they automatically made her CIO when she came back from maternity leave, and then the whole office clapped." This is a very well documented fact that pregnancy and taking care of children sets back your career, for obvious reasons. Like I said, pretty sure they gave the novel price to the author who documented this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:32 PM
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and everyone hated her and the promotion didn't go to her, obviously. She had to sacrifice her career, her job, to have a kid, something men don't have to because there's someone doing it for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:04 PM
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No but I don't want to argue those
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:24 PM
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"gotchas" are part of debates. Everyone is calm here, nobody is throwing insults. If you don't want to answer, don't. if you can't answer the question maybe you don't have a point, that's the point of the question. I know that's noy what OP thinks, that's why I said it's an exercise question or a hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:23 PM
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Men don't for earlier for working hard though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:26 PM
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That's false
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:24 PM
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This post is about average people In average homes both partners need to work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:23 PM
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No-one has to have babies, I think you got lost. This post is about pregnant women having advantages over men. We are not discussing being childfree or not. We are discussing having less chances of getting hired or promoted for being pregnant. I have no idea what your rant is about, bathrooms? what are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:07 AM
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Idk what idyllic first world you live in where families can live with just 1 income. This post is about the average man. In average couples everyone has to work. All this aside from the fact that some women want to work, but they have to sacrifice their careers. That's not privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:31 PM
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since some men don’t interact much with women at work to avoid trouble bias ✅ You are answering your own comment about average men being against women and not just a few rich men I specifically said They might not be violent but they'll definitely be biased, affecting women. not actual violence that will put them in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:37 PM
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It's better to get hired over not getting hired. Even if you have to work hard, anyone would choose working hard over being unemployed. Those guys then get promotions, because they were given the opportunity to work hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:32 PM
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(copying and pasting my own comment) Many men are biased against women, meaning when they have to choose a business partner, a promotion, a favorite coworker, men go to men, they don't trust women. (Some, obviously) Some guys have suggested here that they want to rape and kill all women. Send them to war to "close the death gap". These are real people that have jobs where they have to interact with women. They might not be violent but they'll definitely be biased, affecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:30 PM
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For example, you are saying that an advantage for a woman is how she gets special treatment when she's pregnant so how would a world where men have more advantages over women looks like? If you can't answer this question maybe it's because either pregnancy isn't really and advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:02 PM
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Medical misogyny is when a woman goes to the ER with, for example, abdominal pain, and she's dismissed with anxiety medication instead of giving her a colonoscopy. And then it turns out she had cancer and it's harder to deal with it. I sometimes watch "my cancer diagnosis" on YT and it's incredible how so many women have to visit many doctors until one takes them seriously, while men get a very different treatment. This is a YT channel that's not feminist or anything like that. It's just patient…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:59 PM
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this is a hypothetical question, just a thought exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:55 PM
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Religion wasn't used as a media to advocate for misogynistic practices, or I've never seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:48 PM
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Many men are biased against women, meaning when they have to choose a business partner, a promotion, a favorite coworker, men go to men, they don't trust women. (Some, obviously) Some guys have suggested here that they want to rape and kill all women. Send them to war to "close the death gap". These are real people that have jobs where they have to interact with women. They might not be violent but they'll definitely be biased, affecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:46 PM
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Medical misogyny has nothing to do with religion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:41 PM
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You don't want to answer the question no? I think it's an interesting question. How would a world where men have more advantages over women looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:41 PM
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Good question
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:38 PM
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AI being trained to "think" certain "approved" way, probably to avoid lawsuits, but that is done in a way that sacrifices truth. Which is what you don't expect from AI. the problem is that an """unbiased""" AI like Grok will have no problem generating naked pictures of minors. We need some moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:34 PM
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No, many every day men are biased against women. This sub is proof of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:32 PM
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And low class people have even less advantages Pregnancy: The Ultimate Advantage This is the elephant in the room. Pregnancy is not a burden In a job interview the guy asked me if I was married, if I was planning to get pregnant. This happened many years ago, now it's illegal to ask those things for obvious reasons: pregnancy is not an advantage. It's a set back on their careers by a lot. Nobody wants to hire a woman who is about to have children. This has been documented, I think they gave the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:28 PM
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no, they'll never be mathematically fair but we can try 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:37 PM
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dating is inherently unfair I think we can define "fairness" as giving everyone the same opportunities. Now if they fail there's nothing you can do about it. You can campaign against discrimination but you can't actually change what people like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:27 PM
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yeah games are not the problem in itself. It's how you play them. I don't think the problem is economic, since poor people still have third spaces. Hanging out on the street or at a friend's house is $0 we have to convince people to eat their veggies when candy tastes so good yes, perfect analogy. Going out and socialize is uncomfortable but more rewarding in the long term. Doom scrolling is like candy. Quick, easy, fast and not rewarding long term
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:19 PM
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e.g. men who date foreign, date younger, visit prostitutes or men who have "problematic" preferences like low body count. men have been doing that since forever and a few of online women won't change that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:08 PM
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....or convince people to stop using them and incentivize people to join activities to socialize. Same with video games. Instead of having a lot of men inside their rooms playing games alone all day, bring back lan parties, arcades, something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:05 PM
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Yes of course. The dating problem is a symptom. The real problem, the real difference between previous generations and young people today is socialization. There's nothing wrong with using social media, the problem is *only* socializing through social media. Algorithms are built to drive interactions. Rage bait content drives a lot of interactions. If parents let kids learn through algorithms that's a recipe for disaster. Only recently schools started limiting kid's access to social media, becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:57 PM
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"let's send only women to war to close the death gap" A ppd classic Thanks guys for giving feminism a purpose 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:07 PM
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regarding reading reality yes, exactly. If you can't read reality you are not a normie. That's the definition of "normie"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:22 PM
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they disregarded reality, that's why they are not normies they won't wake up because I say so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:19 PM
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fine, don't explain yourself have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:13 PM
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I never, for a second, thought any of you is going to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:09 PM
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I said I didn't understand the question and you repeated it exactly the same. You don't want to explain yourself just say so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:04 PM
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I don't understand the question but yeah if women aren't having sex with a man, they are not attracted to him obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:56 PM
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"ignore people doing this because they used words" yes, that's part of understanding the world. Don't take what people say literally. Reality is way more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:55 PM
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my friend told me a dom "demanded" her naked pics LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:19 PM
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doesn't matter what people say just turn on the TV, open any social media app, any stock photo image, all of them are made with beautiful people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:04 PM
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lol no https://youtu.be/VDtejbrVkhg?si=hlK_0C-S5oli_4Dg They don't like the drag queen look, they don't notice if a woman is wearing light make up or has her face done
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:29 PM
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Casual sex is normal stripping and murdering isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:15 PM
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It's like when men say "I like women with no make up". They don't know what they are saying, it's fine, I just laugh about it. Bluepillers assume you already know stuff like looks matter. Besides there's plenty ugly and evil people in relationships, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:14 PM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:00 PM
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your or my idea of "hot" have nothing to do with this hot women are having casual sex, that's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:59 PM
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hot women have casual sex all the time idk why you think they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:50 PM
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Why on Earth would a hot woman have a hookup with a hot guy? ??? because sex feels nice and the guy is hot? and not everyone wants a relationship? what even is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:44 PM
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Pretty sure hot guys don't struggle getting hot girls to have ONS with them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:39 PM
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Lookism has higher barriers to receive certain treatment from women than the other way around This. This is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:35 PM
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going on for a reason yes, the reason is some men struggle to understand the world. It's not that the world lied to them. I think it's dumb to compare men's and women's looks, specially coming from a group of people that struggle with understanding the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:19 PM
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Again, literally everyone knows this. Shouldn't matter what people say, it's a universal truth all normies know and don't question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:02 PM
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Who am I talking to? Redpill guys who are just discovering that looks are important. Mainstream media (Hollywood, literally any series and movies, TV basically) already knows being pretty helps. Women know this too. Bluepillers know this. It's only redpillers who are behind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:59 PM
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"lookism" aka the universal known truth that pretty people have it easier dating. This is how TRP alienates men from society. Everyone on this planet knows hot people have it easier. We say "pretty privilege". Hollywood stars/models/pop artists are all hot. We have a huge beauty industry, filters, photoshop, eating disorders, etc But by rebranding it "lookism" it sounds like it's a hidden truth. Guys, were you living under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:34 PM
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A man cheating on his wife? what a new concept!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:05 PM
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a man cheating on his wife? what else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:58 PM
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It's ok to be loud about being lonely, specially if it's a systemic problem with solutions the problem is blaming it on women and trying to go back to women redistribution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:19 PM
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On one hand yes, having had early childhood trauma feels like you are slower in life, compared to people who didn't. But on the bright side, the people who never had any trauma, will have something shitty happen to them and they'll feel that initial shock like a bag of bricks. At least you know what it feels like and how to handle it. Honestly, I don't fully trust people who never had any trauma, because you don't know how they are going to react when they inevitably do. Karma will hit those peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:08 AM
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what you like =/= what you can get Same could be said about incels that think their looksmatch is hotter than the actual women that would go out with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:17 PM
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seems like not women's problem no? Why is the default always men? maybe they can adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:26 PM
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that's not what it means you want to keep believing that, be my guest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:10 PM
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Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material" This is the title of the post. So, would I be offended by "you are not hookup material, you are wife material"? of course not you are adding the "husband material = not attractive" which is crazy, nobody thinks this, except internet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:58 PM
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"you are not hookup material, you are wife material" I'd absolutely love to be told this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:42 PM
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I didn't change any definition I just told you from the start that you didn't understand the blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:32 PM
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I'm sorry you understood the bluepill wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:26 PM
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"personality is shit" meaning there's no attraction. No bluepiller says you can become interesting, bluepillers say "be less of an asshole" which isn't a personality change
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:19 PM
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Lonely men need the validation of being called "hot" They think hookup material means they are hot, they think husband material means they are ugly. Pair that up with porn fantasy where the plumber is so so so hot the woman cannot resist him. He doesn't really care about being valued as a person because he probably doesn't value himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:14 PM
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the guy who is hookup material has the quality traits and can become husband material no, hookup material means his personality is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:12 PM
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I don't get it, it's like you are saying going 50/50 is a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:51 PM
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oh that post from earlier left a mark no? specially the pigeon analogy LOL Also this is really long. I read half and I'm not quite sure what you are arguing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:02 PM
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genZ are too young to be partnered, youngest is 14 y/o so it's kind of expected and in practice chasing conventionally attractive men (revealed). no, actual statistics show that the average woman is paired up with the average man. You just can't get around that fact. If you like facts and science you should be looking and what kind of man, women are choosing to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:42 PM
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so... average men's traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:38 PM
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average women date and marry average men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:29 PM
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so, by that logic the average woman is attracted to the average man since that's who she's choosing no? There's no "women go for top 20%" no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:27 PM
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this thread, this post this post is about women needing men to protect them, no? meaning that if men decided to not protect women anymore then women would suffer, no? That's why you guys are counting how many men or women police has. that's assuming men are some wild animals that would rape everyone given the chance. (also OP confirmed this part)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:08 PM
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so, then how else would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:59 PM
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that you don't have a point because even if all law enforcement is men, they'd never turn against women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:58 PM
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how ironic coming from someone who is using the word "objectively" wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:04 PM
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"Science" the only way to know what a woman is attracted to is by asking them So basically a poll. And it'll never be fully accurate because you'd have to account for culture factors I just wanted to clear that out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:03 PM
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It seems that you assume men will no doubly turn against women when that's not in men's nature Even if we have 100% men, women aren't at risk All this "if men turned against women" gives me "I enjoyed too much watching The Handmaids Tale"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:59 PM
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Humans are social creatures, nobody can survive alone or with just 1 gender "oh but we could enslave women, I saw it on The Handmaids Tale!" no you can't, it's not in men's nature to inflict pain on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:49 PM
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the problem is them thinking a man will easily turn against women when we all know the vas majority of policemen are there to protect citizens. It doesn't make any sense to count how many men/women are police. You could have 100% of men, and women will still be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:45 PM
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If a man is there to protect the citizens then it's the same if he's a woman or a man. He won't turn against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:42 PM
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Is this a power fantasy? Why does ppd love imagining what would happen if armed men turned against women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:40 PM
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women are so evil
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:26 PM
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that's creating insecure thoughts ("you are bald", "you are fat") on the other person for fear they'll leave. They think if they paid full normal attention, reassuring them, making sure they are not jealous, making sure they know you think they are hot, etc, will raise their self esteem and will leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:25 PM
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Teasing is light hearted banter like telling someone they just made a bad joke, while laughing at the joke. Or teasing someone about how they always arrive late, or they burned dinner. Stuff that's not very serious and we all laugh. Now saying "hey! show us your head how you are going bald? HAHA loo! you don't have hair anymore!!" "you are fatter no? you look like a woman with those rolls!!" she went a little bit further Specially when these guys don't make those types of jokes with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:07 PM
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This is true, negging is as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:00 PM
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people who neg are insecure. Men and women. They don't believe the person will stay out of free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:54 PM
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As I said before, benevolent is vague I'll repeat If by benevolent you mean "being nice to women" you are wrong. BP doesn't believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:48 PM
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yes, women do this too, I've seen it first hand the difference is women don't go around advising other women to use negging as a flirting technique
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:39 PM
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Yes, women do this too there was a friend in our friend group, a huge pick me, that was constantly flirting with guys by telling them they are bald, fat, weird, virgins, etc Because it works, some liked the attention (even if it was bad attention) I kept my mouth shut but it was very weird to see, made me super uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:36 PM
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Well, I mean, not being a raging incel probably helps though, nobody can deny that maybe "benevolent" isn't the right word. "benevolent" sounds like "nice guy" and BP hates nice guys what BP do say is "be normal" "don't put women on a pedestal" "work on your social skills" "treat women like people" which is not the same as being benevolent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:31 PM
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that's not why you are failing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:50 PM
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If you keep trying on something that's not working that's 100% your problem, not anyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:37 PM
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Actually no, the guy that spent his life with one woman will know more about women than the guy who failed 100 times and is a virgin. Also it shows he's not able to change his tactics when something is clearly failing. He's probably stuck in a narrative that has no reflection in real life (aka, he's wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:40 PM
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No you don't know shit You think you know but you don't It's actually pretty embarrassing because the truth is in front of your eyes and you still go "nah, it's money" (??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:09 PM
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This is a great post, 100% accurate The big red pill problem is misogyny paired with a bit of struggle understanding the world. So if you tell them something they don't understand like "vibe check" they'll just call you a liar 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:02 PM
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"I think women are liars, I just can't prove it" make this make any more sense than the overwhelming proof that average people are happy with average people see how this sounds like a conspiracy theory? "women say they are attracted to their partner, but I actually know they are liars" attraction is subjective, divorce is easy, women don't need men, women SAY they are attracted to their parner what more proof you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:39 PM
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if you can't prove it then it must be false no? "I think the earth is flat, I just can't prove it"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:02 PM
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"women go for chads" "but average women are in relationships with average men" "oh but deep down they yearn for Chad" <---- this is the part that's made up that you guys can't prove. Sure some relationships are together for convenience. But there's no correlation between looks and how healthy a relationship is. It's insane to assume every average guy in a relationships has a wife that doesn't really like him. You could have a million women saying they are deeply in love with their husbands (this…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:51 PM
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and? he could still be ugly and awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:25 PM
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you redpillers think you've discovered people caring about money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:22 PM
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But you guys will never find scientific proof of this. This is why I say TRP is like the horoscope. It feeds on itself. When there's no data, they fill that gap with made up stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:15 PM
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If all women care about wealth and status then explain poor people, some extremely poor, getting together and having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:13 PM
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No, there's still plenty of variables that can make this person lonely af or not approachable. Childhood trauma, autism, anxiety, relationship trauma, environment, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:11 PM
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Red pill uses science like the horoscope uses science. There's some rules that form a circle and feeds on itself. When actually you can't apply the scientific method to something so subjective as attraction. Going to the gym to looksmaxx is as bluepill as the sky. You guys are probably very young but people have been dieting, going to the gym, picking nice clothes, etc since the beginning of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:06 PM
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I don't think BP agrees on 2. TRP want BP to believe 2 to be true so bad though. Well none of them sound really BP actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:56 PM
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No, I don't think women do this. And I'm not entirely sure all men do this either but who knows It sounds like how high school is portrayed in American movies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:07 AM
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You mean like an alpha woman? I don't think that's a thing in a smaller scale. Maybe you are talking about who is more of a leader among women? But that's just human behavior, it's the same leadership skills men show. I can't think of a group of women who are superior. Maybe rich women but again, it's the same hierarchy for men It's not like women secretly admire the Stacy, that sounds more like a male way of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:16 AM
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They think a fat woman doesn't deserve to be with a fit guy 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:27 PM
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seee!!! I wasn't imagining it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:02 PM
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I think most of us would agree that people who say men aren't expected to do anything are wrong, so why are we ignoring how stupid that statement is when it's about women? expectations for men: he picks her up, pays for the date, plans the date expectations for women: she has to dress up and act like a lady I think most women don't struggle accomplishing their expectations on paper (dressing up and acting like a lady). But some probably fail in the social interactions department (not asking ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:36 AM
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I remember seeing here on ppd that some bodybuilders like to date fat women (it was a reel o something like that) and it drove every redpill man crazy. It was so fun seeing them having a meltdown
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:21 AM
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Men and women have different beauty standards so it's not like I'm going to be attracted to a short man with glasses and boobs but yeah, I'm deffinitely attracted to a male version of myself. In fact some people thought my then bf was my brother (disturbing, I know lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:12 AM
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my sister told me her bf bought a dildo for her that was supposed to be his size. It wasn't! lol the bf thought he was bigger. The dildo was massive. This happened a long time ago and I still laugh about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:28 PM
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guys, by saying "no, it doesn't happen that often" you are saying it's actually not natural
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:58 PM
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then maybe it's not that natural after all isn't it? nobody tells men to stay either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:49 PM
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maybe it's not that "natural" after all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:47 PM
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yes, and they make up these revenge fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:47 PM
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yes they have since literally forever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:22 PM
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the problem is that incessantly whining about it is also natural
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:19 PM
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nice fantasy you got there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:17 PM
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What even is "natural"? stuff humanity has been doing since forever? By that logic rape is natural, pedos are natural, violence is natural and dying for lack of antibiotics is also natural But this is why we have society. To be able to avoid all that so, natural=good doesn't hold
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:15 PM
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How dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:52 AM
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The classic "the cashier put the checkout divider between us"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:35 AM
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Adam driver is conventionally hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:31 AM
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He's above average but Ariana is way waaaaay above average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:30 AM
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Or men overrate their own looks, that's why they don't like their looksmatch. Social media and lack of socialization can have that effect. It could go either way and probably both happen simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:17 AM
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There's plenty of guys here who will say they have low standards and then on the same breath they'll say some very beautiful Hollywood female stars are "mid" They believe their standards are low, but in practice they aren't Also "Not fat, not single mothers, not high ncount, no +30" Leaves them with a small pool of people They also love to repeat that they'll have sex with women they aren't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:14 AM
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There's maybe some couples I'm thinking of but they are couples who have been dating for many years where the woman decided one day to looksmaxx Most couples I know are looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:09 AM
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My therapist is male, he tells me about his other male patients, my male friends go to therapy and I also go to a support group where almost all of the people who attend are males So "therapy is for women" is just false This particular post is about these kind of excuses, which like I said before, are a symptom of depression. "Did you exhaust all options?" "Yes because therapy is for women" = excuse "Yes because I find it really hard to do therapy I'm not ready to pen up with a professional" = v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:40 PM
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I thought that's what he was saying then he clarified that's not what he was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:37 PM
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But what I see on social media is women complaining the guy didn't pick them up, didn't dress up, talked about their ex, didn't ask questions. Stuff that happens during a date If the complain was "only mc donalds employees swipe on my profile" then sure. That needs a different strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:25 PM
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I only pointed out that his comment was hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:24 PM
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whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:43 PM
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sure, maybe, but that's hetero guys in hetero relationships and this post is about lesbians and gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:43 PM
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I didn't quote anything maybe I didn't fully understand the previous comment since OP wrote it with his elbows
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:40 PM
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graduate students or fitness guys aren't necessarily better relationship material than other guys. Same with good looking people vs ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:39 PM
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Nobody is moving goal posts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:37 PM
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My thing is is if you're habitually breaking up with someone then there is a problem I still don't see this as a problem. Smells like ncount arguments I don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:33 PM
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Kind of ironic how you are saying men are good communicators while writing like shit Good communications saves you pain, it doesn't guarantee that the relationship is going to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:29 PM
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I still don't see the harm in breaking up or divorcing peacefully
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:27 PM
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If you break up peacefully I don't see it as being harmful at all. Breaking up peacefully is not the same as bankruptcy. Breaking up peacefully is like leaving a job for another job. I don't know where you got this from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:24 PM
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your point is that if women were such good communicators they wouldn't break up that much, but that's not how communication works. Good communicator saves you pain, it doesn't guarantee you are not going to break up. you compare it to gay relationships as proof but you are wrong because of the reasons I said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:19 PM
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what can they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:16 PM
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this isn't about being a good or a bad communicator. Sometimes breaking up is being a good communicator. it's just statistics. If a group of people start more relationships then they are obviously going to break up more often, than the group that doesn't start as many relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:15 PM
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probably women start more relationships (that require a conversation to end them) while gay men just have sex and never talk to each other again. So of course women's relationships are more unstable, because gay men don't have relationships at all (generally speaking obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:07 PM
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I agree with 90% of this post except last sentence while many men are expected to get therapy/lift wheights/get a career, have many friends, go out regulary, and so one to get a girlfriend woman are owned a good Men or nothing simply for existing Advice for men is to get a date. Women (in general) don't have that problem. So, logically, advice is different. There's not a lot of a woman (or man) can do to get better quality dates. An OLD profile will only communicate very basic stuff, a date is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:58 PM
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no, it's the other way around I'm not doing your homework
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:18 PM
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It wouldn't be fair to him to be faking love (if I don't love him anymore, an accident like this doesn't necessarily mean I'm going to fall out of love) but I wouldn't leave him if he has an accident and needs help. Once I saw on a reel a couple where a guy is left paralyzed with brain damage. After a while I'm not sure if they break up or the open the relationship but she continues to care for him, feeding him and all that. She starts dating a new guy and he moves in with them. I though that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:03 PM
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dancing sure. Saying twerking is a hobby is like saying "waving your arms" is a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:50 PM
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twerking is not a hobby wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:08 PM
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yeah, this women are sexualized. Women's clothes by default show curves. Female pop stars have to be great singers and hot. Only out of the charts good singers can afford to be a little uglier. guys can go on stage with pijamas and flip flops
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:06 PM
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Women are sexualized which is very different men are very sexual, that's why famous women's looks and attitudes are catered to them, to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:09 PM
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If you disagree you are welcomed to do the research
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:04 AM
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So you are that "it's rational just because a man does it" Literally confirming my point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:03 AM
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No gender is more rational that the other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:01 AM
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Got me 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:00 AM
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I mean in the hypothetical case they find out the kid isn't theirs after a few years. In most real life cases (not internet hypothesis) the fake-father still stays around raising the kid. Probably separated from the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:20 PM
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Paternity fraud bros don't care about science (or the kid) they only care about not being cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:36 PM
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The problem is there's a lot of variables going on For example most women start taking BC at the beginning of a relationship. Once the honeymoon is over, the amount of sex couples have, usually decrease. It'd be very hard to differentiate what's the BC effect and what's the natural course of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:14 PM
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yeah but in this age and era where women have sexual freedom, a woman with high libido will most likely start dating in high school (unless they are very religious obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:36 PM
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woman that's ovulating this is a myth that became popular on social media. BC women are as horny as non BC women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:32 PM
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but the people who buy dildos are a very specific kind of woman. If there's many vagina sizes, different personalities, there's probably many penis preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:14 PM
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100 comments don't explain the need some men have to talk about their genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:53 PM
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they didn't try them? then they didn't prove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:45 PM
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This is what I find extremely creepy about dick size conversations she said "I don't care" and you said "well, I'm going to share my size anyway" who are you trying to impress? other guys here? yourself? "look guys! I'm not small!" and then you all high five each other. Literally prooving men care more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:41 PM
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that has nothing to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:34 PM
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I LOVE how when it comes to making generalizations women have lower libido than men but on this thread, all of the sudden, every man has always ever been with high libido women. Either some of you are full of shit (probably lol) or women's libido isn't that different from men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:00 PM
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or who have their libido dimmed due to gooning too much Your libido doesn't ran out. If you masturbate before sex yeah, sure you'll probably want it less, but if you masturbated 6 times the night before, libido resets. In your case maybe ED happened because of a deathgrip, which is more of a technique issue. I agree with the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:57 PM
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demisexual demisexual people have libido like any other person high libido doesn't mean "have a lot of casual sex", they could be having sex 4 times a day with someone they really love. hormonal imbalances can lower your libido yes, but same as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:52 PM
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yes 100% I think libido can be measured by masturbation, since during "alone time" there's not a lot of other variables interfering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:48 PM
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sure if it doesn't work it doesn't work, it's not guaranteed. To me it's the most important thing to work on, but again, if you don't want to or are unable to do it, then there's nothing anyone can do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:59 PM
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show me one single post here of someone asking men for advice on this topic. I'll wait
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:09 PM
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only men think this is the case even if there's a guy punching a wall or spewing hate online they are rational because a man does it, not because it's rational
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:57 PM
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I would like to know what would they do if a father commented it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:55 PM
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t is generally men who are hardwired to remain single if they were so hardwired then how can you explain the constant whining about them being lonely, sexless. Some even say sex is a need like water and air, that they will literally die if they don't get sex And this is the thing when it comes to men giving advice to women on these issues. but nobody asked for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:22 PM
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who knows, maybe she's fucking 3 other guys and OP is eating it all up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:19 PM
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you can't negotiate attraction though I'd only advocate for reevaluating standards if you end up alone and don't want to be alone. But that's not the case with women. If they wanted to get married to a random guy they are not attracted to, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:15 PM
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for starters being single is not an addiction, it's not harmful in any way so no...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:12 PM
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I thought men were the "rational gender"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:59 PM
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men can adapt to what the market has to offer For some, sure. But after interacting with many men here, they wouldn't just be in a relationship with a horrible looking woman. They have standards "not be fat" "not promiscuous" "not a single mother" "don't want to pay for dates" "not women +30" etc So when when a man here says they can't get dates, I take it with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:36 PM
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Mods, can we limit how much people use this site as a personal diary? I get that sometimes we need to use personal anecdotes to make a point but in this case, I honestly don't know how to respond without making personal remarks that would go against the rules. Specially since "hypergamy" has nothing to do with his anecdote. Also who knows what this woman is thinking, we don't know because it's OP's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:19 PM
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areyou trolling? because I've seen you ask for data on random topics that have nothing to do with research or data or anything like that At first I thought you were trying to make a point but now I'm suspicious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:30 PM
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so, it's a coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:46 PM
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no, contrary what most PPD men think, women aren't shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:46 PM
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both father and mother have equal chances of getting the kids https://meganbecklaw.com/2025/08/01/debunking-the-myth-dads-cant-gain-custody-of-their-children/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:44 PM
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the day men stop commenting about women's body, that includes all sorts of fat shaming happening here, maybe we'll stop making that joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:42 PM
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You can join any activity, ceramics, running, literally anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:19 PM
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you don't have to use OLD you can use your social skills to meet people just like humanity has been doing since forever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:50 PM
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but if there's kids men do often lose everything things go where the kids go. The kids usually stay with the mother because men usually don't fight for custody. If the man wants the house and the car he has to keep the kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:48 PM
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google "emotionally responsible" and then yoy can come back with a more coherent answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:46 PM
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but you can't do any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:44 PM
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I never blamed women or men, I blamed society aka the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:43 PM
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clinical trials use men, not women. men are the default in every clinical study
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:42 PM
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that's your fantasy "maturing" is learning to not make the same mistakes again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:41 PM
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no, the concept of "he's damaged goods from previous relationships" doesn't exist in women. it's more of a "men are shit" attitude, without the ncounts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:39 PM
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Being emotionally responsible basically means recognizing your own feelings, communicating them honestly, and not blaming your partner for them It's hard work Don't get me wrong, it's perfectly healthy to staying away from relationships if you think you can't be emotionally responsible the main issue here is that when +35 women say this they are called damaged goods
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:01 AM
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yes, exactly also if he had explained why these women were sad, we would've empathize with them and maybe say "maybe the reason they are sad has nothing to do with their age" but not explaining not only shows that he doesn't care but also makes women look like crazy and damaged. As if they randomly broke down crying for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:56 AM
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proof that this is BS is that you didn't mention why these women were sad. Because if you explained why we would've empathize with them and say "hey, maybe the reason has nothing to do with their age". don't bother coming up with a narrative now, you could be lying to prove a point also you are repeating a very basic TRP concept we've all read a million times before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:52 AM
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Good! This is what I’m wanting to hear. then why are you shitting on older women? you are not really asking, we all know this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:41 AM
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I don’t want to be responsible for someone else’s emotional state. Any relationship requires this, even good ones. And it takes an immense amount of energy. A person who isn't able to be in a good relationship (he doesn't want to be emotionally responsible, a very basic thing in every relationship) because of past experiences is what men call "damaged goods"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:39 AM
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Explain why we call hot people "attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:20 AM
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it's just that women +35 are enthusiastic about dating... the right guy, not just any random guy that will try to impress them with shiny trinkets
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:09 AM
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harder to manipulate probably looks like "jaded" from the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:04 AM
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that +35 women are emotionally broken from past relationships, AF/BB, ncounts, pair bonding, all that jazz very basic TRP concept that's been discussed here a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:00 AM
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This is not a post from another red pill bro laughing at women who “hit the wall.” red pill bro that's exactly what you are saying To answer to your question, yes, actually it does get easier. Knowing what you like and knowing how not to fall for bs, makes things a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:56 AM
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The reason we call hot people "attractive" is because they "attract". It's in the name. Nobody in the history of humans has ever denied this fact. some women are not good people, same as men. Stay away from bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:48 AM
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I have no idea why you feel the need to share your personal life or how is it related to the post I just find it amusing that you admit that you like a very small % of women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:18 AM
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Of the small minority that even exists in my dating pool, few are actually relationship material. yeah, you like top% of women and yet somehow this is women's fault because those women prefer other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:09 AM
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ah so then TRP is bs? glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:00 AM
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Hard truth, you don't have a say in what other people like wait is like finding a unicorn because of the obesity epidemic affecting the majority of women in my state With the down to earth girls, it’s not about compatibility. It’s about supply vs demand. so, you are saying you like only the top % of women huh the women all men are after. interesting sounds like a vanity metric
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:55 AM
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from TRP: men will sleep around with women they are not attracted to. They'll commit only to Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:33 AM
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so, if the women with inflated egos don't really care for shared hobbies then you are not compatible if the down to earth woman likes other guys, then you are not compatible either "please like me!" doesn't really work here, people like what they like why would you want to be with someone you consider has an inflated ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:27 AM
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Maybe don't go for shallow women? If those women are looking for a hot guy in finance and you are not a hot guy in finance maybe you guys are not a match "but ALL women are like that" no they aren't. Maybe the type of women you are interested in are. I get it though, the women who are into 6/6/6 guys are usually hot (because they are shallow, so they care about their looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:06 AM
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Statistically it's more likely to find a Chad on OLD (mainly because OLD will give Chad's profile more visibility) than a Chad who likes some obscure anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:02 AM
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Social skills help you interact with other people. A partner is another person. You learn social skills by socializing. This isn't up for debate btw. Humans are social creatures, like it or not. The main difference between millennials, genz, and young people now is that we were forced to socialize without social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:00 AM
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The feeling helplessness from a problem that feels unique is a classic symptom of depression. This is why we have support groups, so that unique problems aren't unique anymore. struggling to achieve something, whatever that is, is one of the most common issues humans deal with struggling to date is even more common. Therapists deal with this all day every day. We invented CBT to process any struggle into a many more simple and achievable struggles to conquer. We also invented all sorts of therap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:52 PM
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If you read the first comment on this thread I'm saying that some men simply can't do what others find easy, like socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:27 PM
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There's nothing illegal a man can do that will help him be loved though Now if you are talking about having sex, then just go to a prostitute. There wouldn't be such a fuzz over men loneliness epidemic if they could solve their loneliness with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:14 PM
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the factors that cause my depression are not covered by my insurance this is not a gender issue, this is an American issue with your crazy insurance companies. Your problem isn't that Psychiatrists didn’t study the male mind, your problem is that you can't afford such help. In my country you can get therapy for free. Being sad is sufficient to get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:09 PM
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I think the point isn't to "cure" neurodivergency or learning to mask better. I think the point if therapy in this case is to help socializing. Maybe joining groups for ND people. Nichemaxxing if you will. If you are a shut in you are probably never going to meet anyone. ND or NT.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:58 PM
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of course but I believe them when they say they can't. Some men who complain about not getting dates are probably really weird and awkward. The problem is blaming others instead of just saying "I can't/won't do this, this is why I can't get dates" instead of the classic "it's women's fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:46 PM
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feeling a lack of purpose and lack of connection with other humans This is depression. We've been treating depression in men (and women) for centuries. We have a million types of therapy, hotlines, meds and institutions for this. The problem is that not being able to reach out and seek help is part of the depression. Thinking "oh but my problems are unique" is also a symptom of depression. Men suffer from another more serious problem which is them being conditioned to not talk about their proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:39 PM
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Exactly. Something they haven't tired. Hence, they haven't exhausted all options. yeah this is true. They'll never do it because some are 100% it's women's fault. I feel no empathy for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:23 PM
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I believe them when they say they can't. They are probably depressed, and need professional help. The problem is not admitting it. Instead of saying "I'm single and it's women's fault" they could say "I know socializing might help but I can't do it because I'm ND" or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:14 PM
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The other day I saw a reel that made me think. It said something like "if you struggle with dating you should nichemaxx" 😭 "If you appeal to the great majority (that's usually what men advice to do) you are going to compete with guys who are simply better looking than you. If you change your looks to be as niche as possible, you'll be getting way more rejections but your value goes up." This reminded me when I was a young heavy metal fan. Awkward power metal fans who socialized with other power …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:55 PM
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The thing is some things are harder for some and easy for others. For example, socializing (I personally think this is more important than looks. And it's also harder to achieve than looks). Some men here don't see a point in socializing. I can totally understand the reasons. Maybe they are ND, maybe they are introverts, who knows. What's real is that they just can't socialize. Technically they didn't exhaust all options, but if they really can't have friends then they simultaneously, did exhaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:45 PM
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I know you are being sarcastic but that's exactly what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:00 PM
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revenge porn is spreading an intimate video. Most people don't film themselves having sex and most people don't film themselves in a way the (small) dick shows. A guy who is self conscious about his dick isn't going to send dick pics so the only thing left is the possibility that an ex has a conversation with a guy's coworker about his dick and it's still a "your word" vs "her word" again, very very very rare scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:52 PM
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that doesn't make sense it's not normal that an ex goes to your workplace and shows a dick pick or announces that your dick is small
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:25 PM
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all of that can be qualifies, at most, as "ignoring" you are basically saying "women are turned on by hot guys" which idk why you need someone to tell you this. not humiliation or exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:33 PM
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It's really very hard to show empathy for a group of people who will constantly post about women being dumb whores no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:00 PM
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that's not the same since you can see that a person is or isn't overweight. When I was on discord I showed a pic of myself and most guys were surprised I'm not fat. They told me "You act like an overweight woman". I'm still laughing at that to this day. A guy who is self conscious about his dick can just shut up about it. Like, why do you guys even have the need to discuss your dick 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:58 PM
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Why shouldn't men get mad for being lied to, humiliated, and exploited by women's dual mating strategy? so a woman saying "I like muscular Chad" is somehow exploitative and humiliating for non Chad? Isn't it a bit much?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:54 PM
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There is no way of knowing that a guys has a small dick if he doesn't talk about his dick Sure maybe some unsatisfied ex talks about it, but that's not normal, unless you are 17 or something like that. In the adult world nobody gives a shit about friend's or coworker's sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:53 PM
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Isn't it the other way around? Moms being too strict and fathers undermining mom's authority. Mom is all day with the kids so obviously she's the less permisive parent. Also nobody in all human life has ever said this (except maybe in the middle ages, who knows). Not the mother not the father. Mom lets her 16-year-old daughter date a 20-year-old man because "she's mature for her age" I really doubt this is common. Not mothers or fathers would let this go unless there's something more going on li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:33 PM
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What? So to support trans rights I have to transition? To support mothers I have to have a child? To support OF I have to be naked in front of a camera? Aren't you able to empathize and support a cause from the outside?? I support women having free sex, I don't have to have sex to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:33 PM
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TRP will rebrand body positivity with different cringe words and they'll eat it up like it's a brand new concept
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:54 PM
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I know plenty of short guys in relationships I'm looking for a short guy on old since I don't like tall guys Height in itself isn't that problematic and confidence goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:52 PM
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It's often the case where men here say that a woman not reciprocating is abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:57 AM
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If men here said "that rapist is a bad person, but it's her fault" then sure. But that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:49 PM
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yes, this also let's not pretend "old TRP" didn't have misogyny every movement has it's crazies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:57 PM
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...or the women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:17 PM
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🤷‍♀️ If you don't understand the tone that's not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:50 PM
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yeah that's what I though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:12 PM
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are you using them for their resources? (no judgement)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:03 PM
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they are not dirt poor but it's often the case where local economies are a mess. You guys were having a meltdown last year because eggs went from $5 to $8 My salary went from 8.000 monthly to 2.500.000 in 10 years. Both those numbers are roughly 1000 usd. This is why so many people migrate to the USA or other first world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:35 PM
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I'm telling you this as a third world country woman. When there's a gringo, doesn't matter how he looks, doesn't matter how much money he actually has, he carries a first world aura. This is what PPB use to pick up women. Status, the implicit promise of a green card, is why PPBs are successful in third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:32 PM
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PPBs themselves will tell you they do that Yes, exactly. There was someone here talking about PPBs. None of what he described showed there was attraction or love involved. It's all transactional (and racist).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:28 PM
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women don't really mean "all men" I already explained this. And they say this and go on dates and have boyfriends, male friends etc online men are very different. They really hate women. They don't have female friends, they don't interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:20 PM
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I don't understand you make them pay and then they aren't afraid of you taking their resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:38 PM
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clueless innocent soul this is usually me since I'm WFH I don't get any gossip 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:36 PM
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Then you are not a good match for them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:26 PM
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100% They simultaneously want the power dynamic but don't want the power dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:23 PM
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oh I know, but you can date them when you leave your job or someone that works far away and only cross paths at the end of year party
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:55 PM
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you just picked a random topic to talk about on a random post, regardless the context I see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:19 PM
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you are changing the topic, nobody is mad This post isn't even about what kind of men they pick it's about accountability and how that looks irl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:16 PM
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who women choose to date is none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:46 PM
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another piece of advice: if you are scared of being used for your money then don't date women who are a lot poorer than you. Easy. A coworker with the same salary as yours isn't going to use you for your money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:44 PM
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Read again. OP is advising on how to weed out the women who use men for their money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:42 PM
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that's not what this thread is about we were talking about "public self reflection" you are just changing the subject to victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:17 PM
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not the same, online men really mean all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:39 PM
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not the same men aren't an oppressed minority, the comment "all men are trash" doesn't affect them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:37 PM
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"your honor! he killed 5 people, but SHE is to blame for dating him" this is how you all sound
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:34 PM
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if rich or attractive men don’t have to treat women well, and don’t treat women well, then are the average and below men only treating women well because they have to? it's projection. They think Chads treat women below their league badly because that's what they'd do if they "had to" date an ugly woman. of course there's no correlation between being hot and being a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:31 PM
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it's not within your power to decide if someone wants to just complain or have a productive conversation or have a productive conversation with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:27 PM
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this is so confusing you mean when they break up she should tell him "sorry I have a very bad taste in men, I judged you terribly, I thought you were good" in your example you are not saying you have bad judgement, you are not taking accountability, you are telling her, it's her fault for choosing you. Literally the opposite of taking accountability, no wonder she got mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:29 AM
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again, that's not accountability apologizing to who exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:23 AM
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that's because online struggling men complain by shitting on women about them not having sex with them, which isn't a valid complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:22 AM
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well you are not entitled to give women a script people are allowed to complain about whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:20 AM
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but why do you call the police? so that the catch the bad guy there is a guilty person are they taking you to jail? no, they are taking the robber to jail because he's guilty. not you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:19 AM
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If a man does shitty things he's still to blame for his shitty actions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:19 PM
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of course you haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:18 PM
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so that's like saying if someone robs your home you are not allowed to say "fuck that robber" or if a politician is very corrupt you are not allowed to complain about it, no? or this applies only to women in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:17 PM
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or maybe to all the ugly guys she didn't choose!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:13 PM
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yes when a woman says "all men are trash" doesn't literally mean all men. She's not talking about her father, brother, brother in law, coworkers or close friends. The problem is men taking that statement too literally, even if that's too fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:12 PM
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men proudly say this here, as a way of justifying cheating or as a way of telling women they are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:08 PM
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It's absolutely reasonable to complain that some men are shit because in fact some men are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:03 PM
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There's no correlation between looks and cheating or abusing. If this is your point, can you show statistics? Abuse and rape is illegal so, many of them do end up in prison. And as far as I know, they are absolutely not Chads. How about the "are we dating the same guy" that showed very ordinary men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:01 PM
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the question is how is that accountability displayed irl. All my friends who are dating blame themselves for not being able to leave a guy who turned out to be a shitty dude. I suspect that's what men here want to hear. But that won't happen because that's usually something you do with friends, not publicly online. I feel like men here want some form of public apology (? And that doesn't make "some men are shit" any less true. The guy is still guilty of being trash. I agree saying "all men are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:58 PM
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you are not understanding what patriarchy means. It's a system of "rules". If you follow the "rules" you are enforcing patriarchy has nothing to do with notallmen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:49 PM
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that's not accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:46 PM
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you mean that prison is filled with hot looking guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:44 PM
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We are talking about dating. So after a failed relationship she should apologize to... who exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:44 PM
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Patriarchy =/= men We are all part of the patriarchy, in different roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:41 PM
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and apologize to who? your example isn't what we are talking about,. We are talking about dating, not about normal mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:37 PM
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We should have a victim blaming megathread from all the recent posts Men here don't want women to talk shit about a rapist or an abuser, they want her to, instead, say "it's all my fault for not picking an incel instead" Can someone think of the rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:35 PM
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you are not answering the question what concrete real life actions should she make for you to think she took accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:32 PM
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Replace "chad" with man. Idk what makes you think the average guy can't be a cheater and an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:28 PM
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In my experience here when the issue of rape, abuse or DV comes up I've never seen a red pill tag guy blame it on the man. They defend the rapist like it's their brother and blame the victim. crazy shit only happens here, not irl obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:08 PM
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PPD specifically has an “average men are wonderful effect” yes, 100% this like this comment from this post "Okay, I acknowledge Chad did you wrong, now what?" As if average men were better people than chads. That way it's women's fault for shooting above their league and choose evil Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:00 PM
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I don't understand what's the benefit but there's probably one that I'm not aware of. OP says there is an advantage based on colorism (read his comment, I asked him the same question you are asking me) but I'm not well versed in south east asia culture so I didn't argue his explanation. I live in a third world country and I know the first thing people think when they see a gringo is $$$ and a green card promise. I know this is the appeal because we are desperate here for leaving a shitty economy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:22 PM
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read OP's creepy explanation He never talks about attraction, it's all transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:26 PM
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That's usually on the weekends for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:01 AM
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This posts are why I stay here pure unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:00 AM
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Who are top looking women dating then? are they lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:58 AM
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factually wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:56 AM
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ok, here's another factual statement. We are unique animals, different rules apply to humans. That's why you can't use animal behavior to analize human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:32 PM
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you obviously think it is an argument but you are too lazy to expand because it's an argument that falls apart pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:28 PM
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I'm saying there's no attraction because you are comparing this situation with how western women behave. You are painting it like "south east women are better" but actually the situation, attraction-wise, is the same. None of the women are attracted to the passport bros (not westen, not south east). It's just that third world country women are more desperate for a better life. you are saying it yourself, not me. I'm just pointing it out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:25 PM
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none of what you are describing has anything to do with attraction. It's prostitution with extra steps and more creepy. it makes sense in a way that makes me want to call the police, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:00 PM
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"doesn't matter, had sex" kind of mentality the dick decides, not the brain It's probably cheaper to have sex with a local prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:28 PM
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that's not even an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:24 PM
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Men are physically stronger than women that's where they got the power from. Once we evolved into a civilization that doesn't need physical strength, men started loosing power.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:06 PM
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I mean, what other animal has clothes, OLD, BC, Reddit, culture and gyms? We are different from animals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:02 PM
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"because men are better" "why?" "because biology" "God says so"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:59 PM
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but being liked because of your first world status isn't real attraction, it's like being liked for your money. Prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:57 PM
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This sounds like they are going after your first world status, either by baby trapping you, or kink trapping you to inflate your ego (they are on BC) Like I can't even imagine why you think they'd do this. "I'm so hot in Thailand the women are desperate to carry my genes even if that means to raise a child on their own" Extremely hot people don't have women tell them this. no, this doesn't make sense. There's no other explanation other than they were after your money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:43 PM
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absolutely baby trap guys can't be serious thinking there's no green card agenda going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:36 PM
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the bad guy will always be the manipulator, not the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:46 PM
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that's not what I'm saying I'm saying that the sexless guys who are misogynistic are too loud to the point where people think every guy who struggles is misogynistic. They ruined it That's why I'm saying it's better to look for advice outside the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:43 PM
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no, they are equally desired in my example. The stalker and the wife have the same feelings. The difference between them is that one is the wife and the other is the stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:37 PM
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Just today a guy told me he wanted to send all women to war to fix the "death gap" Come on, you can't say there's no misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:31 AM
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"how good" is actually determined by each individual. I think the manipulative guy has an advantage which is not giving a shit about others to reach his goal. If his goal is casual sex he'll succeed if he wants a wife he'll succeed too. Besides that, I've been here a while and reading between the lines it's all about how women are stupid and choose evil chads over nice incels (who aren't nice) There's a guy in the automod saying this btw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:04 AM
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Like I told everyone on this thread, don't post your struggles where hateful incels post their struggles and hate because people will assume you are one of them. Do you need advice or venting? That's what friends, family or therapy are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:24 AM
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Looks have absolutely nothing to do with sex performance, nothing. Meaning if you are not performing right then it's not because you are ugly. I personally don't sleep with guys I'm not attracted to so I wouldn't know if someone I'm not attracted to would perform better or worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:53 PM
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what if he doesn't behave like a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:38 PM
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that's like saying "it's been documented that some people cheat, that's why she should've known her man cheated" ironically, you reasoning is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:29 PM
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she'd be stupid if she's knowingly dating a manipulative man if she doesn't know she's not stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:11 PM
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she doesn't know he's manipulative so no... she can't like something she doesn't know it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:07 PM
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I see that you are trying to backtrack on your words that's not going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:03 PM
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it's the "it's women fault", ppd classic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:32 PM
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yeah my friend who es very religious but on the evangelical side (no sex until marriage) finally got his first gf at 35 and got married at 38!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:28 PM
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Probably Twin 1. They also usually give CIO titles to manipulative men. It's only logical he'll manipulate himself into getting what he wants. Maybe he'll go into politics too. And by this I mean, it's not that women love manipulative men over good men. Twin1 will lie and make the woman think he's a good nice guy, probably better than Twin2. He'll also manipulate others around him to escalate the corporate ladder, get money, step on other people, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:16 PM
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you want women to be killed, like you said on your other comment I didn't say I didn't want them to. I think exclusively women should be conscripted, and exclusively women should serve in the military, until the historical war death gender gap is closed. I'm saving your comments for future use btw, when guys here say there's no misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:55 PM
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ah so you basically want to kill women gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:53 PM
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it would draw political attention to the draft that would risk getting it abolished. but that's a good thing no? getting it abolished for everyone specially since USA hasn't used the draft since Vietnam
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:52 PM
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yes absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:17 PM
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if you post online about dating woes you will receive character attacks yeah because "online" is where incels are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:34 PM
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you just said women are not suited for the draft In the way that they're 20 times weaker than men, and mentally much weaker as well. what is it? do you want women signing up for the draft or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:28 PM
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If men don't want women in the draft, what's the problem then? You can't blame women for not being part of something you don't want them to be part of no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:24 PM
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Those arguments are similar. Yes, if you, a normal guy, post where incels post people are going to assume you are an incel. If you need real advice you should ask friends or therapy. Stay away from other people's hate speech
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:40 PM
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Why aren't there any men protesting against the draft? Since it's men drafting men, I feel like the ones who should be rioting are men, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:30 PM
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Because on incel circles there's no women to call out the hate speech. This doesn't happen where there's no toxic incels making normal guys look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:23 PM
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I thought I was having a stroke lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:48 PM
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Still no and you know it Nobody can deny there's a lot of misogyny here, that's just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:47 PM
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This sub is filled with misogyny, as I showed you some random comments from just yesterday. "I guess you don't have any studies on that" is not a valid argument, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:43 PM
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Blame it on the hateful incels that make normal guys look bad If you are a normal guy don't post where all the other hateful misogynistic guys post. My main point is that you guys are conveniently ignoring all the misogyny like you are being attacked out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:40 PM
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wdym real data? I'm talking about men here who rant about women and are told they are awful There's plenty of comments here, you can search them for yourself but here's some from just yesterday <image> Doesn't it make sense to answer "maybe you are the problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:35 PM
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Maybe your column was problematic, we can't know This is like saying that a starving person whose food was stolen shouldn't go to a grocery store because filling a fridge is "too much pressure." on the store. In the context of dead bedrooms this sounds awful btw. "Stolen" implies you "owned" something. You are not entitled to sex. Never. Of course people are going to point this out like I'm pointing it out right now. my point is that "you are a bad person" is usually a response to problematic po…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:24 PM
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nono, I'm talking about some men here on the internet They come and rant on and on about how women are despicable manipulative beings and then they get surprised when people answer "maybe the problem is you" That's the part you forgot to mention on your post. There is a reason people call them bad humans. I attend a support group for people with speech impediments, where some are on the spectrum and we talk a lot about dating. In all the years I've been on these meetings there's not even a small…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:15 PM
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A neutral normal man who is unsuccessful will never have people say he's disgusting and evil out of the blue. You are omiting a key part where some of these unsuccessful men turn into hateful misogynistic men. They rant about how women are this, women are that. So naturally others respond with "maybe you are the problem" “Women/we are never at fault.” some men not being able to go on dates it's not and will never be women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:04 PM
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you have the wrong definition of fetish. Fetish is for example liking a certain race because you think that race is submissive/innocent/agreeable/etc or wild/sexual/dominant/sex machine The women saying they like 6ft men aren't attributing all these personality expectations (prejudice) Really really really liking something doesn't turn it into a fetish Also someone silently not wanting to date you isn't shaming you. They are just ignoring you. Now making a million posts about how, for example, "…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:46 PM
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There's probably many right wing fascist who like to be pegged but don't dare saying it or even explore it themselves with a toy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:44 AM
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Ohh yes I remember now! But I interpreted as "selfless act". I didn't interpret it like they are shitty partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:09 PM
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Op didn't say they don't reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:03 PM
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Those kinds of men usually help everyone, men and women. Or they enjoy female attention, which is kind is sexual. Otherwise they'd do the same for their male buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:01 PM
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That's statistically impossible unless you're circle is 5 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:47 PM
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But that's like foot massage or cuddling. If he's doing that only for his wife then there is something sexual about it. You were asking about non sexual acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:46 PM
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Rescuing a damsel in distress without thinking of sex? Nah I don't believe it You direct that energy to your wife because saving a damsel in distress is kind is sexual. Like a foot massage. We are looking for a type of man who would do favors without making it sexual. Like a woman spoiling her male friends without wanting to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:44 PM
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No, in that case we are different. I spoil my male and female friends equally. I don't treat my male friends better. That's weird. I don't think there is a male equivalent. I was going to say simp but simps are looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:18 PM
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This sounds pretty normal, not a red/blue thing. It's pretty normal to spoil your partner I think. It's not even a man/woman thing. I don't cuddle my struggling friends though lol that's weird. I spoil my male friends like my female friends. Sometimes I cook for them and give them gifts. I think this is normal friend behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:53 PM
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you are incredibly biased like an antivaxxer who is convinced all the real scientific evidence is some fake plot. That level of blind bias. How do you explain all the comments here from men saying they love their gf, they like relationships better? "they are simps" "they are losers" "their gf don't actually love them"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:45 PM
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some relationships end and the fwb can ghost you one day and that will hurt your ego your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:32 PM
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you know what? my bad of course you are too biased. You probably see a loving equal relationship and think she's plotting to take his kidney. I read your other comments and they are all very anti-woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:20 PM
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Don't you have friends in happy relationships? brothers? uncles? parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:54 PM
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You guys need to stop making this broad generalizations. It's like saying "french fries are superior to ice cream" Some people will agree and some won't and some like both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:07 PM
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This is true Specially if there's companies trying to sell you stuff. Remember when the food pyramid had carbs at the bottom? There were studies, financed by food companies (sweet cereals, corn syrup products), saying you should eat more carbs Then it was fiber Now it's protein Fat was bad, now some fats are bad Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:57 PM
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you really want to argue how many men in positions of leaderships started wars vs women? USA started more wars than all women in leadership positions combined
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:56 PM
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and I can see feminists giving her the same presto-chango revisionist rehab treatment they gave Loretta Bobbit really? where? all I see is all rich men free sunbathing in their mansions and the only person in jail is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:47 PM
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sure, Feminism is the mastermind behind the Epstein files lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:29 PM
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maybe if guys decentered women we wouldn't have Ghislaine Maxwell on a 5 star hotel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:20 PM
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simps who absolutely don’t want to ruin their chances I feel like the ones who are super afraid to confront women are men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:06 PM
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yes women are conditioned from early age to be agreeable I don't understand how is this related to the post though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:02 PM
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This reminds me of a reel where there was a ND woman your age that realized in her early twenties that people stare at each other to signal interest. This woman avoided visual contact and that's her theory why she never had a first kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:23 AM
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If there are other areas where you can see he made an effort, and I can see that he never cares about clothes it's fine by me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:48 PM
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ok, you seem to be a little worked up bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:16 PM
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this is something we teach toddlers btw you know when you are with a toddler and there's someone with a disability. Kids don't understand social rules and they are curious so they often stare or make a loud comment about the disabled person. Then you tell the toddler not to bother the disabled person. This is exactly the same. Don't make it obvious so that you don't make the other person uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:05 PM
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what's funny is that the woman on the video explains it 100% clear and you are still not getting it feeling attraction is ok, it's in your head, there's no thought police showing that attraction when the other person isn't interested is not ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:56 PM
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one makes the woman uncomfortable the other doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:47 PM
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you apparently don't know the difference just look, don't stare everyone looks, that's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:29 PM
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Staring at someone signals interest. A hot guy is obviously going to have that interest reciprocated more than an ugly guy. Rules are different for different people. A woman staring at children on a playground is not the same as a homeless man staring at children on a playground. You want to throw a temper tantrum at society? good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:26 PM
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so you don't know the difference between looking and staring
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:19 PM
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You can say "ugh I want to have sex but I can't" That's it Nobody gets offended
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:03 PM
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Wdym? All my examples are from a guy who can't get sex. Only he's holding himself accountable and not blaming it on others
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:57 PM
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IG isn't the best place for debates
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:38 PM
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what if the stalker is really ugly and the wife is super hot, way hotter than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:37 PM
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yeah that sounds unreasonable but why are you making it a gender issue? you don't think there's unreasonable men out there? You don't see men reacting very well when they are told to "if you can't find a man who meets your standards, maybe the men who do meet your standards don't want you" even though it is a reasonable thing to say But, like I said on my other comment, it's a loaded piece of advice. It's like when someone says "maybe you should go outside" when you are depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:08 PM
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"if you can't find a man who meets your standards, maybe the men who do meet your standards don't want you" incels say this all the f time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:39 PM
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if this was the first time this conversation happened on this planet then sure, she's being unreasonable but what's going on here is that your comment is loaded. It carries a lot of past meaning. Misogynistic incels have been saying this for years, blaming their own lack of sex on women, "women only want 20% of men" etc. This is why she jumped to "Do you just hate women or something?". If someone says that online 99% chance they are misogynistic incels. (Not saying that's you, btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:32 PM
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what did you ask to get that answer? maybe it wasn't such a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:18 PM
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I think this is a question for men, not women It's men who say "don't argue with women" No woman is going to say "don't argue with me, please dismiss my opinions"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:04 PM
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One what about single men. "how can I become more attractive to women" "how can I redirect my libido so I'm more comfortable not having sex" "how to stop valuing myself through sex" Like Brilliant Block said, the problem is blaming it on women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:51 PM
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Too bad no matter how you do it, it will always be taken this way. Try "I'm trying to redirect my libido so that I'm not annoying to my partner" "maybe we are not compatible since our libidos don't match" and none will think you are blaming it on women If they blame it on women they are doing nothing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:42 PM
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nobody on the left is saying what OP is saying though not even in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:07 PM
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it's called reading I’m a single dad and I don’t give a fuck what Google says. do you think this phrase comes off as chill and unbothered?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:21 PM
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You are not even addressing my comment and went off a tangent about your personal relationship that none cares about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:17 PM
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If you are constantly annoyed at her cleaning standards and are unable to reach an agreement then you are probably not compatible. That's not a gender issue, it's a relationship issue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:12 PM
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well you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:05 PM
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You are mad at the word but I'm willing to bet even if you changed the word, you'd still be mad at women pointing at some form of work they do that men generally don't. no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:04 PM
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Ahh I thought you were trying to make a parallel with the ncounts discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:20 AM
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yeah it's the same you don't have to argue about everything. Don't bring your keyboard reddit warrior to real life if you want to be liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:58 PM
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True, I scrolled past it and went straight to the answers. It's about reading the room and filtering yourself according to the context. People who want to be right all the time are exhausting. I go to a ceramics workshop and I know that I'm not on the same political side as many women there. It's fine. I just don't talk about politics because I'm there to have fun doing ceramics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:56 PM
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Wanting to spend the rest of his life with me Although it's not like I'd be as angry as ncount men if I found out my current bf also was thinking of spending his life with his ex. It's probably a very common healthy thing to desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:40 PM
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100% yes, just find new words, new jokes. That's why I don't like generic pet names. But I don't think this is what op is asking. Because nobody could get mad at the fact that a bf had other pet names with his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:38 PM
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The redpill people I watch all day this. That's because TRP rebranded many bluepill concepts like BEING A FUCKING ADULT lol You can't possibly think encouraging men to be normal adults is a red pill thing my god, that's too terminally online. Talk to older people and ask them, please. But if EVERYONE is telling you that you are wrong. Isn't it more likely that you are making a mistake and not everyone else? You learned that in red pill channels as well no? It's not men's fault, it's women who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:30 PM
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Yes, you should be a functional adult regardless your relationship status this isn't red pill btw, it's as bluepill as the sky. A woman that has to take care of her partner like he's a child isn't going to be turned on because she see him as his child. No, doing the chores won't guarantee you sex, literally NOBODY is saying that. Nobody. Everyone is explaining it to you when are you going to start looking at yourself and realize maybe you understood it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:20 PM
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50/50 is literally feminist agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:40 PM
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No I think you got it wrong it was never chores tokens you can exchange for sex it was more an explanation why she's not in the mood for sex and a possible solution (acting like a regular adult, instead of a child)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:36 PM
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YES OP, this is great, I wish this was more common around the world I'd totally join one of those communities!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:40 PM
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Arguing with black pillers is a lost cause. You could interview an average looking couple in front of them and they'll still think "it's a lie". They are biased, not you, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:11 PM
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I just commented the same! who is more desirable? a) a guy in a healthy marriage with a very hot woman, they have sex 2 or 3 times a week for +5 years (he never had casual sex before marriage) b) a guy with a stalker like baby reindeer. She bought him a PS5 and dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:07 PM
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who is more desirable? a) a guy in a healthy marriage with a very hot woman, they have sex 2 or 3 times a week for +5 years (he never had casual sex before marriage) b) a guy whith a stalker like baby reindeer. She bought him a PS5 and dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:05 PM
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100% agree with OP By spending 10 mins on this sub you can tell men do have standards, which is absolutely fine and healthy obviously. The problem is blaming it on women for not catering to those standards, as if one could stay a virgin waiting for them to leave reddit and socialize. fat women + single mothers + feminists + old women + slutty women probably make up for +80% of women. The whole women are after 20% of women is massive projection
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:58 PM
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It's great to have standards! OP said so too The problem is going online blaming women for not catering to those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:47 PM
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single mothers + fat women + women +30 + slutty women + desperate women who want to settle = +80% of women leaving men interested only in the 20% of women sounds familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:46 PM
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Reality is unbelievable I know Ask around if you don't believe me This is not up for debate btw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:47 PM
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100% from the men here In fact I sometimes find myself defending men more that men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:00 PM
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glad we agree then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:04 AM
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I said you are not supposed to take the number literally I also bet you didn't ask lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:58 AM
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it also depends on the culture where you live. My very catholic friends got married at age 20 and started having kids at 22. So did their friends from church. But I doubt OP belongs to this culture. So if you ask people from the city the average is most likely to be way higher
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:57 AM
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agree all my female friends who always wanted to have kids started dating the guy they married at 30 and having kids by 33-36 Most women wait until +30 to settle down, unless they are very catholic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:54 AM
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Feeling guilty for breaking up doesn't make you a bad guy, it's actually the opposite and no, don't be ridiculous, breaking up peacefully and maturely doesn't make you a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:48 AM
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It's obviously not literally 100% it's probably 98% though. "Almost all women" And that doesn't mean all men are rapists if that's where you are going
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:45 AM
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lmao no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:29 PM
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"she/he is toxic but I'm still not sure if I want to be with a toxic person"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:09 PM
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but being toxic is making mistakes. They've already made mistakes. Why do you need more mistakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:32 PM
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yes of course. By saying "this thing you said made me feel X" is holding them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:28 PM
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?? there's plenty of pro life VS pro choice arguments, like all the time. There's protests, they have logos, slogans, movies, reels, etc You never noticed this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:27 PM
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leaving someone doesn't make you a bad guy So if they or their friends don't hold them accountable, then what? you just continue a shitty relationship forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:24 PM
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But that's not how toxic people work. If you don't take care of yourself none will. Better take action yourself and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:08 PM
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same here I believe most pill people problems would be solved if they could understand that different women have different opinions and preferences I always write the same lines "but how come women are pro choice and then they write posts and protest against abortions!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:05 PM
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I need you to think about how I feel or You are responsible for the words I'd rephrase that to "you are making me feel" "your words make me feel...." Focus on how this affects you instead of ordering the other person to do something. The 2 phrases you wrote are kind of weird. But if you talk about how things make you feel then the other person can't argue. This is something my therapist told me btw. If that convo leads nowhere ("I don't care how you feel!!" "you don't have the right to feel this…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:49 PM
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« it’s true because everyone says so! » this this is exactly how human communication works. We all agree that some things are rude and some aren't. Those might feel arbitrary but it is what it is. You have a choice either fit in or not fit in at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:54 PM
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no, PPD has a higher % of ND than other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:46 PM
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You too, write it down even if you don't understand what I'm saying. It's not up for debate. This is one of those things you have to learn by memory if other instincts fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:42 PM
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Well at least keep what I'm saying in the back of your head if you notice that EVERYONE reacts negatively maybe EVERYONE isn't the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:47 PM
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I'm informing you now that this is an attack. Doesn't really matter if you perceive it as such or not. It's how it is. If you are surprised at women's reactions this is why write it down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:08 PM
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So, you go around asking this question and then you are surprised women don't like it, so, logically, it's women who are wrong. Not you, lol. They are all misandrists!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:04 PM
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Read my next comment. I know Melania Trump type of women exist Like I told other people, at this point it's clear you guys get horny talking about age gaps or you have some humiliation kink or, worst, are too dumb to understand what you've been told a million times. I really hope it's the first 2 options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:12 AM
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I believe incels struggle and are depressed I don't think people doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:33 PM
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Evolutionarily, this is rooted in fertility. the classic argument is that men like young women because they are attracted to fertility. But that's factually false since most women's first experience being sexualized by men is before being teenagers, when you are not fertile yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:01 PM
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just pointing out that when men here say that men are naturally attracted to neoteny features, that doesn't even mean teenagers, it means younger
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:58 PM
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the problem is that the only moment in life where women are naturally hairless is before adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:40 PM
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what's even more creepy is that teenagers are very hairy. That's when women learn to shave and all that. The same hormones that makes breasts is the same hormone that produces hairy armpits and legs. younger than teenagers are hairless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:37 PM
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it's actually funny you want it so bad for the jealousy to be real At this point I'm suspecting you guys are into some strange kink shaming or get horny by talking about age gaps or something like that, there's no other logical explanation Anyway, I hope you are having fun I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:26 PM
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of course we can't change men's behavior. This is why the advice goes to young women, not men. When I was young I had older women say that to mee too, this advice is as old as time. Also my father was very weary of older men coming for his daughters but you guys ignore that too. Take a look at this sub. There's not a single post about age gaps coming from women, it's all men complaining about women, calling them jealous, like they really really want to believe it's all about jealousy. These wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:14 PM
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I'm going to rephrase The women who warn younger women about older creepy men don't want that man for themselves because the type of guy who goes for younger girls is usually a walking red flag instant ick of course there are women who would still go for those guys like there's women going for 60 year old rich guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:02 PM
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and they dismiss it when fathers don't like it either I remember my father commenting "if you bring a 30 y/o guy I'll kill him"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:54 PM
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There's no irony or hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:46 PM
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Fathers are usually the ones who are most against an older guy dating their daughter Are they jealous too or....?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:41 PM
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no woman wants a guy who would go for a woman 10 years younger that's an instant ick no, not every man goes for women 10 years younger, most people date around their age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:38 PM
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Doesn't matter how many times women explain their own lived experiences they are going to dismiss it because they need the narrative, they need it so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:37 PM
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1- you can't shape your personality into this characters, either you are or you aren't. I've met guys who tried really hard to be distant and somewhat toxic and it was so cringe 2- trying and not being able to change your personality will make you look really awkward, worst than being your natural self 3- those personality types attract anxious crazy women. And then you'll here crying "all women a are crazy!" 4- fantasy guys aren't toxic within the fantasy. He never makes her feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:03 PM
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I would upvote a million times. This is my experience with some men too, they turn everything into a competition it's honestly so tiring it gives me insecure vibes. Real confident men just look at birds with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:57 PM
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I've seen my friends swipe, no, they don't look at profiles lol Old shows you first the people who liked your profile. I see plenty of guys who say they want kids who presumably liked my profile (I don't want kids). Old should charge for every like or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:45 PM
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hanging out alone with them a lot this 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:12 AM
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if he doesn't lie to women about his long term intentions they won't have sex with him idk why I smell BS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:27 PM
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what is this trash post 😂😂😂😂 Kind of ironic no? OP stop nagging us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:08 PM
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cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:32 PM
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yeah well men are the hornier sex, so it'd make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:18 PM
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Agree manosphere guys are toxic af but I haven't seen a lot because it's too cringe I was talking more about female self help
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:16 PM
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are you sure? This sounds like what manosphere guys think women's advice sounds like I follow some female self help influencers that are more about "if you don't take care of yourself, none will" "do the thing" "the world is a hostile place" "find a friend" I just saw a reel from a woman advising others to masturbate before any mayor decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:10 PM
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but you are blaming women instead of blaming men that's all you need to be part of the problem and even worst than women like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:52 PM
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then make a post about this random person, not feminists or feminism, who tf is she this is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:05 PM
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PEARL DAVIS? lmaooo she's a pick me, her grift is rage baiting men, she's not a feminist. Is your whol argument based of a girl who is famous for talking out of her ass. that other lady I have no idea who she is but it's probably just a random influencer no? that you somehow think is representative of feminism You are not even talking about normal every day people, just influencers my god
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:00 PM
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That doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:58 AM
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You seem more concerned about blaming women than blaming them, so clearly you are worst than the women you are blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:02 AM
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that doesn't prove women are any more to be blamed than men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:39 AM
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it doesn't I've commented that several times on this post I believe men here assume every woman is a feminist when they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:22 AM
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no, I'm saying what you are saying doesn't make sense, it doesn't exist, like a gay man wanting to marry a woman. but if it were to exist I couldn't care less 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:19 AM
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Idk, I have a friend who is not trad but is living a trad life. Her husband started earning a lot of money and they have babies, so she's a sahm now. I can see the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:18 AM
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are they labelling themselves or you are assuming that? People don't go aro8und saying "as a feminist.. blablabla" online you can barely know someone is a woman by looking at their pfp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:16 AM
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that's like asking "are you ok with a gay man wanting a woman?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:15 AM
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nah pretty sure we do as much as men hate other violent men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:08 AM
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then they are not really progressive. Although it's more likely you are just assuming all women are progressive just because they are women. This happens all the time on this sub. "but how come feminists don't like gender roles but then women say they want a muscular masculine man to lead the relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:44 PM
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Women understand each other. Most men understand women. The problem isn't in the choice use of words, clearly. Maybe the problem is somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:54 PM
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Women hate violent men not tall muscular men. Being tall doesn't make you violent by default. I don't think the same women who hate bi guys are the same ones who fight for LGBTQ rights, you are probably lumping 2 different groups together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:50 PM
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no, some people prefer traditional some don't the point is being able to choose and not impose trad values to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:45 PM
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Seems like you are pretty sure what confident means when a woman says it, no? where is the confusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:36 PM
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yeah, unless you are at a trial where they spend time defining words (because it's necessary) outside that context is really creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:04 PM
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that has nothing to do with the definition of words. If a woman uses the word confident she's being vague, if a man uses the same exact word he's not being vague lol make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:02 PM
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I still don't understand how the meaning of words are somehow women's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:00 PM
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so then how is a woman using the word "love" and "confident" more confusing than "netflix and chill"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:54 PM
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no, you are lol because you can't corroborate "empirically" that all women like the same type of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:14 PM
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if "women go only for 20% of men" was true, then you'd see only 20% of people in relationships no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:59 PM
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if all women's beauty standards are set by society then all women's preferences would be the same, so they would all like the same guy. but reality shows that this is not the case you are working under a wrong premise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:49 PM
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But TRP isn't based on nuances like "a bit taller" their whole narrative is 6/6/6, not an inch lower, not an average salary, only 20% of Chads. and don't get me started on all the pump and dump bullshit, monjkey branch, hypergamy, none of those have any basis in reality The blue pill also understands beauty standards, but they are not as black or white
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:47 PM
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Understanding that attraction isn't black or white is good for everyone. It leads to less resentment, less blackpill thinking. Also it's not true, it's not reality. The whole "women are after 20% of men" just isn't true, factually. The problem is that TRP feeds from resentment, that's the only reason that separates normal thinking from TRP thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:56 PM
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the only generalization you can make is "all women like what beauty standards dictate but also each woman has her own set of preferences. Not all women like exactly the same guys" Which is factually truth btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:16 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:57 AM
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oh I don't know To me "status" is a made up thing some bald muscular podcaster said once and then everyone started repeating it without knowing what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:41 PM
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It's a mix of both, or depends on the person. I'm not instantly visually attracted to a guy until he starts speaking that's why OLD is so hard for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:37 PM
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TRP has it's own money category, status and money are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:36 PM
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The problem isn't the reasoning, the problem are some of the premises. [Premise 2] sure, women go for attractive men but that't not the only parameter also beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Surely we have beauty standards but RP erases women's individualities. Women don't share exactly the same taste in men. [Premise 3] If premise 2 is wrong then Premise 3 is wrong too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:32 PM
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at least a dozen people have explained it to you I got here when there were few comments. I think people wrote those comments after I wrote mine. Or you are confusing me with someone else. you seem too angry, bye, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:51 PM
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on the contrary If a man has no agency, he's just a leaf in the wind, no responsibility, no power, nothing, just a lump that's waiting for any woman to say yes then he's never going to make a mistake, he's fully innocent of the relationship failing (I'm being sarcastic but I know some of you think this unironically)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:12 PM
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Advertise everywhere? I think you are being targeted, I've never seen a single OF ad in my life Or you mean that the women you follow on ig/twitter promote their only fans page?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:01 PM
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Sure but that's like 0.01% of all creators
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:59 PM
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And you already said that within the USA there's people who think differently. So while a USA statistic might be true in San Francisco, it probably won't be true in rural Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:36 PM
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There's this unfounded idea that OF creators earn a lot of easy money from men, and that's somehow bad or something. It's probably related to purity culture too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:34 PM
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That's my point That's why these global statistics you posted are globally true but sometimes aren't locally true. So even if a global statistic says A, someone can have a totally different experience and that's true as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:26 PM
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Then how do you explain all the fights between pro life and pro choice if everyone is somewhat lukewarm in their ideas? How do you explain some people supporting Trump and some people absolutely despising Trump? Do you think someone who grew up in rural Texas has the same political views as someone who grew up in San Francisco? And don't get me started on skin color because that's a whole other divisive topic in the USA that we are not allowed to discuss here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:50 PM
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Most health problems are from deliberate actions that increase the risk it's medically impossible to know why someone has cancer (for example) unless it's pretty obvious like contaminated water or radiation leak
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:43 PM
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the global statistic is still correct sure the local statistic that throws a different result than the global statistic is true as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:36 PM
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Isn't the US divided in conservatives and liberals?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:32 PM
1

you can still have very different circumstances depending where you are and who you are surrounded with Another example, saying "most people are married" can be true in a rural town and it might not be true in a big city. It also depends on religion. If you live in a place where religion is very important you are probably going to find more people who are married early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:29 PM
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you just did
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:27 PM
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😭😭😭I understand And I agree that advice is looks dependent You just need to find someone in your same category that somehow managed to succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:21 PM
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I don't understand So the kid is getting child support from his father. Or you mean every middle class man chips in more money than a poor person. And then you put the kid into a higher category for being a middle class kid? I don't think that's fair or easy to implement. The government shouldn't play favorites and what happens if the father suddenly becomes rich or suddenly becomes poor? What do you do with the kid? Change his category? None of this makes any sense and it's impossible to implem…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:19 PM
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We do live in different realities though depending where you live. The global survey is irrelevant if the people around you are different. So for example a couple of weeks ago someone here was telling me he was convinced people look down on single people over 30. That might be 100% truth on some cultures but it's definitely not true in others. I live in a progressive city where people don't care but I've also visited friends in more conservative culture and it is absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:12 PM
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But you'd never be able to give every child private school and tutors type of education this rich father could give to his child. Better save that money for the poor kids with poor parents who really need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:06 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:58 PM
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A rich middle class father can provide much more money than what the government could provide to everyone. Think about private schools and tutors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:57 PM
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"ask the wheelchair guy advice how to walk?" "Ask the blind guy advice what colors would suit your apartment?" Right, makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:53 PM
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Let's not underestimate people here If a man is proudly saying lying to women is ok, he's not looking for advice or understanding, he's just trying to get an angry response from women. I mean, what was he expecting? "Oh that's great! Keep up the lying!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:49 PM
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Just memorize the answers she's not going to turn into a worm who tf cares
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:58 AM
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if it was a life or death situation people would just go to a prostitute but no they choose to be celibate instead
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:05 PM
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The whole purpose of two genders is to complement each other. are you new to the concept of homosexuality? Nope, it’s a biological need confirmed by neurobiological evidence. No, you don't die from lack of sex like you would without food or water or sleep. You surely die sooner if you experience stress and depression sure. But there's millions of people who don't have sex that don't experience stress and depression. There's no biological correlation between the 2 like there is when you lack slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:02 PM
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Yes absolutely why is everyone answering no!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:48 PM
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I assumed that's what this post is about, meeting a woman like on a date Now continuing to walk on eggshells with women you see everyday like coworkers seems like a socialization problem that needs to be addressed in therapy or something like that. It's terrible for women too, specially in the work place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:29 PM
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Using Chatgpt is a great way to learn. I'm not a native English speaker and I know sometimes I write like shit. Communication is more important than "fuck them most people don't speak english anyway"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:25 PM
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My point is, it doesn't matter what the circumstances are, the solutions are always the same. my dad used to tell me that cultivating relationships was the most important thing in life. I didn't believe him like most men don't believe me when I tell them the same. And now I'm older and I totally see what he meant. "but I'm nervous about going on a date/calling a guy I like" "you have to do it anyway, first move is the hardest then it gets easier" he was 100% right If I say this to people here I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:22 PM
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Like, do you think this makes me look fat? Or Would you love me if i was a worm? I saw this on social media (you probably did too since it's a trend) and to me it's so funny how some men struggle with this. "do you think this makes me look fat?" "no" "Would you love me if i was a worm" "yes" Done, see? easy. Are all men autistic? lol How is this an issue? It's so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:18 PM
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You know your friends, you know how they are going to react, you know where the limit is. You are not going to shit in the middle of the living room because you know even if that won't break the friendship it'll be weird and antisocial. Of course when you meet someone new you need to explore the limits carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:14 PM
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We all walk on eggshells I think, at least I do too. I mean, not eggshells because I'm confident in my social abilities when meeting someone new but I do take x3 times thinking about what I'm going to say. Yes, I like it when I notice someone does it too. It's the right thing to do when you are meeting someone new. Now if this continues after a couple of dates then no, it's awkward and gives social anxiety vibes. Yes, you definitely have to be yourself, and yes, that might mean less people like …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:08 PM
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Sometimes I see people complaining about posters using Chatgpt to redact better I don't agree with them. Chatgpt is a great tool to make posts coherent if you struggle with language, like english being second language or being drunk while posting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:58 PM
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Every young person thinks their problems are unique and special, that's part of what being young means. Some are unique obviously because technologies, change but the essence remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:42 PM
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older generations don't fully grasp just how much the game has changed idk, when I was a teenager I also used to scream at my parents YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND!!! but now that I'm older I know they did understand so much more that I gave them credit for. So many things they told me and I refused to acknowledge, now I see they were right and it'll happen to you too, not now but eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:13 PM
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But IRL what does that mean the return to traditional values? Because women aren't going to start returning to be sahm, there's nothing being implemented so that women don't go to work anymore and start having babies....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:11 PM
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why the personal attack I'm just saying it's not that mysterious and cool it's either men lying or men not engaging, that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:07 PM
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There's plenty of cheap prostitution but yeah, you can get the same for free
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:29 PM
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"secrets" lmao the secrets being engaging less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:27 PM
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"It's biology" no, it's not they'd buy it if it really was a biological need like we buy water and food
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:01 PM
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That's true. If it was just about the sex act then every unlucky man could go to a prostitute and solve the issue Culturally men are conditioned to value themselves through sex. It's not about the act but being able to seduce a woman to have sex with him. (Also it's not about her, she could be anyone) That's where they find validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:52 PM
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Tell that to your fellow pervert men who like that dynamic. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:26 PM
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Yes. And the interpretation of a behavior is not that. Why? Because to interpret an action you can't do it without the subjective lens of culture. Culture is by no means true to everyone. It's not like the freezing temperature of water that will be the same in Russia, Africa, the moon and America. This is not something I'm making up, it's the difference between hard sciences and soft sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:35 AM
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That's a different thing. Normal bluepill dating advice isn't sexist. There's no need to make it sexist. There's plenty of dating coaches that aren't sexist. TRP took that advice then added the misogyny to make it appealing to guys who already struggle understanding how society works and are already frustrated with women. Imagine how appealing that is to them! So of course sexist speech is forbidden, as it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:57 PM
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Talking about it isn't forbidden, it's literally all over women's magazines magazines and blogs. The problem is that if a woman says it, this 3% doesn't think it's valid thinking. Only when it comes from a "masculine man" with all sorts of misogyny condiments, only then they listen. This is basically my issue with trp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:49 PM
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Good thing misogyny isn't true then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:43 PM
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It's still subjective interpretation of actions. Social sciences are extremely biased because there's no way of measuring stuff without people's biases interfering.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:35 PM
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sure, just don't call it "objective truth" because that's not what "objective" really means
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:18 PM
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The purpose wouldn't be so that unsuccessful guys would have a chance, that probably wouldn't change. But who knows, I bet a portion of unsuccessful guys are like that for lack of socialization. If you grow up in community that problem is solved. The purpose is to feel less disconnected from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:16 PM
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I debate the hate speech I couldn't care less about men having sex or not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:49 PM
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That's great, but tell them the truth "this knowledge has been around for centuries" instead of telling them TRP is some sort of obscure knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:20 PM
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I imagine it must be really hard because the concept of possession is really ingrained in our culture. Capitalism is individualistic. I think we'd have to have several generations of poly behavior to really erase the need to poses stuff and people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:18 PM
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your personal view of women is misogynistic, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:16 PM
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Then by that logic any social science like psychology, psychoanalysis, all those are objective too See what I mean? you have the definition of "objective" wrong. Hard sciences are objective, soft sciences aren't. Any study of behavior of people doesn't fall under the hard sciences category where math and physics are. You guys are trying too hard to elevate trp like it's hard sciences because that would mean it's "true". But it just doesn't belong there. you even have the definition of blue pill …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:15 PM
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you are seriously asking why I'm not misogynistic too? great argument!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:08 PM
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in a poly society kids would be raised by the community, like mormons, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:36 PM
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I think there's a connection why is that economic freedom? because they thought of women as objects to possess, not equals to work side by side. Remove the whole idea of "owning" someone and monogamy also falls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:33 PM
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this is a reply to all the TRP men thinking TRP is some sort of novelty set of ideas, they think the world lied to them and TRP is the truth. It's kind of sad that they need a bald muscular podcaster to repeat the most basic dating advice because they weren't able to understand the world when they were supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:26 PM
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Learning about something "as much as you can" doesn't make it "objective" An objective truth is something measurable, like the temperature of the water or math. You can't apply that same logic to soft sciences like psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:28 PM
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nah that's lack of accountability for hate speech
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:17 PM
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It is objective truth, no, the study of human behavior is, in it's essence, social sciences, not objective truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:16 PM
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Everything you said can be found in any COSMOPOLITAN magazine from the 90s The real reason TRP is unpopular, that you somehow forgot to mention, is the constant narrative that women are shallow. You didn't mention hypergamy once. You didn't mention the lock and key analogy, you didn't mention the slut shaming, the monkey branch, the AFBB, the "women are expired goods after 30"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:09 PM
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I don't think Indian men are as 50/50 progressive. The guy was probably happy paying for her nails and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:08 PM
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Isn't that a provider dynamic? Highly cultural dependent? I'll never understand you guys. You spend so much time ranting about how the man is the provider, women are supposed to take care of kids, the man is the main earner, captain of the ship, submissive women, etc And then get all worked up when a man pays for her nails and food What did you think a provider was? She's being nice, I don't think this is rage bait. I think this is what people think in different cultures. The man being happy to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:05 PM
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Probably in their culture what makes a man a man is him being able to provide for his wife even if he's going through chemo. it's likely humiliating for him to not be able to provide anymore because of the chemo. She probably didn't even ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:59 PM
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it just won't be some average 30 something he met on a dating app. you said this And it seems that you are under the impression that there's no hot women on old and men won't be faithful to them So I told you the story of my friend who found a normal, no red flags, looksmatch woman around his age (+35) on old. I also told you my friend doesn't cheat. I think you are the one struggling with this. You are trying too hard to see all the incel theories come to life but that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:47 PM
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And I'm sure most of their "female friends" (which is from an attractive man's POV often a label for women who got friendzoned – good enough for a hook up, not good enough for a relationship) had now idea at that time... omg So you are saying that me, being a "female friend", from his POV I'm in the friendzone? Even if I'm better looking than him and I don't like him? what sort of twisted weird personal insult is this? Why else did you put that in there other that trying to make things personal?…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:59 PM
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Well I know better than you that's for sure. Another man proving OP's point no, not all men are cheaters that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:30 PM
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But people on old are normal people. That means there's some red flags but also normal pretty people. Men with options date pretty women from OLD. My friend started seeing a woman from old, she's pretty, she seems normal, they are fine, he's not cheating, she's +35. Why am I the only person who has normal male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:48 PM
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Are you proving OP's point? Because I have plenty of +35 male friends who have options and still have relationships and don't cheat on them. It's uncommon to see +35 guys trying to date 25 year olds, people date around their age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:23 PM
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Women don't generally paint other women in bad light though, it's not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:20 PM
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also if bad attitudes are something all men do then they are all poor victims of BiOlOGy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:19 PM
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That doesn't make sense 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:54 AM
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So people who wait until marriage aren't dating? What are they doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:11 AM
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Not necessarily, dating is not q contract that includes sex. So many people date for months without sex, some wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:06 AM
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Those contradict each other Either she's having sex with a fwb Or she's exclusive (meaning she's not having sex with anyone because she's dating the guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:41 AM
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Not having sex is the default, the normal treatment. Sex is a bonus. It's not suboptimal unless you think having sex is the default. Choose different words then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:40 AM
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Even if they wanted to have sex right away I wouldn't bc of the fwb situation I feel like you are trying to find a gotcha to the "but if she slept with Chad on a first date then she has to sleep with you on a first date too" but with a different scenario. In your scenario she's still fucking someone. In the common scenario discussed here "she slept with Chad..." She slept with Chad on a first date maybe years ago or last month or whatever. He's not around anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:24 AM
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Not having sex = suboptimal treatment This means you think men are entitled to sex find an honest problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:19 AM
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It's a hypothetical scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:14 AM
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I mean you are the one generalizing all women saying we have goldfish minds and then you expect women to treat you nicely?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:03 PM
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you bought up your cousin but because it's not really relevant to the argument people like me ignored that paragraph. It's not bad faith, it's just not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:02 PM
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"women" is plural if he had said "keep the woman entertained" then maybe also chat gpt agrees with me <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:55 PM
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I have broken up over this. They think they are safe because they say "me too" but I'm actually trying to get to know the guy. Agreeing on everything gets boring after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:52 PM
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100% I'm guilty of double texting too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:08 PM
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Can you keep the women entertained? Hold their goldfish-like attention? And the original comment is clearly A because it's a generalization to all women. your cousin where did that come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:08 PM
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you don't see how saying that women have goldfish-like attention is misogynistic? ok just take the hint, she's not that interested. That lack of attention span fades away for a guy she is actually attracted to. Don't do that extra effort I can guarantee it's a waste of time. Have some self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:22 PM
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Just to clarify to me having an normal conversation is not the same as "entertain her" In a conversation she's engaging too, you don't have to do an extra effort. When you "entertain her" it's more like "pick me! look I have this! look! I have muscles! look! I have a car! what do you think about incels? those are bad right???"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:14 PM
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The desperation part is keep trying even though the person is not engaging. Like double texting. From a (misogynistic) guy's perspective she's not engaging because she's dumb or something. But from her perspective you are not taking the hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:04 PM
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If you are actively trying to keep her entertained then she's not really attracted to you. When you are saying "goldfish like attention" I'm picturing a desperate guy trying anything to keep her attention. When actually if there's attraction she's going to be paying attention even if you are doing literally nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:53 PM
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This is true. In my country we save money in US dollars, not in local currency. Because despite $$ inflation it's always more stable than local money. In fact uf you want to buy a house you have to buy it with U$d. Nobody will take local money for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:04 PM
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no they are not there's a reason you have so many latin american immigrants, you are privileged first world. I say this as a latin american btw Americans are so wrapped inside your own media, you don't know what happens outside your borders. Most of Americans have never left America.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:01 PM
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As someone living in a third world country you are absolutely right. Birthrates declining in poor countries is a good thing. It means less teen pregnancies, less abandoned kids, less poor people living in terrible conditions. Less people the government has to support. Yes, feminism is growing here. Less and less women are looking for a trad man. But don't be fooled. An American/European guy will always be considered as a green card opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:57 PM
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Guess then it's better to wait until you are +30 to settle down to avoid creepy guys who will dump you becase you aged, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:38 PM
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what women expected to do about it? laugh at them 😂 Struggling men who say this do it out of spite. I agree youth is one of the top traits in beauty standards but normal people date around their age, no matter what that age is. It's not like you can stop aging. Besides if a guy likes ou because you are young that's a red flag. Better wait a bit and find someone who loves you for who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:36 PM
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There is no lack of men though Bold of you to assume that guys who marry young are the good guys. Most people who marry young end up divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:33 PM
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This is why I'm not conservative I don't see relationships as "If I do this then you have to do that" lol Ultimately this is a non issue because if you are a trad man and are not happy that the woman you are dating doesn't want to be a sahm or whatever, just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:25 PM
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The guys who come here don't come for advice. They usually post not some rage bait, misogynistic, insulting shit and get off by all the women getting angry. Just yesterday there was a post saying "men should objectify women" You should link all those posts you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:50 AM
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So, traditional men hate women who want to treat men in a traditional way? Hmmm sounds weird no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:57 AM
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It's a common viewpoint among conservative ("men are providers") cultures. Not progressive. Doesn't matter if they perceive themselves as feminist, christians, Buddhists, cats, doesn't matter. This is a 100% conservative ideology so many men support on this sub. 🤷‍♀️ You are all welcomed to more progressive ideas 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:46 AM
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Idk, comments don't prove anything anymore since there's million bots running around. Have you been on Twitter lately? There's posts that are made by bots with comments that are also made by bots. The internet is dead. But anyway, like I said before, take it to conservative people 🤷‍♀️ it's all part of their ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:10 AM
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Do you think there may be a genetic component to strict monogamy in humans If monogamy was in our genes then there wouldn't be so much cheating, open couples and poly people. People like different things and culture plays a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:43 PM
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take that to your conservative friends who love gender roles so much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:57 PM
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if a woman says she wants a provider then she's conservative, not progressive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:39 PM
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we are not talking about being sexist, that's a different thing we are talking about wanting a provider or a 50/50 relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:38 PM
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Depends if you live in a more conservative culture or progressive culture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:27 PM
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that's what I thought, he's probably an employee but someone saw the opportunity to make a rage bait post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:04 PM
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"but how come women are pro abortions but then there's women who are pro life!! women are such hypocrites!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:02 PM
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Yeah conservative culture ("man is the provider") works on the basis of objectifying men. Men should definitely stand up to those ideas if they don't like them. That's why I'm more comfortable with 50/50 relationships Also clickbait title and rage bait post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:52 PM
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Nah it's more likely that that fear comes from conservative thinking and homophobia If you are 100% straight, 100% confident and comfortable in your own skin you wouldn't be triggered by sometime saying that sexuality is a spectrum lol You could just say "yeah maybe" and leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:55 AM
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They aren't. There's whole countries filled with short people dating each other. Almost nobody is 6ft in my country. Women just select "taller than me".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:45 AM
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I'm just fascinated how some of people get really triggered by the idea that their might be % gay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:40 AM
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What it is then? The alternative to a spectrum is saying sexuality is black or white It's insane to think your can define sexuality in a binary way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:38 PM
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Too much porn man, honestly. That's literally the plot of every porn movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:27 PM
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What are you so worried about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:26 PM
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the day we remove that stigma is when we'll be able to know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:24 PM
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fully straight? probably very low I believe men and women's sexuality is a spectrum, the difference is women are more able to explore it. "gay" is still used as an insult, so guys who are 20% gay will never act on it (they'd never try watching a gay porno bc they are scared of admiting they are 20% gay)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:11 PM
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nah sexuality is a spectrum whether you like it or not Society doesn't let men explore that spectrum though, like a man would never casually watch gay porn bc he might be scared of liking it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:07 PM
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oh so that's why you didn't come to our weekly Hivemind meeting, you missed the cupcakes!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:05 PM
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You think all women act the same around sex lololol 😂😂😂😂 right Keep calling yourself reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:16 PM
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So you compare sexual interest from many women and you call that reasonable? What if one is shy and the other isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:55 AM
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They can lower their standards Makes much more sense than asking women to lower theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:04 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:41 PM
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No, it's based of what men talk here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:41 PM
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Well then maybe men should start campaigning to include women in the military service, if that's what they want no?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:17 PM
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Yeah that's shit talk about women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:14 PM
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Because ranting about women bc you are frustrated bc you are single kind of makes sense. I'm willing to bet most incels would become bluepill if they found a nice woman that loves them A guy who is married to a woman and then goes online to talk shit about women is just hating women for the joy of it. Its a massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:09 PM
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That's even worst lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:00 PM
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They think their standards are fine. They think their looksmatch is hot Stacy from Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:57 PM
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The ok cupid is clear 💅 men shoot above their league. Pill guys just don't like reading the whole post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:51 PM
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Of course. There's a reason why they are considered creepy. 60 year olds aren't whining online because people think they are creeps for dating a 50 year old obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:48 PM
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And what about men, what do men think?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:44 PM
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Can you share those polls? I want to see what men think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:14 PM
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sure, some do but it's definitely less than men by a lot. And that hate almost never turns into real life violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:11 PM
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Sure, probably some post their frustrations online too. But in the end women are more likely to be ok single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:42 PM
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A man who dates women younger than him is perfectly fine (as long as it's not creepy like a 10 year difference) A man who spends time writing online about how horrible single mothers, old women, slut women are and then complains that no woman is into him deserves mockery lol But at that point I think the men writing all sorts of crazy misogynistic stuff online either like it when women attack him or are too autistic to realize why saying "old women are used up goods" might offend people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:41 PM
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Of course, the difference is a woman with too high standards will stay single and maybe pick up some hobbies or whatever Men with too high standards will turn into misogynistic online rants like the world should accommodate to his preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:34 PM
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It's so weird to me that men who struggle think it's an actual solution to argue until women, all collectively, lower their standards. It's a perfect excuse to not actually try anything like joining activities or going to the gym. Also who gets to say they are high? Maybe guys are shooting above their league, like the Ok cupid blogpost suggests Site-wide, two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of women. So basically, guys are fighting each other 2-for-1 for the absolute best-ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:30 PM
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I always think how fucking creepy it is when men here say they are proud they don't care about a woman's intelligence, competence, interests and hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:15 PM
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oh you know ONE dude ok that solves it ONE guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:13 PM
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well nobody cares what you think lol the world keeps moving
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:12 PM
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This is what I was thinking too Why is it always men the default? Maybe men should behave like women. Imagine, we'd live in a world of lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:11 PM
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It's men complaining they can't get laid, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:06 PM
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Muscles are fine, the problem is body fat. Too low body fat looks just skinny when he's not working out. Higher body fat makes the body look better, it's like a nice wrapping. No muscles and fat looks better than skinny muscles. IMO. or she can’t measure up in discipline/lifestyle. it's more that difference in values. My experience with gym bros is that they spend A LOT of time looking at themselves in the mirror, they have undiagnosed EDs, or think they are superior because they exercise. I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:05 PM
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nup. There's no such thing as autistic/nervous/anxious ladies man, no matter how hot he is. ladies man is being hot and having social skills Have you ever been courted by a ladies man? I bet you don't know what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:32 PM
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maybe we're really not that far apart that's my point, we are not that far apart. We get together with my male friends and the dynamic is exactly the same as my female groups. We all share, vent whatever happened during the week. Sometimes we offer solutions, sometimes we don't. Welcome to the sub! This sub is just for entertainment purposes. The guys here aren't looking for advice, they want to argue with women because they are frustrated, they want to vent about their dating grievances. The wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:26 PM
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you keep talking about yourself, this isn't about you specifically. Can't you understand that other people need to vent? like people on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:23 PM
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This isn't circular. Venting sometimes serves the purpose of bonding. Period. Take a look at this sub. It's basically men venting about their problems. Not women. Men who explicitly stated so many times they don't want advice. Why does "black pill" "red pill" exist? it's men tagging themselves to bond with other men over dating difficulties. So why are you even here if you think venting makes everything worst?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:18 PM
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I mean, this whole sub is men venting about their problems. They stated clearly many times that they don't want advice (specially advice coming from women) they just want to vent. And yet they keep asking questions, arguing, opening up about their problems, etc I bet they also vent to Chatgpt lol a bot that clearly is unable to solve anything. And then act all confused on this thread about how venting is pointless, doesn't solve anything 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:13 PM
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Because, like I explained before, usually venting is for bonding, not for solving problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:06 PM
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Sure... to some extent. Women, because they are not as strong as men, were always on the bottom of this hierarchy. So you'll never know how horny women are because their sexuality was always repressed by men (church men for example, her husband, her family, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:05 PM
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that referenced the anxious/avoidant attachment relationships where you fight then you have hot make up sex. Has nothing to do with everyday troubles and those toxic types of relationships aren't gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:48 PM
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because life isn't all rainbows and laughter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:46 PM
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it's like if you deal with someone who has a phobia just telling them "it's easy! just kil the spider with your shoe!" "just take the plane, it's easy, it won't crash"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:37 PM
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what's funny is that his problem can also be solved in less than 5 minutes by just asking "do you need me to solver or listen?" lol The problem is this person not being able to separate from their partner's problems, like they need to be micromanaged or they think they are superior or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:23 PM
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This is why women score higher in emotional intelligence. Venting is healthy. It's about creating bonds or strengthening bonds rather than actual problem solving. Like when it's very hot and you have small talk with your neighbors "oh it's so hot today!". You are not finding solutions, you are just bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:21 PM
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It's not difficult if you are able to perceive your role. You can even ask "do you need help or do you need me to listen to you?" now getting frustrated because you think you could solve your partners troubles better than her, that's not her problem, that's yours Your gf could tell you what you tell her because you can solve it by just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:16 PM
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Do you know why? Because testosterone also gives physical strength. Sex drive is strong but they also never had anyone stopping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:49 PM
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38, south america there are childfree women but that's not his only standard, she also has to be pretty and who knows what else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:43 PM
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men and women have equal amounts of self control
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:27 PM
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I mean, everyone with some knowledge of biology or anyone who is willing to do a quick google search is an exhibit A. But that's precisely because they are not adapted to higher quantities of it. And that's why they don't experience a strong, more frequent sex drive that male bodies do. But that's not how biology works. It's clear men are hornier but the reason isn't as simple as "men have more testosterone". There's plenty of social/cultural factors as well. For example women have always been d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:24 PM
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Men remarrying more or being “open to dating” sooner does not prove they emotionally recover faster. which is even worst, that's emotional cheating. They start dating while thinking of their ex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:33 PM
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sure but there's average healthy men who aren't as horny as some average healthy women. Not every dead bedroom situation is the man wanting more sex than women. I'm not saying men aren't hornier than women. I'm saying testosterone isn't the one and only factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:07 PM
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Acshually, acording to ChatGPT, while testosterone plays a role in sexual desire, it’s only one factor among many. It's not as simple as "lower testosterore = lower desire" because female receptors are way more sensitive than men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:04 PM
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The probation period when you start a job is usually 3 to 6 months, legally. After that period your boss knows you well enough to decide if you can stay or not. Work relationships are way more superficial, so I imagine it's at least 6 months of being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:36 PM
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It's a blurred line I think If someone keeps dating and dating multiple people, and nobody seems to be enough then I think it's time to self evaluate those standards. My male friend was complaining he never got any matches, even paying for OLD. So his therapist told him that maybe exclusively looking for women with no kids at that age left him with an extremely narrow dating pool. Now he has matches! But if you are fine with having 1 date per year then I wouldn't say those are too high standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:23 PM
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someone reasonable who has experienced love and limerence Love means, in simple words, apreciating different aspects of a person. Their looks, their personality, how they act in difficult situations, what they like/don't like. After 1 or 2 weeks you can't possibly learn that much of a person. So what usually happens is that we fill in the blanks. Limerence is exactly that. Filling in the blanks of all the stuff you still don't know about a person. You love the person and you love all the stuff y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:17 PM
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Do it when it's real, if she doesn't correspond then you weren't meant to be. After one week or 2 of dating it's not love what you are feeling, it's limerence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:46 PM
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WRITE YOUR DAMN BIOS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD I can't like someone from pics alone, you have to realize all guys tend to look the same. You need to stand out. Either by writing a bio, an interesting pic of a place you visited, your political opinions, music, whatever. Something that shows personality. PLEASE
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:42 PM
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I think a better way to frame it is "don't lovebomb unless it comes natural and that's how you like a relationship to be" While I completely agree with you I also noticed some women like that kind of treatment. And to some guys it's natural, they are happy telling the woman that they are beautiful 0.5 s after meeting them. And I also have a friend who is sad because the girl he's starting to see doesn't like texting as much as he does. My advice to him is to continue texting like he always does.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:37 PM
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"you" as in "general you", not you personally, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:32 PM
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Online people's opinion doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is your partner's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:31 PM
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they still live in a community, they vote, they use public transport, water, gas, call the police if something happens etc etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:52 PM
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In my experience women do diets and eat healthy while men don't. In general. Maybe there's some guy who eats eggs because he goes to the gym, but that's not very common. Also women cook more than men. Men usually order food which tends to be less healthy, more greasy Aren't energy drinks pretty popular between men to the point where it's a meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:47 PM
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Because according to OP, he'll one day want to date a woman and chances are she might be obese I kid you now this is the reason why he's so concerned about weight 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:44 PM
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so everyone has to go on a diet to cater to your preferences LOL just pick someone from the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:39 PM
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still we do things collectively there's no way around this sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:13 PM
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at least you can hide your penis and not talk about it. You can't hide your skin color, your size, your height. People are murdered for being gay or trans. Nobody will bully you while walking down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:04 PM
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You are the one struggling with an extremely basic concept "humans are social creatures" Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:49 PM
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No it's not, you still have food stamps, ramps, special needs schools, tax benefits, goodwill, nursing homes, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:48 PM
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It's not easily supplanted. There's a loneliness crisis provoked by the illusion that screens are enough. People wouldn't feel shitty is screens were enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:46 PM
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Are you new to the concept of hospitals? You don't see dead bodies laying around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:44 PM
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We still go to war together, we bring back the injured, we don't even leave dead bodies behind. Etc. Even jails are communal . Modern punishment is leaving prisoners in complete isolation. The fact that humans are social creatures is undeniable fact, Google it if you don't believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:43 PM
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Doesn't matter, we, as a society, created a system where none gets left behind. Still even the poorest countries in the world fight to be able to assist the disadvantaged. It's not in our nature to leave people behind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:39 PM
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Human communication is words but it's also tone of voice, gestures, touch. Having an online friend, is like having a partner without physical intimacy. And if you get too used to only having online friends then it'll be impossible for you to get a partner. You can't have an online partner, such think she's not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:36 PM
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It's not better, it's a quick dopamine fix, a bandaid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:59 AM
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That's the problem. Social media creates the illusion of socialization, but it's not the same as the real thing. People still socialize outside the internet btw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:58 AM
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They are still taken care by other people. Every government around the world has some kind of assistance for disabled and disadvantaged people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:57 AM
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So what? You are still a human that's programmed to socialize. If you really didn't need to socialize, you would just do that, instead of complaining about it online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:29 AM
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No that's not normal human behavior. Humans don't leave their sick and weak behind. You guys need to decide, does biology matter or not? Does it matter only when it's convenient?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:27 AM
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I mean you could say that about any topic. People fatshame, people are homophobes, racists, etc Online people's opinion doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is your partner's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:24 AM
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How many times do you need this topic to be posted and have women express their different preferences? A thousand? A million? No amount of rational conversation will convince you guys women are not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:22 AM
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We are social creatures, there's no escape
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:19 AM
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We are biologically programmed to be social creatures You guys love explaining everything with biology! Why skip this key aspect of human nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:18 AM
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Someone linked a study under the automod that says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:12 AM
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Why can't online men understand that some women like X and some women like Y??? Also pretty sure most sold sex toys aren't big
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:59 AM
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I learned a trick to avoid this. If someone isn't moving like they are supposed to, you stare straight to the front and a little to the right, but not make eye contact with the person you are crossing. Just keep walking with your head up. If they don't move then you intentionally bump them "oh I'm so sorry didn't see you!" But 90% of the times they will move. This isn't gendered although it's usually men who don't move and I've had guys catcall whisper to my ear eww
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:55 PM
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Like 5% Very very low I wasn't expecting you people to understand anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:42 PM
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I think you are doing a lot of mental gymnastics lol but I don't think that if you saw another guy who looked very, very similar to him but with whom you did not share those experiences, you would think he were attractive. that's exactly my point. Good sex is key for attraction to grow. I wouldn't be as attracted to an asshole that looked the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:10 PM
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There is some initial attraction, it's not like there's none.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:02 PM
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a lot of women's claim that attraction can grow as you get to know each other which is technically true, but they're not referring to physical attraction. This happened to me many times to the point where I got obsessed with some guys looks that I didn't initially liked. The key is good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:48 PM
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but no woman commits to a guy she finds ugly or meh. This isn't 1950.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:34 PM
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You are not taking into account all the sleeping around happening in jobs where people rotate (get hired/get fired/leave) a lot like bars and kitchens
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:46 AM
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my personal theory is that it's a combination between lack of socialization and the risk of some embarrassing situation ending up on social media for all to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:18 AM
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I don’t think heterosexual women are disgusted by dick pics. I'm disgusted by them. In general I don't find a still dick arousing. It's very meh to me. I like to see dick in action like in porn. Or sexy pics without showing dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:22 PM
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even if he declares that he's representative of the average man, that doesn't mean he is. Men are not a monolith. Some like X, some like Y.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:14 PM
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why? he's proving that some men like X some men like Y. Proving that men's sexuality isn't as simple as people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:16 PM
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I don't think men's sexuality is less complex than women's. I think we internalized men's way of thinking as default, that's why we think it's simple. Anyone who's ever been in a LTR knows men aren't just about any vagina pic lol. Different men have widely different preferences. PPD men say that idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:15 PM
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what is this random screen of an excel lol lazy redditor I could disprove it by writing random numbers and taking a screenshot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:06 PM
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that's what TRP says, not me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:20 PM
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that's a really small minority probably less cases than murder and violence against women (and against the law)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:19 PM
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there used to be a commonly held belief not too long ago that these minorities were biologically less intelligent than their male and white counterparts. men here still believe this Whenever wage gap, stems and "most CIOs are men", men's answer is "women are dumb" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:17 PM
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honestly same that guy with a more decent bio is a swipe and a date for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:04 PM
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No pun intended but someone did right this and I think its a decent analogy: “If the fish aren't biting, is it the fault of the fish or the fisherman?” ✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:59 PM
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same here I need the pubic bone to do stuff to me, the exact opposite of a porno
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:27 PM
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OP how many times will you be told you are wrong by experienced women before you start considering maybe you are wrong 😂😂😂 50? 100? All your answers are copy/paste Also it's very convenient to think like this, no? "it's not that I wasn't able to listen to her needs, no, as it turns out she was never attracted to me in the first place" (even though we dated for a few months)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:23 PM
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ahhhh I see, you are right I thought he meant "bad women" as in "bad boy"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:13 PM
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It's often the case where this claims are made by very young men who don't understand the concept of maturity and haven't experienced mature relationships (or maybe relationships at all) When you are 20 you fuck like rabbits because of hormones. When you are 35 those hormones aren't as present. So it doesn't matter if Chad comes along, you are not going to fuck like you did when you were 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:12 PM
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That's not how it works. I've had vaginosis for a long time. I was horny I was in love, we could do other sex things with no problem like oral, but penetration didn't work 🤷‍♀️ Same thing happens with guys who suffer from ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:07 PM
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As someone who suffered from vaginosis no, you have no clue about women's sexuality. It's the equivalent to a guy with ED. He's aroused and attracted but the sex organs aren't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:05 PM
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No. Good sex can make you more attracted or less attracted after initial attraction this is why people date, to see if which aspects of life you are compatible and which you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:04 PM
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that's false just blackpill nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:02 PM
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Literally nobody says that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:27 PM
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Nobody says that what are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:27 PM
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ACKSHUALLY what a reddit moment Nobody cares about your obscure definition lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:18 PM
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Nice rage bait No, the only evil people is the men committing those crimes We don't judge and put in jail the people surrounding the criminals, we only punish the people actually doing the bad actions PPD is one of the few places where you guys need to be explained like you are toddlers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:12 PM
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You mean PPD men logic It's PPD men who talk about women as damaged goods and used up goods
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:10 PM
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😂😂😂😂 I actually live in one 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:49 PM
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If any guy slept with any hotter person before settling with someone uglier then it checks out, sorry Look, I think afbb is so stupid and immature but what makes less sense of it all is thinking it isn't projection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:32 PM
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Colonialism had nothing to do with human rights. Don't worry I don't expect first world people to understand how hierarchies of power work. It's part of being privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:30 PM
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Oh really? Did my country became rich like Switzerland? That's awesome! No more corruption and inflation, no more foreign debt. This is great news!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:27 PM
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You need to get out more, plenty of average men have casual sex regularly Just yesterday a balding 5'8" 40 year old guy asked me to have sex with him after our 5th message on old. I declined. It's clear that this works sometimes, otherwise he wouldn't have been surprised when I said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:23 PM
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So if a guy had sex with a 9/10 but didn't get to marry her, and ends up marrying a 7/10 then it's literally afbb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:20 PM
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Exactly we all try to get it with people that are hot or offer other qualities. Men here portray women as calculative manipulators like there's a 20 y/o woman telling her friends "I'll wait to hit on John 10 years from now". Nobody does that, men or women. People just sleep with whoever that they'll find attractive at the time. Some relationships end in ltr, some end in fwb, failed relationships etc. Also men too look to settle down and start a family, as much as women. Women look for short term…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:16 PM
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😂😂😂 You realize we don't like it over here either (some, others do admire whatever the USA does because it's convenient), it's like telling a slave "hey! you should escape and be rich on your own!" thanks first world man for your advice! we'll keep that in mind LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:25 PM
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First world sets trends, then third world follows with their own local movements, that's how the world works whether you like it or not. And I say this from a third world country where I see it every day. What Trump says affects us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:17 PM
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How about south America and Africa? All that first world power can be used to influence people for good on those continents The middle east is more difficult since America is in constant war, idk, that's more difficult but not impossible eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:05 PM
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I know, it doesn't benefit anyone It's not a personal attack to men, to masculinity, it's about a power structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:59 PM
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Third world countries look up to first world countries. I live in a third world country and if Trump decided that abortions aren't legal anymore then that affects us. We'll probably change our laws to that. That's how power structures work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:57 PM
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I have no idea what masculinism is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:53 PM
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Continue to do what feminism has been doing for decades/centuries. Things are better for western women now thanks to all the hard work. We still need to continue to preach feminism until it reaches the most disadvantaged women in the world. That means keep explaining what privilege is, how value systems are created, what are gender roles, etc etc. Keep demanding laws that give all women a fair chance in the workplace, etc It's expected that some people don't like it, that's how social movements …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:30 PM
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You mean how women couldn't go to university to get a nice job so the only way of getting a decent life was marrying a guy with money/education?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:20 PM
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your friend sounds insecure (also kind of an asshole because of all the mansplaining) My mom made more money than my father and that pissed my father off. My sister makes more money than my BIL but he seems fine with it (they are travelling now in fancy hotels)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:18 PM
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All of that is what feminism is trying to change, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:51 PM
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Just yesterday I matched with a guy. After 6 lines of chat of him asking me to take a pic (I said no), he asked me to go have sex with. I politely declined. You guys think the old experience for women is handsome chads taking them to dinner, it's not. 90% is guys who can't hold a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:49 PM
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But that's the point I read so many women aren't on old because it's overwhelming. Too many thirsty guys. Too many options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:45 PM
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My therapist told me he had laser hair removal because he felt self conscious about his hairy back and shoulders If you feel like you have too much hair maybe you can remove it in areas that don't appeal to most people like back, neck, shoulders, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:35 PM
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I'm talking about giving it a few more dates, not marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:31 PM
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💡 hey! This could work Sexy Duolingo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:30 PM
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Society still places most value on men only Yes, we call this the patriarchy, this is why feminism exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:28 PM
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Right wingers usually accuse the left of being communists. This is a made up thing. Feminism doesn't want to abolish capitalism, only cares about women's rights inside the system we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:21 PM
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This post is about how privileged women are to be able to do online sex work. You can be an online sex worker without having real life sex. I know at least 2 women that do this. What's the excuse for men not to do it, given that gay men also pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:13 PM
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And what are the excuses to not do it through OF pages? Let's hear them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:08 PM
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Prostitution has little to do with your sexuality. Female prostitutes aren't attracted to clients, they make you believe they are, but that's just for show that, as you are confirming, many men believe. They absolutely could make money because the audience is the same: men Oh so now you think it's hard work to sleep with someone you are not attracted to? How about that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:19 PM
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Where did you see that? On a reality show? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:41 PM
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I see you don't know what's going on in gay spaces. Men can absolutely get easy sex on Grindr too a million times easier. They don't even need to look decent. Gay guys have it a million times easier than hetero guys and gay guys also pay for sex. It's just that hetero men don't want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:39 PM
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Ops degrading women kink
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:21 PM
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They are not less likely to post for it, they are men, they pay for sex, there's no difference from hetero
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:21 PM
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Men can do this too you know Men pay por porn. Don't underestimate the gay porn industry. There's plenty of men with kinks that will pay for whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:19 PM
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The gay porn industry is huge. Men can prostitute themselves too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:16 PM
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...as much as men. Anyone can have a yt channel or a streaming channel. Making money out of it is way more difficult, like top comment says only a small 0.1 if the creators make the majority of the money Also men can do porn too, the gay industry has a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:14 PM
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money This is only an issue if a man is dating too below their income. Most people meet within their social class, like coworkers. I feel like men here repeat "money" without really considering what actually happens in real couples, where they both usually have similar incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:11 PM
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Unpopular opinion: I think it's ok to review our own standards. I ended up obsessed with guys I initially didn't feel any spark. Sometimes you need to give it a bit of time. However, it's not ok to demand others to lower their standards, which is something men around here do all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:20 PM
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while saying that movie actresses are "mid"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:39 PM
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theater classes are mixed and everyone is horny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:56 PM
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Join any activitiy. I'm around your age and I've madea new batch of like 10 friends some of which I go on vacation with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:05 PM
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What do you mean "women misinterpret their libido?" You have to interpret your partner's libido and decide if you are compatible. That's it Yes, women have enthusiastic sex all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:58 PM
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Then divorce 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:43 PM
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If you are feeling that your are being settled for, then leave that relationship This is such a made up problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:31 PM
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but if men here are honest about that "I just want to feel pretty" then they can't blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:16 PM
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Men don’t like being called husband material because they don’t want to be a husband. They want to be a hook up. That’s it. Stop lying to women with all this bullshit. no, they need to turn it around to blame women somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:14 PM
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this sounds like a made up problem lol you are free to divorce a woman because she doesn't want to do oral anymore find an honest problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:11 PM
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you are free to not wife someone just because she doesn't want to do oral. you do you 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:12 PM
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you guys love justifying everything with biology no? Humans repeat whatever produces dopamine in their brains. If she liked oral before, she'll do it again. If she did it because she was a pick me or whatever then she's not going to repeat it. Seems more of a trust issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:31 PM
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This take is extremely selfish If she liked the sex act in the past she's going to repeat it in an LTR If she didn't like the sex act, why would you want to be the one causing that pain discomfort?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:33 PM
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If you were to compare the trends of "best looking" vs "best sex" vs "most sexually attracted to" of my partner history, it wouldn't be the direct correlation men map it as. The best looking isn't the best sex; the most sexually attracted to isn't the best looking 👏👏👏👏 yes, absolutely this and they will argue like bots about this like I don't know my own life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:28 PM
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I know 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:22 PM
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She's right. If you think her post is misandrist then you are confirming the whole red pill is misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:20 PM
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Lilith's post I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:17 PM
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Saying men have high standards is misandrist? Confirming then that the whole "women are after 20% of men" is actually misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:11 PM
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Ah so this Fb group is universal, it contains all men that cheat, all over the world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:03 PM
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For some maybe including me, it's a frustration outlet. Kind of like arguing with chat gpt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:27 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:49 PM
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Don't make things personal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:57 PM
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Change learning to live with accepting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:45 AM
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People learn to live after the death of a child, loss of limbs, all sorts of trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:15 AM
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So, those charismatic guys can get into relationships where they get validation from love and validation from sex I will never understand why is that such a problem like you've never met happy average people in happy healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:22 PM
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Best partner overall Best sex feels empty after a while
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:35 PM
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I'm not sure I follow. I usually ask questions. "what's your favorite movie?" "star wars, LOTR, etc" (silence) sure I could comment on those movies or just tell them "oh mine is X" and the conversations flows fine but I find it so strange never to be asked "what's yours?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:30 PM
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There's something strange about conversations I noticed. I usually ask questions, and the guys gladly answer, bring up topics, ask me out etc. But they never ask me any questions. Maybe they think they are going through hoops idk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:19 PM
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Do men not ask questions anymore? This is what I find most weird. Men used to ask questions "how many siblings do you have?" "what music do you like?" Sure, I can follow a conversation with no questions but I find it so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:01 PM
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Personality is what food she likes, what pets she likes, how she reacts when she's happy, what hobbies she has, what are her goals in life if you say you are looking for someone who is "pleasant" is like saying you like someone who breathes air
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:53 PM
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I've been here long enough to know what "personality traits" men here like about women. Not caring about a woman's interests is a massive red flag but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:29 PM
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"respectful", "kind", "foster peace, and not drama" you see how all those "personality traits" smell like "a woman that stays in her place" no? What a person chooses as a career, job, her interests, her hobbies, her way of acting, those are real personality traits that normal people care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:27 PM
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There was no number given how many massages it actually was, it could be like 100 massages on the full site or 100.000.000 Of course, because it wasn't a real study It was a blogpost lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:03 PM
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Everyone wants someone pleasant to be around duh. "I want someone that loves me" "Peaceful" and "friendly" sound like "agreeable"and "submissive". While those are personality traits they also mean "someone that doesn't show a lot of personality" Yes hobbies are definitely a part of someone's personality. Definitely doesn't belong to the looks category
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:37 PM
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Well, yes, because they identify as men they are men, the transphobic rage bait didn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:17 PM
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Even a woman in a coma? Lesbians? Trans women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:15 PM
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Just don't call it a study, call it what it is which is a blogpost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:10 PM
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Men here aren't representative of all men don't worry op. Many hate women, and a way of showing that hate is by claiming that the only thing they care about is looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:09 PM
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Hobbies, career, ambition, being reckless with money, are all personality traits Men in this post are somehow proud that they don't care about those things and only care about looks 🤷‍♀️ That's not something to be proud btw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:05 PM
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The point is men admitting they don't care about the person
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:56 AM
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Have you seen it? It's literally on a blog It even says women will message men even if they don't initially find them attractive on pics But that's the part red pillers choose to ignore and label all women as shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:41 AM
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The okcupid "study" was a blog post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:37 PM
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You guys treat any blog post, poll, TikTok as hard sciences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:25 PM
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Lmao So what you want is to say you don't like certain people You don't want to have freedom to have standards Maybe reevaluate why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:15 PM
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Live your life and date exactly precisely who you want, someone who fits your 100000 standards, literally people will be happy for you Stop being sensitive about what others think online
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:56 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:40 PM
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Answering to the comment posted there: When I said I don't want to date an obese woman because I am fit and don't find obesity attractive I got labeled an incel, received DMed death threats and doxxed. When I said I tried to go on a date with an obese woman then I was branded as a loser, freak, desperate and again an incel somehow. It's not men being desperate, it is men being told they're bad no matter what. Then stop announcing to everyone that you don't like certain people. If you say this st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:38 PM
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Men are called losers when they don't have access to sex, that could be through a relationships or casual sex (playboy) The reason is a mix between being horny and competitive. Not in the way women were pressured in the past (like The Nanny).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:28 PM
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yeah and that's ignoring consent and it's awful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:09 PM
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there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by her Not acting resentful after rejection and be able to continue searching for someone who actually likes you back is absolutely truth, that is how you get a woman Now continuing to pursue a woman after she said no, best case scenario won't probably lead to a good relationship, worst case scenario you are a creepy stalker lol tiktok smells like rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:53 PM
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Basically this sub "how come women say they are pro choice but then there's women who are pro life! women are hypocrites!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:44 PM
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That's their problem, not yours You are supposed to use your critical thinking skills and be able to know that none can be a spokesman for an entire gender Couple this is observing women (especially the type of women you're interested in), and you'll start to find patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:42 PM
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Yes I do. A simple example. I went on vacation with 2 guys that usually spend a lot of time pointing at women and talking about their bodies. I had to explain to them that what they think is sneaky, it actually isn't. We are friends, I love them they love me. How am I supposed to feel comfortable around them sharing an apartment when they are sexualizing every woman they see? I'm not the thought police, taking a peak, chatting about it is fine. The problem are the obvious looks and little laughs…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:38 PM
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Cognitive therapy is great, absolutely great for this type of issue. I wasn't able to even open OLD and create a profile, now I have conversations and I even had a couple of dates. Baby steps. Thanks for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:36 AM
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I couldn't care less
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:17 AM
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6 years because I have anxiety and if someone is interested in me I run away 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:40 AM
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prepare for what? that doesn't make sense. The whole point of considering everything grey is precisely being prepared for things to not be black or white. The point is avoiding feelings like "women lied to me!" no they didn't. Some are 80% and some are 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:26 PM
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am self aware that with 100% certainty I cannot detect a bad man from good with any accuracy whatsoever. in other words you are saying you have 0% ability to detect a bad man that is not true Everyone, even toddlers, dogs, cats, men, women, can detect if someone is a bad person. At least by 1%. Extremes don't exist in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:14 PM
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Every shade of grey. Until it is the outcome is either black, or white. No, some things are just grey. 50%, 30%, 80% black, are all grey. In practical terms "women say they can detect a bad man" that's a black or white statement and it's false. Some women can detect a bad man with 80% accuracy, some with 50% accuracy, some 99% accuracy. They are all grey, they are all true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:00 PM
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I have no idea who those guys are Sure you can define what's black and what's white, that doesn't mean reality fits into black and white boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:47 PM
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If this was true we wouldn't have most CIOs, presidents and in general rich people all men We wouldn't have so many countries treating women like slaves no prominent politician would say, let alone advocate, anything pro-male like what? maybe the pro-male laws men's rights want are impossible to apply, like mandatory paternity testing. If you are doing politics in a country where there's more urgent needs like hospitals, education and kids starving kids, maybe spending a bunch of money on patern…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:40 PM
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Yes usually this sub is very binary. Either they can or they can't. Your basketball example shows it's a spectrum. Most things in life aren't black or white.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:19 PM
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save it right next to all the "Jennifer Aniston is mid" "Scarlett Johansson is mid" "Sydney Sweeney is mid" and "Zendaya is mid" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:15 PM
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but men don't use make up beautiful no make up women compete with make up women, which is higher status
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:08 PM
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the other day I saw a reel saying that wanting a woman that looks good with no make up is the highest possible standard someone can have lol Make up exists to accentuate and disguise features that aren't perfect They want a woman with genetic superiority 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:45 PM
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but, according to OP, this woman was complaining that she didn't like anyone she's not complaining that she's not liked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:43 PM
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sure, maybe he's a nazi who doesn't express it moral of the story is never trust men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:39 PM
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you got lost
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:02 PM
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Yes obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:05 PM
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nobody is talking about you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:33 AM
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lmao imagine being so oblivious how your own gender works yes, cleavage and slutty clothes brings men's attention SHOCKING I KNOW
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:59 AM
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I can't because it breaks PPD rules But next time better say "more money" instead of "superior status" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:58 AM
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all media, people on ig with a bunch of filters, news shows presenters with a ton of make up and lights, actors on series, movies are you just realizing everyone is hot? you thought movies/series directors just take random people from the street? On every casting there's camera testing. Not everyone looks good on camera, most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:56 AM
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Idk if you ever tried taking pictures or filming people. Average people don't look good on camera. The "mid" people you see on screen already have something that's photogenic. The problem with social media and movies is that people think "mid" people on screen look the same as "mid" people on the street. They absolutely don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:52 AM
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where they are of a higher social status get to date men who are exotic looking and in many cases taller, richer and of a higher social status than the local men in their environment. this is so racist so absolutely racist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:04 PM
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yes, in the media we are surrounded by hot women all day every day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:00 PM
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omg 😂😂😂😂 so that means hot women don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:59 PM
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oh dear lord it won't hurt to READ jfc They were talking about complains in general AND I added all the dating complains on that list my god lazy redditors
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:58 PM
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They are doing it for beauty standards that we all hold. If woman A with short skirt, heels and cleavage get's more male attention than woman B who is wearing oversized shirt and jeans. Guess what type of outfit women who want male attention are going to choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:56 PM
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read again they asked me if my male friends complain irl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:11 PM
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and you keep proving my theory that it's mid men who think they are hotter than they actually are imagine thinking your looksmatch is Monica or Robin Scherbatsky 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:09 PM
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Jennifer Aniston is mid the more I talk about women here the more I realize the whole "women have high standards" is just projection think about it you probably think you are mid or average no? That means you think your looksmatch is Jennifer Aniston 😂😂😂😂 But Jennifer Aniston is with guys like Brad Pitt who is a total Chad But to you, she's mid, so technically she's a mid woman who is reaching up 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:07 PM
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Of course, I complain about all that stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:46 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:45 PM
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found the swiftie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:14 PM
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And no there is no structural answer to fix men not getting sex. And this is the reason lonely men feel that they are not listened. Because there's no solution I'll frame this, thanks. That's all I needed edit to add: yes, my friends complain about not getting dates all the time They just don't blame it an all women, that's crazy terminally online talk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:08 PM
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but they do complain, we talk about dating all the time. My friend was so tired of never getting any match, he paid for OLD for a while, he goes on dates, never had a gf, etc he doesn't complain that all women are after 20% of chads, that's men who are terminally online. We wouldn't be friends if he had that type of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:04 PM
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mandatory paternity testing/divorce court, sentencing Ah so main do complain about stuff. I bet none of you went to congress to actually do something about it, it's all online whining. There's millions of protests happening in the world, all of them full of men fighting for different laws. Men in protest give their life for different causes. stop pandering to women again, another vague argument, as expected lol Also please consider that if people laugh at "mandatory paternity testing" maybe it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:41 PM
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It's not me with a dating problem though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:31 PM
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and this is proof that social media raises men's standards proving my point 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:23 PM
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I don't mind I complain about the same stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:09 PM
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Men complain all the time here and irl this sub is proof of that The moment anyone asks here "ok, what do you want society to do?" nobody was ever able to give a concrete actionable answer, because they can't answer "I want a girlfriend" followed by some misogynistic comment lol. There's posts from men saying "don't listen to women's advice" Bluepillers have been trying to give advice but men here are deaf ears. But the media talks about incels, about people having less sex, it's not like the is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:52 PM
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they’re not actually complaining so the men here aren't complaining either? the loneliness epidemic is just small talk? 😂 they are my friends and I know them better than you and I know those are real complains. We went together to many protests where you literally go to complain about stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:42 PM
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Men complain all the time what are you talking about lol are you new to the human experience? hot weather, cold weather, politics, X friend did whatever, friend group won't respond, friend group sends too many reels, can't get a job, can't get a raise, X won't write back, can't get any matches on old, bus is late, plane is late, I could go on forever listing the many things my male friends complain about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:24 PM
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but you were talking about media there's almost no fat women on the media
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:20 PM
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there's probably so much more eating disorder victims than guys who offed themselves for having body dysmorphia
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:02 PM
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Forgot to add Women's nice clothes for going out are uncomfortable. As a woman you are meant to be uncomfortable during parties. Heels, dresses, hairstyles, nails, all of that is uncomfortable. We out up with it because it's what's expected of femininity Men on the other hand are always comfortable, always. Look at pop stars. Women have intricate several outfits. Men go out to stage with jeans and shoes and an oversized shirt. Sure they might also have body dysmorphia but believe me body dysmorp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:01 PM
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Men learn pretty fast that complaining gets you nowhere this sub is literally men complaining 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:54 PM
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but I mean we are all surrounded by hot women all day every day Are you suggesting women become amish?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:41 PM
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and this is proof that social media raises men's standards She's not hot by hollywood standards but she is pretty for normal people standards, she looks good on screen. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:21 PM
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why pick particularly those and ignore series and social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:18 PM
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what a great show omg yes, that type of beauty. Even though she is hot, she's not Jennifer Aniston hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:06 PM
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There's no media without super hot women, literally none. Only maybe body positive, Leena Dunham type of series but it's a handful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:47 AM
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Men here don't even remotely have a clue about the female experience. They discovered the gym and eating disorders only a decade ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:45 AM
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Idk, ask the men who post that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:24 PM
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You could tax the rich, maybe take some of that sweet Venezuelan oil and turn it into healthcare. Your interests aren't compromised.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:24 PM
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I'm sure rich people are so thankful to you for defending their interests 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:48 PM
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PPD is a constant men saying "fuck you and your problems" and then pleading empathy from women. It's actually funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:38 PM
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"be a responsible adult! just don't get astigmatism!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:17 PM
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So many people don't have 6k around to fix their teeth so technically it's not affordable for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:16 PM
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The media has been threatening with "they will leave" since forever around the world and it's been debunked. For example, take rich guy Amazon. How are they supposed to continue the business if they move to another country? You think Jeff Bezos is going to fire all upper management and hire cheap labor somewhere else? you know how costly that is? They are stuck here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:58 PM
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You are confusing beauty standards with gender affirming care Yes, being bald for a man isn't within beauty standards but it's still masculine to be bald. Because that's what happens with testosterone. It's like having hair on your back. It's not within beauty standards, yet is very masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:28 PM
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I said "can't relate" I didn't say "I don't agree" and tell that to some people in the comments saying that boob jobs aren't the same because men would fuck a flat chested woman anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:58 PM
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you know how much my teeth cost? 6k It's insane. My salary is 1500 (roughly) usd monthly (I'm not American, so at least I have some things covered, but I can't believe I had to spend 6k to be able to eat properly, it's insane)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:57 PM
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"gender affirming care" means "a woman is supposed to look like this" or "a man is supposed to look like this"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:32 PM
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Can't relate I've always had a thing for bald men since I was like 15 y/o. I find it very masculine, even if the guy isn't conventionally attractive, still baldness looks great. If I was a bald guy I'd have a badass tattoo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:55 PM
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Because a woman is supposed to have hair and men are supposed to go bald
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:47 PM
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But in reality men whine in online spaces and that's it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:46 PM
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That's called reconstructive surgery, not gender affirming surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:44 PM
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It is kind of normal though, I've had plenty of friends who had to fully shave by 25. They are both very masculine though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:43 PM
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I don't have a problem with govt covering for boob jobs and hair transplant Having said that what the other person is saying is true. There's nothing more "masculine" than going bald. Like having a hairy back. It's not within beauty standards but it is masculine (it's literally provoked by excess in testosterone)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:41 PM
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Sure, also dental care, boob jobs, nose jobs I also can't believe my plan doesn't cover fucking glasses ffs I don't have a problem with the govt subsidizing those procedures but only if basic needs have been met
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:37 PM
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Of course not I was making fun of people here justifying everything with "biology"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:49 AM
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"total coincidence" Something something biology something something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:27 AM
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could've just given examples, maybe "stop bullying virgin men" or "stop bullying short men" or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:16 AM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:36 AM
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This smells like yet another blackpill post If I say "there's plenty of ugly people in relationships" I'll have a bunch of blackpillers saying those aren't real relationships, she's fake, she prefers Chad, etc etc etc (don't bother because I won't engage in this) Friendship social skills are different from flirting social skills. There's plenty of coaches (bluepillers) that can help with this, with concrete exercises to break the ice, talk to strangers, body language, appearance, etc. There was …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:51 PM
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what does "alleviate" mean then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:37 PM
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you need to give concrete examples because bluepillers have been showing compassion since forever "you'll find someone eventually" "you need to get out there" "you need to take showers, groom, buy nice clothes" "you need to take better OLD pics" but men here absolutely despise that kind of advice so......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:34 PM
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you are saying there's something women can do but there isn't. You don't need to ask every woman on the planet what can they do when logically there's nothing women can do the dating problem is a 100% male issue, you need to figure it out among yourselves. Thinking that women might have something to do with it is just avoiding uncomfortable conversations with other men. As long as you guys keep looking at women for solutions, or empathy, the more you delay the awkward conversation between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:30 PM
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no woman is going to offer to date someone they are not attracted to and no men should take a pity date I don't see there's many other options
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:48 PM
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and what are women doing to men? nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:39 PM
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But still thinking “is there something I can do to make the situation a little better?” but the answer is no what's there to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:37 PM
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I love that you have no argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:12 PM
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your argument is you claim that "there's a difference" but history doesn't show it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:52 PM
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Evidence from archaeology, anthropology, and studies of modern hunter gatherers suggests children were cared for by many adults, not just mothers: fathers, grandparents, older siblings, aunts/uncles, and unrelated group members
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:36 PM
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Mans nervous system is designed for being outside and competing/fighting. Womans nervous systems are designed to be cozy and to nurture. oh I guess we are now making shit up no? Humans are hunter gatherers. Sure, maybe they hunted a deer from time to time but most of the food came from hunting birds, rabbits, fish, gathering seeds, fruits. Eventually crops. There's no difference between men and women for those tasks, proven by the fact that women have always worked in crops and farms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:34 PM
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yes but they say they care about world population (of course, it sounds better) that would mean they care about any kid, not only their own
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:28 PM
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He is hot but he wants to date women his age, in fact, he usually goes out with women a little bit older than him (Also contrary to PPD belief, young women aren't particularly looking for older guys)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:35 AM
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😭😭 that clip will never not be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:21 PM
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no, I don't get the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:14 PM
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Sure but in all human history 20:1 has never happened ever (collectively). Feminism has no influence in reproductive genetics. We've always maintained 105/100 ratio no matter what. "If there's a virus and it affected world population" = if my grandma had wheels.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:46 PM
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The specific statement which is now invalid is "A newborn male then has better mating prospects than a newborn female, and therefore can expect to have more offspring." wait, so the whole "Women share 20% of men" isn't really true? interesting But anyway, unless there's a specific mutation that makes one have more men than women (or viceversa), if every woman has a kid with the same Chad, the chances of having XY or XX is still 105/100. Balance is restored by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:42 PM
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Yes, this is what's happening. She's the main provider (by a lot). He's living in her house. He was unemployed for a year, now he has a job that doesn't pay well. They had a kid a year ago. I don't think he can escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:12 PM
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maybe they should start taking these issues more seriously, no? Last week I went to a birthday party and there was this woman who would constantly undermine her husband, who was sitting right next to her "He's lazy" "He doesn't work" "He's useless". To me, that's bullying/abuse. According to my BIL they are fine. He obviously has some psychological issues that prevent him from looking for a non batshit crazy wife. I absolutely refuse to believe that her bullying in front of everyone doesn't impa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:01 PM
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a better example is comparing boob/ass size because everyone knows bigger isn't always better. Some guys like them small some guys like them big. Just like penises
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:15 PM
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Why do all redpillers think they are being lied to. Everything is a massive conspiracy, tinfoil hat and all. Get over yourselves lol nobody cares enough to lie The thing is that giving foreplay and oral to a woman (god forbid using fingers because his d isn't good enough) is generally a submissive thing for a man to be doing in the bedroom whaaaaaaaaaaaaat oh honey oh my sweet sweet summer child who told you this 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:12 PM
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I see people have been telling you that you are misinterpreting the post, I'm not the only one btw. Your example doesn't work. "Huge penis" is only good from a male perspective and some size queens (a minority) (I blame it on porn obviously). For the majority of women a huge penis isn't good*. "killer body" is a good thing for everyone. "thin" is universally good too. Boob size/ass size is comparable. "my ex had huge boobs but they were too huge, I didn't really liked them, yours are smaller and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:09 PM
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they don't care about woman's pleasure, they only care about competing with other men that's the only explanation 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:59 PM
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Did you read the post? she's not insecure, she said she liked OP's dick better than others
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:55 PM
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This is called body dysmorphia. Same thing when a skinny woman thinks she needs to keep loosing weight despite looking great already. Your gf comment probably triggered something deeper, some insecurity, stuff related to something else and not the penis. you didn't need to share your size btw. I hate that penis conversations is every man sharing their sizes, like an unsolicited dick pic. Please don't. Nobody cares but yourselves. Don't be kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:48 PM
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no, it's the most common sense thing anyone who listens to women already knows I bet in a decade some bald muscular red pill influencer is going to say "hey guys! you've been lied to! the most important thing you can do is perform well with your hands and pubic bone!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:44 PM
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probably because they don't take a woman's abuse very seriously. They don't think their life is in danger (statistically it isn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:17 PM
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no woman has ever said "ow my husband beats me, how endearing" like men talk about women being toxic "she set my cat on fire but we have awesome sex, so I guess I'll get married"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:09 PM
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I don't think divorce is so bad otherwise women, who usually keep the child, are the main initiators That's obviously not the reason people are having less kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:41 PM
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oh right, 80% are sick does that seem reasonable to you? "yes of course" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:44 PM
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pill men assume everyone is sick, inside and outside the hospital
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:41 PM
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this sub feels like angry men poking on women 😂😂 "ppd what do you think if we controlled women's education?" "ppd what do you think if we made grape legal?" "ppd women, don't you belong in the kitchen?" ppd men should be thankful how nice women are around here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:38 PM
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but sick people don't assume everyone is sick inside and outside the hospital that's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:30 PM
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then you'd have better luck using chat gpt that will say you are right by default 😂 maybe you are not ready for the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:22 PM
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Because pill men are probably alone at home talking with other lonely men online and assuming that's reality They don't see other average men's experience. But how they talk about friendships it's safe to assume they don't talk to average men in relationships. So they'll come up with fantasies like "she's not that into him"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:02 PM
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Lmao Can you link statistics showing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:11 PM
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Not red piller But I think some part of attraction can be negotiable. For example, my 38 year old male friend is having a tough time looking for a partner. His therapist told him to lower good standards. He was trying to find a childless woman his age 😂 He's going on many more dates now!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:09 PM
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Just rent like a normal middle class person 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:04 PM
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That's bc marriage is a contract. Middle low for people just move in together The demographic that has more kids are poor people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:02 PM
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we all know you are scared to say you want an open relationship. And you are probably scared of having a partner who sleeps with other people. I know people in open relationships that have been going strong for +10 years, there's apps to find like minded people. It's ok to be scared but just be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:20 PM
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I find the idea that all women are gold diggers to be so outside reality. of course women value things outside money. Most people partner up with people within their social circle, like university, coworker, friend of friend. No poor woman goes to yacht convention or golf club to find rich men. How do you think poor and middle class men have partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:13 PM
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find a woman who actually wants to do all the tings you listed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:21 PM
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What's the logic here? Men shame promiscuous women and that's somehow women's fault? Of course people arguing this are predictable lol, we all agree it's a dumb thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:26 AM
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yes they do, otherwise they call themselves volcels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:34 PM
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It's their mentally unstable and terminally online takes about men that are starting to do the heavy lifting as man-repellent. are you describing incels? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:14 PM
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yes, men on the pills are 100% sure there's no such thing as a femcel Even the femcel subs are invaded by men calling them fakes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:11 PM
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You asked a personal question that makes no sense and your didn't like my answer You are saying that women can't use firearms which is factually wrong 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:25 PM
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wait does this mean the whole "women should be in the military like men" conversation is pointless? Does this mean female police officers carry guns but can't actually use them? huh interesting 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:44 PM
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the rest of the world 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:35 PM
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pff feminism is stronger than ever your threats are amusing lol you are all a bunch of cry babies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:33 PM
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At least you are being honest about this not being about men's well-being Only hate towards feminism 👍 Glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:28 PM
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Doesn't surprise me one bit I'm a part of a non profit organization for people with speech impediments that affects mostly men (in a group of 10 people affected, 9 are men 1 is a woman) Guess which gender is the director and sub director? Yeah they are women. Speech pathologists? All women. Once there was a guy directing but he quit the job after 2 months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:20 PM
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Google all the gay people who died and still die defending LGBTQ rights, all the people who died defending POC rights, all the women and men who died defending feminist ideas You want your rights handed in a silver platter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:11 PM
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I'm saying that women have it worst Also if you care about male victims your can start a movement. Feminism is about women's issues. You guys are too used to having others solve your issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:09 PM
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Doesn't take much dexterity to learn how to use a gun don't be ridiculous 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:08 PM
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Men's violence results in worst injuries, no? Even op agrees on this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:55 PM
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If they really cared about male victims they'd start a movement, shelters, online help, groups, safe spaces But they don't They just want to shit on women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:54 PM
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Women could use guns, knives, poison It's not about physical strength
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:50 PM
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You can start your own movement and stop asking feminism to solve men's issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:48 PM
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So men are victims of women's words And women are victims of men's words and male violence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:47 PM
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Because you are repeating black pill theories
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:33 PM
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OP, you know you can hide your activity in whatever sub you choose to minimize stalking! just fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:40 PM
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PICK ONE OR TWO if you want to make a point first 3 talk about being a lying psychopaths, not what we were discussing, at all. I don't want to waste time reading 5 more studies about how lying men get what they want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:27 AM
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first you said "being a independent person" and "i'm just a wittle baby don't hold me accountable" but in your example you are mad that men are held to a "boys don't cry" standard. You are mixing everything up. how is your DV example related to your flip-flop comment? and btw if the woman holds a gun to a guy she'll be stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:25 AM
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Nah choose 1 or 2 this list is ridiculous. I opened the first 3 and they argue something completely different Don't be lazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:20 AM
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You probably don't see their posts because of a language barrer but everyone is on social media, even guys from slums in third world countries
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:17 AM
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Is that flip-flop happening online? Are you guys not able to understand how algorithms work? Are you guys not able to understand that women are different from each other? That's incels #1 source of frustration, right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:10 AM
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Men who don't like women befriend each other I don't think that's the issue But yeah some PPD men really really struggle with friendships, some store probably on the spectrum. They ask "why do I need friends?" All the Evo psych goes out the window when you mention that humans are social creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:01 AM
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Let's see those studies saying that women prefer selfish men. I bet my soul there's some mental gymnastics going on It's so tiring you all sound like bots, repeating the same out of reality concepts you made up to blame everything on women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:55 AM
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Actually there's plenty of average looking men in relationships. Spare the "but afbb" I'm not going to argue again with a black piller you guys have such strong coping mechanisms you people are a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:52 AM
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Looks have always mattered, you have to be living in a cave if you didn't catch that lol Bluepillers don't say it because it's too obvious. All Hollywood movies, all series, everything that's popular has pretty people in them. But I guess black and red pillers struggle in general with understanding the world that's why they feel they were lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:48 AM
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Have you considered that some women are assholes too? And some guys are liars? Also there's plenty of good confident guys who are in relationships. For some reason black pillers ignore those
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:44 AM
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"why are you all choosing the bear you are so mean!!" 👶
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:33 PM
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Everyone knows men lie to get sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:31 PM
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It's not either or 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:28 PM
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Yes, women also like pretty men, also super bluepill take, congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:52 PM
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Inside a healthy kinky relationship it's not humiliating, no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:39 PM
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Women are attracted to confident men, yes, we've known this for centuries, extremely blue pill take Women like the confident guy who helps at the animal shelter and is sensitive and caring Women are also attracted to the confident gymbro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:36 PM
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I also never said men are more easily influenced, I was pointing out that it's not just women who follow trends man you need to read better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:16 PM
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I never said this was a new trend, I know it's been around for years. But it all started with football players and then men copying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:09 PM
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they do it because they saw famous men doing it, they didn't come up with it. This is exactly how advertising/influencers work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:25 PM
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Yes, generic brand like ADIDAS lmao. Maybe this one helps: <image> Yes, it's very trendy and horrible fashion but if football players do it I guess it's cool right? I just said it advertises football fans lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:14 PM
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and weight yes, this is what I'm saying 😂😂😂😂😂 for the past 5 comments Are you slow??? ironic isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:09 PM
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yes that's what I'm saying only men like body builders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:08 PM
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I you can't understand the difference between acting or roleplaying and real life there's nothing I can do to help Movies must be so scary for you 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:44 PM
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And then Cristiano Ronaldo or whoever gets paid millions of dollars by whatever multimillionaire brand to wear this <image> and then all men flock to buy the same shit because they'd do whatever football players do lmao And don't get me started on haircuts, video games, movies, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:37 PM
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YES EXACTLY everything needs to have a conversation so that nobody gets really hurt, it's all pretend hurt, not real hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:21 PM
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Again, I don't think you understand how kinks work the guys asks his wife to play a role so that he can play a role which is not the same as the wife doing that role without being asked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:20 PM
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as much as an actor feels humiliated during a play it's all an act, it's roleplay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:10 PM
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I don't think you know what actually happens in a kink relationship. In a kink relationship you talk about what you like and dislike, stablish a safe word, stablish boundaries, roles, a safe word etc. This is what I mean by cool. We are all relaxed because we talked about the expectations and boundaries What's disgusting is when a man thinks woman's role has to be submissive. Maybe the woman doesn't want to be submissive. He doesn't discuss any boundaries, any safe word, nothing. He just acts th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:09 PM
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In fact I heard (and it makes sense) that the sub is more in control than the dom, because the sub stablishes all the boundaries and can ultimately use the safe word to end things. it's the illusion of losing control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:04 PM
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Like I said, the humiliation kink works within the BDSM group of kinks. In BDSM roleplay you can be sub and not be humiliated (that's something you discuss beforehand) The submission you are talking about is different, it's how patriarcal men expect women to behave in bed which is actually disgusting lol Not to be confused with roleplay with stablished boundaries and a safe word
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:43 PM
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It's like when you see a movie. Let's say there's a character that's being bullied and humiliated. Do you think the real person who is acting is being emasculated? Do you think the real actor feels real shame and humiliation? Or he's just an actor interpreting a role? Well, sex role play works exactly the same 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:39 PM
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In the humiliation kink one dominates (dom) and the other is dominated and humiliated (sub). It's within the BDSM practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:28 PM
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kinks are always fun 🔥🔥❤️‍🔥. Also there's nothing really emasculating of any kink, quite the opposite. A guy who is being emasculated feels bad about himself. In the humilliation kink the opposite happens. He might ask for certain actions that I wouldn't spontaneously do. It's role play. Anyone who thinks a kink can be emasculating is a 🚩 to me Its effecting more and more men as society gets more and more "kinky" compared to say they 1960s. nah, people have the freedom to talk about them, that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:25 PM
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what are they going to do? "a beta uprising"? so more school shootings? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:48 PM
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Men here get triggered so easily by.... a woman existing lol Friendly reminder the crowd that's most miserable are incels 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:45 PM
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saving this comment for when men deny here deny they threat women if they don't have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:40 PM
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This is what I eat as a single lady, premium alfalfa
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:35 PM
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It's the difference between bodybuilder and swimming athlete (or kpop idol) Both low body fat, both muscular, only one looks ugly the other doesn't This has been repeated to death in online spaces, yet you still struggle to understand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:41 PM
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😂😂😂😂 So you think every single person on earth always wants to have kids This is so unhinged lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:39 PM
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That's not uglification If a guy asks you to go swimming or work out on a date 3 things are pretty obvious 1- he struggles with social cues because those dates are weird af 2- he's very gullible about stuff he sees online 3- he can't understand the concept of make up lol and is insecure you might be ugly ❌❌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:37 PM
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Too expensive, too much work, maybe it's not appealing, maybe they never felt it I personally don't want to have kids and how the body changes is the least of my concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:19 PM
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But what if he doesn't want to have kids with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:16 PM
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This is so ridiculous lol waterproof make up has been around for decades!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:15 PM
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