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DiscussionMyagooshki2/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:00 PM
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Dude there are so many women in their 30s who will be picked I can't believe this is a question how can you possibly think that hot cool interesting women AGE 31 or something are now too old to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:22 PM
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It causes women to lower their standards becsuse it makes them conscious of the things they don't want. Slut shaming has worked for centuries. We're realizing this again now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:25 AM
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Men do need to be more cooperative with each other as opposed to competitive. Men who are generally lower in status need to rise up and dominate those who are generally higher in status. There needs to be better centralized information about how to dominate social situations and negotiate frames so that it's not always a certain personality type of man that's successful at doing it. Right now the information tends to be biased towards Myers Briggs J types and it leaves P types with less informat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:06 PM
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I found that TRP wasn't encouraging me to do things on my terms but rather the terms of the people who were telling me what to do. I feel like there might be a lot of language game going on here. And the discussion is currently not very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:49 PM
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Less inhibition is attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:14 PM
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Nah, most of my relationships have been post college and I'm dorky af
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:49 PM
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This is completely false. When you're over 35 your attractiveness to women increases. My dad met my mom when he was 41. My mom was 37.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:29 PM
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Sex is a psychological need. It's not at the bottom of the pyramid with sleep, food, etc. It's on the second one with friends, family, etc. Not having sex will make you go crazy unless you're asexual. Either you're having sex, you're trying to have sex, you're angry about sex, or you're asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:08 PM
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The point is not to condone an uneven distribution of sex like that. The point to is help men get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:27 PM
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He says "it is not a good idea to stick your dick in as many women as possible", which appears to be what he wants to center around. I'm not assuming he's suggesting pumping and dumping as a number 1 option even if the women are on your path. One problem with the manosphere is that it doesn't keep men in check from being douchebag players enough. They're basically choice meninists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:37 PM
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Pumping and dumping women you meet in your career path/life path as opposed to pumping and dumping random women you meet at bars. I didn't get the impression that he was suggesting pumping and dumping though. I think he was stretching very far to not offend people who are polyamorous and so the implied logic can come off weird. Wouldn't have been my move, but that's how I'm seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:23 PM
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Who is she and in what circumstance are you saying it is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:12 PM
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You learn different ways to please women by having sex with hookers, you learn how well your dick fits, where the cervix is, you learn what you like in bed, you can ask them for honest opinions on your performance and some may give it, you may learn how to tell when she really isn't enjoying herself, some people say that having sex with hookers doesn't count. There's yes and no to that. Yes in the fact that you didn't really fish for the fish, you bought it from the supermarket, and fishing for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:36 PM
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Redpill also causes more women to be bitchy. Because the women get pumped and dumped by the same Andrew Tates that complain that "all women are like that". If more men did what you're saying then more men would have sex and you'd have less Andrew Tates. There's a lot of things you can learn about sex simply by having sex with hookers a few times. Especially if you go to different brothels each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:25 PM
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Sounds cocky to me. How about a woman who is nice and likes to be cooperative and have similar interests? I don't have to earn shit. I do my thing. Most women in the west have sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:11 AM
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I think I agree in that their attitude is a problem. However, they're not incorrect to the extent that the internet amplifies obnoxious voices, and the types of people in the manosphere are Men with high dark triad traits that did pick up and attracted women also high in dark triad traits and failed to secure a relationship and come to Reddit to complain Anxious incels who are afraid of certain things and the group 1 validates their concerns. From my experience, therapists and my friends and fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:53 PM
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Sure, but him "being a gooner" doesn't make the conversation less valid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:13 PM
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I think the OP has good conversational points regardless. I've been enjoying this thread and it's sparked a lot of conversation from a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:11 PM
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No, when more men in society become more psychologically proper men, women become less hypergamous because they are less distrustful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:25 AM
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I dumped a cis 2 for a trans 1 so I suppose I'd pick 1. I'm not trying to be that guy virtue signaling. The emotional connection thing is important. Also this prompt isn't saying that 1 is sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:29 AM
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Whatever you want. Talk about macaroni and cheese. Whatever you want to talk about. Same goes for when you're not waiting for her to put in her number.
/r/seduction18/09/24 05:56 PM
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If you're in an LTR with a woman she doesn't care about your sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:36 PM
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Any woman suggesting that a paternity test is a bad idea is a whore and any man defending that suggestion is a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:33 AM
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Post redpill gets you more results than redpill. Stuff like the YouTube channel actualized.org is good for self development moreso than the redpill. Also psychedelics, especially ones that make you more social
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:57 PM
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It's not a prerequisite for a more fair dating environment. Systemically you want more men talking to more women. Systemically. Individually, talk to more women. But that's all it's about. People will be like "oh you have to talk to them this way you have to talk to them that way". Maybe there's a little bit that can help you here or there. But I've seen Owen Cook in person and he gets rejected by like 90% of the girls he approaches. He just doesn't show you that on the videos online. And I've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:06 PM
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Reddt tends to be full of people who are full of shit. Have you not noticed this about Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:18 PM
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Non white and from another country ish
/r/seduction19/08/24 02:49 PM
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Yes, especially ethnic girls
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:53 PM
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Narcissism is more moral than machiavellianism or psychopathy, especially validation narcissism.
/r/BlackPillScience18/08/24 09:58 PM
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How is this a black pill topic? I believe that this at the very least challenges the idea that "all women are like that", because a lot of redpillers usually are the ones with the high dark triad traits.
/r/BlackPillScience18/08/24 09:55 PM
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Women talking about unwarranted confidence is either shit testing or they are talking about a clash in values but projecting it that "those men shouldn't be so confident with those views". Get it out of your head that confidence is NECESSARILY genetic or that you're a slave to your paat experiences. Drop some Molly and take a 5-HTP a few hours in so you're not depressed the next day. Women in general literally saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a plus. They'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:32 PM
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Who the hell cares. Was she hot?
/r/seduction06/08/24 11:54 PM
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Saying hello isn't invading your personal space. I'm correct about my presumption about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:39 AM
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Your attitude is cocky. You're obsessing too much about being mean and rejective because you're afraid of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:14 AM
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That's not a realistic perspective. Think about how you keep biasing your perspective. "Most guys don't wanna deal with that level of rejection". That is true. However it's what they need to do. And if they can learn to deal with it, they can get better results. This is where the optimism kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:02 PM
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10 percent is a pretty good success rate. 1/100 is also a fair success rate. You have a losing mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:55 PM
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It's not obvious. Guys aren't doing it because they have THAT MUCH approach anxiety. It's the main problem. The solution is to teach them frame control, recontextualization, and how to come up with things to say in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:45 PM
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It's definitely not. Why do you think that is too hard? Different types of girls like different types of guys. Some women, no matter how experienced you are, are going to give you harsh rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:11 PM
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Your nickname entitled princess is showing its colors. You're assuming that the guy approaching is creating an awkward interruption of the woman's day. Gentlemen, don't let women like this freak you out. If she thinks you're awkward, that's her problem, not yours. If you think you want to change the way you come off, that's your prerogative, nobody is forcing you to change. There's nothing wrong with talking to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:08 PM
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Yeah there's no rule that you have to be polite to women who disrespectfully reject you. I fuck with them all the time. I flip em off, fart on em.. sometimes I tell about it to the next girl I talk to and it makes her laugh. I've had a girl come up to me and ask "wtf is her problem" in reference to the previous chick that was yelling shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:06 PM
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Pickup is a good way to work on your social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:04 PM
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It's not at all a waste of time. You learn things about people as you go on. But don't just ask them out as soon as you meet them. Come on guys just try pick up sometime. I promise you that you just have to talk to these women about fucking anything. If she's interested she's going to talk to you. Then from there you do kino. See how she responds. DATING APPS are the time waster. And no you don't have to be good looking either. You're a man. You have to be conversational.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:03 PM
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I dated a girl who didn't want to have sex before marriage. She love bombed me for a month and had me thinking I found the one. She was flirting with me talking about having our kids and wedding and stuff. Then she turned 180 and asked me if I really loved her or if it was just lust, asked me if we were truly dating, very strange behavior. Needless to say I don't worship the trad wife archetype anymore. The previous relationship I had before that I could actually have had a trad wife, but she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:09 AM
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I'm gonna drink this milkshake and then create a milkshake of my own. I will repel the boys from the yard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:32 AM
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Yeah, all of men are stronger than all of women. It's not right that some people are biologically predisposed to homicide, so we do something about it. We put them in jail. Just like you for thinking that you're stronger than your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:32 AM
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The hell we don't. Women only have rights because us men decided we should let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:08 AM
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If you're born into value, then how did you lose power?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:20 AM
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It's not okay if women want those things, which is why society used to repress them. It is often said that a lot of men, in both personality and lifestyle, are OKAY, but they need to talk to more people if they want more friends and a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:44 AM
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Therefore, women are born with value and men must earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:34 AM
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If "the loss of power that men collectively experienced" doesn't necessarily make women less attracted to men, show me your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:09 AM
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I actually think that this should be a self help sub that functions better than /theredpill or /incelexit. Those places are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:24 PM
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Once men realize what makes them attractive it's easier for them to control it. Women "just have to look pretty", but that's not necessarily that easy, especially since women pretty much have 2x shittier metabolisms than guys. Also men can be attractive much later in life. I saw a couple yesterday. Society should help men learn how to be attractive as early as possible. It's the next great step. Consciousness in this regard. Don't worry too much about looks money status. These are things that te…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:23 PM
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Suppression and emotional nonexpression are different things. Different people including myself have nuanced takes on stoicism. Some people very much do not and I think it's baked into the language structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:21 AM
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Yes, let me clarify, as I believe I may have later in the comment: I believe that it underrates the emotional expression aspect of understanding emotions, not the internal compass aspect of distinguishing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:56 PM
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It's definitely not, but shit like that blows up on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:07 AM
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It's not healthy to just self improve self improve, and honestly women should be shamed a little bit for cheating on men. Stoicism also doesn't necessarily help you understand your emotions. It under represents the importance of emotional release. Perhaps redpill philosophy can inform you of places where certain types of emotional release is unhelpful, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have it and it also doesn't mean that it's correct either. One ambiguous part of the post is the idea that "m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:34 PM
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What are you gonna divorce your wife when she's 55 becsuse she has wrinkles? Also I've noticed as I get older I'm more attracted to 50 year olds as a 30 year old than I was when I was 15. I think as you get older you naturally increase the palette becsuse you're biologically getting older and it's a biological thing too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:04 PM
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I'm bringing out the butter!!! 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:21 AM
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You kept it to yourself because you're a normie and you found it cringey and you're jealous that I express myself better than you, you normie 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:12 AM
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That was the most cringey normie response you possibly could have given. Did you think you were going to get a commission from that comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:45 PM
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Not being a normie is absolutely beneficial to men. Just combine it with outgoingness and frame control. Fuck being a normie. I grind normies bones to make my bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:24 PM
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This isn't wrong, but men first and foremost need to focus externally whereas women first and foremost need to focus internally. Of course external growth should not be done to the detriment of internal growth and vice versa, hence why I said "don't kill your inner bitch". But also I would say this is why "fat acceptance" CAN BE unhealthy. Obviously mature adults aren't going to FAT SHAME people nor will they let themselves get too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:48 PM
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Women don't want men to be single but they also don't want to tell men what to do in order to turn them on. It's a simple chain of logic. This is why men need to help each other form and maintain relationships with women more than they are currently doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:09 PM
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Holding frame is a crucial aspect of social communication. You come in here and say that "you don't know the purpose of therapy" to me. Well, the thing that I NEEDED was to know how to do things like hold frame and recontextualize. So yes, therapy sucked, not only for me but for all the other men in the same position. Holding frame is a part of asserting boundaries. It absolutely 1. Can be used in therapy 2. Is sometimes used in therapy but not enough 3. Is not used enough in therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:06 PM
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I've seen over 20 therapists and they all sucked, self help on the internet actually showed me things like frame control and spiral dynamics. Therapists should have been able to tell that I needed to know that stuff just from me talking. Rednecks and gangsters know that I don't know that stuff, and they use that to make fun of me, why can't a therapist know that I don't know that stuff and tell me? Therapists suck that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:02 PM
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Women do not compare you to other men. They compare you to themselves. You are not competing with other men you are competing (yes competing) with the woman. However this is mostly a psychological competition. Do not be fooled by the idea that looks money status is necessary but not sufficient. It is sufficient but not necessary. Toxic masculinity is an inside job, peddled by a small minority of men so that they can have harems of women. If men helped each other more emotionally and communally, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:00 PM
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It is true that mental health services usually don't help men's mental health. People like healthy gamer gg or ManTalks or Charlie Houpert are almost impossible to find in the field. Also those people are healthier than manosphere models; even if they sometimes talk to manosphere models on their podcasts on their channel. However a lot of manosphere is about "killing your inner bitch" which is terrible advice. Manosphere needs to focus more on techniques than ideology, like what you see on Chari…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:58 PM
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That's a terrible way to think. You don't need to accept shit. Go out there and talk to girls. Talk to girls from other countries. Talk talk talk. Learn frame, frame control, and recontextualization. Get good at improv. Watch kill Tony and figure out how to can improv better than some of the shitty comedians that get on stage. Get that pussy you deserve king. Treat her better than douchebag Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:17 AM
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The best society is the one where the most amount of people can get as many of their needs met on Maslow's hierarchy as possible. Sex isn't a physical need. It's a psychological need. You're either having it, trying to get it, bitter and shut down that you aren't getting it, or you're asexual. Entitlement versus earning things is a dumb paradigm. It's a subjective paradigm. The better question to linger on is input output, cause and effect. You want what you want, you need what you need, how are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:12 AM
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This is very easy. I'll start by taking all of the points add ons. Everything H-L. Right now I'm at 16 points. Now I'll buy everything A through G for 15 points and I still have 1 point left over. H-L aren't problems if there are other qualities that weigh those things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:29 PM
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I saw 15 therapists before the manosphere content told me things that the therapist didn't that I needed to know. Manosphere has its limitations but therapy usually sucks. Honestly I'm just going to leave it at that. I'm fucking pissed that the therapy industrial complex hasn't resolved my issues. That I needed to go into the fucking manosphere to learn about masculinity and social calibration and charisma and frame control and all that. Why couldn't the therapist realize that I needed to know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:07 PM
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Nah I like being vanilla with the prossies. Best gratification I get from the prossie is when she's also enjoying herself. And some of them don't, and some of them do. I've done prossies that clearly thought I was gross and I've done ones who seemed to be attracted to me. Those are the ones I remember, even if they aren't the hottest ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:49 PM
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Honestly y'all gotta watch baby reindeer, pay attention to the failures the lead character goes through trying to do comedy. He's not weird for pursuing comedy and some of the people he runs into are dicks, even if literally everybody in the room is a dick. He does what he does and he revises and does better. A lot of those failures on the road to success of his are either realistic or more negatively exaggerated. (I'm not talking about his stalker arc I'm talking about his comedy arc) It's way …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:02 PM
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The stats are probably biased a little bit towards people like OP becsuse yes there is also a lot of that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:00 PM
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The "obscene standards" usually aren't real, theyre shit tests. You can ignore those women if you don't feel like you'd be able to bust their ego. I think they're also temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:32 PM
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That sounds like a shit test and the answer is no, I only want to have sex with one woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:54 PM
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What makes them think that being a man is easier? Why do they not want to be a woman? A lot of men believe that women have it easier than men becsuse of sexual access. What do women think that men have it easier of? At the very least, what should us men be happy about? What do we have that women don't that we can use against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:08 PM
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Why do you think that women are jealous of men? What is it about men that they think is better than what they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:03 PM
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Tell the escort it's your first time. Have them act like it's a real interaction. Then go to see 4 more escorts after that. Don't tell the next ones you're a virgin. Escorts are people, and there are a lot of things you can learn about sex by paying for it. Seduction, perhaps not as much, but still something if you're being conscious about it...sex, absolutely. Lots you can learn about sex from fucking prostitutes. One big thing I learned is that when you have a condom on you can't really tell w…
/r/seduction30/06/24 07:53 PM
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He's saying that incels often ignore genuine advice because they stereotyped the person giving it and thinking it will never be of use to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:30 PM
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This is an underrated response in its own way haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:28 AM
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Oh talking to others like that can be a useful tool but nobody better talk like that to me including myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:32 PM
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Yeah I don't like that voice, mine is much more gentle and companion like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:17 AM
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It's not really a desire that people should be going without, society should take relationship health much more seriously and invest in it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:19 AM
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The red pills approach to "wallowing in self pity" is the problem, they're too unempathetic about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:21 PM
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And original red pill guys are completely unempathetic and douchey, what man wants to be like them? They advocate for avoidant behaviors as opposed to anxious behaviors, when they should be advocating for secure behaviors. I'll be sexless for another 5 years if it means never having to use avoidant strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:17 PM
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This post is one part of the picture but it does fulfill its niche. Dating is a numbers game. Talk to lots of people. Watch the actualized.org series "how to get laid"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:19 PM
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I make love to the women already in the cemetery 😎😎😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:43 PM
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What? I'm not saying these scenarios don't happen, but the amount of details and schemas and memes in between all of these events, your "average autist" is not going to be able to make sense of any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:38 PM
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Sounds like something that somebody who's standing in my way would say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:44 PM
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That's a losers mindset. I'm gonna go for what I want and crush those who stand in my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:13 PM
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Everyone is entitled to go for what they want, meaning everyone is entitled to make those moves, meaning everyone is entitled to not feel shame upon resistance, meaning everyone is entitled to push through resistance. "But consent" yes, the other person is also entitled to these things. So if there's too much resistance than you know what the other person is entitled to, and that's not being resisted. But a little resistance is not necessarily a lack of consent. You have to inquire to the desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:52 PM
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Entitlement versus non entitlement is a stupid way to think. I prefer input versus output
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:26 PM
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Be unironically cringe, unironically clown world, be happy like somebody with downs syndrome (not literally). But allow yourself a little bit of that down syndrome happiness. Also it's perfectly acceptable to be like "whatever" or "weird" to girls that reject you weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:02 PM
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Her man is probably working in marketing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:50 PM
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Well that's one of the arguments but the main thing here is that people with dark triad traits are trying to select against people with less of them, making it so that is harder to thrive without them. For a while when the economy was very good you could thrive just based on merit or knowledge or honesty in many ways. One of the guises is social justice. Some of the most radically social justice people are some of the most manipulative deceitful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:51 PM
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And you want to enable social manipulation? This is the complaint, people want to be physically accomplished and act genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:23 PM
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It's validating the idea that the system is still a hierarchy, it's just based on social manipulation rather than physical accomplishments
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:02 PM
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Well yes that's the point, that now the power game is pushing into social dishonesty instead of social honestly and physical competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:32 PM
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They don't. The experience of being a woman is different than that of being a man. Masculine energy goes outwards and feminine energy goes inwards. What looks to you as a man, as a woman passively existing and getting a relationship, is not a woman passively existing. They had to feel safe in order to not reject that guy. Whereas for a man, to approach, they have to feel safe about possibly getting rejected. Always remember that yin and yang exist. If men are physical and women are emotional, of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:23 AM
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I would definitely pick the woman. You don't want to overload women with certain types of masculine shame related problems, but you can vent to women, this happens all the time. Women are more or less attracted to frame control, and if you want to vent and be emotionally vulnerable, go ahead. It might be that you have more frames you now have to control for later, but if you think it's worth the work, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:40 AM
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Doesn't make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:10 AM
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Statewide data is misleading in "red states", but the map I provided is accurate and doesn't contradict the first link. Also in plains, there's no bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:09 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:14 PM
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This is definitely not true at all I don't know where you got that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:13 PM
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Also considering the fact that most rural areas have little to no crime and running into a psycho is even less likely than in the city where a lot of these girls live
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:07 PM
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It depends on the advice. An underrated thing that the manosphere ignores is attachment theory. A lot of good advice from women on attachment theory. And there are some "manosphere women", too. Sometimes Muslim, Asian, latina chicks, they can give legit advice. Always consult with a men as well, but throw a woman's voice or two into your soup also. One thing you probably shouldn't be doing is relying on one source for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:19 AM
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I thought it was that the larger the dating pool the better chances you'd have because if you mess up with certain people you don't make as much of a dent in your reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:53 PM
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Sounds pretty hot. People say oh yeah wait until the real person comes out. Well personalities don't exist in a vacuum and that's not to say that I can't handle all aspects of her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:28 PM
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Well, why specifically do you think that specific scenario?
/r/seduction04/05/24 02:30 AM
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Why would you be afraid that the dating apps would stop existing? And of course it wouldn't be all of them at the same time. Are you being serious? Think about what you're saying. It sounds like a parody. I don't mean to be offensive but I'm curious as to how you're arriving to this thought.
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:02 AM
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Welp, you have a good strategy. So you might as well leverage it. Don't worry about approaching IRL. Why bother? Online is working for you.
/r/seduction03/05/24 06:49 PM
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I very much do not enjoy brat behavior
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:13 PM
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What part of America were you visiting? American women act very differently across the country.
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:12 PM
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Certain types of people are going to have certain types of preferences based on certain experiences, which is what we're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:23 AM
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I do think that I understand why they think what they think, and it's because "they evolved" to "protect their vagina" by various means. Some of them exaggerate how they feel about rape in order to do this. If you have any better eludications of understanding, give it your best shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:33 PM
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"we should at least stop and ask why they think like this" Bruh, literally the point of my post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:01 PM
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Just because you don't like what I'm saying doesn't mean that I'm getting worked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:30 PM
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Cuckolding is a form of violence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:54 PM
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No because too many of you are drama queens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:54 PM
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Fear of cuckolding is legitimate as is fear of rape; however, I'm not equating the two of them, although yes, I might compare a man being cucked to a woman being raped. Depending on the situation. But, both are still better than death.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:39 PM
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Why would that be my manhood being took? I'm not the weirdo that raped me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:38 PM
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If it's not about the story then what is it? Why else would rape be traumatic? The woman doesn't want to carry the rapists baby becsuse she doesn't want to pass those genes on. It's all about the story. You can't just screenshot my comment which contains no threat and say that that is an equivalent to what I did when you made a comment that did in fact contain a threat. Perhaps I'm too straightforward for you and that's why you're afraid of me. You don't suppose that women must have it easy to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:35 PM
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I didn't argue that lethal force to prevent unwanted sex was not an option. That has nothing to do with the topic. I also REALLY don't think you're being literal here. But hey, this is why women don't usually have positions of power or involved in stem and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:34 PM
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When you're dead you're dead is exactly the point. Whoever dominated you after they killed you gets to tell the story. Whoever dominated you after they raped you doesn't necessarily get to tell the rest of the story. I'm screenshotting your comment. Will take to the authorities if I feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:10 PM
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This is not remotely direct in answering my question or engaging whatsoever and is completely off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:07 PM
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I don't understand why some people can't seem to grasp that yes you can question an emotional instinct. As a matter of fact you'd be dumb not to. I'm not saying that I haven't heard a lot of women say what they have said. I have also heard a lot of women call those women drama queens, and that they were happy that their rapist didn't kill them and that they made it out alive. My mom being one of them. I'm not going to change my opinion just because a bunch of people feel a certain way, and you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:05 PM
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That sounds like a personal problem. I know you want me to joke along with you and make more Greek myth references or something, but I'm not going to pretend to validate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:01 PM
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I think you're right, I think a lot of the times when women insist that they'd rather die than get raped they're being non literal and perhaps they don't realize it because "they evolved" to "guard their vaginas", so to speak. But it doesn't actually mean that they'd prefer to die than get raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:50 PM
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I would argue that value judgments are not entirely disconnected from external systems and that some value judgments are better than others
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:44 PM
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Of course men can experience PTSD from rape trauma and perhaps lose housing and relationship partners. However a lot of women who aren't losing either of those things are saying they'd have rather died, whereas a man might say he rather died from rape trauma only if the rape trauma was connected with losing housing and a wife, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:41 PM
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So your argument is that women's language around preferring death over rape isn't true but that they say that because they don't want men to think that raping them is a good idea. This theory seems plausible. It would mean that any discussion a woman has about the topic which comes to the conclusion that death is better than rape is either her lying to herself and/or everyone else, and that a man having the discussion in agreement with said confusion is also either lying, or unaware of this phen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:39 PM
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We definitely don't want to gaslight people into defining their lives around said event. And I wonder how much of women saying they'd rather be killed than raped is socially constructed. But I'm not interested in people gaslighting me into giving up on finding the answer to my question simply because people think it's not empathetic. I'm not saying you're doing that but some people do. There's a reason as to why people do things that has nothing to do with empathy. There's cause and effect, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:23 PM
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The commenter before me is talking about dignity. But trauma is better than death, change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:20 PM
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Why would you rather not just let him rape you so you have less of a chance of being murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:19 PM
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That is an unnecessary response. But yes I'd rather be sodomized violently by gunpoint instead of being murdered. So let's have a mature discussion, shall we? Why would you rather be killed than raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:19 PM
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So your argument is that the women are usually communicating non literally for some reason about the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:17 PM
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None of these responses in the comment section are answering my question. I'm asking why do the women have this preference rather than do they have the preference. I'm also not so sure that they actually do have the preference or if this is just the way that women talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:17 PM
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Sure, but in all of those situations you don't actually die. Having PTSD is better than dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:16 PM
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Absolutely I would prefer the sodomy lol. I have too much to look forward to in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:15 PM
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I've heard these things before but the question here is why do they feel that way, not what are things that they say that align with that which I am saying that some of them say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:15 PM
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Dignity is nice, but to allow yourself to drown in pessimism that becsuse you feel undignified now that you will never be able to get dignity is a losing game. If you're dead, you're unable to improve anything else. I find it much sadder to hear of people who are killed than people who are raped. For people who are killed, as far as dignity goes: that's it. The story ends. There's no recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:14 PM
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If you're just talking to them about normal topics and occasionally flirting and kinoing then nobody cares. If you go up to women and be like OMG YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFUL not everybody likes that. It's a much higher risk strategy for sure and in my experience much less rewardful. Aside from obvious logistical and subconscious romantic stuff, the best advice really is to be yourself. Talk about things you want to talk about. You meet more compatible women that way. Assuming you're not always immediate…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:32 PM
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Shitty men like that are fuckboys and shitty women like that are whores. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:46 AM
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Most countries? Wrong https://focus2030.org/Where-do-abortion-rights-stand-in-the-world-in-2024
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:04 PM
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You might not like it, but I really don't think abortion bans are about the baby. I think it's about your post. Women all over the world dislike abortion. American women don't need to be treated special in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:51 PM
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That's what women say, but ultimately you could see that more men take responsibility for women in public and look out for them. Also women have the right to self defense. Also, living in fear is a choice. Also, maybe it's better that women just stop "being bitchy" and "controlling their bodies" is the way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:07 PM
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They already exist, albeit in primitive forms. They're the strict abortion laws that prohibit abortion only in cases where the mother is at risk of dying. It makes women less hypergamous because they don't want to get raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:40 PM
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You don't "approach". You have normal conversations, and you flirt and kino. Going up to random women and saying they look beautiful is retarded. You can flirt and kino with girls in your social circle or in public. Enough time goes by with the two of you doing that and you can get something going
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:44 PM
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My preferences are distributed in the age range I looked up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:33 PM
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4% of women fit my standards. However, 12% of women fit my age range. So really, 30% of women that I'm looking for in my age range fit my standards. I'm not dating 12 year olds or 92 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:00 PM
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It's interesting becsuse of some of the grains of truth that redpill speaks about women, what they fail to recognize is how women's attraction is very social construct sensitive, and by talking like "as a man you gotta spread your seed all over the place" they're causing the feedback loop that encourages women to act in the ways that they complain about. Too much casual sex is degenerate for both men and women. Social conservatism is supposed to be about family and values, not being a fuckboy. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:56 PM
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The women still want to settle, they're just more neurotic than they used to be becsuse the men are more permissive of their neuroticism. The greatest problem today is that too many men assume women think like them when it comes to dating and life plans. And yes, presumptions of females being biologically more hypergamous than males is a part of this. Women's attraction is very social construct sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:33 PM
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I would much rather have a daughter through a real womb than a son through an artificial womb. Post tribal men did these things for more than just not dying. The agricultural revolution brought us out of the jungles and people procured individual homesteads. Tribal men yes, they wanted to remain in the tribe, but that's just extra abuse by today's standards. People think that all of this stuff can be piece mealed. There's an extent to which all things come together in a metaphysical non external…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:00 PM
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Men are happy to raise their kids. If I had a daughter I would have a daughter. Doesn't matter that I want a son. I have what I have. Men were incentivized in BC era to fight wars for you guessed it, women and family
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:38 AM
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Nah this is the same type of thinking where women be like "I'm happy without a man" and then she "hits the wall" and hates her life. Without women in society, men will not be incentivized to do anything. This isn't a mere construct. Most men want a woman. To assume that the reason why a baby is born a male or female is something that isn't divine is perhaps ignorant. I don't think that there's merely scientific explanations as to why it happens that way. Something like 95% of modern science will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:06 AM
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There's no such thing as an insane person to that extent. All philosophies have their Genesis in some sort of valid pressure. And a lot of people have a shadow in the direction of the darkness. It's not just that the people who obsess about the darkness have a shadow in the light. Also, paleoconservatism is the default psychological state of humans. Andrew Tate is extremely far left compared to the vast majority of people in the middle ages. Forget about what people were like before then. Imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:43 PM
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Saying yeah that's messed up and moving on is dismissive. ALL social interactions should be deeply philosophized about. But yes the internet is very hyperfocused on the dark stuff. Which makes sense, becsuse there's not a lot of therapy to help with that stuff. But it's good to be versed in both, frankly. You want to be fluent in Andrew Tate but maybe not think like him more than 10% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:11 PM
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Yes it does happen Who said we're specifically looking at that age gap Exceptions to the rule are actually important since most men don't game IRL like they should and most autistic incels have personalities that are "exceptions to the rule" in terms of their personalities and they should also be looking for women who are "exceptions to the rule" that they would be most compatible with. General rules are useful but common exceptions to the rule do display a meta-pattern. Sometimes you need to un…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:19 PM
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The manosphere is full of men with lots of dark triad traits talking about their experiences with dark triad women, and people with mental illness with little experience who presume that everybody must be dark triad like that because the people who were stuck out to them as a general rule
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:03 PM
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Well a lot of women know about this too but you have to be a little bit outside of this way of thinking in order to have access to these women. Sort of, "be red pilled but pretend to be blue pilled and you don't actually need looks money status in order to have a girlfriend", and then once you go through that stage you then realize that it's more complicated than bluepill redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:15 AM
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Some girls find decent guys on dating apps and they don't even think about any of this. Same with some guys to girls. Everything is relative. Social rules are relative. You need to use your own discernment for when to use/observe one or the other relative to the situation. And many times the one you're using/observing isn't "correct", but rather "plausible" and nobody questions it. That's one thing I found that self improvement stuff should really be emphasizing. That there's usually not "correc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:41 PM
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Women definitely will date average Joe. Only on dating apps they don't. And yes that includes younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:10 PM
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There are some women, especially trashy women, who get turned on by it. It's a high risk high reward scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:55 PM
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It CAN be the case. There's a lot of other factors that go into it. Going to clubs and doing pickup is better than online dating. IRL scenarios tingle lady bits. Online ones usually don't. Ultimately you probably want to find long term partners in places other than bars. Bars are like test dummies where you practice psychology. Somebody else in here said "Feelings are a fickle thing and dissipate with time. Many men who are on a logical side of thinking are perfectly capable of living happily wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:03 PM
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Someone who looks like Robert Kennedy Jr isn't going to have problems getting with 35+ year old women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:39 PM
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What? He would get either from any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:52 PM
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It's not about your looks it's about your game, and every guy has a different style of natural game. Talk to everybody you're at least somewhat attracted to. None of this "don't bother talking to the hot ones". You'll be surprised how many hot girls want to talk to you and how many ugly ones don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:34 AM
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I agreed with most of your points on this thread. Your gaslighting skills suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:49 PM
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What? Sounds like you're taking a bit of an unnecessary negative tone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:44 PM
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Your flair says redpill man but this is very bloomer vibes compared to a lot of redpill stuff and this content feels post redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:11 PM
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What makes you think that all younger women are impulsive? Lots of nerdy chicks 6+ in attractiveness he could probably get with long term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:10 PM
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This is silly. You don't need to be "experienced with relationships" to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:09 PM
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Raised by maternal feminist sisters and marrying a beautiful girl? Damn, some communities would already be kicking you out for "lying". I think Trump is going to get re elected and a lot of illegal immigrants will be deported. I also think people from other countries will assimilate into American life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:19 PM
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Manosphere exists as an alternative to woman centered podcasts. As do hippies and goths, etc Men who make less than 50k shouldn't worry about some women telling them they shouldn't date. I don't know what she's afraid of, she's a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:50 PM
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If there's one thing the manosphere can imply to you it's that you can't always take women literally. Lots of men making less than 50k have gfs. She's just paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:27 PM
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That's giving up and stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:23 PM
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It's because female attraction is much more complicated than male attraction. In a world full of 7 billion people I'm sure we can figure out how to make all men attractive. Society doesn't see it as a priority Ruthy now unfortunately. It's just that women are attracted to game. That's all. Men's brains can be hacked with female features and women's brains can be hacked with game. To that extent yes women's taste is still unique. But it's not like all men can't get relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:50 PM
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Homosexuality is legal, gay marriage exists. They don't need to be featured in commercials necessarily. But consider all of the lesbian relationships that involve physical violence. I think it's 90%. That's not my wheelhouse, I don't know how to armchair psychology that one, but it's a thing. Progress for trans people would probably be differentiating gender identity disorder from gender dysphoria better to avoid so many detransitioning cases. Bottom line is that LGBTQ already have a lot of righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:40 PM
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Conservatives, specifically paleoconservatives, specifically disagreeable ones, are better psychoanalysts than psychoanalysts. They will make you feel insecure in ways you didn't know was possible if you're not prepared. You don't want to have too big of a shadow. In any situation, if there's a mean thing that you can say to somebody, it doesn't mean that that perspective doesn't exist. Sometimes that perspective is being aware of something you need to be aware of. It doesn't mean you always hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:37 PM
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Most conservatives themselves do not care about social progress, you are right. That's not the point though. Conservatives are more in touch with certain instincts than progressives, generally. Progressive ideology right now is too fickle and vulnerable to destruction. Certain kinds of progress, especially for LGBT and women, is not helpful to either group long term, nor for anyone else. For example, the left goes on too much about gender deconstructionism. This is a problem. Gender performance …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:03 PM
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When the left goes too far, yes it does. The right and the left are not your fellow comrades. Your fellow comrades are your fellow comrades. The left is the gas and the right is the brakes. The left has been going too fast and leaving too many people behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:44 PM
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Men's lib is not really the best sub. And it's not the worst! But it has a clear leftist political bias. It isn't attuned to the reality that paleoconservatism is the default, and that we need to be careful about that when implementing social democrat policies and ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:53 PM
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