hypothetical Dude just look at modern statistics on women in power and then realize how recently women couldn't vote... Read a history book or anthropology book.
Because almost all mature people could have done better to prevent rape in their communities, and in a patriarchal society the best equipped to enact change are men. Anyone of any gender can make it better but the world needs more people to be willing to examine their surroundings and culture with scrutiny. That doesn't make hate okay. Yet I imagine the frustration of improvement not being delivered because of victim blaming or conservativism when you are a member of the demographic most likely …
why'd you hate a whole gender for one man's work? When people talk about pervasive rape culture they attempt to highlight the ripple effect of bystander activity or fathers defending their sons' actions with phrases like, "boys will be boys" that can lead to slaps on the wrist by a male dominated justice system. When people try to point out the pervasive culture in particular, consider the weight of something like this corrupting behavior in subtle ways, it's not intended as an attack on you so …
