I absolutely agree with the OP. I tried Alan Alda game when I was younger and listened to the "I want a sensitive guy" rhetoric, didn't work. When they say "I want a sensitive guy" they mean they want an asshole that likes kids and puppies . . .
Yup, yup, she's fresh off the carousel and about to hit the wall. "I needs a man! ... but, he's got to be perfect ..." I see lots of perusing the cat food aisle your future ...
So, if I walk around with a MAGA hat there's a chance of women randomly feeling up my junk? Not a big Trump fan, but I could see voting in a second term on this platform alone ...