| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to be | Myoffthebooks | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/20 07:33 PM | |
| 5 | Her kids after the process starts | Myoffthebooks | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/19 01:45 PM | |
| 2 | I need to leave but I don’t want to | Myoffthebooks | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/18 06:33 PM | |
| 2 | I need help with this | Myoffthebooks | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/19 05:56 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThank you for following up. Update is I’m reading one of the books suggested below, “No More Mr Nice Guy”. I’m also in the process of getting my finances in order and moving some things around and away from me in preparation for getting this process started. The comments and suggestions in this thread were very instrumental in getting me going in the right direction. I greatly appreciate any and all feedback. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/20 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThank you friend | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beI needed to hear all of that because I was pretty certain what you said she was doing has already been going on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beI could probably use that kind of help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beWill do. Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beLol probably do the same thing to him | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beTha k you. I should’ve done that all along. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThank you friend. I’ll give it a read. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beOmg I love that. Thank you friend | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beI wish you luck friend. Thank you for your response and I wish you the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThank you for thy friend. It’s nice to know you can rebuild from this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThank you friends. I added both of those | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThis is good too friend. I noticed myself changing and becoming angry and resentful and That’s not me. Thank you friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThis helped me so much. Thank you friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beI do. Thank you friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThank you friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beI’m not sure. Tbh, I wish I knew a way to answer that. I don’t think I’m unworthy at all until I think deeper about that and it dawns on me that maybe it’s in my subconscious somewhere. I don’t feel that way | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beThank you friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to beYou’re right about all of that. I don’t know why I wrote court because that wasn’t really what I wanted to say. I apologize for that. I just wanted to have that red handed moment, I guess just for peace of mind that I didn’t read things incorrectly and that I did the right thing and I did all that I could do to make it work before I left. I’m sorry I wrote court friend and thank you for the reply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Her kids after the process startsYea she’s a chameleon in A lot of ways. I confronted her in May and it didn’t go well. I told her to call the contact in her phone in question and she just flat out refused. It was under a nickname she said belonged to a girl she worked with. It was the same phone number that was previously under her sisters name. When I told her to call the contact, she flat out refused saying it would be embarrassing and some other excuses. I knew then I was right and I had a decision to make. I decided to let… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Her kids after the process startsThat’s very insightful. Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/19 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Her kids after the process starts19,16, and ten. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Her kids after the process startsYou’re welcome friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/19 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Her kids after the process startsI don’t want to be the one that causes issues with their mother and them. The issues are with their mother and I and I don’t want to cause any issues there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I need help with thisThank you so much for your comment. I appreciate it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I need help with thisThank you for the comment. I appreciate it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | I need to leave but I don’t want toI guess my main reason for posting this is is there any way to not look bad or feel guilty for snooping in my wife’s business afterward when all this hits the fan? I’m gonna do my best to take the high road even if it gets ugly because if I burn her down to anyone with the evidence I’ve found, it could ruin the relationship with her and her kids and likely damage her professional and family life which I will not do. Found a hotel charge on my wife’s bank account but I found it looking through he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/18 01:26 PM |
| 3 | I need to leave but I don’t want toYea I’m gonna hold onto it and I had thought about hinting around about the stuff that I had preserved elsewhere. I want to say all kinds of things to her and him but I’m not going to. I don’t want to make any kinda of threats or say anything that could be used against me or even remotely perceived as any sort of blackmail | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/18 08:48 AM |
| 1 | I need to leave but I don’t want toThank you. There’s a lot of information there that’s very helpful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/18 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I need to leave but I don’t want toThanks. That’s what I was thinking too. Guess I just needed to type it or say it to get started. I haven’t told anyone anything and it’s bottles up and killing me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/18 12:21 AM |
| 3 | I need to leave but I don’t want toThank you for your kind words and I agree that I’m lucky. I waited until my 40th year to get married and it’s not gonna work. To answer your question, I don’t know. The one attorney I spoke with mentioned dissolution if it was uncontested and divorce if it was contested. I’m just assuming she fights for spousal support because she is trading her pics for large sums of money, at least for their jobs pay anyway. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/18 07:35 PM |
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