Myrand0musername Archive

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1	Q4ALL, What is wrong with current dating scene? and why do redpill men believe it's bad for the society? Okay so just like, fuck any of the guys who didn’t “naturally figure it out”? Toss them aside and just expect them to never bat an eye? Am I supposed to take you seriously when you compare guys who lack social skills to guys who still believe in Santa Clause? Believing in Santa can maybe get you laughed at, but it won’t single handedly cascade into having so little life skills that you can’t make a life that’s even worth living. That’s about all I’ll give you to work with cause idk if you’re eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:30 PM
1	Q4ALL, What is wrong with current dating scene? and why do redpill men believe it's bad for the society? Half true. Get lied to by everyone through your whole life, have those lies cascade into your life being nothing but loneliness depression anxiety and despair, and yea, not hard to see why they end up pissed off and angry. Lying to people as some sort of sadistic selection mechanism for those who won’t give a shit about what you tell them and they just do what they want anyway, is absolutely wretched and if a world that hinders on burns down, and you can bet those types of men will love it. They…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 02:24 PM
0	Men and women are walking right past each other when they talk about being attractive No it’s just a dumb Just World Fallacy to make themselves feel like they can’t ever choose the wrong men and thus unintentionally leave perfectly decent guys in the dust for superficial reasons. Every guy who struggles is a some piece of shit? Yea, every guy, totally. Just like every death row inmate (who go through a much more thorough system of selection) is guilty. Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 10:35 AM
1	I really think that most women are attracted to strength and fighting ability and turned off by a lack of either. I mentioned it because I admittedly got carried away with details since talking about it is fun for me. Evidence speaks for itself on grappling vs striking so you’re probably projecting on the insecurity bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 08:39 PM
1	I really think that most women are attracted to strength and fighting ability and turned off by a lack of either. I agree generally but my personal experience admittedly still is an exception. Not too long ago i mentioned to a girl I was talking to that I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and did both wrestling and Judo in the past (grappling is just so much more fun than striking IMO and I love hearing people shit talk about how boring it is cause most of them think wrestling is just 2 guys rolling around basically having sex and have no idea as to the complexity of it all, but I digress). She went off about how that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 05:58 PM
1	Introverts are more likely to be involuntarily single. Thus confirming that you have to 'put yourself out there' in order to meet people and develop interactions that turn into relationships. This is a hard truth for many Even those guys don’t “start” that way usually. Parents probably relationally traumatized them when they were 1-4 and now they have some type of insecure attachment style which greatly or potentially entirely disallows them from being secure and “normal” in the following social environments like school, and that starts a snowball of shit that gets more and more shit every time it rolls around. Psychopaths can be born though and that’s just probability and randomness being a dick and also not mot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 03:20 PM
2	Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today? Yea women who sleep around and complain about virgins are the most detestable IMO. Total hypocrites who only peddle equitable philosophies for personal gain. Body count doesn’t matter when it’s high for women, but matters when it’s low for men. Probably also doesn’t matter when women’s is low either. Only men can have an intolerable body count, even in principle. Edit to add- it also passively implies that only men can be sexually imperfect. “Women are born men are made”, how convenient for wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 02:29 PM
4	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? Probably the “inverted triangle” look. I sorta have that going and 1 girl who approached me in High School explicitly did so because she liked it. The wider your shoulder frame is than your hips, the better, to a point. Because eventually it looks really weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 07:57 PM
3	If LV men want sex and/or a relationship so badly, why don't they move to a different country get what they want instead of complaining on the internet? Ooooooooooo shots fired lol. Didn’t think about this and idk whether I agree or disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 09:07 PM
1	If LV men want sex and/or a relationship so badly, why don't they move to a different country get what they want instead of complaining on the internet? Didn’t you fucking read her comment?!? DEBT IS A CHOICE DAMNIT	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 08:46 PM
20	New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejected Precisely. Me having male genitalia makes no difference as to my innate ability to walk over to someone and start moving my lips while vibrating my vocal chords. And having female genitalia doesn’t degrade your ability to do the same. It’s just arbitrary extrapolations based on what we historically think is “equal” and thats different for every person thus having a systemic level “rule” about it is dumb and if anything, holds people back when they see it for the nonsense it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 03:24 PM
–	Passive aggressively threatening violence and collapse of society because you cant get laid is pathetic Exactly its not so much actual targeted vitriolic hate and more just “meh, what happens happens. I missed the part where that’s my problem. I’ll probably be fine and if not then nothing lasts forever right?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 03:08 PM
1	Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonely In life of course overall it’s helped, I wouldn’t trade the positives of it and what it may bring in the future for any amount of personal gains. Only in the realm of dating has it hurt me, and tbh most of that is through what some people may refer to as “digital self harm” which is entirely my own fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 10:34 PM
3	Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonely I’d say it’s not a great foundation to go through developmental periods of life with. I was already having very negative thoughts about myself in regards to dating all the way back in like 6th grade and it was probably not good for me, and certainly worse than otherwise. I’m just one person though so idk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 10:43 AM
1	Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology” Good for him and I’d bet you’re a rather rare exception, if how many women won’t accept men who watch porn is anything to go off of. And plenty of things don’t have to be how they are, but they are that way regardless. Asking someone to not feel lonely when their brain exists in a state that evolved to provoke the inner experience of loneliness, is more or less asking somebody to not be human. And that’s shitty, especially to people who likely already hardly feel like whole humans to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 06:50 PM
2	Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology” Imagine if the governments of the world announced that starting 1 week from today, that any even just suspected Incels are to be rounded up and killed. CHAOS and lots of death lol. I for one would be curious to see how many members of the general public would go with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 03:23 PM
0	Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology” They said A solution, not THE solution. There’s definitely a certain portion (exact size unknown obviously) of lonely men for whom this would suffice. Others would require more thorough solutions of course, but you could knock out a section of the problem by having just that. “The solution” by the end of it, definitely will not be in the form a single policy, as it was not caused by any single policy either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 01:04 PM
2	CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do. I see it as a reverse correlation error. It’s blanketly applied so often that a man HAS to be struggling ONLY because of his personality, that people start to, at the very least, talk as if it’s absolute and if you’re getting laid then you’re good, and if you aren’t it’s cause you are a woman hater. Like many things, there’s “quiet parts that don’t get said out loud” and this, at least in my observations, has become the case more and more even just over the past 3 or 4 years, mostly since “The I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 01:07 PM
1	It is NOT INSECURITY to want to be the best sex your partner has ever had. Period. That’s literally what OP is about and people just keep assuming the worst. How you say you are with your partner, is what he’s describing as “not unreasonable to want as a man.” Yea, wanting to be their best from the get go is a bad idea on individual differences across populations alone. You give your man a chance to be your best, but apparently that’s not very common for men to find in women. I wouldn’t know due to not having been or getting “out there” at all, but I’m fairly certain OP is bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 07:57 PM
1	Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? Doesn’t exactly discomfort me (25m somewhat regular gym goer), but when I feel like it’s all I have the option to look at because it’s in every imaginable field of view I have available to me, I start to feel weird. Not a bad weird but a kind of weird that immediately makes me dissociate and exist solely in my head while on physical autopilot. I definitely have noticed too though it’s the vast majority of women at the 2 gyms I go to that dress this way. Wish I didn’t have debilitating anxiety lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 03:23 PM
–	Sex is not Charity. On a personal level, 'fairness' is irrelevant. They loved Ted Bundy too and hated Isaac Newton. Bad metric for being a decent person or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:56 PM
2	This one's for all the Redpillers out there B B B B B BRUTAL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:40 PM
–	Sex is not Charity. On a personal level, 'fairness' is irrelevant. Wow, didn’t realize women have as much self control over their actions as a glass of milk has self control over falling over when someone bumps it. You either passively believe consciousness is this super powerful 5th force of the universe, or are a Solipsist. Can’t tell. Horrible analogy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:07 PM
4	Prostitution being legal in the United States WILL vastly change the dating market This wouldn’t do it I think. AI sex bots will though, but that tech will change everything and the sex bots will just be side pieces to the main show of technological evolution anyway. Being able to directly stimulate your brain and senses to do whatever you want them to do without outside influence besides your desire (no need to eat apples if you can just experience the taste whenever you want, for example) is something that will not only effect sex, though it might be the majority of its init…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 02:14 PM
5	CMV: as long as women hold views like these regarding male virginity, you cannot act like male promiscuity is equivalent to female promiscuity. While it isn’t fair to expect them to “sing the praises of inexperienced men”, if they’re constantly going on about how notch count doesn’t matter when high count women are being scorned, I would expect them to not do what they do currently to virgin and inexperienced men which is to say they use the carrot and stick approach but only utilize the stick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 10:54 AM
4	Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided? Reflects my friend group too. Me and the other guy who struggle a lot both have good jobs and our own places. However, our acquaintance (no longer friend since he’s a piece of shit as you’ll see) who gets laid with 2 different girls every week has no job, lives with parents, has 2 DUIs and is on probation. The girls even drink and do drugs with him knowing he’s on probo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 02:21 PM
2	Study: Large number of straight people have had same-sex experiences I mean, I once decided to try gay sex with Henry Cavill in a Lucid Dream. Does that count? Am I “gay enough” lol? This doesn’t really surprise me, though hardly anything does anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 08:12 PM
1	[Q4All] How often do you think Men talk their way out of getting laid? I don’t even wanna know how many times I’ve done this. I’m a decently attractive guy but really don’t like talking so when I occasionally do I definitely fuck it up cause like you suggested it’s one wrong word and boom attraction is gone, which is why I don’t even bother anymore. I went through my OCD/perfectionist phase and hated every second of it, I’m allowed to not be an absolute expert in everything I do. If that means women are put off then it’s beyond my motivation to give a shit anymore …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 03:10 PM
1	The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that? When it comes to me personally, I’m a mix of your friends #1 and 2. Societally however, I don’t have time to go into it as I’m on break at work, but I’m sure plenty others will point them out as this is a hot topic for some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 03:26 PM
1	[Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)? This reflects my friend group too. There’s a small spectrum of guys in my circle. I’m a good looking but very unengaging and reservedguy at 25, don’t get laid (though I have and thank Christ it was a good experience so I’m not bitter). Youngest guy has a damn mortgage and his own house, still a virgin at 24, and he’s decent looking though he has early hair loss issues but he’s also goofy and funny. Other friend lives with his parents, but is good looking and outgoing so he gets laid somewhat reg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/21 03:24 PM
1	CMV: N count of 1 is the worst Meh not really. I only have 1, but I’d have 0 if a girl I knew in HS wasn’t so into me that nothing I did would turn her off and she eventually got me into bed. So many individual courses of events that could lead to someone having only 1 that I would just assume it’s not the worst. 0 is probably worse, and ludicrously high numbers that just keep getting higher are probably worse than that. Even after saying that, ultimately it’s all so individually circumstantial that the question as to exactly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 08:04 PM
8	The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men. Well yea, one always has the option to throw what little Free Will they have and just let others run their lives for them. “Be a better human so a nice woman would want to date you”. Maybe you disagree, but I was always told and heard that just because you’re single it doesn’t mean you’re a bad or worse person, and it makes sense. The statement you made implies if a guy is single he’s some PoS or something. I’ll just respectfully disagree there, and continue to do my hobbies that I love in spite…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 02:40 PM
9	The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men. I never said it’s worse. I said, overall, that it still comes with its own unique form of shittiness if you fail. Instead of being worked to the bone knowing you won’t ever breed/have sex, you get worked to the bone whilst everyone harks on you over it and try to make you feel bad for failing. One is a quick death, one is more prolonged with less pain but still death in the end. We agree on the premise but I just wanted to add on that little bit, it’s asinine to wish to be born in the dark ages …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 01:05 PM
32	The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men. If you’re successful, yes. I’d say failure in this culture is still really shitty because you have a super sexual culture constantly being thrown in your face when you’re horny as hell and nobody wants to rustle your jimmies. That’s not exactly a fun predicament to find yourself in. Not trying to change your or anyone else’s mind but I think that’s a worthy thing to add. Higher chance for success and better terms when you succeed but failing is just as bad still.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 10:35 AM
1	Question for the fellas: young average men, do you guys even try with women your age? I only know of my “tool” because I managed to get laid with 1 girl right after high school and I found out during that short period. I probably could but I usually just wanna get torched and play games instead of doing stuff women would prefer me to do instead/things they’d find me attractive for doing. Plus I’m unable to read interest in women (I can read disinterest though which is why I don’t bother them), and am horrible at flirting. All of it together just makes it easier to not give a shit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 09:50 AM
1	You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating Climate Yea I just added that bit as a little extra idea about how insanely unlikely everything ending up this exact way is, which I felt could sorta tie into the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:11 PM
1	You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating Climate Mmmm, my parents both worked somewhat lower end jobs, so in terms of how the world changed they may have still met. However, my Dad is very religious and conservative vs my Mom who is quite liberal. If they wouldn’t have met, it would be because of that. My Mom hasn’t dated at all since they divorced and actively turns men away, so it is possible she wouldn’t have just got on OLD and done that. Also if you think about it, if your Dad had nutted 3 seconds earlier or later, you may not have been b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 12:15 PM
1	Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man? This is the same for me, except the trying part lol. My logic is that I’d rather have to claw my way back from being known as the guy who’s quiet and shy than claw my way back from being the guy who said something weird or even possibly harassed someone without realizing. Seems like it’s probably easier to do given my level of social skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 09:32 AM
1	What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent? You trying to say something specific? Cause I’ve read your comment like 8 times and still can’t tell lol. I’m not exactly ugly, I’m a Mitchell Musso doppelgänger and I’ve heard girls my age go off about how hot he is so I’ve got that going for me looks wise, I just think you underestimate just how quiet and socially timid I am. I’ve had girls I already liked clearly pick up on it and start trying to start conversations with me, and I still just can’t do it, my brain goes entirely blank at the qu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 08:01 PM
2	What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent? I’m a young sexless man, so I contributed to these numbers lol but I’ve even taken it a step further than many others. I Lucid Dream a whole lot, I get my “intimacy fix” from there and my “purely sex” fix from jerking off. If it’s gonna be hard for me to get laid (low income, shitty job, extremely shy and timid, not flirty, very quiet, sees philosophical problems with having to always initiate simply because I have a penis, the things women tend to hate with a passion from what I hear), I might …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 01:37 PM