MyrrdinWyllt5 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Need some advice here. Care for vs. Love my wife. After 6 years of no intimacy, you probably resent the hell out of her and any effort to reconcile will be very difficult. So will divorce. I chose the latter and don't regret it, but it is not an easy process (still in it). After my wife refused counseling, I knew it was over.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 06:49 PM
11	This is a post from divorced women page… you can’t make this shit up. I will never marry again Different perspective here: This is probably for the best. It would be far worse if she stayed and had children with this guy, because she would have left in 5, 10, 15 years or whatever and ripped this guys' kids from him and left him in far worse financial straights. They've been married for a year and are young. Maybe she legitimately made a mistake. In any case, he's better off without her.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/26 03:48 PM
1	Starting my divorce journey I lived this way longer than I care to admit. It was incredibly unhealthy for me and didn't do the children any favors. Although they were upset when we told them I was leaving, it's important to show them boundaries too. They know the marriage isn't happy. I'm still in early days and there are a lot of logistics and painful financial and other decisions, but I feel like there is a huge weight off my chest (even if there is a pit in my stomach over the hurt my children are feeling). All I can sa…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/26 04:55 PM
5	The regret is unbearable My wife is actively trying to guilt and manipulate me because it worked so well for 30 years. No more. While I am heartbroken for the children, I choose me for damn near the first time. No one is perfect and there is always blame to go around, but it ok to choose happiness - or at least its possibility.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 06:00 PM
2	Alienation is an insidious form of abuse It's hard, but I have not told them what a crazy bitch their mom is. She, however, has done everything under the sun to triangulate and demean me (with little of it being true). I figure (or at least hope) that, in time, they will understand.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 03:26 AM
3	Is it normal…. But when the wife says "no" to even trying counseling, that's a pretty good indicator too.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/26 04:41 PM
1	Wife MonkeyBranched and I've become the needy ex PART2 I'm all for supporting the guys here, but OP was on a 2 day coke and stalking bender. I am going to leave a little room for maybe the ex isn't the problem here.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/26 04:39 PM
1	What do you all do when you don’t have a support system? Agree, talk to a therapist just as someone you can unload with. And join a martial art or gym club or something to be around other men.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/26 04:36 PM