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It's a bit like the media coverage of the Kurdish fighters, a big focus on the few dozen (certainly brave) women among thousands of fighters who become completely unnoticed... impersonalized and ungendered: "fighters" Mainstream media are essentially narrative factories and not objective sources of information
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/22 09:33 PM
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The protests, which are not new because there have been several in recent years, have several reasons, primarily economic because of Western sanctions, and also political because the current Iranian government has greatly reduced freedoms including preventing many reformist candidates to run for election which prevents a large part of the population to be represented The death of the girl who protested against the obligation of covering hair is the drop that made the vase overflow Paradoxically,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/22 09:25 PM
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If we analyze the mainstream feminist discourse, the media and the governments and even the UN programs: What is leftist about the objective of having more women ceos and managers in big companies, which could represent the very opposite of what is supposed to be the leftist principle: polluting industries, exploiting people, selling shit, doing everything to avoid paying taxes etc. there is also a lot of talk about increasing the number of women in STEM, especially IT...because it's the future,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/22 04:14 AM
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I'm unsure how feminism is disqualified from objective analysis in your framework. Not being American I am not very familiar with theories of intersectional feminism, but it seems to me that it is always a more or less gynocentric vision of society, and always a kind of adaptation of the marxist theory of economic classes to gender, in which men as a group (white men in the US, referring to race is problematic in Europe) take the place of the bourgeois, the dominant economic class that holds the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 09:59 PM
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Except for postmodern feminist There will always be gender roles due to biology and sexual dysmorphism ​ The content of actual popular discourse is less known Exactly what I meant by "public discourse", the popular discourse ... because generally there is always a gap between the norms, and the practice behind closed doors What would constitute an objective reading of gender? ​ Studying gender within the framework of economic classes for ex Talking about men and women as groups without taking in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 07:00 PM
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The sexual liberation altered the gender discourse and has formed a new standard that is still gendered. It is science that has "altered the gender discourse", or rather altered the old beliefs about sexuality But as long as you agree that sexual liberation has formed new standards that remain gendered, it's traditionalism 101 bis. I didn't say that there were no norms around sexuality, what I meant was that in the absence of a public discourse on sexuality it is impossible to make any claims...…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 04:22 PM
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The innocent and beautiful sexuality of women is also coherent with discourse around women, that they're caring and subservient (they exist to please). It's traditionalism 101. it is rather the continuity of the sexual liberation discourse of the 60's.. And this "double standard" in question can be noticed in modern literature and cinema, including feminist ones, in which women's affairs are presented as liberations, while men's affairs are presented as assholism in general. In "traditionalism" …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 01:18 PM
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I agree with almost everything you say, but I think we're not talking about exactly the same thing, I'm talking about a very long term relationship or even a lifetime...And during a lifetime, people change, the way you look at your partner changes, the attraction of the beginning changes And then : If a partner gets sick, goes through a depression or difficulties that alter his quality of life, prevents him from having a fulfilling sexual life with his partner, we have two outcomes: 1 - they sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:54 PM
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I agree for a long and happy marriage (that's the point of not getting divorced) there must be other less physical factors Than male sexual performance, condemned inevitably to decrease :D ... Otherwise, we end up with a cynically materialistic (not to say bestial) vision of marriage and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:40 AM
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I didn't say that it's not important, especially in the age where we are supposed to be sexually active... for both sides by the way I just said that male sexual performance will naturally decrease with age (all men will experience temporary or permanent erectile dysfunction after a certain age), as well as the libido of both men and women, which can vary ... There must be other factors that make people stay together...otherwise it's "naturally" a dead end lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:16 AM
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But sexual performance decreases with age as well as libido which can be "volatile" for both sexes over a lifetime, so this idea of "good marriage" based on "good sex" might actually be a recipe for how to achieve 100% divorce for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:37 AM
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Even if I'm not American or Australian, it's not hard to imagine that what we read here is more ideological fictions (to animate the debate maybe) and ideological fantasies , than real experiences. I have lived in three countries, two of them are very traditionalist and "patriarchal" you can say, and I have not yet met a man who says "I don't help with the domestic work, because I'm a man" ... it's really a caricatural. On the other hand, boys who have been so spoiled by their parents (especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:30 AM
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the real way humans are meant to live which is serial monogamy. There is no one way that suits everyone, serial monogamy is only suitable for rich or relatively rich people Monogamy (which is a romantic concept unlike serial monogamy or poly-stuff which are more materialistic concepts), marriage or lifelong partnership is also a social , economic and PSYCHOLOGICAL protection... the disintegration of the family and the disappearance of some "old values" have been a disaster among the poor classes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:01 AM
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My point is that it’s not genuine desire, which is something you guys seem to care about a lot. It's a different culture, the "genuine desire" doesn't really have the same meaning Western societies are very individualistic and materialist, it's just a fact. Traditional societies, like Arab-Islamic societies, contrary to what outsiders may imagine, are very romantic, even too romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:06 PM
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but a guy could just take his kid down to Labcorp and get a legally admissible paternity test. There's nothing stopping him from doing it. In France ? The realization of a paternity test outside the legal framework can lead to sanctions that can go up to one year of imprisonment and a 15 000 € fine Some people take the risk to do it clandestinely, but legally only a judge can order the test
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:57 PM
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The process is complicated and expensive and when the child is a minor and the mother refuses, it is necessary to have valid reasons and solid evidence for the judge to order a paternity test... because basically the law is not made to allow fathers to know the true biological filiation of their children, but to the mother to enforce the designated biological fathers to take their responsibilities, mainly financial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:31 AM
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15% in the African countries. This is mainly due to the easier access to contraception in developed countries. Curiously, the only study carried out in France in the 80's on a relatively significant number of families (175), revealed that 25 children in these families were not from their biological fathers... which falls within this 10/15% range
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:23 AM
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I couldn’t. Yes you can, if you were more interested in searching, than trying to contradict me without even specifying what exactly you were contradicting in my "thoughts" and especially trying to develop a little more your own: Why women choose divorce: An evolutionary perspective The authors of the study considered a variety of different mechanisms that might explain their findings. Are women who gain positions of high status more tempted to remarry? As women enter male-dominated professions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:16 AM
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This is a trend observed almost everywhere in Western countries, there are many studies on the subject you can easily find them, I think it is useless to dwell on the representativity of the samples ​ For my part, the only thing that interests me in these studies are the data, I do not attach much importance to their interpretation by the "researchers", because they are most likely ideological interpretations, which must be interpreted in the context of political polarization...politic ideology …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:21 PM
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Top jobs lead to divorce for women, but not for men ​ Getting a top job dramatically increases women’s chances of divorce, even in egalitarian countries. Why isn’t it the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:31 PM
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Not all women, and perhaps not necessarily despise ... but it must be thought that it will become increasingly common, loyalty, love for life and other "old fashion" values and visions of romance and life long partnership no longer seems to inspire the modern creators of culture ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:51 AM
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in some European country women who eject their "good" husbands as soon as they get promoted and progress in their careers is almost a phenomenon, you can find some articles about it, there are also a lot of blogs, and vlogs of women who tell why they left their good -almost perfect- partners, and it's usually the same story: the search for that absolute freedom, to reinvent themselves to discover the hidden secrets of life, of space, the recipe of the absolute perfect happiness! and stuff like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:35 PM
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The thing is that historically men and women have accepted this situation, at every major crisis that threatens society women and children will try to get to safety, men will try to block the danger, even if there have always been exceptions, this is the tendency throughout history that all societies have accepted as something "normal" Well, today some "feminist" speeches obsessed by the absolute and perfect total equality are facing the test of the pure and hard reality, this war in the countri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 09:19 PM
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I know it wasn't to start a religious debate, it was just a parenthesis because many people, including Western men who want to marry Muslim women (I personally know some), mix religion and traditions in these countries. What I said above is an information that is not debatable and around which there is a consensus among Muslim scholars. And we end here ... So that it doesn't become a religious debate indeed (besides I am agnostic)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:05 AM
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Best of luck, life is hard nowadays no one can follow a magic formula that can work everywhere and with everyone...these are things that couples have to negotiate and compromise around It's just that many people mix religion and traditions in Muslim countries
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:48 AM
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The sexual obligations is for both, the wife keeps all her rights (something like alimony etc) if she asks for a divorce because her husband dont take care of her sexual need
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:37 AM
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no and only muslim women lol You know that in Islam only the husband has the legal and religuous obligation to bring money home, even if your wife is a billionaire you have no right to take a cent from her unless she contributes willingly And that the wife has no religious or legal obligation to cook and clean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:20 AM
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Not only in the Anglo-Saxon world but all over the world, the left seems to be abandoning the class struggle, the economic disparity between rich and poor, in favor of the "gender struggle".Men no longer represent a large part of the oppressed working class... but are the oppressive group whatever their social class :D By the way the "leftism" of feminism is more than questionable... what is leftist about the fight to have more women CEO's in companies that pollute the environment, in the arms i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/22 09:29 PM
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It is a completely imaginary story that confuses historical periods and is based on a projection of contemporary post-modern conditions of societies that live in economic comfort and political and security stability (i.e. the West) on the whole planet and human history.Men have never acted as a group for the interest of their own "gender". Ask women in the Middle East, for example, what they consider a "man", how he should be. You will be amused by the degree of attachment of women to traditiona…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 08:06 PM
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Not only on internet forums but also in the mainstream media and in politicians' discourse ..etc Humanities universities have created a big mess all over the world in the last few years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:32 AM
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I believe it to be socioeconomic more than anything. Is it a coincidence that the races you wish to talk about are the most subjugated to oppression? In fact the only objective factor that can be taken into account is the socio-economic factor, neither the "gender" nor the race have any importance when we want to study the violence. Pointing to a particular gender, in this case men, as being inherently violent is easily demountable, a strict minority of men commit violent acts, most often agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:35 AM
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Large majority of marriages with educated couples over 25+ don’t end in divorce. it seems logical More educated generally means better salaries and therefore fewer financial problems Older means people lower their selection criteria to focus on what is most important But it doesn't prove anything, that these marriages last longer doesn't mean that they won't also end in divorce, except maybe for the part of the population in the West that still believes in traditional values In reality nothing c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:15 PM
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So either you haven't read anything or you haven't understood anything. The increase in rape statistics is mainly due to changes in the law, which now covers behavior that was not previously considered rape, such as marital rape. The vast majority of cases are perpetrated by locals, not immigrants, and the allegations of attacks on women in 2016 by immigrants are mostly false after police investigation. that said, certainly the recent waves of immigration to sweden have been problematic, as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:39 AM
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false allegations of the swedish far right I have posted the links
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:05 AM
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Many of those immigrants don't believe in equal rights for women. Neither the majority of the western population believed in equality 60 years ago It's written directly and explicitly in the Quran that women are subjected below men. No It's much more complicated, and nuanced in the Quran, and then in religions, it's all about interpretation Not only that, they've had a sharp rise in rape/assault of Swedish women by Islamic men. But you can't really say this because the last time Europe tried cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:02 AM
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I'm not fan of these classifications either, and while I think it's mostly due to the capitalist culture where everyone lives in perpetual competition to "do better to have more"... but the reality is that the deconstruction of traditional culture and structures that forced women and men regardless of their social class and looks to be together in a marriage that was the only framework in which there can be sexual relations to build families, this deconstruction has likely allowed for the return…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:51 AM
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Nothing in your link ---> it is dominated by age ranging from 15 to 20 years old. https://towardsdatascience.com/k-pop-in-the-eye-of-international-fan-7fe51dbdb712
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:29 AM
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Oh it's a whole "genre" that's been around for decades...these neglected wifes who get fucked by a hairy, muscular intruder while the husband (usually an average looking actor so people don't sympathize with him) is working or playing with the kids. . there's even a sub-genre in full growth now, in which a lesbian takes the role of this hairy male intruder who introduces the wife to new sexual experiences, and ends up screwing up the pretty little happy family ! I'm kidding ... partly *
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:59 PM
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By justifying deception, therefore bad behavior, with stupid arguments ... paradoxically in the end they end up promoting an example of women unable to face their problems and solve them in a rational and reasonable way .. No ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:11 PM
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You know those family drama movies, where a woman will cheat on her nice husband often with a virile bad guy ... because her nice working husband can't be super present emotionally sexually 24/24 ... at the end I almost want to insult this husband for neglecting his poor beautiful wife ... but I realize that I look more like this husband than this bad guy xD Well that's one way to infantilize women. I just saw the Sex Life tv show, and the first thing that struck me is how the progressive vision…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:39 PM
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Masculinity and femininity are only the sexual dances or the "Courtship display" that we see in many animal species in nature, through which males and females adopt different behaviors and aesthetic looks to distinguish themselves first of all, then to attract each other (even if in a more complex way in humans certainly) In the rock scene also many famous stars wore makeup and skirts, men didn't copy them, they copied only what distinguished them as men... But I don't find these examples very r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:11 PM
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It's a bad example because it's a marketing phenomenon that targets mainly teenagers Many singers and celebrities had an androgynous/feminine look and had a huge success among women in the past.The fact that the overwhelming majority of men didn't copy this "look" in real life to increase their chances with women, means maybe that women didn't really want it in real life, i.e. men who compete with them in femininity. The fact that the classic versions of the men look (or man ideal) persist... me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:06 PM
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In fact not only mainstream ideas, but specifically progressive ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:28 AM
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is it really like that in the United States?! doubt that very much...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:18 AM
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When you watch "progressive" movies drama ...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:15 AM
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This seems to be indeed one of the myths of some "feminist" narrative... Usually smart and successful people are appreciated when they put their intelligence and success at the service of others (their partners, families etc)... and they are less appreciated or even hated when they arrogantly want to put forward their so-called intelligence and educational or professional success to claim or prove a "special higher status"... and it goes both ways for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:14 AM
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Educational and professional achievement is not necessarily synonymous with a pleasant and friendly personality whose company can be enjoyed... 99% of the specialties and degrees have zero utility in everyday social interactions And this goes for both men and women... In men's circles, men who constantly emphasize their success and intelligence are usually ridiculed and expelled because it is usually interpreted as arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:53 AM
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Eventually some woman will have to settle for these guys and finance their Patrician lifestyle. If enough men underachieve, it will become socially acceptable. if this is what you call "men selfimprovement", then men and more generally societies go directly into a wall
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:55 AM
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The main reason must be that these women who earn more money work more, spend more time outside so less with their families ... and are more tired, stressed etc A bit like men who work a lot I think... are certainly more likely to be cheated on by their wives... but in this case we don't point to "fragile femininity" but to the emotional absence of these men that leads their wives to cheat on them. What the article says can be true for some men in some cases ... But in reality all the "studies" …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:43 PM
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Personally I don't see why this would be a problem, to to try to deny it, or to blame women for it.! Age Gaps in Dating, Love, and Marriage Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests: Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them. In online dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:15 PM
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Regardless of redpill "theories", women under 30 tend to be with older men (because they are more mature, more financially stable... whatever), which makes for a large empty waiting room for men 18/25 and even older... it's the same in almost every culture in the world. It's a fact, there is no reason to deny it, and above all, there is absolutely no reason to blame women for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:14 PM
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If you are fucking a Borderline, marrying her is a horrible move. Not t marrying a borderline is excellent advice. If all women were borderlines, this advice would be perfect. Not necessarily, there are "progressive" people, including many women who think that marriage is an archaic and oppressive institution... Others think that as long as it is possible to be in a couple without getting married, then there is no need to have a contract that would make separation difficult and costly. People wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:07 PM
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Can you think of any way that TRP differs from the mainstream left view of women in general? They are against marriage They are against the idea of financially supporting a woman, i.e. they are against men continuing to play the traditional role of protector / provider for women and societies. And this thing, which is becoming global now (you can find TRPs from all countries and cultures of the world) is a kind of new individualism produced by modern culture, not an extension of traditional cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:10 PM
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It is not a structured ideology, it is more ideas and shared experiences. They don't really call for traditional roles even if many think that men/women relationships were better before, they are mostly against marriage (so they are not traditionalists) and long term relationships... In summary it's: Personal mental, physical and financial improvement + occasional sex and short term relationships, but never get married or be in a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:20 PM
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ultra traditional when it comes to gender roles No, in fact, it is a post-modern "ideology", which can be described as neo-individualism ... they are very criticized by "traditionalists" Christians, Muslims and others ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:37 PM
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You are strangely mixing genetics and culture... What is described in the post is a problem related to modern culture, it will not disappear with natural selection, the next generations will be in the same situation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:22 AM
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Must be said that men do it too, I don't think there is a man who tells the truth about what he really thinks of his wife's "sagging" breasts, her weight or her cellulite...People usually do it because they care about their partner's feelings... and because their partner is supposed to represent more than the physical aspect... But to spread this "information" to other people in real life or on the internet is very disrespectful..only shitty and superficial persons do that ​ Otherwise no man sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:52 AM
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You mean your question if I am redpill? I did not downvote Actually experts say that women cheat as much as men, it's just that they hide it more for fear of the consequences, on the other hand men tend to exaggerate their sexual conquests because for some it's a symbol of virility, and so they hide it less... Women are also capable of doing very deserving things And the reality is that the modern culture that is fucked .. You seem to project an emotional charge on raw statistics, without any nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:37 PM
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No (Because I don't like exaggerations and generalizations..But that doesn't mean they don't have interesting points)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:14 PM
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What is your point? My point is that you are making a very subjective reading of this study.And then these "gender studies" in general that only take the gender factor are actually useless and only serve for ideological masturbation and virtual gender wars on the internet...For example since it's about Saudi Arabia, and I can claim to have some knowledge of Arab societies, the cultural factor is completely ignored : what is considered "good", "bad" or "normal" behavior can vary according to each…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:04 PM
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You don't seem to have correctly read the study which states that the divorce rate in families when a spouse has cancer is lower than the average divorce rate in this country, that in 44% of divorces the husband was unemployed which suggests that the spouse's illness is not the primary or at least the only cause, and that several studies give contradictory results which make it difficult to draw conclusions ​ The overall divorce rate in Saudi Arabia is estimated to be 27.84% (7). We thus find th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:29 AM
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It is embarrassing and complicated to date a local sex market star who has ex-partners on every street ...if we are looking for serious relationships ...it's normal attitude for both "normal" men and women I don't understand what's strange about that ..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:17 AM
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I don't think most people are willing to take that kind of risk...and they are not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:33 AM
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There will be more and more people especially young men, (but maybe women as well I don't know) will avoid relationships, or will not put much effort to be in relationship. For lack of time, lack of meeting places, or simply not wanting to risk their well being..relationships are becoming complicated to manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:20 AM
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Does that mean you can be in love with someone whose past behavior suggests he may be irresponsible and make you miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:33 AM
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Ok now, at my age, what I know about love comes mostly from my real life experience and not from movies or tv shows and in real life, people do their best to be in successful relationships, and not end up in disaster because of fundamental incompatibilities and blatant red flags that they have refused to take into account from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:00 AM
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those with " unrestricted sociosexual orientation" And those with "selective restricted sociosexual orientation" Yes, there are a whole categies ! lol you mean that love is stronger than anything ? It's a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:51 AM
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Loving a category of people despite knowing in advance that they are statistically more inclined to cheat ... it's a kind of masochism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:58 PM
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Regardless of experience, religious beliefs and everything else that is "cultural" and therefore subjective in nature. A high body count means a large number of sexual encounters in a short period of time. This may suggest a behavioral and personality disorder Possible trauma Significant exposure to sexually transmitted diseases .. So to say that it shouldn't matter...and to shame those who think it does, is a kind of reality denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:19 PM
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You are just a little dishonest because there are things that are just common sense. And from the beginning I explained what I meant by "they care" ... that their partner has fucked half the town...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:00 PM
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I’ve seen several studies that say people with a high body count , cheat more .. I don’t have it on hand right now but you can find them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:13 AM
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It’s simple - I’ve been I was not referring to you in particular (I do not understand how you understood that I designated you in particular), but to several comments of several women in this sub, on different post not only this one. Moreover I never take into account references to personal experiences because everyone can invent what he wants just to answer ​ when you say "'they don’t care"... it means they’re gonna react to those two sentences : "Baby when I was young, I won a competition when…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:57 AM
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Let’s make it simple: First of all I was talking about men who want to be in a serious relationship .. For those who are only interested in temporary relationships, it’s normal that they don’t care. All statistics say that those with a high body count are more likely to cheat women also care about it.. I read in your comment that women are not interested in "fuck boy" and "chad" contrary to what men think here (I agree to a certain point).. if asked why you will answer without doubt that they wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:56 AM
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Currently it is proven by studies that it's a factor that can predict the failure of a relationship. What about it is threatening? The "threat" is to invest in a relationship may fail due to incompatibilities which may arise in the future, It may indicate an inability to stay in a serious relationship, doubt about the partner's ability to make good choices ..etc ​ Those who value low n-counts should keep their own low as well to be able to score someone with the same values. Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:58 AM
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Even though I'm not American and I don't know American society, I was born and raised in a European country : Men care and fear the N count, all over the world they care...and increasingly...especially young men who have reached the age of settling and wanting to start a family and who haven't had dozens of experiences, in other words: most men But the way to deal with it can vary And women too care, and this is quite normal, I don't understand how we can't ask ourselves questions when we learn …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:33 AM
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Probably because your behavior and attitudes do not predict a high number? If they don't ask it doesn't mean they don't care... you can only know when they find out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:53 AM
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I think it's more accurate to say that they don't care about the N until it exceeds a certain level Sometimes they don't want to know because it will radically change the way they look at their partners And if they say they don't care at all, often it's because they don't see themselves staying in the relationship for life, or it's because they see that their options are limited, or they're interested in something other than a romantic relationship... But they care!This is valid for women too...…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:45 AM
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It's a different culture, in which sex is not an objective in itself and it remains a very intimate thing that is not exposed... Better or not depends on the way you see things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:48 AM
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She doesn't realize that what she is ultimately saying is that women are only useful to men for sex. Or that's what she really thinks... then she' s in a kind of self-objectification of her gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:28 PM
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How does it make any sense to conclude if a woman says she wants to marry someone, that actually means she doesn’t like him It doesn't mean that she hates him, but that he doesn't fit perfectly, or even moderately, to her "ideal",but just because he fits on the minimum (compared to her ideal)... and it is because of social pressure, age, or just not to be alone. Of course it depends on people, their cultures and their socialization, but although it seems a cynical statement, it is the reality th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:13 PM
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it seems logical 18/34 years is the phase where men work the most to achieve something in their lives .. relationships become a bit secondary But the real problems for many young men are loneliness (no circle of friends, very limited or no relationship with family) and lack of ambition ... much more than the lack or absence of sex with a partner which can be replaced by other alternatives .. besides, the importance given to sex in modern culture is very exaggerated .. even mythical .. it fills p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:15 PM
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I can assure you that in some socio-economic classes, no one needs to tell boys or girls "don't cry"... they understand it all by themselves as soon as they start to understand what it takes to survive in the environment they grow up in
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:58 PM
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All these notions, terms, conceptions ...( "toxic masculinity", "traditional masculinity" etc) don't mean anything substantial, and don't designate anything that is scientifically well defined ... it's pure literature for "well-meaning" rather literary spirits. these are contemporary clichés, which I think will disappear in the next few years and hopefully give way to something more consistently structured and scientifically well-defined... perhaps with the advent of literature/studies for men (…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:53 PM
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Most likely because they are living in an economic and social situation which reduces them to their primitive survival instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:19 AM
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Traditional notions of masculinity often categorise it as a weakness if a man were to acknowledge that he has a health problem, and that it is not ok to talk about it or take action. Clichés Like most of what you've put on .. That might be the problem with those who are fans of this term "toxic masculinity" .. it looks like they're portraying a mythical creature from ancient mythology or some heroes from Japanese cartoons and not real ordinary men that they normally meet every day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:07 AM
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it depends at what level in the workplace there is no choice, everyone is in competition. In personal relationships, many men, perhaps even the majority, would not want a woman who has these character traits and who challenges them all the time, because competitiveness is more a male trait and if the atmosphere in the house becomes the same competitive atmosphere that men experience with male friends and colleagues, many end up leaving ...what men look for in women in general are things that do …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:42 PM
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A minimum level of education is certainly necessary not only when it comes to choosing a partner to get married (which is not the case for people in this sub) but also in freinds circle ... but to believe that the degrees and the university course mean that the person is humanly and socially more interesting and more pleasant to live with than another less educated person is false, in reality, generally it is quite the opposite.
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 10:19 AM
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I think that’s what’s actually threatening to men In reality it's a myth, for the overwhelming majority of men, the degrees, and the social status of women is neither a threat nor an important criterion for forming a couple .. and this in all societies, and i know two quite well: a European country which is my country of birth, and my country of origin which is an African country, and I discovered in this forum that everywhere it's the same in fact This may be due to the traditional gender roles…
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 11:38 PM
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" for centuries! It hasn't even been ONE century that women could say that" Because it was not possible quite simply, until a century ago or even less, a good part of humanity still lived in direct contact with nature, and even in urban areas, most of the jobs required a lot of physical effort, so gender roles were necessary for the survival of the family, the tribe, the society and the "nation": men go outside to work in dangerous environments, women and children had to stay in safe place. This…
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 05:02 AM
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MGTOW "philosophy" can be classified as neo-individualism or post-modern individualism, and in none as "traditionalists", for wich marriage and family are fundamental whatever the circumstances. . Moreover, they are highly criticized by Christian and Muslim "traditionalists "and people from other religions.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 05:07 AM
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The only reason feminists exist is because we allow it If the "we" in his sentence "we allow it" designates men in general and not members of this Sub (which is most likely) then it is true..It is just reality. women obtained their rights in the modern era thanks to men, who wanted a better future for their daughters .. and not thanks to the "feminist revolutions in which thousands of feminist women died to save the women of the earth from men oppression ".
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 11:09 PM
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