| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 46 | Lesson learnt after breakup | THEORY | MysiaPysia666 | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/24 06:24 PM |
| 28 | Boyfriend doesn't have any plans for the future | ADVICE | MysiaPysia666 | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 05:09 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherHi, wanna be friends? | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Any success stories where your partner left you for another woman and came back?Was it an accident? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Full text-game breakdown - 18-year old blonde girl from TinderIt’s very clear that she was into you from the beginning and really eager to fuck you after meeting in person. You might not be a gigachad 6 something, which gave you even better advantage. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How can I avoid becoming a low investment backup option?But honestly don’t do so much for the man on the 1st date, they should try harder than you in the beginning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/24 02:01 PM |
| 2 | How can I avoid becoming a low investment backup option?Pierogi only for husband lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/24 01:59 PM |
| 10 | How Do You Know if You Have Found a Man with "Matching Luggage?"Girl, he’s not higher value than you by any means. Like he lied and is clearly an alcoholic with no license? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/24 04:51 PM |
| 3 | No proposal after yearsIf you were in your 20s I would tell you to leave him, but now your best bet is to wait to this last “deadline” he gave you (maybe he will follow through this time) and then maybe propose to him if he doesn’t act. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/24 06:26 AM |
| 57 | How much money would it take for you to sell yourselfHe seems really insecure lol. Being offered a billion for sex is an abstract situation that will literally never happen, yet he is offended by it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/24 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Am I (24F) wasting my time with my boyfriend (26M)?Thanks, I'm just afraid if I'm not serious about it, no one else will be. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/24 05:22 AM |
| 5 | How can I tell my friend that she needs to change her bad habits to get a boyfriend?Idk where do you live, but if in some western country then there are probably many men who live on hamburger helpers and dino nuggets (didn't even knew these exist before watching american tiktoks). Chain smoking on the other hand is more european style. But she might find a "good mix" of both for herself I guess? My point is she can pull a boyfriend, but it shouldn't be her biggest concern right now lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How to fix sex in your marriageI've made some notes here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/24 11:50 AM |
| 4 | Be better in bed?Patricipating might be wearing lingerie, kissing their whole body, light biting, rubbing their back or meanature while making out, sitting on their lap and grinding, french kissing, taking his clothes off, assuming position (hate the expression), asking him to fuck you (or do some other thing to you) or telling him how sexy he is/how aroused you are, riding D, facesitting, blowjobs, handjobs, moaning, screaming, touching yourself, putting tits in his mouth. Options are limitless and we didn't ev… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Be better in bed?Hate to say it, but the only way is to stop planning/overthinking, relax and start doing stuff (whatever you want, really, men are just into women patricipating enthusiastically). You might want to talk to a professional about it, because maybe you've got some mental block inside of your mind, which can be caused by many different issues. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/24 06:09 AM |
| 11 | My husband (30yo) prefers to masturbate than have sex with me (25yo)I would try to consult professional about it, since this is complex issue which can have many underlying causes and the truth can only be revealed during therapy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/24 06:29 AM |
| 6 | Am I (24F) wasting my time with my boyfriend (26M)?Honestly I've just broken up with my boyfriend, because he didn't have plans with me after 1,5 year long relationship (and posted about it here) and regret I hadn't done it sooner, because his approach probably wouldn't change with time. I guess he would just leave me once financially and mentally ready for commitment. I'm not saying you are wasting your time, because it depends on your goals and timeline, but I definetely did. I am the same age, want children by 30yo, so cannot really afford sp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you find balance when there is so much on social media of women speaking badly of men or claiming they all cheat? And what are your thoughts on shera seven, she stays this..Yeah, I mean her "money is everything and compensates shitty behavioir" approach doesn't resonate with me, but if you're able to look past it she's got some good takes that most women (even here) straight up deny. I agree that money doesn't help with post trauma breakup, but she's absolutely right that giving everything still doesn't guarantee everything and you should take as many benefits as possible from relationship (however, not necessarily material things, honestly whenever Shera talks abo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you find balance when there is so much on social media of women speaking badly of men or claiming they all cheat? And what are your thoughts on shera seven, she stays this..They don't want to accept that there is no way to protect yourself from cheating. Even man that seems loyal (or even is loyal im the beginning of relationship) MIGHT show his true colors later. This is redpill sub and we should accept truth, not live in the world of delusions. We need to acknowledge risk, not just brush it off by saying "nothing could ever happen, my man is good and I'm special". Use your common sense and don't get defensive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you find balance when there is so much on social media of women speaking badly of men or claiming they all cheat? And what are your thoughts on shera seven, she stays this..Funny thing is that Shera actually stated the first thing you wrote in the video she posted 5 days ago (are you her?): https://www.youtube.com/live/bAX3sY9kvmo?feature=shared Basically she said women who believe that domestic skills will save them from being cheated on are delusional and I agree. In general I reccomend watching the whole thing as a wakeup call. Giving yourself to a man doesn't guarantee him not hurting you later in life. And if he hasn't given anything to you during relationship… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/24 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Lesson learnt after breakupYeah, of course lack of direction/future planning doesn't make you a bad/weak person in general, it only makes you bad/weak partner for RPW. Avoiding decision making is not good for RPM, since it's defined as one of their main responsibilities in traditional relationship. RPW on the other hand might be childlike (not childish) and live soft, carefre life. Here, you might take a look at the list of masculine virtues from fascinating womanhood: https://imgur.com/eKneNtp Being determined, efficient… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/24 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Lesson learnt after breakupOh, me too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Lesson learnt after breakupI mean he packed his belongings, but was hesitating and standing inside of apartment when I came back. Last time he did the same thing, but then cried and I told him we can work on our relationship (since back then he wanted to move out due to some trivial thing that was easy to fix). This time I took his things outside of my apartment, asked him for keys and locked the door behind him, so I kind of helped him make this move. Inb4 why haven't you left him straight after having conversation - bec… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/24 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Lesson learnt after breakupI don't think he made strong action, since I straight up told him that if he doesn't want to commit in the future, he's wasting my time. I also asked him what can he bring to this relationship and he couldn't really think of one thing. I skipped this part in original post, but that's what I told him after he told me that we can breakup. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/24 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Lesson learnt after breakupDo you mind sharing from which region of the world this "someone else" was? I'm just curious if it's a person from culture similiar to mine or if women had it like this all over the world. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/24 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Lesson learnt after breakupSome people don't have their needs figured out (because like I stated it also takes inner work), outside of maybe physiological/safety needs. Beside people might not even want more than fulfilling their basic needs. If you take Maslov's pyramid, some of us only want to reach the second level of motivation, while others - more amibtous- strike for the very top. EDIT: I might also be culturally biased, since I live and date in slavic country and unfortunately we are quite infamous for being "cold"… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/24 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Lesson learnt after breakupIt might depend on the culture and socialization, so for some people finding "traditional" man might be easy. "Traditional" doesn't mean the same everywhere in the world. I live in a country, that used to be really bad, but now is amazing. American 50' family model never happened here. Previous generations of women were always working (in factories, on farms etc.), putting up with all the abuse, emotional detachment and laziness of their husbands. If they weren't willing to suffer, they would ge… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/24 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Lesson learnt after breakupI meant they're not immature solely due to their nature, like immaturity isn't assigned to someone forever by biology. You can often hear people saying "men's brains develop more slowly than women's" or "this man has not grown up yet, because he's only 25" , but these statements are unrelated to male biology. Even here on this sub you can see women advicing to date older men, because they're more mature, however someone can be 35+ and still avoid growing up. So, I just wanted to state that growi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend doesn't have any plans for the futureHe hasn't attended university and he's been working in his field of career (veteriniarian technician) for about 5-6 years now (doesn't want to change jobs), so I don't think he's stressed about finances. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/24 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend doesn't have any plans for the futureHe's been getting income since last month, before he was paying maintanance fee to the building owner | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend doesn't have any plans for the futureHe has his own apartment (owned together with his brother, but his brother doesn't live there). It was empty for past 1,5 year, just rented it last month. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 08:08 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend doesn't have any plans for the futureHe lives in my apartment. I can make him go today if I want to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend doesn't have any plans for the futureAs I said he wasn't opposed to my plans and gave me impressions he wants same things | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Ask what he thinks is attractive…it may surprise you…He loves my sandals. They aren't even stilettos, just some basic beige strappy sandals on short heel lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Christian boyfriend broke up with me over his inability to "control lust" after leading me to sexual sin and "enforce boundaries"Apparently he is blaming you for his lack of discipline and self control. This person seems really lost and not ready for any relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/24 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Balancing career and a traditional man.I think that having a career and then staying at home for couple years and then going back to work is the most "default" relationship/parenting model. At least this is what I see in my environment the most, just could be my bubble. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/24 11:09 AM |
| 6 | Why do men prefer to try to make boss babes tradwives instead of going for actual women who aspire to be tradwives?Yup, I'm from eastern european country and birth rate is CRITICALLY low. Men here are used to women doing everything and young generation is unwilling to sacrifice like this. 49% of men ages 18-25 are single here, so they either reflect on their expectations or we are going extinct. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/24 02:07 PM |
| 15 | Why do men prefer to try to make boss babes tradwives instead of going for actual women who aspire to be tradwives?Most men want working woman with benefits of SAHM (because their moms were like this), it's crazy out there ladies. Sad reality is that a lot of women are willing to go 50/50 on bills, fulfill sexual fantasies and do all the chores on top of that, just out of fear of loneliness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/24 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Unplanned pregnancy— I want to keep it, he doesn’tHe seems irresponsible and not a good fot, I wouldn't sacrifice a baby for relationship with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/24 06:57 AM |
| 15 | My boyfriend failed a very important exam in university. How do I support him?Kind of seems like he should maybe seek professional help if he needs to be pushed out of bed. It might be depression or anxiety overwhelming him and causing procrastination. Fear of losing probably? Generally lack of motivation can have a lot of underlying causes, so that's worth consulting. You can provide him comfortable and non-judgmental space. Try to implement positive reinforcement as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/23 05:06 PM |
| 28 | Ladies, is it important these days to be your husband’s ‘personal porn star’?I think porn makes sex life and intimacy much worse in long term, so in my relationship we avoid watching it. But being adventurous and brave in bedroom is very important IMO. I look for inspiration on r/sex, r/pompoir, r/sextips also in books about Kamasutra, tantra, pleasure etc. and browse sex shop sometimes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/23 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How do Men Want to be Seen as Physically Attractive?Women should look at their partners with love, respect, but also desire. Faking is not good and I am wondering why someone would need to fake desire and appreciation for their partner in the first place? My man is very attractive in my opinion and he really adores when I compliment his physical traits or style, but maybe for some it can be emasculating (however I believe that in private compliments are more than welcome by most, since they are positive thing in general)? He also puts a lot of ef… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/23 09:36 PM |
| 8 | Difficulty navigating through my relationshipIt seems like he's carrot baiting you with marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/23 02:10 PM |
| 8 | CheatingIf he cheats he's not HVM. For me HV stands for having strong sense of morality, loyalty and not choosing instant gratification over long term goals. Cheating is short sighted, impulsive, selfish loser behaviour just like gambling, violence or drug/alcohol abuse. If man is able to cheat the following behaviours I mentioned are also likely later in life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/23 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Water bottle problemMaybe get Brita and only drink from it, your bf can continue buying water bottles on his own. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Is fiancé hinting that he wants an orgy or am I reading too much into it??I haven't read your previous post, but even if he has some sort of sexual fantasy there is nothing wrong about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/23 11:42 AM |
| 11 | Let your captain leadIs it common in US to have separate finances? I am just genuinely surprised, because in my country after marriage all incomes and properties become joint by default, unless the prenup is signed. Husband's money is wife's money and vice versa, I cannot really imagine otherwise, so I am curious how it is for you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 07:44 AM |
| 3 | RPW is not working for me and I’m tired of being stuck in the same "the one that got away" situationMaybe you do a little bit too much for them at once and they get overwhelmed and defensive. Madonna-whore dichotomy also can be considered in these cases, do you know what type of women they left you for? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/23 10:09 AM |
| 2 | How to find a boyfriend/husband who is looking for a housewife?Finding a wealthy man who wants to commit can be challenging and demands a lot of work, dedication and probably a strategy.Typically red pill women here learn frugality, so their partners can't afford this life. Maybe it is better for you to have less luxuries, but spend time at home? Everyone has different priorities though. However if it cheers you up I come from Poland. My grandfathers and great-grandfathers didn't have it easy here under war state, huge economy crisis and communism regime. D… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually care if a woman is smart/professionally successful or not?Educated woman with career is a huge ego and social status boost for men, however it is important not to outshine them and stay feminine | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/23 10:30 PM |
| 27 | How to find a boyfriend/husband who is looking for a housewife?A lot of men are willing to participate in traditional LTR once they know the benefits, however in modern times not many realise it is an option. I believe you should be open about your desires and needs, whether offline or online. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorTinder is mainly hookup app and that's why women (especially young) are more focused on looks. Try meeting someone organically and don't chase after 18-23 yo girls. Are you family oriented and passionate about something? Do you have stable job and some goals in your life? Can you be caring, kind, gentle and respectful (not only towards women you want to sleep with)? It is way more important than eyelids and body fat. If you can emphasize these qualities in casual conversation you are more likely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorUsually it is impossible to become the top 10% that gets casual sex however taking care of yourself for your partner makes sense. But there isn't really way to become 8/10 if you were 5/10 to begin with. Being average looking is perfectly fine for men (unless they want to compete about fucking hot girls with Chads). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How to Spot a Feminine ManThis posts indicates that femininity is bad thing and is all about dramas and having no opinion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/23 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorMen are just more physically ugly in general. As a straight woman I find majority of women aestethically pleasing, and it doesn't work the same way with men. In general I feel men should gain values in different fields than looks, e.g being hardworking, caring, familyoriented and willing to settle and provide for family. Only the most handsome men can get women without having anything other than looks to offer, it just won't be the case for most of you. Average looking man is unlikely to get cas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: What are things you consider dealbreakers or red flags in potential partners’ online profiles or behavior?Low effort photos (some car or bathroom selfies taken from random angle, no posing etc.), messy look, messaging about sexual stuff right away, sarcastic or demeaning bio ("if you are XYZ swipe left", I always do even if I am not XYZ), asking out for low effort dates like coffee or walk right away (he probably meets so many girls that he cannot afford proper date for each of them and I am not interestes in promiscous men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Am I being awful for not wanting to pursue a relationship with him because of his p€nïs size?You are entitled to reject potential partners even for smallest inconveniences. Follow your needs, wants and feelings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/23 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Giving This UpHate skimpy clothing (unless it is athletic wear). So impractical. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/23 09:38 AM |
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