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http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html The graph I'm referring to is just above the comments section. Please tell me how partner count isn't a good indicator of marriage stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 04:04 PM
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You can buy a house as tenants-in-common without getting married. There are not tax advantages to being married. If you both make a similar amount of money, then there are tax penalties for filing jointly. Pre-nuptial agreements ... ahh, you're not in the US. My rules might not apply to you. best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 04:01 PM
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"Just up and leaving at any sign of trouble is, aside from not being much of a solution at all in my opinion, something I don't see working all that fine for either of us" This is why partner count is important. I was married, and I ignored the signs that my wife wasn't really good at long term commitment. One of those signs is a high partner count. I would strongly urge you to not get married if you do not intend to have children. You can stay together forever without it, but severing the tie o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 02:26 PM
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The woman is going to be spending all her time at home with her child, and yet they are supposed to 'share' in housework? What. The. Fuck. There's no balance at all in this relationship. I'm guessing that someone needs to go out and make money, and if the woman's staying home with her kid, then it isn't going to be her.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:43 PM
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The point of this thread is to nail down exactly what TRP is and isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 12:38 PM
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It's not the quantity of sex. It's the number of partners. Men and women fundamentally bond differently, and a woman who has had many partners will find bonding to a husband to be much more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 12:36 PM
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You make three points. I'm not going to address the first one. But you should care about how many men your current gf has been with if you want to marry and have children with her. The more men a woman has been with, the stronger the indicator of future marriage failure. Why work on your marriage if your previous solution to any problems (dump and move on) works just fine for you? You misunderstand the meaning of alpha if you think it makes you look like a child. There are plenty of scared shitl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 12:33 PM
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If you're starting out, and your biggest fear, the thing stopping you from acting at all, is the fear of failure, then facing it is a good thing to do. The goal isn't to fail and never succeed, it's to fail early so that you succeed later. If you succeed early, all the better. It means that you had nothing to fear after all.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:17 PM
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The Red Pill will cause some significant changes.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 07:41 PM
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You're 99% alpha my friend. You have one last hurdle to overcome. You know what it is, but I'll spell it out for you anyway. Nobody gives a shit if you live or die. Your life is what you make of it. Your success is yours and yours alone. Trust me when I say this, and take it the right way. Don't be a bitch. You're not a woman, and you'll never get the pussy pass. So you're not going to get the same recognition as a "Wow! 6'4" 180lbs-of-muscle billionaire". But that's apex fallacy. From your tone…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:35 PM
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Awesome story. I'm short, round, and between jobs. But TRP has shown me the way. I'm focusing on improving me (not as round, starting a new business, not caring that I'm short). I'm reaching the goals I set for myself in all aspects of my life. For all of you who say something like, "If I was making 200k I'd be pulling it in too!", or maybe, "If I was 6'4", I'd be smashing all the 21 year old pussy too!", stop. Yes, having lots of money makes it easier. Being tall makes it easier. But there are …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:15 PM
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The personality point always kills me. Women don't mature past 18. They just age. A woman who is 39 wants the exact same thing that a girl who is 22 wants. But the 39 year old can't get it, so she often has to settle for something else. Can't find that hot bod you crave? Maybe a nice fancy dinner at a restaurant with some 'mature' conversation is what's left then.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:35 AM
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I think that this comes from a matter of scope and consequences. If you give a woman a small but nice gift, she will be happy about it for a little while. If you give her a large and nice gift, she will be happy about it for a little while. It doesn't matter if the large gift was worth 100 small gifts, because it's all about the emotional surge of the moment. You gave her flowers? That's nice. +1 feels. You gave her a laptop? That's nice. +1 feels. You gave her a car? That's nice. +1 feels. You …
/r/MGTOW16/03/15 12:11 AM
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If she can do the work and she's qualified, then she might be able to get the job and keep it. If she will freelance for free and the work isn't the highest quality, then no permanent position will be forthcoming.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:39 AM
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I have found that if you pretend the phrase , "right now I feel that" to whatever declaration of undying emotion the woman issued, then you're spot on. "Right now I feel that I love you" is more accurate than before. "Right now I feel that I will love you forever" is even better. It's made so many thing more straightforward and understandable.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:50 AM
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Can you cite a source for this? Unpaid student loan debt is something they can come after you for forever. If I'm wrong, please prove it.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:07 PM
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There was a comment to a thread a while back about a woman who was interviewing for a job. She listed one of her accomplishments, "Helped my husband get his PhD". She seriously thought of his PhD as hers too.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 05:08 PM
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The $10 a month thing was a lie when I stopped by there. There was a $50 application fee and a $68 annual fee on top of the $10/month. And they all had to be paid for at the start. I had to pay for 12 months of $10/month from day 1. So it came to $120+50+68 = $238 for a year. I elected not to join, and instead got a 2 year membership to 24-hour through Costco. It was $360 or so (came out to $14.95 a month at the time, for 24 months). I was happy with it.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 04:54 PM
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The stupid answer puts the stupid question in its place. She's testing the solidity of the rock to see if it is worth hanging on to. If you react like a little bitch to her stupid question, then she'll treat you like all the other orbiters, if you even get that much status.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:45 PM
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See, I think that's a PUA move, not an RP move. Whatever gets you to your goals.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:58 PM
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That's some true RP there. Excellent call on ignoring the birthday boy's girl. Excellent abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:40 PM
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Right up until you get a potential hernia and then you need to take a break for a bit. Then you can sit and read some read pill, focus on some other aspects of your life you can improve on. Then back to squats.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:12 PM
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I like point #3 a lot. She wants to feel like a desirable sexual object and your manly positive attention does that. My girl sent me a meme the other day. "It's not that I'm horny all the time. Its that you're always fucking sexy." My focus on improving my own SMV makes her happy. She views it as a good thing for her. It makes her wet. All The Time.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:11 PM
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There's such an intermixing of sarcasm and not sarcasm that you can take whatever message you want out of this video.
/r/MGTOW06/03/15 05:26 PM
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You have a few options. Big smile and a "we're done here." you leave. Big smile and a "wait right here, I have to go do something" you leave or go talk to someone else, ignoring her. Are you at the bar to have a good time? If the girl you came with is not hanging out with you, then you're there by yourself. Do you want to be at this bar, or somewhere else? If you want to stay, then find people to talk to. If you want to leave and go to another bar, then go do that. Your behavior isn't focused on…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:34 PM
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"But she kept hinting about wanting some sort of commitment and I caved." If you're still in school and she 'wants some sort of commitment', then she's looking for an orbiter. This is the time of plenty for you. Focus on you. If you don't talk to her for a week and during that week you gain 1 lb of muscle or drop your body fat percentage by 1, what do you think her reaction is going to be? Is she going to be pissed that you didn't talk to her all week, or is she going to forget all that and jump…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:29 PM
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When she went outside to smoke with that other guy, and came back in, give her a big smile and say, "We're done here." Leave money on the table and walk out. Don't look back.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:22 PM
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These are the same kind of people who give you shit when you lose 30 lbs in a month saying "You're losing weight too fast. That's not healthy!" The only constant resource is time. What you do with it is the difference between success, mediocrity, and failure.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:15 PM
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If and when you get divorced, you will ask yourself over and over again what you could have done to fix it. Chances are you could have done nothing. The decision was made long ago, and there was nothing that the man you were could have done about it. You can become a different man, though. Use the experience to grow. Focus on yourself and what you can do to improve yourself. There are many aspects to this improvement. Do you feel you don't have enough to contribute to a conversation? Read more. …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:35 AM
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I sent him a corrected post. He posted it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:29 AM
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I had a friend who took his life because of depression. I think that part of his depression was because he didn't feel a connection to the people around him, specifically to any one woman. He was always nice and did nice things for the girls that came near him. It didn't ever once help him to find someone who wanted to be with him. It's possible that if he had swallowed the red pill (and gotten through the anger phase) that things would have worked out differently.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:17 PM
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You mean The Rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:44 AM
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Two spaces at the end of a line will give you the line break you're looking for.
/r/MGTOW04/03/15 11:20 PM
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It's hard for me to tell if you fucked up or not, because I don't have any clue as to what your goal was. Did you want to fuck this girl, or did you want to hang with your bro? If you wanted to hang with your bro and get fucked up, it seems like you got just what you wanted.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:05 PM
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I disagree. The republican party has no desire or need to compromise with Obama. The individual representatives are in safe districts. Trying to reach some agreement with a black president would do nothing but jeopardize their ability to be reelected.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:15 PM
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Once you remove Obama's skin color and look only at his actual qualifications I think it's clear that he is a very capable leader of men. I disagree with many of his policies. Hilary, on the other hand, strikes me as about as electable as John Kerry. Which is to say that I don't think either one can rally the country.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:29 PM
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Sounds like you're spot on in walking away.
/r/MGTOW03/03/15 05:27 PM
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I was thinking he could have said something like "Wait right here, I'll be right back" as he walks away from the car. I think the whole situation is fucking hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:04 PM
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You should learn and grow. You're not a neanderthal, you're a man. If you want to be an RP man and not just a dumb thug, you got's ta get the mental gains too.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:03 PM
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Throwing a punch is losing frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:01 PM
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Nice job maintaining frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:00 PM
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I drive a cab and my female passenger got belligerent with me. Her son was in the cab as well. I stopped the taxi and told her to get out. She refused. I called 911 immediately, as I got out and walked around to her door. I opened it and she immediately threatened me with a "Don't you lay a hand on me. I'm calling the police". "Ma'am, I already have them on the line. Hello? Yes, I'm a taxi driver heading north on <street> just before <street> and I have an abusive passenger that refuses to get o…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:59 PM
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If it was an easy road, everyone would be on it. It's not. Glad you had some success, but don't be satisfied.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:33 PM
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I went from really overweight to slightly less overweight (20 lbs). It gave me confidence, and that confidence allowed to me to have the right attitude and that in turn lead to sex. You don't have to have rock hard abs to be appealing to some people, but being in better shape is probably a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 08:30 PM
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The phrase "You're making it very hard for me to not have sex with you right now." means "Fuck me now" It doesn't mean you should wait for next time. It means now. Right now. Congrats on finding someone to have fun with, but your description of your behavior is far from alpha. You're 60% of the way there. Keep focusing on building your smv and your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:36 PM
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I see the red pill being the formula for success for so many unhappy marriages. But there isn't a fucking thing you can do about it unless they ask.
/r/MGTOW02/03/15 04:55 AM
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You are exactly correct. But if you don't ask, and instead imply with body language, and she responds positively, then that's not really the same situation any more. I think we can both agree that OP fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 12:52 AM
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"I forgot to shave my legs!" "That's okay. I like it rough."
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 12:51 AM
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Your first paragraph had me checking to make sure I wasn't reading the blue pill. Don't ask verbally. Really, it just ruins the mood and actively invites a "no". If she doesn't want to, it's not going to happen (and you have to be cool with that at the time, even if you plan on never seeing her again), but that doesn't mean you need to beta up and ask.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 12:46 AM
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Because post wall women are looking for beta providers so they can quit the corporate rat race and have a family. The time for the alphas is gone (until they've popped out a couple kids and are ready for post-divorce sex!)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 12:37 PM
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MGTOW, my friend. Focus on yourself. Lift, focus on work. Get yourself to a point where you realize (and it's true) that you are the prize. The rest will flow from that. Alpha game is a lot harder than you might think because it's not a game. It's a true state of mind. If you're ripped and your job is going well, that confidence will ooze out of you, and you will get a lot more attention from people around you, both from men who look up to you and women who want to bang you. But it takes a lot o…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:32 AM
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She still, and always will, think of herself as being 18. He's got a rack of abs, and confidence to spare. Therefore she wants to fuck him. She'll settle for giving him a blowjob if he won't fuck her. (She can suck-start a leaf blower, btw)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:11 AM
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This is probably the real core of this. For that $3000, you can get 15 smokin' hotties to screw you directly. No dinner. No chatting her up and hoping. Just cash for cunts. I think what the $3000 really gets you is a ride on the beta train. The women who are on the other end of this already know that you have to have money and be a little desperate if you're going to fork over that kind of money for a date.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:08 AM
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This video is dumb. Stardusk is deliberately misunderstanding everything that Sandman says.
/r/MGTOW24/02/15 12:56 AM
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This is the real kicker. A 45 year old woman who won't date anyone over 46, because the just don't do anything for her.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:04 PM
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Lots of Men Go Their Own Way at this point. There's even a subgroup, /r/MGTOW for it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 08:26 PM
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I don't think that women are evil. They're just women. The motivations that drove your mother are NOT the motivations that drive the women you meet, because you are not their child. That's all.
/r/MGTOW22/02/15 06:29 PM
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Your mother loves you unconditionally, and so she is a horrible role model for how future women will treat you, and herein lies the problem. Your expectations of women are complete skewed because of your mom. Not just her actual behavior, but also her advice on how to treat women, and what to expect of them. She's your mom. She's not a man, and can't know what it means to be a man. Nor can she really tell you what it is about a man that really turns her on, 'cause that's a little skeezy.
/r/MGTOW22/02/15 12:24 AM
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Never seen that. Hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 12:02 AM
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The thing that kills me about this is that this woman is acting exactly like she did when she was 20 years old. What stories and life experiences has she had that are so deep and fascinating? Riding the cock carousel? Places she's visited? (hint: the place might be interesting, but you having been there isn't!) She still has apex syndrome. She's not looking at guys who took their shot and fell short. She's looking for the guys that faced challenges over and over again and were successful. "It’s …
/r/MGTOW21/02/15 05:58 PM
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Maybe that's the whole genetic driving force: women need to always be able to relate to their children, no matter how old they are when they have them (or continue to have them). For men, they need to be able to provide resources for this growing army of expelled intestinal parasites, and so must be able to see the ever expanding picture.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:12 AM
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I was talking with a woman the other night, and she brought up the fact that women mature more quickly than men. It was clear that she was apologizing for making a gender-negative comment against men, and since I am a man, maybe I would be offended by this. My reply was to say, "Yes, women mature very quickly up to 18, but then they level off, and when men get to about 28, they've caught up. Men continue to mature past that, but women don't."
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:11 AM
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MGTOW is about focusing on yourself instead of chasing pussy. You lift and you study, and I'd imagine that once you add in sleeping and eating, there'd be just about no time for women in your life. It sounds like you're well on your way to tall-dark-handsome. You describe your face as a 4/10, but that doesn't matter once women see "tall" and "doctor", especially if you have some confidence. Trust me when I say that if I had your creds and my confidence, I'd be getting laid by a different woman e…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 11:33 PM
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For me, the biggest thing I've had to force myself to do is to issue commands or make decisions instead of getting consensus first. It's my natural instinct to ask questions and elicit opinions first, and then go with those. Now I take the time to think through the situation, and tell people what's going to happen: What I'm going to do, and what they need to do to prepare for it. For instance, I have a friend dj'ing tonight downtown. I think it would be cool for my gf and I to go. So I tell her …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 01:01 AM
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You post on one of those groups to talk about physical progress. You post on TRP to talk about psychological progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 01:41 AM
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I was a hairsbreadth away from calling an amber alert on my ex-wife when she refused to give me my daughter for xmas break. I didn't, because I didn't have all my documentation with me to justify it, but I came very very close.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 06:31 PM
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And some of that 3% (like me) are too short to be considered anything but a creep. Doesn't stop me from lifting and seeing the results I want on all fronts.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 05:41 PM
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The whole point of this is that she will do what you tell her to do. This is what she means when she says "You don't support me enough." You're not telling her what to do and when. So when you get home tonight, and you're getting ready for bed, just tell her, "Hey, honey, lay out some workout clothes tonight. We're getting up at 6 and going to the gym together in the morning"
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:41 AM
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I entered monk mode so that I could focus on me, on improving things about me that were flaws. I did find someone who is just my type, but because of the red pill, I am still working on myself, and at the same time, I'm getting what I want from her. The crazy thing, for me, is the red pill proof. She's REALLY happy with our relationship. I tell her what we're going to do, and when. I don't ask. My daughter is in town, so that means I don't pursue the relationship while she is here. She'll text a…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:37 AM
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First off, "just eyeliner and mascara" is makeup. You date guys you don't find attractive? You first decide on physical attractiveness, and THEN decide on similar interests. Also, in general, guys don't say "no". If a girl who is a 5 shows interest in a guy who is a 5, he'll jump at the opportunity. If a guy who is a 5 shows interest in a girl who is a 5, she'll turn away, 'cause she can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 11:03 PM
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Because that doesn't work. Women aren't actually looking for someone with similar interests. They're looking for someone who is hot, and makes them interested. Why don't you walk around with no makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 10:44 PM
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RP attracts guys who were told to "just be themselves" and then found out that that didn't work at all. Men who believed in the feminist mantra of grrrrrl power. Women want men who are men, not boys. This doesn't mean someone who will sip wine with you and watch Sex in the City. It means someone taller and stronger than you who you know can protect you in all situations, both social and physical. The social protection is where RP really comes in to play. If your guy sways with your emotional moo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 02:31 PM
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I guess you'll have to use your guns. As in "Did you get your tickets? To the gun show flex biceps"
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 12:03 PM
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We can share stories, you and me. As long as fathers have daughters, guns will be an inalienable right.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 02:23 AM
2

I drive aggressively. I don't have something big and powerful, but when the prius driver stomps on it at the line, they are gone. Most don't, but it does have that power when it's available.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 02:21 AM
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From the comments: "Julian Edelman, scoring 6's on and off the field."
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 01:04 AM
3

This guy is not red pill. He's an abusive asshole. A red pill man, upon seeing that she really wasn't interested in having sex with him, would move on. "NEXT!" Instead he stayed and raped her, and then became obsessed with her. This is called one-itis. The RP man would have moved on, and started dating other women at the same time. But if you think RP = RaPist, then yes, this man was a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 02:45 PM
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It's fine that I was downvoted. But I was also just flat out banned. I disagree that my comment wasn't relevant. The post was ranting about how if you aren't alpha, then trying to be alpha is "just fucking pathetic". I don't believe that a person can't change. My point was to draw a parallel between women constantly changing their appearance and men trying to be something that doesn't necessarily come naturally to them.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:42 AM
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Perhaps it would be clearer if you had a specific example. This is the internet, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 02:42 AM
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I did have a good leg day. Congrats on having a great month at work.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:02 AM
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The ideas stand on their own. If you don't like the ideas, or think they're false, downvote the post. I don't really care who the person is behind the post. I care about this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 01:52 AM
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I'm glad you mentioned self sacrifice. Improving yourself takes work. You don't get to do whatever you want to do at any particular time. When the work gets unpleasant, you can't just quit and do something easier. You have to follow through because you want the end goal more than you want the quick relief of quitting.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 01:47 AM
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Yes. This guy isn't alpha. He isn't red pill. He's just abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 07:36 PM
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She mentions physical abuse. No red pill man would physically abuse his date. That's loss of frame. So, while her boyfriend might purport to be Red Pill, he's not. Maybe a wannabe, but definitely not alpha, from the way she describes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 06:42 PM
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There's a BIG different between what you find "okay" and what you find really hot. For almost any man, if you simply add 10 pounds of muscle, they will look more attractive to you. There are extremes where this might no longer be the case, just as there are women whose breasts are too large, but for the vast majority of the population, this isn't the case. The 4 examples you gave all have very low body fat. They represent the <0.1% of men. But what if that were the norm, what if that were 'avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 03:49 PM
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It's your life too. If you won't stand up for your own father, then who will you stand up for?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:19 AM
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The only thing that has any value to her is her relationship with her kids. That's you. Just tell her flat out that if she divorces your father, you will never, EVER, speak to her again.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:48 PM
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He's rich and other people do what he says. This is what makes him attractive to her. This is social proofing at its finest. He's a very busy man. He has lots of things to do with his time, and instead he spends it on plain jane. This is the same as some average guy getting hit on by a supermodel. His abasement to her is not what makes him attractive, but it makes HER feel attractive. She's getting validation that she's a prize to be won, and she's getting it from a rich and powerful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 05:51 PM
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You're boundaryless now. Excellent field report. Because of TRP, I've had the same sense of outcome-independence for my interactions, and it's really made a big difference for me too. Keep up the great work.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 12:32 AM
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I find that the "plan the best way to fail" technique to be applicable to lots of different situations, especially ones where it's very difficult to figure out if you're doing well or poorly. In dating, if you spend 4 hours at a bar trying to get someone to go home with you before you are successful, is that good or bad? If you fail 2 nights out of 3, is that good or bad? I used to teach high school and middle school math. We were required by the district to teach programs that were ill conceive…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:59 AM
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