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| 6 | How I came to understand men vs men maybe the root cause | Mysterious-Offer-949 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 07:35 AM |
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| 7 | Did anyone else experience a complete 180 like this before divorce?Yes, we lived together and her nature was same until the day we got married. They won’t say it or name it exactly why they changed, but here’s what I concluded with my questions to her during divorce in court, questions not direct, but tells me about her thought process. So here’s what happened, before marriage for her I was a muscular guy abs and all, decent looks dense hair, good earning tech guy, in a hard rock band, martial artist, with open minded family a good deal for her! But her intenti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | 20 month post seperationSounds like you’ve crawled out of the pit and sharpened your claws in the process, good win!! For the intimacy part, if you don’t watch porn or masturbate strike that out from the list it’s a win! If not start working on it. After the divorce happened to me as well our mind has learned a lesson and it’s in defensive mode what if this girl will fuck me up too? What if if I get destroyed again ? Too much of a risk, I don’t want this. These are valid things they will keep you away from desperation … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How I came to understand men vs men maybe the root causeYea bro under meds, working on it | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | How I came to understand men vs men maybe the root causeYea I’m not saying one person is enemy, I’m talking about a mindset. That is encouraging and validating bad things done to a man | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/25 03:28 AM |
| -1 | How I came to understand men vs men maybe the root causeYes ! That’s how it works. If men cared for men they’d genuinely support a girl in an abusive relationship. But they back off there maybe cuz of the strong man husband that might hurt him. But as long as there are “yes ma’am “ guys available what else would some women need? It’s like enjoying everything hard earned without actually working for it | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | How I came to understand men vs men maybe the root causeI’m not an English speaker, i know enough that helps me talk, I’m no English teacher. But the point is, is cheating justified ?? For trivial reasons? If you’re wife or gf lied and you caught and when you ask her she gaslights you. And if she cheats would it be fine for you? Cheating is done to keep the benefits of both. Enjoying the luxuries with one and fun with another, if things workout leave the provider who was putting with all the bs and excuses | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How I came to understand men vs men maybe the root causeIf you’ve read my post I’ve mentioned my qualities which is more than average. And there’s always a stronger man or a better women out there, should one just keep on partner hopping until they grow old? I personally have rejected quite a few proposals of married ladies when they heard I’m about to get divorced so they’ll divorce too and marry me, but there reasons for divorce was very trivial , i advised her stay with him it’s no reason for a divorce it’s way too extreme . But if I were a simp o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 11:30 AM |
| 2 | How I came to understand men vs men maybe the root causeYea I’m going through one 😅, yes indeed not all I said such women. The typical scenario goes like “hey you don’t look happy today , what’s the matter ?” And then starts the validation of all the things she did or going to do. Across the board or world every couple has there ups and downs we live in a real world brother, it’s not good times forever. And by simping someone who’s desperate and they’ll destroy a working relation for what ? Just some hope of getting p****? He won’t get it but he’ll d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 11:25 AM |
| 13 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Brother, there’s an army of simps and cucks out there who’ll provide food, luxury and shelter to her. As long as simps and cucks are there they’ll cushion her. For you my friend get strong, work on carrier she’s gone for good. The longer you’d have stayed the more problems arise trust me on this! To make it simpler see it like a drug the more you do the more addicted you become and the more damage it does to your body just for a short duration of faked happiness through drugs | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Mistake Sex for LoveYea, I’ve been there that’s how I was trapped in my first marriage and got divorced this year. Before marriage whenever I asked questions like your past or details she would kiss me, changing the topic and theme. If we’re at home sex was the answer to my questions with words like my ex tricked me into having sex I’m a good girl not easily do sex but the cave down there had a different story , post marriage sex was still there but with cheating. I guess it’s a rule of thumb someone so open to sex… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 07:42 AM |
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