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| 6 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Run. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 12:32 PM |
| 9 | Wife is divorcing me, do I have to me macho here and pretend it's not killing me?Well, during my drinking phase there was a couple of times I sat on the edge of my bed with tears in my eyes, gun in one hand, bullets in the other. I began having panic attacks and I'd cry for hours. I didn't go to work for 4 months. And I was the one who left her. But slowly everything began to sort itself out. My relationship with my daughter is stronger than before, the panic attacks slipped away, I quit drinking 15 months ago and I run 6km a day every day. It's been 3 years and I'm almost 1… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 02:09 AM |
| 7 | Wife is divorcing me, do I have to me macho here and pretend it's not killing me?Exactly, at least your not drinking. I can tell you from experience, drinking yourself to death takes longer and is more painful than you'd think. Listen, you're literally going through the valley of the shadow of death, the friends you thought you had seemed to have abandoned you, you're loneliness is a scream in the night. But...the waves will subside, your ship will right itself and you'll once again be on your course. Be patient. It may take a couple of years but you'll heal. I promise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Panic attacks/depressionI got panic attacks for a couple of months but they went away. Never had them before or since but they were fucking terrifying. Don't drink no matter how you feel, it'll make them worse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 12:49 AM |
| 3 | How did you tell your wife you wanted a divorce?Text. I told her to to go fuck herself after 5 years of silent treatment. The only time she talked to me was by text and that was almost always to tell me why I wasn't good enough for her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 03:53 PM |
| 8 | I want to be a dad. I can see my dream crashing.I had my daughter at 46. She's 7 now. I'm glad I waited. I'm 54 and my old age is absolutely filled with love, hugs and kisses. You'll get there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 03:12 AM |
| 8 | After divorce, did you take the time to go through your entire photo album and social media accounts to delete pictures of your ex?Yep, every pic that didn't have our daughter in it. Good fucking riddance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 05:30 PM |
| 19 | Why are y’all so obsessed with gray rock 🪨?Grey rock is absolutely essential no matter how upset and angry you are. You can easily say something that she can use in court against you. Also, shut up around shared friends. They'll tell her everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 04:01 PM |
| 2 | So disappointed in myself.My daughter's 7 and she's absolutely not allowed. Holy shit, you're asking for your kid to get molested. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/24 02:10 AM |
| 5 | What do you miss most? (serious)Mine gave me the silent treatment for 5 years before I left her. I don't miss a damn thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Friends become unavailable?I had a few friends but none could understand the immense pain I was in. I felt completely alone and abandoned. They were there just not in the way I needed them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/24 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Do I need a seperate room for my 10 year old son.Don't over stress it. I share a large 1 bedroom with my 7 year old daughter. I'm paying $1700 and a two bedroom in my shitty old complex is $3200. I simply can't afford it. For now it's fine and it makes her feel safe to be with me. However when the time comes I'm putting a Murphy bed in the living room and she can have the bedroom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/24 02:37 AM |
| 8 | When Did This Forum Get the Ridiculous Mod?I got permabaneed from r/off mychest when a poster stated that she "allowed herself to be raped." I qouted the one word "allowed" and that was it for me lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/24 09:42 PM |
| 4 | Do you ever get lonely, and start missing / thinking it wasn't as bad as it was?I understimated how much I would miss my daughter even though we have pretty much 50/50 through the week. Sometimes I think I should have just shut the fuck up and gone to the massage parlour once a week. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 07:55 PM |
| 6 | Scientific study on loss of love in marriage and women.Highest levels of domestic violence too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/24 02:33 AM |
| 12 | Some prospective….5+ years post divorceI'm Canadian but had some trouble in the States ages ago that I needed to deal with so I could take my family to Disneyland. I ended up in jail for a few days while sorting it out. My wife (since left her) tells my aunt I deserve to sit there and rot. When I finally came home she didn't even look up from the phone and said, "Oh, you're home " I went to the couch and cried. The trips to Iceland, Ireland, upcoming to Disneyland, nothing I did meant a thing to her. I was just an ATM mounted to inco… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 07:10 PM |
| 10 | The Gym is NOT the Answer for Everyone…and Could Even be Dangerous…The stress of the divorce coupled with the lawsuit against my FIL after he defrauded me half a million dollars with my ex's help, and my heavy drinking almost killed me. I had aggressive cardiac arrhythmia I lost the ability to climb up a flight of stairs without losing my breath. It was terrifying. But slowly I began to walk the 6km to and from work. I did this every day. I then quit drinking booze and coffee last December and the walking turned into running. My heart issues disappeared, my car… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I explain it?I wrote a 100 page detailing why I left my ex. I plan on giving it to her when she's 13 or so. If it's too hard to talk about it maybe write it out? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Sad, just sadCan you alternate Christmas evenings? This year we had Christmas breakfast on the 24th with my family, while she had Christmas dinner with her mom's on the 25. It worked out great. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 05:57 PM |
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