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It’s the same thing, there’s no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:29 PM
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The life of man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:11 PM
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U generally sound unintelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:07 PM
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It’s all the places in my city, capitalism has ruined it, that’s why these days I go clubbing in other cities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:05 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:02 PM
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No group is receptive to stranger men going up and talking to them, if u are a woman u will have different results
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:01 PM
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In my city I went to a club with one other guy friend and got turned out even though I had bought a ticket, men were blocked out while women were allowed in
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:59 PM
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U don’t live in my city then, there’s bouncers outside fucking McDonald’s, I have emotional trauma from those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:58 PM
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I’m more educated than you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:56 PM
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No compassion or reason in this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:54 PM
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Having a partner solved my self esteem issues, u don’t know what your talking abojt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:46 PM
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I don’t know some of us men just have low standards we wanna date someone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:44 PM
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Funny how u say this when women demonise men who go gym and say they don’t like muscular guys. Also women are attractive in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:37 PM
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If men had options they would, if not the long game works for a lot of people I know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:34 PM
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We believe women who are struggling already have enough empathy shown to them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:32 PM
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Ok but it’s a debate sub so I refute ur opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:30 PM
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U sound very similar to me except the fact that I made it my mission since puberty and attract a partner. I’m also very academically successful and hard working. I just wasn’t content with being single. It’s probaby meant now I’m more social than I would have been, I always had a decent group of friends but now I have so many friends I struggle to keep up it’s stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:29 PM
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I know plenty of autistic men and women, I’m not just drawing from my experiences to say I can see who has it easier in dating. Both these men and women in my circle are masking to the same level. One group dates guys one after another while another can’t date at all. I am arguing about who has it better in dating, not life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:23 PM
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U are very weird then because most women find most men unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:26 PM
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U are on a thread that claims in general, the men you are claiming to be attracted to have it worse off than their female equivalent, so I think my argument is quite relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:24 PM
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U are offended by the reality that autistic women are more attractive than autistic men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:21 PM
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First honest woman here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:19 PM
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Most women hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:18 PM
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That’s what u implied, also autistic men are lesss violent on average so stop painting people as violent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:17 PM
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They have struggles, it’s just that following intersectionality we can point out neurodiverse men have unique struggles which are worse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:16 PM
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Thank you as a neurodivergent Man U are labelled as the most dangerous in society so people avoid using
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:15 PM
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No one is saying it’s smooth sailing for Nurodiverse women, it’s just easier for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:14 PM
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Women treat them as if they are ill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:13 PM
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Neurodiverse women have the option to date or stay single. Many chose to date. Remember also neurodiverse women can way more easily find another neurodiverse partner than the other way round. The majority of neurodiverse men have no such option
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:12 PM
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We are arguing that the pain of not being seen in your relationship is better than not having the option of being able to be in a relationship at all, at least from the perspective of men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:10 PM
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The thread is about who has it worse, which is clearly neurodivergent men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:08 PM
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I don’t find it completely impossible that someone who completely never has had the validation of having a date despite trying is probably more miserable over their lifetime than someone who goes through some abusive relationships. At least I’d rather go through some abusive relationships, I say that as someone who has both been a struggling virgin and been through a mildly abusive circumstance and was raised in an abusive family
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:07 PM
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U sound very neurotic, girls get boyfriends there all the time. It seems neurodiverse women have the options to date but are too scared to explore the options. No offence but as a neurodiverse male who spent 4 years putting myself out there (which wasn’t comfortable) and improve my looks, social skills to successfully get his first girlfriend it seems u didn’t really try that hard. Which is fine but we don’t have the same level of struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:03 PM
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What a poor argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:57 PM
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Go on dating apps and tell me u can’t get a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:56 PM
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Factors that only matter for autistic men, if u are an autistic women and not severely autistic men will like you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:55 PM
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Not true I know autistic men that get laid but they have social skills better than most autistic women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:51 PM
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Men like autistic women way more than women like autistic men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:48 PM
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It is, in dating neurodivergent men are most miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:47 PM
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Exactly, I’m just saying for a man to have success in these environments he has to have greater luck or greater skill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:45 AM
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Women are way more likely to meet someone through mutual friends than men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:38 AM
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Those places u talking about saturated with men doing the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:37 AM
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Surprising how ur the only women in the world that finds dating apps fun, easy and validating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:35 AM
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For me family comes above outsiders. Blood thicker than water.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:09 PM
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Doesn’t this only apply for women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:03 PM
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Wouldn’t u rather a son that is happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:02 PM
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You can get a relationship with a guy easily as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:01 AM
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Ok I think we disagree then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:50 PM
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To come to my conclusion about why inexperienced men should lie I have weighed up both sides and decided it’s worth lying about experience to lose your virginity. You have simply just been saying lying is wrong, which we all understand so we don’t need to entertain that. What I want you to argue with is the question of whether it is worth lying here is worth it or not, not whether lying is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:20 PM
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I did ask and she said no and she told me not to ask and ignore her no, that’s what is confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:56 PM
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If you, like most men, don’t think being a virgin makes you unworthy of sex then u won’t feel that ashamed for lying. I don’t know why u have brought in mistreatment. The statement that it is “self destructive to lie” is not very clear to me why it would be the case for everyone, and why the self destruction of lying once would be more than the shame of being a virgin. Not having sex feels wrong to some virgins, and not everyone has the mental capacity to resolve their shame nor the therapy reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:56 PM
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Ok I think it’s best to lie because it is self destructive to yourself to continue to be ashamed to be a virgin, so you don’t want to miss your chance and repel the women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:47 PM
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You keep on changing the story, I have repeatedly told you it is not about sex it is about not being ashamed anymore for being a virgin. But that requires empathy for you to understand from your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:42 PM
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She gave me consent to ignore her no’s. And I don’t think women understand consent either cause they forget about it when it’s convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:39 PM
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I don’t see what that has got to do with being turned on or off it’s a biological function not a conscious choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:37 PM
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Lying does feel shameful but being a virgin probably feels infinitely more shameful. Let’s be clear here are not talking about lying to get sex we are taking about lying to get rid of the shame of being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:37 PM
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How am I saying most men are rapists? Just because you are turned on doesn’t mean they should do anything, of course not. But they will still be turned on!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:35 PM
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My first girlfriend got angry at me when I used to stop my advances when she said no, she said I should try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:16 PM
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Most men dont have reactive sexual attraction so whether the women is turned on or not has little to influence whether the man is turned on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:15 PM
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Ur naive because people lie to get jobs successfully all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:08 PM
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I don’t think u understand the number one goal of a male virgin is to lose their virginity. Not to have good sex necessarily, just to lose their virginity so they no longer feel ashamed. When u understand this all your questions are answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:07 PM
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My first time I told her I had a body count of 3 and she never noticed, in fact it was one of my best performances cause I was so careful not to fuck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:06 PM
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Maybe we should stop making fun of virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:05 PM
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Bad analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:04 PM
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Everyone gets ghosted, doesn’t change the fact you can get dates easily compared to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:36 AM
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Except if ur a woman you can find a job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:28 AM
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Ok but I don’t know why I am getting downvoted for calling the reason what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:25 AM
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If u look up she says she doesn’t want to put someone else’s needs over hers so ask her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:25 AM
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No to not want to put someone else’s needs over yours
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:07 AM
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The truth is that women don’t think men are worth their time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:45 AM
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So for selfish reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:42 AM
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Who easily get dates
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:40 AM
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Men don’t have political power that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:38 AM
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There is no evidence for a rape culture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:32 PM
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As a pronatalist I’m not against anyone’s choices but I don’t understand why I would want to build my career if I’m not going to have a family though. I wouldn’t find the motivation to do that cause
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:58 PM
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I think we are speaking with different goals in mind. You seem to speaking on what is best for the inexperienced man to do for his potential relationship. I agree it wouldn’t be good for the relationship to lie. However I am looking at the bigger picture, if the inexperienced man finally has a chance to lose his virginity. The sex is not important, more so he has a chance to get rid of the shame and insecurity he undoubtedly feels from being his virgin. There are some women who wouldn’t have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:02 PM
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I think we are going round in circles. If a man is an inexperienced virgin, due to not having enough options, and then finds someone they can date/lose their virginity to, even if it ends up being a bad relationship they have benefitted because they have lost their virginity. Try putting yourself in his shoes first
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:49 PM
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I don’t understand why u think that, it’s still in their best interests to lie. Remember you only have to lie about being a virgin once
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:27 PM
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I don’t think most inexperienced men OP are talking about are voluntary virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:19 PM
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But isn’t that what we are taught, we have to be intentional and be actively pursuing women? I don’t see how that even backfires, my desperation of approaching girls in 100 club nights ended up to me losing my virginity, meanwhile my less motivated friends are still virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:19 PM
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An advantage to misery? or an advantage to having hopes of one day getting a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:15 PM
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Why would we intentionally cause ourselves misery then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:13 PM
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We are wired this way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:11 PM
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What a daft statement
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:08 PM
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How naive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:02 PM
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Silly advice since most virgins will be desperate for any women at that point, not only the right woman. Even if u have sex with the wrong women now u are no longer a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:58 PM
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Daft advice, my first girlfriend didn’t tell I was a virgin I lied
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:57 PM
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That’s not true, fingering and oral isn’t exactly rocket science, my first time I made her orgasm twice and we had sex in the morning as well, after watching videos on technique. Some of us are good learners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:56 PM
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Good ur getting downvoted because what daft advice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:55 PM
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You assume a first timer will be bad at oral and fingering? First time I made her orgasm cause I watched a video about techniques beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:54 PM
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Most men are sexless not because of values but due to lack of opportunity so this is only relevant for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:51 PM
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Not my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:28 AM
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I hit up 100+ club nights before I got laid, built a muscular body by forcing myself to eat, I used to chug milk and eat peanut butter, spent all my money on improving my fashion did everything to get laid whilst doing my education and being seriously depressed and having bad adhd. For more than 4 years my constant efforts earned no rewards other than anguish. I was a laughing stock to those who said I would never get a girlfriend, some of whom were my own friends. I had low self esteem. But at …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:26 PM
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Most women don’t watch porn made for women, because porn made for women is for a specific type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:06 PM
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They are lying, because if they did then guys that simp would be more appealing to women than the unavailable players
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:03 PM
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I think this was already clear, just be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:01 PM
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The people I know that volunteer actively care too much about others to the point it’s holding them back while there’s still room for them to grow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:59 PM
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To be fair I went through the worse of it in terms of mental health but did end up losing my virginity after high schoool, maybe it was too early to give up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:54 PM
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Taking shrooms will solve your overthinking, thank me later
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:53 PM
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He’s probably neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:52 PM
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And when it comes to dating people more forgiving to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:51 PM
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The reputation damage is probably the major concern
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:48 AM
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Blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:46 AM
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U want chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:39 AM
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I don’t know where u guys live that the majority of men don’t take care of themselves. I’m in a major city surrounded by guys who dress well, most young men go gym, most are getting good education and careeer and most young men are on self improvement, the competition has always been high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:39 AM
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More so they crave emotional intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:05 PM
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I wasn’t raised to care about dating or sex as well, but if u were a man you’d care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:21 PM
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If u were a man you would probably care as much as dating as us as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:45 PM
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U have no argument to make
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:16 PM
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Doesn’t exist as I said, simply biological urges
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:18 PM
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I’m not, that’s why I said some men, if it was really cultural, rape would not occur in every single human civilisation, even on tribes on remote isolated islands
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:12 PM
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It is not due to the influence of culture, more of a biological urge which some men have which can only be repressed by culture not exemplified, same way there is no “eating” culture we just get hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:07 PM
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There is no such thing as rape culture it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:02 PM
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That’s why I don’t understand how there’s female anarchists like how would u protect yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:58 PM
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It’s well known this behaviour is common by males in nature. And humans have a greater gender size difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:57 PM
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Why are there a bunch of scammers running around everywhere then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:56 PM
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I am a man and I agree with her she’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:54 PM
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The same way people murder? How does a soldier clean their conscious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:53 PM
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Yes a lot of these men on this sub are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:51 PM
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Only in America do they bar ugly women from getting into nightclubs, never happens in other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:07 PM
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That makes sense, because I was shocked by your statement it was very unusual, more like something a man might say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:05 PM
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If so how did u become like this, or what was your upbringing, because 70% is a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:31 PM
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Most women complain about being approached
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:53 PM
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Rare honesty here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:53 PM
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Hence why being a man is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:51 PM
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Unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:49 PM
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Most women are not attracted to men, this is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:49 PM
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I don’t approach women on the steets but there’s not much places approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:47 PM
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Women more anxious these days, less likely you will get an eye roll more likely she stands there uncomfortable or walks off fast. If u live in a major city with low social trust you will learn that women avoid eye contact with men out of fear of safety unless in a social setting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:39 PM
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The largest kinks for women are humiliation, she is enjoying the humiliation so what is the probkem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:35 PM
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If a woman is approached regularly then being the nth man to approach her is going to feel like harassment to her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:28 PM
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When I was a virgin I loathed my life and had no self esteem. I finally lost my virginity and my depression was lifted off my shoulders. Even my mom noticed I have been my happiest in years. I don’t think you understand. I never did for 8 minutes for the sex I did it to get rid of the internal shame of being a virgin. Honestly I didn’t really care for the sex. The one night stand turned into a relationship. It was a leap of faith to quit my hobbies, after I quit it took 4 years of hard work to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:51 PM
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Funny u say that cause the guy in my friend group who decided he still wants to play video games is the only one still a virgin. Before people say men who struggle to get laid are lazy just remember these are the choices we need to make. I made sacrifices to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:40 PM
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I am saying there are certain hobbies that pay off when it comes to dating and ones that don’t. Generally gaming and programming does not do anything for your dating life even if u are passionate about it because they are not attractive hobbies for men. I’m saying this because my passions used to be gaming and programming but I switched to partying and gym when I concluded these aren’t likely to get me dating success. Will u still encourage your son to pursue these hobbies and risk him being a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:30 PM
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Firstly I meant incel as someone who deeply resents being celibate, which was the definition before the manosphere stuff blew up and the time when I was an incel. I socialised a lot during that time, parties twice a month and I didn’t hate women, still had a few female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:26 PM
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Nope. I don’t believe in this nice guy fallacy. Believe it or not women have more standards than just be nice. Remove the blatantly sexist and rude gamers. The ratio number of men looking for a gaming girlfriend compared to the other way round is wack
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:21 PM
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There’s a reason female gamers complaining about being overwhelmed by men while gaming. The ratio of men to women gamers isn’t looking too good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:10 PM
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A lot of these men don’t figure things out and become an incel that’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:05 PM
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Wdym there’s a whole looksmaxxing part to the incel stuff when I was on the forums most incels were putting in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:04 PM
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What if his passion is programming and video games how does that get him women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:01 PM
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What has this got to do with commitment? She wants to do I want to do it, no problems
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:52 PM
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Anti depressants help decrease libido? I heard people with adhd don’t respond well to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:31 PM
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What can be done or are we condemned to this exist. They should make a pill for men to be asexual or gay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:09 PM
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They can’t be helped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:02 PM
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Some of my richer progressive friends are definitely lowkey classists but it’s whatever. I think it just relates to what Redpill men say that women don’t really respect their male friends to the same level they’d respect someone they’d date, so they have higher standards for men they’d date whereas they lowkey don’t respect their male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:59 AM
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Now imagine trying to find someone you gel with when you struggle to get dates more than twice a year
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:46 AM
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I have female friends who say all of this and more about bi men yet they have gay friends. The main insinuation is that bi men aren’t real men. Maybe I grew up in black community so it’s probably more homophobic in general, although my friends are all progressive. I think men also think bi women are more sexually deviant but most of the time it’s viewed as a positive stereotype, e.g. I can have a threesome with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:42 AM
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Yes but studies show Asian women prefer white men to Asian men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:33 AM
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Most straight women hold these beliefs against bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:30 AM
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Yes, I’m no longer a virgin and I’m way happier. None of my life achievements come close to finally getting laid. No longer depressed but I think I’ll finally be fully happy when I am able to get dates regularly. My culture and environment growing up made me not feel like a man when I was a virgin it felt painful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:03 PM
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What steps would I take to change? I am far from lazy, I do so much work just to get laid and be successful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:45 PM
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If I could change I would
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:33 PM
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It’s my reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:35 AM
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It’s reality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:32 AM
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Biologically it’s more important for us to get laid than have a moral compass, so blame evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:58 AM
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Why u in denial, I can confirm this I’ve acted toxic before and she love me more for that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:58 AM
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When sex robots become viable for men, none of these issues we are talking about will matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:55 AM
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How can u empathetic towards a “lonely” person who can get a boyfriend at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:53 AM
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I blame biology
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:51 AM
1

I wish I could join sports teams but I have motor issues
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:49 AM
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How can u be happy without being laid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:46 AM
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You wouldn’t give those signals to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:15 PM
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Women don’t really like shy men at all so why would they date those they don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:12 PM
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Yeah I guess we agree. After I ended up looksmaxxing using the forums so I can improve my looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:56 PM
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I only realised after my crush rejected more for someone else when I was 16
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:42 AM
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are u a man? How can u tell me what I saw, I didn’t see that, growing up I thought girls either want bad guys or funny guys so I tried to be the funny guy but it didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:32 AM
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Kind of but not quite. It’s more that they are either less interested in pursuing or making themselves available to men. A simple example is that there may be women that prefer fuckboys and women that prefer nerds but the first women would be more receptive to being cold approached by a fuckboy than the second women would by a nerd even though they are both their types in both instances. This is not only for cold approach, the first type of girl is also more likely to go on a dating app and to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:46 PM
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It’s not more self defeating, I agree with you. I didn’t want to accept defeat that’s why I started self improvement when I was 16. It was 4 years later I got laid and those 4 years were the darkest time in my life. It just seems like a lose lose situation overall
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:42 PM
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If Reddit was unrestricted and you could say whatever you wanted on here you would see equally heinous stuff on here, it would be hard to judge a population based on what a few post on an online forum. Remember only a minority of people actually write the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:39 PM
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Idk where I’m from most criminals don’t end up dying. I’m not from America so we don’t have a high murder rate here. Especially if u remember u don’t need to rep a gang to sell drugs. From what I’ve seen less than 10% die, at least 30% go prison for life, the majority quit the streets when they get tired of the lifestyle or being in and out of jail
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:33 PM
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I don’t think that’s true. Are u millennial? Because gen z have lower openness to dating outside their race than millennials
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:30 PM
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Because putting in all the effort and making all the lifestyle changes consistently over years for that type of improvement feels defeating. I know cause I lived it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:27 PM
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I’m not saying there’s plenty of women that don’t. Cause I have a whole friend group of women that won’t. But the reality is that women who like jocks really like jocks and make it easy for them while women who don’t like jock don’t necessarily really like non-jocks. (Jocks is a stupid word but u get what I mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:23 PM
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A person who fails to get sex would recognise this lifestyle as a prize. I used to look up to this but I’m no longer a virgin. I knew friends who joined gangs but I didn’t mainly because if I ended up in jail that’s no sex for me ever. I don’t have anything to do with gangs but I grew up around them so I’m telling my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:20 PM
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He was probably miserable and helpless before committed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:06 PM
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That’s why we don’t want to be the safe guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:05 PM
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I know many guys who literally became criminals cause it got them girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:43 PM
2

How arbitary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:31 PM
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People need to try mushrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:29 PM
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The type of woman that would date a criminal wouldn’t date an awkward man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:28 PM
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I’m stealing this one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:25 PM
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Use mushrooms instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:23 PM
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What you don’t understand is that people are still jealous of the criminals situation because something is better than nothing. Criminal guy dates criminal girl quite easily . But autistic guy struggles to find autistic girl to date for example
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:21 PM
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Anyone reading this should take mushrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:19 PM
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U missed the whole point of this post, the concern is about getting into a relationship not maintaining one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:18 PM
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It’s futile to say it’s on them when it’s affecting that lonely autistic guy the most
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:17 PM
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I don’t wanna lash out at women more so blue pill people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:08 PM
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Wdym I didn’t know being hot was important when I was a boy, what do u mean. This messaging is non existent for men until u went on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:05 PM
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Where my 20 year olds at?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:00 PM
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How does it hold no value when the prison inmate/cheater is getting the reward. Humans are driven towards reward?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:58 PM
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There’s no evidence that incels are more likely to be mass shooters than a random young teen boy, there were probably as much left handed shooters as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:55 PM
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How naive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:53 PM
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Statistics show many average guys these days are losing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:52 PM
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Which school did you go to? Most guys played sports in my school and were part of some team
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:51 PM
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Intellect doesn’t get u a partner, that’s just fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 PM
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Also microdose, it may help
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:45 PM
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But somehow they never run out of fwbs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:42 PM
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Nah this is unbelievable, a hot guy isn’t getting friendzoned by anyone, because if his personality was that bad they wouldn’t be friends at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:39 PM
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If u are in a low league even if u improve these things you will still have a shit dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:38 PM
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In which world can you read someone’s Reddit and determine they have good social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:36 PM
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Well men are more open to dating outside their race than women, with the exception of Asian women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:33 PM
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Yes i did multiple times and they would say they ok with that, but then later they said they didn’t tell the truth and considered us in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:08 PM
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Idk maybe u have different definitions where am from if u are boyfriend and girlfriend you are in a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:52 AM
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Idk man they thought I was there boyfriend and got upset when I was confused by this I don’t understand them sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:25 AM
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I don’t watch podcasts but if u live in small town makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:24 AM
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Because it’s the bitter truth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:52 AM
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I’ve already been fwb with one it was stressful but fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:19 PM
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It’s linked to feminism though, they demonise these people in the feminism movement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:48 PM
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Hope to find my mentally ill girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:46 PM
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Some of these men are desperate for love, therefore I would disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:46 PM
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Do you think those fat girls can’t find relationships on tinder? Or that they simply get rejected more, which is expected? Cause if it’s the first option I know some better platforms they can move onto and get results
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:45 PM
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Icl I might steal that one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:43 PM
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Luckily for you not having a social circle is only a dating crime for men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:37 PM
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Idk man, I had some confusions were my fwb girls thought I was dating them for no apparent reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:33 PM
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This is the worse argument I’ve seen from a man here for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:32 PM
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Completely false statement? The attractive guy who hookups have a higher chance of getting in a relationship? Kind of common sense seeming that he could probably start dating at least 25% of women he hooks up with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:30 PM
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The large majority of put ourselves out there, so I don’t know what u are on about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:28 PM
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You don’t believe there were many men willing to date you who wouldn’t have forced you to do all those things? Honestly u got unlucky
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:26 PM
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But I am saying it would be easier for trans women? Trans women have way more ease in dating than trans men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:23 PM
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Yeah I don’t know when I was still a virgin I was depressed despite doing well in life. Everything in life just felt hallow and it was just a deep sense of insecurity and inadequacy that had no end. I would ruminate multiple times a day about being a virgin when I was a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:20 PM
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For love as well? It is easy to find desperate men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:32 PM
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We a free people and we don’t have to do what capitalism demands. You need to have a job to get basic necessities, you don’t need to build a full on career. My point is that if men were not into women capitalism would collapse, but if women were not into men it would still remain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:31 PM
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Why u making the argument then? 😂Ur comment was mad tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:28 PM
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For me finally getting laid solved about 90% of my mental health problems and since then I have never had any sort of depression or issue close to when I was basically a former incel. I stopped despising life and now have hope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:27 PM
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It’s true, even a 400 lbs women could find a man who likes that and is desperate enough to be with her. I know this because I am in certain communities
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:25 PM
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Because even men don’t get anywhere close to 99% romance scammers unless u are on some dead app
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:23 PM
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Even ugly women have guys prepared to through all his savings to her and become her servant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:18 PM
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The common denominator is dating women, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:17 PM
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Why didnt u chose people who didn’t require you to clean, cook and make money?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:16 PM
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Why are seemingly all women proved themselves while many men haven’t. It’s strange
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:13 PM
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Women build careers cause they want to men do it to get women. Capitalism has ruined the people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:10 PM
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Lots of women never wear makeup and have relationships? Especially nerdy women. How is this relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:09 PM
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How would u know? It did for some men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:06 PM
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It’s easier to be attractive as a woman than a man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:05 PM
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If u go through their computer you’ll find them in the forums. People are wise not to make a big deal of it in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:04 PM
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If they weren’t mocked or felt shame they wouldn’t join those communities in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:02 PM
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Apparently showing basic empathy is coddling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:01 PM
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Straw man argument - no one said that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:00 PM
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Women have it easier in dating ? Not in life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:59 PM
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Femcels are just as sad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:57 PM
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There is no such thing as a women no men are interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:54 PM
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This is a blatant lie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:54 PM
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When men joined meet-ups to find women people advice against it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:52 PM
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Wtf is this racism 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:51 PM
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No one is angry, people on here just impassioned to critique incorrect statements
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:45 PM
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And ur husband is fine with that? U do u it just seems weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:31 PM
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Why would u want another man in your abode
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:29 PM
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A lot of chores are unnecessary and are not needed to be done. I can give examples
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:26 PM
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You can’t say an opinion then call it mundane to avoid critique
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:23 PM
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This is made up, I love women I’m a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:21 PM
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Pulled out of your arse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:19 PM
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It says a lot about who u hang out with that’s all, I don’t know anyone still attracted to 12 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:47 AM
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Sorry sir
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:46 AM
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I found 11 year olds hot when I was 11? Of course I don’t find them attractive anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:44 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:16 AM
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Why are u asking these sort of questions? It’s common sense women have it better in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:15 AM
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If that was true the femcel community wouldn’t be so large
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:12 AM
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Yeah I fucked a 35 year old recently as a 20 year old, it was just easier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:11 AM
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They want to pick and choose what males are attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:10 AM
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Yeah we will agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:08 AM
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Never happens tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:07 AM
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The statistics don’t agree with you, but go ahead. You are typically more safe with the average incel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:33 AM
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I disagree with objectification facilitating violence. When most men get angry and violent they punch people not rocks or their car. What ur saying makes sense in theory but in real life it doesn’t work like that, because if u are violent then violence towards anyone is not very hard to commit in the first place, whether people u love or people u see as objects. I grew up around violence so I know what it is . Men are more likely to be the victim of violence and more likely to be the perpetrator…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:30 AM
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If your theory that objectification causes violence then men would be more violent to women than they would men. This is not the case. Your argument is that u can’t hurt objects, this is irrelevant since violence is used to cause harm, not to avoid it. Sexual violence is the issue of violence not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:36 PM
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In school boys are taught that’s what patriarchy means, or are lead to believe that men are the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:09 PM
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When I see a poor argument I jump to disprove it, it’s what I do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:45 PM
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Ok I never argued that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:38 PM
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It disproves your statement that many male body types are seen as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:11 PM
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No u can be fat and still succedd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:08 PM
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This comment stinks of self hate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:06 PM
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What about leonardo decaprio, he gets shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:05 PM
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Doesn’t prove those men are desirable since women couple with men they don’t desire
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:04 PM
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Sexual violence has little to do with sexualisation and more to do with violence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:02 PM
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Men do get shamed for going strip club and women get away with inappropriate comments in an office
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:01 PM
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He’s projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:59 PM
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Hotness is definitely a factor tho, someone attractive enough could probably pull at a funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:58 PM
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Close to impossible is an ambiguous statement I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:58 PM
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Most traits that are fetishised tho are immutable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:58 PM
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Men are not against cultural sexualisation, we just don’t want to watch it ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:07 PM
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I think about sex way more than I think about water tho. Who thirsts for water in a developed country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:34 PM
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Of course they wouldn’t be comfortable with another man being sexualised on screen, because they don’t care to see a naked man, that has nothing to do with wanting yourself being sexualised in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:03 PM
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I know men who are fetishised by their partners and I never heard them complain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:51 PM
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Water is not sex for women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:50 PM
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Women don’t like too much sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:48 PM
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If no one wants to date u it makes sense to have 0 standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:47 PM
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He is speaking for men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:46 PM
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Women tend to view things like this negatively
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:45 PM
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How would u know they would have a problem with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:44 PM
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Some men like being used sexually tho, so why do women view it so negatively
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:42 PM
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I’m seen as a person all the time, rarely as a sexual entity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:41 PM
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As a man I would be fine with the Brad situation as well for short term
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:40 PM
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Fetishisation resolves any body issues a man has
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:36 PM
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I wanna be in a box
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:35 PM
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Men don’t see sexuality as dehumanising
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah I think people are arguing here with different definitions, there seems to be a difference between fetishisation and having a fetis, most men are thinking of the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:33 PM
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It’s not impossible at all? What a black/white argument to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:30 PM
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This argument makes no sense, being someone’s fetish makes u less replaceable than not being someone’s fetish. Even if they don’t have a fetish for you you can still be replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:28 PM
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No man sees being fetishised as dehumanising, it doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:26 PM
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Ok I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:24 PM
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Some women are aroused by inherently unsafe circumstances tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:19 PM
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Idk I’m 21, it’s not really that dramatic at all, if they are dating or not it’s not a big deal, childish or not we are right
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:35 PM
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When a guy and girl in our friendgroup spend time together without us we assume they are going to start dating, we are eventually proven right. So I don’t really believe this behaviour is anything platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:21 PM
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Yeah as a black guy it it’s the second option I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:03 PM
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It’s never guaranteed people are just friends, there’s always a possibility of the friendship evolving. In every friendgroup there are 2 friends that are friends for years and years until they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:58 PM
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This doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:55 PM
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The difference is that men tend not to invite their male friend 1-1 for dinner, for me it seems way too intimate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:52 PM
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Men tend not to interact with their friends 1-1 in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:50 PM
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You are acting like is a decision to have the desire to sleep with someone, you will have the desire, you just chose not to act on it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:45 PM
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If u want to get laid u have to make moves, otherwise she will think you are too shy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:41 PM
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Generally to avoid confusion people don’t tend to invite their opposite sex friends to one on one things where it’s only them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:40 PM
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At the end of the day it makes them happy sending money so idc, if I were desperate for money I would create a fake female persona and get strangers to buy stuff for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:00 PM
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I don’t spam anyone, the minority of men spam people; I have no influence on those men, and if that strategy is working for them so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:58 PM
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They aren’t forcing men, but some are rewarding men for ignoring women’s stated preference, that’s all I’ve said. And also as I’ve said they aren’t demands, because there is no weight behind them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:26 PM
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I agree, however It’s also women creating problems for other women as well, because any time a women that has “only ltr” in her bio is convinced to have casual sex, it rewards men’s bad behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:17 PM
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If I was hounded in real life yes, on the internet I wouldn’t care. You can’t be “hounded” on the internet it’s not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:14 PM
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They are not demands, ur feeling of guilt is probably a sign you are too much of a people pleaser or are uncomfortable with saying no. Dating apps are tiresome for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:55 AM
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Someone on the internet can’t demand anything of you unless they are blackmailing u, u can easily block people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:41 AM
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This is what I don’t understand, why is one communities experiences more valid than another’s, just because I aspire to get out of it doesn’t mean I don’t still know/date people from that environment, or it doesn’t affect me in dating. Why is there one community that has the general, default and true experience and the other ones we can just dismiss, like we on another planet. If u wanna understand Redpill don’t u need to understand where we coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:25 AM
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False, also no one is demanding to use u for anything,last time I checked you didn’t have to reply to messages
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:21 AM
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What does that got to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:19 AM
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I never understood why dick pics are so repulsive to women though, I know sending them is really wrong, but icl if I saw a dick pick (I have seen them) I’d just be neutral to it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:29 PM
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As a women you can post ur wish list on the internet and strangers will buy them for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:26 PM
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Maybe some other women could learn something from u
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:25 PM
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Yes but sometimes people in this sub act like our experiences aren’t valid because we don’t come from a good environment. It makes sense anyone from those environments may find Redpill to be more believable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:15 PM
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What’s wrong with living in the hood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:21 PM
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Feminist use virgin as an insult all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:19 PM
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You speak like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:17 PM
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It’s not uncommon for women to use dating apps, that’s another disingenuous statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:11 PM
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Let’s not be disingenuous, like it’s hard for a woman to find a relationship on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:42 AM
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What an excuse. Many people find romantic partners on there, what are u talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:06 PM
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What about online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:54 PM
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I don’t know about postmodernism but I despise neoliberalism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:32 PM
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It’s an orgasm gap when u want to blame the man otherwise it’s an ego thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:55 PM
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Well I don’t know why your husband can’t make you orgasm it’s pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:17 PM
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Instead of pretending u like your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:06 PM
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If u are faking orgasms stop being in denial: you are not genuinely attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:53 AM
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If u don’t have a genuine attraction to your partner don’t waste anyone’s time? What’s so hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:42 AM
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And ur out here faking orgasms with your partner, how can you call that a relationship? It’s pretend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:34 AM
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I haven’t researched that but estrogen and testosterone levels probably need to be increased, which is definitely doable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:33 AM
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A lot of people in society are obese, I’m not accepting that as normal, and I’m also not accepting this as normal, solve ur sexual problems before entering a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:22 AM
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At the end of the day I know what a real orgasm feels like, i notice what I feel. Faking orgasm is not a good look at all and I could never be with a woman like that, and it is not normal behaviour no matter how much u try to normalise it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:11 AM
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There’s stuff I do believe and there’s stuff I don’t , I read the science papers and form my own conclusion. Personally I have a regime and I see benefit. Dick size cannot easily be changed obviously but hormonal levels are quite easy to influence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:08 AM
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It seems like a problem for ur potential husband, I wouldn’t want to be with a woman like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:06 AM
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Ok I see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:00 AM
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Using a vibrator isn’t natural or normal, if u can’t orgasm without a vibrator, what steps have you taken to solve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:00 AM
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No toys anywhere, same way I ain’t watching porn in a relationship, if u don’t enjoy natural sex with me then you are not attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:59 AM
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Maybe during puberty guys should optimise stuff like that if they are stunted in height. I was into the whole looksmaxxing stuff so I believe people should be proactive with stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:58 AM
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If she prefers a toy to your dick it’s a sorry situation. Women view men watching porn as competition
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:53 AM
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Then take some vitamins or do some exercise to something to increase your sex drive, at least do something about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:52 AM
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Okay isn’t that a you problem? Maybe u should find guys that u can orgasm to, instead of wasting both peoples times. Or go to the doctor if u can’t orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:51 AM
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There’s a difference between that situation, and the situation I’m talking about where u are using a toy because sex with ur man is not pleasurable. Personally I would never use a toy for anyon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:50 AM
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It’s now an ego thing, but before it was the “orgasm gap”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:47 AM
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If u find toys nice to use on a woman compared to your dick are u even straight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:47 AM
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That’s what is should be instead of blaming men and the orgasm gap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:45 AM
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Those women shouldn’t have sex and instead should find a doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:41 AM
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If u feel the orgasm coming through and u see the juices coming out it cannot be fake
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:40 AM
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Why would a self respecting man allow his women to make him compete with a mechanical device
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:39 AM
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A lot of us redpillers are from low socioeconomic backgrounds tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:36 AM
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I haven’t contradicted myself, I don’t count being a mother at 30 as a disadvantage since it’s a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:05 AM
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It is already proven that the gap grows at 30 because that’s the age women become mothers usually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:59 AM
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U didn’t understand my point, the fact that young women are earning more than young men means the historical disadvantages no longer exist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:39 AM
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*Young women earn more than *young men, did u not read what I said before
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:30 AM
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That shows there’s no longer a disadvantage today , only historical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:08 PM
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Young women earn more than young men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:37 PM
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I never said I can detect rapists I said I can prevent myself from being raped through simple measures. Just because I think the risk is worth taking doesn’t mean I don’t grasp the risk or don’t think it is real. id sacrifice my safety for ease of life any day, when I was a child I always took the dangerous route to school that my parents told me not to go because it was 5 mins quicker, even though I did almost get robbed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:52 PM
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Yes as men we are less risk averse, some of us put ourselves in danger regularly so I don’t know why u think I wouldn’t sacrifice my safety to have way more options in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:25 PM
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Way more women are in relationships than men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:18 PM
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Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:17 PM
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Statistically the risk of that is very low and completely preventable if u don’t go back to theirs on the first few dates? I do way riskier shit and trust people I probably shouldn’t on a daily basis, I’m not a very risk averse person, and a lot of women aren’t as risk averse either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:15 PM
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Yes I would?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:43 PM
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Not being able to date is deep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:37 PM
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That’s not any solace at all, id rather have this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:31 PM
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Do u not understand what I said or just disagree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:54 PM
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I’m just speaking from my personal perspective, I’m sure u enjoyed ur time, it just isn’t the life for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:54 AM
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When did I say men are not getting anything from relationships, I just said that’s not due to any work done by women more due to biology and culture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:52 AM
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Because they know their value in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:04 AM
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U don’t know all women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:48 AM
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Yes I agree there are more marriage material women then men, but you need to account for the fact the marriage material men are more available while most of the marriage material women will be unattainable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:41 AM
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Better that than get no matches
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:38 AM
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How u supposed to get your relationship game up when u can’t get in a relationship. Women have not earnt their priveldge in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:32 AM
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Without a partner all these things are just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:30 AM
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60% of young men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:30 AM
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Yes when it comes to dating women inherently have more value
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:29 AM
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Is it now??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:27 AM
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She has more options anyway so clearly it’s a one sided problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:26 AM
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I don’t want validation I want to date and I want love what is so wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:06 AM
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Women don’t even want sex with a few men, they just do have sex with a few men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:04 AM
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If ur smv can be lowered by doing an act behind closed doors i dont think it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:40 PM
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Yes I accept this now it’s the life I live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:39 PM
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Yeah all the pills are silly man, you can never reduce a complex system as dating down to such a simplistic model
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:54 PM
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Did u read what I said? Also smv doesn’t exist. I’m not even blaming no one everyone is acting in their self interest anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:51 PM
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I don’t care about a women being virginal. If the women liked sex they wouldn’t care about their perceived lower value, it’s just an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:48 PM
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Ideally I do both, my relationships start through casual sex because I don’t know why a women would go on a date with a man she’s not sexually attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:33 PM
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If u can’t make someone attracted to then why am I bothering anyways. If she’s not attracted to me why would she want to get to know me, when she can get to know guys she’s attracted to. Maybe in a warm environment but not through cold environment. Most women these days value their time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:32 PM
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I wanna do both, I wanna go dancing and clubbing and talk about deep stuff problem is girls come so rare I go for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:26 PM
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I connect with none of them until I get into a relationship with them, until then there’s no connection to be found
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:25 PM
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Nah I’m looking to connect with women and I do that by flirting with them, ain’t no other way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:10 PM
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Yeah I have adhd but I get on with non adhd men fine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:05 PM
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They do, I know because I am friends with them, however 75% of female friends I’ve made have adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:55 PM
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Yes, if it’s a cold approach where lm not dancing yet and just walk up to her I introduce myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:54 PM
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someone I know I can talk to for ever, but I have adhd so with a stranger I get really bored with small talk, that’s why I prefer flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:52 PM
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Im just saying im not going to be talking about clubs in the club, maybe outside of it. Clubbing isn’t exactly a hobby. I prefer to avoid the topic of music altogether because it is very unlikely any woman would share my music taste so it almost instantly disqualifies me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:50 PM
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No finding a girl to talk to about niche complex topics. Not the usual, “I like travelling” “I saw this band” “ I been to this restaurant “
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:47 PM
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There’s a lot more to flirting than that, trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:45 PM
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Yes and if u don’t easily fit into these cliques ur basically fucked apparently, it’s not like I don’t have interests, I do have a lot they are just not as surface level as “I like travelling” or “I like eating food”. My relationships are way deeper than that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:44 PM
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Making the women attracted to you is more important than getting to know her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:41 PM
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If they truly liked sex this sub wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:38 PM
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This stuff only works if the girl is neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:37 PM
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Why is flirting boring for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:33 PM
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The women that don’t want to have sex with guys they have nothing in common with tend to not be the ones that are having casual sex a lot in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:31 PM
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U didn’t hear what I said, I said a regular conversation, the topics you listed would come under that. Ain’t no one come to the club to talk about other clubs, music events are an entirely different thing, not all clubs are music events
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:29 PM
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If I don’t know someone and we don’t have anything in common I don’t find it easy to move out of small talk. That’s why I focus on sexual stuff and teasing her, because that what keeps the interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:19 AM
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A regular conversation turns some women off. I realised when I’m flirting with the club/party type girls I should never bring up my uni or course because otherwise the sexual interest fizzles, but that’s only for short term
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:15 AM
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Introverted women are less likely to be in relationships than introverted men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:21 AM
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Yeah consistency is more important than anything else, people say I should go 3 times a week at least but honestly I know I won’t be able to maintain that. When i go gym I don’t speak to anyone or waste time, I workout and go home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:07 PM
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That’s because when I was skinny I was very low body fat, but still very slightly naturally muscular. I still haven’t been able to get above like 15% body fat despite bulking for about 4 years. There was a period I was eating peanut butter straight out of jars trying to bulk. I’m not able to gain fat very easily at all, the only time I achieved 15% body fat when I was eating fast food takeout daily for a month at uni, and after weeks after I came back from uni the fat disappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:55 PM
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Yeah as I said before I had abs before going gym and I eat whatever I want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:00 PM
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Ur delusional man, women have won just leave it as that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:56 PM
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I eat whatever and have a six pack. In fact I had a six pack before I started gym
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:47 PM
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If u naturally have a fast metabolism and struggle to gain weight like me, u don’t have to watch your diet. Also I am muscular with six pack despite being 6’4 and only going gym every 3 days for at most 1 and a half hours. Outside of gym I don’t think about gym
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:46 PM
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My autistic ex girlfriend was obsessed with my muscles icl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:44 PM
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Having experience will cancel that out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:20 PM
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I’d rather attract abusers i can deal with that it’s better than being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:19 PM
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If women were raising the children in villages and who would work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:03 AM
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Do some self reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:16 AM
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That’s why we should raise children in villages again and bring back single income homes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:15 AM
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U are self centred man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:13 AM
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It is true, if puberty wasn’t early it would be even higher risk then it already is, and in the past childbirth was high risk at all ages anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:25 PM
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Because human evolution optimised for older men to partner with younger women, due to resources and fertility. That’s why women start puberty earlier as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:04 PM
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Idk it is misandrist but a lot of women have been saying men are narcissistic and have low empathy and I’m basically agreeing with them now, from my experience growing up I’ve met many guys who know right from wrong but don’t feel any sense of guilt or remorse in doing wrong. A lot of them do crime
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:00 PM
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Yes if I were winning in this culture why would I be complaining ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:52 PM
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I said rationalise not rational, rationalise means figure something out right? So figure out why they feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:51 PM
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Erm I don’t really feel anything? that’s because I don’t really ever feel guilty or fearful about saying no, but I’d imagine it would be different for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:49 PM
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Cause if these people had sex and relationships it would be the single best improvement to their wellbeing by far, and they are not stupid, they know this is the case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:48 PM
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I’m not telling u how to feel I am telling u to remove ur feelings and rationalise it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:47 PM
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Women are not the obstacle culture is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:46 PM
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Women are more likely than men to respect right from wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:45 PM
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I learnt somethign yes, I just didn’t learn how to behave or sit still, I was also a fast learner so I can spend a quarter of the time learning at school and spend the rest of the time fooling around, in fact for maths I taught myself the whole syllabus from the textbook in a few days so there was no point of me going to lessons. At work I spend a lot of time walking around, eating or listening to music but most people work from home so no one cares what u are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:45 PM
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I think the man has responsibility to take himself out of a relationship that makes him feel secure. Although the insecurities you’ve listed are more on the rational side. But yeah now i think about it u are right men don’t tend to put much effort into relationships, I get ur frustration. Maybe the solution is for men to date younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:20 PM
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It’s a pretty common view to have, it’s the type of thing people say is not normal so many people who do have it will repress it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:12 PM
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It’s definitely just a deterrent, some people have been raised by bad households so they don’t have any respect for society or the law, so they have to be taught with fear. I’m kind of similar, I don’t really care about breaking the law in some aspects but I fear going to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:09 PM
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I didn’t learn anything it just made me repress something and hate school. Being able to sit still doesn’t help as much as school makes it out to be. At work I still can’t sit still and my company doesn’t care because at the end of the day I still get the work done, it’s about learning what works for u, not a one size fits all. If quite large number of students both boys and girls are getting excluded for basically being bored it’s no longer a disability problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:06 PM
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Disgust is just an emotion, u should put that aside and try harder to imagine how someone may end up feeling such a way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:01 PM
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Yeah that’s true I do tend to overthink these things ur right. Sometimes I just think they have the worst opinion of me when I do approach cause I feel it’s taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:07 PM
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I agree most feminist don’t work against these changes but the large majority of people who are against these changes call themselves feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:58 PM
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If I can just repeatedly do something despite knowing what I am doing to someone, that person isn’t liking it, despite no inherent fault of my own, that would make me feel like quite an asshole. At that point I’d start doing crypto scams to get rich cause I’d feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:57 PM
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Generally there’s not really a benefit for sending most women to prison, that’s why we already give them lower sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:50 PM
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Young women now earn more than young men, so there’s nothing to equalise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:48 PM
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Women have lower average iq than men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:46 PM
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U speak for no man except urself, do u not realise neoliberalism is causing this mess in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:45 PM
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Biologically speaking it makes complete sense, but feminism doesn’t acknowledge biology
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:43 PM
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School teaches u to sit quiet and be obedient. I got the highest grades at school but I had adhd so the teachers kicked me out of class and most the teachers didn’t like me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:41 PM
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That’s why they should segregate the schools again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:37 PM
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Feminists are actively working against these efforts though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:36 PM
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Take some responsibility please
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:34 PM
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They don’t hate women they hate not having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:32 PM
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How is society doing better now if people have worse mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:30 PM
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It’s a normal view to have, he’s not gonna feel like his life is worth anything if he can’t have sex, once he does that’s when he can realise there’s more to life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:29 PM
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I believe procreating will feel like the highest goal in life if u lack the means to procreate, it’s like Marlows hierarchy of needs, how can u enjoy life before u have the ability to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:26 PM
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Not really when I was a virgin I used to think exactly like this man, I didn’t want to live
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:24 PM
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The only reason why I drink is to get laid, I hate alcohol getting high is way better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:20 PM
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If a male friend is interested in a female friend but that interest is not returned it’s vilified, but if they are both interested in each other it’s seen as a success
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:19 PM
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This is the men you are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:17 PM
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Also men approaching women has been demonised by some while still being expected by others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:16 PM
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What a foolish comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:14 PM
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In the vast majority of cases he’s not getting dates at all, cause that’s the hardest part for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:06 PM
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With the competition in bars and clubs these days you’ve basically confirmed what I already know which is that there’s not a place to approach women because they do not want to be approached therefore I should keep grinding
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:34 AM
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Women are more social than men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:40 PM
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Then why do people keep telling men to approach at bars and clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:38 PM
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People have been calling women females for time tho, especially in the hood
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:37 PM
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I’m not saying immigration is a bad thing just that nowadays it’s more in the interest of the elites than the working class from a purely economic sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:52 PM
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How am I supposed to know how many guys approached her beforehand? Do u think I approach her knowing this. Also I don’t know where u live the bars I’ve been to there’s rarely any option to sit at the actual bar, it’s just a place to order, if most people hang out in their friend groups is it common to go to these places to meet new people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:06 PM
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As a man I don’t think these types of women exist anywhere, except online so I don’t know how u can date them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:41 AM
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Your acting like there aren’t feminist movements all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:35 AM
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I’m a second gen immigrant but I actually agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:35 AM
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The point is that if ur the 30th person to approach a woman at the club she’s gonna feel harrassed at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:32 AM
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It’s well known in studies that high insight as you call it, is highly correlated with depression and anxiety, I’m saying this as a highly introspective person, it’s a double edged sword and not everyone will find this trait helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:44 AM
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There’s a difference between not taking platitudes literally and arguing that the platitudes are baseless and have no place in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:41 AM
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Do u think everyone needs to be high insight then? Is that natural? I swear don’t a lot of people not have an inner monologue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:31 AM
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U find dating easy so this is not ur reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:29 AM
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Many people who work on being attractive are still incels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:29 AM
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Should I start photographing buses then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:27 AM
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She asked tho before so how can I not say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:54 PM
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Why? If u were in my situation what would u do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:56 PM
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I got away with it, I lied to my first hookup about my experience and I made her cum multiple times, but I did my research beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:18 AM
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I got away with it, I lied to my first hookup about my experience and I made her cum multiple times, but I did my research beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:16 AM
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I got away with it, I lied to my first hookup about my experience and I made her cum multiple times, but I did my research beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:16 AM
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As long as u waited before sex with every single guy, otherwise it’s disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:08 AM
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It wasn’t on this sub it was the original generic Reddit sub the “compliment” was posted on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:05 AM
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I’d rather my partner physically desire me than “love” me cause I know she would respect men more that she physically desires
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:00 AM
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Do u believe the same in women who have no male friends? Cause I know some women where I was their first male friend
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:46 PM
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Is feminism not about thinking they should have equal right tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:39 PM
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At least ugly women aren’t seen as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:38 PM
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U can work with women without collaborating with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:37 PM
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Now these days women can do nothing and are rewarded with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:21 PM
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Just say u don’t like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:44 PM
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They are abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:41 PM
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Women have higher standards that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:38 PM
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Isn’t most psychotherapy traditionally tested on women tho? Clearly therapy doesn’t help that much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:35 PM
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If if ur undesirable it’s not due to ur virginity trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:31 PM
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If they put themselves out there they’d have more than a guy or 2 to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:27 PM
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Yeah it seems like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:42 PM
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That’s the thing, men are not taking it as a compliment because we want u to find us physically attractive just on its own, not just because we are ur partner, cause we don’t believe that attraction to be real. Because at the end of the day if this was really true for all women no women would cheat, but obviously some do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:31 PM
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Yes it’s rigged, it just is what it is unlucky I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:27 PM
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Because u are a man u no longer have value
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:25 PM
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This is not helpful at all because some women will pretend to be interested to avoid conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:24 PM
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It’s a lie, they just add more rules to make it harder to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:21 PM
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So for 10% of guys it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:20 PM
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Social arena is only effective for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:18 PM
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That’s why men in clubs are all over 6 feet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:15 PM
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Why u be happy buying a banana for $2 when it was being sold for $0.1 yesterday??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:13 PM
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In your example both guys are attractive, in real life the guy the women allows to be casual with her is more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:10 PM
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Your standards are a lot lower but for most women the one exception to this would be the physical attractiveness standard. So it sounds less like a compliment more like you aren’t physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:08 PM
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Most women have higher standards for casual sex than relationships, this is a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:01 PM
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How is it not about physical attraction? Even if what u are saying is true the sentimental guy is less attractive to women and the narcissist is statistically more attractive to women. Coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:57 PM
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Have u found it yet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:54 AM
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Way to dodge the truth there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:48 AM
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And in turn harder for men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:46 AM
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Ur perceptions are biased in that the people who know they will be accepted by who they are actually as who they are and the people who don’t believe that don’t show who they are, so the people who end up showing who they are tend to be the ones who are more accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:45 AM
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I disagree, when I think of npc I think of the type of person where nothing they say will ever surprise u, it’s like they are reading of a script their whole lives, since these people are very uncontroversial and they are very agreeable they are generally well liked. I have this one guy at my job and he’s very friendly but I’ve always wondered whether he’s ever had a deep thought in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:42 AM
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Where do u find such women, I have to pretend to be masculine every day while inside I know I’m quite soft
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:37 AM
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Idk I used to be bp and hung around those places when I was a teenager and we used to say those things jokingly but we were still self improving that’s how I got out of it, that’s why I said there’s overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:35 PM
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I don’t care about the approval of women or if a women likes me or not I just want to have dating options. I don’t have a family yet so why would I be worrying about that, in the 21st century ur family is gonna survive with or without u, I grew up in a broken home so I know it ain’t the worse thing in the world. I know people in good families whose lives are shit so it’s not the be all and end all, it’s just fantasy. I was self improving before I was obsessed with dating and I expect when I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:01 PM
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U can do both, u can hyper obsess on dating while being in the act of improving yourself. Why would u assume we can’t do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:47 PM
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It’s trivial if u don’t struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:45 PM
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Red pill also places heavy emphasis on looks, the difference it believes looks can be improved. Also black pill doesn’t necessarily believe everything is placed on looks, just that it’s the most important factor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:37 PM
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Depends on the business model surely, there are freelance prositutes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:07 PM
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Consequences sometimes imply fault but not always, I wasn’t implying fault. The consequences haven’t been manufactured they are inherent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:06 PM
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Just because it has consequences doesn’t mean it ain’t a power
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:11 AM
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In this day and age age physical power means nothing and sexual power means everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:10 AM
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Maybe they label them as sluts because they resent their power
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:09 AM
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I don’t think red pill beliefs can be separated from black pill beliefs, they are quite intertwined.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:06 AM
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It’s tempting to talk about what I’ve done here but out of respect for the girl I won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:59 AM
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That people like sex but not casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:46 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:14 PM
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Do u like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:53 PM
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Most men don’t even cold approach let alone do well these rhings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:07 AM
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Ive seen catcalling but the women seemed to receptive to it for me to call it out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:06 AM
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What an uninformed statement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:59 AM
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All of this is a chqricawture of what women think men are like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:59 AM
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I’d do it with women I don’t find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:55 AM
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Then as I said people should stop saying “just talk to them like human beings” when men ask people how to approach because it comes of as disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:53 AM
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What do u mean treat her with respect, I’m already approaching her respectfully, but I can’t respect her yet because respect is earned, I don’t respect every guy I need help from or advice either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:49 AM
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Yeah I sympathise with your experiences but my point is the advice when it comes to approaching “just talk to women like human beings” makes no sense when it comes to approaching because if I did follow that there would be no approach in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:46 AM
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Well I don’t live in an area where small talk is common, that’s why I ignore the advice of just make small talk to her cause it isn’t natural situation at all and I instead just ask her out directly. I’m not the one saying men should approach women like human beings cause that doesn’t even make sense if I don’t approach male strangers. I don’t know anyone who’s getting angry at being rejected, definitely not any of my friends or me, idk what type of guy would behave like that. Obviously if the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:39 AM
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If u believe that I don’t think we are understanding each other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:01 PM
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Erm it depends, the majority of men u can filter out being friends with them just by their demeanour and how they look u can tell their personality, but obviously once we speak I can make a sure decision. I treat all men my age on this basis ,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:59 PM
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I would get one but I always have a fear that if I die unexpectedly someone’s gonna find my sex robot laying there. I’m slightly joking of course
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:47 PM
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Men are not given automatic respect either they earn that respect as well, it’s just that most men were socialised to behave in such a way to earn that respect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:32 PM
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You are supporting the OPs point, it’s no longer treat us like human it is now treat us like a human which u want something from
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:30 PM
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The decency and respect I expect to be treated as a man is lower than what a woman might expect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:29 PM
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The problem is that it is impossible to do this if u don’t already approach strangers in general to chat to them. It’s increasingly becoming an alien action to approach strangers for talk especially in such antisocial times
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:27 PM
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I do split how I treat people by potential friend vs not potential friend tho. I am generally uninterested in people but if I meet a guy who I think I vibe with i suddenly open up and begin to become more open with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:26 PM
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Way more women are interested in cnc than men. If feminism is about choice surely cnc is feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:24 PM
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Why do u conflate not treating other well to being pieces of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:22 PM
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You make it sarcasm but that’s how lots of men think including me. Men are organised by hierarchy and the man lower down in that hierarchy has to be nicer to the man higher up. I didn’t learn this through red pill I observed this in the school playground before i was 10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:21 PM
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I say “we” because lots of men do treat each other like that, especially if u live in an area with low levels of trust. That’s my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:19 PM
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We have no choice in the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:15 PM
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This is contradictory because people also say men should approach women and talk to them like human beings. So on the one hand treating someone as a human being means completely ignoring them and on the other it means making casual platonic small talk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:14 PM
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We offer problem solving but not for emotional problems
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:12 PM
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U probably live in a friendly area then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:11 PM
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Doesn’t that depend where u live, not everyone lives in areas with cultures of friendliness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:05 PM
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The advantage is that it is evidence that just because a women isn’t always treated kindly doesn’t mean she is not being treated “like a human” since we treat other humans like that. What is the advantage in thinking your treatment is due to your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:44 PM
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Sorry sir
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:58 AM
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I disagree with this, the desire to reproduce is a inherited genetic trait as well as inherited through family values, it’s just that in the past those that didn’t want to reproduce out of free will were pressured by society to do so, so their genes didn’t die out. It’s only now people have true freedom to be childless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:50 AM
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Women don’t learn to cope with their higher levels of neuroticism, they instead make it societies problem to deal with their neurotic worries
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:30 AM
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I’ve only been on this earth one generation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:27 AM
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The point is that not everyone is treated politely and kindly so just because ur not treated that way doesn’t mean u are not treated like a human
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:26 AM
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Well u seem to agree with OPs point that these types of men do treat women how they treat men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:25 AM
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U assume men extend a baseline level of decency, curiosity or empathy to every other man as well. I only do it for men I like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:23 AM
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Treating it like a game is more beneficial sometimes, women often express unhappiness when we tell the truth so instead we tell them what they want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:21 AM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:10 AM
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I don’t think it’s that great of a leap, if u actually liked sex u would pursue it knowing it’s easily available to u for most women, they don’t in general, in fact u see women go celibate for years or they give excuses to why they don’t pursue for something they supposedly like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:55 PM
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Has a women ever propositioned sex with u without u knowing her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:53 PM
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If women enjoyed sex in general I would have a high body count, my point is that they don’t. But from experience once I have sex with a women once she will keep coming back, it’s getting the sex the first time that is difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:15 AM
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What does that got to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:07 AM
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They do, however they don’t enjoy sex in general, that’s why they don’t seek it out. When I’m in a relationship obviously she is enjoying the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:11 AM
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No they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:19 AM
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Yes but that isn’t the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:18 AM
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Women don’t like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:17 AM
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Chicken or the egg problem tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:14 AM
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If u don’t get first date u can never show emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:12 AM
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Same in the black hood as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:07 AM
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Yes that argument could be made as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:47 PM
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It’s more due to the environment I grew up in. I grew up in a rough area with a lot of bad boy guys who acted like gang members, girls are obsessed with them so they had options , I’m not friends with them but I still bump into them and chat sometimes. When I mean harem people I literally mean they were friends with benefits to multiple girls but the girls would be loyal to them most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:31 PM
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I disagree that girls are not picking guys with harems because I know guys with harems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:21 PM
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Yeah where am I going to find friends that will accompany me in talking to female strangers. My friend group is to introverted when we go out to these places I’m the only one that ones to speak to strangers we always keep to ourselves, that’s the problem, even at the bar or club. I only have one friend that loves talking to strangers. Having women around to cold approach would help u be perceived as more attractive less creepy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:46 AM
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Yeah I know I’m not desirable enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:41 AM
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Isn’t cold approaching hunting for chicks, I’d consider approaching at parties a warm approach? Not that I ever been to parties where there were many new women to meet in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:24 AM
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My dry periods are too long for me and I settle for the first girl that’s into me even if she’s not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:03 AM
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Where the hell is any guy gonna find 2 girls who are willing to join u in cold approach, my female friends definitely wouldn’t join me for that, most my male friends wouldn’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:02 AM
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With cold approach appearance including attractiveness and how u dress is largely what matters, if u don’t meet that bar she’s unlikely to hear u out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:55 AM
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A respectful approach might be perceived as annoying but at worse it can be perceived as being uncomfortable especially if u approach a shy woman, the fact that I could make her feel this way doesn’t making approaching very appealing me, cause it’s not a pleasant experience for me either then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:53 AM
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It’s an honest mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:04 AM
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How is it a choice if it’s a biological urge
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:03 AM
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I have female friends and I’ve had girlfriends who didn’t have a problem with my personality so I doubt that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:02 AM
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They are wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:08 AM
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Women have inherent value in this society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:31 PM
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Idk I’m from the uk idk where I’d find cheap escorts except for them dodgy ones where they are obviously trafficked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:29 PM
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How do u suggest reducing male libido, I always wanted to lower my libido cause it ruins my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:26 PM
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I’d rather be in a relationship with the wrong person than be single, not everyone thinks the same way as u
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:25 PM
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Straight men must do more to appeal to women to get sex, that’s the power they have, for example, straight men may have to compromise their political views in order to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:21 PM
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Escorts are unaffordable for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:15 PM
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There’s clearly not abundance on the men’s side tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:14 PM
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If u struggle to get LTR as a women u are obviously below average no offence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:13 PM
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I don’t it very easy to make new friends so I hold the friends I have already closely. Just because u find ur political views important doesn’t mean u have to be sensitive to jokes. My ex girlfriend was very politically active, she was basically an activist but she was an outlier cause she never had any problem with my humour, I liked that she wasn’t as sensitive as some can be. I am not even apolitical I’m a leftist I just can’t be bothered to be an activist, and I’ve been fine with being frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:49 PM
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Idk both they don’t share our energy. U can convince a guy to stay out when he’s tired but the girls always the first to go home, I haven’t yet met women as u describe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:30 PM
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Yeah but I have very low standards anyway I’d be satisfied with anyone, 20 years old is a terrible age to be at rn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:28 PM
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I never said sex was an accomplishment, I said it was a goal. I generally feel unsatisfied and generally in a bad mood in life when I don’t have sex for long, that’s why it’s my goal in life to end up in a position I don’t have to go through too much dry periods
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:27 PM
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Nah yeah I used to but not so much now, cause it’s tiring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:23 PM
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I get rejected obviously, my face is not very harmonious looking that’s the best way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:36 PM
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That’s why men are more attractive when they are older, if ur a young guy trying to date and still growing it’s peak
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:35 PM
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I’m not willing to lose friends, that’s why I do filter humour around female friends, they can see it as crossing the line that’s fair enough, it’s still frustrating tho. I don’t like friends that just decide to fall out with u at minor inconvenience, argument or disagreement, I don’t like friends that can’t handle being insulted, I don’t like friends that can’t handle political views that make them feel a certain way, whether said jokingly or not. There’s a difference between someone who is con…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:52 PM
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I’m not willing to lose friends, that’s why I do filter humour around female friends, they can see it as crossing the line that’s fair enough, it’s still frustrating tho. I don’t like friends that just decide to fall out with u at minor inconvenience, argument or disagreement, I don’t like friends that can’t handle being insulted, I don’t like friends that can’t handle political views that make them feel a certain way, whether said jokingly or not. There’s a difference between someone who is con…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:52 PM
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How is that probable at all. actually? I’m not shutting them out they just don’t approve of what we do, even when we tell them to stay out with us they say they are tired
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:42 PM
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I must have been unlucky then, at the end of the day if she wants a more hung version of me she can get one she has lots of options
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:18 PM
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This is false and incorrect, I’ve never met a women that was creepy except for crackheads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:15 PM
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Idk where I’d find these women then, it’s not something I’ve seen much at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:11 PM
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Good point, I guess because assuming ur the same age as me, u are in our friend group, u are just a different gender from me I just wished girls matched the same sensitivity as some of us at least sometimes. The same way I have friends who are more edgy than me and I still accept them and allow them to speak, and communicate with them when they crossed the line instead of dropping friends with them. I do code switch a lot I just wish i didn’t have to do it in my friend group it feels weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:08 PM
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If we had options in mutual and work we would be considering cold approaching in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:04 PM
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U haven’t been to where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:59 PM
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The cold approach being perceived as being respectful largely depends on whether the cold approach is wanted. If I don’t want someone knocking on my door for some charity, no matter how respectfully they do it I will still find the experience displeasing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:58 PM
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It’s not all facial features that can be fixed with surgery u know, u can be facially lean and ugly as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:55 PM
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We are talking about in a cold approach setting, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:54 PM
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Instead of admitting they can’t help u people want to offer worthless advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:53 PM
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This is too simplistic tho, if u are physically unattractive, ie short or facially challenged, and do all the things u mentioned I still doubt u would have much success. I’m not saying those things don’t help tho, it just isn’t realistic advice for many
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:52 PM
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Getting laid not being a major thing is something personal to u, it’s proven psychologically that not everyone shares that mindset, we all have different goals in life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:50 PM
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Cold approach doesnt work bad for everyone. Cold approach can work ok or even well for attractive men, what about that do u disagree with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:49 PM
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There’s always a hierarchy mate, u remove the past hierarchy of gender and another one forms, someone’s got to be at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:48 PM
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Not 6 inches cause I’ve been rejected by a size queen for saying I was 6 inches, at least 7 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:46 PM
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The problem is that there’s no way for men to improve their appearance anything beyond fashion, gym and basic skincare and grooming, nothing can compare to makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:44 PM
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What if u have slightly below average facial genetics but for everything else, I got an insane v taper and I’m lean but face ruins it, no surgery to fix it either. I think u provided a too simplistic view
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:42 PM
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Meanwhile I can’t put on weight to save my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:39 PM
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U are the minority, everyone knows girls on holiday a very easy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:37 PM
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Idk autism and fundamentalism definitely has a evolutionary advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:35 PM
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Bro I’m not even a person on the right tho, I generally agree with most issues on the left and dislike right wing I’m just not always politically correct when it comes to humor like a lot of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:23 PM
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Immature is not necessarily bad tho idk, for example just last night me and my friends went pub, both guys and girls, the girls got tired and went home so that’s when we went outside goofed around and were play fighting, stealing eachothers shoes, running about on the street, we wouldn’t have done it if the girls were still around. We are not immature in the sense we all are generally responsible people in our lives but we play around a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:22 PM
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Ok I’ll ask them about their siblings then. My friends haven’t talked much about their siblings, so idk. Tbf a lot of my friends have very few relatives or are single children. I don’t see how talking to relatives is gonna end up with meeting them. Tbf it was my friends birthday tonight and his cousin was meant to be at the restaurant tonight but didn’t come. I was surprised when he said his cousins coming cause I never met a friend relative like that before, but it didn’t end up happening anywa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:12 AM
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Just because some women don’t like the jokes doesn’t mean they are gross jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:05 AM
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Maybe it’s different culturally or generationally we’re u live i don’t even know my friends siblings let alone meeting my coworkers nieces. Most my coworkers are people who moved to this city without their families anyways. How peoples relatives even come up in conversation idk , let alone meeting them for no apparent reason. U are definitely living in a different reality to mine, are u from a small town or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:40 PM
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We still manage to have women in our friendgroup, it’s just that they are more sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:58 PM
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Thanks for ur advice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:36 PM
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Ok that’s interesting, I could try that, idk how am gonna do it because I haven’t got any free space where I live, I might need to move out my parents first
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:04 PM
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Ur very lucky then mate, is harder for us younger generation. When I was at a party with my female friends one of them was asking whether I’d date a trans women to test me and I had to say yes I would even though that was a lie otherwise they’d drop me as friend. That’s why it’s harder to make friends with girls cause u can’t even speak ur mind around them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:30 AM
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It clearly doesn’t enhance everyone’s quality of life, that’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:26 AM
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From my experience it’s any “immature” joke that is non bigoted that has to be filtered out in the presence of women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:24 AM
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In this day and age how are u gonna be meeting coworkers nieces here, let’s be realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:23 AM
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Even ND girls struggle to make connections with NT girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:22 AM
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Every women these days thinks romantic relationships are a waste of time, nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:19 AM
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If u want to have gen z women in ur friendgroup yes, or at least u have to pretend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:18 AM
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Not true, I have reasonably mature guys friends for their age who are relatively kind but even they would change their jokes slightly when our female friends are there I’ve noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:14 AM
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What’s vr virtual reality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:12 AM
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My friends do set people up but only the attractive friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:09 AM
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Although I’m not a virgin I haven’t become ok with it at all I’m still trying. Most of my male friends who are virgins seem to be fine with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:07 AM
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U sound bitter man, me and my ex had a good relationship, I’m starting to think ur jealous. It’s like how when I’m cycling I always skip red lights but u can tell the cyclists without the balls to skip the red lights are jealous of the ones that don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:54 AM
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Ain’t my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:17 PM
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I’m not lazy I put in more work than u my guy. Any pussy I get I worked hard for. It’s not my fault virgins are undesired, it ain’t my ex’s fault either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:35 PM
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My point is that is that some people cannot date unless they bend the rules. Do u think i if I told my girlfriend at the time I was a virgin at 20 she would’ve wanted to date me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:20 PM
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It’s not that easy. Although I have an insular friend group already what is stopping me from making new friends is: I don’t have time with my current work, overtime I’m always doing, side hustle, plus seeing my existing friends I am 20 years old and no one in my area or workplace is my age, most social events/clubs catered to older range 23-40 I lack motor skills to do sports I don’t share the same cultural background of most nerds despite having nerdy interests myself Gym is the only activity I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:17 PM
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The old guys are not working and have nothing to do all day, it shows that if we had more time we would form these connections. It’s not women’s fault but it’s also not useful to compare ur experience to ours when we obviously have more to deal with when it comes to this issue as u said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:20 PM
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Even trans women have way more options than cis men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:26 PM
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People fake a lot of things to get into relationships all the time, I lied to my first girlfriend about not being a virgin when I in fact was one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:25 PM
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Ur a women tho, therefore it’s easier for u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:22 PM
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It’s not that odd it’s just the age we live in, I’m young so most guys I know even outside my friendgroup are involuntarily single
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:26 PM
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I already have a circle too large to maintain and see regularly, unless u want me to start dropping people out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:41 PM
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People in my social circle are either taken girls or guys who can’t get a girlfriend themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:20 PM
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U are supporting his point then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:49 AM
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I don’t make arguments to get women I make arguments because I think they are true. Regarding your point, I’m glad you acknowledge that men have lower order problems, but you still somehow want to equalise their issues? One is clearly more significant than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:47 PM
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Because women’s dating problems are OBJECTIVELY less SIGNIFICANT than men’s dating problems, the biggest dating problem is OBJECTIVELY not being able to date. Society already has plenty of sympathy for women’s dating issues so I don’t know why they need more sympathy when men have none?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:37 PM
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It’s like being hungry in a first world country to being hungry in a third world country, if I am in the third world why would I care just go eat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:38 AM
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U don’t catcall someone ur unnatracted to tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:29 AM
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