Mysterious_Leg1668 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
60	Oppression olympics	CMV	Mysterious_Leg1668	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 07:16 PM
2	Cracked the code?	Discussion	Mysterious_Leg1668	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 09:47 AM

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2	What is your solution to the issues in dating? Live together & Wait 5 years till marriage minimum , learn to walk in each others shoes and take yourself out of your perspective sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 09:35 PM
–	Cracked the code? Does your statement hold true for how you’d treat radicalised feminists or would you be more lenient?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 11:12 AM
–	Cracked the code? I agree that’s what I was taught growing up. Some people just don’t learn that . & lb= pounds	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 11:09 AM
–	Cracked the code? So more along the lines of a ninja , I respect the skills my friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:58 AM
–	Cracked the code? We are stronger together than divided. There are feminists that literally hate men and say rhetoric like “we don’t need men” I don’t generalise every woman who identifies as a feminist as one. I don’t think that’s conducive to building a better society. I try to treat everyone equal until they prove me otherwise. If a feminist told me she hates men the only way I could help her would be to try to understand why & where that comes from. But like you said you can’t help everyone , but you also can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:57 AM
–	Cracked the code? We are creatures of habit , you walk the same roads eventually feel safe. You go to India New Delhi and try to cross the street you might feel abit different aha. But the exercise did work because you understand some women probably live in fear , but you in yourself have learnt that you can’t let fear hold you back from living life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:51 AM
–	Cracked the code? Sounds like you had agility on your side, there’s a reason packs of wolves won’t fight wolverines it’s all about the tenacity aha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:48 AM
–	Cracked the code? Now imagine you’re 5”3 70lb vs a 6”3 200lb would it be the same ? most martial arts teach you the best defense is avoiding the fight all together. I do understand not every imaginary scenario is going to resonate with everyone differently given life experiences. But you can still emphasise with the feelings of the pre fight , the fight or flight. Not everyone has that fight instinct but everyone can experience fear and this excersisce is just meant to help peopel emphasise with the idea of under…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:45 AM
–	Cracked the code? Very true Not every Imaginary scenario is going to hit home with every person because we all have different experiences like you’ve pointed out. But In the moments when you had to fight back before you made that decision you could empathises with the feelings you had and potentially understand that someone else who doesn’t have that “dawg” in them wouldn’t even consider fighting back. I do think as men we are more expecting to the idea of potentially life ending fights if tempers get heated. Whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:41 AM
–	Cracked the code? There is that potential however when you look at a lot of other species in nature they tend to work symbiotically (not necessarily monogamously) but both females and males mate and carry on their species. I think we might’ve got to big for our boots in some ways in modern society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:36 AM
–	Cracked the code? I see so it’s probably best not to generalise everyone in this sub because if me and you don’t meet your generalisations of people who are in this sub why would everyone else ? & I think in that case if you are trying to help , although it may sound impossible and painful given your experience take your own advice and have empathy for the “incels” try to understand them before you try to help them. To truly fix something without knowing the cause rarely ever works. But I wish you good luck on yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:32 AM
–	Cracked the code? So if you don’t mind me asking Why are you here ? (P.s forgot misandrists gotta keep it balanced) I’m none of the reasons you stated I’m here to try and help. That’s all. Highlight that we all have problems and we’re stronger together than divided.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:17 AM
–	Cracked the code? Agree it’s down to empathy. I just believe it’s something that’s lacking in this sun. & the imagery method seems to be a indirect way to allow people to be empathetic to your situation because they’re imagining it’s their own situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 10:05 AM
4	Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse? Guys do talk to other guys & their partners but they reserve it for when it’s needed. I.e limit the complaining and get on with it. Because that’s how women deal with emotions so they think it’ll be useful for guys to deal with them the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/24 01:23 PM
1	Oppression olympics Your subconscious literally influences how you see reality. So if the ruling class can program someone’s subconscious it will influence what they deem to be desirable or not. So they may “settle” for someone who isn’t a celebrity like you said but they will still search for someone with traits that they find attractive and these traits have often been programmed by media. I.e a woman may not ever date usher but she might date a guy with similar features or traits to usher. The same goes for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 03:07 AM
1	Oppression olympics Are you replying to me ? It doesn’t seem as tho you’re reading my actual responses. Maybe you don’t understand my point. The ruling class , the 1% who control media (movies , TV , adverts , celebrities) influence us the 99% as to what is desirable. They train us into what biological/sociological characteristics are desirable through media. I repeat I’m not saying that class is a factor when someone is picking their partner. I’m saying the ruling class who own ALL OF THE MEDIA brainwash the major…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:54 AM
1	Oppression olympics You misunderstand it is the ruling class that influences the 99%. For example Eating is a basic desire however the constant programming (adverts , media , billboards) influence what the public chose to eat. Hence why someone sees a McDonald’s advert and they subconsciously now want a burger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:44 AM
1	Oppression olympics I noticed you ignored the rest of the response. However … 100% they are basic human desires. But humans have always wanted what they see “successful” humans to have . The first person who saw someone else with shelter went on to build their own not spontaneously but due to what they had seen and deemed as desirable. You must be able to see how todays media influences peoples choices and desires. And who controls the media ? The 1% , the ruling class , the elite… it may have started off as solely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:35 AM
0	Oppression olympics Subliminal programming on who you should be attracted to and what you should like … brought to you by the 1% who own the media. Or should I say the ruling class. You think most people like Audi because it’s a good car manufacturer? Or because it’s been put in countless movies , adverts , peoples favourite celebrities drive them etc. The same can be said for so many things in our society. A lot of us think we think for ourselves but it’s our subconscious programming that actually does a lot of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:23 AM
2	Oppression olympics This needs to be written everywhere. I admire phrasing a lot.. salute	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:08 AM
1	Oppression olympics You worded this beautifully	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:05 AM
1	Oppression olympics This … it’s how the 1% stay the 1% and don’t have to muddy their hands with the rest of us	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:04 AM
1	Oppression olympics I Salute you for this response	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 02:03 AM
1	Oppression olympics I disagree the majority of feminists do not recognise men have problems as they stand for “equality” yet never have any movements or marches for the betterment of mens mental health (including higher suicide rates) , or any problems men face. What’s more the generalisation that a group made up of individuals with 1 matching trait (gender , race etc) all possess the same level of privilege and or oppression is factually wrong. White straight men make up the majority of homeless people in the UK i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 01:56 AM
2	Oppression olympics You worded this incredibly. Thank you. I like the term “age of atonement” you really summed up what the west is going through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 05:07 PM
3	Oppression olympics I agree. My reference to “new age feminism” was more so akin to your definition of liberal feminists. I definitely believe that the class oppression has multiple spokes to it (the more the better.)The more they can divide people the less likely we are to unite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 12:17 AM
5	Oppression olympics People vote for the puppets being paid to push laws hence lobbying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 10:35 PM
2	Oppression olympics Precisely	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 10:34 PM
3	Oppression olympics It often makes them kinder to people they assume know similar oppressions. But also “often” makes them generalise the opposing group and act in less favourable ways to people who have done them no wrong. “Kill all men” or BLM rhetoric about white people (this is coming from a black guy btw)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 10:32 PM
2	Oppression olympics It becomes bad when your own oppression blinds you to others. Then the argument spirals into a contest of who has it worse. Hence why feminists struggle to admit when men have it bad. Redpill struggle to admit women have it bad. BLM supporters struggle to admit when white people have it bad and so on and so on. It’s always a case of “mine is worse so concentrate on me.” And the “opposing sides” problems don’t matter or to some they don’t exist. That’s when it becomes problematic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 10:20 PM
1	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable 100% it goes both ways when did I say it didn’t ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 10:12 PM
5	Oppression olympics I don’t want to be anything. But if this posts reaches 1 person who never had this thought and allows them think differently , then my job is done. I agree and understand the average user won’t see beyond their own perspective but in hopes this can spark 1 person too why not give it a go right ? There’s no harm in trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 07:29 PM
0	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable I’m new to the term but I thought “divorce rape” was “when your partner doesn't want an equitable and expedient divorce but instead wants to take absolutely everything you have - your money, your house, even your sanity. They want to ruin you totally and completely out of spite.” If this is the same definition I would say accountability is still something we men can take. They either didn’t get a prenup if they saw this as a possibility or they ignored the spiteful nature of their partner until …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 06:17 PM
3	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable Again take vs give. If a man chose to pay for a woman when they went out and paid for them to go on holiday. If the relationship didn’t work out the guy can’t go around painting the woman as a thief saying “she took my money “ if he willingly gave it to her. The same vice versa if a woman chooses to spend her younger years in a relationship that doesn’t work out. She gave those younger years by choice they were not taken/stolen from her. Language is important so is accountability of choice and f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 04:38 PM
2	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable Take vs give. The difference is accountability. If I gave my money to an investment firm that didn’t work out well I can’t then say they took my money and paint them as thieves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 04:34 PM
2	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable Acccountability ? How about Men didn’t soley take it but the woman also gave it. It’s the victim/aggressor language that isn’t helping. The woman made a choice that didn’t work out but now the man is a thief ? Words are important so is being honest with yourself and not blaming everyone else for your mistakes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 04:21 PM
5	Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. I think A lot of women weren’t taught how to love a man. Media made sure to tell guys how to love women in films , TV shows , adverts , even Valentine’s Day. But women weren’t taught what it means to love a man to the same extent . Guys buy flowers because we’d were taught that. Women on a majority were only really taught guys like sex. They weren’t taught how to offer a guy peace or show love beyond physical acts of love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 04:10 PM
7	What's a common thing that girls do, that's annoying/insulting without them realizing it? Touching a guy on his arms / chest/shoulders. Especially if I don’t know you. I don’t like being touched by strangers but a lot of women feel entitled to touch guys however they want because they don’t deem themselves to be a threat.	/r/MensRights	09/11/23 03:48 PM
3	What's a common thing that girls do, that's annoying/insulting without them realizing it? Cute / adorable / sweet aren’t conveyed the same way to guys. We don’t aspire to be the same as women so we respond different to different compliments. Ie men don’t aspire to be cute they aspire to be cool/badass , we don’t aspire to be adorable we aspire to be handsome , we don’t aspire to be sweet we aspire to be thoughtful. It’s just about acknowledging the difference between men and women. Imagine you got dressed in a outfit deemed as cute and a guy said you looked rugged/hench/macho. It’s t…	/r/MensRights	09/11/23 03:45 PM