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That doesn't mean i will stop trying. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:27 AM
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This is correct. You don't need to save society. It's arrogant of you to even think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:21 AM
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i never said twice. :) besides, i am going to take your silence on the whole science vs redpill issue as an admission of defeat. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:51 PM
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Lol. That's good. But it gets my dick sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:21 AM
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Incorrect answer, troll. Get lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:23 PM
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Lol. I explained why surveys don't work clearly in the post. You obviously haven't read what I have written and clearly wasting my time. My worldview is strong and is based off my my successful experiences with the red pill and PUa. I got laid off PUA, in the malls, streets. Once with a woman who was married but hid it from me, found it later on her social media. Your worldview is based on some surveys and whatnot . rubbish. Not reality. I bet if you drag your chodey self to the bar and open 10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:21 PM
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this is the problem. You continuously push that redpill it's an ideology. It's not. that's enough to know that you basically have no idea what so ever about redpill. There clearly arer more red pilled virgins or men with less than 1 sex partner per year in this sub, than blue pilled virgins. So whatever red pill has to offer, is either not actionable, not working, or those incels and foreveralone niceguys just don't value having sex as much as they claim. This is just a plain assertion. Just bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:24 PM
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What is rule zero?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:09 PM
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Your science is bullshido. I clearly pointed out the flaws and yet your only counter argument is "deny deny deny". I am ONLY interested in actionable advice which works. and I will confirm it by trying it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:35 PM
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Why don't you then share how ye do it so the autists who don't, get a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:26 PM
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Clearly you have not read the red pill or pua.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:11 PM
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How often do you get laid dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:55 AM
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childish women like this will repeat it 1000 times like a mantra "NO it DoeSn'T WoRk" and think they made a point. This is why men get shit done. We try things out and then confirm if it works or not. LOL. Maybe i should upgrade it to a LEL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:28 AM
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it's not an idealogy. it's a praxeology. Well science actually supports redpill, read the "selfish Gene" by dawkins, mr.sceicne man. if I and the other redpillers get my c**k sucked, then that's all what matters. you can play with your science stuff and mating science books.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:21 AM
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She doesn't know anything. She is trying to posture as a "judge". It's a facade
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:23 PM
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Exhibit A. A guy who doesn't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:13 PM
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The only barometer is how often I get my d**k sucked. Pretty often with a cutie who IOIs me at the mall. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:01 PM
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So by your logic, if a bunch of people misuse the scientific method and end up blowing up a lab, does that mean the "scientific method" is flawed? If someone overdose on fever medication and then die, does that mean medication is bad? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:07 AM
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-Because most redpillers and pua's don't see any or very and I mean very little success. how do you know? have you tried it? It has all to do with their success rate. It's not a great analogy, good that you accepted it. Have you met an average guy? (In PUA we call them an average frustrated chump)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:34 AM
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How often do you have sex? Mr. Bee 4993
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:07 PM
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You are saying, with some anger, as if women are "intentionally" doing it, to spite you. No they are not. That's how women are. This is why you should NEVER listen to what they say, and watch what they do. Listening to blue pill and feminist chumps will turn you mad. Lel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:42 PM
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The only metric that matters is: Are you getting sex? Rule ZERO. That's what Redpill/PUA is ALL about. You can be in a relationship and not get sex. Go to r/DeadBedrooms you will get the picture. In that case, a single man who is getting sex 4 times a week is better off than a married man who gets it once a month. Sure, you can follow bluepill norms and "be in a relationship". That's doesn't you get sex. The redpill works even for relationship, to keep the sex coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:52 AM
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And RP has its own weaknesses because it is inductive and, often, reductive. What are the weaknesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:58 AM
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I am not discrediting the scientific method. If the scientific method is valid or not is another argument. I am saying, PUAs are using the scientific method correctly. While ScienceTM (lab coat wearing scientists, archeologists, biologists studying chimpanzees) and other bluepillers are not using it correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:51 AM
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so if someone says "whites are superior than subhuman blacks", are you going to be so open minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:43 PM
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I am not rejecting science. I am saying Redpillers/PUA use the scientific method correctly, while the bliuepillers/white lab coat scientistsTM are bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:28 PM
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I expected a stronger argument. Science is an epistemology. Really, go read some Karl Popper. It is a way of knowing the world based mostly upon the principle of falsification. Additionally the two cornerstones of data collection is it must be reliable (possible to consistently collect data that reproduce the same results) and valid (it measures what it claims to measure). It works well for deterministic, natural phenomena. Because you can collect reliable and valid data. But for social sciences…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:15 PM
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Go ahead. I am all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:53 PM
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Men knew instinctively the redpill stuff. It was they were brainwashed by the bluepill. now they have to uncondition themselves so their natural instincts can take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:52 PM
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No, science has NO edge. what are the reasons science has an edge over redpill? the burden of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:49 PM
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what i am saying is true. the only thing that matters is. 1. is it effective? am I having rewarding relationships wiht lot of sex? NO? then throw that out of the window. look at the upvote and reply ratio, the bluepill infested sub doesn't like my point but they can't rebutt it because it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:32 PM
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all these tactics and lines are just training wheels for beginners. You can easily sniff them out because of the in-congruence and lack of conviction. But after a while, they will become good and become "a natural".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:57 PM
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that's called overgaming. It's when a pua tries too hard and mostly a beginner issue. There are inner game tactics to fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:45 PM
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the single and unsuccessful with women ARe the ones who needs and finds redpill and pua. If they are successful they wouldn't have found out about redpill. But they already know what redpill/pua is instinctively. They are not unsuccessful because of redpill, but because of childhood trauma, aspergers, and extreme introversion. Most of the popular PUAs (tyler, mystery)are Aspergers, which is why they can break down what they are doing.. Some of them will eventually become successful with women. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:44 PM
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Lol you are around 28-32 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:40 AM
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You left out an important point, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:38 AM
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*what
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:37 AM
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therapy maybe effective. doesn't mean therapists are effective.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 10:30 PM
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i have dated some therapists before. they are usually a bit crazy, made me loss faith in therapy.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 09:00 AM
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Exactly! Imagine being in a relationship and not being able to trust the other person? These reddit folks would literally gaslight him into thinking there isn't anything wrong with trust issues "just popping up". obviously the girl has done something wrong and he feels something is "off" OR he is having unaddressed insecurities. He is going to leave it unaddressed and then suddenly wake 30 years later with a disaster.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 02:21 AM
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you are putting words in my mouth. that is not what i said. don't you have any reading comprehension? You can become more attractive without having to leave your partner. it is upto him. besides, what is your plan for the man? from what i see, you have no proper advice to give him. You want him to figure it all out and then sit back and pass value judgements. Yes yes i approve. NOOO i don't approve.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 12:45 AM
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oh yeah? what is the other way? Repeating i am secure 100 times? it is 100% ethical and healthy to be attractive and know how to date.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 12:31 AM
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It is not "GrOsSS". Dread game is him trying to keep her forcefully. It is the peak of anxious, controlling behavior. I am telling him to make the mindset switch to not worrying about what she will do. The guy is having attachment issues and needs to switch from anxious to secure. I am suggesting him the only way possible.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 12:29 AM
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You are not secure because you don't have any backup plan in case she leaves you. rightfully, your gut feeling is making you anxious. Trust your gut instinct. So how do you switch from anxious to secure? Girls in general have tons of backup plans. just make an insta and watch the DMs flow, so they are generally more secure. Learn game, cold approach or online dating and go to gym and be attractive. this will give you abundance so you can chill out next to her and if she leaves you. Meh you will …
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 12:24 AM
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You need to develop skills so that you can get women anytime. How? Being attractive and developing game. Afterwards you naturally stop giving a shit about keeping the woman so naturally they start seeing the value in you.
/r/seduction31/08/24 12:07 AM
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If it goes bad and the campus security bans you... GOOD. you will unlock a new level of "not give a fuck" innergame. Else. GOOD you will unlock a new level of "don't overthink it" innergame.
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:00 PM
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Rubbish. how many cold approaches have you done? how many lays do you have?
/r/seduction29/08/24 09:48 PM
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Fake your height. Fake your photos. Hell, even fake your chats. Dating is amoral.
/r/seduction29/08/24 11:36 AM
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Yes. A direct opener shows confidence and balls. It wins you extra points. A girl who rejected me during a day-game set said "Wow, you got some serious balls".
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:56 AM
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The moment you saw that person as out of your league. You lost.
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:11 AM
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There are no sure way of being certain of women's signals. approach and gather more and more info. in time, you intuition will become sharper.
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:21 PM
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This is so try-hard. You are like the dancing monkey in front of them. (https://thepowermoves.com/forum/topic/im-the-prize-power-move-maneuvering-seating-makes-him-chase-pictorial/) None of them even invited you to sit with them, yet you stood there entertaining them. Your student might not see how pathetic it was (because he is a noob), but every other player can see what's happening. And then cut to some shots of you making out with some random women. No idea how you got there. could be escort…
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:00 AM
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Yes sort of. Because of the noise and music.
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:54 AM
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Nightgame is good but it requires a different set of skills compared to daygame. Most dudes just get drunk and talk to woman with high energy and occasionally bed one of them without any nightgame experience. But you can't do that during the day... It's easier because almost all the girls are like single and horny so most of the time you can hit. Daygame is harder and requires more skills. The social risk is higher.
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:28 AM
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How many lays have you gotten so far?
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:20 AM
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Why are you arguing with her. Her entire argument is strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:28 AM
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Do you have a girlfriend? How often do you get laid with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:19 AM
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/r/seduction23/08/24 05:49 AM
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Intelligent chicks dig intelligent dudes.
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:00 AM
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I recommend you read bodipua's death by a thousand sluts. there is a pdf somewhere online.
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:29 AM
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rubbish. MMA will give you confidence that you can handle those guys. when those guys come and try to mess with you the aggresion and confidence in your eyes will scare them off.
/r/seduction17/08/24 08:37 AM
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do some MMA/ go to gym and look intimidating and they will fuck off.
/r/seduction17/08/24 01:51 AM
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find something else. If all else fails. bang some hookers from SEA. (Watch for gold diggers then)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:55 PM
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You can't pull hotter girls because... you give off an angry entitled vibe. it is all over your comments. There is no fun. Or you don't know You may have looks but zero charisma. https://krauserpua.com/2016/07/06/pain-entitlement-and-horrible-vibe/ Maybe daygame is not for you. Don't worry. It isn't for everyone. If you have been doing it since 2008 and no success then stop wasting your energy on that and find something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:40 PM
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You are dumb f**k weirdo. You said cold-approach doesn't work for average looking dudes. It does. Now you move the goalpost and say it wouldn't help you pull Taylor Swift Lookalike . Ok, let's assume you meant a supermodel because taylor swift is mid butterface. The whole point is to pull a girl better looking than you. If you are a 7/10 then a 8/10 is a good deal. A 7.5 is a good deal. Of course if you want a 10/10 you will need much more to offer. What type of world do you live in? You are jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:53 AM
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I am average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:05 AM
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Cold approach works. For me and many others. It is the purest form of game. Talking to girls, sober, in the public, with all these police, crackpot feminists, etc surrounding you. It's nerve wracking. You have to convince yourself with real life experience, instead of second hand narrations from others. This part is the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:15 AM
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you wife doesn't hate sex. She just hates sex with you.
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:53 PM
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/r/seduction06/08/24 11:21 PM
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Creep-shaming is used to keep the beta males in line. If you want to become dominant, which women crave, you have to become more resistant to social pressure.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:16 AM
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depends on the speed at which they walk. If they walk slower than the crowd, you can talk stop them.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:15 AM
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Jerk off in the mornings. Now your sexual thirst is gone.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:14 AM
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It depends on the tone. If she says it with a neutral tone. It means you fucked up somewhere. Move on If she says it in a challenging, playful tone. It's a player test and she wants rough cad sex. Ignore it and keep talking. she wants you to know if you are a player. Which means everything onward have to be done with plausible deniability and secrecy so her BF doesn't find out. If she says it apologetically. She is real about it. She likes you but cannot cheat.
/r/seduction06/08/24 12:49 AM
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now go and read the radfem's reviews on this book.
/r/seduction05/08/24 01:33 AM
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I am assuming OP is not a dork.
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:54 AM
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I sometimes get the worst rejections ever. Like face of disgust. So I just leave them: this is probably because your technique is flawed. you need to come off more confident, and ignore their shitty reactions. The tide will change. Either that or your vibe is creepy/too robotic, etc. Shitty girls are there but mostly at bars. I sometimes get the worst rejections ever. Like face of disgust. So I just leave them. Daygame is for day. I also game'd with a friend of mine. He is better looking than me…
/r/seduction22/07/24 07:20 AM
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Girls aren't logical. they do what their emotions tell them. You aren't stimulating their emotions enough. If she comes out on a date, it's because she is already attracted to you. This is why you need game
/r/seduction22/07/24 07:10 AM
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Our beliefs are based and supported on our past life experiences. If you want new good confidence with women, you must undergo the hard journey of accumulating good experiences with women and ruthlessly culling the negative experiences with women. It is hard. But i recommend that you read Bodipua's death by a thousand sluts.
/r/seduction18/07/24 11:16 PM
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you are 39, for a woman it's no different from 40, 41, or 42, 43. You are old af. So you can either try short-term hacks that has a 5% chance of working over the next 2-3 years. Or you can do a long term re-haul for 1-2 years, which slowly grows your chance of success of 5% to 40%, increasing your odds of success in the next 2-3 years. Also you will feel better. You want a quick hack to solve your problem. truth is there are no quick hacks.
/r/seduction17/07/24 01:13 AM
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Your body-emotions is like an elephant, your mind is like the rider. Happiness hypothesis the book goes well into this. Your body is not going to change quickly and like things quickly, it takes time to adapt. A good rider knows that the elephant is dumb and emotional animal. He will train is slowly and be patient with it, be kind with it. Therapy is mainly for the mind. You are training the rider. However the elephant is a dumb animal. In this case, you the rider, are whipping your elephant for…
/r/seduction16/07/24 04:11 AM
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Think about it. Would you go after a girl who doesn't spend money on her own appearance.
/r/seduction16/07/24 04:06 AM
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5"9.5
/r/seduction13/07/24 11:20 PM
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how old are you?
/r/seduction12/07/24 10:24 AM
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100%. OP needs to go outside for once. Most women are unattractive or "mid". Once in a while you will see a gorgeous actress or someone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:08 AM
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have you ever considered... moving out of seattle?
/r/seduction03/07/24 09:39 AM
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/r/seduction03/07/24 04:46 AM
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Skill issue.
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:04 AM
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/r/seduction02/07/24 02:56 AM
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I think the whole point of the post is to show a flawed innergame.
/r/seduction17/06/24 09:12 AM
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It's simple, You are not as good as you think. Game is the "the behavior" of men who are successful with women. You mimic them until it becomes first nature.
/r/seduction17/06/24 09:11 AM
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F*** off m***n. Can't even understand basic math.
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:37 AM
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If you are invisible, it's because you Ugly: Can be offset by low body fat percentage, better fashion, haircut etc. Lack charisma: Only way is to build self awareness and gain experience talking . It's hard.
/r/seduction17/06/24 02:29 AM
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/r/seduction14/06/24 07:01 AM
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Speak slowly.
/r/seduction13/06/24 11:18 PM
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You have a learning disability. Autism or something. I would get that fixed first. Don't mindlessly spam. Daygame is a super complex strategy.
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:30 AM
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It depends. R- selection vs K-selection. If you have looks and game, money doesn't matter. But you need strong r-selection.
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:38 PM
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No. Selfishness and ruthless competition for what? Status? Status is a mirage, an illusion. There 100s of idiots buying status symbol clothes trying to break into higher status. It comes more from social approval than of self-approval. Power? Power is given to those who deserve it. Specifically the most competent. Money? You don't need as much money as you think. Sex and fucking lot of chicks? No, it is an whole ecosystem. The way you get the bookish gamergirl is different from the goth girl and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:28 PM
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duh simple. They wouldn't get laid otherwise. Their partner has more power in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:21 PM
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Ultimately it doesn't help because there is an army of simp white knight losers ready to pull her out of any situation. If you want real progress, shame and berate the simps and simp-ish behaviour. I say, violently beat up simps if you have to. Once the simp army is under control. Most women will stop their shitty behaviour. Why are there so many simps? because most men are clueless on how to interact with a woman. It also doesn't help when social media allows all the simps across the world to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:19 PM
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Just stop giving a fuck. Stop pontificating and take action. Learn game and take action and stop whining about what polls think. Most of these polls are rigged by angry, fat, feminist, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:33 AM
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Autistic men need redpill and game more than normie men. What is redpill? It is basically everything normal men learnt via instincts distilled into word form so the late bloomers can bloom. You have two choices. Take advice from whamen. Who will project. Become a female feminist wimp who get's friendzoned. Finally get married to a fat bossy woman who will cheat on you. All because you have no clue how dating works. Learn game. Spend 1-2 year studying body language and develop a finely honed skil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:28 AM
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Instagram filters out the girls who are narcissistic. High self esteem girls are rarely on instagram or use it for clout.
/r/seduction28/05/24 09:38 AM
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Practice with chatGPT
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:08 AM
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First learn English. You are embarrassing yourself.
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:07 AM
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/r/seduction21/05/24 11:48 PM
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basically you are a twat with low esteem but you pretend to be "erudite" by using "verbious prose".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:24 AM
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tradcons don't have the skills to identity find a cock carousel woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:15 AM
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the trad-west movement isn't truly religious. that's the whole point. you sound like a heartiste/roisy wannabe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:15 AM
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It kinda is. These women have affairs etc ... secretly. Possible via dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:09 AM
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One of the purposes of religeon is to get every man a woman. The concepts of marriage, heirs, virginity etc don't exsit in the "state of nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:09 AM
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social status is an illusion. The better your social system and the more you dictate it's dyanamics, the more you rise to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:05 AM
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It depends. I don't like alcohol, i don't like bitchy careerist women with fake makeup, fighting over other dudes for the girl's attention, being sleep deprived, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:03 AM
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That's not the point. It further proves that the tradwest folks are deluded and misleading it's followers. The point is what the tradwest claims to be offering. A system which gives a free pussay shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:02 AM
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doomscrolling on insta, chatting with friend groups on insta, watching some TV series or walking in outside air, refining your socializing skills. You need to make a choice.
/r/seduction18/05/24 04:42 AM
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Read "too late, mate" by Alex forest. He is a 46 year old daygame.
/r/seduction16/05/24 04:45 AM
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For all i know you can be a fat ugly feminist on this app telling men not to cold approach the beautiful women. I have cold approached and had good experiences. Women are not a hive mind. Of course, a woman rushing to her exam wouldn't like being cold approached while a woman who hadnt had sex in 1 year just hanging around a mall would love it. Look at it from a case by case basis.
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:34 AM
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yes. In the big city i stay there is almost zero dudes cold approaching. I think this will be temporary and in another few years cold approach will become popular like in the 2012s
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:49 AM
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What a hoarde of rubbish. You just don't want to cold approach so you are making excuses for yourself. Nobody gives a fuck about feminism.
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:48 AM
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This is not contributing to the main argument. I admit, I picked a wrong example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:28 AM
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You know dread game works. Why are you trying to convince these people? Maybe your frame isn't strong enough so you are trying to test it by pitching it against these guys.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/24 11:15 PM
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Explain that you are not the boyfriend material anyway. And then ask if she can sneak out for a drink. Usually a shit-test to check if you are a true player.
/r/seduction24/03/24 04:17 AM
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It's only creepy if you are "needy". You need to be emotionally detached and show that you are not going to stalk to stalk her when she says "no".
/r/seduction23/03/24 03:53 AM
8

rubbish. I have seen plenty of puas in ozzie and girls are often surprisingly receptive.
/r/seduction23/03/24 03:52 AM
12

You need to keep on approaching until you develop a strong understanding of yourself, your ego, learn to control your emotions, learn to read girls and calibrate yourself, and understand PUA concepts such as value, comfort, seduction etc. Until that. You are still a noob. The greatest self development a man can do is PUA.
/r/seduction23/03/24 03:52 AM
1

Life is short. Do what makes you happy Most womanizers do end up getting married after a point
/r/seduction21/03/24 03:59 AM
0

Flirting and comfort are opposite. - RSD Todd.
/r/seduction20/03/24 10:34 PM
1

Wrong. It's because your flirting game + looks did not meet her threshold. Often these thresholds are arbitrary and might not make sense. E.g. a mid looking girl with a supermodel ex will have a higher threshold A super model who is a virgin will have a lower threshold.
/r/seduction20/03/24 09:32 AM
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That's why the redpill says "watch her actions, not what she says". Now most of the women want something out of you, whether it's attention or money or looking after their bastard kids but they don't want to give up much of their "value". They will say these stuff to fool you into acting in ways which gives them what they want, however their actions betray their true intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:38 AM
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that's correct. But truth is it depends on how attractive and young the woman is. Today's problem is mainly due to simp-flation. Clueless dumb idiots giving attention everywhere to women. Dudes buying dinners etc trying to "win" her over. Attraction is mainly via looks and personality. Tolerating bad behavior without enforcing boundaries. I will tell you what. Women behave the way you let them.
/r/seduction18/03/24 09:07 AM
1

Men have to do it because they don't have to birth children. Nature has designed that only the most competent man gets to pass the seed.
/r/seduction18/03/24 05:03 AM
1

Oh women know those skills. They just use it on the attractive dudes. Often times, they do all the game work such that it seems like the "dude" did all the work. I had a girl do this to me once. She started talking, even during the date, she intiated the KINO with high-fives, etc to make it seem like I am a cold approach maestro.
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:39 AM
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Nonsense. Utter Nonsense. Redpill is NOT an idealogy. It is a Praxeology. A bunch of guys comparing notes on what works and what doesn't in internet forums and generalizing it. You had trust issues with the girl and you are externalizing and blaming the RP for it. You should take accountability and accept that there was something wrong in you beforehand. In my opinion what you really had was "self worth issues". Am I good enough for her? Which is what lead to trust issues because you felt your g…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 09:09 AM
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Be happy. Mother nature optimizes men. Women are born with value. Men have to build their value. This is why only 20% of men procreated and passed their genes whereas most women survived. A woman who is born ugly is fucked. No matter what her personality or status maybe. She can never score out of her league (except for men with serious mental weaknesses, fetishes, insecurities, poor self esteem, etc) A ugly looking man can still optimize his personality/status and get a woman out of his league.…
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:19 PM
1

AA will never go away. Just approach quickly and spontaneously and say "Hi". The more you wait the more it becomes uncomfortable.
/r/seduction10/03/24 09:07 AM
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Everyone is dealt their cards. Some are born beautiful, some ugly, some rich, some poor, some white... What matters is your own personal journey. A short, fat, indian pua banging a hottie is waay more impressive than when a tall, white, handsome guy does it. It's like a short basketballer. However for the short guy to get to that level he has to undertake a traumatic journey and learn the skills. The journey forges him into a strong person. Once learnt, there is nothing stopping him. He can get …
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:34 AM
4

Start small. Ask for the time Chat with shop people. After a while drop random compliments. Then try asking for recommendations. Then do direct daygame.
/r/seduction08/03/24 10:51 AM
2

Step one: open Step two: ???? Step three: close (ask for number) What is your step three? Don't try to number close every girl. Just the ones who contributed to the conversation and gave continuous eye contact.
/r/seduction08/03/24 09:22 AM
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Just move on. How can you let a superficial dumbass chick ruin your whole day? Did you just hand your happiness to that girl?
/r/seduction03/03/24 12:15 AM
1

Yes wrong choice of words.
/r/seduction20/02/24 05:28 AM
1

No her animal brain likes you. But her logical brain is under societal programming and is objecting. It is a cognitive dissonance. You need to fix those obstacles.
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:38 PM
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Seduction is appealing to her "animal" brain and making her "animal" brain like you as a possible mate. It is not logical. You can't seduce a girl whose animal brain doesn't find you even remotely attractive.
/r/seduction19/02/24 03:47 AM
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Nope. Some girls are yes girls, they are sold. some are no girls, they will never be attracted. But some will be "maybe" girls. They still haven't made a decision and need more decision. Game is about converting these maybe girls into yes girls.
/r/seduction19/02/24 03:45 AM
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EXACTLY. Most of the pickup videos you see online are just playing the "good looking guy game". They just 1. Open 2. ???? 3. Close. Usually the girls are already sold on the guy. Step 2 is very important.
/r/seduction17/02/24 11:36 PM
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You have to practice these kinds of situations many times. After a while the muscle memory kicks in and you wouldn't have an issue. It's just a case of your brain having no clue what to do. Watch some infields. And then practice on old people/men/women you don't find attractive and finally find attractive. 2-3 reps spaced out is sufficient. That's the beauty of cold approach, most of these guys get their lays from have a solid muscle memory and being in the right place.
/r/seduction17/02/24 08:24 AM
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You are right. I used to be fat, once I shed my 40 kgs and become chad-lite. Girls used to smile at me and talk to me and as soon as they talk, they would suddenly lose interest.
/r/seduction09/02/24 12:36 AM
2

When you approach a seated girl, you are essentially "ambushing" them and it is a high pressure social situation. you might not read her signals of disinterest as a beginner. I recommend to start with slow walking girls, not fast ones. Go them and stop and just be honest why you want to talk to them (becoz they hot duh). If they like you they will stop and talk. If they don't they will walk away. Gradually you will pick up when a girl is into you. At that point go to the seated girls. Fast movin…
/r/seduction07/02/24 03:39 AM
2

cold approach. In as many situations as possible. Make sure you intent is known and clear. you will be amazed at how outcome independent you become after like 3-4 months and 100+ approaches. Don't spam, but go after the girls you really like and make the intent clear that you want to fuck date them.
/r/seduction07/02/24 03:05 AM
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The rejection hurts because your self esteem is build on the opinion of others and not your personal opinion. you are a hapless loser beta chode because you place what others think about you above what you think about yourself. Why? Some girl rejected you and you are rejecting yourself over this. Cut the crap. Another reason, you over-invested on the girl. When you get a crush on a girl, act fast. The longer you wait. The more the one-itis festers into a disease and then you come across as needy…
/r/seduction07/02/24 01:40 AM
2

This is why you need to qualify the girl during the pickup process. This will build a strong lead and give you insights on her.
/r/seduction07/02/24 01:37 AM
2

Go a shopping mall. Assume you see a pakistani woman. You approach from the side and ask you are trying to make chicken karaage and ask her what is this masala thing is. She explains what it is and sparks a conversation around it. The conversation goes well. Case 01 : She gives Indicators of Interest. That she finds you appealing. You escalate the conversation and ask for her phone number subsequently. Case 02: She seems closed off. You close the conversation by saying "Thanks for your advice an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:59 AM
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If a person knows the term "cold approach". He will know it will be a test of fire and women will be hostile and rejection will be common and part of the deal is to build personality via it. If a guy get burnt by one rejection. Then pretty sure he has been secretly having a crush on you for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:48 AM
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nonsense. A good cold approach is almost organic and it seems "situational" people wouldnt even notice it. And no, not every cold approach is geared towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:45 AM
0

Exactly ma dude. I guess most of the women here haven't been hit on by a pro and instead was used as a test bed by unconfident dudes trying to perfect their game. Who cares why else would they be on PurplePill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:44 AM
1

Also there is nothing wrong with being horny. chill, for god's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:57 AM
0

Age 57? Men hitting on you? I think they seriously just wanted directions and you keep thinking they are hitting on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:55 AM
1

Sorry. It offended ya. Once you are outta college it's near impossible to meet people. Sometimes people go through college/school etc socially stunted/stunted in terms of looks, and then put efort to fix everything. Everything is a chance. You hit or you miss
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:53 AM
2

You are correct. I couldn't find a better analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:07 AM
5

I don't care about what women think about dating apps. For men, dating apps are the shitty deal that's all. Also cold approach doesn't mean going to a random woman and demanding for sex. that is just obsene. It is done with tact and proper social grace and involves a graceful exit incase the girl is not interested (IOI). Don't complicate it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:00 AM
3

Farting at a kid's cake. Scars the kid for life. Makes a whole crowd made. Destroys a cake. Cold approaching a woman. If done well, possible marriage/sexual experience or the confidence boost for the women on getting approached/rejecting some guy or in the worse case, an inconvenience. For god's sake he is not cold approaching in the middle of a dark alley in the night. It's in a public place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:58 AM
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You are soo hung up on your self ain't you? Once of the goals of cold approach is to destroy social anxiety. sometimes it's not always about getting laid/finding an SO. Sometimes the guy doesn't give a shit about you and just want to crush his mental barriers and fear of approach/rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:55 AM
7

False equivalence. Attempt at conversation != Farting into some child's cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:52 AM
3

Imagine hyperfixating on a simple analogy and missing the whole point of the post and getting outraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:37 AM
1

Imagine hyperfixating on a simple analogy and missing the whole point of the post and getting outraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:36 AM
3

You are just proving my point. The point of the cold approach is to destroy social anxiety. It can be done tactfully however it involves practice. A proper cold approach always involves a test to see if a woman is actually interested and if not, then walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:23 AM
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Once again you are proving my point. It is not illegal to talk to people. Cold approach != sexual assault. A proper cold approach always involves a test to see if a woman is actually interested and if not, then walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:22 AM
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