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ConversationMywarUK/r/seduction30/07/22 10:15 AM
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ConversationMywarUK/r/seduction09/08/22 01:33 AM
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Sometimes its a way of a girl saying “Im not interested in you” will say something to put you off and see how you react… or…. She’s riddled with STD’s and likes to share.
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:07 PM
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Not bad
/r/seduction02/03/24 10:03 PM
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If she becomes single, have some fun sure, but do not date, same thing her boyfriends going through right now is a reflection of you if you date her.
/r/seduction18/11/23 09:23 PM
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Move on can be great advice, can be terrible advice just like any other advice, it's how its put into context. Some people really need to be told move on, Iv seen some super cringy shit posted here where someone has been needed to be told move on. "I met her about an hour ago, messaged her about 20 times and had no response! What do I do guys? sent her a dick pic at least 8 times.. says seen and no reply! HELP" These people don't need advice... we don't even want to help them, so a Move on its p…
/r/seduction06/10/23 09:47 AM
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Search anal prep, most people don't realise that women who do like it tend to prep before hand.
/r/seduction08/09/23 08:24 PM
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I remember talking to a dude in a club once, he asked me why the women are so uptight.. I looked around and replied "Where are you looking? they all seem to be having fun with friends or dancing" his reply "Non have yet to talk to me" so I replied with "Damn.. your ego is huge" for him to say "I don't have an ego.. Im gifted with perfection".... yeah.. he was stood on his own for 99% of the night and left on his own... well... left with his ego ;)
/r/seduction06/09/23 07:11 AM
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I like to come here once in a while and read these kind of posts, always ends with "Who the hell does this person think they are".Why do guys who brand themself attractive automatically think their personalities are god like, and wonder why it's not working... oh.. it must be the WOMANS fault.. not mr poor ego. "I fumble girls by being too honest" So it's happening more than once for sure... damn man.. learn from your errors and learn to bite your tongue, people are allowed opinions.. and also l…
/r/seduction06/09/23 07:06 AM
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*10 minutes pass* "Yup... Still hate myself, same time tomorrow?"
/r/seduction04/08/23 09:24 AM
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And a older woman.... nice.
/r/seduction02/07/23 06:44 PM
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Wont be lonely for rest your life no, but reading what you put, some dodgy going on. To me it seems your wife is testing you, but hey! Least you got some nudes 🤘
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:32 PM
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Bye bye marriage, bye bye hot Sweden girl, hello lonely life..
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:58 PM
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More than welcome! I see a couple things you have commented. As for therapist, I chose to see my Dr first and explain my issues, from there they decide what they think is best. Im having a meeting in a couple of says with a specialist to figure out what is best for me, iv seen so many wrong ones, so hopefully speaking to someone who covers the majority will help me find whats best 👌 “Goal of 12%” good on you! But please remember goals are not intended to be rushed! Its a huge common mistake peop…
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:56 AM
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You have pointed out a few issues here, but one that stands out the most (excuse the pun) is your gf thinking its her, during sex you’re going to be thinking “is she thinking its her?” Etc etc, taking your mind away from whats actually going on. You need to sit and talk to her, reassure her its not and you doing what you can to figure it out, talking to her will help honestly, and will also help her understand. Other thing to do as well is to take your mind else where, no thinking of an ex, no t…
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:34 AM
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Get out there and have fun! You can still lose your V to someone nice, but trust me, you need experience in relationships these days, not the sex, relationships in general. As you get older you’ll only regret it. Again, not saying go out and be a whore, just find who you are and what you want by testing the waters.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:17 AM
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Google also has great answers, from erections between different ages of life. To be honest I thought you was asking about erection points for seducing 😬
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:50 PM
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Its harder to get physical when out imo, maybe after a date go back to your place? Or if after a date you walk her home, give her a hug before she goes inside.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:40 PM
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Reply with “Don’t ask you don’t find out, hope you have a great day” smile and walk away 👌 Also, if a girl does have a boyfriend and still smiles, you’ve made her day, although happy in her relationship it’ll boost her confidence for the day knowing she’s still attractive to others.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:11 AM
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😂
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:05 AM
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Depending how you’re messaging them they’ll see you as a bit of entertainment or someone who is more mature than most 20 year olds as they like that. Im 36 and was seeing a 22year old, I had to back out as it felt like babysitting after a few days, but Iv also met a 20year old who was damn intelligent and could hold a conversation, we fucked after a few days and nothing came more of it. Its down to how you handle the situation also, a bit of advice is keeping the messages from the ‘failed’ chats…
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:03 AM
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Before therapy, find your deep inner issues, then you’re not going to the wrong one. Also, don’t rush your self, be happy with the stage you’re at right now, anxiety can be caused due to over thinking the future, depression can be caused thinking about the past, but right now you have managed to hit a personal goal of losing weight and have confidence talking to people, focus on you like you have already and try and not worry what others think of you at this moment, YOU are happy with your self …
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:44 PM
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Yup.
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:02 PM
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I don’t drink and still go out, if anyone asks to buy you a drink either say no thanks, if they buy you one, give it someone else. Getting drunk shouldn’t be what makes a goodnight, in-fact not drinking I can have a great night watching all the others make a fool of them selfs. If you must, blame it on some made up meds you’re taking, what I did at the start.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:27 PM
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Agreed, I was looking after my friends bar last week, Im a 36year old male, a 52year old woman came upto me and said “How long you here for?” I said for a few hours, her reply was “Shame, I leave at 5:30pm”, I told her we are open till 3am so more then welcome to come back later, her reply then was “I just want to fuck a young man like your self and show you what you’re missing, hopefully see you next time I’m back?”. They’re straight up, don’t care if you refuse, they know they’ll get what they…
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:49 AM
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Id say leave it my man. Its quality, not quantity 👌
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:30 PM
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If two other guys got her number also, still message her, even to ask of she had a good night. You don’t know what the others are messaging or even if they have. I find most guys who get a number after someone else has and they know it usually message about great they are compared to the others who asked. If you was the 1st to ask, you can be last to be remembered, so.. make sure you’re remembered, If you was talking to her for a while and having a good chat, she may just want someone to message…
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:14 PM
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I didn’t give up, kept working on my self, got back on dating app, matched a few, only talking to one now, literally just chatting, nothing sexual at all, its actually really nice.
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:09 PM
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You wouldn’t want any on the side if you had the right woman.
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:43 PM
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Asians love white blue eyes blondes, not so sure much now, I remember a friend about 20years ago who visited China, parents offering to buy him to marry their daughters etc, Asian women constantly stroking his hair, asking for pictures, said he felt like a celebrity among them.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:35 AM
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I don’t get women… pass left overs please 👌
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:33 AM
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Can be various reasons, I’m a people watcher by nature, so are others. Depends where you are also, was you in a Library? Could be seeing what you’re reading. Was you on Instagram? Could be seeing what you’re looking at. Did you wash your hair? No? Could be looking at the dandruff in your hair. Try and not over think it, but also try not make it obvious. If you can see them looking…. They can see you looking…
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:54 AM
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😂
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:02 PM
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Be sweet, but let them know you’re not in bed…. If I was him Id be super curious and want back to a place asap.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:02 PM
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Don’t take it personal is best answer you will find, it’s never you, even if you approach wrong.. everyday is a learning day 👌
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:11 AM
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I think everyone has their own reasons too do so. Some do it for the chase and when doesn’t happen they move on. Some do it to cut the person off. Ghosting has many reasons.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:38 AM
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36M, not fallen in love yet, but I know what will 👌
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:40 PM
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Selfish or lazy imo 🤘
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:39 PM
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“Im going to college next week” Well you have answered your own question, they’ll be doing science or history or both… If I was you, that be my first place to look..
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:04 AM
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From what I can tell, and no offence intended, but if he gets the girls when with you, then they aint the girls you want, you want the girl that wants you around him. Don’t match his style because thats not you, just be you.. Iv been on a date/meetup and my boss came in, Irish accent, she melted and ignored me for 30mins straight whilst he was around.. asking him what time he finishes and what is he doing after work? joke was on her… he dates my friend and when she realised that, I had left the …
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:13 AM
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No offence, but im 36, divorced, lost two cousins in lockdown, one to suicide, I lost mom at 19, 2 uncles died before lockdown, Iv had 2 friends die, 1 from cancer at 17, one of heart failure, I lost 2 grandparents in space of couple years between them, My brother moved away and not seen him in 3 years.... Yet im still here and grateful for what I have... Life, it's what you make of it dude.
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:02 PM
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Nah, you'll wish its longer later.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:18 PM
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Start by going to a local coffee shop, when I moved to a new city I knew no one.I suffer with major anxiety, but I found a local coffee shop I love to go to now, they were very welcoming from day one. I can turn up now and they know my order, now I have no issues going. Next stage was to go to new places, I asked the cafe staff their recommendations. Start little steps, a gf will not cure you, in fact will make it worse as all your insecurities will come out. But once you start doing this and ev…
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:16 PM
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Dude, do not take it personal, some people don’t like to take others Virginity. She could be afraid that you would of got super clingy as she would of been your 1st, so many reasons as to why THEY wont, this is not a YOU issue at all so you need to not think that. Trust me, you’ll most likely match with someone who wont mind and will help you throughout until you become a beast in bed.. then when you get DTF women you’ll have them endlessly! You dodged a bullet imo.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:04 PM
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Get to know her more, nothing wrong going everyday, I go to my local coffee shop everyday, was an attractive woman who works there, got to know her pretty well and after a few weeks in a conversation, she mentioned she is having a week off from work to go away with her partner 👌
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:24 AM
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From the start, I always say i’m unsure what I want currently but happy to hangout etc and see where it goes. Most time they ask if you wanna be FWB’s.
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:10 PM
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STD’s and maybe a baby 9months later 🤘
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:58 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:09 PM
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“I know a couple of places with great food, I’ll take you to one tonight if you’re free and the other another night” Should of been your reply.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:48 PM
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If I was 19 again Id date you. I Knew the woman was older but had no idea, her response was “is that how old you think I am? Im 32” with a blush.. Also this was in a Bar so I knew she was old enough to approach.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:35 PM
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Stay the fuck away from the woman who becomes your ex wife… trust me.
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:46 PM
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You’ll know… it’s not about the noise shes making… it’s how it all of sudden feels different for you, from “normal” sex feeling to getting tighter when shes about too and does.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:03 PM
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Oh damn
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:37 PM
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Im 36.. ones I go for don’t 😂
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:23 PM
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Read their bio, see what stands out the most, if you can relate use it as a topic. Iv found “hey” and “Hey how are you” do not work, they get that all the time. Show them you have took interest and the time to look over their account. One I met up with had “I don’t watch movies and hug” so I replied with “Finally, someone who will leave me alone and enjoy the movie with me”, I was the 1st person to say it to her as others gave her shit about it ha.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:09 PM
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He’s on Vacation, he’s having man time, we need this. He’ll be back in touch.
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:04 PM
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Simple message to start: Hey it’s (insert your name here), you passed me your number last night, hope your days going well. No kisses… nuh uh… you wait for them for that.
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:54 PM
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Just be you dude, keep it in your mind you’re just meeting up with her. She’s most likely bringing some friends for support, these days are scary for women to meet someone they haven’t before. Try and not overlook it. If she still talks to you afterwards, bonus.. But you’re right that her friends could change her thought process of you, and if that happens, you dodged a bullet.. iv been in a relationship/marriage where her friends and family made her think what they wanted her too, not healthy a…
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:49 PM
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Just be you dude, keep it in your mind you’re just meeting up with her. She’s most likely bringing some friends for support, these days are scary for women to meet someone they haven’t before. Try and not overlook it. If she still talks to you afterwards, bonus.. But you’re right that her friends could change her thought process of you, and if that happens, you dodged a bullet.. iv been in a relationship/marriage where her friends and family made her think what they wanted her too, not healthy a…
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:49 PM
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As a Male you’re right, the amount of women I have met over the years who have this Disney happy ending thing is crazy.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:13 PM
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You most likely did hear that. Could be a reason she left, could of been her next date, ex boyfriend, told a date she was ill, you name it. At the end of the day, you go by what she said to you even if you know its not fully true.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:28 AM
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Ah just a reddit vote man, if it makes them feel all mighty and powerful and helps them sleep at night, Im happy to of helped them 👌
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:26 AM
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Seems all good your way man 🤘
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:23 AM
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And there you go my dude… there was also another guy for him (you), and most likely another. This is another common fault some people seem to forget, say you matched with 5women, a woman has most likely matched with 20+, it wasnt just us.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:22 AM
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You got it dude, dating game is hard these days, least you’re back out there trying.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:07 AM
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Also, women tend to go to the “Toilet” to message other guys, there is a chance someone else was doing something better than where she was. Again, not your fault, its the shitty side of dating apps.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:03 AM
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Ah, seems this is your 1st encounter of “what the fuck just happened!”. Step 1. Do not blame your self. Step 2. Do not blame your self. Step 3 & is important. DO NOT blame your self.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:01 AM
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And you will, I’ve been there, I’ve even been laughed at about it, I chose to never see that person again nor did I care if she told anyone. Its life 👌
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:46 PM
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You showed her there are good guys out there that match her, and she has shown you there are women out there who match you. Bonus thing is, you can keep in contact, much better than nothing.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:18 PM
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This normal dude, and can happen to anyone, don’t blame your self for this nor your daily routine. Sometimes excitement can do the opposite effect. It’s not always about how it feels down below to keep an erection, its also the frame of mind you’re in, and from reading your post it seems your mind set was somewhere else. Worrying about it will make it worse, try and ease that 👌 Edit: also to add, some women blame them selfs that a man can’t get hard, and we also know thats not true, but it also …
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:45 PM
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Saying you’re crazy for her on 2nd date = she saw you as crazy and needed to get away.
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:52 AM
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I know what you are saying man. In the summer, yeah its difficult, but what you can do instead is change your thought process from “Fuck I want to fuck her!” To “Fuck, she looks great in that”, it’s how you process it, constantly wanting sex will do that, try and change it to appreciating what they’re showing 👌
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:07 AM
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I wouldn’t say trying but more open now to let someone in, Iv learnt to control inner emotions and securities. I use to sleep around a lot, thought it was because I liked sex like most others, but it was actually me dealing with rejection etc from my past. I never slept with anyone for I think it was 3years, the 1st year was a nightmare, my ego and confidence was screaming at me to fix it quick, 2nd year it became much more easy as I found my self keeping busy and getting enjoyment out of things…
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:04 AM
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Always going to happen, but you’re dating a person who has similar interest etc as you, their friends maybe hot whatever but could be complete opposite of what you are after. Unless you are using your partner for your next partner, which isnt cool.
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:01 AM
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Im 36 and I know what you mean. I don’t want to use a dating app, I don’t have facebook. Im enjoying the freedom until someone comes along and takes interest in me for who they met, till then.. meh!
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:58 PM
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Glad to be at your services haha. I did read it all also, but not even half way I just “he just needs to fuck her” 😂
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:54 PM
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Just fuck her
/r/seduction28/07/22 09:31 PM
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Id ask what time Im wanted over.
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:56 PM
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Id say leave her and let her find someone nice as you seem a full blown egotistic tool. She deserves better, let her go n focus on your dick instead.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:14 AM
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Thank you for this, I’m really glad you have found something that is helping you. For me I stay away from alcohol though as I fully lose control but weirdly im fully aware… like having a VR headset on that I cant take off.. everything is just happening whilst I watch and my head screaming “NOOOOOOOO STOP!!” Then morning comes around and I felt like death… then messages come in “duuude.. what was wrong with you lastnight?” I stopped 14years ago due to this… im 36
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:58 AM
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I was on Prozac once, then put me on current meds, starting to think my Dr doesnt understand me too well. Will get a review booked. Thanks for this post, comments have helped insight me a bit better.
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:55 AM
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Sorry man to keep posting on your replys but i see alot of me in your comments. My friends and parents and Drs find it strange when I say “I don’t really like been around humans, they’re strange and I find it hard to blend in with them”
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:23 AM
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Trait of Aspergers, we feel the need to let people know everything so we also feel we’re not hiding anything from anyone.
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:21 AM
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SNAP! Im currently on 100mg sertraline and hate it, my mind still races off, creates events in my head that I cant turn off, things still REALLY get to me and is very hard to control, Iv just spent 7days with a crisis team because I struggled to handle something I was told. Think I may mention your meds to my Dr.
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:16 AM
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Haha, nahh, she was after something new and different, after a while it faded off as younger guys was interested in her and could give her more attention that she use too, like going to parties and staying up till 6am, typical 20’s age thing, not my thing anymore. I had fun of course but if I want to settle id be looking at more my age range.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:49 AM
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To add to my reply. She had only been with one person before. A tip for others if this happens is don’t treat them like a fuck toy or fuck them like pornstars do, yeah she was 22 but I treat her like a woman, took my time eased her into things slowly. We eneded up sleeping together a lot and each time her body experienced things she had never felt before I don’t think she will for a while if she sleeps with someone her own age again. Treat them mature and they’ll come back for more, treat them a…
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:37 PM
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If shes been legit honest with you about her issues be honest with her. From what I can tell you want her to focus on her self through this time and you’d like the same also for your self which will include maybe meeting other girls. You’re not doing it to hurt her you’re doing it not hurt her and your self in the future. You don’t wanna come across as don’t give shit, but more you understand her current shit.
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:25 PM
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Wasn’t really planned, kinda just happened. Hung out a lot, listened to what she was saying etc. Was also on her part, she was 22 and im 36 and she said “wonder what an experienced man is like” so I said wanna find out?
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:01 PM
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When you see the words “I have a boyfriend” always stop there, messaging again can actually make it worse as you’ll then be seen as someone who wont leave her alone and you don’t want that… girls talk to girls about EVERYTHING.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:33 PM
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Housemate
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:19 PM
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Social media has nothing to do with it. If she/he likes you they like you, and if they’re trust worthy they’re trust worthy. I have IG and Reddit, I feel better for less social media, I find it ruins relationships and friendships. Why do I want to look at peoples food, new clothes, arguments, daily “iv’e done this today” bullshit. I like talking to people in person.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:57 PM
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“Thanks for the directions” and walk off
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:02 PM
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From what you have posted, seems some of it is your own insecurity. She never ignored you afterwards, was happy to see you, let go of that “thing” holding you back and giving you self doubt. Go to it, enjoy it, and let her know her teaching was great.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:48 PM
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Don’t let it knock your confidence, remember, it’s not you it’s them, never self blame for someones else’s actions. Im a divorced 36year old who’s wife left for another man after gas lighting me for god knows how long until I removed the rose tinted glasses. You got this.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:56 PM
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Best way to know they want to be with you, they’ll heal first, self time. If they go off sleeping with others whilst “healing” they’re not healing, they’re hiding and you’ll just be the same but long term (or short).
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:55 PM
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Trust me, you’re going to look back wt this post in a few years and kick your self. Some virgins stay with their partner, where as some also then want to experience sex with other people. Start shy, end up a sex freak…. Careful which one you got right now ;)
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:54 PM
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Free.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:41 PM
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Im a 35 M, got talking to a 21 F, after a few days of chatting, she stayed over at mine before moving in her to own place for the 1st time.Ended up sleeping with each other, I wouldn't cast my self as good looking, average id say at most.I was confused why a hot 21 year old would sleep with an "old man" (what I think of my self), I later found out why..... I listened to everything she said, never interrupted, never made it about me, all focus was always on her.... turns out I was the first perso…
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:10 AM
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