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| 21 | When your Tinder match is less than a km away... (Next day follow up)Pineapple pretty good with certain combinations. Just like honey and goat cheese. | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 03:01 PM |
| 2 | My personal opinion on The Red Pill (27 Married Male from Bahrain)Good stuff, might get you burned out here but respect for the effort, definitely a lot of good insights. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?With this attitude you are gonna go nowhere, dude. Looks helps until a certain point, from the way you are communicating now, you've got to work on the rest, seriously. | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?How can I know bro? Maybe? Also what other people tell you might not be the best case for you. Focus on confidence and learning some shit, much more valuable than looking a bit more muscly. Again, if you are a boring dude, being muscly might not help you so much. | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?P.S. Look comes after you've mastered the rest dude. You start worrying about improving your body either because you are an extreme case (extremely small or extremely big) or when you want to go for other targets (e.g. models), for most girls a tight game and a whole-around personality will do (and for some, unless you are filthy rich you are already out). | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?I think it's more like a good kitchen. If they got that far to see your abs then they probably like you for something else but it's a nice addon. Other muscles are more visible and might make you less feeble-looking which definitely helps. Having done some body-building when I was much younger I can that it helps but don't do it for more than 6 months. I found much more lasting effects from doing martial arts. So, my suggestion is for you to start a bit lifting, if you are really feeble, mainly … | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?Talk about things you find interesting and make it interesting enough for them to want to know more? Same as a good storyteller can tell you that there is no more milk in the fridge and you can just listen and listen. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?Even easier than that: you like girl A? Befriend girl B (make sure they don't know each other) and after a while, start talking to girl A but much less. She will see how you are at your best (with girl B) and wonder why you didn't approach her as well. But yeah, approach and go on with your life. Try to imagine how you would behave if you had better girls to talk to than her. That mindset of abundance will help you decrease any sense of neediness. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?I'm on my phone and on the go, so I will write something quickly and then, if needed, extend it. Anyway, some improvements would be not to always approach first (you've got shit to do too) and my personal golden rule of "don't act like everyone else". A simple example of not following my golden rule is when you say "hey how are you?". Everyone who meets that girl will very likely say that, so she has a built-in answer for it "good and you???". Start off by breaking that habit of canned questions… | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 02:47 AM |
| 38 | How to tell the difference between IOI eye contact and "why the fuck is he staring at me" eye contact?Difference between looking at her with mild interest as if you both were sharing a nice moment together and staring into her soul like an evil hungry night ghoul from hell. Learn it and make us proud. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 10:27 AM |
| 6 | Should I do practice dates through online dating or jump straight to approaching?Depends who is your type. You can probably get some needy girl wet with some mad GH skills (DragonForce power). | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Advice on moves to get out of the friendzoneLightly distance yourself for a while and then come back more flirty and direct. If you want the maximum result, distance yourself for a longer period of time for a specific reason (school, travel, work, etc.), it will work even better. If you try to implement changes gradually, people will notice them and shut them off, since they don't match your current personality. A time off allows you to be somewhat different and they will rationalize it as just the time passing. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 06:43 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate with a girl when you're at a friends house with other people around?This is a no-problem: if you seduced her and teased properly, you and her WILL find a way. It doesn't matter. Light teases on her leg/arm/hand are acceptable anywhere (done it even with her parents around) and they work like a charm. So again, focus on teasing, to actually conclude is the easiest step. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 06:39 AM |
| 17 | Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly.There are mean people and nice people. Don't make a big deal about it and work on be a better person yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Is 5'7" 125lbs too skinny for a guy? Would I get more attention from girls and would they be more attracted if I got more lean with muscle? Would it atleast make game easier?Even though I never saw you, it's clear that your problem is definitely not the look but all the rest. Openers are great but you can't just have 1 opener, it's all about the situation and how you feel. Your question though is very broad as it's basically asking how to seduce, which is the subject as a whole. Unless you have some specific problem, I've got to give you some general advises: If you have, somehow, already isolated your target (1 on 1 time), that's great stuff already but you've got … | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Should I do practice dates through online dating or jump straight to approaching?Should you play Guitar Hero or pick up a guitar? You can do both but, at the end of the day, the most important part is to actually get down to the real deal. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How the ugly man can succeed in the sexual marketplaceAhah yeah. Definitely don't need all that and on top of it you could use all that time for stuff which actually has long-lasting benefits. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How the ugly man can succeed in the sexual marketplacePardon me. What do you mean? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 03:32 PM |
| 8 | How the ugly man can succeed in the sexual marketplaceThat's like your opinion, man. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 02:04 PM |
| 16 | How the ugly man can succeed in the sexual marketplaceSorry bro but I've got to say it: You need to have a good physique. Take steroids if necessary. Also make sure you have finasteride if you are prone to losing hair. Aim for the men's physique look. What Your social media presence needs to be strong. You need a lot of likes, and you need a lot of comments on your pictures. On instagram you can buy followers and likes but make it subtle so that no one notices. The Your skin care is important. Use a face and body wash regularly. Wear sunscreen when… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Texting a girl "merry Christmas"Yeah, why not. Phrase it differently or you might be a bit predictable, that's all. | /r/seduction | 25/12/16 12:15 PM |
| 7 | A Basic Guide to Touching GirlsShe wanted to keep talking and so I said something like "if you've gotta go, I'm gonna go talk to somebody else, no problem". She said "nono, don't worry". For a couple of times I mentioned that it's time, I will talk to somebody else since she gotta go and she kept pulling me back. Worked like a charm since after an hour or so we went out together while the other dude was still outside. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 11:04 AM |
| 22 | A Basic Guide to Touching GirlsExactly. Other night at the bar this super macho, tall and muscular dude was playing cool with a chick I was gaming. At a point he whispered in her ear to go back home with him (I heard). She said she wanted to stay talking with me for another 5 minutes and then she would come (I thought: biittcchhhhhh!). Kept going with my stuff and the morning she was offering me breakfast. Feels good, man. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 03:10 AM |
| 22 | A Basic Guide to Touching GirlsTL;DR: Be tall and attractive Do whatever the fuck you want Gotta say that this guide does not work for everyone, you usually have to put a bit more effort before escalating. If she is already giving you the "fuck me eyes" then you just need to NOT fuck up. On the other hand, most people need to earn those eyes. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 03:06 AM |
| 20 | A new rule to change your perspective: the most attractive quality a girl can have is an interest in you.Basically OP is saying that, as a baseline: Girl who shows interest in you > Girl who doesn't Of course, if you don't find her attractive, that's it. But if you found two girls equally attractive and one showed more interest, she would/should have a slightly higher priority. Or also: if a hot one gives absolutely 0 fucks about you, move on and get over it. Solid and fair advice to new people who might waste time with the wrong targets. | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 01:15 PM |
| 10 | The ideal Red Pill lifestyle includes a long term relationship.I don't know man. I found your post mostly solid but I can't agree to this. Being in a relationship with someone you have good synergy is definitely more than just a toilet. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Cool, I should try that as well once :D | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Kudos for your response :) | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.So you are saying: "Hey noobs, can you be less noobs please?!" They went out there and tried, even after failing: huge respect! I don't have problems talking to strangers and a bad approach could bum me out a bit. The fact that you added your successful approach with the Aussie girl just makes me think you wanted to show off how 'cool' you are compared to those beginners: congrats dude! You are better than some random novices. If you really wanted to help them and the community, you would have w… | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 11:34 AM |
| 2 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.I am not familiar with your situation, so I'd probably suggest things just out of my ass. Btw, I don't think women just want successful men, I think they need to see something interesting in them. Definitely a drive or passion for something. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 09:08 AM |
| 1 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.So you think you can only be boring, dumb and/or self-loathing? Btw, would you honestly find attractive a girl with those traits? | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 12:01 PM |
| 3 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.Well, you see the problem being the isolation and not interacting much. Perhaps try some other forms of fitness? Perhaps more social ones? I personally really enjoyed learning martial arts, it also gets you to interact with people. Meetups are great too! There are usually many IT-related ones as well. Basically, put yourself in events/places where just chatting is normal (just like at school). As a plus, build some personal menu that you can use when inviting people over (people just love good f… | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 01:51 PM |
| 4 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.How are you doing in the following categories? Hobbies (gym is not a valid hobby) Knowledge Acquisition Cooking Travelling Movies/Music/Books It might be easy to give you tips, if you want/need them :) | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 3 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.Interesting hobbies, curiousity, decent body odour, decent clothing and understanding that women are just like men, with desires, fears and stupid shit going on will bring you very far. Look is much more than your actual natural body: it's style, aura, skill, knowledge and presence. You can find chicks into any kind of body types, not many into boring, dumb, self-loathing guys though. Don't give up and start slowly. P.S. Losing some friends in the process might happen. | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 01:16 PM |
| 3 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.To stop giving any fuck, you probably need to realize that, if you are doing what you like in life, the opinion of people you care is worth nothing and even less the one of strangers. One of life goal is travelling the whole world: most people like the idea of it but don't always grasp the consequences. If I gave fucks, I would probably not have gone this far. Also, we are all gonna die, giving too many fuck it's like playing your coin at a videogame and following what your friends around you te… | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 01:07 PM |
| 2 | 10 Unsung Red Pill QuotesThis is the shit you shouldn't take away from TRP. Just move on and let them hate women together, not worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/16 02:23 PM |
| 5 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing BitchesNo need to be like that, dude. If you keep reading, you'd notice he is just getting started, be supportive. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Ugandan humour with some red pill knowledge.More for the rest of us, I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 03:30 PM |
| 3 | I want to make my motivation and objective with girls more than just sex. Help?Just keep playing and try to filter out girls you don't want to hang out with. I found that attraction techniques are not too dissimilar from just meeting people and making friends. Of course, your goal should be to find interesting people regardless. Sex is the cherry on top but not the whole cake. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:57 AM |
| -3 | Ugandan humour with some red pill knowledge.Really, how old are you? 14? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 10:16 AM |
| 4 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing BitchesWhy is your SMV low? It's not like a universal evaluation, mainly that comes from yourself. Anyway, you are probably still far from being the target audience of this post (no offense intended). It's like an elementary school student reading about Integrals and limits: it just doesn't make sense. If you want, I can give you some hints to get started. It all boils down to: fake it until you make it (like many other things in life). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 10:05 AM |
| 12 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing BitchesCare to explain why you are not in the position to pull women? It might give an explanation to your current opinion on teasing. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 09:29 AM |
| 11 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing BitchesBring forward an alternative, don't just dismiss and leave. What do YOU actually do to get your targets? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 09:08 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with aggressive girl 'friends' who try to kill your vibe and throw provocative statements at you?Ignore the harasser and befriend the rest of the group. If you make them like you, he/she will stand out. If he/she continues, after you get a vibe that the group is opening to you, you can ask them some questions to defuse it: Is she in a bad mood today? Is he always like that? If they respond positively and seem even more on your side add something like "I hope he doesn't bite me. Anyway, we were saying..." and don't mention it anymore. Once she/he has been quiet for a while, you can extend so… | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 03:48 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with aggressive girl 'friends' who try to kill your vibe and throw provocative statements at you?Ignore and move away. You demand stuff you need, you don't need her/his respect. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 03:36 PM |
| -7 | A beta story everyone can learn fromCan't always assume everyone has your same beliefs. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Girl is disgusted by her boyfriendWhatever floats your boat, dude. You don't have to be hateful to make the best of TRP, that's all. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/16 01:40 AM |
| 7 | Girl is disgusted by her boyfriendYou turned the story from "a dude settled down, got fat, started smoking and stopped having sex with his gf" to "lesson learnt: don't get fat and fuck random women, since they are all whores!" So, even though you used similar words, the meaning is veeeery different. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/16 08:44 PM |
| 9 | Girl is disgusted by her boyfriendWhat a toxic post. This is the shit people who think they understand what TRP is all about come up to feel better with themselves. As many other fellow users commented already, if you give up on yourself for 10 months, don't expect sympathy from anyone. Now, specifically about your post, OP. Why did you feel the need to shame this random person? There must be something you feel unsure about, this community is here for that as well. People here can support you. I see TRP posts as a way for newcom… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/16 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way?Does it matter? Books are the theoretical part and practice comes from real feedback. I speak out of practice not pure theory. Again, it might work for me and that's it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way?Ok, if that works for you: good for you! | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 11:50 PM |
| 9 | How to stop girls flaking when it's going well (with some advice to beat LMR)Interesting post, I admit it but you are basically saying that to avoid a girl flaking, you should just go full-speed on the first occasion. That's not it, at all. You build up the moment and when it comes, I agree, go for it completely; don't just kiss and wait for the next date or something. But the buildup is so damn important. That's what is called the 'game'. If a girl flakes, whatever the reason, something got messed up: AKA You make a mistake somewhere. Seduction is about getting the perf… | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way?Correct, there is never a single answer for people. Although, I have to say, many girls ascribe to either one group or the other. Adaptation is key. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way?I am not sure which kind of PUA those are but the key is to focus on everyone except the girl you want. The way you suggested is the "White Knight" technique, which has failed many and many before. Unless you are Di Caprio or Ronaldo, ignore the target and attract her indirectly. It might be a different strand of PUA but this has shown MUCH more results to me than your suggestion. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 05:08 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Went to a club lone-wolf styleYou got a group of dudes outside smoking and talking and having a great time you just met, then...? Well, if you want to get girls who smoke then let's use this setup. The idea is that you met some dudes who were just chilling, not doing much (aka many dudes just being there for the girls but not really knowing how to get 'lucky'). You come in and bring energy, interesting topics and a laugh. Now, any topic is good but try to avoid 'nerdy' topics as they are hard to use as a merger. Opinions on … | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 10:37 PM |
| 59 | [FR] Went to a club lone-wolf styleFirst of all, massive kudos on just trying to go solo. Second, let's start seeing what you could improve: When you are alone, your goal is to build your social value, no matter what. I see it as a ticking bomb: the more you wait the worse/harder it gets. Here is what I do when I happen to go to a party/club/bar alone for whatever reason: Breath in just before entering the entrance (or after putting down the coat) Walk in like you own the place. Smile. Look around as if you could spot at anytime … | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 01:16 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Made out with a 10, got bored and then rejectedDude, I hate to say this but your attitude is completely messed up. You went from caring too much about girls (I assume) to caring too little. Seducing is about being free of social norms and not be afraid to approach seemingly unapproachable people; not being drunk, kissing a hot girl and being so damn happy about it because you don't care. I write this because I think when this kind of posts come up, there should always be someone reminding that seduction (and this subreddit), for some people,… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 12:44 PM |
| 5 | What Could Have I Done BetterYou AND Gary are in the room with her? Kick him out and get down to business. Don't even allow him to be there. | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 08:45 PM |
| 16 | Finally grew a pair and approached a girl today.I never skip spaghetti day. Spaghetti... mmmm.... so good. | /r/seduction | 22/10/15 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Sober SeductionThe others have said it in a way or another: you don't need to be drunk to approach people. For me, if I want to just have fun, I might get inebriated but when I want to pick up, I am as sober as ever. It will make a difference and you will want to find interesting people, not the first drunk girl who talks to you. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How can I(20F) make it clear that I actually really am looking for something casual?Hell no. | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Pregnant woman demands her husband get her olives even though he worked all day and the store is a 40 minute drive. Guess who r/hamsters sides with?You sir are the first one (I have seen) to be somewhat realistic and include a family to the TRP concept. It's refreshing. Too many people here thinking that you can't have a relationship + kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Witty users of seddit, how did you sharpen your silver tongues?It's more like "Listen to Eric Clapton if you want to know how good music sounds like". Wit comes, in my opinion, from knowledge, confidence and, ultimately, experience. It's not an overnight thing but, for instance, I like to come up with fake/weird stories with my friends and improvise. I also like to do presentations at the uni (the less important one) and just improvise: I know the topic but I prepare absolutely nothing (just slides) and invent my way through. So, yeah, practice coming up wi… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Last night's missed oportunityKeep us updated! ;) | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 09:40 PM |
| 2 | getting shy girls to meet againJust tell her to join you there, maybe introduce her a bit and move somewhere else. As if, she came to pick YOU up. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Apparently I need a refresher on when to touch to avoid moving too fast.As I said, I don't ever Tinder, it's a fake environment and it just doesn't work for me. But if I planned to meet specifically a girl and she agreed to meet me as well, I'd kino much later than during a 'normal' approach. During a normal approach, you kino because you want to keep up your "I'm not afraid to be comfortable with you, since you are being nice to me" and you want her to build that up as well. With a Tinder meetup, she already kind of likes you (either just random interest or from th… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Online game for getting women while on vacation??Cmon, dude, don't do that to yourself (the OKCupid thing). Would you meet up with a girl who has so little going on that she needs to send a message to a total stranger (who could be a fake or worse) just to enjoy her night? I know, I wouldn't. Real people with friends and a life are much interesting. Just go out to meet people, don't have as a priority to get laid. You should go out for having a good night, whether or not you sleep with a girl. Try to go to CouchSurfing events, they are fun and… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I need a refresher on when to touch to avoid moving too fast.I think approaching girls met from Tinder are not the right way to start learning how to seduce girls. For this reason, there is not much I can suggest. There are a lot of variables. Tinder is an easy way to contact a lot of different girls but starting with chatting AND THEN meeting is just much harder. For knowing when to go for the kiss, either you definitely feel it's the right time or just ask "do you want to kiss me?", if yes, kiss, if maybe, "let's find out" and kiss, if no, "it felt like… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | I've had some success at seduction, but I'm all about improvement. I've run into a few problems and would appreciate advice on how to solve themGood job dude. For the girl showing up without the condoms, I think I've never left my house without a condom somewhere. She 'forgot' hers? You have yours. She says it's ok without? You put it on anyway. Either that or that's the door, sweetie. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I finally feel attractive again, now what?Read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. If you are new in this, you've got a lot to learn. In about 6 months or so, you can change yourself. Just remember, never tell anyone you don't blindly trust (and that you know they will stop you) about Seddit and gaming in general, they will not understand and will jeopardize you. Also, you cannot change your frame (how you present yourself) from a day to another. The super cute girl in your classroom who knows you since kindergarten, won't believe your change u… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with an LTRWow, thanks dude, I appreciate. Feel free to ask more questions/advices, whenever you need, and stay strong :) | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Last night's missed oportunityYou don't need moral support, you need training. You don't start running the marathon, you first run around your block and from there improve. First of all, don't give those silly ratings to girls you didn't sleep with yet. It will only work against you. I use only 2 categories for girls I never met: Doable Not doable And 2 categories for girls I met: Interesting Uninteresting That's it. Next, you said you are shy. Are you ALWAYS shy? If I told you to go to the dude at the bar and ask for 2 beer… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with an LTRIs she agreeing with her parents or what? If so, cut her off. If not, just go for it. Being 17 is so damn awesome because you have to sneak away, meet around the corner for a quick kiss before bed. You have to come up with some stupid plan to spend the afternoon together cuddling and enjoying each others. This is still Seddit, so get into an LTR only if she is even more into you than you are. Don't be the needy one of the two, or you will be the weak one. If she starts saying 'yeah but it's goin… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 06:18 PM |
| 2 | I've had some success at seduction, but I'm all about improvement. I've run into a few problems and would appreciate advice on how to solve themI read the first part (your post is WAY to huge, dude) and I simply didn't get why you couldn't have fun with her using a condom. You cannot get any bad STD from a Bj (unless she has any visible rash) [this comes from a couple of searches I did in the past], so just cover your buddy up (you always should use protection even with your girlfriend, dude. Pregnancy is an headache you are better off without). I don't know but meeting girls on Tinder kinds of creates its own population of girls either… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 06:07 PM |
| 2 | getting shy girls to meet againDon't reply for the week and, on Thursday, come up with: "Hey, tomorrow me and my mates are going to XXX, wanna tag along?" If she says no, reply with something like: "Oh, too bad. If you change mind, you know where we are. Talk to you later. x" If you went k-close then, you should just wait for a bit (not the end of the night) and tell her "Last time, we got interrupted, shall we continue?" and kiss her. [Take this with a pinch of salt as I do not have enough info about the girl and your frame … | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:58 PM |
| 4 | What books have significantly helped you?The Game, by Neil Strauss was what brought me into this magnificent world. I usually suggest that and to read some cool stuff like 'Magic Bullet' (I hope the title os correct), to get how the different phases of gaming work, and build up a list of different openers or games (for instance the good old 'Cube' is good if you present yourself as a curious person who knows a lot of stuff). Then move away from books and go for videos: I enjoyed the videos by Mystery and Style, in my first phase. Then … | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Kino across table?Sitting across tables is a situation you want to stay the shortest amount of time; touching knees and elbow are very good for the initial kino phase. If it is how the place/club is made and you want the challenge then it depends on what you mean 'across tables'. Does it mean that you are both at the same table, just opposite side? If so, body language (not facing her first) is good and the more she put on the table and entertains you, the closer you get and the more contact she gets. Use your le… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a date confirmation on the day of the date without coming across as needy?Yeah, as the other poster said, it depends on a lot of factors: did you build attraction? How was the kino the last time you met? Are you holding your frame or changing it to seducer? These are important to know as it will tell us whether you can tell her something as easy as: "Wear a nice dress tonight, so we match" Or go bold and tell her: "Tonight wear that cute black skirt, it makes your ass look great" Don't ask "IF" she is still up for it. Of course she is, don't doubt it and go straight-a… | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:30 PM |
| 10 | Witty users of seddit, how did you sharpen your silver tongues?As another commenter here said: watch standup and a lot. Here is my attempt to list some of the comedians that WILL help you come across and funny and smart: Louis CK Stewart Lee Eddie Izzard Charlie Brooker (not a standup com, but still) Louis: He is the first in my list because I think there are tons of videos of him on Youtube to get started. He is heavily influenced by the great George Carlin and Bill Hicks but I find him more sociable than the two of them. He is great at not taking himself … | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:18 PM |
| 21 | I'm grinding on a girl, she's into it, and then her friend pulls her away. What should I do?This is usually because you didn't meet and befriend her group. Ideally you should attract the rest of the group (and indirectly your target) and THEN you isolate the girl you want. If you approached the set properly, isolating the target should be as easy as a pie. I usually would interact with the girl I want after she has been seeing how well I can entertain her friends and leave her hanging ("Don't worry, I'll save some time for you later") for a while. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:00 PM |
| 0 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesThanks for explaining without being rude. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 09:38 PM |
| -1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesOk, I see your point. That only applies if she gave more/better sex to the previous partners, correct? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:48 PM |
| -1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesThis guy did not want to marry a woman who did these things. My guess is she knew that, and therefore hid those things from him. Ok, I see your point here. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:33 PM |
| -7 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesBut you should know that women with higher partner counts tend to experience a higher divorce rate. This means that some women do not divorce. Don't be fooled by statistics, they help to understand the majority of a population not each individual. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:21 PM |
| -2 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesWhat do you mean? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:10 PM |
| -3 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesAlright but I just don't understand why blaming a woman for their 'fun-times' when she was 18, after 10/15 years and after being faithful (let's assume) to the guy. If a girl enjoy(ed) sex and wasn't looking for a relationship during her youth, does that mean she cannot/shouldn't have a family? I am not talking about a girl who says that she doesn't 'do that kind of things anymore' to her new bf, when she went crazy just few months before. We don't know much about this woman and it was over 10 y… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:00 PM |
| -8 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesMan, are you serious? Is that your thought or what? Some people just grow out of doing drugs and crazy things, it's normal. You make a lot of assumptions based on nothing. Finding a person you enjoy spending your tine with, doesn't necessarily mean that she became ugly and desperate and needed a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 05:55 PM |
| -2 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesOk, I see your point. But again, I am not sure I would bring up something like that with a partner unless asked directly. "Hey babe, there was a period in college where I did drugs and sex for the lolz." If he asked and she lied, that's one thing. But I read it more like that she just never brought it up to him, which I find more understandable. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What would be the point of not telling me she has a boyfriend?If you can't dance, being asked is almost as good as actually dancing, on a mental level. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 07:52 PM |
| 4 | What would be the point of not telling me she has a boyfriend?Oh my god, this thread is so full of dumb comments that it could be the movie 'This is the End'. Seriously, it sounds like a girl either tells you straightaway that she has a boyfriend or she is a cheating whore. Everyone likes to make friends and be lightly flirty. If you had a girlfriend and cared about the relationship, and some cutie came up and started to be funny and flirty, you can choose to either: Shut her down with "Just so you know, I got a girlfriend". Stay neutral. Be playful back a… | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Going on a first date tonight. What are some helpful tips that will make the girl fall for me?Treat her like an equal human being and not like the Princess of Sweden and you'll be fine. And split the bill, always split the bill. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 02:18 PM |
| 7 | "All guys want is sex" shit testDefinitely this. If they start complaining about stuff I don't care (e.g. their ex, other mens...) I just say: "Very interesting. By the way, have you watched <name_movie>? I found it quite interesting, you should give it a try." I tried both being the nice and caring close friend and the guy who changes topic right away and makes them think about other stuff. The latter gets laid much more often. | /r/seduction | 26/02/15 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Accidental Dick PicI see, any specific reason? | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Accidental Dick PicToo bad he removed the post, now I am really curious on what he had written. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 02:41 PM |
| 14 | how to politely excuse yourself from a date with a girl you're not intoYeah, here people sometimes forget that seduction has mainly social skills in it. Making friends with random people will only improve someone's social skills. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 01:34 PM |
| 28 | how to politely excuse yourself from a date with a girl you're not intoI really don't understand how not everyone said that. I mean, you both got there and, unless the pictures are of a totally different person (I'd find it bad for someone to lie like that), why wouldn't you just try to have a nice time with the date? Hell, he/she might even become a good friend or more. That's the beauty of life, you never know. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend is going on trip around the world with random guy she just met. Don't worry though, "This is totally sort of like as friends".What I think is that this is such a opportunity that it's hard to skip. Even myself, I'd find it hard to say no to a similar offer, whether I was committed or not to my relationship. Of course, here we are all about the boyfriend being beta and all but I would honestly find it hard to choose. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 09:53 AM |
| 1 | ItalyIn the south, you definitely want to know the 'right' group of people. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 02:41 PM |
| 5 | ItalyItalian here, living abroad for the last 6 years. I picked up when I got back to Italy but it's really harder, at least in my region (North-East of Italy). I find Italian people (namely girls) are more open when abroad. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 02:03 PM |
| 1 | A 35 year old woman throws a tantrum on TXC because her boyfriend realizes he wants to be a father and that 35 is too old for a woman to give birth to a healthy childMy comment was for this guy: /u/Iupvoteforknowledge And more precisely for: What was she doing doing her fertile years? Riding the cock carousel, duh. Now she hit the wall and is like fuck fuck I need babies. We have no idea what this lady has been doing in her life; it could be nothing or it could be something amazing: ranging from building a strong career, to building her own persona with travels, jobs abroad and whatnot. In the post we clearly read that at 32 she was already interested in hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 10:11 AM |
| 0 | A 35 year old woman throws a tantrum on TXC because her boyfriend realizes he wants to be a father and that 35 is too old for a woman to give birth to a healthy childSo much bullshit. I just had to tell you, mate. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Beyond pickup – 20 Psychological Life Hacks that can help you gain Advantage in Social SituationsIs someone saying that David Thorne is not awesome? Really? And no one saying anything? C'mon! | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 10:18 AM |
| 18 | Is it necessary to pick one? What's the best way to play it when two friends are into you, and you want them both?Just propose the idea but don't make one think she is the only one and do the other one as well; tested and it doesn't work, they will know, no matter how close they are. Or pick the one with the largest breasts. | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Help with confidenceYeah, I should have mentioned that but, to be honest, if you are just there laughing your ass off, while the other people are there just wondering what's going on, that's not good either. You should be there to just have fun, without much worries and expectations, while making other people part of your world and entertain them as well. There is something I didn't mention above and it is about getting to know girls: You should be there to find some girl that is worth your time and not to try to f… | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 01:34 PM |
| 9 | Help with confidenceJust read "The game" by Neil Strauss. That's a great start. I have always been an extrovert but I wasn't confident enough to approach a girl or even say something smart to someone I knew already and I liked. Even just with reading that book, you will get a lot of information to get started as well as more material that you can develop on your own. Meeting up new people is a lot about the confidence that you transmit to others, if people see you confident then your 'game' or 'frame' will stand up… | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 09:15 AM |
| 1 | What you cannot learn from /r/askwomen/Get is locked. Are you root? $sudo apt-get install women_horny-nightly | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:00 AM |
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