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DISCUSSIONNAthrowaway0613/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:25 AM
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I’m going to tell a different story than others. Met an ex through work awhile ago. He was HV we just didn’t work out for long term compatibility issues (think kids). Anyway. We worked together for about a year before he asked me out for a lot of the reasons women have mentioned in this thread: his concern for both of our careers. Now, we were in the same department so that made it also a little different. When our relationship ended, he actually offered to find a new job and leave if us working…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 01:22 PM
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So what I’m hearing is bro is weak which is why he needs to date someone under 120 lbs. Dude can’t even lift haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:22 PM
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Overhead press. It’s a type of lift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:36 PM
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This is me to one of my ex’s too. Our relationship got so bad that even though we lived together we hardly talked and we never had sex. This went on for like two years (I was in a really bad place mentally due to some family trauma and I was definitely a bad player in the relationship as well). We broke up 5 years ago. I have been with a new partner for 2 years. From what I hear from mutual friends I’m the “one that got away”. Though I would never wish for him to have a relationship like ours ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:24 PM
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As someone who’s lost loved ones to suicide, I understand your want to try and piece things together and find it out. Unfortunately though, no matter the number or pieces you put together and reasons and explanations you find, it never makes any of it better. So grieve and feel your sadness, but don’t make yourself crazy trying to figure out a “why” that makes sense to you, a lot of the time there isn’t one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:57 AM
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Oh it totally was. That’s why I used all past tense. He seemed great, but wasn’t. I know his political leanings and religion don’t make someone a bad partner, but he used them an excuse to have antiquated ideas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:11 PM
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This is my experience — I dated someone pre-Trump. He was really wonderful. He took me on planned dates and always paid, he was kind and protective but not in a creepy way, and was very straightforward in what he wanted. However, Trump became elected and I think it brought some more conversations to the table. He was VERY Catholic and even though he was not a Trump fan or supporter, he did believe in some things I was vehemently opposed to. He EXPECTED me to be a trad wife once we got married. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:36 PM
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And I hear what you’re saying here and I don’t disagree. I think just the burlesque I’ve seen (which is not a lot and very specific to my region maybe) is performed predominantly for women. I have only ever seen 3 men in there when I went, and all seemed to be partners of performers. Where porn is not. However, I think it still it needs to be examined as a whole. I don’t know what the majority of burlesque world is like so I could only comment on my experience and the inclusion of all different …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:58 PM
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It depends on the city, but yes. My friend is a performer and she’s nonwhite. Their group has many women of color, size 20+ women, women who don’t shave, people who are non-binary, women over 50, and one straight man. It attracts a wideeeee range of bodies who have been told their body isn’t the idea. I understand people thinking it’s for the male gaze, I was probably one of those people before I saw the show. However, many of those people on stage have been told they are not “worthy” of being f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:52 PM
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I see what your saying now and I agree. The system is crap to put it nicely. There shouldn’t be billionaires period, but since that’s a whole other rabbit hole I also get the point of OP. Women who benefit from the system typically do more “good” than their male counterparts. Both bezos and musk could end hunger in the US and still be stupid rich but instead they’re making rockets to try and prove who has the bigger dick….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:55 AM
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It’s because the reason musk and be part have them ability to fund private space travel is by exploiting their workers. Nobody becomes a billionaire without exploitation During the height of the pandemic, if a Whole Foods employee (owned by Amazon) used all their sick days because of covid their coworkers could “donate” days instead of bezos adjusting policy due to a literal pandemic and his employees putting their actual health and lives at risk for an unlivable wage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:34 AM
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This makes me want to cry for her and go hug my dad. I have never felt unsafe or uncomfortable with dad and I’m realizing that I’m the abnormal and not the other way around and my heart breaks for everyone who has to deal with any of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:11 PM
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The guy I dated was seemingly HV (it didn’t last long though because of schedules). The problem was that he was always free during the day and I was free in the evenings so trying to find reasonable time to hang out was impossible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:50 PM
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I can’t believe only one person said musician. Even if they’re actually a lovely, great, person their schedule alone makes them a veryyyy difficult person to date. Late night schedules, sleeping late, gone most weekends, lots of partying and late nights. Even if they want to spend time with you it’s at 2 am and that alone is annoying as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:56 PM
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I hope you actually messaged her because this makes me sad. I can feel her hurt and her self blame for this. This is all a spot we’ve been in in the past. I hope she finds her self worth and starts valuing herself more because she doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship where she puts in 99% of the work and he puts in 1%. Literally nobody deserves that. This is the ONLY time I believe in 50/50 haha. 50/50 should not be in terms of money, but in terms of work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:59 PM
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This is probably the most important comment. How people treat you is a reflection of them, not of your.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:01 PM
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No. I was young and the only Jew so I didn’t want to draw more attention to myself. Now anyone who says anything I just call them out and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:10 PM
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Yeah you’d literally be surprised. Once a guy picked me up and started carrying me against my will and pretended to throw me in an oven during home ec “where I belonged”….. I was 14……..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:12 PM
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Regardless of whether she was a pickme before or not, being a pickme doesn’t make someone deserving of abuse. Also, not Being a pickme doesn’t prevent you for finding yourself in an abusive relationship. Typical abusers do not initially give off any LV behavior, if they did, they wouldn’t be able to actually keep someone under their control. They are super charming and loving and take great care of you. Until they don’t. Until something happens. Then a switch flips. The emotional abuse starts, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:43 PM
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Oh girl, I’ve been there from withholding intimacy and love is truly fucked. I’m so sorry you’ve also gone through that. To me personally, I just find withholding sex a funny manipulation tactic because I can get myself off if I’m really feeling that in the mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:13 PM
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The dude recommended withholding sex? Hahaha. I will gladly hold out longer. That’s the dumbest recommendation I’ve ever heard. But yes, I liked what you said here. I like to think of anything women do that pisses the patriarchy off as a mini protest. So keep it up, ladies :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:15 PM
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That’s actually a very veryyyyy common sign of abuse. My guess is the emotional abuse started between her and Chris brown started wayyyyyy before things got physical. However, that doesn’t prevent her from being a pickme now. I don’t think actual signs of abuse should be labeled as pickme behavior though because it common signs of abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:07 AM
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“Simp ruining it for the kings 👑”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:45 PM
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No it wasn’t. I should say it became a thing with an increased availability to porn with the internet. Porn obviously has existed for awhile, but the widespread usage and the “shaving to enhance viewers ability to see penetration better” only came into being with the explosion of the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:02 PM
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Porn. They started shaving vaginas in porn in part to make women appear younger, but also so people could see the penetration easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:15 PM
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$2,600 for an engagement ring isn’t even expensive. My ex bought me a ring (not engagement) that he saw me look at online that was $2k and he definitely was not making FIRE money. Literally if that man could find a way to afford a $2k ring, so can this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:51 PM
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Okay — a book recommendation (though not as much about fertility as anti-fertility) This Is Your Brain On Birth Control. Truly eye opening. Also, I’m curious as to whether or not your doctor recommended egg freezing. Mine was vehemently opposed to me doing it until I turn 30. Would love to hear different opinions as you’re younger than me and doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:27 AM
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First, just because you didn’t leave doesn’t mean you told him it’s okay. He’s an adult, he knows. Second, you can still file a police report and press charges. Your lawyer can sometimes subpoena your cell provider if they store copies of correspondence (which I believe they might). You can also allow your therapist to submit your records as evidence (but your lawyer may advise against that depending on what else is in those records), and your family can likely testify as an outcry witness. Now,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:31 PM
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So I’ve dated one very HVM out of the three relationships I’ve been in. The only reason things didn’t progress was difference on wanting children. Other than that, many of friends are HVM and a lot of my female friends are married to HVM. They’re few and far between, but I think if you have a HVM in your life it’s easier to meet others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:32 AM
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Yeah it’s a really bizarre thing. I used to regularly get asked for my Snapchat instead of phone numbers by dudes. Like, you think I’m going to make you sending me a dick pic even easier? Also, why? So you can try and geolocate me by my app. Nahhhh I honestly recommend deleting it all to everyone just from a mental health standpoint as well. You don’t realize how much time you spend comparing yourself to people and it’s just all fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:55 PM
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I have absolutely 0 social media besides LinkedIn (which isn’t quite the same). Honestly, it is personally the best thing ever. I realized there were so many people I didn’t want updates on their life on and I didn’t want them to have updates on mine (toxic family, abusive ex, etc etc). It was a hard habit to kick at first so I literally hard deleted all my accounts (you have to request it from all the groups, it can be a pain), but it was the best for me because I couldn’t just reactivate to ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:05 PM
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I think if you actually look at the whole post (especially if you saw it on the same subreddit I originally did, which is literally an anti-patriarchy sub) it’s pretty satirical. At least, that’s how I read it. It’s pointing out the absurdity and the grossness that is hooters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:51 PM
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So so many. Domestic abuse shelters and shelters for sex workers trying to get out and their organizations, dress for success, women’s period project nonprofits, planned parenthood, and then a ton of legal ones too as someone listed above. That’s just off the top of my head Basically, think of a woman related issue you’re passionate about and I’m sure there’s an organization and nonprofit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:28 PM
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But those women aren’t real, remember? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:56 PM
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What sucks the most in my opinion, is if a woman had to be celibate due to a health condition you know her husband would be getting blow jobs galore and she would try and find any other way she could get him off even though she couldn’t. You know that dudes thinking though “since I can’t get off neither could she” and I feel like she knows that. Like bro, your hands and mouth still work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:57 PM
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The lengths they’ll go to is literally astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:40 AM
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I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist. He did all those things. I remember once he had been name calling me and I was sitting there crying and he just could not be bothered. Then I somehow apologized to him for being “so emotional”. Like, what the actual F?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:51 PM
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Another thing to add You may help your boyfriend and he might actually take all your advice, but don’t even expect a thank you or anything. I literally am the reason my ex got his job. I rewrote his whole resume, wrote every single cover letter (because his were trash because he’s a dumbass), made the intros for all of his job prospects, and prepped the shit out of him. After he got the job he acted like I did NOTHING. Not a thank you, nothing. Then he talked about “now that I have this amazing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:23 AM
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Literally this was my exact thought. Hate your job? Find a different one? Like…..how is it either work the job you absolutely hate or don’t work at all? That makes no sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:49 PM
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As someone else who was in an abusive relationship previously, withholding can also be physical too. Pulling away from physical touch, for example, if you are walking to dinner and go to grab their hand and they pull it away “Punishing” you for something they didn’t like by pulling away, creating physical space and not allowing that space to close Withholding physical touch was extra affective during the pandemic as many people only saw their partners and physical touch is a need for humans so b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:57 PM
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Oh my god. I spit out my tea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:34 PM
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Rover!! I know that’s not the point of this post, but ditch finding a dude with a dog and get paid to watch adorable puppies instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:07 PM
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What she’s asking him to pay is marginal compared to what all the other costs add up to be. If he weren’t married, what would he be doing? How would he pay to live? When I was in school I paid for my rent by working two jobs. You do what you have to do to be an adult and pay for your shit. You don’t get to exploit your partner just because they’re your partner and they make money and you don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:39 PM
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Also, how they talk about sex. I briefly dated someone who would only say things like “I can’t wait to fuck you”. In porn, sex is something done to women. It’s not for us at all. He would ONLY call it fucking, never once called it sex or anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:14 PM
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True. I was being too nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:32 PM
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I will not even go another date with a man ever again who even owns a video game console. I’ve been there, done that, no. Even if they only play one hour and not even daily still no. They’ll find a way to exploit it. “Oh you’re cooking dinner now? Shoot I hardly play games and I just want to get a few games in. I promise I’ll help you cook after” and then they are done playing justttttt when you’re finished cooking. What crazy timing? /s Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:49 AM
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Chicago lady here. Avoid avoid avoid. There’s some deep seeded trash views here. I’ve dated a lot of different types of men, many of whom were very successful. Be prepared for men who drink too much, have dad bods, text you and call you nonstop after 10:30 pm (it’s not a booty call! They’re a doctor. It’s their only free time /s), and casually word slurs like the r-word and c-word. The Midwest has a misconception of the Midwest charm and kindness. Just my two cents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:48 PM
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Oh gosh. I have so many similar to that. I should have left when you called my mom a cunt and I asked you not to and you said “it’s just a stupid word” I should have left when you couldn’t help that it wasn’t your fault you weren’t as attracted to me because I don’t lift I should have left when you then laughed at me when I tried to get in shape and you told me it was “pathetic” to watch I should have left when you never once took me on a date because you “didn’t respect me enough” I should have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:50 PM
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I used to definitely be one of those women. I thought when my ex and I started “hooking up” and he was really rough that he was just passionate. What’s funny is when he for serious and “fell in love” with me the rough sex completely stopped. Though looking back on the relationship actually embarrasses me to no end, that complete 180 really really changed my point of view on BDSM even when I was a pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:52 PM
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The performative feminism versus action is such a good one. I actually test my male friends on this. I had an acquaintance who was making me uncomfortable and I told all my guy friends. All of them told me that shouldn’t have happened, but only two took action and told the acquaintance to back off and stop being a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:43 PM
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The fucking comments on that video all call her shallow for not wanting to date a guy shorter than her, but then they say it’s justified that the men just ghosted and never came back because it’s “catfishing” that she’s that tall and they wouldn’t date anyone that tall…. How are people so stupid they don’t even see the double standard here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:41 PM
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I dated a recovered porn addict who no longer watched ANY porn. However, the damage had been done. We only “f*cked”. It was never sensual or tender. We didn’t even make out or have more than a few minutes of foreplay. It was only rough and demeaning and horrible. His brain had already been rotted to what real sex was. He was aware of why porn was bad in a lot of ways, but he never fully grasped that porn is not real sex and that isn’t where you should be bringing inspiration from. He never looke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:42 PM
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I’m almost 30 with only 1 high school friend (and she was much more than that as she lived with my family for a year when her parents were having some really tough times financially) Put all those high school friends who aren’t actually there for you as a friend in the trash now. I wish I did sooner. That just opens up room in your life to find those real true friends who are there for you and you have strong and supportive relationships with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:37 PM
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“He can actually post himself” but he can’t message you from his real account and has to make a fake one…okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:04 PM
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I think this is good as to find out why. Also, I think if it comes up that there is so much nastiness on the internet, and that it’s not something they want to participate in, that’s more legit than “I just don’t use it” or something similar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:52 PM
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Literally same. He would CRACK up after and ask me why I wasn’t laughing and I’d respond “because it wasn’t funny and not even creative” and then he’d proceed to tell me how women have no sense of humor 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:54 PM
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Not only is this disgusting just to start, but 10 FUCKING DOLLARS?! That’s the dollar value this asshole places on a woman “worth” (i.e. sex because clearly he only sees women as a hole to put his dick in) Honestly, thank goodness he posted this. Now women know who the fuck to avoid based on who liked and shared this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:30 PM
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Well and I think that’s why liberal feminists get defensive. You don’t have a recollection of when you started thinking that way or why. You just think it’s what you “should” think. So you get on the defensive because you should “be a good feminist and spread the message” It’s so fucking hard to undo so many years of having thoughts hammered into your head and not having a space or the confidence to disagree. It’s why every group for anything focuses on indoctrinating the young crowd. It’s becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:43 PM
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No and I don’t disagree with you at all. I think all your points are so well made and I am definitely someone who’s stepped away from liberal feminism in the last two years because I came to the conclusion it’s not actually for me and doesn’t actually support me. I think being critical of things is how we’re supposed to move through the world. In my ramblings I lost my point a bit, which I think your post is how you point out the flaws in the liberal feminist concept “correctly”. You explored an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:19 PM
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I think the pandemic was really eye opening and interesting for a lot of people when it came to this topic. I used to think I did a lot of things “for me” and that I liked it. Make up is the perfect example. However, when I didn’t see another human being for weeks on end, where was my make up? Where were my tight jeans and “cute” outfits and all of that? Just gone. I realized how frequently I was “performing” and playing a role I thought I was supposed to play. As a late 20something we were taug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:39 PM
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And on top of that, calling a woman a “gold digger” and saying their anti-“gold digger” is giving them an excuse for why they’re alone. It gives them a reason to not have to work on their personality at all. Instead when their friends ask “hey man, how are things going with Jane?” They can say “that hoe was a gold digger” and their friends all nod in understanding instead of mentioning that they were late, sloppy, negged the girl, and refused to even pay for a coffee and so they got ghosted. Nah…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:20 PM
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I needed to read this. I was almost free of my of my Narc and got pulled back in a bit and this gave me the inspiration I needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:26 PM
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Girl I feel this, but I went back after something similar and I can only tell you how horrible it was. You think things couldn’t possibly get worse, but they somehow do. Don’t be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:17 PM
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Honestly, my parents. Which I know sounds so cheesy. I’ve been told by many friends that they look to my parents relationship as a goal for their relationship. Both are available, kind, and loving to each other. They’ve never kept any sort of score and they both give each other exactly what they need from a relationship. That treatment also extends to my siblings and I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:45 AM
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The gaslighting with men like this is truly astounding and you don’t even realize at first that it’s happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:28 AM
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Damn, I wish I lived in KC though. Hah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:43 PM
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Wow. I relate to this so much. I am an above average attractive level (not that this even matters) and my nex convinced me I was this ugly, unwanted, woman who would only be able to not be ugly if I legit got plastic surgery. And for fucks sake I started to believe him. I like to think I’m a HVW, but holy hell, the way narcs get in there and truly fuck your brain up is UNBELIEVABLE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:01 PM
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This. I used OLD for one month two years ago in my late 20s in one of the big cities listed above. I couldn’t believe how many seemingly HVM I saw and matched with. I’ll tell you about two dates specifically: Handsome man, age 31. Owner of a big real estate agency. Payed for our date and walked me home. Then tried to pressure me to invite him up. I said I don’t do that after one date. He then asked me how many dates it would take. I told him I don’t have a number, just when I’m comfortable. Neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:48 PM
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He literally STOOD UP FOR INCELS and complains about not getting women when he’s a “nice guy” in this hahahahahahaha. Like, bruh, you don’t get women because you’re a crusty old man who throws a temper tantrum in the version of a 7 minute long video where you literally threaten to fuck people up if you don’t get your way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:53 AM
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Can confirm. After getting out of a narc relationship I can’t believe how brainwashed and how deep in it I was and how fucked it actually got
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:07 PM
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When they say they’re looking for “low maintenance” they mean they will never do anything that requires any effort on their part. Again, looking for a woman with no standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:47 PM
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Haha oh, I’m not saying it’s not nasty. I’m just saying it’s way more common than you’d ever even know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:16 PM
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Oh. Girl. Foot fetishes are the most common fetish out there. It’s…wild to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:05 PM
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I’m maybe more hopeful? It’s Darwinism. Women are deciding NOT to settle for the trash men who treat them this way. They choose that they’re better off not having children. Meanwhile, HVM are having no issues meeting someone and settling down. When they choose to have children, the chances of them being HV are much higher as they have great role models. Now we have a ton of HV kiddos running around. Obviously there will be some LVM who breed with pickmes, but I’m hoping that will be in the minor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:41 PM
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Same. It’s so much more horrific to watch it happen to someone else too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:51 PM
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Let me know if you need any help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:29 AM
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Can we turn this into a networking club? Where we help get women out of sex work and into a job? Because I would love nothing more than to help in any way I can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:15 PM
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Difficult, demanding, delusional (usually said when I’m onto something that they’re doing that he shouldn’t be)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:35 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:23 PM
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I loveeeee buying myself flowers! I’m actually with my LV narc of a boyfriend still, but working to get out. It’s just taking me some time because I want to stay safe. However, when I started buying myself flowers he would LOSE it. He thought I was trying to torment him since he won’t buy me any. It’s hilarious that a scrote things you doing something nice for yourself has anything to do with him 🤡 If you want to increase frequency and are on a budget, aldi and Trader Joe’s always has cheap opti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:54 PM
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She was the most searched person on pornhub on her 18th birthday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:47 PM
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The craziest part is that she’s not even showing THAT much skin when it actually comes down to it. Even if she was showing more though that’s her choice and shouldn’t factor into her identity. Men are going to be trash and sexualize the fuck out of her though and of course call her words like “whore” because any way to make a woman subhuman they jump on, and because she’s barely legal and not wearing a baggy T-shirt anymore so you know they’re perving out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:59 PM
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Darwinism doesn’t work when we keep them alive and breed with them unfortunately for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:40 PM
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I literally tell every single friend of mine that love is not enough. I was madly in love with a HVM. He was truly a wonderful person. However, we did not have one similar idea of what we wanted in the future. Not one thing in common. No matter how much we loved each other, it wasn’t enough for both of us to settle for the remainder of our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:45 AM
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My current narc is a gym bro, it only gives them more of an ego when they’re hot because “they could find any slut to dick down in 2 minutes”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:37 PM
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Also, a lot of men like women they can intimidate so the shorter the girl the more physical power be perceives to have over her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:38 PM
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It’s because they’re ~maKiNg Us bEtTer~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:15 PM
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I can’t tell you how many men in my life have told me that the number they’ve given me should “flatter” me and that the criticism they gave was “just for my own good” so I could “be hotter” if I wanted. As if all women are here to look good just for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:19 PM
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This! I am one of those women. I currently can’t leave for financial reasons (but you sure as hell know I’m working toward it). I detached monthssss ago and let me tell you, I’m already 10 times happier. When I’m called mean names and treated like trash I just ignore it and treat myself better. It has two positives because I am treating myself right so my brain is rebuilding those connections after all the damage my Narc did and my NVM is annoyed (probably because he’s aware of his inadequacies …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:31 PM
107

My dad always taught me a similar tactic to this. When a man is planning a date, change a small, insignificant detail and watch how he reacts. If he says how about dinner Friday night at 6:30 pm you change something small, like, can we do 6:45? Or I’m unavailable Friday, how about Saturday? You do this during the planning process, before anything is set in stone. If he melts the fuck down you cancel the date, because it shows he expects you to bend and fit to his schedule no matter what. If he’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:21 PM
88

This. They only lovebomb until you do something they don’t like, then you see a verrrrry different side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:22 PM
43

Doin’ it wrong on purpose. I’m dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:40 PM
21

Girl, I resonated with this so much. The most wonderful man I ever dated who did the most thoughtful things was a personal trainer before it was trendy to use personal trainers. He wasn’t particularly rich, but the flowers, chocolates, dinners, breakfast in bed, just little gifts I got along the way were exponential. I would have married him had he wanted children. Then my narc of a boyfriend now (who I’m working on leaving, just need to untangle things first so I can disappear and never see him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:12 PM
71

Emotional — you hold him accountable when he says something nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:49 PM
27

I believe it was on Billie elish’s 18th birthday she was the most searched name on pornhub..... which is truly disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:36 PM
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