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GeneralNCC-1701-1/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:38 PM
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Muslims may be on to something after all
/r/MensRights17/04/26 10:39 AM
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who the hell would film this?
/r/MensRights07/04/26 10:04 PM
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Housework is so damned easy its almost enjoyable. what a joke, mowing grass sucks so guess who usually does that.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 09:54 PM
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I feel it too in certain places. They are not going to change so you have to adapt. Just dont lose your self respect by letting them put their jackboot in you. More and more of young men seem to be aware and stepping up but there are still so many progressive white knights that we are always outnumbered. Make your bank, retire early, and live how you want.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 01:53 PM
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Withdrawal from society, hangout only with reasonable people, only argue here.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 10:26 AM
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great work, saving this
/r/MensRights31/03/26 10:56 PM
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sure! so if we forbid them from relations then forbid them from voting for the exact same reason.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 01:49 AM
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You do understand the 18 year old must agree, so what happened to strong independant woman? Cant have it both ways, if an 18 year old isnt capable enough to decide who to date then they sure as hell should not vote either
/r/MensRights30/03/26 12:53 AM
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You can play word games, but we all know many women expect men to be providers and many men are actual providers. So if that form of providing is a regular known amount then you call it escorting, and if it is just some vague expectation then its dating and marriage. The distinction is what you actually do with that person and if it is exclusive. Let's just put it this way, whores are women who do not want you to sit down and meet their friends over dinner but SBs are. Support is fee for service…
/r/MensRights29/03/26 02:13 PM
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I did not look for a wife at all, but I met a lot of young women who someday might get married. First I said the sheer numbers of escorts alone is staggering. There is a huge difference between escort and sugar babies the way I experienced it. You dont go on outings with escorts and their kids, you do with sugar babies. Almost had one 2 year turn into a move in thing. Escorts do not spend a lot of free time with you unless you pay them by the hour. SBs are girlfriends who ask if they can just co…
/r/MensRights29/03/26 01:04 PM
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Not the way I did it, but yes they are there. The question then is why the hell are there so many of them there in the first place and would you agree marrying an escort is a bad idea?
/r/MensRights29/03/26 01:38 AM
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Its a rag trying to peddle to its crowd. Stopped reading it long ago.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 11:55 PM
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Trustworthy is at the top if the list, the lying and cheating in that place is off the charts. Secondly there is a culture that develops around getting easy money that changes a person. Your ability to pair bond with one person and keep it going through all life's troubles is severely compromised.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 09:17 PM
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yes but there is a huge number of women on it
/r/MensRights28/03/26 05:06 PM
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My evidence from using Seeking Arrangements was that a low percentage of those young women have any chance at being decent marriage material. I learned an awful lot about how women perceive lying to men as something ok when it suits them. These apps really amplify and even reward behaviors you do not want in a life partner.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 01:50 PM
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I had a young women tell me that. She loved the attention.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 01:42 PM
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What sucks even more is some simp white knight will attack you and say 'well I want to hear their side'. Telling you guys, women all know about this weapon and while most will not use it, only takes one to ruin your life.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 02:24 PM
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No, you have to be convicted in court at the same standards. You might get arrested but its the same process.
/r/MensRights23/03/26 01:11 PM
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Its possible, as long as the legal procedures remain like this it is a very tempting weapon. Be careful out there. Do not date co workers especially as HR would only needs the slightest whim to ruin your life.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 07:23 PM
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DEI jobs were bullshit in the first place. Companies like Meta can fire 10000 of them and make more money, so what the hell were they doing?
/r/MensRights21/03/26 08:45 PM
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I can handle the wonen, its the fucking simp men that try and shame me for it that I hate.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 11:38 PM
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It is possible to connect across generations. If you open yourself up and treat each other with respect and kindness then a real bond can form. I am still a kid and can relate to the younger women where they are in life, while at the same time my emotional stability and ability to support was something they ate like Halloween candy. They didn't want equal in my opinion, I think they wanted more than that. Life is hard, especially for single moms.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 11:18 AM
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Only by my determination to survive, and some alcohol, did I not get destroyed after I did nothing wrong. Replay my life and no way in hell do I get married.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 01:43 AM
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'obviously depend on scenario' = you would make it up as you ho in is this obviously unworkable and unfair concept. A math test is a merit based outcome, how do you figure it is anything else when it is designed for the exact purpose of measuring ability? sorry, your ideas are dumb, you don't take any test and start handicapping based on your guesswork, you can either perform it or not. I say we let dumb people pass medical boards by handicapping it and then have them be your doctor.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 01:32 AM
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But no matter what, equality of outcomes, correct? and there is no way to exactly know how much advantage to give one person over another
/r/MensRights16/03/26 02:02 PM
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equity is equality of outcomes regardless of inputs, its an awful relic if marxism but correct me if I am wrong on the definition
/r/MensRights16/03/26 01:30 AM
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You have to do it to understand the difference between a prostitute and sugar baby. Don't overcomplicate when it isn't that hard. Men are physically attracted to younger women, while women are more forgiving of age and looks and will happily engage in a relationship with an older man in exchange for financial support. I did it enough to know that there isn't anything wrong with that, fuck these pseudo-science creeps looking for another way to make women victims and men evil.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 04:02 PM
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I am glad those jackwagons will go down first so at least there is a shot the rest of us can see the awful end game of feminism and maybe change course. I am not hopeful, too many progressive men. It's the same here in the US wherever progressives are in 100% control, like our inner cities where half the high schoolers can't read and do whatever they want all day long.
/r/MensRights14/03/26 04:22 PM
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I was a sugar daddy for many years. I met many women in that time, over 40 of them. Did not do anything with some of them but learned enough to know that this 'study' is full of shit. The only common denominator was that these young women needed money and they almost all knew exactly what they were getting into. There are ALL types of women sugaring, there is no type. Go visit the sugarlifestyleforum sub and you can get an idea for yourself. Half of the women on seeking arrangement were also eit…
/r/MensRights14/03/26 03:33 PM
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In kentucky the lexington area, in texas the dallas area, in alabama the huntsville area. Then look very carefully at neighborhoods and school districts as they vary widely. There are so many local farmers here selling home grown food that I eat very healthy for cheap.
/r/MensRights14/03/26 12:10 AM
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There is fenantyl whacko red like west virginia then there is the reasonable red where I live. Texas is also all over the map, school districts vary widely, incomes etc. and you have to get very granular. Look for a high concentration of right leaning doctors and engineers, avoid any area red or blue with shitty people in it. Inner city Chicago is "progressive", want to live there? deep red politics here, love it, also high engineer concentration.
/r/MensRights14/03/26 12:03 AM
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thats BS, I live in deep red Ohio and all of that is better here. The thing is that liberal media hates it and wants to paint a certain narrative
/r/MensRights13/03/26 11:53 PM
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What exactly is 'quality of life' because I think a lot of that stuff is simply crap. I have a very good life in a place people in say a place like Seattle thumb their nose at. I think their life sucks.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 11:35 PM
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The left does this to everyone not in their religion. It would be nice for North Korea to give feminists a taste of what happens when the far left is actually in power.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 10:22 AM
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Some of these family court arrangements are just plain mean. Had an in law who had work 2 jobs till the day he died to pay alimony, and just had another acquaintance had his wife file for divorce one day after she was eligible for lifetime alimony. It's disgusting. Child support I agree with in principle but to make it such that a guy cannot support himself after paying it is immoral. My state has a formula but it still can be harsh. Don't get married and don't have kids until you know you can p…
/r/MensRights10/03/26 04:59 PM
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I don't want to register to read it but I get the point. It just means the UK will fall further behind the US and China.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 03:50 PM
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and you know this from your vast experience in military affairs?
/r/MensRights09/03/26 11:18 PM
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stupid rant ignorant of actual military reality, btw Canada has never done shit since WW2 anyway
/r/MensRights09/03/26 09:54 PM
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go for it, just telling you it is not likely because unlike 75 years ago we have maintained a huge all volunteer force.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 08:16 PM
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They dont need draftees anymore, they keep a large enough all volunteer force.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 08:15 PM
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Nobody currently in the US military has been drafted, there has not been a draft for over 50 years and there is no proposals on the table nor is there even a military need for one.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 08:10 PM
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Divorced men, the military might be getting better, and older men. Why do you care about connecting with toxic people?
/r/MensRights06/03/26 09:20 PM
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I got mine at age 27 in the US, never heard of the 35 thing.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 08:38 PM
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what a weird cesspool you found there
/r/MensRights05/03/26 08:04 PM
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if marriage is forever, lol, and iffn it aint?
/r/MensRights02/03/26 05:32 AM
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peers = people who are just tow the party line. It means nothing especially in the humaniieas, I have been a journal editor
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:33 AM
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peers = people who are just tow the party line. It means nothing especially in the humaniieas, I have been a journal editor
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:33 AM
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That is exactly how it works. Publishing their crap is what supposedly gives it credibility, not that the crap was ok in the first place. All these identity group 'studies' programs are is govt funded propaganda and little hate factories for new young people.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 09:46 PM
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Exact numbers are hard to obtain, but looks like men are dying by at least a 10-1 ratio to women in the Ukraine war. Even the professional liars known as feminists would struggle with this one if they had to prove it.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 05:07 PM
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They have created actual degrees at universities on how to manipulate and lie, this is no surprise.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 04:53 PM
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What a shithole of wokeness
/r/MensRights28/02/26 02:55 PM
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Get rid of outdated concepts like "accustomed to" and that the non working spouse always 'earns' half the working spouse's income. Trying to keep the divorcing spouse at the same lifestyle is insane and has zero moral rationale, if she wants to leave then just fucking leave. Alimony is outdated, child support is ok however the well being of the father should be equal in consideration to everything else. Caps on payouts need to be established.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 04:20 PM
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Believe all women. Surely there is some way to interpret the video as kidnapping, we gotta try harder.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 06:52 PM
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and the lack of accountability in this sub is disgusting
/r/MensRights26/02/26 12:59 PM
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She was triggered by the patriarchal symbol of oppression of having a man deliver food because somewhere in her past a man did her wrong and caused this. She needs to be honored with murals everywhere.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 12:48 PM
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I dont like defeatism in our young men
/r/MensRights25/02/26 09:44 PM
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I am single, isolated by choice, sexless by choice, renting by choice, and working at my craft by choice (investing/trading/consulting). I am probably older than you and there is nothing ahead of me but getting old and dying. By your reasoning I should just be depressed and give up, but I do not. Why? because life is what you make of it and expecting other people and things to magically make you happy will not work. So I on purpose choose to not go on the path you are on and it really is that si…
/r/MensRights25/02/26 04:32 PM
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High rejection rates, ghosting, dumping at the slightest whim, always late, legal risk, cost, mind games, lying, cheating, hypergamy, unrealistic expectations, entitlement, immaturity, gold digging, weaponized sex, manipulation, and unequal sacrifice of time. Hey other than that it's great.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 03:38 PM
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You forgot to mention hate, a lot of lesbians really hate men.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 01:50 PM
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The victim industry is lucrative.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 01:48 PM
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I want to be the man I want to be, trying to become something 'that women want' is a losers game and they don't like that anyway if they sense you are a fake trying to please them. No I do not read any stupid romance novels, I lived life instead.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 05:05 PM
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I knew I was different when I started liking the kids better than their mothers Romance is just hormones. Observe older couples and note the lack of romance.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 08:02 PM
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I am never going to shut up or stop sticking up for other men, and never pair up again, but as far as politics I can only vote. We should informally have places we meet just to know there are others nearby.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 07:57 PM
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Romance is the delusional thoughts nature puts into your head so that you will stick around after sex and raise your kids. We evolved this way for survival and reproduction and that is all there is.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 11:11 AM
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Define it first. I have been called it as an insult but it has become the handy dandy perjorative so I dont think it means involuntary celibate anymore.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 11:23 PM
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That's the life most of us live in, life on that tough edge. I was at my best when challenged and I see that in you. Make a financial plan so that you have a decent amount of wealth in 20 years. The work responsibiliy actually gets more for most of us once we hit 40 and 50 so having that stash is important to make it feel like it is worth it. Your lady is the wild card, she can break all that. A guy who looked like he was 75 was bagging my groceries yesterday, no matter how hard it feels I promi…
/r/MensRights20/02/26 07:43 AM
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If I wasn't such a loner I would say we should create our own parallel society.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 02:52 PM
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I hope you dont mean stepping up means caving and acquiescing to feminism and letting the dating scene beat you down.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 10:04 AM
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Imbalanced view. The women back then were not fed a continuous stream of man hate and did not have a smart phone with 1000 other guys she can contact in a 50 mile radius. That made the women much more approachable and likeable because in person was the only option. When men became disposable online commodities the ladies no longer had to be that nice. Combine that with their online group hate activities and approaching a woman now isnt just a risk of a 'no', you can get labeled something online …
/r/MensRights18/02/26 09:06 PM
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I agree, Bill's view is disdainful of us. Claiming to understand but at the very end say "well guys you are just going to have to be better" isn't some sort of faulty reasoning, its a clear dismissal of the real problems young men face. I guess Bill figures he needs feminists in his audience.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 08:58 PM
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If we dare say women could do better, then we are misogynist incels. When we already have such an uphill battle and we gotta fight these guys it really is depressing.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 06:48 PM
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Almost insulting to hear from him or any progressive on this. They created the rot and now feign sympathy.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 03:44 PM
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I might agree with the principle but not the method here. Cussing him out is not leadership, you could have said it in a more respectful way that gets the point across. The problem you describe requires a lot of effort and time to solve. Most young men want to be led, but it aint easy. Some of them are too lost however. Showing up and demanding respect - honestly would not waste my time.
/r/MensRights17/02/26 09:17 PM
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Confidence can't be faked and I think it is simply how you feel when you have built a great life for yourself without a woman in it. Its one thing to know yourself but another thing to like yourself. Looks do matter so self care is part of confidence. Again this requires effort and not just awareness. Even with all that nice emotional stuff comes with being a successful and attractive person, now that I have arrived at becoming a self reliant man I just don't care anymore. Not only do I not need…
/r/MensRights14/02/26 03:51 PM
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I sacrificed my health by providing for a woman who gave me no kids. She didn't even work, she is still the victim however.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 03:20 PM
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Here is the recipe for the victim and identity industry. ID the oppressor you dislike, create an abstract theory that codifies your hatred, once you have an abstract theory you can manipulate it any way you wish. All you need to do is make sure your foregone conclusions are politically correct and away you go!
/r/MensRights12/02/26 03:17 PM
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Says she has a great boyfriend but lacks the kind of friends she desires, my god of all the shit to complain about. You cannot win with these entitled young assholes, if their imaginations are disappointed then we as a society failed them. Think of how many men would be excited to have a great job and girlfriend at 21, yet exhibit A here manages to turn that into a her little self absorbed 'poor me' piece.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 02:01 PM
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She is at work writing this crap? Must be nice being a professional victim
/r/MensRights12/02/26 01:57 PM
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Marriage is usually an unequal sacrifice by one of the partners. When the woman sacrifices more it proves men are pigs, when the man sacrifices more then men are just doing what they are supposed to.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 10:48 PM
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All the people who 'stand against hate' hate me but cannot see any contradiction. You are talking about dysfunctional brains that cannot be reasoned with. All you can do is keep speaking up for yourself and never let them roll you over.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 03:51 PM
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Excellent comment
/r/MensRights11/02/26 12:21 PM
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I prioritize all my life problems. Running out of milk is not as important as running out of money. I prioritize here too since a lot of men are in distress now and it isnt because of a draft or registration. The first comment was about actually being draft and yours was about registration. Two seperate issues , and yes your chances of being drafted and fighting in a war are pretty close to 0. On the other hand experiencing the venom of a society now calling you a vile person because of what you…
/r/MensRights09/02/26 06:00 PM
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I am saying its not a big deal, dont care either way. I oppose making it something more than what it is in comparison to all the other life issues men face with women.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 05:27 PM
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Sorry about that and I agree that aspect of it is a giant dumb pain in the ass. The government is that stupid on this I can confirm. I had to renew my security clearance every 5 years so fortunately my number was always handy from my previous investigation. Every renewal required them to confirm my selective service but think about that one, the government put it on me to make sure that they confirmed their own records, repeatedly. During my last investigation I brought it up and asked how many …
/r/MensRights09/02/26 05:11 PM
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I would ONLY if she made a lot more money than me, otherwise shove it.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 01:09 PM
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It takes 5 minutes to register. In the 80s they needed the database because in the pre internet days information handling was a big job, but today with all the info on you out there easily accessed it has become just a symbol. If you are 18-25 and want to fight a this go ahead if it makes you feel better. I dont think it matters. If this country is in some giant land war in Asia then we all have a huge problem.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 10:56 AM
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So dramatic, well I prefer real problems in front of me today instead of 50 imagined monsters in an unpredictable future. Enjoy your imaginary battles, the government can just reinstate the draft anyway if they want.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 11:11 PM
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The government can do a lot of stuff you dont like, so I prefer putting my energy ino things that are likely or already happening. Getting worked up over the improbable is a waste of time.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 10:53 PM
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In the 80s the US basically permanently mobilized so we dont need a draft. That is why in Gulf I and II as well as afghanistan we just went with what we had. We have only 1 peer now, China. Any land war with them would be in Taiwan and I do not see us getting into a multi year slugfest over Taiwan with millions of troops. The Air Force is fully staffed, and so is the Navy. The draft is a non issue. Let the Europeans defend Europe from Russia as they are more than capable.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 10:38 PM
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Except if you are manspreading in public areas
/r/MensRights08/02/26 05:53 PM
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Beware of any wife. I provided by working a hard job, there were no kids at home, and she did not work. She complained to everyone that I was useless around the house. I still hate her for that. Women are trained in this crap by each other and feminism. Men are just tools to achieve their ends, well eff that, providing for just me now and happier than I have ever been.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 06:31 PM
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We all know the rules, walk away
/r/MensRights04/02/26 11:40 PM
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equality!
/r/MensRights04/02/26 12:07 PM
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I understand but you get a lot of judgemental looks? Guess I am not paying attention. I too am tired of a society that demonizes me because I am the wrong race and gender and not because of anything I have done. When you start paying attention is when you start getting pissed off. Stare back at them, judgementally.
/r/MensRights04/02/26 11:25 AM
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you don't get life
/r/MensRights30/01/26 06:16 PM
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I don't give a shit, I had a good time with SBs and that is all that matters.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 05:47 PM
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The most expensive women are the ones you dont pay for. My wife pretended to love, until she hated me then proceeded to take even more from me. I fear family court, not paying for dates. All relationships are tranactional and you pay one way or another. Sugar dating over 6 plus years cost me about 150K, my wife of 8 years cost me over 800K. The memories in sugar dating are superior to the wife.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 04:46 PM
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The overall risk is opportunity cost of your time, money, and mental health. Factors for that include Legal risk of false accusations, which can result in lost job, freedom, and money Being trapped into something much worse than what you imagined but staying due to the male tendency to do that. A broken heart and the loss/loneliness that goes with that. If married your risk elevates to include financial ruin and becoming enslaved by alimony. The life of quiet desperation. I do not believe that p…
/r/MensRights30/01/26 01:13 PM
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Well said, and that last point is something that most guys can't get until they understand just how badly your life can get mangled by a woman.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 12:58 PM
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There is zero accountability for the stupid hoes having multiple kids with multiple fathers and have no money.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 10:12 AM
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There are multiple reasons and some are not just because the dating environment sucks. There are some of us that can be successful at getting dates but dont want to ever again put in the sacrifice to make a relationship work. Even if you do make some sort of relationship out of it, the risk is too high you would get burned bad by it eventually. The entire dating-relationship-partnership progression is so loaded with BS and danger that only short flings make sense if you can get it easily like th…
/r/MensRights30/01/26 10:03 AM
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lol, strange rant, but I also find the idea of traditional dating women getting dumber by the day
/r/MensRights30/01/26 03:24 AM
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Eliminate fatherless homes by making it so that no man can father a child. It takes a feminist education to achieve that level of stupidity. Then sterlize all women too - goose, gander and all that.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 07:22 PM
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Why would anyone be surprised that feminists will not do anything requiring sacrifice? hell they probably like seeing men die in war
/r/MensRights28/01/26 09:57 PM
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If you look at the history of left wing shit over the last 100 years it never ends well. What we have going on here is like Mao's cultural revolution and they smell blood. They have not tried to kill us, yet, but believe me some of them would have zero issue doing that.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 03:27 PM
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But she is checking all the progressive boxes, so yes she can promote violence. By any means necessary.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 10:21 AM
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Its because there isnt much difference between politics and religion, so if you believe you are 'correct' then pushing it is justified in their minds. 'Equality' starts with this high minded slogan put out there as obvious and immune to question. It then becomes justification for anything. Stalin and Mao used it to slaughter millions.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 12:34 AM
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It didn't say that, so is that the law there or something?
/r/MensRights27/01/26 08:19 PM
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If a woman brings up politics on your first meet and greet, run away. Don't try reason as it won't work.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 08:15 PM
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What bothers me the most is that we can talk to guys already into adulthood however they are busy destroying all the K-12 young men who cannot possibly respond in a meaningful way like we can. Learn and adapt, never stay quiet, but don't expect massive change.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 08:13 PM
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I didnt goof up, i showed you are wrong. What insult? holy psycho
/r/MensRights27/01/26 07:37 PM
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no it doesnt, if I do something in spite of the cold weather I am getting through it even thought I hate the weather. Not trying to get a reaction from the weather or anybody. you are wrong, google it
/r/MensRights27/01/26 06:42 PM
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in spite of does not mean living for their reaction
/r/MensRights27/01/26 05:06 PM
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Equivalent option to what? Sex is a voluntary act so stop pretending like pregnancy is unavoidable, that is the attitude of a child. Pre sex contracts are not policing sex or bodies, it is to establish legal requirements if a baby is made. You have zero logical reasoning skills, typical progressive.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 03:01 PM
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just get one, why the need for a joining some sub? I agree with FIRE absolutely, free yourself to check out for real and not this fake check out of not working as some in here talk about
/r/MensRights27/01/26 02:48 PM
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Sounds like we need to be fighting for better and cheaper childcare services, welfare systems for single parents, more affordable options in general on the resources needed to raise a child. But oddly I never see this argument being made on this sub. It always feels very 1-Dimensional. You don't see it because you are basically saying tax us to pay for your baby. No thanks, if you want a baby you pay for them. This middle ground can only ever exist if the mother has adequate support to raise tha…
/r/MensRights27/01/26 02:43 PM
1

Thats a lot of ifs that are not likely. I am not saying we need to stop making ourselves heard, I am saying we dont have the numbers for that.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 12:34 PM
5

We dont agree in here on every issue and the priorities so I would start by saying any pressure needs to be issue specific. Secondly there are not enough of us on any particular issue, we are not the stomp and screech type, and we are actively hated by the left wing so where would the pressure come from?
/r/MensRights27/01/26 11:57 AM
1

will check that out. yes they always twist the discussion!
/r/MensRights27/01/26 04:41 AM
24

welcome to fight club you have to get the middle finger mentality. we will exist and make the most of our lives in spite of their fuckery.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 02:21 AM
12

I predict a day is coming when the act of claiming misandry will be labeled as itself misogynist, because it will stated that women cannot be such. It's already been done with race and accepted by progressives.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 05:05 PM
24

I did a topic just like this a while ago and the mods said it wasn't relevant to men's rights. I think it is, it demonstrates that there will never be such a thing as equality of gender in all aspects of life and honestly I don't think it even should be so as we are different animals to begin with. Equality under the law folks, that's what we want. This stuff is noise you can ignore by not getting married, but yes it is an absolute load of crap. This shit is woven into our society so deep by now…
/r/MensRights26/01/26 04:39 PM
2

Anytime you disagree with a feminist they call it abuse, they even say silence is violence. The fundamental problem is that for too long many men have supported their version of reality and so now the newer generations believe it like religion. The only rational option is to check out as having discussions isnt an option. They will also say ignoring them and voting against their agenda abuse, so you have to be ready to actively defend yourself from the folks in jackboots.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 04:58 PM
1

i can cry whenever I want, someone is stopping you?
/r/MensRights25/01/26 04:41 AM
2

and so what, dont get it
/r/MensRights25/01/26 01:27 AM
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Let's assume for the sake of argument that the door was open. The very idea that she thinks some naked guy passed out on the couch makes her a victim is so obviously obnoxious, yet she makes this video and would get support from feminazis on that. She is a psychotic asshole, her supporters are psychotic assholes, you will never be able to have any discussion or compromise with them. So the question is what to do about that.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 05:21 PM
4

what do you mean by violation of my right to cry?
/r/MensRights24/01/26 05:14 PM
5

My parents never told me to get married, my uncle warned me not to. Where does this 'told us to get married' come from? I call BS on that as I have never heard it.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 10:48 AM
11

There are not enough of us and there are too many left wingers who will still vote for feminist agendas anyway. The best you can hope for is to understand the problem and then try to adapt. Change is too late as western civ will be taken over by hoards of third worlders who hate you even more than progressives do. Live for yourself and make the best of it by listening to the mistakes we make and dont repeat them.
/r/MensRights23/01/26 12:46 AM
3

There has got to be a civil suit in there somewhere
/r/MensRights21/01/26 05:08 PM
53

and the virtue signaling progressive men join in and pile on the men
/r/MensRights21/01/26 04:43 PM
3

Republicans are my meat shield against the feminists. Almost none of those points are compulsory by law, while progressives are busy making harmful rulebooks. You don't like being 'pushed' to be a certain kind of guy? ok then don't do it, big deal. Better than being actively hated and discriminated against
/r/MensRights19/01/26 12:39 PM
0

Meritocracy is a property of the entire business marketplace, NOT one company and its hiring processes. You keep insisting on logical fallacy in order to maintain your argument. If one company hires only women, then another can hire only men and so let them compete. That would be fine because the men will outcompete the majority of the time. Then however people like you will come along and say we need government to change things and make them 'fair'. Pre DEI economics was libertarian because fre…
/r/MensRights19/01/26 12:24 PM
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Meritocracy can only happen if employers are free to hire who they want and not have to listen to what you want. Your argument here is a stupid joke, men did fantastic before DEI, in fact that is why DEI was invented because women saw men as doing better. Look man you just are not very smart. My saying that you can join one of the 30 million self employed people, or work at any one of the 6 million businesses that hire in the US is NOT justifying men 'being barred' from jobs. I said if someone d…
/r/MensRights19/01/26 11:56 AM
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Strawman. All workers have equal rights once hired and not hiring you is not treating you like a second class citizen when you can start your own company or work for someone else. Freedom IS the answer, merit is the only fair way to hire people and companies that do not hire on merit will eventually die so it is self-correcting. That's how the real world works, not your made up fairy tale world.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 11:35 AM
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I think corporations should hire who they damn well please because those who only hire women will die fast.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 11:05 AM
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Logical fallacy there. DEI by its very definition is anti meritocracy, so being a competitive option is not good enough.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 11:04 AM
1

registering is not the same as being drafted, quit changing my pount
/r/MensRights17/01/26 02:51 AM
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That is just the registration part, stop the chicken little shit
/r/MensRights16/01/26 04:36 PM
1

Pretty sure the constitution does not stop the draft, but ok lets abolish it. guess what? zero change in the current everyday lives of young men
/r/MensRights16/01/26 04:36 PM
-1

'might' ... and we might get hit by an asteroid or wandering black hole, I hate it when you guys try and mix in shit that does not matter with all the real everyday problems we have to face as it dilutes the effort here.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 04:34 PM
-2

unfair perhaps but if any 18-30 year old actually has let it affect their life then they need therapy.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 04:31 PM
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Selective Service? come on man, we have enough real problems. There has not been a draft in over 50 years and there won't be one unless we go to war with China and even in that case I doubt it.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 08:53 AM
4

lol, yeah, its why I am undatable now
/r/MensRights14/01/26 01:25 AM
35

AI is coming along just in time. Having spent a career in tech only to see a bunch of idiots in reddit say meritoctacy is somehow immoral means we are about to get our ass kicked by China anyway. Progressives actually think we are all the same snd they dont give a crap about producing anything, only taking and redistributing to themselves. Self loathing white men think they get some sort of status from their virtue signaling.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 03:53 AM
18

I feel terrible for young men now. If I had to start over I would go into a field that women don't dominate like engineering or the trades, then keep my head down and work like crazy. You can get screwed by male bosses too so you gotta be ready to move on. Always have a plan B, don't get married, and live small so you can save and invest for your financial freedom because being someone's bitch really sucks once you get past 45 or so.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 04:54 PM
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It is like a lot of things, you gotta think in terms of probabilities. Very few marriages are worth it, maybe 1 in 10. Of course every guy getting married thinks he will be in that one in 10. Of the 5 in 10 who get divorced, 2 of them will have their lives utterly ruined. 3 will survive ok but scarred like me. 1 of the 5 remaining married guys will be in a living hell unable to escape. 3 in 5 will be just ok but not happy and thinking life should have been better. Not scientific but trust me it …
/r/MensRights08/01/26 09:22 PM
1

It's a dumb exercise in labeling anyway. Like socialism there is no consistent definition because trying to create a handy dandy definition that encompasses all the complexities of a complete government really is impossible and results in inconsistencies. Several examples for instance- nazis called themselves national socialists, the strict example of fascism is only Mussolini's Italy. For example Mussolini had a pro-fascist Jewish wife, so clearly true fascism has nothing to do with race or Jew…
/r/MensRights08/01/26 12:16 PM
1

and nobody will mention Islam, sad
/r/MensRights08/01/26 03:35 AM
1

One line definition? I am far more nuanced than that, one liners are for intellectually lazy people but I will give you this. Anything left wing is when the govt points a gun at your head and tells you how things are going to be. Right wing is protection from that and individual liberty. You dragged in Trump, irrelevant to this. Social democracies are simply tyrany of the majority. We have seen how they fuck mens rights over in western europe. Social safety nets are only if you do as they say, a…
/r/MensRights07/01/26 01:06 AM
4

Wrong. The right wing that is operative here in the US wants equality under the law, not state enforced equality of outcomes like the progressives/communists want. The American right wing is about liberty and freedom from government, not subordination to it. The American left wants us subservient to their goals which is executed with state power enforced at government gunpoint exactly like nazi Germany wanted. The American right favors individual freedom over state power and control, less govern…
/r/MensRights06/01/26 08:41 PM
11

Which side of the spectrum wants to have social media monitored and punished if I offend them? who says words are equal to violence? The EU digital services act has hate speech laws. Is there any american right wing proposal? We are all too well aware of how a woman can ruin your life with accusation alone, and even if you are completely exonerated the stain remains. This is supported by the democratic party and their 'believe all women' mantra. OK then, please provide the equivalent republican …
/r/MensRights06/01/26 07:24 PM
3

To a point, however when one party is really defining themselves with gender politics it becomes hard to ignore. Yes. we should make a list of all the actual policies, agendas, and actions and compare. My point with most of it is that the left wing agenda is being implemented in everyday life such as university life and MeToo while right wing memes like 'be a good man' thing are easy to ignore.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 07:08 PM
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The laws the progressives want such as free speech restrictions, lack of due process, automatic gender discrimiation in family court, DEI quotas, etc. are real and they target me. Do you deny that? I am proposing no such legal analogy against other groups so stop with the crap I am the same as them. I am an atheist, and more libertarian than anything than anything else, your pigeon holing failed.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 06:22 PM
3

I likely know more than you do, have studied it. Two groups can fight and have very similiar ideologies, if you dont understand that then you really dont know much at at. Adolph Hitler actually said his socialism was different than Stalins, does not make it right wing.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 05:34 PM
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Had this discussion many times, no it isn't the same, I feel zero actual consequences from the right when the lefts actions hit us in face every day. Fascism is left wing anyway in how it operates so don't try that one.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 04:51 PM
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The left is almost defined by gender and race identity politics which requires that men, especially white men, be the needed target of their hate as their source of political power. Add in the move towards communist style dictatorship type control and you have something that cannot be bargained with, only countered.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 02:58 PM
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Here in Ohio there is always a loophole that allows the judge to do what they want, like throw out a prenup. Generally they dont, but you cannot be guaranteed anything in advance. Aside from the risk, what exactly is the return? a little free sex alone isn't worth it
/r/MensRights05/01/26 04:07 PM
5

I am tall, its not been a noticeable advantage for me as dating still sucks
/r/MensRights31/12/25 03:45 PM
6

The birth rate crisis is real but porn isnt the cause, its more like a symptom. Any pushback against porn is a waste of time. I dont know if I would call it misandry as it seems like some people are jealous of others sexuality. My porn viewing went to 0 when I found out how to live it instead.
/r/MensRights29/12/25 12:38 PM
1

I am divorced.
/r/MensRights25/12/25 05:24 PM
4

No idea where you get that. I have always seen it used to justify unequal sacrifice and giving in the the wife's whims to avoid conflict. Contrary to what you say, most of the advice out there if she cheats is to get a divorce.
/r/MensRights25/12/25 04:43 PM
2

Lots of unrelated rabbit holes there. The tradcons in my state are pushing for paternity testing which is hardly anti men. Also nobody is seriously pushing religion in schools legislatively even if they talk it, and trans folks have the same rights as me so not seeing any big deal with that. Progressives do not want me to live as I see fit, they want me to live as they see fit. Progressives want my money and freedom so I can goosestep to their rules in their socialist paradise. Free speech restr…
/r/MensRights22/12/25 05:55 PM
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Everyone pushes their point of view. You may not like the tradcon point of view but they are not trying to create laws like the democrats to force their point of view. Secondly the rhetoric from progressives is downright hateful towards men which is not the case fron conservatives. Thirdly, I was not aware 'we' had an official statement of values that apparently the OP is guardian of. Please supply that link as I nay not agree with all and so I would like to know if I am an outsider.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 03:43 PM
13

It is not just the unfair laws, it is that the majority of women now think that manipulating, lying, and trickery are morally justified. Progreesives have long taught that men are trash who deserve this shit, and since so many women buy it then its almost like every relationship is russian roullette. I am sorry your brother. This world today is so hostile and as I watch men and women I cant help but feel for all the poor SOBs being led to slaughter. I was one too.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:23 PM
1

I know women can lie, that is a given. That particular case involved a boyfriend who started acting like a father by paying and yes is absolutely sucks and is wrong that the law says that's make him on the hook. That's a little different than some woman gets pregnant and before you can do anything names you the father. It's all shitty I agree, my point is that without paternity testing some idiot getting pregnant she could name you the father even if you never had sex with her. There would be no…
/r/MensRights14/12/25 09:25 PM
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I don't think so, without a paternity test it makes no sense and would open up the woman to claim just about anybody is the father. That would open the door to the insane world where even if you didn't have sex she could finger you. My states Republicans are pushing for unwed men having the right to know with paternity testing automatically offered at birth. ‘Right to Know Act’ would require hospitals to offer paternity testing to unwed couples | NBC4 WCMH-TV If you make a baby, expect to pay, s…
/r/MensRights14/12/25 06:53 PM
12

off topic but when I was falsely accused I am not sure any support group in the world could have helped me. She had attempted to really fuck me over, and the only way out was through my own determination to live past it. Maybe I am wrong but my thinking at the time would have been what is the use of support once it enters the legal system, its all up to courts and attorneys at that point. I still have mild involuntary panics when I think about how it could have gotten really bad and how life is …
/r/MensRights13/12/25 05:08 PM
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They don't want there to be any legitimate male issues. Today's left wing politics is the great oppression contest between identity groups and there is no way they will tolerate straight white men having any issues whatsoever. Other male race and sex orientations are allowed somewhat but you gotta know your place in the oppression hierarchy. So yeah they will hijack as that is what they are all about. We must try and help the poor youngsters who are getting their souls crushed by the progressive…
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:45 PM
17

I would have finished that year of school and then transferred out of town. Why hang around people treating you that way? Leave and bury yourself in school and/or work.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 12:47 PM
21

The grass is not greener, Asian women are notorious for their cold businesslike approach
/r/MensRights12/12/25 04:10 PM
10

He said "The reality of being a man is that we have to take care of ourselves and to do that requires some level of training and investment. Without it, we're in a cycle of poverty and having a kid too early as a man can prevent said accumulation of assets. So while I may not want a kid at 25, I may want at 35." Which means wait to have kids because you need to take care of yourself first. You claimed it says the opposite.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:01 PM
12

He makes sense, you seem to be arguing that making babies at 18 is a good idea.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:52 PM
113

I can only say that not risking it in the first place is the only way to be in control.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 08:06 AM
1

That is troubling to say the least, its like watching men get roasted alive and hoping it wont make it across the border.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:02 PM
2

So I cannot criticize women politicians in Mexico?
/r/MensRights11/12/25 02:56 PM
2

what do you mean by future 4th wave?
/r/MensRights11/12/25 02:42 PM
10

Being an oversexed sugar daddy used to make me feel bad until I thought about how almost none of those young women would be a good partner for anybody trying to make a life. I am sexless now and its fine, there are much worse things in life. The problem is you gotta know what you are missing to be able to get to the state where you don't care and I don't know how to solve that.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 04:14 PM
1

I can see that some women might not like it if I did, but none of the men in my life would stop being there I am pretty sure. The thing is I have been through so much I don't cry anymore. I expect women to keep being women so there is no shock anymore if I wanted to get into some sort of relationship. I would however be destroyed by things happening to my family, maybe I would cry or maybe drink myself to sleep, dunno.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 04:11 PM
1

Arrogant foreigner finds of that US stats are part of the universe
/r/MensRights08/12/25 03:30 PM
4

Family court is biased against you so is criminal court is as well. As a false accusation survivor I can tell you that I always thought that no, never me, that happens to other people. Sure the chances are low so go ahead and roll that dice if you want. Marriage/cohabitation life outcomes in my observations. Very happily together- 5%, together and not blissful but happy enough to chug on- 20%, together not really happy but they feel stuck in it, if they could do it over again they would not - 25…
/r/MensRights08/12/25 03:13 PM
1

Nope. Mine was called an incident report and you will never find it in any database. In my state police participation is voluntary
/r/MensRights08/12/25 02:54 PM
1

Cops doing investigations of accusations but then finding no reasonable suspicion are not in the crime stats.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 01:29 PM
9

'bitch' and 'hell hath no fury' arose for a reason
/r/MensRights07/12/25 10:21 PM
3

This is truly sad. When you say you lost everything, what did you lose and how?
/r/MensRights07/12/25 10:04 PM
1

Because any other life other than the one I actually lived is unknowable speculation, and I have had 0 problems in this life due to circumcision. Dont even try with some sort of 'what if' crap, you can't prove a damn thing and its stupid. There is no other 'frame of reference'.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 03:09 PM
2

downvoted for not having personal issues, there is something wrong with you people
/r/MensRights07/12/25 02:03 PM
0

if sarcasm, lol, but if not, incedibly stupid
/r/MensRights07/12/25 02:01 PM
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It has not affected me in any meaningful way
/r/MensRights05/12/25 11:21 AM
7

same on reddit, at least you can say it here
/r/MensRights04/12/25 10:33 PM
2

YOU started it! this is exactly my point that I had with AI. I nail you on your own illogic then you just try and ad hominem and act like you are above it.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:46 PM
1

It's an information sorting machine and synthesizer, and no I am looking for 'support' as I am looking at AI itself. When an information sorting machine deliberately ignores contradictory information and cherry picks the data that supports its foregone conclusion then it was programmed with the opinion of the trainers. The entire point of AI is that it is more than a fucking robot.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:44 PM
3

I didnt tell it any facts, i pointed out it ignored widely known facts in favor of feminist propaganda. It also did not disagree, your abilitly to read is now in question. I can find some language help sites if you need it. your vile and disgusting use of the word incel says more about you than me
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:25 PM
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It did not assimilate, it lied on a fact and I caught it. One does not 'assimilate' to empirical reality. Your inability to reason rigorously on that really should make YOU reflect on just about everything. oh and my body count is likely far higher than yours so the use of the word incel is another example of why people like you should not be severly censored as you lack the ability to reason properly
/r/MensRights28/11/25 03:51 PM
1

When it has contradictory evidence it hides some in favor of the biased conclusion. Then when called out it claims it to be a mistake 'overgeneralization based on a small scale study'. It had to be trained to lie like that, interesting.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 03:28 PM
1

Good! that needs to happen millions of times more before any change is going to happen.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 03:05 PM
5

AI clearly did distort its point but won't admit it, interesting. I felt like I was talking to a certain ex of mine.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 02:51 PM
15

Not all women of course but enough to keep me away.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 01:48 PM
6

I understand your points and you seem reasonable but I am not gathering the strict division of roles thing as something really strong here in this sub. Far stronger is simply abandoning the idea the idea of marriage and family altogether since the law makes it far too risky. Speaking for myself I am happy to focus on the legal aspects of this problem such as lack of due process, alimony, etc. and as far as the hate rhetoric from Universities I am for shutting off all public funding for anybody w…
/r/MensRights27/11/25 03:14 PM
9

In a marriage or relationship it is natural to lose interest in sex sometimes, for lots of reasons. That pisses some women off and they call it emotional abuse. So yes you can catch it both ways.
/r/MensRights27/11/25 02:12 PM
2

lol!
/r/MensRights27/11/25 12:40 AM
71

Sex is the ultimate female control tool. You can be demonized both for wanting too much or too little. We have talked about this a lot and I have 3 suggestions: 1) learn to live without and check out of the game, 2) buy it, or 3) be Henry Cavill and you will get all you want from an endless line of women waiting at your door.
/r/MensRights26/11/25 10:01 PM
2

First of all this has nothing to do with men's rights. Secondly you are not following the converstsation where I was responding to another poster that said the right-wing needs you to grinding away to treat you right (so I take you agree then that the right-wing is treating everyone who grinds away properly). Third you had to throw in the usual BS progressive propaganda for some reason. So you must also then believe the feminists that men have 'privilege' well you know where to shove it.
/r/MensRights25/11/25 03:39 PM
1

Some Christian portion of the right wing may say this stuff, so don't be a Christian like me and bingo, all fixed. The fact is there are no right-wing laws that actively discriminate against me and you. Lots of people define what a man's role is and so what, I am ana adult and don't need to be 'treated' in any fashion other than to be treated equal in the eyes of the law and they do that. The left won't do that all, they want men actively put down by the government.
/r/MensRights25/11/25 03:32 PM
1

They don't care if you don't want to work, what the hell are you talking about about? I chose to grind away and become a millionaire myself, and people like you seem to hate that. Working = grinding, are you lazy or what? so yes I was a sucker who actually worked really hard and got ahead. the right leaves me alone to do that, the left hates me for that as well as being a white man.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 08:56 PM
1

The right has never treated me like shit, the left has. Progressives don't want votes? Berni Sanders and AOC don't want votes? make some sense please. Feminists are progressives BTW
/r/MensRights24/11/25 06:25 PM
2

No they are not the same. Progressives say we are the oppressive patriarchy and a problem that needs to be proactively kept down while there is no such rhetoric or feelings on the right. I know it bothers you guys on the left but it's true and I would much rather have someone not care than actively hate me.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 04:59 PM
37

It bothers me that we live in a society where a young women thinks this is somehow ok and is encouraged by all the man hating today. Great she is arrested but I gotta question the environment that made it happen.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 11:38 PM
27

Why do you need a role defined by society? The political left openly hates us so why bother fitting in? Define your own life. Purpose and meaning are where you find them and life is what you make of it.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 05:42 PM
4

Put in effort = 'emotional labor' and my experience is that in most cases a mans effort is hardly ever score kept as equal to the womans effort. Modern women are programmed by each other to think that they always win the emotional labor score card. I spent a lot of my life getting shafted, in fact almost all my sacrifices and compromises were either ignored or negated by something the woman deemed as a slight to her feelings.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 12:22 PM
1

Not sure but I will take your word on that. Dating is a minefield and yes now all I want is to get laid but its not worth the time, money and effort. Sugar dating really changed my life, got exactly what I wanted but the funny thing is even that gets old. Being able to live a free single life opened my eyes to what a crock modern marriage is.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 10:18 PM
2

I am tall, athletic, had both money and my hair but traditional dating still sucked. I doubt being black would be some sort of advantage.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 08:43 PM
1

Feminists lie and manipulate? shocker. But let's say it's true, then so what. I used to seek women as did most of us because it takes direct experience with getting burned sometimes.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:52 PM
2

the point is do not date
/r/MensRights17/11/25 01:01 AM
4

dont do well with sarcasm, feminists do the same to me, sorry and you win
/r/MensRights16/11/25 10:05 PM
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are you trying to type like a child?
/r/MensRights16/11/25 06:11 PM
8

It is articles like this that is the reason I am done with women. Why even address this fuckery?
/r/MensRights16/11/25 04:22 PM
2

I want to call on all women to stop selling sex online, let us cure this!
/r/MensRights10/11/25 09:55 PM
9

The reason that this huge legal ass reaming continues is that men marry anyway and 'progressive' men support this shit. Its like in war soldiers always think that they are the ones who will beat the odds.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 09:51 PM
3

They and you assume shit based on self-fulfilling methodology. You cannot possibly know if unreported rape is really rape.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 04:41 PM
0

good point, I worded it badly
/r/MensRights28/07/25 04:39 PM
6

the Rainn link does not say that, it assumes all accused are guilty when they make your conclusion. ok, say it is less than 50%. Nobody here is wanting real perps to walk, nobody. Feminists want all accused to burn, and the fact is that accusations alone are enough to ruin lives. ANY percentage of this is unacceptable, it flies in the face of what is fair and reasonable
/r/MensRights28/07/25 04:34 PM
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Holy shitty logic.... Huge question begging, the number of perps used assumes they are all guilty, and assumes all reports are true. Get some critical thinking skills
/r/MensRights28/07/25 04:19 PM
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It is not an easy thing to get a number on or even estimate. You are more likely to be accused of assault or DV than flat out rape In my case there is no entry into official stats, I was completely cleared and exactly nothing happened to my ex. After a discussion with a police officer friend I found out that accusations are pretty common and there are almost never consequences for liars. The cops classify allegations into things like false, baseless, inconclusive, etc. and furthermore in their i…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 03:36 PM
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There is no data to look up on false accusations and the impacts on men's lives. Either produce it or admit you are lying.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:48 PM
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The trial is simply an excuse for them vent out their pre-existing hate. Any accusation will do as in their minds we are all guilty scum. I know what vile creatures they are, my question is how the hell have they obtained so much power?
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:26 PM
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There is no data for folks like the OP or me, so either admit you lied or produce this data
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:15 PM
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No context here, I do not know what the hell happened. As typical though in a rant she first says 'no more dates' then proceeds to list new standards for a date.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 04:50 PM
1

They figure they can make money with the homes is all, and DEI agendas for folks like those are just cynical attempts of how to get more money. The folks they paid were willing actors who would do their shit anyway and not puppets. I guess I would agree that funding feminists is sort of pulling strings but I would bet money they have some sort of financial goal in mind.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:29 PM
-1

Its not a social agenda
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:18 PM
1

In marriage yes, so your original point was BS
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:16 PM
1

Absolutely spot on. Do not engage in this unfair contract
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:15 PM
3

which also says wives produce 37% of family income, way to refute yourself
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:15 PM
2

They cannot wear you down if you don't need their acceptance or approval.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:01 PM
2

Ideologioes and religion will never agree or disappear as it appears to be rooted in some deep need. No I don't think there is some puppet master, I think it is human nature.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 02:57 PM
1

These 'kind' of explanations? There is no kind of explanation here as either you either openly state the exact nature of what you are thinking or it looks like a hidden agenda. We live in a world where most universities are openly hostile towards us and would try and censor everything we say if not try and ruin our lives. Universities are like feminist churches so you have a lot of work to do before you can say you are 'open minded' and your refusal to do so in the open says something to me. Our…
/r/MensRights27/07/25 02:47 PM
2

Right, anybody can say and do right when things are good, character is about when life is shit. To be fair a lot of men dont hold up either.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 06:31 PM
3

of course it does, divorce stats show second and third marriages have higher divorce rates and since women initiate most divorces you can also take that as a proxy for high body count I became high body count later in life as a sugar daddy. Did it change me? absolutely it did, do women judge me for it? of course they do, lots and lots of questions about it if anything ever gets serious. It has removed sex as a reason for me to form any LTR unless it is with a hot 25 year old, so with sex gone as…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 05:23 PM
0

So if you know that she screwed all your friends very casually it would not matter? If you were a rapist then she should look past that if you say do? I have a past and I should be judged for it. My past defines me now as my past experiences and how I reacted to them have shaped me. For example I now judge women very differently than I used to and that is a good thing. Good judgement about people is how you chose friends, a place to work, and most of all a wife. I had shitty judgement previously…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 04:10 PM
5

bodycount can certainly be connected to character, wth are you talking about? So you would be fine with some woman who fucks everybody in her field of vision because that has nothing to do with her character? come on
/r/MensRights26/07/25 03:23 PM
5

and putting up with their shit is the most difficult emotional work anyway
/r/MensRights23/07/25 04:03 PM
5

It is one of the most assine concepts ever invented to favor women, that and she 'earns' half of what you make while you work and she does not.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 03:29 PM
-3

Alimony is not child support, they are completely separate legally. You can be made to pay child support if you are not married to the mother and you can pay alimony to ex wives who you had no children with.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 02:51 PM
13

Western progressives are feminists. The word progressive is in itself dishonest as it self defines their policy as "progress".
/r/MensRights23/07/25 09:00 AM
2

You need to tell evrrybody, not just me. You should also at least say what university to give it credibility. This could be a joke or something worse. This type of research is typically manipulated to provide foregone conclusions so you will have to say more before I am comfortable.
/r/MensRights19/07/25 09:40 PM
2

I am suspicious of any university 'research'. You would need to state who you are, your biases and your agenda. Very experienced researcher myself.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 11:03 PM
5

sex did not arise from culture, it arose millions of years ago from evolution and explains the sex drive and a lot of mens behavior and that is the point I was making in response to the OP We are not able to will ourselves free of the sex drive, that a really dumb idea. Sure you can make choices but you are asking why cant all men just basically ignore sex which is nonsense. I dont serve anybody, I have probably the most idependant viewpoint in here, so save your sermon for someone who gives a s…
/r/MensRights10/07/25 10:52 PM
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lazy post referencing a discredited ecominic theory over 100 years old, look up modern economics
/r/MensRights10/07/25 10:28 PM
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We dont act outside of sex, we live our lives with it there all The time. Men have lived with for centuries so what are you actually saying?
/r/MensRights10/07/25 10:26 PM
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I am being accurate, sorry if that offends you but the fact is a good attitude about life has nothing to do with evolution which is a very specific biological process. I am glad you try and control your instincts, I am talking about why the instinct even exists.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 08:57 PM
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It is realistic and based on science. You cannot 'watch' evolution which is gradual dna change over generations, and it is impoosible to alter your own dna within your existence. Working towards what exactly? no sex? guess what then your dna dies. Nope, what we are witnessing is de evolution where the welfare state enables the ladies to breed just like animals. Natural selection has been removed from humanity, we are getting dumber.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 08:46 PM
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Nature does not care about your morals
/r/MensRights10/07/25 08:34 PM
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We are apes, evolution does not work over the time scale of the few hundred years that modern society has developed. Maybe in 50,000 years we will evolve into a new animal but we are the same DNA that roamed the earth 5000 years ago, so no sex it mostly that old instinct of survival and reproduction.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 08:33 PM
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Well since you won't explain anything then I will. I do not serve rich men, they serve me. For example I own nvidia stock and do not work. Jensen Huang, the CEO, works his ass off and that drives the stock up, and then I made money off that as an investor. 75% of his employees are millionaires, they actually work for him but they get paid well for it and probably have more than me. If you work for somebody else, please explain what the hell difference it makes how rich your boss is. Every worker…
/r/MensRights10/07/25 08:12 PM
0

It is instinct, males of many species fight for breeding rights.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 08:06 PM
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How am I serving rich men?
/r/MensRights10/07/25 07:32 PM
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Ignoring instinct and genetics is what is short sighted here and blaming 'society' is a cop out. I agree that I cannot chose to not need sex but that doesn't have a damn thing to do with society. However, I can choose what to do about it, just as I can chose how to react to some random asshole. Most of the problems talked about in here revolve around our sexual instincts and the social politics that women have put into play. The very fact that we recognize the role of toxic feminism means that m…
/r/MensRights10/07/25 12:45 PM
0

Then answer my question to his dumb dogma, unless all you have is an empty drive by
/r/MensRights10/07/25 11:01 AM
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I do have a free will and choices I make every day. So who do you claim is pulling my strings?
/r/MensRights09/07/25 10:00 PM
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Be careful, every woman knows they can ruin a man's life with an accusation
/r/MensRights09/07/25 04:30 PM
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Its hard for me to read this stuff as I was in that hell. All I can tell you is that I crawled out of that hole in life and you can too. A lot of us keep saying how unfair family court is but unfortunately we do not have critical mass of men to do anything about it other than avoid marriage altogether.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 04:06 PM
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90% of the time when I thought about crap like this, she was actually playing games with me too, so I stopped ever feeling bad about these types of things. This is an odd topic in men's rights btw. Bottom line there are only choices and only you can make the call and you seem aware of all the risks. If you end it, then lie since the whole thing started as a game. Do not get her angry however as then she might dream up something nasty like a false SA charge. A sympathetic lie like I lost my job a…
/r/MensRights09/07/25 03:05 PM
2

If you let people define culture by feelings instead of statistical reality then you get a bullshit stew of chaos. For example if one rape occurred on a campus and then there was suddenly a rape culture 'exists' then it shows that people are taking anecdotes to define culture. Big example was George Floyd. Academics showed statistically there was no systematic bias, didnt matter, all that mattered was feelings. I hate that shit.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 11:13 PM
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thanks, I only deal in numbers and not feelings a lot to digest there, cant do it tonight
/r/MensRights07/07/25 11:01 PM
3

How many convictions, estimated rapes per 100000, accusations, false accusationns, etc. Any idiot can claim a 'culture' of something, only numbers reveal a reality.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 09:52 PM
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I don't think they are clever at all, I think they simply repeat their fallacy enough that we accept it. Applying their logic to men attacking men then I would actually fear reporting a real assault. Bullshit, it's just that men do not go around filing false assault reports. Women however use reputation destruction as a weapon because to women their feelings matter over facts so the lie is justified in their minds. They even call it a 'noble lie' that supports their cause. Does Most Domestic Vio…
/r/MensRights07/07/25 06:41 PM
11

Watch the violence in the WNBA if you think females are all nurture.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 06:18 PM
5

It can destroy a lot more than just honor
/r/MensRights07/07/25 06:03 PM
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Not going to accept cookies so can't DL article. The first issue I would have is I need a numerical definition of rape culture in order to discuss it.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 05:45 PM
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I feel like the only people our message is for are the male enablers, female feminists are not people who care about reason.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 02:46 PM
7

I would quit and ask for a refund of my prorated fees since they changed the contract.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 11:24 AM
3

Ever been in Planet Fitness? They have this vibe they are trying to create where they do not want serious athletes. Ostensibly in the name of being inclusive to folks who are so mentally deranged that they are intimidated or pissed by people grunting lifting heavy weights.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 11:06 AM
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None in my area but if mine suddenly did that I would ask for a cut in fees since my access is restricted.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 10:57 AM
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For the first few dates they hide all that and put you first, typically later you find out you rank somewhere behind her dog.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 06:33 AM
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Dating is as far as I would go. Cohabitating and marriage will make you miserable and has a very high failure rate. They are ok for a few dates if you can handle the never ending babysitter issues. I like that their maturity is better even though their judgement sucks sometimes. Mens rights is suddenly a dating sub it seems.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 06:14 AM
9

Ok but these children do things that ruin our lives so I find it hard to forgive that. Ignore yes, forgive no
/r/MensRights06/07/25 05:11 PM
58

White progressives have this utterly dumb idea that once the hated western civ is destroyed then all these illegals will obvious create their sociaist utopia.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 12:24 PM
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Blame older left wing men for siding with feminists.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 11:29 PM
4

Dude is going to have to hire security
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:34 PM
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what are you talking about? you didn't refute a damn thing, just some BS about culture
/r/MensRights03/07/25 01:43 PM
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Look at that look on her face, she would have got her half unless some prettier woman elbows in suddenly.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 12:50 PM
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Birth control, the internet (men & women can access hundreds of sexual partners), and women now making money (they don't need resources) more means the western model is dying. The ancient harem model will rise again in the west or we simply die out and be replaced by the third world hoards.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 12:28 PM
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The men earning more dynamic is changing, single women now earn more in many metro areas. Now they will have the money too. This idea of checking out by not working to earn money for yourself is going to backfire.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 12:09 PM
1

I agree with half the increase in equity thing, unless a prenup avoids it, however who actually gets to keep the house would be in question if he puts her name on it. Someone I know lost his home that he paid off before marriage because he was dumb enough to add her name to the title. So it would be prudent to get an appraisal right before marriage and keep it safe somewhere.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 12:41 PM
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Feminism is social Marxism with them in charge of course, and with most of the political support from feminism is going to the socialists so I think your point has no merit.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 04:38 PM
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High asset women want higher asset men in general, and if you care about looks the choices get near zero, assuming they want you.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 03:05 PM
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The subtle ways that this script has been flipped is really something given that we buy into it. So with regard to putting her name on the house you bought, yes they make an issue out of 'trust'. Trust would be trusting that you will not get divorced and your sole name on the house is meaningless because in death it would be hers anyway unless there is a prior arrangement. Adding her name only means something in divorce court so it would be her thinking ahead to divorce by asking for it, demonst…
/r/MensRights01/07/25 10:57 AM
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When I talk to married men they almost all recognize this 'keep the wife happy' crap is a huge burden but are too deep in the shit to do anything about it. Fear of change and loss in life is as powerful as the sex drive that got us into this mess in the first place. Alone with me about 80% of married guys express admiration of my freedom. You demonstrate there is a breaking point, good for you. Nice book!
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:39 PM
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I had an awful divorce followed by an amicable breakup of a relationship headed for co habitation. It took a while to understand that the typical romantic relationship almost always requires more sacrifice from the man. After I started observing closely all the marriages around me I realized it wasnt just me. All day everyday most comprise is done by men and most of the 'compromise' done by women is something they invented as an issue so they could play out their dramatic manipulation. Masters a…
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:57 AM
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A paid off home is an asset and yes it will be a part of the settlement. I dont care what she said, once she gets with her attorney then half of that equity will likeky be on the table. Get an attorney, get a line of credit either through credit card or HELOC to pay them then ask that she help pay your attorney via reducing her side of the ledger. Sorry man, there is no magic escape here. You guys can greatly lower your costs by settling instead of litigating. Minor children are also a major con…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 12:33 AM
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You became disabled during marriage so she owes you a lot of alimony, take it and DO NOT get those 'but a real man doesn't do this' crap. She would absolutely destroy you if roles were reversed. Dont you guys have any assets to tap for cash?
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:58 PM
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Fucking stupid
/r/MensRights18/06/25 09:50 PM
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/r/MensRights14/06/25 01:27 PM
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Cue Hillary Clinton saying the real victim who suffered more was the ex wife
/r/MensRights14/06/25 11:39 AM
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I hope you make some ground on this. You are a better man than me as I also hate family court and family law however my response is to never get married again and run away as fast as possible. Wishing you the best outcome and if there is any consolation it is that kids grow up and usually sort things out as adults. Hang in there
/r/MensRights14/06/25 02:24 AM
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Other than pro sports, it is illegal to take pics or film in a locker room. I am not aware of women walking into mens locker rooms, never seen it myself.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 10:41 PM
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It is not unnatural to act different in different settings. When I worked for instance my work self was different than my weekend self. It had to be as I was a leader and leadership is partly acting withing certain standards. Someone once said, we have our self that the world sees, our self that only close friends get to see, and our secret self that only we know. It's fine to a point, as long as you are ok with each but it sounds like you ain't. Getting comfortable with yourself starts with imp…
/r/MensRights12/06/25 01:52 PM
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I always do what I want now because I don't have a woman that I have to compromise with.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 12:47 PM
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Dating is really simple, be Henry Cavill and you will get laid. Men should read this before marriage and LTR, then recalibrate yourself The Book
/r/MensRights11/06/25 01:32 PM
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Feminism has so polluted most women's minds that yes you are right, no matter how lopsided the financial and/or housework contributions are, men are still lazy pigs. I am convinced most women lie about their ex was based upon these situations just as I am sure there are some lazy men, but the exact situation will never be known. My ex (with no kids) cost me so bad it affected my retirement, and so she rode on the gravy train then got paid out after without doing a damn thing to help me and my li…
/r/MensRights11/06/25 01:21 PM
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Coming from broken homes, schools that oppress you, addictions to video games and drugs, lack of male mentorship
/r/MensRights10/06/25 09:26 PM
4

Dating has become pointless for the average guy. If you are a chad you will get laid no matter what. For the rest of us we compete against the harem model, only fans, sugar dating, etc.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 09:20 PM
5

right, even an average looking woman has 100 unread messages in her inbox
/r/MensRights10/06/25 09:14 PM
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We talked it over, I explained and apologized, didnt matter as it was drug up over and over. She had to be the victim. No I didnt cheat, nothing even close
/r/MensRights10/06/25 03:27 PM
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Kind of, but it's true, you can talk over and work out something with your wife but if she was 'hurt' by it emotionally then that is all that matters to her. She will drag it out over and over again to use against you whenever she wants to gain the emotional leverage in some disagreement.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 02:25 PM
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As a parent, absolutely fathers are beneficial to children.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 11:29 AM
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The democrats support the feminists and manhaters legislatively, so while they may not hate men they are very harmful to men
/r/MensRights10/06/25 11:13 AM
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Online dated way back and what a wasteland for most of us
/r/MensRights10/06/25 11:08 AM
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I know, that is why I emphasize the nature of this problem as much as I can. We are not dealing with reasonable people. The real problem is just how the hell did these ass holes get so much power and control.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 01:05 AM
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right thanks, so in spite of all that the women in the comments support her cause? par for the course, wonder if she walks
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:35 AM
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Maybe the guy was a dick, I dont know, what I do know is that women will always defend each other no matter how large an ass hole the woman may have been. So that dumbass never heard of divorce? cue the ladies saying 'well you dont understand how the abused feel trapped'
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:15 AM
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Right, when I used to do business travel I would iron my shirt and pants before I dressed in the morning as a quick afterthought no more difficult than brushing my teeth.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 08:12 PM
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If I do get that it doesn't bother me at all as I am comfortable with myself. If the conversation is worth having I will reiterate that I am talking statistically and not anecdotally even though there are usually plenty of anecdotes worth talking about. Politics is actually best left to reddit even though we are censored. Some folks get pretty emotional about it in person and I hate that.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 06:17 PM
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This household work shit is really annoying. I live alone and do it all the time, it's barely work at all, more like a light activity. Raising a kid is hard because it requires constant attention, I do accept that, but ironing? I can iron while watching TV and having a drink. It's the same type of crap as emotional labor when something trivial is blow up into an 'issue' whenever it suits them.
/r/MensRights09/06/25 05:49 PM
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I don't know how you have a relationship with anybody without communication, and always agreeing with someone else is impossible. No idea what your point is with this
/r/MensRights09/06/25 02:24 PM
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Reddit blows ass, they make it clear there are protected groups and we are not all equal, just like the nazis did. Go ahead reddit, add fuel to the fire
/r/MensRights09/06/25 03:03 AM
2

Thanks, I would like to help our young men and I hope my message that impressing the man in the mirror is the best journey in life is resonating.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 11:57 PM
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Yeah dont go to reddit for advice in an active legal situation
/r/MensRights07/06/25 07:05 PM
17

Changing yourself and doing things just for getting laid does get you occasionally laid but at the cost of self respect and respect from women as well. That being said, you should still care for yourself and your looks for your own sake. Get a dream, work your ass off for it, make and save a lot of money, have awesome adventures, etc. There is more to life and if you absolutely need to try sex then buy it. Sugarbaby sex was the best of my life.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 01:14 PM
2

Find your own dreams and passion then get after it
/r/MensRights05/06/25 07:03 PM
2

How to describe ambition to someone with none? first of all it's a feeling and not a reason, you simply want to be more and get more out of this existence than sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. You set a vision, a goal, something that excites you if you achieve it. You must accept that feelings follow actions in life, and the achievement process is not blissful but in fact it involves a lot of sacrifice. When Tom Brady wins a super bowl, do you think he wonders what makes that rewarding…
/r/MensRights05/06/25 04:02 PM
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MAGA war machine? then what the hell was it just 6 months ago? Your depth of delusion is incredible
/r/MensRights05/06/25 05:58 AM
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Well it is a complicated situation. I really want to help but then I see that we men enable this crap https://currently.att.yahoo.com/lifestyle/online-young-female-onlyfans-stars-111656997.html and then all I can do is my best to support but not hope for much. We cant fix anything unless we fix ourselves first, not a chance of that happening soon.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 05:52 AM
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lmao, what is your day job?
/r/MensRights05/06/25 05:44 AM
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As a 21 year old you need to climb some mountains first, you seem to deluded into some kind of fantasy about women. Live for yourself for now and forget the ladies. Be the best engineer on the planet, make some bucks and stash them away in a divorce proof fund, do an ultra marathon, build and fly your own chopper, etc. There are a million great things to do instead of wondering what in the hell your purpose is, jeez I thought that was for us old guys. The purpose of life is to live it, meaning i…
/r/MensRights04/06/25 09:58 PM
2

A filter changes nothing, I had weight and height filters for women when I did online dating, in fact it is saving a lot of wasted time for shorter men. Get the hell off tinder anyway and stop being like them when they say weight should not matter.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 03:01 PM
4

The downfall of western civ, after the feminists get done destroying the traditional people and culture what remains will be nothing any of you wants to live in. Figure out how to ride out your life and avoid women but vote against them at every turn and always speak out. Do not let the nazis silence you.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 02:48 PM
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I would have not even told her about it, the guy is a moron as you described.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 01:19 PM
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Family law is a terrible vortex of lies and anti-male bias that gets the best of us. I am glad you are fighting back and best wishes on that. I had 1,2,5,7,8,9,10 and I can only blame myself for being with that witch. The thing is I have seen some of these traits within multiple women, too many, so I am not ever trying it again. Hopefully most of you avoid this crap just be sure and enter marriage with your eyes open.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 11:54 AM
5

I was aware previously, thanks
/r/MensRights01/06/25 11:26 PM
0

My answer is that social security be changed such that your children pay you directly by law. Raising good productive kids is thus rewarded and I dont care about childless people as they had an entire life to themselves to save up for their own retirement.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 08:33 PM
3

ok, but then when your economy collapses due to no children and there is nobody to care for you when you are 75, then what? Inflation and/or lack or workers will kill your lifestyle anyway. Immigration only means your country will die into the new culture anyway, and they will likely do the same IF they are successful.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 02:06 PM
0

you gotta be kidding me, you really have no idea what life was like for a farmer in the US in 1825, go read something
/r/MensRights31/05/25 05:09 PM
1

no royalty and farmers did not have the same living conditions grueling by todays standards. just because grueling was normal does not negate the fact is was grueling
/r/MensRights31/05/25 05:02 PM
2

You would be a farmer with no plumbing, no electricity, medical care far away and you could exect to lose some of your kids while living to the age of 45. So that is normal compared to what today? Do you have any idea how hard farming was? Sorry it is called poverty for a reason, ppp is still appropriate.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 04:07 PM
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It is estimated that in 1820 94% of the world lived on $2 a day in 1985 level PPP. You can call that whatever you wish, I call it grueling.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 03:41 PM
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200 years ago the majority of people lived in grueling hardship, and most men were oppressed by either nature or other men. Feminists try and establish a fallacy that men were somehow always this elite class.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 01:56 PM
11

I bet some feminist will even argue that their men 'abandoned' them and they had no choice. Feminism is whatever they say it is at the time they say it. Honestly can't say anymore if I am willing to fight and die for this place.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:28 PM
1

good point, its a fine legal argument and I am not clear how it is better than simply pre-marital assets. In theory everything that was yours the day before marriage is still yours. Not sure how trusts change that.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 02:24 AM
1

huh, ok, I misunderstood it then
/r/MensRights29/05/25 10:08 PM
20

Pre nup of course, but the judge can do whatever they want. legal: make sure you segregate all your money pre marriage and make it clear in the pre-nup that such accounts are not marital property. You cannot prenup child support but you can prenup alimony and property division. legal but dishonest: 1) take out a lot of loans before marriage, put the money into your pre-marital assets accounts that are separated, but carry the debt into marriage. 2) Have a cash storage locker, dump cash in there …
/r/MensRights29/05/25 08:19 PM
42

Every young man in Australia should read and ponder this before entering any relationship. I have always maintained that likewise you should read family law in the US ahead of marriage, not once you are headed to court. Live in relationships are legal contracts folks, know what you are entering into ahead of time. What we can do as MRAs is simply post these laws in front of every man possible. If you read this and still want to pursue then you cannot later say how unfair it all is. The best resu…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 02:19 PM
155

Under investigation for making a claim? Is Tasmania run by nazis?
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:15 PM
2

I don't talk to women about such, it's only what I read elsewhere and yes it is called abuse when it is done purposely.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:43 PM
5

You don't exactly win divorce court, you only find out how bad you lost. The point is family court no longer cares about such crap, you can have affairs and the only thing that matters is how much money you spent on your mistress. No fault divorce is just that and she tried to make a point of this 'abuse' but nobody cared. Yes, men complain all the time about lack of sex but it's always 'too bad'. Society does not care if men don't get sex in marriage.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:18 PM
7

Yeah, a better woman. Too late for me but best of luck to the rest of you. Yup, my lack of drive was emotional abuse and she told me as much. Family court did not care about that one however.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:06 PM
32

Happy wife happy life WAS a real thing, we men were told that, watched our elders do it, and women were trained to expect it. There were a few men in my youth that warned me but like all young men I did it anyway. I gotta admit, a lot of Gen Z young men are saying 'fuck that' and I cannot find fault with it.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:54 AM
54

I lost interest in sex while married and she labeled that as emotional abuse. Ain't that funny? emotional abuse when a man does not want it, it's also abuse when you want too much. You cannot win so don't get married. Later I figured out it was due to a prescription (that was her idea) that lowered sex drive and then add in that I slowly started to not like her as a person due to such behavior amongst other crap.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:46 AM
5

no, just nuts, it was my other wife who cheated! yeah, I really sucked at women then somehow survived and now hoping to help other men. When I read your story it rings so true. Cheers to the guys like us who fight through it
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:21 PM
6

If she could think it, that made it true. Actual insane discussions defending myself from her delusions, but then she told the cops I tried to harm her. THEN in finally dawned on me, just why the hell am I with this person. Also then saw how women get a total pass with society and family court. The more humorous ones are things like my affairs she invented, the government coming for us, etc. We could swap stories!
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:59 PM
5

ha, I meant marriage was like being in jail! thats how bad it got
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:49 PM
3

Yeah anything I did was privilege and they can do it better, yet they never fucking do it.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 06:09 PM
11

Hey bro, I am a former inmate too! man we could have along night of drinking stories
/r/MensRights28/05/25 06:08 PM
38

As a white man, feminist and progressives say everything I have ever accomplished is due to privilege and it was off the backs off women and minorities. Never mind graduate engineer school and insane hours of work at companies, they say it was all easy and unearned because of privilege. What gets me is it mostly comes from asshats that have not done a damn thing useful with their lives.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 05:42 PM
32

Women are loving it, accusations are PROOF enough in their minds. I myself barely escaped at about the same age as Dan from a lying woman, but I sure do feel for those who do not. At 41 he can still salvage something like I did.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 05:33 PM
7

They cannot have any sort of logical discussion so they ban and can be alone with their hate. Banning and censorship is the tool of the left while we don't. They typically get crushed in any sort of real discussion and they cannot handle that, so rather than open their minds it is ban city.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 12:43 PM
8

No, it ain't, if you are afraid on an airplane with 100 other people around then YOU have a problem, not society
/r/MensRights27/05/25 03:31 PM
-4

5 isn't bad enough for an automatic no, I would cautiously spend a lot more time with her and see how you feel. Later if the nagging feeling won't go away then tell her and say goodbye. Overall you are going to struggle as the pool of marriageable women is shrinking rapidly, and of those that are they are going to have insane standards themselves.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:35 PM
31

Or previous marriage, or her having kids already
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:18 PM
1

A little context would help, exactly what about their past? How old are you?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:17 PM
9

she was not alone, stop misrepresenting
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:13 AM
9

Your fears are not my problem. Sure there are reasonable fears like being alone in a bad side of town, but on a damn airplane full of people and the guy has 3 glasses of wine? Her writing about it is misandric witch hunting.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:09 AM
4

I am not outraged anymore. We already know this is what they are so accept and adapt. Start by always pointing out toxic feminism anywhere you can so they know we understand their violent hate as I think they want the world to roll over for them. then keep up the pressure on the subjugated simp men and the judicial system.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 02:01 PM
4

*Divorce enters the chat* You can love and take care of each other without a legal contract that only has force in divorce court.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:39 AM
11

Great advice as external factors usually wont fix the weakness within. Start with things you have some control over like physical health and finances and get to work. Over time mental health should follow unless you have a real brain disorder. Expecting everyone else to provide you an emotional security blanket is the road to ruin.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:22 AM
-9

No expectations from strangers is an essential starting point, and family should be viewed as there as long as you keep your shit together. Are you short of cash or was it a mental only breakdown? I dont understand what you are asking from others. I am not 'extremely' successful nor am I a provider anymore. I have enough cash to support myself and maybe people respect that, I dunno but I also dont give a rip. It works for me and I dont need society. Family is good but again I dont lean on them.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:07 AM
1

yeah, skeptical of the whole story
/r/MensRights23/05/25 10:01 PM
8

Did she embellish beyond what actually happened? If not then this is not a false accusation, it is a case of dont fuck with this type of shit at work. I would never advise handing a woman at work such a pamplet as it is asking for trouble and is none of your business. My advice to men at work is to avoid all interaction with females at work if you can then be ready to fight if they lie. This does not resemble that.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 12:22 AM
1

You are really good at fallacy and strawmen arguments. Your critical thinking skills are zip. Come up with an actual relevent example if you want to play, or have a logical argument that is relevant to the discussion, something, anything other than your brainless fallacy.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 08:04 PM
13

Equality will always be what they say it is, and is nothing more than a feeling that provides a shield of lies for the true hate filled agenda.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 01:45 PM
24

Women and leftists will always play this game. Find a word or concept that portrays them as the good folks with victim status and then lie your brains out until the false narrative becomes accepted 'reality'. Academics are so adept at this manipulation they actually believe their own bullshit. It doesn't matter when close inspection clearly shows the lie because they only get mad and hiss at you so forget trying to reason. Don't try and change them, change your own behavior to protect yourself.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 01:43 PM
58

Because of solipsism, they never loved you in the first place so it is easier for them to lose you
/r/MensRights14/05/25 10:20 PM
92

Men listening to women talk about mental load is a larger mental load than most anything they deal with. Try this sometime, talk to a woman like a woman and watch them back away so fast they pull a hammy. The real issue? they create their own drama and want some sort of credit for dealing with it. Guys, fuck that, get a motorcycle instead of a woman.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 06:58 PM
5

so some guy on the internet said so? is that all you have?
/r/MensRights14/05/25 12:09 AM
4

slave labor camps? prove it
/r/MensRights13/05/25 11:42 PM
58

My cousin married a gal who talked him into putting her name on the home he owned pre-marriage. Then she took his house in the divorce. It literally has been seen as a way to get ahead for millions of women. I remember whenever any young man was making headway financially and then met a woman, we all rolled our eyes and thought 'there goes his money'. Saw it in the Navy many times over.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 10:36 AM
0

They have been talking like that for a long time. If only saying it would make it so right? only dumb people take it to heart.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 12:48 PM
1

Bill has so much cash he doesn't give a shit. Life is short and I would bang her too, only make sure she can't take enough to hurt you.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 12:06 PM
20

Dont bother with trying to meet their expectations, just meet your own
/r/MensRights11/05/25 10:21 PM
9

and have money, status is down on the list but there as well.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 10:20 PM
63

That woman is going to ruin some guys life. Over the past year I had several random bar conversations with women who were clearly interested in me. I am easy to talk to, nice to everyone IRL, and look good for my age however I dont care anymore about dating. The amount outrage they feel when it becomes clear they dont have any sexual power over me is very apparent. It is there hiding in most women, very illuminating when you see it emerge.
/r/MensRights07/05/25 06:39 AM
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First of all, wrong sub, this has nothing to do with MensRights. Secondly just broadly bitching that nobody wants to date a broke year 38-year-old living with their parents, and asking no questions is what exactly? FWIW, I agree! almost nobody wants to date a 38-year-old guy making 12K a year who lives with his parents. There is no long term future unless either she agrees to support you or she moves in with your parents too, and also because finding somebody who wants to forever date like you a…
/r/MensRights30/03/25 01:22 PM
4

damned trolls
/r/MensRights16/02/25 03:19 PM
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Pick one and show her the lie, just one. Then say all the rest is BS just like that. Men die sooner than women, it seems the medical establishment is pro-female. There are 7 federal health agencies specifically for women and none for men. It is logical fallacy to conclude that spending on research on causes that affect men more than women is somehow male privilege when it is in fact female privilege that they are healthier in the first place.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 02:22 PM
5

Is incel a group? I thought it was just a slur. MGTOWs basic premise to me is fine, if the ladies are not appealing just forget about them. It does seem unhealthy to constantly trash women when you decided you ain't going to partner up but they have a point in that you cannot escape feminism in the workplace or society.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 02:11 PM
3

Well, I have the luxury of already had my kids so take this with a grain a salt. I no longer need a woman for purpose. Tried that and while it works out for some you have to understand that to most women your purpose is to provide for their own purposes. Not all of course but the majority of most women under 40 now have been brainwashed by the feminist run schools. Find other purpose, it is still possible even though now men have become disposable second class citizens, especially white men whic…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 02:05 PM
3

I echo that, the only thing that wakes men up is when they get hosed over. Cant really do much about it as that is our nature.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 10:50 PM
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Progressive shit is so fucking dumb, why dont they just say it- they hate work itself
/r/MensRights10/02/25 11:42 PM
4

but if everyones standards are too high, everyone loses
/r/MensRights08/02/25 01:40 AM
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that they choose the harem model, only 5% of the guys get all the sex and women rate 80% of guys as below average then bitch about 'no men' available
/r/MensRights08/02/25 01:39 AM
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Just learning eh? Yeah dating sucks and women do not care about their role in how bad it is. Remember as a man, it is ALWAYS your fault.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 07:48 PM
12

It's only an issue for some of the slutty women out there and if you run into one and they mention it then run as fast as you can. The size your heart and wallet are far more important. I am not porn star material below the equator and nobody ever complained.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 07:46 PM
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She is sort of the Madonna of her age, she thinks way too much of herself. and her fans are the same. These kind of fans are insufferable, they think that just because their dumb little world is defined by TS then everyone's world is. I don't think it is even possible to dominate like say an Elvis in this day and age of internet access to so much more music.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 03:41 PM
4

Everyone is required to understand and sign a prenup and remove family court's power to nullify prenups. It is time to stop letting the progressive-feminist state dictate the term of life's most important contract. Both within and outside marriage have mandatory DNA testing on all children but I do agree if the kid is yours you have to pay. Won't happen, too many simps, so just fucking do not get married.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 02:08 PM
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It's woman solipsistic logic, they have deluded themselves into thinking that when men work it is always at our pleasure and at their expense. It's so they can justify shitty attitudes like that and also feel so entitled in divorce. It is not too far from mob logic.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 11:57 AM
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I know! the fought for the 'right' to toil all day thinking men must be partying or something, then when they discover that work is actually work.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 12:06 AM
10

Sadly you are right, the more men get fucked the happier they are
/r/MensRights06/02/25 03:19 AM
1

did not work
/r/MensRights06/02/25 12:28 AM
0

It's ok to analyze like this and I really hope this helps some guys out there, understanding the world can help you get out of your own head and get healthy perspective. The bottom line though is that you gotta own your own life and do something about it, blame will only carry you so far.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 11:13 PM
1

DEI folks are convinced they are actually better, go read their conversations. This is what kills me, if these racial or gender cohorts are actually better then just start their own damn companies and hire only themselves. The reality is so damn obvious.
/r/MensRights28/01/25 10:08 PM
10

Feminists love to make penis insults, like you said they are very ugly people on the inside. You are right in that most adult men don't do that, high school men do that, adult men no. What does that tell you about women? I did break up with a woman once over that kind of issue, it was her hygiene. Yes I would feel weird discussing it in person with someone or shaming her, it's a dumb conversation.
/r/MensRights26/01/25 06:45 PM
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You need to understand something-the detective is not your friend. They will sit there and try and let you talk yourself into a conviction. Dont talk to him without talking to an attorney and let the state try and make a case based on 1 womans word. I bet they dont charge you as they have 0 evidence.
/r/MensRights24/01/25 11:25 PM
5

Reviewed by peers, exactly, peers with the same bias, i used to work in academics I know exactly how corrupt it is. And there is one glaring omission here, the stay at home moms are within the data, that means they have all day to do whatever and they SHOULD be doing more housework. Until this type of study can objectively compare only a two working parent household where both parents have the same job, then all of this is bullshit. Women simply do not work as hard at home as previous generation…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 03:37 PM
5

"Efforts have been made to document" ... right, efforts by folks with an agenda I wish I would have had a women like that! The fact is most don't do what women did 50 years ago but that fact would not be convenient so lets keep using outdated info
/r/MensRights21/01/25 03:06 PM
5

What labour? I hope you are not talking about 'emotional' labor because I can assure you men sacrifice their time, energy, and attention more than women do typically.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 02:26 PM
11

I would not even try and reason with that piece of hate filled crap.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 06:06 PM
49

It really is illustrative that someone in reddit can say "You men are fucking disgusting and there's no wonder why you're fucking lonely" and it is held up by the mods as a woman rightfully venting when right there in their own rules they claim that hate is not tolerated. Can we finally call reddit the hateful bag of shit that it is?
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:54 PM
11

Ask her why most men are not getting that, what the hell good is an expectation if nobody does it. Also ask her where specically this expectation is taught because we see here on reddit is hate
/r/MensRights20/01/25 10:19 AM
9

Only incels use data and reason they will say, then they attack reason itself as patriarchal. oh and they love comments like small dick, flacid dick etc. you know, the very folks who feel like they are sexually objectified
/r/MensRights20/01/25 09:45 AM
21

What is the exact list of what society expects from women to do for men? Sure would like to know because I dont think I got it.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 09:30 AM
1

your posts are always interesting DEI at its very core is perceived fairness in the outcomes of results (employment, pay, status, etc.) regardless of the actual performance of the individual doing the task. Most men find that disgusting but DEI folks find it perfectly reasonable. What IS that thought process, it ain't reason. It was fascinating watching the women of the NBA demanding equal pay in the face of their lack of profits and ability. The NBA actually subsidizes them and it still isn't g…
/r/MensRights19/01/25 06:07 PM
6

The thing about ideologies like feminism is that they just don't care if there are innocent victims. They probably even like having cases like this because they view it as a form social justice and it satisfies their hate. We can't approach this is a calm logical manner, it's gotta be out of their playbook, angrily demand retribution on the whole rotten system and if it fucks over some feminists then so be it.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 06:14 PM
3

Right, she has nothing, and I think you can even bankruptcy away a lot of civil suits anyway. getting the civil suit on her record though might at least add some baggage to this piece of shit. Wonder who would ever hire someone who lies like that, imagine having that time bomb working amongst other employees.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 06:06 PM
5

I prefer to try and flip the script, out victim them and try and shame them. They hate that, lol
/r/MensRights18/01/25 05:56 PM
2

I happened to be in Orlando for other reasons and I wanted to see the zoo and the star wars thing. I agree that we need to do whatever they hate as long as it is legal, number one being challenging their bullshit intellect here on reddit. The problem is the censors, I would rather go into their subs and do it but the censorship here would make Joe Stalin proud.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 05:56 PM
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I have gone there alone, no issues and had fun, but if any stranger ever asked me why I would tell them to mind their shit. You had better start not having any fucks to give or risk living a life scared like that.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 05:08 PM
9

Feminist support for Gaza or Islam in general pretty much sums it up. The question is are they really that dumb or is their hate that strong. The male academics that support this shit, what a bunch of asshats.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 10:12 AM
2

So having the upper hand causes a bunch of young incels? that is is just plain stupid The patriarchy also causes women to lie about biological fatherhood or assaults, then women need to stop with their patriarchy issues.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 10:03 AM
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Feminism is a hateful psychological disorder and until all men stand up to it then all we can do is avoid women. What blows me away are the 'progressive' men who support it, or even marry those assholes and live the life of a bootlicker. I have zero respect for them however it means we can never have enough political power to matter. I do think it is too late, what is happening to young men and the birthrates show we are headed towards something like self destruction. Dumbass academics: oh dont …
/r/MensRights16/01/25 09:48 AM
11

When you observe the nature, most of the animals which are considered “intelligent”, live in communities. The higher you go the hierarchy the more is the cooperation and compassion between the members. Its almost as if the intelligence gets augmented when the entire specie “work together”. Chimps will rip each other's balls off in a fight, and killing is in their DNA. Why do people come up with these dumb 'animals live better' shit. If you think so, then go live in a tree with a bunch of others …
/r/MensRights15/01/25 02:27 PM
4

It's very unfair, I paid alimony when she had to pay the income tax and that was still unfair. I do think your example is extreme though, are those the real numbers? Only one way to stop this crap, don't get married.
/r/MensRights12/01/25 07:40 PM
3

Not talking about me, this the statistical reality of modern dating and if you dont get that fact then you are the one who hasnt been in touch. I have been with too many women for my own good and am too old to give a shit anymore so save it for someone else. I am concerned about the majority of young men caught up in the harem model that modern women seem to like. Some 30% of 18-30 year olds are virgins and have given up. Women match themselves up with less than 10% of men on dating apps, what a…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 07:37 PM
1

Me and all my high school friends were circumcised. Never heard a single joke about it my entire life and never heard a single guy complain about any complications. Personally i am glad for it and the ladies never said a word either. I am very sympathetic to men's issues but this one is not one of them.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 03:13 PM
8

You mean the 1 in 20 men who women actually chase? anything works for them but for the average dude his 1960s model is useless
/r/MensRights05/01/25 07:43 AM
13

All assuming you can get a date in the first place so I think it kind of misses the point.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 07:36 AM
4

Seems like you are sick of debating so dont do it. I have a life too and no way would I want to make this a full time job but discussion is at the core of human politics so its hard to avoid.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 07:24 AM
6

I agree but it is hard to get to no fucks given when you have given fucks your whole life
/r/MensRights03/01/25 09:09 PM
1

If you think conservatives want lefties dead then your mind never grew into anything sophisticated. Meanwhile polls show 41% of young people think killing if CEOs is acceptable. We all know which party they probably vote for.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 09:14 AM
0

oh FFS, you are hopeless
/r/MensRights23/12/24 08:17 PM
4

I am sick of all left wing politics, been that way for a while.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 09:57 PM
310

Women are always the victim so nothing new to see here.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 09:56 PM
2

Exactly, IF you can free yourself from instinct towards women then you can and should build a great life. I don't agree with the guys who say to quit on 'participating' in the economy. The only way to get the best out of this life is to have some money.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 02:39 PM
24

they are called progressives,fuck them
/r/MensRights21/12/24 01:34 AM
3

nah, I have that now, much lesser problem than divorce or failure at something important
/r/MensRights20/12/24 12:37 AM
5

Just thinking about that place brings anxiety back. YOUNG GUYS, yeah you, legal marriage is a hige roll of life's dice, do not do it. Love your woman, have kids, or don't, just dont get fucking married.
/r/MensRights20/12/24 12:36 AM
1

No way out?? just don't get married, WTH? No idea where you come up with that
/r/MensRights18/12/24 01:25 PM
9

Yes and it bugs the hell out of me, misandry is 'normalized' among the political left. I make a a point to talk with young men when I get a chance and I can see the damage. Fuck the progressives and their feminist ass kissing ways
/r/MensRights17/12/24 11:30 PM
36

Misandry is destroying an entire generation of young men, and some of them are killing themselves. I would say misandry kills more in fact.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 06:50 PM
17

Vasectomy works for me
/r/MensRights17/12/24 05:44 PM
3

Feminism at its core is about advancing the interests of feminist women at the expense of men, it's not 'equality' which is just a buzzword used to hide their misandric agenda. Like others here said, you need to read and think first before expressing your own lack of understanding, better yet have your older sister come here and set us straight if she is so damned wise.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 07:45 PM
4

If you actually want that, sure. However most of us have wanted regular monogamous sex with someone we can get along with, which means a woman who feels like a real partner and some life sucking person we feel chained to. The bar for women is actually pretty low however I have evolved to where I don't think I could live with a woman anymore as it feels like they are invading my brain with the demand for time, energy, and attention. I can manage dates with a good looking young women but honestly …
/r/MensRights11/12/24 07:21 PM
2

I would say yes there is a lot of black women who call out black men, but the national narrative cannot have such discord so they have to maintain their focus on white men. Gotta have the evil villain or it gets too complicated.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 01:06 PM
3

I would add the ultimate one- Muslims. Feminists for Gaza has to be the most obvious sign that this isn't some type of movement based on principle. It's all about the hate.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 01:04 PM
1

Love it, no time to respond but great recap. Marxism specifically tried to abolish religion so lenin/stalin and company could be the god. Modern feminists and progressives don't exactly place government as a god, however almost every problem in life is addressed by other people's money and a government program, and of course government exists to silence their enemies and give them power. In effect its kind all one phenomenon, the ages old if I were king thing. Unfortunately it kind of works if t…
/r/MensRights05/12/24 01:00 PM
9

and more was expected too, honestly i like today when I can be an indulgent single, only wish i had learned my lesson 20 years ago
/r/MensRights04/12/24 11:38 PM
9

Wouldn't grizzly bears make ideal escorts?
/r/MensRights03/12/24 10:13 PM
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I dont believe in the concept of 'real men' I am only relaying observations. Its the same reason you find engineering departments loaded with men and gender study departments mostly women. It does help men's issues to know why, I think it is because we like to feel like we made a difference or accomplished something of material value and made money along the way. Advancing a cult like feminism with its pseudo scientific sophistry is of little value, fighting it is of a lot of value since they so…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 07:33 PM
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sorry man, family law is brutally unfair. Know that typically those second flings rarely work out. Her new dude will probably get sick of her.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 07:08 PM
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'For some reason' ? News alert- Academics who create the trash known as gender studies are all progressive feminists. Men with ambition don't do that kind of shit, they want to make money and accomplish things.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 06:55 PM
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I will never cohabitate with a woman outside of family again as a result, but that is actually a good idea for me anyway as I love living alone and feeling safe. In my case the same as you, the cops just shook their head and said she was crazy. Looking back I should have bern more careful about who I partner with. Once your innocence is broken the sense of vulnerability never leaves you. This is a world in which an accusation can be just as damaging as an arrest or conviction and I now walk arou…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 03:27 PM
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I try and separate anecdotal from statistical reality and why so many people prefer anecdotes, internet life from real life, and group behavior from individual behavior. All of them are realities you have to understand first before you can begin to deal with anything political like this. Most women don't hate men but the majority of women do have some tendencies that drive me nuts (such as wanting to date toxic men then complaining about them, getting vicious in divorce, hypergamy, distorted sen…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 01:47 PM
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I don't know what it is a reflection of, but she is insufferable.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 03:13 PM
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community service!
/r/MensRights02/12/24 01:47 PM
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Then talk to women? This is the internet and some will care but there are very limited options for actionable comments here. Men like solutions TBH, we are not very good at kind words just for their own sake.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 03:33 PM
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Bald falls into the body shaming category, feminists say don't body shame. It does have an offensive undertone to it and progressives are supposed to be all about not offending anyone. How the hell am I supposed to take feminists complaints seriously when they won't take mine seriously?
/r/MensRights01/12/24 02:53 PM
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I have talked with 2 HR managers in person on something that progressives gaslight me on. They told me the litterbox thing is real, they had to accomodate a couple of folks that identified as cats. Progressives always told me it was fake news because it seems like too much even for them. DEI means the only metric that matters is having a scoreboard where all 'oppressed' identites and/or whatever weird shit you got going on is promoted above all else. Safe spaces for these gen z progressives is a…
/r/MensRights01/12/24 09:48 AM
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I play the hand I am given. I love being an intelligent self aware man who is able to actually critically think and not just falsely claim it. No way do I want to be a manipulative and lying female like the kind I have known. Yeah it sucks being the new hated jews to the progressive left but I am not going to curl up in the fetal position, c'mon bro we gotta fight
/r/MensRights30/11/24 09:57 PM
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You cannot seem to do math, and its a copy paste from the article so I did 'actually read' both what you said and what the stats show. Statistically intimate partners accounts for 1/3 of femicides, also the number of intimate partner murders of men is only 50% more than that. For both men and women the chance of being killed by an intimate partner is less than being killed by someone else.
/r/MensRights30/11/24 03:02 PM
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of course, but that doesn't make for good feminist discussion
/r/MensRights29/11/24 06:37 PM
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No the husband is not leading cause of homicide, stop making false statements Female Murder Victims and Victim-Offender Relationship, 2021 | Bureau of Justice Statistics Of the estimated 4,970 female victims of murder and nonnegligent manslaughter in 2021, data reported by law enforcement agencies indicate that 34% were killed by an intimate partner
/r/MensRights29/11/24 02:27 PM
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Someday I need to research filicide. Most articles point to women being the majority offender, others the father. But when they claim the father boy do they like go all out woke Notice the tone when women are the majority offender Maternal and paternal filicides: a retrospective review of filicides in Finland - PubMed in Finland during a 25-year period. In the sample of 200 filicides [neonaticides (n = 56), filicide-suicides (n = 75), other filicides (n = 69)], the incidence was 5.09 deaths per …
/r/MensRights29/11/24 12:32 PM
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Here is the fallacy that is always presented. The murder rate of domestic partners is always given as a percent of total murder rate. So because men are killed at a much higher rates overall from other causes, it obscures the comparison in favor of women. Here is how it is done, data from Female Murder Victims and Victim-Offender Relationship, 2021 | Bureau of Justice Statistics Of the estimated 4,970 female victims of murder and nonnegligent manslaughter in 2021, data reported by law enforcemen…
/r/MensRights29/11/24 12:21 PM
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No fault divorce? If I did the test and I knew the government was about to make me pay for some other man's kid for 18 years then I would not tell anyone and make some kind of secret plan.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 02:25 PM
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Excellent points as feelings follow real action. Sometimes though a plan of action is good enough. If I get fired then plan X is what I am going to do about it. It has to be realistic of course. Your mind will ease up if you have an actionable plan to deal with an event that may happen in the future, in other words you have a solution like you said. Near the end of my career many factors including what women had done to me led to my loss of passion and work drive. I had changed so much in just a…
/r/MensRights28/11/24 01:58 PM
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What would stop me from mailing samples to a disceet lab in some other country? If I am thinking about doing this, my marriage is already broken. I would say if France is so afraid of testing then their marriages must be shitty anyway. Dont get married in France.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 01:24 PM
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It has no impact on me to hear about what she is doing today. Not what state of mind I would have to be in to be affected by that.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 05:04 AM
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oh no, lol, I would never. She is flat broke, now she mooches off her family or whatever. I don't care anymore but I do hear about her from others.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 01:51 AM
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yeah I know, just saying all this crap is easily avoided
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:27 PM
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and the men in occupied countries did not suffer? my god you are delusional
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:13 PM
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bullshit myth Obama, who literally did almost nothing and was affirmative actioned his whole life, left the white house 10M richer while trump left poorer
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:09 PM
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I was in that exact situation, woman logic can be so stupid. My ex who I supported told me she would have more money if she divorced me. She did for a little while until alimoney and the cash she took from me ran out, then guess what.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:05 PM
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and never marry
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:01 PM
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When you see just how hostile it has become for young white men and you realize how for the most part other white men allowed these officially sanctioned hate groups called feminists and progressives to get the upper hand, it is sad but understandable why it is hard to find empathy. Welcome to the club Identity politics is all about being anti white male, and they do it by making every other cohort a victim of evil white men so they can actively hate and discrimate against us. The effect on youn…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:47 AM
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Wish I could but I cant, while I have mostly over come being fucked over I see too many miserable young men to turn my back. Besides it feels good to let them know they cannot run over all men with their childish crap.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 04:18 PM
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go for it, maybe we should start a thread here about the mods and see how far it gets
/r/MensRights24/11/24 04:13 PM
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Escalate how? I agree the mod is a low IQ self-righteous hack but that is the nature of this place.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 03:38 PM
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lol, if personal anecdote is all that matters to you then why the hell post any stats? I have never been harmed by a man, neither have my family or friends so therefore men are clearly not violent according to your own logic. I have however been emotionally and financially been harmed by lying women so it must mean women are terrible people right?
/r/MensRights22/11/24 06:08 PM
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oh I am sure about it, and I very sure by reading your links you do not understand statistics and the concept of weight adjusted risk
/r/MensRights22/11/24 03:07 AM
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i don't see how that relates when we are specifically talking about spousal abuse. if you'd like to go in that direction, though, then i could just as easily say that the vast majority of convicted murderers are also men, further proving my point that men seem to perpetuate the majority of violence. if i were to present the numbers as you did, there were 14,327 male murderers compared to 1,898 female murderers in 2023. that means men are 7.5 times more likely to commit homicide than women. I don…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 11:17 AM
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They are lesbians and they experience it at a higher rate than straight women, what do you mean it isn't specified when it is quite clear that women are the abusers. It is NOT safe to assume that they had abuse from a man in the past, you simply made that up after stating it is not clear. Sorry but that is pure crap. Men are murdered at a much higher rates from other causes, so you cannot compare the spousal murder number that way. Using the year 2021 which apparently you did, 1690 wives were ki…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 03:46 AM
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like your higher chances of domestic abuse?
/r/MensRights19/11/24 10:55 PM
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The story is about a guy who just died and you claim SA has more serious consequences than false allegations? ok, prove it, cant just say it We talk about false allegations here because most of the world doesn't care and there is not a balanced due process in place, you cannot understand that? Nobody here defends real SA, but we must have due process as false allegations are very common. I was a false allegation victim myself
/r/MensRights16/11/24 04:48 PM
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Is this serious ? you let them determine your self worth? that is really weak if so Our proper online response should be discussion of how to arm ourselves for this so they die first if they attack us. This whole wish you were dead idea is childish, they are showing their true colors
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:12 AM
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oh right, that is why we have all these polls on attitudes and race and differences between them. You win stupid post of the day on that when it comes to dating, I hate those stupid eyelashes, but is just me me. Ask black men why the prefer other races, you will get honest answers. I gave heard everything from shitty attitudes to masculine features
/r/MensRights09/11/24 10:17 PM
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It bothers me that other young men participated. Men's rights will never be a coordinated movement as long as progressive white knights exist
/r/MensRights09/11/24 05:02 PM
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what was the actual allegation made?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 04:55 PM
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If every illegal contributed as much as Musk is I would welcome them all. They don't, so stop it
/r/MensRights09/11/24 04:51 PM
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Women rate height as important when they date men but we cannot do a damn thing about it. When you mention they can do something about their weight then you are a misogynist who does not accept women the way they are. Dating is a dumb game nowadays unless you are one of the lucky 5%.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 04:47 PM
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Make a ton of money then go to bangcock (pun intended), problem solved
/r/MensRights09/11/24 09:50 AM
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Black women are the fattest cohort out there according to datasets that measure such. Combine that with their attitude and other features and you very quickly get an undateable group. Nobody wants Oprah without the money.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 09:48 AM
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I care, I am happy for it. The more they do shit like that the less progressives will be bred into existence. Demographics- Kamala voters are more likely to be the kind of guy raised by a feminists and maybe even pushed into transition at some point. More trump voters believe in masculinity which most women like, or have been rejected by women anyway so no big deal. Nobody on sugar dating sites dares say anything, lol
/r/MensRights07/11/24 07:44 PM
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Anti progressive, completely independant and make everyone mad. I have no party but vote right because I hate the home party of the feminists. Libertarians would be closest match but they have some stupid ideas as well.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 09:04 AM
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You are the one spouting factually incorrect nonsense here There cannot exist data on people we did not apprehend, it is literally a guess, you don't seem to understand that basic fact. That guess also has a huge error bar to it, huge. Learn how guesses work. As far as those that were apprehended and then let in it is actually hard to get hard numbers. Here is one: Mass Deportation: Devastating Costs to America, Its Budget and Economy | American Immigration Council "In terms of fiscal costs, we …
/r/MensRights01/11/24 12:21 PM
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We can quibble about the numbers sure but these are the undisputed facts. The number of documented illegal crossings was greater than 10M, what fraction was let in? Looks like about 1/3 or so, and if I combine that with any estimate that is still a hell of a lot of people and an unsustainable burden. Encounters at the border skyrocketed after Biden took office. NYC and Chicago declared a state of crisis because of the influx migrants. Why would democrat sanctuary city strongholds declare a crisi…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 02:20 AM
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I wish name calling was the only trouble I had from leftist ideas, I got butt raped in family court and I was falsely accused. It was very real consequences. I can tell you as someone who hired and supervised, and I have contacts back in industry. Gen Z and younger millenials do not want to work as hard as we did and it is an issue. I was the guy working 18 hours a day in my 20s because I thought that is what people do. Todays 22 year olds think I was a nut. I was in engineering, so I made more …
/r/MensRights31/10/24 10:08 PM
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That is a small minority of republican voters, they do not set the main agenda. Feminists not only teach their kids pseudo science, they teach their kids to hate me. Us atheist libertarian-types vote to keep progressives off our backs. The conservatives leave us alone. The left censors more than the religious people do, hell the left would havr me in jail for what I say here. The threat isnt even remotely the same
/r/MensRights31/10/24 09:43 PM
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"They" didn't say it all there, but it always the same crap in here about the right being equal in harm. It isn't even close when you look at the daily issues affecting young men. I am tired of this false equivalence in here.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 06:59 PM
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We could discuss the politics of that and it would be fair game, but the fact remains that Harris and Biden opened up the border to 10 million illegals. Trump did not close the border but he was trying to move in the right direction at least.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 06:52 PM
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never said one side is all good, I said the post was full of crap. Progressives created the problem by empowering feminist and will still vote for them no how bad their shit is, then all they can say about it is that republicans are bad. The guy above spews nonsense, for instance by saying conservative values will save me. Nobody ever said that, certainly not me. I am a single atheist and am against marriage so I certainly am not about conservative values. Conservatives will save me from feminis…
/r/MensRights31/10/24 11:45 AM
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Being for men's right means you are working class? prove it, I am not Feminism and conservatism are the same shit? That is exactly why I cannot stand progessives in here, its never self examination of their own beliefs, it must always be evil conservatives. I have no clue you to educate anyone who chooses to be like this. A progressive could walk up and punch you in the face and you would find a way to blame conservatives and vote for democrats.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 10:48 AM
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Progressives in here will never denounce this shit, its always 'but but republicans dont care'
/r/MensRights31/10/24 01:17 AM
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But you keep supporting and voting for the folks undermining us. I have no idea why a person would do such a thing but I promise the won't stop it until people like you stop voting for them. Working with trump puts money in your bank account? Then why not do it if true?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 03:23 PM
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Call me unshocked, Democrats are owned and operated by the progressive hate groups, how many times must it be said?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 03:01 PM
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Interesting observation, I may watch it again. There are not enough of us yet to change anything but the trend is depressingly moving in the right direction. Young men are in so much trouble and Hollywood loves it so don't participate unless its free and you want to waste time.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 01:20 PM
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You didn't say a damn thing that was correct, proved me incorrect, or made any sense at all. Its like you have no ability to comprehend facts or reason
/r/MensRights28/10/24 07:13 PM
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So you would rather have someone actively hate and make policy against you than go with somebody who will leave you alone? Sorry, but that is REALLY stupid "Not true. DEI is used to prop up POC who are just as qualified and who are typically overlooked bc of racial bias. It doesn't guarantee that they get the job, it makes sure they get a fair chance to be seen. How do u know these yt men are better qualified?🤨 At the end of the day seeing a POC in a line of work rare for them to be seen in does…
/r/MensRights28/10/24 06:02 PM
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No he wasn't, there was something called the republican revolution in congress in 1994 and they determined the tone and policy from 1995-2000.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 03:37 PM
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yeah i will take apathy over someone actively attacking me for just being me, just how the hell do you not understand that? DEI puts people in positions at the expense of white men who have done more and are better qualified. DEI proponents have even said meritocracy and achievement are white patriarchial. Fuck DEI and anybody who advocates for it, it is unfair. Meritocracy is the only fair society. Microsoft just got rid of DEI folks, good for them. Metoo means lack of due process for men, univ…
/r/MensRights27/10/24 05:44 PM
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They democrats are actively shitting on white men, I'll take republicans not caring over that any day. Meaningful progress? WTF is that? DEI, BLM, metoo, shitty economics, open borders, and free shit from the government is NOT progress. Progressive ideas are about 100 years old, carbon copies of the old soviet union. Meanwhile the best times of this country in the last 50 years have been under republican rules (82-90, 95-2000, 2017-2019) so yes get me back to that please.
/r/MensRights27/10/24 02:30 PM
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stupid analogy with no correlation to anything in real life. reading all this shit reminds me why i dislike democrats so much. democrats cowtow to feminists, discussion ends there
/r/MensRights26/10/24 10:44 PM
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which is republicans, just say it, we all know who the feminists want but this mentally constipated sub wont say it so I will
/r/MensRights26/10/24 10:39 PM
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We do not have national referendums in the US and the supreme court ruled it is NOT a national issue, it is a state issue. you are wrong in so many ways
/r/MensRights26/10/24 07:24 PM
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now post california
/r/MensRights26/10/24 06:32 PM
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no they have not, it is legal most everywhere except gaza. Again no, contraception is not seriously endangered. why cant you be honest about this? meanwhile feminists want to take my free speechand due process away
/r/MensRights26/10/24 05:47 PM
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Their rights are not threatened right now, but mine sure are.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 04:08 PM
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Look at it this way, you are part of the most successful cohort of all time and that is why they hate you. Leftist politics is all about building themselves up at the expense of others and we are the obvious target of blame for all their failures.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 04:06 PM
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That would be extremely tough to pursue, if in a public place. If I am taking pics at the beach and you happen to be in one, that means I have to ask each and every person in any pic for consent. Not feasible, in fact there are very few places I can go now and not be photographed. My gym, apartment complex, every bar, restaurants, grocery stores, and even the sidewalk via everyone's security cameras are recording my every move and it's all legal. I think there was even a case where a security ca…
/r/MensRights20/10/24 04:33 PM
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What major are you that has all women? taking pictures at a public venue is not illegal, do not give in to any demands next time
/r/MensRights20/10/24 03:47 PM
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the article agrees with his assertion, so what is his spurious logic?
/r/MensRights19/10/24 09:35 PM
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Misinterpretation of an article is not pseudoscience, it is just misinterpretation. I thought you called the article out, so not telling you to believe me, I'm saying you need to tell the editor if it is pseudoscience. let's see, he said "Damn right. Females just cannot handle sustained stress. Differences in the CRF receptor caused by oestrogen." article says " Stress-related psychiatric disorders (e.g., depression, post-traumatic stress disorder) are twice as prevalent in women compared to men…
/r/MensRights19/10/24 09:19 PM
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I see the problem with you for sure Define Incel pseudoscience, then show that the article is that, in other words what exactly what is scientifically incorrect here then show us how we should all notify that journal I used to be a journal editor, i sure as hell would want to know if someone got pseudo science past peer review
/r/MensRights19/10/24 08:01 PM
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Incel pseudo science? here is the first link below. The lead author and 4 others are women, the article in the reputable journal is very detailed and needs to have a lot of background to fully understand it. You claimed to have carefully read them and can dismiss it as incel? I am calling huge bullshit here, huge as in you have some issues Sex Differences in Corticotropin-Releasing Factor Receptor Signaling and Trafficking: Potential Role in Female Vulnerability to Stress-Related Psychopathology…
/r/MensRights19/10/24 01:38 PM
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Sure, I am not into hookers but if it gets the job done then have at it. Plenty of them right at home if you know how to find them. Again not my thing but I have no opposition to that given the current climate.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 11:05 PM
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Not getting married is a blessing, but yes, about half of men are completely shut out of dating and sex, 45% get occasional luck and the top 5% are having a lot of sex. Getting married is out of the question if you can't even get laid. I don't like the term MGTOW because it implies that these men had a choice, I would rather we all build something based on reality and be a lot more vocal about politics and calling the other side out and making sure progressive men are not allowed to be the two-f…
/r/MensRights16/10/24 02:24 PM
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Feminists are progressives and are not my friends, dont even try to lie about it.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 10:17 AM
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gosh, so trashing men's reputations is not protected? only a fucking progressive could think that
/r/MensRights14/10/24 04:59 AM
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There is something endemic to females, probably evolved out of survival, to be able to effortlessly manipulate and turn on you if the situation calls for it. It is a way of life for too many and I have been with enough women to not trust them anymore. No not all women all the time, but enough to convince me its not worth the risk. Not sad or anything dramatic, it just is, and you are right in that it wont make them happy
/r/MensRights09/10/24 11:59 PM
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It has been more than one generation of feminism but yes gen Z is awful. Happy you found a way and I hope your daughter has a great life. Feminism in many ways is the the expression of how a lot of women naturally view men. Victimhood and entitlement are what a lot of women do when everything else fails. Why not, it works in todays politics.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 12:20 PM
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Get a life vision that excites you and doesnt need a woman in it, then spend all your energies working for it. You can't afford one more minute on hoping for the affections of women.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 01:33 PM
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Well something compelled you to write all that, wonder what that is. A relationship with anybody can be bound by rules you are free to create. There is no such thing as a standard relationship so try and create ones you like and whether or not your interactions are worth it can only be assesed by you. This goes for all people in your life. Your questions are kind of meaningless to me as the 'worth it' stuff can depend on all kinds if whimsical stuff. Marriage on the other hand is a legal contrac…
/r/MensRights03/10/24 07:04 PM
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how come nobody ever asks if men could reproduce asexually without women, holy shit this world would hum along
/r/MensRights17/09/24 03:28 PM
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the fact that i should look up the laws is enough to keep me from doing anything
/r/MensRights17/09/24 07:30 AM
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gender is social construct
/r/MensRights13/09/24 12:53 PM
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Agree, but I would ask why do you need any sort of contract? You can do all the things married couples do and leave family court out of it. It doesn't keep her from cheating or leaving so what is the point exactly.
/r/MensRights10/09/24 08:10 AM
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His advice on the marriage lottery is to get a prenup which is fine, yet prenups cannot address child support and can be thrown out. I would ask him why is marriage necessary to find a partner you like.
/r/MensRights10/09/24 06:37 AM
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Family court is obviously biased as he mentioned but did she at least get a criminal record?
/r/MensRights10/09/24 06:28 AM
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It's a question of your standards, I met a lot of single moms who wanted me to step in and take the job, but they were not exactly 9s and 10s.
/r/MensRights10/09/24 12:17 AM
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context- she deleted her post, but claimed women 'have to fear' violence in the workplace. I was challenging her assertion of that, not the legality of anything. bottom line is that you can fear whatever you want in this world but it becomes irrational when the probability is very low. Not that women are rational, but I still like sticking them with reason. I have also been a victim of their 'my feelings are reality and make it true' crap in my marriages and will never again subject myself to th…
/r/MensRights07/09/24 02:33 PM
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fear is not valid if it isnt supported by statistical reality
/r/MensRights05/09/24 11:51 AM
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It has no impact on anyone's lives other than you dont like it. Trying to elevate it as a concern compared to sometjing like false accusation is stupid.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 03:41 PM
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This obsession with circumcision is really stupid
/r/MensRights16/08/24 01:38 PM
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your death stat is bullshit
/r/MensRights16/08/24 01:37 PM
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it is crap, this over the top circumcision stuff has to stop, it's so damned meaningless and hurts our cause
/r/MensRights16/08/24 01:36 PM
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what?? I am circumsized and have zero issues, just how exactly?
/r/MensRights16/08/24 01:32 PM
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"Men wasting time"
/r/MensRights12/08/24 01:43 PM
1

that seems extreme if he had his inheritence before he even knew her? in my state what was yours before you got married generally stays yours but the judge can also do whatever they want in the end, which should scare the crap out of you
/r/MensRights11/08/24 02:27 PM
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What the hell is that? If the woman feels you are married then that is all it takes. Amazing how bad it can get.
/r/MensRights11/08/24 12:31 AM
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I know it is a risk and the very best outcome is shared custody and no support. No answer to your valid point, hopefully make babies with better women if possible. You can also get stuff in writing about certain expenses.
/r/MensRights11/08/24 12:27 AM
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Demographic catastrophe, which we are in the middle of transitioning into. Harem model with Brad Pitt fathering 20 kids but broke due to child support. Tons and tons of unhappy young men because they are being raised without a father. Dont know for sure, just some guesses. Progressive feminism is a self defeating cause, they will all die out too eventually due to lack of children. The west will be taken over by the hoards from other places.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 10:42 PM
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Exactly true, successful men are good at everything including women. They would be happier and live longer with or without women.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 02:49 PM
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I wish you all well, if you get married I hope it really is happily ever after. I have been trapped in a shitty marriage and in divorce hell and it is way worse than only being lonely. Here is the deal- love feels good and in the moment it feels like you have all your life shit together and in a way you do, however you cannot control a large part of your own life including the future whims of your wife or even how you will feel 10 years down the road. You are hoping really, and hope ain't a plan…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 02:42 PM
91

We are now on exhibit A, Reddit. Used to be you had to go have coffee with a friend to get encouragement, now you just pick up your smartphone
/r/MensRights10/08/24 02:21 PM
2

I had my kids earlier in life so I get it as I love kids. Can only wish you well since the odds are not good unless you don't have any standards, and then if you do pull it off then you risk a lot of trouble. Wish I had a good roadmap for that other than recommend not marrying even if you have kids.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 08:34 AM
2

Are you married?
/r/MensRights09/08/24 08:14 AM
2

you can set standards all you want, it doesnt matter unless there are willing women that want you and meet those standards
/r/MensRights09/08/24 03:12 AM
3

I am kind of like you, except I realized I dont need a partner anymore. I used seeking arrangements and got a shitload of awesome sex and even a few very serious prospects for partners half my age. Now I just dont care because after that experience traditional dating seems pointless. It was a great experiment and I am glad I did it. Bumble is dumb unless you are a chad and need the sex.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 03:08 AM
1

And you have posted substance? yes there was a point- I challenged your bullshit statement about republicans and the economy. Produce evidence is the point. Anyone who knows objectively anything about the economy of the last 50 years (not left wing hacks) would never say the republicans cause ruin. There have been 3 major events, none caused by republicans, and democrats carry some blame. So go ahead pick one and prove it, or admit you dont know what you are talking about.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 09:01 AM
12

I was cheated on and lied to as well, I can never trust women again. When confronted I also got the gaslighting and saw her effortlessly blame everyone but herself. She was the victim of course. Bah, long time ago and I am fine now, but I will never forget that behavior and how it came from someone I trusted.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:01 PM
1

pick any point you wish if you want to discuss, but just waving your hand and saying my points are funny is extremely shallow intellect. Now you are right, it does take a shallow person to be a leftist, but i will debate you on this if you wish. If you want to be a retard and exchange insults, well ok then, just vote for that idiot kamala and save us the time
/r/MensRights07/08/24 01:13 AM
1

Alone as in never have a woman partner? or just alone? the latter is easily cured, the former is complicated
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:31 PM
12

The right doesnt attack and demonise men, that alone makes them better. The american right encourages nuclear families but doesn't force it on you, they want kids and fathers in the traditional roles. A lot of us dont want that but at least they leave you alone if you chose not to. The american left elite hates white heterosexual men and makes active policy against us. For decades they have preached overpopulation dogma and the need to get rid of the white patriarchy and the traditional family. …
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:53 PM
25

Sadly you are correct, rational thinking men will start making this choice more and more. This is the modern stupid progressive government, they made a huge shit sandwich for young men then wonder why they won't eat it. If you ask them, it's always some abstraction about 'other men' and of course not you. Always some boogeyman of other men that they gotta beat down but they fuck you over in the process.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 03:37 PM
1

Now you are just being silly, anyone who is serious about understanding the economy knows the opposite is true in the last 50 years. Stop believing the propaganda of the very people that fuck men over in the first place. Republicans or their policy have never trashed this economy, while progressives are doing it right before our eyes with their belief that $2T deficits don't matter. The housing crisis and covid were not republican policy, if anything it was democrat.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 01:45 PM
1

maybe, I have the luxury of time and not giving a crap, but ypung men do not so I am trying for them
/r/MensRights03/08/24 06:29 AM
3

It wont, weak dipshit male progressives will never stop simping, they have a sense that self deprecation makes them morally superior so they fawn at the alter of feminist assholes
/r/MensRights02/08/24 07:58 PM
1

No, all men benefit when progressive feminists are stopped and the republicans are the only thing in their way
/r/MensRights02/08/24 11:38 AM
1

I vote republican in the US, i have no idea why a white man would vote democrat. Its not that I would naturally be a republican its that I hate the democrats
/r/MensRights01/08/24 12:19 PM
14

right, the data is already in on this question
/r/MensRights28/07/24 07:51 PM
25

The scientists and engineers that would do that are mostly men so I would think it might be the other way around, get rid of the nags and make perfect companions. A lot of women already have man slaves, does it make them happy?
/r/MensRights28/07/24 06:24 PM
10

Smart man, leave the game you cannot win. It is too much effort, time, and money.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 01:05 AM
5

sorry to hear, in the US you get paid in engineering grad school, not much but you do get paid. you might want to consider it, women hate engineering grad school here so it dorsnt matter how much DEI crap they try. lots of gold digging whores here too, i think that is universal
/r/MensRights26/07/24 09:38 PM
7

yeah, that is called married in grad school and i did that too
/r/MensRights26/07/24 07:51 PM
33

and wanting too much sex is also considered toxic Working too much or not making enough money is another no win
/r/MensRights26/07/24 12:44 PM
0

All arguments are statistical for the cohorts, just like when feminists say they want equal pay they mean statistical average for the cohort, not that everyone gets the same pay. Stop it, your point is dumb.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 07:52 AM
17

So sorry bro, I get it. This fucked up world where whatever they say and feel is good enough evidence. Hopefully you can recover and make something better for yourself.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 12:31 AM
1

I see, yeah If you are connected to your actual identity somehow then I agree.
/r/MensRights14/07/24 02:40 PM
2

Who is they and how would they figure out anything like that?
/r/MensRights14/07/24 01:02 AM
1

that seems hard, how would they know I am even on reddit? well I am retired anyway so they can have at it
/r/MensRights14/07/24 01:01 AM
1

Personal Impact: Cannot enter into any more close romantic relationships as I do not trust women anymore. I have experienced myself and have seen first hand with others how women can instantly change and not be that sweet trusting person you once knew. I was falsely accused, but nobody believed her at the time as she was flat out crazy. Still I will never forget that feeling of being accused when you have done nothing wrong. It is a huge problem and I weep for young men of today. At my age and r…
/r/MensRights13/07/24 02:06 PM
3

Great life arc and love the anger channeling. Really impressed by the legal jiu jitsu, wish I had been that smart
/r/MensRights10/07/24 06:39 PM
5

Nice, good example of never quitting AND lawyering up for all the young guys here that feel like it is hopeless. Tell us at age 30-32 what were your feelings? Did you have the dream and were excited to be working towards something? or was it simply survival and them opportunity happened?
/r/MensRights10/07/24 02:02 PM
1

Keep the resilient attitude. Yes a lot of us do survive hell, a lot of us thrive without women, and you will be fine. Consider it as a life tuition you must pay to get to that new life where you can exist without oppressive feelings. Not promising bliss, just lack of that shitty feeling. my ex was and still is a piece of shit, she even looks the part of bitter old hag still talking trash about me. lol good! I dont think about her at all unless something reminds me (like now) so I win at life. Wo…
/r/MensRights09/07/24 06:01 PM
1

at the epicenter for sure, social media amplifies the hell out of all their toxic bullshit
/r/MensRights09/07/24 05:14 PM
1

Funny thing is that it isn't making women happier either. Hang in there bro, you have to trust that time heals if you take care of yourself. My ex tried her best to destroy me in divorce and now I am getting revenge by having a much better life than her. Those were dark days for sure and now I can smile.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 03:45 PM
2

It's society, the data is quite clear. Not all women are awful, but the center of mass is clearly moving in that direction and many of them are manipulative a-holes if not outright misandrist. Here is the dangerous part, they actually believe their own delusions, Amber Heard-ing their way through life. "If I believe it, it must be so"
/r/MensRights09/07/24 03:26 PM
3

Sometimes crazy hides then pops out too late. Too risky, I have quit women at least for now and feel at peace with the world again.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 01:54 PM
13

Exactly, and its worse than many imagine as women can change mid marriage and decide to fuck you over. No, not all women, but the 1 in 3 risk of a ruined life is far more dramatic than the bowl of skittles
/r/MensRights08/07/24 08:27 PM
1

That would be funny but I say let the whales be picky since no decent man wants them anyway
/r/MensRights08/07/24 08:24 PM
5

Or at least they don't push away because they cannot stand weakness, had a few women do that to me and it is infuriating.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 01:28 PM
3

Be sure and get alimony as money troubles amplify lonliness.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 02:43 AM
2

Dont change your standards with regard to someone who is not mentally tip top, I did and it cost me dearly. Steparenting is also mostly a losing proposition, dont do it. Being in a marriage hell is far worse than being lonely as there were times in marriage when i wished for the good old days where my only problem is lonliness. I embrace it as a challenge as we didnt evolve fast enough to live well in this shitshow called modern western progressive society so I gotta find ways to trick my own br…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 02:42 AM
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It is not dopomine rush when they play the victim, it is a manipulative attempt to get out if responsiibility and accountability and gain some advantage.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 11:19 PM
11

I would love that, force racial and gender equity on the NBA. Half women per team, gotta have an asian, a trans, etc. If you ran the numbers you would be down to 1 black man per team. Then I would be tge first to praise it as it is obviously a better product when diversity is forced
/r/MensRights01/07/24 08:27 AM
1

Yeah, but not in my state where common law was ended. The most important things to remember about living together is that DA can be used as a weapon, and even if you own the house you cannot kick her out on a whim. I would definitely rent so you can leave on a whim and keep finances seperate. Always have the escape plan ready, most women do- trust me on that.
/r/MensRights29/06/24 03:13 PM
2

Ohio ended common law marriage long ago, each state is different
/r/MensRights29/06/24 03:05 PM
1

I said automatically considered, not awarded, and it is here in Ohio. It is not designed to equalize incomes either, and is 1/3 the length of the marriage in time. I do think panic can be appropriate, the judge can do whatever they want in the end. If your spouse is bitter they can stretch it out and cost tens of thousands in attorney fees as well. Everyone should read family law before they get married. So many people enter into the most impactful legal arrangement of their entire lives and nev…
/r/MensRights29/06/24 12:56 PM
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He is trying to find peace by excluding romantic contact with women. If one out of 20 women would ruin your life for some percieved slight then it is a perfectly reasonable response to not play those odds. I think the odds are higher, using that for arguments sake. Personally I am also finding lots of peace excluding traditional romantic contact. It doesnt mean never talking to women in normal non romantic settings.
/r/MensRights29/06/24 09:19 AM
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My state uses a mathematical formula for it so it is automatically considered, however in divorce everything outside of kids is negotiable. You dont even need attorneys in theory, just work it out and file. Sure if you guys agree on everything then it isnt so bad but look out if she doesnt. I would not recommend caving in on everything as you seem to suggest.
/r/MensRights29/06/24 08:39 AM
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I saw your post, maybe you deleted it I don't know. Don't confuse me not liking you with my life satisfaction right now, my life is way better than yours, so let's move past that. Get on with it, give these young men more details as I requested. Your advice flies flat against statistical reality but go for it.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 05:17 PM
2

Projections, would not trade lives with you, so stop trying to guess my state of mind and get on with your genius 'how to date' guide for the young men in here. Your advice is useless without detail. Specifically state how they prepare and where and how they wait for their catch. Let's say I want to traditionally date again. I want an attractive non-obese woman with no kids, no debt, no drugs, no baggage, and age 35-45. I have bucks, accomplishments, and looks so go ahead chief, show me how its …
/r/MensRights28/06/24 04:35 PM
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I am not looking for a woman and I am not the least bit envious as I have no need or want for a cook, bill payer, house cleaner, or emotional support person. All of those can be bought much cheaper than a wife. Sex was way better with the sugar babies so there is nothing left for a traditional partner to provide. Does your partner stand there and wait for her cooking orders? I eat exactly what I want and when I want, do you? My previous traditional wife cared about my milestones until she backst…
/r/MensRights28/06/24 02:39 PM
1

Instincts are not rational, that is why.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 12:30 AM
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"worth" is defined by the buyer, not the seller so your entire premise is false. "find someone that acts like you are and don't settle?" I thought you said let them come to you? Your #5 is really lame, women won't pursue men just because you are a good catch, and you will run out of time waiting for that shit to happen. I don't think you have spent much time in dating at all. Substituting hobbies for a romantic relationship is not reasonable, they are not the same thing.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 12:27 AM
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Its also an artifact that women will selectively marry only happy and healthy men. It means nothing.
/r/MensRights24/06/24 09:48 PM
4

Head of household without authority? oxymoron, and no the ones I met actually mean the man makes all the decisions. I don't want it anyway but you are misrepresenting here as they actually do try and teach women to step up too. Does it work? No it doesn't mostly, just don't ever get married.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:15 PM
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No they don't, they just want traditional roles and men are not servants in that, in fact they are head of household like the muslims do.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 06:43 PM
1

I said make a plan, dont rush out the door. Move you and all your stuff out while she is away at work or something. When you file for divorce at this time you request a restraining order. Let your attorney know you expect her to falsely accuse. It would look bad for her to accuse you of trying harm her when you have moved away and want a restraining order.
/r/MensRights18/06/24 08:03 PM
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You are with a cruel manipulator who has a pretty low opinion of you. I know how you feel, that letting her go seems unthinkable. My advice is to carefully craft an escape by starting to study divorce law. There are some things you cannot do once divorce is filed so learn that, for instance I would stash up some cash somehow before. You should plan on avoiding her during that time as that would be a period of highly escalated risk for false accusation and let your attorney know that especially i…
/r/MensRights18/06/24 04:08 AM
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Must always be the victim, and if not really a victim then invent it somehow. Seen it enough to know it's some kind of innate need.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:56 PM
1

You agree with feminism but then put it to the test and it fails? That's a damn odd internal logic system you have. I am mad at the world when it fucks me and my family over, like in family court. I am very upset at how young women can ruin young men's lives by uttering a lie to any authority, that alone makes me hate feminists and those who support them. Dating though? no, getting mad at dating is like getting mad at the weather. Modern dating is revealing women, not changing them. It allows th…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:34 PM
2

For a decent looking woman, right. They however do not want that at 20-30, its only after they have played the field that they are sad.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 02:00 PM
1

Huh, so what was 'wrong' with post? I read it and cannot see why it was controversial
/r/MensRights25/05/24 01:56 PM
3

I ran into that mentality among some young women as well and it's so awful that I truly felt sorry for any man in their lives. Either you can pay outright for it which is actually easier on you, or you will have to pay in even more expensive ways. Modern feminism tells women to cash in on pussy power, and your man better make you happy or else. One women casually told me she had to get back home to her boyfriend after having sex with me. If I am 23 years old right now with what I know, I am not …
/r/MensRights25/05/24 01:44 PM
2

Women in my family give me love. A wife will love you but it is conditional for sure and when some divorce their fangs come out and you see a side that you can't believe exists. Not all women of course, but way too many to take any risk getting married.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 01:37 PM
9

What you are saying isn't unreasonable, but we are still stuck with some realities that will be extremely difficult to alter.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 03:39 PM
1

What kind of bear and in what proximity? If Polar or Grizzly bear within 20ft then you would have to be an idiot to pick the bear. A lone black bear 200 yards away is harmless.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 12:47 PM
0

Sweden has private property rights (like the US) and are the golden child of the left, North Korea has huge parades for generating patriotism, are you really so dense you cannot understand that? You have a real problem with reason and logic, and a very limited understanding of this concept. Socialism has no standard definition and Hitler's is as good as any, the fact is that many of their policies would squarely belong with the US left. the nazi economy and many of its social policies are more a…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 02:45 AM
1

Securing power requires an agent with power that uses it, aka the government with a gun that kills all in its way, your assertion is nonsensical
/r/MensRights23/05/24 02:39 AM
0

Nazis were leftists in almost all that they did, not just in name. Certainly you are not dumb enough to think the bill of rights was a bad idea because slavery existed in those times right? That would be like saying all communists are racist because so were Marx and Engells, only an idiot would judge an idea because the author was fill-in-the blank something bad. The KKK were all democrats a while back speaking of that shit so don't even try it. In the words of Adolph Hitler himself, Nazi's were…
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:29 AM
3

I think 'the spectrum' as you put it is BS, an unnecessary abstraction to hide the fallacies of the left. The Nazis did not ban the labor unions, they simply nationalized them as was done in the soviet union and north korea, so let me ask you, when was the last time a labor strike happened in north korea? oh that's right, never. do not even try that bullshit line of thought
/r/MensRights22/05/24 03:36 AM
3

well ok but all modern dictatorships are usually left wing. it turned out that allowing in unmitigated immigration was actually a real boogeyman
/r/MensRights22/05/24 03:30 AM
1

First question, do you actually not understand North Korea is communist, aka far left? secondly do you not understand that many of western youth think communism is what they stand for? third question, which American party eradicated slavery?
/r/MensRights22/05/24 03:24 AM
4

then why does marxist feminism even exist? they created a class of oppressed based upon gender. In any event all I am saying is that it is the same playbook- create an oppressor then base your political power on it
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:50 PM
4

If you don't understand that progressives create identity groups out of race and gender then you do not really know American politics very well.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:39 PM
1

No they were far left, Nazi stood for National Socialist German Workers' Party. There has been a extreme amount of tortured apologetics to make them right wing as the left became embarrassed by it all. Far right is what American founding fathers did, liberty to the extreme, individualism and individual rights which is nothing at all like Nazi Germany. Hitler identified the oppressors as Jews, and the oppressed as other Germans in identical fashion that todays American democrats create 'oppressed…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:38 PM
9

Good! I wanted that but the reality is that your situation is now almost unusual and given all that I have been through I cannot do it again even if a unicorn shows up at my front door. Best to you and your partner.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:34 PM
2

I paid for a lot of dates and bailed out many young women, most of them were very appreciative of it. The sugar dating dynamic is sort of refreshing that way because they would not dare piss me off even if they were hardcore feminists. Traditional dating and marriage is mostly dead as there were only a couple of those young ladies I would consider as partner material, especially after I spoiled them. If somebody actually called me that personally, she would immediately be nexted. Who knows what …
/r/MensRights21/05/24 02:34 PM
20

So many problems in your life will magically disappear if you can free yourself of the instinct to mate up, IF, and that's saying something as it isn't easy. It's a remarkably blissful state of being on the outside of the shitbox looking in. I see so many married guys at stores and restaurants and I feel so glad to not be living that anymore. What is funny is that in general they feel sorry for me, they think life without a woman partner to sacrifice and compromise for is some terrible existence…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 02:22 PM
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Yes, all progressive identity politics uses the same shit done a 100 years ago in the soviet union and nazi germany. Identify the oppressor and they are oppressed because that makes it a morally justified power struggle when they try and destroy you. Most all left wing politics requires a boogey man because they need a reason to grab power.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 11:56 AM
3

Right, Hollywood is run by woke assholes now. Somehow just telling a good story isnt what entertainment is about anymore, gotta have the damn political agenda. I am really happy that entertainment is exploding in a million directions and diluting the big movie studio power.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 09:21 AM
1

You seem predisposed tp be affected by this stuff and not vice versa, in other words reddit is just an aggravation and not the cause. Get healthy first, then get wealthy, then maybe come back. Not saying that what you are saying is false, its your response to it that is the problem. I get pissed off too and my revenge is to live well.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 09:16 AM
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The very same progressive fuckers that think it is a good idea to immigrate in millions of muslims then say it is racist to point out the terrible muslim treatment of women. Lets be clear here, it is hatred of white men that is the real agenda.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 09:07 AM
6

Ha, and the shit a man will put up with just to bang
/r/MensRights20/05/24 02:03 PM
2

I have found that it matters a lot who I interact with as some people make me feel worse than before I met them. Also if you give off desperate vibes a lot of people don't like that. Bars are hit or miss, cigar shops work really well for some reason as us cigar smokers seem to have this auto bonding thing going on, and conventions are awesome as everyone shares a hobby. I get weekly medical massage and the touching is therapeutic not mention it just feels great overall for your health. I have fa…
/r/MensRights20/05/24 01:54 PM
1

get a real medical massage, feels great and a woman is touching your body.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 01:40 PM
1

sorry man
/r/MensRights20/05/24 01:39 PM
6

Sure, but I would get a divorce ASAP as who knows when one of her episodes destroys your life. I have been binge watching marriage cringe shit lately and I can feel the sense of hopelessness in a guy like her husband. Well at least I survived that life trap but my god I wasted so many of my good years.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 01:37 PM
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I can't fathom being married to that mess, but also can't understand why the neighbor kept talking to her.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 02:59 AM
1

not really, right wing us about rights to protect us from government
/r/MensRights17/05/24 08:45 PM
1

Pearlythings offends you? are you a troll?
/r/MensRights17/05/24 08:43 PM
1

agreed, I hope AI destroys only fools
/r/MensRights11/05/24 03:32 PM
3

Sexual value to women on the app- by definition it is an almost perfect measure. Men's value to everyone else for anything else such as employment - it is irrelevent for that. Value to the world is determined everyone else, not you. Self value is most important though and you have control of that. Value itself is just a feeling and nothing more.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 09:41 AM
4

Former researcher here - "Amazing" is an adjective we never ascribed to anybody, only amazing results and I am not sure how anybody can evaluate even an amazing result, let alone person, without working closely in that field. Anybody can appear smart to the outsider but actually be a charlatan. Feynman said most scientists don't know more about politics than the man on the street.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:05 PM
10

Exactly, nature had to evolve it strong for us to put up with them.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 04:19 PM
15

The male sex drive is a hell of a drug, I was no exception.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 03:44 PM
23

Every young man should understand this. Imagine if we could teach a class of life to young men about money and sex, this stuff would be required study. A sure way to ruin your life is to put your deal into a cluster B.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 01:36 PM
10

I got sugar babies, did wonders for me.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 01:37 AM
7

Tell that to the ladies. I was busting my ass trying in grad school for a better life for me and my family but all my free time was with them. That made my wife 'lonely' and she started an affair. Looking back I think she would have done it no matter what as she was really smitten with that loser and he ended up assaulting her. There is nothing I would do differently except not marry her, to say I had control is delusional. People can change and women especially now are encouraging each other to…
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:17 PM
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I would make up a fake facebook account as a woman to get access and see what they are saying, screen grab the slandererous shit and start another forum dedicated to the therapist and her gossip group
/r/MensRights22/04/24 01:59 PM
10

Yes and I am happy the child doesn't have to suffer as well. Women hate reputation destruction, if I am the judge I would make sure she is wearing one of those bright orange jail suit things while she does her community service in public view.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 01:29 PM
1

Its both, I am glad it worked for you but as a workable lifestyle/philosophy for all men it is a dead end. If you father went MGTOW your way you would not be here to talk about it
/r/MensRights21/04/24 08:23 PM
2

A lot of young women are trying to monetize porn on only fans and feminists cheer it on. Kind of hard to take their criticism seriously.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 03:46 PM
0

I already have a family with women in it and I am glad I do. I cannot follow this stuff even though I am fully aware of the important and valid issues we talk about. Yours is a depressing philosophy, if all men did it the economy would collapse and humans are extinct in 100 years. The ensuing collapse would not "leave you alone" as you fantasize about this carefree life if only both sexes would completely disengage with each other. I can actually do what you say, financially independent and live…
/r/MensRights21/04/24 02:04 PM
1

The citation is her feelings, that is all the evidence most women need.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 01:12 PM
77

They are not doing anything wrong, women and pair bonding dynamics have changed. Nobody will teach young men these simple truths: if you you want to get laid just be Henry Cavill, if you actually want a real life partner forget it until your 30s at least
/r/MensRights12/04/24 11:59 PM
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It would take an idiot to choose the bear but I really think a lot of these people are idiots. The fact that it is trendy to say it is troubling.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 06:24 AM
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Because the court will say you should bear some responsibility for your own kids. If the custodial parent declines that is another story but generally you will pay something if you dont have custody.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:44 PM
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alimoney yes, child support no if the parent getting awarded has full custody, and guess who gets to determine custody
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:23 PM
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Higher earner pays alimony generally, in my state there is an actual mathematical formula. There are other factors such as imputed income (what you are capable of making, have made in the past, etc.) and circumstances like disability. Child support depends on custodial agreements and other expenses like health insurance, and also has a formula as guidance. Lower earner will still pay if the higher earner has full custody, but the split will be proportional to income. Here is the thing, family la…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:08 PM
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Really sad to hear that. Being a divorced dad carries the double whammy of being alone and being a slave, all the while as you say feminists are trashing you as a human. I wish there was a community of them living together but like you said nobody seems to care. It's harmful to society, but I gotta say I can no longer see why a young man in his 20s would ever start a family now. I love kids and family but the way to go is to wait for mid-thirties while you save up a large bankroll and build up y…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 03:48 PM
1

Conscious action implies free will, so you cannot be 'governed by' anything other than your own choices. When it comes to sex however, I cannot consciously make myself like obese women for instance as it simply does not work that way. Heck if I could choose that I would as sex would be incredibly easy to get. I can consciously follow my instincts, or I can try and ignore them, but what I cannot do is change them or make them go away. Feminists used to say things like makeup and heels were male o…
/r/MensRights07/04/24 02:52 PM
7

In my locale in the USA, women are not oppressed. Feminism says they are. Young white boys are told in schools they are rapist oppresspors. You want want me to not be in conflict with that false religion? No fucking way will I ever start with any concession towards their psycho beliefs, they can compromise to reality first then i might start trying to reach out
/r/MensRights07/04/24 02:31 PM
1

Sexual attraction is innate mostly, you cannot change instincts with ideology but that doesn't stop feminists from trying
/r/MensRights06/04/24 03:24 PM
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Even feminists dont respect male feminists, jeez you may as well castrate yourself if you go that route. The thing is when it comes to sexual attraction you cannot change biology by feminist decree and if you are stupid enough to believe otherwise you deserve incelhood.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 12:28 PM
1

Women lie a LOT more than what is portrayed by the feminist narrative, you should approach any work situation knowing that and I assume you know that by now. I don't know what your career field is but if you can look for male dominated work environments you will feel safer.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 12:16 PM
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I am more worried about the call your job part, pretty awful they would think of that.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 05:29 AM
3

Why was this even a case? because the leftist ass holes have taken over universities. It any sane free world due process is obviously a given, suspension of it is exactly what is done in left wing dictatorships. Not exactly a conservative but I am so thankful they exist in sufficient numbers to hold off this crap for a while at least. I see that Gen Z males are unhappy and leaning conservative, no kidding, what choice is there when progressives are busy putting their jackboots on your throat.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 03:49 PM
3

What is really stupidly ironic about that catty gossip site is that they actually are all dating the same small group of men and they don't care. Dating apps prove the top 7% of men get all the hits, and women made it that way, so why the site? because women love gossip. Jordan Peterson is spot on with this issue, a man will hit you if he is angry, a woman will try and destroy your reputation.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 02:49 PM
2

I was talking about rich women but right. I'm not sure why rich women even bother getting married or why any guy would want that other than you are her boytoy after her money in divorce court. I have seen couples where the woman is high earner, seemed functional but definitely could see who was boss. It still doesnt matter sometimes even if she marries a top dog. Tom Brady's wealthy wife had a a trophy husband, he was still just a commodity at the end of the day. How much respect is Taylor Swift…
/r/MensRights29/03/24 11:12 AM
1

To which again they are not required to reply to, and they are not required to agree with your ranking. You have to get them to say in writing that they are choosing based on gender and that approach does not do that.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 03:43 PM
16

Right, but she will still bang the Chad poolboy
/r/MensRights27/03/24 06:38 PM
4

yes and it is quite sad, to top it off the number of very young men being pushed into transgender is also a disturbing new trend. I hate to say it, but they are winning the war on men.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 05:09 PM
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Leadership probably won't respond to such an email, they will get irritated and have a verbal discussion with you.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 03:11 PM
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from the article: "Justice Amanda Forrester told the woman that she understood reporting her ex-husband’s abuse was extremely traumatic, and that the woman felt police did not take her accusations seriously. “You felt let down by the justice system, and you felt you had failed to protect your daughters,” she said. “You said your ex-husband told you he would kill you if you left him.” He was acquitted is a justice system that thinks like this judge who automatically takes her side, think about ho…
/r/MensRights27/03/24 01:56 PM
13

China is ahead of the US in technology in several key areas, they are very developed
/r/MensRights27/03/24 12:34 PM
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They do it verbally because of this, it is very common.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 12:33 PM
1

Who cares, do what works for you in life.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 01:00 AM
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Interesting, can you share? Whether the Dr. wins or loses I am glad this is going to court and forcing them to lie under oath. The extent of this is quite clear when the headline they promote says 50 but there are actually a lot less. It is breathtaking really, they actually feel like they should be able to get away with shit like that. I hope they get their own reputations absolutely destroyed by this.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 12:21 PM
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and pay to not be with them
/r/MensRights18/03/24 11:26 PM
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It is innate, women like people and men like things, only a dumbass feminist progressive insists men and women are the same animal.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 07:52 PM
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I really doubt that I could use that excuse if I did a vehicular homicide under the influence of anything where "I did not foresee" the effects. Typically as mentioned it would be a harsher sentence.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 03:29 PM
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Vouchers are not for charter schools, which are publicly funded. Anyway I would never come to you for advice on how to educate my children, and even liberals agree as there are 1300 charter schools in California. Everything progressives touch turns to shit, including public schools.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 03:21 PM
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Men cannot take women to court?
/r/MensRights16/03/24 07:52 PM
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So if I am a single guy in France I deny any child is mine, no testing so what are they going to do? Dont get married in France is the lesson.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 07:32 PM
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Awful but the math doesn't add up for me. They met in 2000, married in 2009, so 20 years of abuse means she was abusing well before marriage. WTH dude, why did he get married and have kids with her? or did the witch come out after 2009 and the 20 years is exaggerated? Either way after 9 years he must have seen something, some kind of hint as to her nature.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 03:51 PM
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Sad to hear that, I hope you two can reconnect someday. Most of us accidental dads really like being dads and I can relate to your story as the circumstances of conception doesn't change anything about the love and bonds we have with our kids. We can't control what happens with significant others, but we can all be good parents when it happens. Glad you are here in this forum, you are appreciated.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 02:16 PM
2

ah, well I am sure he loves you, my son was also not in the plan and he was the best thing that ever happened to me. It's life, happens a lot.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 02:45 AM
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I dont know about 1%, but they cannot get pregnant by someone like me, there is no risk. Dont see why you would say that second paragraph.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 11:09 PM
2

What a conversation that must have been, what topic did you move on to after that?
/r/MensRights15/03/24 09:41 PM
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I am fixed, so no I don't. But lets say I wasnt and told a woman i was and she gets pregnant. Would you blame her for not taking responsibility?
/r/MensRights15/03/24 09:33 PM
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rule 3, get snipped
/r/MensRights15/03/24 09:29 PM
2

good point
/r/MensRights15/03/24 02:36 AM
2

oh no sorry, i was responding to the guy above, my bad. 11months is barely long enough but way better
/r/MensRights14/03/24 10:26 PM
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Looks, money, and status have always been valued, is this another somebody pretending this is new and profound?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 06:51 PM
3

what?? 4 months is just basic how to load a gun shit, not serious training for people who can fight. Fucking Denmark is just virtue signaling, no way do they intend to actually contribute to any real fighting as their percent GDP spent on defense is still below NATO standard 2%.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 05:32 PM
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Chads and hypergamy are real measurable phenomena, they are not ideology
/r/MensRights14/03/24 02:05 PM
1

Right, but the solvency is just numbers on a spreadsheet from the government which is borrowing money to itself. Goverment will just print more so it will be there, it may not pay enough to buy a shit sandwich for lunch but it will be there. Philosophically an argument can be made that the money is better spent throwing it back into economy as it is now. Then people spend more, companies do better, more employment, etc. and then overall tax base goes up to support ssi in the first place. Has lim…
/r/MensRights14/03/24 10:15 AM
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I am looking at a simplistic model where you mandate all receipts go to SPX, or use wilshire as we want a stocks not just 500. The buying inflows would mean suddenly SSI is the largest buyer of stocks, over decades. The effect is upwards price pressure, which decreases long term returns. You cannot buy that volume of stocks without increasing their price. But buying at higher prices means less long term returns. It works better if we shift some to bonds as the trust fund is doing anyway. Interes…
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:52 AM
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Market cap isnt big enough, the inflow would distort to the upside
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:29 AM
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They set the curriculum and teachers are on board, it is not a lie
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:27 AM
1

Works well in my personal situation, but on the macro level the stock market isnt big enough.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:20 AM
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No but once you remove the manipulative power of sex then of course there was something 'wrong with me' and it is wrong to not want sex to your wife. I explained I was tired of putting up with the crap so I stopped caring. Lots of silence, followed by grudging admission with resentment. Kind of works if you just be nice, mostly it doesnt work.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:17 AM
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Bodies are objects, nature trained us to be attracted to some of these objects in order to propagate the species. Many women are the same as you said but actually worse, men are objects with wallets.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:12 AM
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good luck, I just stopped asking and boy did the shit show start then
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:09 AM
1

Vouchers exist because liberal run schools suck. Yeah, they are teaching hatred of white boys, so defund them
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:55 AM
1

SS fund? there is none, what are you talking about?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:53 AM
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It doesnt seem, they just are.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:46 AM
2

Details matter here, without context its hard to draw any conclusions. You can argue imputed income in alimony but I think child support is different.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:45 AM
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For who, your significant other? They dont want the competition, even with a TV character. Other than that I dont know what you are talking about.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:41 AM
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Being single does mean less sex typically but sex within marriage wasn't that great for me. Too much bullshit surrounding it as you describe.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:29 AM
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I don't have that luxury while they are in charge, don't want the world to burn.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:13 AM
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I am not avoiding good romance if it falls in my lap, however I am not wasting time looking for it either as the chances are small for most of us. Your obvious advice is ok but not really useful.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 01:36 AM
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Yes I think divorce is better under the right, but everyone needs to review the laws which are still rooted in very old ideas. Any man contemplating marriage should read divorce laws. If you really believe that your partner actually earns half your paycheck, or that the more you do for them that means the more you owe them, then go for it. There needs to be a third way here, kids and family are great but under a different set of rules.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 04:52 PM
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We are what keeps society going, and women need to gave kids or civilization dies. It is just reality. The beef I have with conservatives is family court and laws slanted against men.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 03:42 PM
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women too, how is this a man only issue? SSI does need reform and his point about life expectancy is valid.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 03:40 PM
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Feminists always come up with these ridiculously dumb abstract generalizations then pretend that they are obviously true so then they can on with their crap agenda as justified. Post modernism in general is just one big steaming pile of made-up religion for the progressive masses. None of that stuff she writes applies to my personality and my life. There have been no damn benefits, only trouble, however I can list several examples of where feminist policy was actively oppressing me. In 1999 I wa…
/r/MensRights12/03/24 09:34 AM
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Arguing about style? don't argue about style, your position should be that the argument itself is dumb as it is purely opinion and anybody who wants to seriously argue it is as intellectually sophisticated as a Golden Retriever. Tell them that such a discussion is truly boring and you have better things to think about.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 12:42 PM
4

Right, it only takes one to fuck you up so be wary of all.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 05:59 AM
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I was falsely accused of abuse and even though everyone knows she is lying I have had enough. Sure "not all women" but enough of them will do that crap to warrant my voluntary, not involuntary, abstinence from traditional relationships. Incel is their new favorite word because they think they are getting under our skin by an attack on our masculinity (the very thing they think is toxic), volcel is more appropriate for a lot of us.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 05:53 AM
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Singles do all that shit without a second thought, but when it's a SAH woman suddenly its oppressive labor for the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 05:26 PM
2

It's worse than that, advertisers know women control household spending, that's why they target women. 85% of consumer spending, try getting your brain around that one, so oppressed they are ​ https://www.rbcwealthmanagement.com/en-us/insights/power-of-the-purse-how-women-can-use-their-economic-power-to-spend-with-purpose#:\~:text=Household%20purchasing%20is%20largely%20controlled%20by%20women%2C%20and,purchases%20are%20driven%20by%20women%2C%20according%20to%20Forbes.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 04:53 PM
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Feminist women own the democrats and their simp men, feminist women lie and manipulate, therefore so do democrats
/r/MensRights10/03/24 04:08 PM
3

Except you would not exist if your father followed this
/r/MensRights10/03/24 04:05 PM
1

Take inventory and record (keep the records safe) your exact wealth the day before you get married. That stuff in generally excluded from marital property division. Prenups require attorneys, so what are you talking about?
/r/MensRights09/03/24 09:16 PM
6

So the fuckers who created it want to fix it?
/r/MensRights09/03/24 05:09 PM
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As a former researcher I found some garbage in engineering and science journals. This topical area however isnt science anymore, it's thinly disguised propaganda. Anybody with training knows how to crank out a predetermined conclusion. Politics and money is all that matters now.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 03:53 PM
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First let me correct you on one item, black men do commit violent crime at a far higher rate. It's in the FBI crime data, it's not my opinion. Just tell them that of course not all of anybody can be used in any argument, generalizations like that are statistical in nature. For instance Asians do better in school, its's because the data shows it but of course not every single Asian is doing well in school but we still say it because it holds over a distribution of a population. If misandry is a r…
/r/MensRights08/03/24 01:37 PM
1

Why would I need to be a priest or monk? Voluntary means I had a choice to have sex and chose not to. I have done that a lot in my life. Involuntary means I want it but no woman has ever offered it. Big difference, however I think a lot of incels have given up trying and are now volcels
/r/MensRights05/03/24 02:46 PM
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Thanks for the link, no time to read it all now but I do think the major conclusions should not be a surprise but unfortunately they are. The problem for the feminists is that with the ever shrinking pool of men to blame they will have to lie and invent somebody if the incels cannot be blamed. The whole idea is stupid anyway- blame men who are NOT interacting with women for some of women's problems. Not that anybody should expect feminists to be reasonable but it seems like a lot of men fall for…
/r/MensRights04/03/24 01:17 PM
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oh boy, so nobody better dare question you and your sources or they are biased and unreliable, right on buddy the thing is i dont use one source and i go issue by issue with as pure data as possible, do my own thinking and dont rely on journalist to make my conclusions. . You dont need to question my sources because I dont have any, unless the raw data is wrong and i am open to correction on that. It is your way that sucks pal
/r/MensRights03/03/24 08:21 PM
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And who rates Ad Fontes? anybody who rates ABC and NPR that high is inaccurate themselves
/r/MensRights03/03/24 04:33 PM
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Amazing what a little pussy will get one these days. Young men who stand and screech with the feminists not only gave up their freedom, they gave up their mind and dignity, that's quite a trick.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 02:33 PM
5

lucky you, I had to be fucked over before I learned
/r/MensRights03/03/24 02:31 PM
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It's obvious to me, the progressive victim industry and identity politics is just too damned lucrative and powerful. The patriarchy existence was a necessary outcome of their activities, they had to call the giant boogeyman something.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 02:17 PM
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Nice, you might write about once you understand how society is structured towards matriarchy then you can let go and not give a crap anymore. It's awesome because you know there is nothing wrong with you and you can go on to enjoy your limited existence. I am happy for all the guys blissfully unaware of this in a 'good' relationship but they should know if any shit hits the fan they are fucked. I have seen enough, most relationships are simp men giving up their lives chasing after vaginas. The f…
/r/MensRights03/03/24 01:59 PM
2

that is not involuntary though
/r/MensRights01/03/24 07:45 PM
3

I think most women now will end up as cat ladies, most men will move on from women and learn to get over their instincts and either try to make something out of their lives or simply not give a shit anymore and do the bare minimum. I am seeing a lot of singles are happy not even trying to date.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 02:45 PM
1

exactly right on...and money, its the same old politics thousands of years old, find an issue, any issue, and leverage the hell out of it for money and power. Lie, cry, threaten, bully, imprison, and do whatever you need to do just get the power.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 12:11 PM
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Here is what I have learned about many women like his daughter. It doesn't matter if you tell them they are lying, they think that all that matters is if they FEEL something is true. You can demonstrate an objective lie and it still won't matter as then they respond by gaslighting you by insinuating that calling them out on anything is bullying and disrespectful. Her father is enabling this crap by saying 'that is her reality',' well daddy her reality is false and you are not helping at all. So …
/r/MensRights27/02/24 12:08 PM
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correct, most women try to flip the script when caught
/r/MensRights24/02/24 05:11 PM
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Right, everything is statistical tendency when we discuss people and there are always outliers. What you say seems about right but what I would say is that nobody respects a disingenuous ass kisser which may be how feminist men come across. The feminist I dated was beautiful except for that damned nose ring. I even liked the blue hair highlights and didn't mind that she said she was bi and really didn't like men that much. As time went on and I simply stayed nice to her no matter what she said (…
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:45 PM
1

It started with my comment that any feminist supporting people who would force them to wear a hijab and make them walk behind men is obviously stupid, in line with their overall hypocrisy. You are the fuckwad that broadened into the war in general. Anybody who can think will see through your shit, it's a problem for you since I won't swallow anyones propaganda.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 02:54 PM
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meaningless drive-by comments are stupid
/r/MensRights23/02/24 01:49 PM
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false analogy, never said anything like that, learn logic
/r/MensRights23/02/24 01:49 PM
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I am a thinker, that is all I am, which is a huge problem for propagandists like you So Isreal helped start Hamas 40 years ago, but Iran has been funding them for at least the last 20 years that makes Isreal responsible for Hamas' current actions? only a fucking idiot would think that and ignore Iran's role. Only a fucking idiot would think the Hamas attack in October was justified and is not responsible for the current war in Gaza, really, it takes a fucking idiot to not see that. You must be o…
/r/MensRights23/02/24 12:33 PM
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Yes it is. Hamas was the aggresor in October not Isreal. Hamas was voted in power and supported by palastine so they are the same. Women are treated like shit in societies with Islamic law, why in hell would any women support that in any way?
/r/MensRights23/02/24 11:17 AM
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My favorite these days are western feminists that support Hamas. In Gaza women have wear hijabs and walk behind men by Islamic law, yet oppresion is all the fault of Isreal by some sort of feat if logical torture, even when women in Isreal clearly do not have to do that
/r/MensRights23/02/24 10:49 AM
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and money, and status
/r/MensRights23/02/24 10:43 AM
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What these dumb men dont get is that all women want certain type of men and that feminism (or their bootlicking) cannot change biology. A lot of these women are in denial about it too, even when they bang men like us they talk how they hate the patriarchy. Yeah I had that experience too.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 10:41 AM
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yes, checkmate at that point, you pay either way then. it's wicked
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:38 PM
3

ah ok, I had a pretty demanding job and taking care of my son was pretty damn enjoyable compared to herding cats at a tech company. I am an alone empty nester now, very peaceful.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:04 PM
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My second wife was so blatant about it that sex that day became a reward for something she wanted that day like a shopping trip or a vacation reservation. I don't know about most men but I got resentful as hell and it backfired on her because I gave up on sex entirely and started doing my own thing. As you can imagine that was a very short marriage.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:01 PM
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Depends on the job, I loved being a single dad and could have stayed at home. I can find plenty to develop myself with- not working now and I am fine.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:46 PM
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Well yes, nature made it that way because survival of the species is all that matters, your happiness is meaningless in nature. We would not be here if our fathers did not accept the shitty deal so it ain't all bad. Women used to be better though 100 years ago, so the comparison is not valid as women have changed a lot. Feminism, birth control, and the internet have changed the game permanently for the worse so do not get married! however I do recommend kids as they are one of the few things tha…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:45 PM
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Her response is so typical of a woman, she tries to flip the script and be the victim. I have had experiences like that so many times I think it is just how they are- never accountable. https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-47718477 The rapper faced criticism after the three-year-old Instagram live video recirculated on social media. "Whether or not they were poor choices at the time, I did what I had to do to survive," she wrote on Tuesday. "I never claimed to be perfect or come from a pe…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:36 PM
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I have likely had more women than you have, I am a sugar daddy and have been married 3 times. See how fast you went straight for the smear label? Up your ass loser progressive, your OP was also lame as nothing actually happened to you. BTW crime stats show I am far safer in my red area of gun owners than almost any progressive city.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:39 PM
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Does Jordan Peterson sound like someone who doesn't care about men? I agree the right needs to stop promoting marriage until they start telling women to be better, but come on, the right does not hate men. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pS-bNNTUsEo I call bullshit on your narrative. You admit progressives have a 'minority' of man haters, well then why do you fucking tolerate them? MeToo, the Patriarchy, men are innate rapists and oppressors, active policy and speech against men and especially w…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:34 PM
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Almost all the anti-men idealogy is from progressives that is why. Dont even try to claim it is some sort of mixed bag, it aint.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 06:31 AM
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It is as bad as you say, modern liberalism is now a man hating cult and universities magnify it. They have been hating on men for decades and sadly they won over public institutions. Understanding the situation is a good thing now you can think about ways to survive it. there are many options, this forum is a good place to get ideas. For now relax and focus on self improvement and making money, stop wasting time with those life sucking woke fuckers.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 02:52 PM
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I do understand what I did, it's called shitty judgement. I married an immature person because she was pretty and I wanted sex and I should never have married her. We were at counseling trying to work it out, however you cannot 'work it out' with an immature person because they do not have the emotional IQ to work out any adult problem and I am not going to sacrifice my mental health and self respect for an immature and selfish person. The counselor saw that, she was spot on, stop acting so damn…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 03:26 PM
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So even if you are with a psychopath killer, you should just work it because it is never 100% them. how dumb
/r/MensRights16/02/24 02:25 PM
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It was a woman not a nan, she told me the truth I did not see that my wife sucked. What a fucking awful fallacy you post, 'even if you are with a shitbag' then I should own something and suck it up and find 'my problems' ... oh just fuck off
/r/MensRights16/02/24 04:04 AM
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not talking about that, talking about upgrading, you have no idea how hard 'upgrading' is
/r/MensRights16/02/24 01:11 AM
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Dont give shitty advice, 'upgrade' is easy to say but impossible for most
/r/MensRights16/02/24 12:38 AM
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no they aint, the majority of young men cannot afford a foreign bride
/r/MensRights16/02/24 12:29 AM
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I met one useful therapist once, she told me that my wife was immature and that I wasnt the problem.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 12:01 AM
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Do not try to reconcile, your future self will agree
/r/MensRights13/02/24 07:08 AM
9

Young pretty girls with no kids have the option, but there are not enough young millionaires to marry or who will put up with their entitlement, so they sugar date if they want that. Young fat women with kids have shitty marriage options.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 06:57 AM
3

and in many places, dont live with somone long enough to establish common law
/r/MensRights13/02/24 05:17 AM
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Young women in general are more promiscuous (to my delight) and certainly alcohol intensifies that. I would agree that anyone who lives for the club is also a red flag, but same goes for men. What you need to show is that most 'clubber' women are feminist and have higher than average divorce rates. Again I would agree that overall our modern culture sucks for men and marriage.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 01:33 PM
2

I drink alcohol, so what? I agree with the non marriage part, but disagree with your details about drinking and clubbing. How about this- Marriage itself is a huge gamble with your life, but marrying a feminist multiplies the risk tremendously as they are trained to hate men.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 01:18 PM
3

It took a bit, but after my third divorce I began realize that the majority of women are master manipulators whenever it suits them. Women are always the victim and they will absolutely torture logic and reason in order to make it so. Society has gotten so used to it that most men stopped fighting it.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 07:21 PM
18

As a former provider who is now retired, it is insane to me that young women are saying this stuff but also a blessing. The more toxic women get, the more men will realize they are better off alone and spending their own cash on themselves.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 06:13 PM
5

Thanks,, If you want more info or whatever, PM. I am in this sub because I care about my fellow men, especially young men who I think are getting effed over.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 01:02 AM
3

nope, done it, don't care about others opinions.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:12 PM
4

As an ex sugar daddy, you are wrong. Prostitutes were often on the sugar sites and they are a quite different person than a regular sugar baby. Sex and money are there for sure, but so is emotional connection and a relationship of sorts, it really was not a lot different than being married sometimes. I had 'family' outings with SBs and their kids, whores want to get your rocks off as quick as possible and get the hell out of there.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 09:54 PM
1

It has also changed over time, old school feminists will tell you that. This new wave of lesbian led man haters are pretty aggressive in their goals of putting down men, especially white men.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 07:21 PM
1

I am not an incel, but have given up on traditional relationships. Only done sugar babies, even that gets old. Redefine 'the hole' you are in is the only logical solution in my opinion, I am not changing myself just to get laid by some delusional modern woman. Being older I of course have the luxury of not giving a damn, but I think I would play the same game if I were younger. If you are not a top 5%-er guy that gets laid by all the ladies then just develop yourself, save your cash, and buy som…
/r/MensRights05/02/24 06:00 PM
1

How exactly do you get a lot of money by chasing to opposite sex? Sugar babies and gold diggers do, I know that part, but for men? you make zero sense living longer? I am talking versus 30 years ago being able to protect oneself is a reward? of what?? WTF, you are nonsense
/r/MensRights05/02/24 05:55 PM
2

You don't appear to understand what anecdotal means. The discussions appear to come straight from NICU units, yet you claim the opposite. Why are you so dishonest?
/r/MensRights05/02/24 02:13 PM
3

what if the woman's shit test is stupid? your fallacy is assuming the woman is perfect and the man must always adapt
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:34 AM
6

Right, in the age of online everything, women have regressed to their primal selves. Again not just saying it as data from online dating proves it. They fuck chads for 10 years then when they are in their 30s start looking for Mr. Right to have a family with. Too late, and they seem to have no idea what they have turned themselves into. Feminism and the internet have been extremely destructive to family formation.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:31 AM
10

What the hell is the best version of me? I hope you dont mean a young man should focus on developing what attracts women, that doesnt work. Women dont even want that, what a waste of time. The real issue here is how desireable women's mating strategies have changed. They never own that, they always blame men for becoming unfuckable when dating site data proves just how bad it is for the average guy.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:21 AM
3

I feel the same and yes I see it too. I am divorced, only have done paid sugar babies (sex is waayyyy better so save up) and now done with that too. Alone now and I am very happy about my relationship situation. Finally feel like I have modern women figured out but dont hate them for it, just realize what a shit sandwich they can be and how brainwashed men can be. There is a data point for you.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 01:22 PM
65

sure could be, but you have no evidence so you are baiting too
/r/MensRights04/02/24 01:13 PM
6

Muslim countries, as lomg as you are not tapped to fight for some fucker in a bathrobe and stupid booties
/r/MensRights03/02/24 11:10 PM
1

to get 'credit' from women? why bother, they wont care
/r/MensRights30/01/24 11:09 PM
15

50K a year is short end?
/r/MensRights26/12/23 02:34 AM
6

Staying divorced because I want to never again owe somebody my money simply because we signed that dumb agreement called marriage. Not exactly rejecting women, rejecting giving up my time, attention, and money for something with not enough return to it. I cannot compromise amymore, not mentally capable.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 10:28 PM
11

I did, thanks, unfortunately that does not get my money back
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:40 PM
20

I had a partner, she fucked me over in family court, I wish I had never met her.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:36 PM
7

Holy Smokes, why even date?
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:33 PM
1

I only had two marriage counselors, both woman, and the second one basically told me my wife was too immature to help. The first was completely worthless, kept talking about 'the energy' and asking me when my pain started. LOL, no they are apparently not all the same
/r/MensRights30/11/23 10:16 PM
1

yes, the military budget was reduced both in nominal dollars and as a percent of gdp, so low that in 1999 it was the lowest percent of gdp since before WW2. go look it up before you comment again
/r/MensRights26/11/23 11:25 PM
1

The republican congress in 1994-2000 pushed pretty hard, the military fell by a lot in those years and the at lradt talked about getting rid if our useless department of education.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 11:16 PM
1

it has not expired, get informed before you make an opinion. now you are arguing the lower half benefited from trump tax cuts? lol, WTF
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:56 PM
1

oh bullshit, when the trump tax cut expire it will hit middle income people like me. the lower half of taxpayers pay no income tax, they have no business complaining
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:41 PM
0

incorrect, the only party that has ever pushed for lower taxes and regulation, and smaller government, are the republicans
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:24 PM
1

I cannot believe the logical torture being done here, collectivism is now libertarian according to you. If you cannot understand that individual property rights underpin liberty than you are really hopeless. Stop being stupid, everywhere collectivism has been applied people have been oppressed. Collectivism is always accomplished at government gunpoint against the wishes of most people, this is fucking insane. progressives are for high taxes, big goverment, feminism, metoo, speech restrictions, …
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:16 PM
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you can consider all you want, the fact is that libertarianism is incompatible with American liberalism, you ARE the very definition of government overreach and are the home of ALL the feminists that are so destructive to men's well being. Nobody but delusional fools thinks libertarians are in the american left
/r/MensRights25/11/23 03:20 PM
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left wing libertarian is an oxymoron, and you again cannot make a good argument
/r/MensRights25/11/23 02:35 PM
3

no, it's saying government should not be the answer, but individuals are free to not be indifferent or do whatever
/r/MensRights25/11/23 02:33 PM
1

libertarian progressive is an oxymoron, progressives are for big government bernie sanders style. provide the data that shows most americans are what you say, provide it or admit you made it up
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:56 PM
1

which is an accurate description of progressives in the US, all their utopian dreams are through an authoritarian government
/r/MensRights12/11/23 12:57 PM
1

you are not a progressive, they believe in jamming down their agenda at government gunpoint while taking away your money and freedom
/r/MensRights12/11/23 12:17 AM
2

oxymoron being progressive and libertarian, they have directly conflicting principles
/r/MensRights11/11/23 10:09 PM
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Women think skinny men with decent jobs are worthless if they are not a chad. It has been studied and proven with data from dating sites, all women have to do is not be fat in the sexual marketplace and they can get a date assuming they aint too freaky. So no, I dont think women are rational here, we both dont want fat people but women want the 6-6-6 too. Do I have an issue personally? not really, I am not looking gor a wife. I have an issue with how this is ruining our civilization, and yes men…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 11:22 PM
2

Depends on how often you need them, but generally this is true. You can get a hooker once a week for the same cost as 2 nice dates. I dont like them or the experience personally so I go the sugar daddy gf route when i feel like i have to, which is also cheaper than a wife but requires more cash than an escort and a steady committment.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 09:08 AM
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Modern dating dynamics were created by women who only chase the top 5% of men. When they are complaining they talking about not being able to get one of those top 5% all to themselves, the rest of us simply dont exist in their minds. Defeated by mathematial reality it all only works for mostly those top men, everyone else is unhappy. The fat ugly women of course become feminists and are celebrated even though they are mostly worthless. I am not an incel but I understand it. We must become a more…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:59 AM
30

The modern term is cat lady
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:47 AM
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even during war, the vast majority survive, go educate yourself
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:08 AM
11

Straight white men get the woke race and gender treatment, it is getting really bad. What I cannot fathom is how many white men get onboard with the bullshit that seeks to destroy them.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:06 AM
7

I would love to, but the democrats wont stop with their white patriarchy bigotry. The issue is that democrats wont let race and sexism go because that is their power base by which they get control, so I get it quite clearly
/r/MensRights31/10/23 05:41 PM
3

It is illogical to be both a MRA and a democrat in the US. The overwhelming majority of feminists are in the democratic party and set policy and attitudes of that party. they hate white men especially, yet so many white men keep voting for them https://www.newsweek.com/biden-administration-unwilling-oppose-discrimination-against-men-opinion-1762731
/r/MensRights31/10/23 09:15 AM
3

Progressives want money and power by using the same playbook used for over a hundred years. Nothibg new or progressive about it.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 09:09 AM
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in the US that is wrong. The left not only wants to keep unfair family law as is because the feminists own the left, they actually want to make it more slanted to women. The left wont touch broken entitlements, broken schools and inner cities run by democrats, failed policies like affirmative action and diversity, and the never ending hatred of white men. Most of all the left never changes its love of government cash and power.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 09:07 AM
4

Right, how can people firmly believe the exact opposite of reality. It is not as if this is hard to find the evidence.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 02:11 PM
5

you are exactly right, and you CAN do this
/r/MensRights12/10/23 03:21 PM
7

How old are you? Hating work is a hard thing to lug around, unless you are over 60 then i get it. 7K escrow shortage? that must mean you have a pricey house. 1300 a month aint too bad, I paid 2K a month alimony to a woman i had no kids with- imagine that. So the picture I am seeing is that you could probably sell the home and get into a decent financial position, so why not? Or just go deep in the hole then pay it when you sell later or declare bankruptcy. First things first, you health, it has …
/r/MensRights12/10/23 02:39 PM
6

As a sugar daddy I can clearly see that sex is not the same as love, but it seems like the link is stronger in me than most of the ladies I have known.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 04:53 PM
1

Holy fuck, let's assume you are right, she went to goddamn Tampa from south Dakota just to get laid instead of getting a divorce. Are you out of your mind?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 02:03 PM
1

Why bother? do you like this bullshit or something?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 12:43 PM
3

I don't chat with women anymore, why bother
/r/MensRights25/09/23 01:03 PM
2

you are only 30, cut your losses, you have a lot of time on your side to make your life good
/r/MensRights16/09/23 04:43 PM
1

The experiment has been done, women, after 50 years of preferential access and countless special scholarships etc., do not want to do engineering. 95% this AI revolution and the hardware that supports it was developed by men. Still need garbage men, plumbers, infantry, construction, etc. The OP is just a stupid idea
/r/MensRights15/09/23 12:04 PM
8

they would not care if they knew, pussy is a hell of a drug
/r/MensRights28/08/23 01:32 AM
2

I have pretty much done it all as far as women and have a high lifetime body count, the sacrifice and compromises of a traditional relationship are simply not worth the rewards anymore for me. Yes women have changed and good for them as I just don't care anymore, I have paid too high a price. Sex is all I desire now, and I can get it if I want by non-traditional means, but even that is a big 'so what' now as I don't need it. Sure, it's in my head, so is every other thought or point of view I hav…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 02:59 PM
3

Wrong, talk to all the people who put in max effort but failed to make the team. We are talking about professiinal sports and you say it doesnt require max physical ability? WTF?? we do not live in a try hard world, we live in a results world, your philosophy is for children and their participation ribbons.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:30 PM
3

then why demand equal pay for a task that requires physical ability? of course they are not equal, so they need to fucking stop demanding equal pay
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:03 PM
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Make them into an average looking guy with average income and make them try get a date on both a dating app and in real life. Make them an average guy with average income paying alimony and child support
/r/MensRights20/08/23 12:07 PM
2

huh, man this whole thing is a shit sandwich
/r/MensRights19/08/23 03:39 AM
3

maybe, or maybe they would be a lot less likely to make false statements in the first place
/r/MensRights18/08/23 10:09 PM
3

That is very close to my life, an occasional SB and that is it. On the very rare date with someone close to my age, even a 50 year old 5/10 woman still behaves like a llife sucking 25 year old. so glad my brain has evolved beyond my penis
/r/MensRights18/08/23 02:09 PM
1

Best wishes your way, I am so damned sorry to hear it
/r/MensRights18/08/23 01:31 AM
4

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/when-catherine-great-invaded-crimea-and-put-rest-world-edge-180949969/ unbelievable feminists would try and use Ukraine as an example, they are stupid but do they actually think people won't research their claims?
/r/MensRights14/08/23 01:33 AM
16

He needs to first explain why I should give a shit about what he thinks.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:56 PM
1

Hang on, one day at a time. You can outlive this but you gotta find simple things today that help. I used physical activity, mechanical hobbies like motorcycles helped my friend. Break life down to the fundamentals, health first.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 02:56 PM
1

with ya, peace to you bro
/r/MensRights08/08/23 01:44 AM
1

It's kind of that way in life in general, the less you talk the better off you are. I also never want to be in court again (divorce), I can't imagine criminal court. I am millimeters from never dating again, although shit like this is rare, relationships are becoming not worth the risk anymore.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 04:53 PM
3

I agree, in a rape case they can probably take your phone. If nobody knows about your account you are probably fine since nobody would look, but I would delete these posts and then my account anyway.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 10:13 AM
4

My state does not have common law, look for one. Child support is not part of that, everyone pays that if your name is on the birth certificate, but that would be the way to go. Young women are not marrying too, this seems easier than it sounds. Here are some thoughts for you, the raw odds from my reading. Higher educated/trained means more stable, and look closely at her family to better your odds. Somewhere to 40-50% of marriages fail, higher if cohabiting. Within marriage somewhere between 25…
/r/MensRights06/08/23 02:29 PM
19

This is about pregnancy and who is responsible, not simple cheating. If the husband cheater causes a pregnancy, government certainly can step in if the pregnant woman wants (see below). So it is only FAIR that if a married woman gets knocked up by a third party guy, THEY should pay, not the husband-cuck. Pregnant by a Married Man Child Support: 4 Easy Ways to Get https://www.lawyersnlaws.com/pregnant-by-a-married-man-child-support.html?expand_article=1
/r/MensRights05/08/23 01:41 PM
5

so is a sugar baby
/r/MensRights04/08/23 07:40 PM
10

All the left, the simps, AND the traditional conservative right blames men, never women for anything. Tired of their shit, don't care what they think.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 07:38 PM
0

again you are too focussed on only one of 14 factors and not taking a holistic approach. Look at it this way, if you saved 20K a month then she also got used to that as well so her standard of living would include that. There is no family court in my area that is going to not start with a 300K income just because you lived below your means.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 05:22 PM
0

300K would be the more relevant number here, you cannot shield income by living below your means. the standatd of livong thing is used mostly for the very wealthy. Remember if you saved a ton of cash, half is hers no matter how frugal you were, and her continuing to be able to save might be viewed as part of the deal.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:15 PM
4

mostly but not always, bottom line is judge can toss it
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:30 PM
6

Attention young men, don't be dumb like me and certainly don't end up like our friend. READ family law before you get married, then ask yourself if you want to roll the dice. You can have kids outside of marriage, and if you do then child support is not avoidable. Can't tell you what to think about that, I love kids and I might do it anyway and you should want to pay for your own. Below are the guidelines judges are supposed to follow here in Ohio, basically the harder you work and more money yo…
/r/MensRights02/08/23 11:50 AM
7

Woke identity politics is now a religion. Details do not matter, all that matters is your attitude and fealty to the cause. They want power and money like everyone, and they use the same tactics as Lenin- leverage any perceived oppression by your followers. This is dumb, if Etsy is doing that without it being explicitly stated in the terms then sue them. If it is explicitly stated use someone else.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 11:32 AM
3

All I can say is this is a lesson for young men that getting married and having kids is extremely risky.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 11:57 AM
1

casual sex has nothing to do with being a great man, where in the actual hell did you get that idea? try self development, accomplishments, family, helping other guys, etc. I have done a lot of casual sex, its a short term hormonal high, nothing lasting or great about it
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:36 PM
31

...and studies have shown women are actually more likely to start wars, when people like RDJ make such conclusions when they have never really studied the issue it shows how effective propaganda is and how progressives love to use it
/r/MensRights25/07/23 12:20 PM
3

yeah, then the Oprah-type gang and the 'you go girl' shit when they tearfully describe how lonely they are. Women just invent their own selfish reality then go all out to normalize it like you say. Solipsism runs strong, but like us they also are not all the same, there are some real gems.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 05:55 PM
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do they have civil lawsuits over there? Seems like a slam dunk
/r/MensRights15/07/23 02:37 PM
3

Every man should read over family law and several court cases like this before the marry anyone. I wish I had, I survived but damn it was painful.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 02:34 PM
3

They justify cheating by saying the guy working so much is destroying their marriage, they are bored and lonely and therefore they are of course victims. Never underestimate the female mind's ability to always be the victim. Never get married.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 02:32 PM
6

Time to say we are hugely offended by all the feminist subs, two can play that game
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:58 PM
2

You have gold and a good pair of minds, there is just not enough gold to go around. It is good to hear it can still work like that.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 01:08 PM
5

I get it, I had full custody and was really happy being dad only and I would have also been happy staying married (I could not, she cheated). So one day later a pretty girls walks by... Went on to marry and divorce 2 more times in my attempts to not be alone, however trying to fix male loneliness only made things worse. I have learned to enjoy being alone and help with grandkids, and indulge in a very occasional sugar baby. This helps me: carefully examine all the married and partnered men aroun…
/r/MensRights02/07/23 05:00 PM
7

yup me too, and even if I had stayed married she was spending it all anyway
/r/MensRights02/07/23 04:48 PM
4

People like you inspire me, had my share of horrible shit but your resiliency must be an amazing thing.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 04:47 PM
1

gawd sorry man, When I was married my (non feminist) wife went batshit crazy when she got really sick. Told the police I tried to kill her, nobody believed her however. I am really, really, thinking that women are just not worth the risk anymore but that is easy for me as I am in my 50s and am done raising my kids. Did some sugar daddy stuff but even that now seems risky.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 04:40 PM
3

Truly strange- she was good looking, sex was awesome, then at dinner later she blurts out that she hates men. My mind immediately went to battle stations and needless to say I never saw her again.
/r/MensRights02/07/23 04:35 PM
17

The top men do, average men don't, but women only want the top 10% of men so in a way you are right because women ignore most men.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 01:10 PM
14

They do the same thing with money when you are married. Your paycheck is 'ours' while her paycheck is hers. Her hobbies are 'ours' while you do your yours on your own damn time. Her activities are together time, your activities are your own thing and don't 'force' her into it. Women are very solipsistic in general, and men are the ones who sacrifice mostly. I gagged when women invented the idea of emotional labor as if to emphasize this even further. The more I am single the more I understand ho…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 01:00 PM
15

It is not worthless, it is simply a data point, you have no idea what you are talking about. So either post all the 'data', studies, etc. that proves these 'facts' you are talking about or stop being a troll.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 02:17 PM
1

Divorce/breakups/loss only feels like a hole you will never escape from at the time. I divorced in my 30s, then again in my 40s. I never wish I was still married to those women, in fact I feel grateful that I am not. My life is far richer now than it would have been had I stayed married and when I look at all my partnered friends and family I cannot find a single one I would trade places with. I was also largely all alone in this process, at the end of the day ourselves are the only reliable per…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 02:05 PM
17

The hormonal rush has been supplanted by the knowledge of just how bad I ruined my life because of it.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 09:03 AM
28

Of course, so then why get married? and there are plenty of conversations on porn, so what? this points out why men use porn, and lets talk about the women who make porn
/r/MensRights04/05/23 08:34 AM
10

Me too, had it with these average women thinking they are something to be worshipped when i have it together more than they do.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 01:43 AM
2

not a true, study has been done, women in charge more likely to start wars. look up catherine the great and ukraine
/r/MensRights03/09/22 05:25 AM
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