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Understand?! No. Most men just wing it. They have no concepts.
/r/seduction16/05/25 05:55 AM
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If this is all your struggling with, then you you’re in luck. I have a few remedies but the best one you’ll have to dm me. Logic is useful, but when it comes to talking to a girl, it’s a lot harder than a logical answer. Think of it as fire. The first time you burn yourself, is all the lesson you need. Rejection burns. Another way to think of it is giving yourself a vaccine. You’d rather not. However, eventually you have to make a fire or cook. You just try not to burn yourself. I swear I have a…
/r/seduction14/05/25 07:25 AM
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Attraction stems from all areas. If you laugh at a joke, common interest, an accidental touch, talking with someone, art, music. So many more. Attraction makes sense without understanding that the smallest spark from attraction can be the difference between you keeping your relationship or losing it.
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:28 AM
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You just want to hook up. One nightstands, instant checkmates are cool, but rare. Now you can manipulate your way to one, but why would you want to. There’s no time to ask red flag questions that will keep you virus free. If you want to date a woman then I’m onboard, but checkmates are past you.
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:21 AM
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When you know how to pick up a woman, you get to pick the times you’re sexless. Going through a dry spell is daunting, but it’s not hopeless. I recommend getting a dating coach.
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:33 AM
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It works well if you actually know the person.
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:59 AM
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Everyone flakes. All the time you spent snapping, you should have been solidifying the actual date. One of the comments says don’t waste time. That’s exactly right. Who, what, where, why, when and how. Who, both of you. What, going on a date. Where, to _. Why, you asked her out at work. How, more importantly how are each of you going to get to that drink __. Two very important questions that you left unanswered. You can’t be excited about a date you don’t even have answers to. Then you proceeded…
/r/seduction10/10/22 09:30 PM
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A dating coach here, hi! A few people have guessed correctly. Dropping a hint encourages some men. Don’t give them all the answers to the test. Yet, a simple gesture is always acceptable. Old school, dropping something and them picking up the item, is a great way to push them in the right direction. Most men pick up the item and after the thank you a sweet smile and giving them the floor, so to speak, is an excellent method to get them to approach.
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:25 AM
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That’s a psychology question, for sure. I don’t have a ph.d. Yet, I do love myself. In my experience, learning yourself starts with helping. Maybe volunteer or help a friend. Selfless deeds. This will really put into perspective, a few of life’s pleasures. It is hard to not get involved in relationships since we are wired to want to reproduce. If you don’t want women to pull away from you. Let’s say you decide go ahead and do my first suggestion and still want to have a gf. Try getting her put m…
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:25 AM
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Well, for you I recommend, “The Cat In The Hat”. Take your time. Sound out the words. It’s no wonder you’re so desperate for advice. You’re such a stellar soul. I mean it. Any woman would be lucky to have such an amazing guy. Good luck champ. You’re going to need it.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:19 AM
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I don’t appreciate your almost witty comments. Okay, whittle guy. Let daddy hold your hand and help you wead between da lines. Pick up a book and apply what you learn. No forum is going to take you step by step on how to appropriately pick up women. The process takes time. There are way too many steps. Again, for the absolute dummies out there. Everyday, apply some of the pick up literature. You know, ebooks and what not, to your daily routine. Actually practice. That is actually how you master …
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:44 PM
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Not without giving away my secrets. The most I can tell you is to practice the art. I could point out everything, but what good will that do. My methods worked because I stopped asking questions and started trusting my dating coach. It takes time to learn these things. Everyone wants the quick answer. Truth is, I was rejected. I trapped myself a few times. I struggled with understanding how the process was suppose to work. I ran out of talking points. I struggled with getting them into bed. I ov…
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:59 PM
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Oh, you want a pro-tip. Pro tip: Looks do not matter. About a year and a half ago, I pulled a 21 yo, beautiful college babe. Green eyes, petite, and an amazing attitude. I’m in my late 30’s, balding, had a piece junk car, shitty job. The key is in practice. A man never really knows himself until he can master learning what works. No tricks. Just to understand the game as a whole. I say game in the sense that we all have to talk, get to know a woman, and potentially have sex. Once, you figure out…
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:45 PM
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Funny, I find this amusing considering anything you do to get women they do to get women. You’re just doing it in an unorganized manner. You have to meet. She has to be comfortable with you, and then eventually you get laid. Same stuff, just we know how and you don’t. Also, I don’t use dating apps. I get women by being out.
/r/seduction29/09/22 05:10 AM
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The first time I tried pick up, I made strides. I went out, I gathered my friends, we tried to do it. We succeeded. Yes, there is a lot to learn, but you don’t develop skills just reading. You have to apply yourself. Without this knowledge and applied science, I wouldn’t feel as comfortable as I do. Imagine being able to tell if a woman is attracted to you. The odds of her giving her number, not the ig or snap, or fb, but the number. The odds of her going out with you. It’s through learning. Sti…
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:50 AM
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I never do anything when I night game or day game for that matter. While everyone is doing that, I’m getting all the numbers.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:19 AM
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To be honest nothing. I’m always the one giving advice. I like it though. Now, the best thing I’ve ever learned was how to pick up women.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:16 AM
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It could be anything. Do sweat it so much. I only use it for logistics. Ex: Her: "Hey" Me:"good here. Was thinking about grabbing pancakes, you in?" Her:"Definitely". I don't start texting a lot until after sex. It comes off as needy. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:42 AM
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If you like her so much then you'll quit doing that. I know the feeling though. An ex lover of mine, still dear to my heart, once sent me a dm out of the blue. I was about 5 years into PUA at that point. She only knew me as not knowing my self worth and simping. Every time I see her, she makes my heart thump. When she wanted to meet up with me, I knew this was my chance. I pulled out all the stops. Everything I learned came out of me. 4 hours and I sealed the deal. A lot of it was momentum on he…
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:46 PM
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Brothers, no. Look, you have more success if you drop the personal questions. The reasoning and science behind this is that you are not accepted as part of her social circle. Imagine a random person coming up to you. Any gender and now they're asking you about work and where you live. That's a no for me regardless. You may have an opinion about that and that's fine. Yet, I have found more success without ever even giving my name. Lead with the podcast stuff however, you mentioned there is a dyin…
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:04 AM
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Throwing this out there. Remember flaking is okay. We're going for the law of averages here. One number holds no more value than the other. Rejection should be starting to numb you a bit, more and more each time. Get the number. How do you know if you have gotten her interested in you? Glad you asked. You have to get her to invest. I'm not going to give you my personal routine, however, compliance theory works if you can pull it off. Set anything just out of reach, but close enough to her. Get l…
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:44 AM
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I know. Carrot face
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:09 AM
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How original.
/r/seduction13/11/20 10:52 PM
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About time
/r/seduction13/11/20 10:10 PM
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Aww, is him feelings hurt. I'm simply asking him "How?". But if you want to come at me and call me a bitch. We can duke it out with a little bit of word jousting. You think I'm a bitch because your small brain matches your penis. Bring it punk bitch.
/r/seduction13/11/20 10:08 PM
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You're suppose to get laid, it's more about how than when, knucklehead. Can get laid, but can't pull his head out of his ass to do a simple field report.
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:12 PM
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This is against the rules. You shouldn't be able to post things that don't help the community. Oh here, here's something you can post in little while. "I took a sip of coffee." Oh, here's another "I blew my nose." Really?! Really. Really.
/r/seduction13/11/20 08:31 PM
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It's funny how a straight and narrow approach to getting women out of your league is exactly the opposite of what they want. You have to raise the bar at least 5 more notches. Confidence is great, but that's like giving a guy a hammer and screws to build a fence. You have the right tool, but you have to use the right material to build. Nails, for those who don't understand construction analogies. It takes a who different approach. You have to understand woman and why they make the decisions they…
/r/seduction10/11/20 03:02 AM
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This information is coming from the model. The point of a PUA is to bring everything to an even ground. A PUA would pick up on the fact that a beautiful woman is down-to-earth almost immediately. Of course, guys who don't know pickup will treat her differently because they are scared to approach. Of course women will be intimidated by her. Yet, they would also get jealous of any woman. Lastly, a PUA's ultimate duty is actually to get down to who she really is and shed the commonalities of normal…
/r/seduction08/11/20 08:09 AM
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Easy. Kino. Say"Let me see your hand." Look at the lines and say,"Hmmm" then look her in the eye and walk away. She'll be a little curious. If she asks just yell her you read something about hand lines. Then say "I am impressed though." She'll have to concede and ask with what. This time get close. Gentle pick her hand and start massaging her arms and then shoulders, etc. Touch is intimate.
/r/seduction30/10/20 11:59 PM
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I'm going to get some mean comments, but hear me out. Why is it that women can be shallow and not date a man for his looks, but for his money and yet, a man can't date a woman based on her looks? "Only woman, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something." ~ Chris Rock. So, even by society's standards, it's okay for women to be shallow. I'm here to say,"No." In fact, that's what we prefer a woman to be. Beautiful. Not all of us, b…
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:04 PM
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Well, that's exactly what you're suppose to do. Constant gauging. There is a point were it becomes auto pilot, but this is not, my any means, easy. Some of the guys I've trained didn't understand exactly what's all involved. They want everything now. This is an art. It takes time to shade in the details.
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:47 PM
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You oversimplify pickup. It takes a want to learn to get good at pickup. If all we had to do is trust our subconscious, pickup wouldn't exist. Get a grip dude.
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:37 PM
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Some people have trouble talking to people. I know I made that clear. I'm starting to think you're trolling.
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:16 PM
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Okay, maybe I wasn't clear. It's like going to work. Your first day, you're going to suck at it. As you develope you learn to master it. Now, I trust not my instincts, but in what I've learned.
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:50 AM
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In an ideal world this would be true. Your only saying this because you don't understand men as a whole. There are men lacking in all aspects of game. From social anxiety to not knowing how to move on from kissing. So, it's hard you put everyone in the same category as you because there are more angles to understand.
/r/seduction21/10/20 05:15 AM
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Nothing you can fix with a paragraph. You need training. I'll give you a few pointers here, but if you want the PUA lifestyle. I can usher you in. Firstly, you need practice on talking to women. You will find it's a different type of conversation with women than with men. Beginner phase, just talk to everyone. Don't be weird and just talk with them whilst gauging the moment. Second, first appearances is everything. So, look nice. Thirdly, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Now, all of th…
/r/seduction19/10/20 01:59 AM
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Yes, but not from me
/r/seduction17/10/20 07:16 PM
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If you need a few pointers, I can help.
/r/seduction15/10/20 02:36 PM
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Kid, you're on a reddit page titled seduction and you don't know what pickup is. It's a lifestyle in which men train how to get women.
/r/seduction15/10/20 02:27 PM
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You know, the art of pickup. Getting girls. Getting laid.
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:24 AM
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You obviously have no training pickup and most of what I tell you may go in one ear and out the other. Are you here to assess the situation or to do something about it because I can't tell. I am willing to help you, but I need to know if you are on-board.
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:03 AM
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Yes, everyone has their own game, but the game has concrete obstacles everyone must overcome.
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:34 AM
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Although, there are exceptions to this rule. I'm sorry to unplug you from the matrix, but women play games in all forms and fashions. It's why society deems it a game. The cliche"I've been out of the game for too long." There are social constructs everywhere you go. This just happens to be how dating goes. Wouldn't it be perfect if we could just write on a piece of paper, do you like me check yes or no.
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:11 AM
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Listen up. Men put vagina and a high scale. Well, so do women. As long as they know that you value that scale, she has power over you. It's your job to even out that scale. She needs penis just as much as you need vagina. We are equal on the scale and it's hard to convey that. So, we do this dance were way we have to convince her we are worthy. Yet, if you're a pickup artist you simply get her to see that we are on the same on the scale. First, we must carry the conversation because if at any mo…
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:04 AM
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You're the orbiter. The she keeps around to tell creepy guys who hit on her that she has a boyfriend. Orbiters get perks, a friend, little mini dates, make out sessions, and even sex. This is one of the worst ways to be friendzoned. Some guys never get an answer. Dm me of this is you. I might be able to turn this around for you.
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:44 PM
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Yeah, stop with the IG and Tik. It's way easier in person. Dm me if you need a pickup mentor.
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:36 PM
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I've been there. I'll tell you why this is. Whenever I meet a girl, I instantly ask myself,"Am I attracted?" If I am, I go for it. I make up my mind so fast because I don't want to be in your situation to were we become friends and then develop feelings. Now, you weren't born yesterday so, you probably know you are in thr friend zone. You have skipped phase 1, are in phase 2, and are currently locked out of phase 3. So, you started in phase 2 which is vital for any friendship. It's called, "Comf…
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:29 PM
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Truth!? You don't. Rejection happens and your mind copes with it in it's own way. You have to build up a resistance to it and that gets better over over time. It's like a fighter. They must stay in good enough shape to be able to fight. Yet, once they come back from a vacation, they can't just sit on the couch and eat pizza everyday then expect to get back in the ring. You have to take the good with the bad when it comes to rejection. You deal with it by know not trying to win every girl. Instea…
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:14 PM
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You may be overthinking this a bit. The obstacle is whether or not she has fun when she's around you and how you make her feel. It's the same obstacle every man is faced with.
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:54 PM
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I think of it on a scale easy to very hard and every place in between. Make no mistake though, women are well.seasoned and can find holes in your game. I always try and run it over in my head, that is, how well everything went over. She may mock or be inviting enough to put you down. Pass the challenges she throws and you should be fine.
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:50 PM
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You're having trouble converting numbers into lays. It could be a number of things. I'm going to list a few things and I'm sure 1 if not more will apply to you. You're using too many or not enough DHV's. Running out of things to talk about. Not being able to get them to your place. Able to get them to your place, but can't get them into bed. Unable to establish a connection. If any on this is you dm me and I'll turn all off this into a learning experience you won't forget.
/r/seduction10/10/20 07:43 PM
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Don't.
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:13 AM
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Trying to pick up a woman who works at the venue requires a special type of game. These type of women are known as "Hired Guns" because they're hired for their looks. Dm me and I'll throw you a bone on how to approach.
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:41 PM
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A website is fine. I think the more logical reason is to be mature and responsible. Although, it is hard, when you have an addiction, to stop. Yet, you do need to have lots of pictures of you being social.
/r/seduction08/10/20 01:18 AM
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Let's say she starts holding back. Immediately act unaffected. Smile and say you understand and then occupy the time. She might even say I'm sorry. Just say it's no big deal. Occupy the time. Anything, but a heavy breath. Then make out without pushing. She might come around.
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:43 AM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:59 AM
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This sounds like a set up, but it's called last minute resistance. In which, a woman might have buyer's remorse. She can't foresee the future, but her mind has all these emotions of what ifs. The best thing to do is occupy that time with something. A movie, board game. It help soothe her mind because there is nothing you can actually do. She does this with every man. It's good to just have a good solid method in which this is easier on her. Totally not going to give you mine. Just think of somet…
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:49 AM
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We do dumb things. We also grow. Right now you may not be able to do these cool social things. Later, you'll find yourself mastering them. I'm a negative person, but even I understand that being social is survival. You're just not in tune with your instincts.
/r/seduction01/10/20 08:08 PM
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There are 3 top women in this area. Here are two Layan Bubbly and Hayley Quinn. They have infield footage. I'm a purist so I only train in one method and pull techniques from my friend and a select few guru's. Only as long as it doesn't disrupt my basics. I would say, empty your cup and learn from these two ladies. They know what they are talking about and have proof. I'm 35 and can't wait to get older. I am also a pickup coach if anyone is look for a lifestyle change, direct them to my dm's tha…
/r/seduction01/10/20 06:38 AM
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She is your friend, but she lives by a different code than men. No one thing will be the end all of information you can gather, but here's a step in the right direction. She needs to make it a little easier to approach. A simple smile when she catches a boy looking or a wave hello can get someone to actually approach. Dropping things and giving a compliment for a guy helping out is a great invitation in both situations. This is not to say be super slutty because that's a way to get abused. Inste…
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:30 AM
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Women lose interest because you didn't display enough value. There are a thousand reasons why, but it all boils down to your value. Something you said, maybe everything, put you in this position. Your top priority, since you already got the date, was to build comfort with her. If you tried to seduce her, it could have lead to it backfiring. Too many compliments. A lack of conversation. If she kept the conversation going, she might of found you boring. Also, it could be that something else has ha…
/r/seduction30/09/20 11:27 PM
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Flirting is a part of seduction. You don't walk into a bar, make girls laugh, and then slam your sausage on the counter do you? No. Well, why not? Duh, because there are social rules to do this. Flirting comes last. Okay, let me hit you with some knowledge. Do you know any women that don't get hit on? Probably very few. So, if a woman gets hit on, and it's a crazy number, daily. What makes you think laughing and flirting entitles you to sleep with them. It doesn't. They call it game for a reason…
/r/seduction29/09/20 12:08 AM
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You're exactly the kind of guy I like to help. Some guys don't know how to pick up women. Even some of the most attractive males have trouble. Look, there are some sweet girls who make things easier for men. Men get in these relationships and think they did something. Really, their girlfriend is the one that made it happen. Cheers to those women. Yet, those women aside. Men, we all know that a woman can tear a man down in seconds if you are not on your game. After breakups, some men don't know h…
/r/seduction28/09/20 11:54 PM
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I rarely ask their names, I never approach them with complements. Ever. The whole macho manly thing is overrated. Don't overthink. Master you techniques.
/r/seduction28/09/20 05:15 AM
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I always have anxiety, but I know that if I stick to what I know and what I've practiced that I will soon press that feeling away. There's nothing like meeting new people. It's exciting. Not everyone is going to respond positively. If you do it right and often you should be good. You can't write a letter if you never put a pen onto the paper. This scares some people. The thought of failing has serious effects on the human psyche. Fight or flight. I remember I once approached a woman. I wanted to…
/r/seduction28/09/20 02:19 AM
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I use zero social media for attracting women. Friends, however, is a must. It is true, not having friends effects your social proof which is attractive to women.
/r/seduction26/09/20 09:54 PM
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Don't call women shallow. They can totally overlook looks. If you think you are a victim of not looking hot enough for women. I am a life coach in the pickup arts. Let's do business together.
/r/seduction25/09/20 12:32 AM
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This is a no-brainer. Happiness comes from the greater things in life. Spending time with family, giving, helping to name a few.
/r/seduction25/09/20 12:27 AM
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I normally don't compliment women early on. It comes off too strong. If you need help and are trying to learn pickup, let me help you. I'm not expensive unless you need me to be there 1on1.
/r/seduction23/09/20 11:10 PM
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Women don't hate nice. As a matter of fact, they welcome it. It's when you overly become this super nice guys. Human are more than just domesticated. We get angry, jealous, happy, sad. Be sure to reflect how you really feel. You're not going to sweetie pie her into your bed with all the women you're attracted to. We are complex. Be that. For the record, don't be super douche bag or mr. Depression. Feel what you feel in the moment. I'm a nice guy. Hell, I wish I could just be that, but I'm also r…
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:48 PM
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Flirting is fun and a part of seduction. I teach it last because often time people are naturals. I believe seduction requires other skills than flirting and if done correctly, will almost always lead to sex. If you need help learning the ways of pickup, consider me for you life-coach. Dm me for my business info.
/r/seduction22/09/20 11:52 PM
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This is why it is important to hone in your skills. If anyone is having trouble or knows someone who could use help in this area, Pickup that is, we can swap business information. Thank you.
/r/seduction22/09/20 11:48 PM
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Why not?
/r/seduction21/09/20 11:44 PM
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Truth. I give advice and small insights. They can only cover so much. If you need more information and need a life-coach in the pickup arts dm me for business info.
/r/seduction21/09/20 08:43 PM
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Girls know what girls like. Guys know what guys like.
/r/seduction20/09/20 09:09 PM
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Confidence is a must. They can see right through you. They are intuitive. They have senses just like us, but they are more geared towards the social aspects. That's why I almost always follow a woman's social advice. They see things we can't. In this, if you don't have tight game, she will know almost instantly. Be confident. The truth is, what are you afraid of?
/r/seduction19/09/20 12:38 AM
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She is going to ask follow ups. Fill her in. 1.) I know this really great chinese restaurant, care to join me?
/r/seduction18/09/20 07:52 PM
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Indeed
/r/seduction17/09/20 07:37 PM
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Let me teach you. I am a life coach. Dm me for rates. Money is the great motivator.
/r/seduction17/09/20 12:04 AM
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It takes some getting use to. It's like playing a sport. You don't just jump right in. You have to stretch. Warm-up and then go in. This is every time you go to pick up women. You do it enough times and you won't pull any muscles.
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:12 PM
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You have to gauge a woman's interest. Without practice, you could be subject to this.
/r/seduction16/09/20 03:15 AM
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From nothing to fuck off.
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:26 PM
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I agree with most of what you say, BUT not everyone is in the same boat. No, there is no perfect thing to say. No, you shouldn't manipulate. Yes, be a man. But being a man isn't always clear to men. Some men need help. Some men don't understand standards. Some men have a hard time approaching. Some men can't get women into bed. Some men are being put in the friend zone. Saying be a man first requires the notion of what is a man? Some men don't know. I don't know it all, but I do know that teachi…
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:12 PM
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There are better ways to begin. It's not random, because men always hit on her. She's cute, but I'm sure she has heard better. I'm not saying that that line won't work, I'm saying its been done before. There are ways to go about it. I'll bottom line it for you. You don't want to be like every other guy. If you need a pickup coach, dm me.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:31 AM
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Move on. Never worry about one when there are plenty of fish in the sea. Text her the next time you go out. Short and simple. Ex"Was heading to the House of Blues, wanna join?!" If you receive no rely, don't make it a big deal. Keep it handy for a while she may hit you up out of the blue. I remember getting this girls number. Blond 25, just a beautiful woman. I texted her once. 2 weeks later. No reply. I kept her number. 2 weeks later I get a text. "Hey, how are you?" Didn't really know her like…
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:10 PM
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It's because you are making a relationship out of every girl you sleep with. Look, we are all mature enough to be safe when having sex. We can have multiple partners without making it something serious. Hooking up is cool, but your intentions must be clear. Dm me for a more insightful view of how to do this.
/r/seduction11/09/20 10:46 PM
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Confidence takes practice. Moxie can fill in for that. Don't talk about things that only interested you. Don't bring up work unless you're at work. Always have interesting open-ended topics. Ex:"Really quick, who's your favorite instagram 🌟?" Or "What's your top 3 favorite movies of all time? Ready, go!!" These types of questions keep things interesting. Don't be super nosey, but actually get to know people. If you need more help just message me directly.
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:25 PM
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In order to do math you have to learn formulas. In order to draw you have to learn about colors, shading, and practice. It's the same concept with pick-up. You have to learn how to approach, learn how to lose unattractiveness, and how to close amongst other nuisances. I'm sure people have their reasons. I almost gave up on trying do to a heartbreak and many failed relationships. I feel that people look at this with a wrong perception because they feel that it's wrong. How can honing in your stre…
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:36 AM
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Yes. Immensely. That's why I don't do anything when I go out. It helps me focus on the social aspect of things. I meet way more people and have a better time. Not to mention, get way play with women. Try it. Now, that doesn't mean when things are winding down that you can't. Just wait until things are coming to the end.
/r/seduction06/09/20 06:31 PM
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Give it time. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Same advice I give on all my students. Read some books. Pick up a new hobby. Change your dressing style. Take a trip. Then hit him up one day. Maybe even with a new boyfriend. Then show him how much he's missed. Be clear early on that your attracted.
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:27 PM
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Thriving
/r/seduction03/09/20 01:08 PM
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The techniques, methods, and philosophies we learn are to help you understand the struggle. How you cultivate your experiences is up to you. In any endeavor you must first learn the basics, practice, and master them. You will come unto your ways of doing things afterwards. We live and learn. There are two things we can never have at the same time. Youth and wisdom. "This is a lifestyle." ~Mystery
/r/seduction03/09/20 12:08 AM
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I'm just going to throw this out there. Technology gets in the way. Use it as a place where people know you exist, but never let it substitute for the real you. Texting and video chatting should be at a minimum especially in the beginning phase. This is not dogmatic, but crucial to pull off this first impression move. Like all first impressions, you must look nice. 80% better to be in person. She must see you in a different, but better light. What is new about you. Nothing that explains it in on…
/r/seduction02/09/20 07:21 PM
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I've been both guys.
/r/seduction01/09/20 09:57 PM
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The "friend zone" exists because men have a hard time at gauging a woman's interest. Overplaying the sweet, friendly, good listener guy can lead you straight there.
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:11 AM
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Dodge, flake, or shutting you down as in won't allow an approach? I'm guess as in flake. We all do this. Males and females. We get busy with out lives, date other people, or just don't want to hang out. Don't let it bother. Call another girl.
/r/seduction30/08/20 06:42 PM
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Okay, I've seen where this type of verbal jousting can end up. You may feel a little attacked. You're being super technical and aren't thinking about what's actually being asked. I'm asking you to think harder of why. No, not all american woman are picky. Yet, all woman in general have to think about who they sleep with. Let me help open your eyes. Women have to bare children. They have to be quite sure if whether or not men can deal with that. Some women don't care at all and most woman do. Pic…
/r/seduction28/08/20 11:27 PM
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Male
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:38 PM
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It's so obvious, but men are so self absorbed it's hard to see what's actually going on. Think harder.
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:23 PM
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Truth
/r/seduction28/08/20 06:49 PM
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Seems counter productive for nature to make a male afraid to approach a female. Yet, it is a part of the system in which we are confined to. I'm going to throw you some useful things, but this is my last pro bono. It is true that we all, no matter the skill level, experience anxiety. The 3 second rule works. The 3 minute rule works. The time refers to when you actually approach a woman. Smothering the fear is useful. Now, it seems your problem is in the people around you and what they think. You…
/r/seduction27/08/20 06:35 PM
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Relate to them. We all have things in common. I like to start with, "oh that reminds me of this time..." Or "Did you hear about...." Followed by something that is relatable. Movies, cars, relationships, not work, fun adventurous things. Read a magazine, something. Never nothing. Interject sometimes. Give smart feedback. Lead the conversation sometimes. You may feel smothered if you don't take the floor when the time presents itself.
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:53 PM
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Well, a complement is a complement, but you want to get more bang for your buck, so to speak. Using them concisely will implement this. When you have only so much time with a woman, you want to make that count. Plus, you're not the only one who complements her. You're essentially competing with other suitors who often over complement. Do you want to be like them or yourself?
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:43 PM
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The answer is yes and definitely. Getting her to show up is leaps in the right direction. You've successfully showed her you're safe to be around. Often guys have trouble knowing proper techniques to escalate. I'm going to let you in. The human touch. Find reasons to touch. Respectfully, of course. Start with a high-five. Then move up to a pinky promise. Then throw in a thumb war. A small booty bump. There are so many different fun ways. Ask to see her hand as though you're going to read her pal…
/r/seduction26/08/20 06:20 PM
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There are the kind that happen by pure dumb luck and the kind you cultivate for yourself. Hmu if you want to cultivate.
/r/seduction25/08/20 04:57 PM
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You really have to think about what you asking. You're asking to rush things straight to sex. Relax, take a moment. Try this. I presume you have friends that are girls whom you'd like to have casual sex with. When you're talking and kidding ask this. "So, what would it take for me to get to know you more?" She'll be a little stunned. If she doesn't respond ask, "What is the most favorite thing you like about yourself?" It's important not to repeat yourself. She may even try to say,"I don't know?…
/r/seduction18/08/20 08:39 AM
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First and foremost, advice on this varies. To be a PUA takes time. Cultivating and honing your techniques. I'm going to give you the run down. You either want to be an orbiter or in a relationship. Popular belief would have you as a rebound. Forget that. Go out and have fun. Be yourself. Now for the million dollar question. What are the best ways to see if a girl is mentally ready? Seeing as how I'm not a psychologist I can't truly answer that, but let me throw some techniques. Every time she br…
/r/seduction18/08/20 08:10 AM
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