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| 1 | Women prefer taller partners, to be specific, taller than their height. Men who are 5'4 or 162.5 cm in height are TALLER than average women height, in other words, TALLER than half women in the society ! think about it !Hey, this kinda happened 3 years ago so let me explain a little bit, here most of women are taller than 1.7M because of how our genes are so yes he is indeed a lot shorter than average. Does he get women though? Answer is absolutely yes and always was, but they are all shorter than him. When you are tall enough your dating pool is just larger thats all. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Guys who had a lot successful first dates, could you give some tips?Well as long as she is there on the date with you she likes you enough. But that she is cheering on me helps my mindset to make the moves when I sense the moment. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Guys who had a lot successful first dates, could you give some tips?What I like to think on dates is that she is cheering on you. She is there on a date with you hoping you are that man that will rock her world. Read this here on this sub but it helped me get rid of dating anxiety. She is cheering on you lad. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 08:59 PM |
| 6 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?I like the idea of this, just be direct bro and really thats the way that allows you to make moves without fear of rejection. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:45 PM |
| 10 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Aaand most painful part really, a couple of years ago I was getting dates but I was too much of a pussy to make other moves, so many girls went cold on me just because I was afraid of kissing them or rather having my kiss rejected. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Girls at work laughing at me?Sorry that I have to be the asshole but this guy posts every damn day with bullshit stories. I'm pretty sure they were laughing at you and making fun of you cuz they sensed your insecure self. Go be a man, stop being a pussy. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Being the badboy is easy, here's howThe last one is so damn good, be annoying but in a fun way. Like she should enjoy it but you should be the one having the most fun out of it. When you're done playing that a compliment works the best, they already have their guards lowered and don't expect a compliment out of that situation. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:01 PM |
| -5 | What’s really holding you backDude most men can't even do at least one of the 4 you mentioned. Most of you have already heard of 20/80 rule of attraction, that only 20 percent of men are actually attractive. This is one of the rules that I heavily disagree with because most men don't do these 4 you mentioned. If you do these 4 trust me, you're gonna be at least above average or if not very attractive. These are the easy parts in my opinion, girls often say they don't like a very muscular body but hell I've seen girls drool o… | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 11:14 AM |
| 3 | My brain shuts down when I talk to girlsYou loving these things isn't weird, I had girls talk about anime episodes for fucking hours. It can't get any weirder than that. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | I am 22, never had a girlfriend. Is it normal?David Gandy, he was insecure about his nose. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 11:09 PM |
| 2 | My brain shuts down when I talk to girlsUsed to be in your situation till a year ago, here is what I did. I challenged myself to go and talk to a girl that I consider a perfect 10/10 at least two times a week. It took me like a lot of approaches for me to be able to hold a proper conversation without too many worries. Here is a few things that can help you, always imagine that they at very least find you normal looking. What do you think of normal looking girls? What is important when talking to a normal human? To pay attention to wha… | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | I am 22, never had a girlfriend. Is it normal?One of the best male models admitted to being a virgin till age 22. You're fine trust me. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Respect boundariesBy aggressive I mean take the risk and go for it even if she doesn't give signs of wanting sex. Not force it upon her. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Respect boundariesYes, there you should. It is the biggest shit test in my opinion, knowing when to back away from sex. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Respect boundariesNah, don't respect boundaries too much. I am not saying to rush them to the bed, but if you want to come as a confident guy you must be prepared to break the boundaries if you see a chance. A woman can forgive you for being slightly more aggressive but she will never forgive a man who is a pussy. Remember she got one pussy, she doesn't need another. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 06:29 PM |
| -6 | Hello Seddit, can anyone tell where did I go wrong? She didn't respondedClearly it's your fault. You should have at least asked her about her podcasts she watches or any question about her. She initiated you first for fucks sake. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 02:05 PM |
| 0 | Women prefer taller partners, to be specific, taller than their height. Men who are 5'4 or 162.5 cm in height are TALLER than average women height, in other words, TALLER than half women in the society ! think about it !You do realize that most of women are at least 170cm, no you are not taller than half women. I have a friend who is 165 cm and he looks like a midget compared to average female. These studies can never be trusted, if in your city you see women around 170cm it is safe to assume average is 170cm. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 02:26 AM |
| 4 | How do I keep eye contact without being creepyIn my sincere opinion you should break it once in a while, to make it look like the girls aren't being hunted. Most of them would be relieved and be more open to talk. I've practiced this only a few times so I don't know how much can that work for you. Also if you are over 20 stop making eye contact with teen girls, that is creepy in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 11:34 PM |
| 4 | I hate when women do thisStop with your incel shit man. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 11:07 PM |
| 4 | I hate when women do thisIf they ask politely why do you need to know, you probably should use it as an excuse to ask them out for a date (in my very little experience). Other than that, you can do nothing and just say I wanted to know. But you should stop asking these questions in my opinion, you don't want to seem as too interested. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Should I message an old Friend I never confessed my crush to?Didn't read it all but no that is creepy. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | So this is how i talk to girls. I feel like im cringe and boring af and also forcing the convo. I dont know whats my fault.Well, your situation in your country is quite different from mine so I can't really say much about it. But the more taboo is it to date, the more fun it is gonna be for both of men and women. At least in my opinion, if you have balls to approach a girl in real life, you will be better than 99 percent of dudes in your country. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 5 | So this is how i talk to girls. I feel like im cringe and boring af and also forcing the convo. I dont know whats my fault.Just ask her out for a coffee, don't waste time texting. What you say doesn't matter, it is how you say it. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 07:00 PM |
| 12 | So this is how i talk to girls. I feel like im cringe and boring af and also forcing the convo. I dont know whats my fault.hahahahahaha, yes it's your fault because you keep changing the subject. ALSO WHO THE FUCK ASKS GIRLS IF THEY PLAY GAMES? Sorry had to put that in caps, what are you gonna talk about? Games? It's okay to talk about games if a girl asks first but never ever bring up games, most gamers are seen as lazy people and people with too much free time. You don't want either of that. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What is life? What are your guys life advice for a 18 year old dude like me?First you need to work your inner game a lot. Go find hobbies that you enjoy and when you're in a social circle make sure to listen what others are saying without thinking of some response. If you're boring girls will never stay with you just saying that no matter how good looking can somebody be. The reason why you're boring is because you're so harsh on yourself, if you think something is funny just say it without a single worry, if you think something is interesting say it, you shouldn't care… | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 11:24 PM |
| 2 | If you’re not a Chad, then it’s over in 2019.I hope so but they are not worth the pain and time to explain in my opinion. Though many incels never find out about how seduction works which is why they end up where they are. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 11:31 PM |
| 5 | If you’re not a Chad, then it’s over in 2019.He's probably an incel, they will never improve if they keep at it. To the dudes reading this never visit those incel sites even if you're just making fun of them. The negativity is too high there in my opinion and they are all simply disgusting pigs. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Muscles dont matter same with heightSure dude, do you like hot women or ugly chicks? Go ask same question to women about us men. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Muscles dont matter same with heightSure they do, stop denying it. You will get girls even without these two but it will still be slightly harder. Girls have to think you are okay looking (decent muscle, at least at their height body and slightly attractive face) before they even allow you to flirt with them. You need at very least one of these before you are even given a chance, sorry but confidence ain't gonna cut it here. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about this situation..Ask Tiffany about Mary's instagram or phone number is your best shot or you could bring another friend next time and go out with both of them. Don't bring threesome now, it's too late you missed your shot. | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when she says "stop looking at me like that"Too much yes. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she says "stop looking at me like that"Dude don't keep that huge grin on all the time. You keep it when she says something good, not all the time. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to ask someone's friend for their snapchat?Not weird at all but please ask in person. Don't make a big deal out of it though, if you are at least friends go have a casual conversation and ask for snapchat at highest point of your convo. | /r/seduction | 03/04/19 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Would it be better if I was fat instead of skinny as a guy, going for girls?You wouldn't look any better, you would look lazy, dirty and ugly. That is how most people view fat people. | /r/seduction | 25/03/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Would it be better if I was fat instead of skinny as a guy, going for girls?When you're fat you lose all the face beauty like all of it. Skinny you still look good and handsome (if you have the genes for it obviously) so being skinny is obviously better than being fat. But what is important going from skinny to fit takes 2 to 3 months at most. | /r/seduction | 25/03/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Things Every Guy Can Do To Look BetterIt doesn't really play a huge role but a watch tells us that a person takes care of himself and that itself is attractive. I've been wearing a watch for about 2 months (nothing flashy but it is kinda old school and not expensive) and a lot of people have told me a watch on a mans hand looks very good. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Things Every Guy Can Do To Look BetterA good watch can make you a bit more attractive. It shows a bit professionalism (obviously with the right kind of watches) and makes your hand look way better. Don't use smart watches. You can use other accessories on your arm if you don't like watches but watches are just the best option. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why does not showing interest in the girl work?I wish you luck on this girl honestly but keep your distance if you see a girl distancing. If you try to close the distance, you will fail and girls can sense stuff like this way better than us men. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why does not showing interest in the girl work?Dude??? Obviously, chasing and needy! | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why does not showing interest in the girl work?I am not good at cold approaching so I can't say much about it but if a girl flakes you, you failed to get her attracted to you. If you want a girl that you haven't spoken that much to, to chase you, you gotta chase her first, there is no other way in my opinion. Cold approaching isn't chasing, neither is setting up a date (thooo this may depend on situation). | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Why does not showing interest in the girl work?Girls want to chase because you are different from other guys at this point. Most guys are chasing, you are doing the opposite, she wonders what is wrong with her and etc (same as us males when a girl ignores us). It is natural to want what you can't have but too much disinterest may make the girl go away. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask a girl if she has a boyfriend?In person and make it veryyyy casual. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | The forgotten: Small deal breakers that you just don't think aboutMouth breathing, I noticed this at age 17 and I can say with confidence approaching and going on dates got easier. They spot a mouth breather the second they look at him. | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | At what stage of dating (if at all) is it acceptable to ask her to be your girlfriend?You should ask her at this point, in fact after like 6 or 7 dates you should be fine asking (assuming you had sex at this point and have a good chemistry). | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you all handle bar fights and confrontations?I think you should've spoken to your date first and tell her it's okay and that man is very immature and dumb to say things to strangers he doesn't know. That would've been the best choice and you would leave safe, if the guy says it again though you should be a man and tell him to fuck off. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Next?He could start apologizing first, sorry OP but you acted like a douche. I've acted like a douche a couple of times and it is really hard to go back to normal from this point, you killed the attraction yourself. | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Pretending to be confident has.. skyrocketed my confidence.He already told you, look people in the eye when talking to them, keep a good body posture (I struggle with this a lot) and smile. Smile can be one of the strongest confidence points if done right. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Whats your best answer to are you seeing other girls?Honestly neither do I know what sign it would be at this point. Not really much of a pro at getting relationships. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Whats your best answer to are you seeing other girls?Listen if she laughs at this joke or at least blushes a little (depending on age too) it shows that she clearly wants to date you. But even her asking you if you are dating other girls is a huge sign. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Whats your best answer to are you seeing other girls?It doesn't imply low value, in fact joking about it is way better than giving information about your dating life to another girl. She will probably think about the joke later that day and will be wondering about your dating life a lot. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Had to reschedule hang out due to blizzard, how do I respond to this?If she was willing to hang out today and your plans got cancelled due to something out of your control which was a blizzard in your case, it is completely fine. Wait for her to text you when to hang out considering that she could be very busy. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I think I finally found my weakness: Creep shamingI have a friend who asked out 3 girls from my class and none of them has ever spoken a word about it. Most females don't ever speak about the guy they rejected unless he was really creepy and tried too many times. Recently I started talking to the most beautiful girl of the university department I am studying, all her friends know that I am interested in her and my friends know too. Just don't be needy and creepy that is all, she knows my intentions very well and I am waiting for the next time I… | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Talking to a girl after years of being oblivious to her interestsI wouldn't do that, it would be weird and creepy. If you do meet again in real life then go for it, try to get her interested again. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | I like this girl and we use to text a lot and our text conversations were really engaging. However, lately, she hasn’t been as engaged in our text conversations. But when I talk to her in real life, she’s pretty engaged. What’s going on?Stop that. If she hates you she wouldn't text you back at all and wouldn't laugh at your jokes. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Do you ever open up to your women? Can you tell her about your secrets without turning her off?There are things that must be said and things that should always recommend a secret. While some things remain secret, it is important to keep a bit of your past a secret. I personally never tell a woman my past, what is important is your current self and your future self. Work on your insecurities. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Do you ever open up to your women? Can you tell her about your secrets without turning her off?You can but honestly she will think you were a loser before, if she loves you enough you will be fine. But honestly just don't risk it, you have nothing to gain, move on you have a gf now and that is what you should look forward to. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Do you ever open up to your women? Can you tell her about your secrets without turning her off?Wait till when you get to a point where you both know each other very well. Make sure to sound confident if you are doing it but listen to me, I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't tell her about your sad past that much, if she asks then fine but don't sound sad. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Do you ever open up to your women? Can you tell her about your secrets without turning her off?They do care about your emotions though, they wouldn't be nice towards you if it weren't for that. I've met the worst girls and really kind girls. There are way way more kind girls than what you think. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Gave a girl my numberHonestly I am not really an expert at finding the right time to ask for a coffee. But I would recommend texting a few days if you don't know each other very well. She will feel at very least comfortable but make sure to ask her out within a week or two weeks of texting, no more than that. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 02:11 AM |
| 9 | Gave a girl my numberWhy didn't you get her number first? And you should ask her out for a coffee, sounds like she is at very least interested. She wouldn't ask for the number again if she wasn't interested. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I think this girl is super cute but i have no idea how to start talking to her at allI'll be honest, you will be one of the 10 guys that text her today, it is okay though. You don't really have a lot of chances with her, maybe wait for her to post a story and start from there. When a girl posts a coffee or a desert I always ask where that place is and ask her if it is good. Works 7/10 of times. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Birthday wishes?Would also add a cake emoji and a party emoji to it! Edit:That is if you are texting her. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I think this girl is super cute but i have no idea how to start talking to her at allDid you ever talk to her in real life? I mean like friends not just a hey. If you did that is just a fine way if not maybe ask her a question like I recently asked a girl for literally when is the next lecture cuz I can't access the main page of university (though I did speak to her before and she knows who I am). Kinda weird but just do it, it ain't that hard to say a hey. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 07:30 PM |
| 2 | I think this girl is super cute but i have no idea how to start talking to her at allHey, how you doing? Send this, it is quite easy if you have snapchat to be honest. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Guys that have messaged girls on Instagram or whatever and have had success what are your tips?Do you know the girl? If you do say hey and chat a bit then ask for snapchat, always ask for snap. Instagram rarely works and I honestly would use it only to send some funny shit. | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [15M] Do I make a move?Sorry but this girl sounds like trouble to me. If she isn't honest about these stories then no doubts she has issues. I think you can do better and you deserve a honest person at that age. | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Don't Chase!I think most time chasing is going after the same woman. I do that too and it sucks, I lost like 3 chances just this year alone doing that. | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Talking about a dream?Wtf, don't bring it up. It will give her all the power and you don't want that (been there done that). | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why Clubs Are A Waste Of Time And MoneyAbout dancing, you don't really need to know how to dance. I suck at it and still go to dance. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 06:05 PM |
| 5 | I saw this bitch go onlineFirst of all, you shouldn't call her a bitch. I have been ignored many times by girls that were attracted to me but being salty about it will get you nowhere. She can choose not to respond to you, maybe she forgot about your message, maybe she doesn't want to talk to you right now. Don't be a bitch. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How to grow your Instagram accountAlways unfollow no matter what and go to follow others. Chances of them following you back are bigger if you have a friend who follows them so make sure to start with those. Don't wait to unfollow though, make sure to unfollow the minute they don't follow you back. Took me almost a month to get past 100 followers at first but it gets a little bit easier after that. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How to grow your Instagram accountSorry but I don't. Also make sure to have a funny caption on your bio. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 11:55 AM |
| 2 | How to grow your Instagram accountKeep your profile private and my suggestion is following a lot of people and unfollowing those who don't follow you back. Last week I had 300 followers, did the same and got up to 350. Make sure to follow more females though (less than 500 followers though, those with more than 500 will rarely follow back). And more followers = more likes. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Really like this girl but the main way to contact her is over textHonestly don't wait for the birthday, call her now and ask her for a coffee. You will never connect via texts (trust me I have tried). | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 09:51 PM |
| 5 | How do u know what to say?It just happens naturally honestly, talk about random things and let her talk (also listen to her). Find out what she is interested and keep eye contact while talking to her, I still suck at eye contact but it shows confidence and you must master this. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 12:27 AM |
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