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| 34 | Finally decided to help myself, don't just accept I'm sorry repeatedly | LEVEL UP | NEETwithAchainsaw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 07:47 AM |
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| 13 | Do you think men who grew up with lots of female relatives (sisters, aunts, etc.) tend to be less sexist?I've had 2 previous boyfriends who were raised almost entirely by women. In my experience they become extremely dependant and gf becomes a stand in for mommy doing everything for him with little to nothing in return. One of them liked to point out flaws in my appearance since "women care more than men and I want you to look your best" the last one would get mad when I accidentally missed a chore or didn't have the energy to go to the gym after spending all day cooking, cleaning, and folding on t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 04:20 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else think RP is one step below a creepy rapist/predator?Back when I was 13-14 and still a naive little newbie on the internet I often had people try to RP with me, being a weeb at the time I was fine with it until my mom looked into this guy who would message me everyday. I thought he was my age because that's what he told me, but he was in his 60s. He wanted to meet up with me and I'm glad my mom intervened and made me block him when I didn't entirely understand the situation. Now RP just makes me super uncomfortable. Edit: I'm used to seeing RP as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 15 | Talk Therapy: tales of your pickmeisha pastUp until recent years its been a slow improvement I've done really stupid things trying to change myself for men. Back in highschool I dated a guy who told me I should wear short skirts and I hated skirts but I wore what he liked to keep his attention while he embarrassingly groped me in public. I also used to put up with negging and apologize for my faults when pointed out and then apologize more when they'd get mad at me for apologizing! I would blindly believe everything they would say like "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:17 PM |
| 22 | Boyfriend didnt disclose Autism till 2 months in... Conflicted.I am an autistic person and from my point of view it is very uncomfortable telling people about it when I actually know them, people can be really mean and judgmental. However! I always tell someone before I plan to sleep with them, at the end of the day it is still something that affects me and the people around me AND it is hereditary so yeah, kind of important. I think he should have told you and definitely not brought it up for the first time during an argument, that seems very manipulative … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:32 PM |
| 18 | What's the intial red flags you ignored from past relationships?"You'd be cuter if you lost weight, you're cute now but just sayin'" I am only a little chubby but he's got quite a belly honestly he was maybe a 3/10 don't know what I was thinking. This was a warning sign the negging would get worse and turn abusive, don't put up with that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Pick mes are the ones who deathstare “pretty” girls in publicI totally agree with you on the homewreckers. This was a misunderstanding on my part then, thank you for explaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Pick mes are the ones who deathstare “pretty” girls in publicTrue, that really puts things in perspective I will try to think about it that way in the future, it seems more positive. Just wanted to add, the amount of women on here who said they'd sleep with a married man, don't you think that would give me a reason to be jealous? Knowing other women would help him hurt me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 09:56 PM |
| -1 | Pick mes are the ones who deathstare “pretty” girls in publicIt is good to hear someone else say say this. There's nothing wrong with jealousy and dating is often a competition when we don't want to settle, its just nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 11:33 AM |
| 6 | What is your opinion on cheating?Cheating is wrong no matter if its a woman or a man who does it. Breaking the trust of someone who loves and trusts you is inexcusable. If someone is having enough issues in their relationship where they find themselves wanting someone other than their partner then they need to either try to work through those issues or leave. But hurting someone out of selfishness is wrong. I've always said if someone cheats on you then you deserve better, that applies to everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 10:17 PM |
| 39 | Another example of why being a sweet, loving woman who caters to her man will get you nothing in the end. This poor woman. Men are SO selfish.I've always been described as the "mommy girlfriend" shit like this is part of the reason I'm afraid to get invested in men anymore. Looks like I need to change a bit, this is quite a wakeup call thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 05:45 AM |
| 49 | "I cheated on my wife and lied about how bad the cheating was. She discovers it was bad and now wants "to do her own thing", now I'm afraid of losing her.What a piece of shit, I hope his wife leaves him and takes as much as she can. Cheaters like that are worthless and don't deserve loyal women. I hope he hurts but he seems too stupid to know how much he hurt his own wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 08:45 PM |
| 13 | “FDS is the most toxic space on reddit, even worse than redpill subs.”I would love to see a woman do those things to him, he wouldn't even last a day. I've dated moids just like that and this sub is really helping me realize my worth and that nobody should be treated that way. Thanks ladies y'all are great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:45 AM |
| 29 | Example #58364864 why you should never be completely upfront about your sexual past.They weren't exclusive, if he cared about being with her seriously at all and knew it would bother him that she sleep with someone else he should have told her he wanted exclusivity. Open relationships are just that way, its his own damn fault for not wanting commitment at the start lol. He probably has a double standard I bet if he fucked a girl before they were exclusive and his gf got mad about it he'd say they weren't exclusive and that she is overreacting, but because it happened to him its… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 10:32 PM |
| 4 | 5 Common ways men gaslight youNow that you've said that, yeah he really does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:51 PM |
| 21 | 5 Common ways men gaslight youI dated a guy that did everything you listed here! He even tried to push me to be a camgirl despite how much anxiety I deal with, when I said no he would just repeat himself and say he would do it if he was a girl. Couldn't discuss politics either because he would talk down to me the same way one would coo at a baby, it was disgusting. Even so I was dumb enough to wait for him to do serious harm before I left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 05:52 AM |
| 4 | Why are Fathers Hated so Much?Fathers are so important! He might not be my biological father but my dad has always been one of if not the most special person in my life, he not only was the sole provider growing up but he was the only parent there emotionally as well and often defended me from my mother. It makes me sick how society treats fathers and fatherhood, dads are so special and should be appreciated. Sorry for the personal comment here, but this is something personal I've seen my dad struggle with and its really ups… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Mum Beats Boyfriend With Crowbar After He Dropped A Slice Of PizzaI think the law should be equal, it disgusts me that women can get away with literal murder like that, feminists are disgusting people and its their fault that men are treated so badly, my ex boyfriend didn't get in trouble because I spent over 2 years forgiving and justifying it after the fact, in therapy I was pretty much just repeatedly told it wasn't my fault and asked if I would do the things he did it in those situations it eventually made me realize that it wasn't justified. I've since ju… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Mum Beats Boyfriend With Crowbar After He Dropped A Slice Of PizzaI blamed myself and needed some serious therapy to correct that type of thinking when coming out of an abusive relationship, I'm sorry you've had bad experiences, not all women are that way even if seems like they are. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 10:44 PM |
| 10 | Mum Beats Boyfriend With Crowbar After He Dropped A Slice Of PizzaWhen people are abused its very common for them to defend or justify the abuse they've received, I don't think he's a white knight, just psychologically damaged and in need of mental help, and hopefully soon because you are right that his son needs a protector, without a strong male role model he will likely fall into the cycle of abuse as well Edit: spelling | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 12:30 PM |
| 11 | Mum Beats Boyfriend With Crowbar After He Dropped A Slice Of PizzaThat's terrible "not an inherently bad person" she could have killed him doing what she did! Abusive people are bad people, if the roles were reversed the abuser would be in a lot of trouble, probably in prison, and lose custody no matter what the victim said in defense of their attacker. Now imagine what she is going to do when she has a hard time raising a teenager, she's clearly not fit to be a spouse or a mother! | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 12:08 PM |
| 20 | What special privileges to girls get for being a girl?Women are more likely to get custody of children during a divorce, they can choose to have a child when her partner is opposed sometimes just for the sake of getting child support money from him, automatic army backing up women when they cry about literally anything, lesser sentences in court and female on male rape not taken as seriously, there are plenty of support groups and abuse shelters for women but not nearly enough for men because male abuse victims are instead laughed at and abused mor… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | I have a question I'd like to ask involving a dark idea of how to combat feminism.I like this idea, they need to learn that their behavior permanently affects peoples lives. If they are going to hurt people for no reason why not make them feel the same fear they make others feel? This time their actions would directly affect them and it would finally make them realize that they are the true villain. Sometimes civility just doesn't work | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/05/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Female genitals mutilation is not worse than maleYes! Mutilation is mutilation no matter a persons gender, we shouldn't be cutting up children at all! | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 08:43 AM |
| 33 | His body, His choice.I really hope you aren't serious but in case you are, why would anyone without phimosis need to be circumsized? Shouldn't it be an option for adult men, or only in case of medical emergency? Why should the choice be made before they can even decide? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 06:14 AM |
| 34 | Another idiot who pretends that only men judge women and that women who judge other women don't existIn my experience usually the people who judge women for these things are other women not men | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | I don't even know anymore.I love being told that I'm not like other women, it makes me feel special. people like that need to stop ruining positive interactions between men and women, I would give a similar compliment to a man I feel that way about so I don't see the problem, its nice to be told that you are unique | /r/MensRights | 21/05/19 10:22 PM |
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