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Modern culture is a disease. It's Sodom and Gomorrah on steroids. Modern culture heavily promotes narcissism and shallowness. The concepts of doing good for others and community spirit need to make a return. A movement which promotes these values need to rise. Maybe then people will be held more accountable by their local communities they will be less shallow, less spoiled and more down to earth. Also, social media was a mistake and it would be the first thing I would ban if I had the power to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:58 PM
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You're implying I'm toxic to women IRL and that that's the reason they're not attracted to me. But if that were the case, you would expect me not to be able to maintain friendships with women or have female friends of any kind, which is just not true for me at least. I have no problem becoming friends with women and making them laugh and feel good. It's just that they don't want to be more than friends with me because they simply don't find me physically attractive. And before you ask, I know fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:46 PM
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It's the same thing as the rich-get-richer phenomenon. If you were lucky enough to have sex and relationships at a young age, you have some confidence in the back of your mind thinking you can score again. However, if the only answer you got all your life was "no", then what's there to be confident about? I literally had to hire escorts just to lose my virginity and gain some experience on how to know my way around a woman's body. If I didn't do that, I'd still be a virgin to this day. When you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:14 PM
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They can't be dating older men, because older men themselves have a higher rate of being single than older women. There aren't enough older men around to secure relationships with both younger and older women at the rate they report being in relationships. The math doesn't check out unless a minority of men share the majority of women, and since a man can only be in a monogamous relationship with one woman, the only possible explanation for the numbers I quoted is that high-value man have FWB re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:44 PM
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You're right. These unattractive, low value men aren't confident or brave enough to start revolutions en masse, however, as their numbers grow, so does their voting power, and their votes will go to the people they think will oppose liberalism and feminism and give them a better chance, which are the right wing conservative parties. Also, a few of them can and will break down mentally and will cause incel terrorist attacks and mass shootings, which will further spread fear and push the governmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:31 PM
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51% of all American men aged 18-29 are single compared to 32% of all women aged 18-29. 27% of all American men aged 30-49 are single compared to just 19% of women aged 30-49. Source here Also, 31% of all American men aged 18-24 reported having no sex in the past year compared to just 19% of all women aged 18-24. Source here. The conclusion here is clear. A lot of women are choosing to have FWB arrangements with a small subset of men, whereas a third, if not half of all men get no intimacy of any…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:21 PM
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Limiting women's access to casual sex will cause more women to turn to being relationship-oriented, so yes. Right now, a large percentage of women are content being in FWB arrangements with only a relatively small percentage of men while a larger and growing percentage of men struggle to find even one woman willing to have sex and be in a relationship with them. If dating becomes more relationship-oriented instead of being casual sex-oriented, then more women will have to settle for their looksm…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:19 PM
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You're right, there is no government/social system which benefits everyone. If you want a stable society, though, it is imperative that you keep the majority of your active workforce happy. Right now, more and more men are getting the short end of the stick in life. We're talking construction workers, deliverymen, policemen, security guards, factory workers, maintenance workers, electricians, farmers, fishermen, even garbage collectors. Once enough of these men start revolting and not giving a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:04 PM
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Power is the only source of confidence in a social situation in a man. How much power you have determines your rank in the pecking order of a group. In a professional setting, if you're the boss of a group or, more specifically, you're the most competent and qualified person in that group, your word has the most value and you have the most power and command the most respect. In a dating setting, if you want to be seen as the most competent and most qualified sex partner for a woman, you need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:52 PM
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You fail to see the corelation between physical attractiveness and confidence/social dominance. Tell me, who are those men who exude confidence, social dominance and swagger? I'll tell you who. It's the tall, built, physically imposing men, which incidentally are also the traits women find physically attractive in a man. You can't act confident, dominant and full of swag in a group with other men if you're not also the strongest and most imposing guy in the group. If you do that, then you're see…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:12 PM
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An excellent post that perfectly illustrates the imbalance between men and women in the dating scene nowadays. If you don't limit women's access to casual sex you end up with a society with a lot of sexless men who don't measure up in the looks department, a society with millions of unhappy men with an evergrowing desire to not contribute to said society, a society that is doomed to crash and burn. It is men who ultimately build and maintain the infrastructure of society. If you don't keep the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:57 PM
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You contradict yourself in your very post, OP. You said that looks only get you the "interview" with a woman. But this implies that if you don't have looks you don't get the interview. So how can you say that women don't prioritize looks when you, by your own admission, stated that looks are the first thing women select for in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:40 PM
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Do those women actually exist in real life in western culture, though? I doubt there are any heterosexual 20-35 year old women in non-religious countries who haven't at least dated or experimented with an attractive asshole unless those women are so unattractive they can't date any man. Do you personally know any modern woman who never dated an attractive asshole, OP ? If so, where do y'all live lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:28 PM
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College doesn't teach you any emotional maturity. It should on paper, but it doesn't. What most college kids do most of the time is party, stress out over shit and fuck each other. Studying is like the least of your priorities when you're in college unless you're in an actually hard college. That's the problem. I know a lot of girls from a rural background who were shy and introverted when they first moved to the big city and started college and then turned into complete thots within 2 years. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:44 PM
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Lady, please. If all your entitled asses had it your way, 4 out of 5 men living today could suddenly phase out of existence and y'all wouldn't give a shit. You think every man living before feminism was a wifebeating piece of shit? Hell no. Some actually just want to provide and care for a woman who loves them and cares for them in return because that's how they were raised. I don't want women to be with men out of necessity. I just want women to get real and drop their overly inflated, social m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:09 PM
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Most of the women I know who got married when they were young didn't go to college. They either left the country to go work or they found jobs here. Those that didn't marry are typically college graduates with degrees in management, marketing, finances, journalism or political sciences or they went to medschool. They are typically very independent, like to travel a lot and either have LTR's with very physically attractive partners with active lifestyles or they're not in a relationship and only …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:24 PM
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From my experience, about half the women I went to school with (I'm 29 currently, they're 28-30 for reference) got married before they were 25, the other half is still under no apparent rush to get married and are in no serious LTR, not looking to settle. My female friends and the women I was interested in dating are also like this. So from where I'm sitting, it seems like those trad women that I wanted got snatched up early and the women who are actually still in the dating pool are the non-tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:01 PM
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I just wrote above your first reply that I had to start a new Mr Cool Guy Extrovert persona to get attention. I am adapting. Ukraine and Russia were doing just fine before Putin stuck his hand where it didn't belong and took Crimea. What's happening right now in Ukraine is not in any way related to people living traditional lifestyles, it's one man's greedy and bloody ambition to become the new Napoleon. Come on now. I wouldn't risk death to fight in a war I have no business in, but you bet your…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:44 PM
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Tell me you can't read without telling me you can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:29 PM
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Then fuck the world, I say, and fuck you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:25 PM
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I see 40-50 year old men holding hands with 20 yo-something chicks all the time in the shopping malls. Sugardaddies/sugarbabies are more common than you'd think. If you're 50 you should have enough wealth by that point to be able to take young, impressionable college students on fancy dates and trips. They use your money, you use their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:43 PM
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Yeah. I live in Bucharest, Romania and it's pretty jarring how life here went from a traditionalist, Christian society to a liberal, hedonistic one like in the West in the span of one generation. 30 years ago, in my parents' generation, if you were a young, quiet, hard working, family-oriented man with a stable job you were all but guaranteed to find a family-oriented woman willing to start a family with pretty early on. Fast forward one generation and I'm a young, quiet, hard working, family-or…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:31 PM
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Modern society is female biased thanks to feminism & social media. Older, traditionalist societies are male biased. That's why men are calling for a return to a trad lifestyle. Being a man is worth way less in 2022 than it was in 1922 or even 1972.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:12 PM
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Wrong. A lot of young women have daddy issues and fetishize older men. Women in general date older men, not younger. The older you get as a man, as long as you take care of yourself and don't look wrinkled and grey like a grandpa, the wider the group of women attracted to you age-wise gets. A 20 year old dude only has 18-20 year old girls to choose from. A 50 year old dude who takes care of himself can date women between 18 and 50 if he so wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:04 PM
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I agree with the title, but life as a single man is not the same as life as a single woman. As a single woman you get a lot of benefits, like you said. You can spend time with friends, take care of pets, hook up with no strings attached and society will consider you stunning and brave for being single thanks to feminism. Single men, however, aren't seen as stunning and brave. They're seen as losers and weirdos by society, both by women and by other men alike. A man is instantly seen as more succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:57 PM
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Yeah, risk taking hobby groups are perfect... if you're a woman. You have plenty of single dudes and little competition from other women, because there aren't that many to begin with. If you're an average male just don't bother with those. You're better off going for artsy hobbies like improv/acting, canto, dance classes or painting classes or volunteering at an animal shelter. Way better female/male ratios there. Or, and this is a good option if you're ugly, you could take up a combat sport and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:18 AM
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But it literally comes from experience. I had girl friends who liked talking to me and hanging out with me and were enjoying my company but still rejected me when I asked them out. Told me "I wasn't their type". Truth is, if they don't find you hot, your personality doesn't mean jack shit. All personality does is influence whether or not you'll have a ONS with that girl or an actual relationship down the line. But if you lack the face or the build or the height and you don't have something else …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:03 AM
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I’ve had some experiences that made me think it’s possible that what most men in the pickup/redpill community need is to focus less on status based attractiveness and more on just being a better person to hang out with Being a better person to hang out with but low status means you're ending up in the friendzone. If you want sex, you need status/looks. If you want a relationship, you need to have both status/looks and be a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:21 AM
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Honestly? I'd offer them my full support. I'd say "go for it dude, go out, meet people with connections, go to parties, get yourself a girlfriend. We'll hang out more often when you've settled your issue". I'd have no problem with that because that's what I'd want from my friends. Just because he'd stop hanging out with me every weekend doesn't mean I'd stop being friends with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:10 PM
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Hard disagree. I think that if you've been single for a long time and you can't get a date and you have to choose between spending your Friday night at your friend's house (who doesn't go out) vs spending your Friday night in the city, mingling with new people, you should choose the latter, feelings be damned. You're only shooting yourself in the foot if you don't go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:59 PM
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Not pickup artists, but people with large social circles, people who go to parties, festivals, concerts, trips, that sort of thing. People who can give you exposure, tag you with them in their stories, things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:47 PM
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I think that if you're a good friend and you see that your friend struggles with dating and is upset about it you'd do something about it and help the guy, not go "that sucks bro, you'll meet someone someday, thoughts & prayers" and leave it at that. Shit, if I was happy in a relationship and my single friend was telling me for years about his struggles you bet your ass I'd make something happen for him. You know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:41 PM
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I'm not saying to cut contact completely with your current friends, but if you have a problem and they can't or won't help you with it, it would be better to spend less of your free time with them and spend more time developing connections with people who can actually be of help in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:28 PM
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What if you're lacking in looks but have a golden voice or you're a great public speaker who can win over a crowd? Or maybe you're a great cook or just in general you have a talent and you're good at it and other people admire you for it? Doesn't that make you more attractive despite being short or with a not so handsome face? But without other people advertising your talents to women they know, none of that matters, everything goes to waste and you're only judged by shallow shit like looks and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:22 PM
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No. Not full RP. I don't believe in AWALT, however I do believe that the only women I can actually meet and approach in socially acceptable conditions (clubs, bars, hobby groups etc) are AWALT type extroverted women, who are naturally shallow and overlook me because I'm not hot or rich or popular enough for them. The women I actually like, which are grounded, modest women who don't like to show off, I have no way of meeting. You can only meet them at work or school (and I work from home + am not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:33 PM
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Wholly agree. The truth for men nowadays is that dating is a fucking grind with little to no payoff. You could spend years working your ass off to improve yourself to be as attractive as you can and still get nothing but maybes and false promises that never lead anywhere. I know, I've lived it. Can't wait for the day when fully functional sex androids with human-level AI hit the shelves. That's the only way undesirable men could reliably get their emotional and sex needs met. Imagine a sexbot wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:56 PM
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Bold of you to think we have partners in the first place, which is why most of the replies come from women lmao. Easy to have a happy relationship when you never have to struggle for it because you get dozens, if not hundreds of offers throughout the years and the only thing you have to do is pick the one you like the most. Meanwhile, if you're a regular dude, you don't get any offers. You have to send them instead, the candidates you want the most reject you and you have to either take the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:18 AM
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I mean, yeah, sort of. I consider myself to be average to somewhat above average in terms of looks, depending on how well I groom or dress, so the women I'm interested in are also at that level. Kinda cute, not below average, but not smokeshows either. I don't even bother with the hot, supermodel type women. They're probably very high maintenance and probably want hot, supermodel type or very rich guys, which I'm not, so they're not the type I'd want to be with in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:30 AM
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I'm lacking in looks, lacking in social status and lacking in money. I'm decent in all three, but I'm not in the top 20% in neither, so what I have is not enough to outcompete the entire ranks of top men in my city that the type of women I like want and have access to via social media & dating apps, which means I ain't attracting shit. Whenever I happen to meet a girl I find attractive and who likes my personality and likes being around me, I still get turned down and friendzoned by her when I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:50 PM
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More and more men will become angry that they keep being rejected by women and will feel that they have nothing to live for. Some will kill themselves, some will murder other people and some will keep on living in misery, hooked on drugs, porn and video games. Rapes will increase, crimes will increase, religious extremism will increase. Eventually, society will destabilize. We are currenty in a new situation because now there are too many single young men alive at the moment. Pretty much every d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:57 PM
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Good advice, thanks ! This makes me realize I need more female friends in my life lol.
/r/seduction27/01/20 02:58 AM
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I mean, I was pretty confident at the bar today. I actually enjoyed the gathering for what it was, it was fun playing board games. I'm just sad after the fact that there weren't any singles for me to talk to. I've never cold approached a random stranger yet, so I'm still nervous about doing that specifically, but if I know someone through a mutual activity/event, I can hold a conversation just fine. It's just that whoever I'm interested in talking to is always either not interested or already ha…
/r/seduction27/01/20 02:56 AM
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