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| 1 | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.How do you know he has no lovers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActI'm not going to go into a full blackpill analysis on your face, but the lens you should consider is that being 1) white passing and 2) tall are factors in being considered handsome. You have features that are considered objectively unattractive, and if you had the same exact face and darker skin you would be considered ugly in real life. A shorter man with darker skin would have to be exceptionally facially aesthetic compared to you to be considered attractive. Ive heard women say face is the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActIncome is not wealth. Some people have a few high earning years and then lose it all. In a big city where rent is $3k-$4k a month and you can't show off your wealth as easily, having a high salary isn't a big deal. I agree that most women don't care about a man's money as much as a lot of people think, they care mostly about height and looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActMost of the attention I get from women is solely due to keeping my body fat low so that my facial features stand out and the definition in my arms pop. Its shocking how going from skinny fat to skinny made such a big difference, before I was almost invisible to women and with just a few pounds of fat off I became a head turner. But just being tall, which is at least 5'11 in the US since that makes you taller than 75% of men and at least a few inches taller helps, seems to be the most important f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or Act$200k can get you a girlfriend out of your league in cities where it's really uncommon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActOutside of California and New York I have seen that your dating prospects can be improved with under $200k. Have you heard of that startup CEO in Los Angeles that's all over social media who wants to live forever Bryan Johnson who made $800k selling his company? He's divorcing his wife and she claims he cheated rampantly with sugar babies and prostitutes. That sets the bar high for normal people to use their money to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActI think being 6 ft+ alone is a big part of it. As someone who is under 5'10 I feel like I have to do a lot to make up for the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActCalifornia has rich and famous athletes, bodybuilders, rappers, other musicians, actors, entrepreneurs, social media personalities, and trust fund babies all in one place. But $200k is still above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActAren't you in high finance making $200k+? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failWhat does the grey pill mean? Is that a common or did you just use it for your flair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience?The name of this sub is PPD. You're trying too hard now, good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience?low empathy socially stunted PPD woman as usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:05 AM |
| 4 | Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience?No this is their lived experience. Women discriminate mostly on 1) race 2) height 3) looks in that order. Way more picky than men, more racist than men, and more entitled than men in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.As women get older and have more situationship experience, they get more jaded over time. You can argue against it but that's my lived experience and a lot of men would agree. Gen Z women might seem more jaded because they're getting more situationship experience at a younger age than before than millennial women who weren't as chronically online. Your argument is ridiculous, there's a big difference between a child, a fully developed woman who can legally consent and is in her peak fertile year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.A guy who can bag a much younger woman can bag a woman his age. He just doesn't want to. You act like the woman who is more jaded and closer to menopause has more options than the younger woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.This is going to sound harsh but women don't become more valuable with age and it is easier to get them when they're older than when they're young. That's why you see married couples where the husband is less attractive than his wife more than you see young couples with a less attractive guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:54 PM |
| 6 | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.Men who read this, if she's legally able to consent and is interested you don't need a strange reddit woman's permission to go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Cultural changes that might help the current gender issuesReligious conservative women can be more hypergamous than non conservative women because they can only be with one guy. So they want the best. They care just as much about looks and money if not more. That's why a lot of conservative women end up being single forever, because they're too picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the RedpillWhat else do you expect from this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:48 AM |
| – | Going through a hoe phase (or just having the ability to go through it) would fix most modern men's brainrot about women.He said that he and other people don't see the guy as a leader but that's what he says his secret is. Is there anything else you can think of other than looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Going through a hoe phase (or just having the ability to go through it) would fix most modern men's brainrot about women.He is not short, he is average height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Going through a hoe phase (or just having the ability to go through it) would fix most modern men's brainrot about women.Well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Even college is not that great of a way for men and women to meet, due to male variabilityOP talks a lot about IQ but a major point I think he didn't get across well is that more men who are going to college are going to end up studying something like engineering, law, medicine etc that tends to be very male dominated and rigorous, which means that even though there's more women who go to college more of them are studying majors that are very easy and give them lots of free time to socialize and party when a lot of men are stuck in sausage fest majors with less time and opportunity t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemYou literally asked for statistics. Look at my comment again. I just said it's much faster for women than men to have an ideal body with some numbers. That's hardly statistics. Women have higher body fat percentages than men but it is distributed better than men and the healthy range is higher for women. A woman who is 20% body fat will be fairly lean and healthy but for a man that is on the higher end of the range they should be. Women gaining a few extra pounds means more curves, a bigger ches… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the RedpillYes men are very horny. Instead of being demonized manipulated and exploited for it by mostly women there should be a better outlet for men to express it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemThis isn't just you but this is reddit. There is an obsession with statistics, research, facts, scientific articles, data, and pedigrees behind every discussion where it doesn't matter. Any scientist can tell you that there are limitations to the conclusions you can draw based on how data can be collected. MA'AM this is reddit. We don't need the level of scrutiny a PhD candidate gets on publishing their research to talk about general fitness trends. There is data but it is flawed. If you look up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemFrom going to the gym, I have learned that - most men are 2-5 years away from an ideal body and most women are 6-12 months away from an ideal body. But there are way more men in the gym working towards it than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 11:25 PM |
| 2 | If modern dating is much more terrible for men, why do they report dating apps as a positive more than women (57% vs 48%)?10% of men get 58% of the likes while 90% of men share 42% of the likes. In a big city of 1 million+ overall with 100k+ dating age men and 100k+ women thats 5800 likes for chad on average and 467 for nonchad. That's only likes and not matches. Chads get 12.49 times as many likes as nonchads. Stacy gets 4600 likes and nonstacy gets 600. Stacy gets 7.67 times as many likes as non Stacy. However, the gender ratio on hinge is actually 2 men per 1 woman. So really you have 10k men and 5k women. Which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Women in American society are poor prospects.I agree that having a good career and money isn't the only important thing, but being a decent and interesting human being and being successful isn't mutually exclusive. Those people might have a better time finding someone similar outside America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Women in American society are poor prospects.Women in America are poor prospects. Professional women from foreign countries both value education, career and economic success far more and don't have a bitch attitude you see in Americans. How is that not a reality check? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingThen don't be an unpleasant and boring person? If you're someone I like talking to then I would want to talk to you all night and see you again. The worst dates I've had were dinner dates, but they weren't always the longest. The best dates I've had were cheap and casual, drinks/snacks where we could have wrapped it up early anytime with no pressure but ended up losing track of time. Dinner dates aren't fun because you're hungry and can be awkward/messy and have less flexibility over the time an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingCoffee or a drink is fine. Dinner is a bad first date because you have to sit down, wait for your food and eat it without being able to do much. Coffee and drinks means you can make it short or long if you want and you can also take it with you and walk around somewhere more interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingYou don't need a homemaker in the west. All these women who want men to pay saying they'll cook and clean... Won't. Because the men can afford for her not to. That's why they need a man with money and not a working class man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:44 PM |
| 2 | The modern "loneliness epidemic" could be considered, in part, a consequence of how contemporary feminist narratives influence social dynamics and individual mindsetThe same century where America is weakened by feminism and absorbed into the Chinese empire 🇨🇳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingThat's true. But a lot of men know that they have a better chance of getting laid if they do pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | The modern "loneliness epidemic" could be considered, in part, a consequence of how contemporary feminist narratives influence social dynamics and individual mindsetHere's what I was replying to specifically: I have faith in ya, boys. I don’t think learning to respect women as fully realized human beings is going to be that difficult. You can do it. I dont care what argument you had with some dumb guy on reddit. But you're making unnecessary broad sweeping sexist statements that are really condescending and unnecessary. You think any men that might have sided with you would be sympathetic after that? And again you're asking me to respect you because you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:20 PM |
| – | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingIt's very interesting how most straight women (even irl) have very black and white views especially in dating and relationships. They speak in absolutes about something so subjective and hate having their opinions challenged like autistic children. You're just talking to yourself and not even considering that maybe a lot of guys who are successful, good partners, and have no resentment towards women, do not want an overbearing and entitled woman to make them miserable? Have you considered that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingI don't want to pay for a date that might go nowhere. Nor do I want to setup any expectation of how the date should go. This early in dating you should figure out if you are compatible with the other person and if you enjoy their company or not. After that if it's going somewhere you should make sure to be on the same page about finances. That's why most first dates should be free or cheap, and low investment. The idea that every first date should be long, boring, well planned and expensive for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 06:59 PM |
| 8 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingThe filter works both ways. Splitting the bill as a man is a good filter for finding an egalitarian partner, who is more likely to be intelligent, hard working, and come from a decent home. Women who demand men pay tend to be broke, low class, not very intelligent, and entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingIt's dumb and shows women who believe it are out of touch with men. Most guys are willing to pay for dates because they know it increases their chances of getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 06:28 PM |
| 2 | The modern "loneliness epidemic" could be considered, in part, a consequence of how contemporary feminist narratives influence social dynamics and individual mindsetAs long as you stay chronically online where you can't spread your hate irl I'll be OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Women in American society are poor prospects.Some guys do. But some guys might be saving themselves for marriage and are not from a western culture. Those guys don't have an equivalent in America and have to look abroad for a compatible partner. This is more common than what you are describing tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | The modern "loneliness epidemic" could be considered, in part, a consequence of how contemporary feminist narratives influence social dynamics and individual mindsetYou're unpleasant and disrespectful, you should learn to do better before asking for men to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Women in American society are poor prospects.You get the point though. A lot of guys who date non American women just want a woman who comes from the same background as them. I've seen a lot of Latinos, Chinese, Middle Eastern guys who go this route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Women in American society are poor prospects.I was going to reply to this but OPs response is already weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Women in American society are poor prospects.Old white guys looking for brown sugar babies are not the entirety of men looking for women abroad. For a lot of men who come from a non American culture, they have to look outside the country if they want someone compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Women in American society are poor prospects."rich STEM dudes" aren't complaining that American women are too good for them, they are complaining that American women are too stupid and lazy for them. Your comment is typical of an ignorant, racist and condescending American woman. You think you're the most attractive, smart, educated and sophisticated beings on the planet and OP is giving a reality check that you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | The Self Improvement that TRP Teaches Seems Pointless Sometimes.As long as you still look young, you can get away with not having money. Just live near a college and pick up younger girls. But once you age out of the college age women you'll need money so that you can live in a town with more options, and at this stage in life women start caring more about money. Looks are still important. At any age having money is a factor, but younger girls care more about looks after high school. When you're middle aged you can still date much younger girls but from what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 04:39 PM |
| – | Balthazar Ebang Engonga proves that 4B won't work.The age gap explanation where a lot of women might be dating men 2-10 years older when younger men can't for obvious reasons is an easy thing to observe and a politically correct explanation of what's going on. Its harder to quantify and qualify the inequity in dating for men and most people do not want to admit it's true. Most young guys will probably have one or a few long term relationships. An increasing amount of guys are going a longer amount of time between partners where they get no inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:56 PM |
| – | Balthazar Ebang Engonga proves that 4B won't work.So when you increased the definition of young men from 18-21 to 18-25 a lower percentage of men had no sex? That doesn't really tell you if young men 18-21 are having the same or a different amount of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:40 PM |
| – | Balthazar Ebang Engonga proves that 4B won't work.This. It's not that more gen z men were more likely to vote for Trump. It's that they were the men who had the biggest shift in who they voted for which meant Trump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:36 PM |
| – | The issues with online dating could be solved with a better appI don't think dating apps can ever be a good way to date for most people. They are too artificial and as you said an app that works isn't profitable. I think even now they struggle to make money. Instagram, facebook, even reddit or other social media platforms actually work better as they're more natural and lower pressure. In theory if we removed bots, scammers, influencers and OF models on apps, punished time wasters (girls who chat but never meet anyone), didn't let girls match with guys out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 02:00 PM |
| – | The issues with online dating could be solved with a better appIt's stunning to see how often tall, good looking chads have harems of average and even ugly women. That's why they often have such huge egos, because they lack the self awareness to realize how low most men's standards are for sex. And then you see lots of attractive women with normal looking guys in relationships because they know this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:38 PM |
| – | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?None. Reddit is a horrible place for relationship questions. All of them will just make you hate the opposite sex more because everyone lives in their own bubble where every niche and outlandish opinion is protected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The Self Improvement that TRP Teaches Seems Pointless Sometimes.After 25, a lot of the girls who slept around in their high school and college years suddenly realize that they have to change their strategy for finding a life partner if they want marriage and kids, which most do. The reality of adulting also hits them at this point. So a lot of TRP is preparing for the reality that money is a more important factor later in life for dating. If you're a still youthful and attractive guy in your late 20s and even in your 30s you can still be genuinely attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:27 PM |
| – | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?A lot of the times they do expose themselves, but 3 months may not even be long enough to fully expose them, and that's a lot of time to wait and figure the other person out. It goes the other way too with women, figuring out if she's some kind of misandrist or are brainrotted by feminist (you can say the female equivalent of RP men). I dated a girl from a conservative Christian family who cooked and cleaned, had mostly conservative viewpoints outside of abortion rights, came from a stable house… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:20 PM |
| – | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?A lot of those topics are also feminist talking points. Which are things I think are lame to talk about especially on a date. Those are really obvious topics IMO because some guys who are into RP stuff are not dumb enough to expose themselves that way. They might talk about a few topics they are more liberal on at most but otherwise probably avoid political or controversial conversations in the first place, especially with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?Besides some obviously autistic guys who spout TRP sayings like they're gospel, I've met guys IRL who are very misogynistic and two faced and hide their opinions of women well. It can be surprising because their personalities seem very bubbly and even feminine. They have no problems with women, maybe for long term relationships when the mask slips but they're not as uncommon as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?I used to read a lot of RP stuff when it was more niche but seeing it slowly become more mainstream and IRL interactions helped turn me away from it. But what's ironic is the way that you OP and other women IIT describe about reacting to RP content and discovering "how men really think" is exactly how it feels seeing all the 3rd and 4th wave feminist rhetoric that has been spreading over the past 20 years. Even worse is that it is now the backbone of the MSM and most young girls are now indoctri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?Unfortunately they're a sizeable (and growing) minority of guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?IRL I've seen a lot of guys who quote and paraphrase RP/manosphere sayings frequently and that makes it obvious. Younger guys who tend to have more conservative views seem to align with it more, so the TRP to alt-right pipeline and vice versa isn't that far off. Is there anything else you can add that makes RP dudes stick out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:32 PM |
| 13 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?People come onto this sub when they're at their worst. You're not gonna see the best in people but talking to people individually you'll see most here are just lonely souls wallowing in bitterness. People should realize this and move on from this sub ASAP. I noticed that random searches related to relationship discussions online seem to lead to this sub a lot, which is why it seems to be growing so much lately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:28 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItNow those are better odds than 10-15%. But it's still a lot of work compared to being in a relationship with one person, just a shame that someone worth investing in and committing to is hard to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 09:42 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItDate 10 girls, and one maybe two will be interested in you. That's not a lot of options to find someone you like or are really compatible with. Having to date 50-100 girls is a lot to have any options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit It10-15% are not very good odds. First dates are better than the initial talking phases, but it's not as fun as the second date or hooking up. First dates can also go badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 09:06 PM |
| 8 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItDating women isn't pleasant. It sucks being highly attracted to them. Whether it's the first date or when the honeymoon phase of a relationship wears off most women are unpleasant, poor communicators, uncompromising, selfish and inegalitarian. That's just the tip of the iceberg. It's not that different from having a high paying career. You spend years going to school, doing internships, taking classes, and learning about things you don't enjoy to end up working in places with people you don't li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 08:47 AM |
| 11 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItThe most out of touch people on this sub seem to be a huge proportion of women, and a lot of the older guys who are married and haven't dated in 20+ years. A 40+ year old man who is married or is part of the post divorce post menopausal dating pool doesn't know what it's like to date the most socially stunted generation of women in history. Even if you're winning you still feel like you're losing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 08:29 AM |
| 0 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItLocation is by far the #1 factor in dating. Depending where you are, there is an overabundance of fit, good looking and successful men and not a lot of quality Women. Other places can be the complete opposite where tons of ugly fat dudes have hot girlfriends. Live outside a major metro area and after early 20s when everyone is paired up you have no options left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 08:26 AM |
| 3 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItThe higher up the socioeconomic pyramid you go, the less options there are, and standards go up. Uneducated fat people have no problem dating/hooking up with other uneducated fat people. People who don't have multiple kids out of wedlock, aren't fat and have money have fewer options if they want someone similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 08:23 AM |
| 0 | There’s nothing wrong with high standards.Why don't you go take some virginities (srs)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 07:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Gynocentricism was created by and exists mainly because of religious/conservative menA lot of these liberal progressive guys who are woke and feminist also seem to be less likely to want a traditional relationship in the long run (monogamy, marriage, family, etc.). They also don't value the idea of hard work of community in the way that religions like Christianity preach, amongst other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to betl;dr - They don't choose an uglier partner because an uglier guy is a better partner but because it expands their otherwise limited pool of serious partners. A less attractive or less desirable guy might not actually make a good partner, but women's pool of quality mates is a lot smaller than the pool of men willing to sleep with or date them casually especially with the decline of religion and the affordability of society. So that means that they probably have to settle in the looks department… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 08:07 AM |
| 4 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themIf you're teaching in the hood, then it pays poorly and work conditions are awful. But in a decent neighborhood the pay is better and it's low stress with lots of time off compared to most other full time careers. It's not always great money, but you'd be surprised how much a high school teachers can make. Scientists have much more schooling and are usually academically top notch, but there's little real scientific work and it pays poorly. Scientists have to work for corporate to make a good liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:40 AM |
| 2 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themtop firefighters are making much more than that, and in some areas teachers are making $150k+. Between teachers, firefighters, and scientists, the scientists probably get the worst pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 08:20 PM |
| – | Jordan Peterson tells young men to sacrifice themselves and endure. Young men should suck it up. It is my belief that men have the right to opt out of a society that discriminates against them.There are less than 1 million Syrian refugees in Germany and <5% of the population in Germany are non white immigrants. Most immigrants in Germany are white. It just sounds like you're trying to find a reason to bring in your white replacement theory fears into the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Jordan Peterson tells young men to sacrifice themselves and endure. Young men should suck it up. It is my belief that men have the right to opt out of a society that discriminates against them.You say this like we aren't already there in the West. The average westerner would be closer to 50 or 40 if the west didn't import so many immigrants to make up for the lack of young people working hard to keep society running. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Women should not complain about being left for younger womanThanks for sharing that article. What I said is still accurate. Women being the breadwinner in their marriage is not that common, the majority of households either have male providers or DINKS/DI who have relatively similar incomes, but it is not very common (16% at most) for a woman to have to support a household financially. Only 6% of all marriages are women the sole provider, today 23% of all marriages have men as the sole provider. This is more than 85% of all marriages having men as the br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:36 AM |
| 2 | What’s happening when you start going to the gym?You're probably higher than 15% then. My face is fairly defined even around 18%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 09:34 PM |
| 0 | Women should not complain about being left for younger womanI remember a comment thread that debunked this with some numbers. Very few women are the breadwinners in their marriage and only in certain demographics (lower socioeconomic and BIPOC where women are significantly more educated than the men) is this more common. Stop spreading fake statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Where to find green flag peopleThat's not true, lots of tech bros are extremely liberal and even identify as feminists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreSometimes I have a decent head on my shoulders, when I feel like saying stupid things I let it out on here :) I've travelled a bit and other guys I know who have travelled also agreed that women outside the US, namely Europe and Asia, are much more attractive than their American counterparts. I agree with what you're saying about men looking better than the women, most women even a lot of the thinner ones do not go to the gym. Lots of slightly overweight or even a lot of fatter guys still go to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | My guy friend told me it’s more common for men to be hooking up with the same woman, is this true?Thank you for protecting me from the keyboard warrior. I cannot believe the cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreLimb lengthening is too experimental and I've heard bad things about it. If I were 5'2" I would be more inclined to try it. I think wearing 1-3" sole shoes is probably a better option if I want to boost my height. Lots of white guys are under 5'10", and in the younger generation of Indian/Asian/Hispanics I've seen lots of tall ones. Height is a subconscious indicator of wealth, because maximizing height means at least a few generations of being able to afford to eat well. Because of imperialism … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreI'm an older gen Z and I went to tons of parties where many guys and girls were practically on opposite corners of the room keeping to themselves and a small percent of people who usually came together or already knew each other were actually mingling and dancing or hooking up. Gen Z seems so much more averse to meeting new people and it's definitely generational. But when I talk to millenials or older a lot of the time they seem friendly and open to strangers not just at parties but in general … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 09:49 PM |
| 8 | My guy friend told me it’s more common for men to be hooking up with the same woman, is this true?The only one coping here is the guy with the Madonna whore complex. (You, since it probably went over your head) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 09:00 PM |
| 5 | My guy friend told me it’s more common for men to be hooking up with the same woman, is this true?I can tell you that isn't true knowing some girls who fucked really famous rappers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreYeah ive been in cities where shootings happen in broad daylight. But it's ironic that in places that are richer and safer women are paranoid of all men when in places that can be poorer and less safe women are more receptive probably due to culture. I think hispanic/black/southern cultures are more receptive to cold approach than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreIve seen how much attention women get and it's mind boggling how much they get approached. Even unattractive and obese ones. Depending on where you live, approaching as a man is more or less viable as a way to meet women because women are more or less receptive based on where you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreI get that women want the best option they can get, but when they all want the same things generally (a man who is tall and has money but also somehow has lots of free time and doesn't have to work and has a full head of hair, etc) that excludes most men while they themselves don't have much to offer. I'm average height and extremely intelligent, high earning and fairly fit. Going through bulking and cutting phases I see how shallow women are, I've never been fat in my life but when I have some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreMy sarcastic sense of humor aside, here's the thing. Everytime I've ever gone out to a bar/club setting its almost always a major sausage fest. And most of the dudes are very attractive and fit. For reference I am 5'9 with visibly vascular arms, in shoes about 5'10. But I see tons of guys much taller and muscular than me and never a ton of girls. I also notice that girls go late and leave early, there's usually maybe a 60 to 90 minute window where it is possible to talk to any girls before they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreYeah but NYC is pretty diverse in terms of culture and attitudes and also has a lot more single women than say SF which is also very liberal and full of feminazis but women are a lot less approachable there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreKnew it had to be the south. Been around a lot of southerners and they are probably the friendliest and most extroverted culture in the US. Haven't spent that much time around Denver, but I think that in a lot of the the US people are less friendly and more reserved or even hostile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreThanks for being honest unlike most women on PPD. The eugenics movement was started by a woman and in 2024 letting women choose means letting them remove most men from the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreI don't ever see the girls say guys don't talk to them. Just attractive girls looking for validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreWhen people talk about their city they should be more specific, location is the big difference in "I can approach this girl and date her" to "If I walk too close to this girl she will think I'm stalking her" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreWhen people talk about "my city" they need to be more specific. Living in a few different cities, it seems like socioeconomic and political factors affect the viability of cold approach. Gender ratio too. Richer and/or more liberal areas it seemed to be full of the kind of girls who will be walking down a neighborhood full of $2-$3 million houses and be afraid of their male neighbors walking near them on the sidewalk. Poorer and/or more poor areas cold approach was normal and you had less of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreWhen people talk about "my city" they need to be more specific. Living in a few different cities, it seems like socioeconomic and political factors affect the viability of cold approach. Gender ratio too. Richer and/or more liberal areas it seemed to be full of the kind of girls who will be walking down a neighborhood full of $2-$3 million houses and be afraid of their male neighbors walking near them on the sidewalk. Poorer and/or more poor areas cold approach was normal and you had less of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreI knew this was fiction when you said there was a 7:1 Female to male ratio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenEverytime I see a woman on reddit or online that shows zero empathy or understanding towards men it's hard to remind myself that not all women suck this much in real life but unfortunately most younger women these days seem to be just as awful as the ones I see online. They don't even want to try and understand the opposite sex, they just want to stick their head further and further up their own butts because they think their own shit doesn't stink and they fart pixie dust and poop rainbows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenIt's funny how woke liberals are converging into the same conclusions as puritans and conservative Christians when it comes to male sexuality. "straight men looking out for their own needs is bad for us so we need to keep them frustrated and confused" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:51 PM |
| 23 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenPorn is the symptom not the cause. Women need to make up their mind if they want men to leave them alone or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:47 PM |
| 2 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real lifeYou're skibidi in Ohio? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real lifeSt Louis sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:25 PM |
| 4 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?There are some guys, like ones that I know, that seem to think women are these otherworldly angelic beings that are inherently better and deserving of more respect than man by default. Guys who don't think of women as humans and are also 30 year old virgins. These guys worship women. A lot of women are not nice people. Uninteresting. Mentally ill. Time wasters. Unintelligent. Creepy. Men who have self respect know that women are just as flawed as men so they don't treat them as anything special.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 07:07 PM |
| 0 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Tons of women love the hypermasculine caveman look more than the soyboy metrosexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:58 PM |
| 0 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Chad doesn't have to be egotistical or misogynistic. He has to have self respect and not worship women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:54 PM |
| 5 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?A D1 football player is likely to be much taller than average and extremely muscular. And they have the potential to be multimillionaire within a few years after college. They also have a lot of social status. These guys are Chads even if not handsome. If anything a hyoernasculine guy who looks like a caveman is more likely to be a Chad than a metrosexual pretty boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:46 PM |
| – | Is every single prominent redpill/manosphere thought leader and influencer a ‘grifter’ who doesn’t represent the ‘real’ redpill?You think he's anything other than regressive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:39 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their characterOr it could be the enormous abundance of men that women always have and they were far from the hottest option she had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Is every single prominent redpill/manosphere thought leader and influencer a ‘grifter’ who doesn’t represent the ‘real’ redpill?The red pill community was more of a safe space for non politically correct male speech. I would never endorse everything that has been said in manosphere communities and never directly followed a lot of those "thought leaders". People like Roosh V and gaylubeoil who either went crazy later, turned out to be keyboard warriors, or were just grifters like most of those social media influencers that didn't exist 10 years ago. There were even white supremacists, white replacement theorists, trump an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:42 AM |
| – | Dating is hardest for straight menI would rather nasty women like you leave men alone since you hate them so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 08:26 PM |
| – | Dating is hardest for straight menThe women in this sub are starting to show their true colors and gave up on the charade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 04:17 PM |
| – | Dating is hardest for straight menThe fact that people call kpop stars effeminate shows how insane the standards for hypermasculinity in the west are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps?What outliers are you talking about? Many industries are not evenly distributed based on gender. I've been in fields where probably 90% of the people I work with are women, and in fields where 90% are men. It is rare to see a younger unmarried woman and it wouldn't be hard to go years without meeting any women through work in such fields. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 08:31 PM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenIt's highly blue pill now. I see all the same chronically online unsatisfied women in relationships who have been here for years posting bad takes and no real discussion happening. There was one 40+ woman who was a regular who was always bragging about how great her relationship was and now she's going through a divorce. This sub has been on a steep decline and any man who is still on it should not waste their time here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 06:45 PM |
| 2 | For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit?I didn't need to see your flair to know that a woman posted this. I want to agree with what you're saying about being social and leaving the house, but I know a guy with a 50+ body count who lives with his parents, is broke, doesn't go to school, does nothing but smoke weed, play video games and watch anime all day and can't even drive. But he does have a lot of friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsThis just proves the women are employers and men are employee analogy, you are literally telling men to pull themselves up by their own bootstraps when the odds are clearly in their favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf earsA woman I know would compare dating as a man to applying to jobs. I thought it was crazy at first but if you compare dating for men to being an employee looking for a job from an employer (women), then it's an exact analogy. Employers have a lot of advantages at their disposal that even when they are incompetent, their safety nets still put them ahead of employees. Almost everything about dating as a man can be compared to being a wage slave. The rat race doesn't just apply to your job, dating i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:54 PM |
| 2 | What Male-to-female Ratio would your ideal Society for you to live in have?Women can't live without male attention. Women who are single are usually still actively dating/having sex and receive plenty of male attention. No woman will be single and celibate for an extended period of time unless something is wrong with her. Women would rather be miserable in a relationship than alone because they can't be happy alone, a lot of men can be happy alone however. I don't like to use online examples to relate to real life, but I saw this video that reminds me of my own experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 12:05 AM |
| 3 | What Male-to-female Ratio would your ideal Society for you to live in have?This is a laughable take. Gender ratio is the #1 factor in dating success for men. If women are happy being alone like terminally online PPD women claim, it is only because they enjoy an abundance of male attention (in most parts of the world the reproductive age population is skewed male and even more so at younger ages). Women by nature are pickier than men but many will have lower standards if there aren't enough men to go around. If men don't have to compete, the quality will go down too. Ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"Wait this wasn't a joke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"In this sub every other thread is a woman complaining about age gap relationships. Now in this thread the OP makes a good point and suddenly this sub isn't filled with psycho Twitter feminists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 05:18 PM |
| – | What is The Minimum Gender Threshold for Unlimited Dating Options?You're wrong. Why do you think every year kids are willing to subject themselves to brutal humiliation and torture (hazing) to join? A lot of them even are even killed in the process. Fraternities are an exclusive club for the rich, and the kids who join who are not rich want to mingle with that crowd. They get a status boost from being around them. Do a couple google searches, and you will find many sources that will tell you that kids who come from wealth are much more likely to be in greek li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:29 AM |
| 1 | What is The Minimum Gender Threshold for Unlimited Dating Options?You were in a Frat, that's the indicator of wealth the other guy is talking about. Frat kids are rich kids and guys who want to be rich kids putting their status and money to work and sorority girls are their groupies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 06:15 PM |
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