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Anyone who is denying the disparity of online dating must not know a lot of women IRL who use apps. It's shocking how easy it is for mid women to have harems of guys out of their league. Meanwhile the guys out of their league have harems of mid girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:20 AM
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Nope somewhere between 20-50 years ago was better. The rise of online negativity and obesity has made things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:15 AM
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I met this guy who taught English in China. It's interesting because he felt like a second class citizen there, but was making more money there than here and came back with a wife. Even for guys who are educated and have solid careers they find their wife abroad more easily than in the west. Most women are still asking where are all the good men? Most guys are not interested or capable of being the provider they want and it seems like the guys who are capable of being providers are not intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:18 PM
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My experience is that most women with really high body counts are really undesirable women that get pumped and dumped constantly. Eventually a guy with low enough standards might enter an ltr with them but either she is unattractive, seriously mentally ill or both and they keep chasing guys that are out of their league. Girls who are relatively mentally fit and/or attractive will have plenty of guys willing to LTR them and they still rack up numbers but can get better quality guys and stay in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:34 AM
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He's appealing to populist fantasy, even though he is a rich, famous, tall and muscular guy who has no issues with women he wants to act like he can relate to the struggles of an average joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:00 PM
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It would make sense for a woman to be supportive of their right to vote or access to contraception, which is also something that feminists support. But saying that you are a feminist means that you you identify with the same people that brought you #freethenipple #metoo #believeallwomen #killallmen. A significant proportion of vocal feminists are literally man hating misandrists that put down and mistreat men and do much more harm than good. A woman calling herself a feminist means that she spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:58 PM
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Im not British but Tate was smart when he came up with the concept of “escaping the matrix” This is a basic red pill concept, in fact the whole red pill/blue pill name comes from the matrix. He didn't come up with it and he didn't come up with the majority of the things he says. He's like a human red pill handbook with a lot of the low quality comments getting scribbled in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:36 PM
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Many blue pillers are also delusional, like the people who many not be actually successful but they still support the system. I know guys who are virgins into their late 20s who are bluepilled. They are just like the guys who will never be wealthy but think that elon musk is a relatable genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:03 PM
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But no one really cares that that're struggling in romantic life. Those types of men tend to live alone, quietly, and then they die without anyone really ever noticing they were there. They're irrelivent to most peoples lives. No one cares about them. QFT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:08 PM
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Most women that have high body counts are girls that are not very desirable for much outside of sex and have mental/self esteem issues. Most women who have lots of casual sex are rarely normal, that's just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:58 PM
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I think you just omit ones that will not make you look good in other people's eyes. Like racial ones. Dating as a non white guy is tough. JBW is one of the things that only blackpillers talk about (but they are too extreme like other things) and no other mainstream communities will admit (especially not most feminist or pro female groups because then they would have to admit that male privilege isn't real). Even if a white guy isn't a woman's type, pretty much all women will consider a white guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:56 PM
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It's just like the economy, should have been born 10 to 20 years earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:11 PM
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Women in this sub pretend like most women aren't shallow like this. There's a reason why women who call themselves feminists or talk about height and other superficial preferences are red flags. Aspects of feminism appeal to all women, but a woman who would tell a guy she is a feminist shows a lack of basic social skills because feminists have been and always will be a controversial and unpopular fringe group of weirdos and saying that you are one of them means you believe in a whole bunch of cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:09 PM
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Whether men are RP aware or not I think most men who do well never really needed it in the first place and most men who struggle will continue to struggle. Even TRP communities acknowledge that most guys can never become an HVM, most guys will never truly internalize RP and actually improve dramatically. A lot of guys might try to deny this in the RP community, but most guys will never be alpha or Chads and based on what I've seen irl it just seems these types of guys are angrier and more frustr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:10 AM
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It's the same reason that sociopaths do so well as CEOs and in business. You have to be completely numb to the toxicity in those environments and do whatever it takes to make it to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:42 PM
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Dating apps are probably the worst way to meet girls. Clubs are probably the second worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:25 PM
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He said he's been blue pilled his whole life but is starting to see red now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:50 PM
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None of the black pill women seem to actually be black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:34 PM
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The fact that all women have the option to deliver men like pizza just shows the abundance of options they have. Doesnt matter how much of a loser a woman is, she has more options than she can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:10 AM
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They should but they don't because they think that being divorced and losing their kids/house/money is somehow better than staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:24 PM
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A lot of the time yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:24 PM
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Self reported surveys are bs, my lived experience shows unless you're talking about Chads women cheat a lot more since they have more opportunity to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:45 PM
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A lot of women have no incentive to self improve because no matter how obese, mentally ill, broke, mean or other bad traits they have they have a ton of options due to dating apps and social media. They can literally order men like pizza except they have a free trial for unlimited delivery for life. Its probably never gonna happen, but if all of a sudden all men on the planet boycotted low quality women (or at least in the west) men would have a better experience with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:15 PM
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I doubt men cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:34 PM
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That's the last number I heard, is that incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:29 PM
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You really think this explains why 90% of the time women file for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:42 PM
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You really think this explains why 90% of the time women file for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:41 PM
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Wife falls out of love with husband, wife files. This is the likeliest explanation for 90% of the time women file for divorce Wife cheats on her husband, husband files. A lot of women will cheat and leave and still be the one who files since 90% of the time women file for divorce Husband abandons wife, wife files You really think that this is going to be a huge proportion of divorce filings since This is the likeliest explanation since 90% of the time women file for divorce? Wife beats husband h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:41 PM
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Redpillers used to call blackpillers and mgtows guys who just gave up. I think blackpill wasn't even a term until more recently because they would be shunned for not wanting to try and put in work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:16 PM
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They were blindsided because their wife was internalizing her emotions and refusing to communicate and instead of working on the relarionship built resentment and disgust towards their partners. By the time they bring it up to their partner they already made up their mind a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:13 PM
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That's really stupid logic that's being parroted in this sub constantly. "just because almost 100% of divorces are initiated by women doesn't mean women divorce men more!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:12 PM
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Not sure, I've had a previous conversation with you before where you clarified you weren't in your 40s. I also see you post in this sub a lot, so when I made that comment it's not just a random assumption but an assumption based on past experience. On a side note, it would be kind of interesting if there was a ppd meetup irl with all the regular posters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:07 PM
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Judging by other comments I'm not the only one who thinks you talk like an older lady
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:47 PM
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I am your generation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:10 PM
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If you talked less like the average woman on this sub that are married and going through menopause and more like someone your own age they might not think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:17 PM
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No they are older and married and bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:16 PM
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The men are young and single, the women are older and married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:57 PM
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Good for you, but that doesn't mean that more women prefer younger men than older.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:50 PM
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Any self reported survey with a small sample size that doesn't break down the demographics of the data (which people in the survey are married, single, in a relationship, is there a gap between 18-22 and 22-29 year Olds in sexlessness) should be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:42 PM
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Young college guys can have harems of older women who satisfy them while they study for an adult job or work on their own business and then once they are in their late 20s or early 30s they can find a younger girl to start a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:33 PM
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Truly wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:30 PM
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Desirable men will get all the women whether they choose them or not. The less desirable men would be beaten or threatened by the taller stronger more desirable men. So the women don't just sleep with them because they desire to but because it means it is the best choice for their own safety. If they don't they will be forced to. I'm just making things up as we go along so we can keep it going as long as you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:01 AM
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Most women are not ok with dating men significantly younger than them, especially most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:50 AM
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They will be dominated by the top men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:25 PM
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Feel whatever way you want, it probably won't stop the men on the island.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:03 PM
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Most of redpill theories align with conservatism and a lot of the values from the abrahamic religions align with that. TRP doesn't explicitly align to religion however and I agree that the overall stance on dating (dont get married, theres no point) isn't compatible with those religions since they highly value the institution of marriage. However there is a "but if you do decide to get married" part of TRP where they discuss what the best way to handle an LTR/marriage should be if you are alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:02 PM
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If there is anarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:50 PM
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It's worse when you consider that women tend to be slightly older than men due to longer life spans so the discrepancy between men and women within a realistic dating age (remove all people above 50 or 40 depending if you can handle how bad the real ratios are for young men since younger men have worse ratios than at older ages when more men have died off)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:31 PM
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Women frequently date, marry and hook up with older men. For every 20 year old girl hooking up with a guy just one year older or more, that is a 20 year old guy whose dating pool shrinks because women rarely want to do anything with younger guys. A 20 year old girls dating pool can be anywhere from 20 to 39 but a 20 year old guys would be 18-20, potentially 18-22 if you assume some older women are ok with a small age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:28 PM
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Why do you keep copy and pasting this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:20 PM
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Who says they get a choice on an island with no rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:18 PM
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Top 5 men rotate the top 40 women. Next top 15 men rotate the next top 40 women. The bottom 80 men would be fighting for the bottom 20 women who will rotate through the men until all the women on the island hit the wall, so some of the bottom 80 men will get to land some of the upper 20 men's sloppy seconds. The bottom 20 to 40 of men will either die virgins or have long dry spells as the post wall island women who refuse to settle either continue to date and extract resources between men of a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:17 PM
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There's a lot of overlap between liberal with bluepill and conservative with redpill so I will use them interchangeably. There is a culture of distrust and weariness of strangers pushed by libs. The bp response you always see about dating advice for men is to go on dating apps, go to bars, or something very general and vague. They won't tell you to work on yourself to get more interest from the opposite sex and they puah this idea that there are a million situations and places where it's not app…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:05 PM
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LA and Miami are more looks focused and definitely full of red pilled dudes. Places like the PNW and the Midwest are much less looks focused and blue pilled. I don't see why you think it's hard to believe that there aren't tons of blue pilled men and women out there who believe this because there are tons of ugly, fat, and poorly groomed people dating each other depending where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:13 PM
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Some guys might be satisfied but I think a significant group if not the majority of men have a lot of dating struggles. That doesn't mean they never get girls but the quantity and quality of the relationships they have are lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:57 PM
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He cold approached you, that's not exactly blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:52 AM
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No, blue pillers do believe that looks aren't as important as they are to most people and a lot of blue pillers are actually ugly out of shape people who date other ugly out of shape people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:22 AM
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Red pill is a reaction to the part of left wing and feminist ideology that seeks to destroy traditional gender roles/dynamics. Blue pill ideology tells us men and women are the same, gender is a construct etc but in real life most women especially liberal ones still follow traditional dating standards and men in real life are confused. They see women say one thing and do the opposite and came together to take notes and the red pill was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:18 AM
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What a lame reductionist take. A lot of guys in high school and college and even older are into RP stuff because that's when they start trying to get girls and start noticing a difference in what they were led to believe about dating and how it is in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:13 AM
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TRP would say most people have some amount of "red" in them. Blue pill is usually reserved for the type of people like destiny who are the furthest example away from red pill possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:10 AM
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Blue pill refers to most women and non masculine men who do not follow TRP ideas of dating norms and strategies. The TRP view implies most straight men naturally lean towards their views and they say women unwittingly act in accordance to TRP theories. They also talk about BP men as being men who are "delusional about female nature" and do not believe that money, looks, "game", and status are very important towards dating success for men as much as being a good person. Look at the blue pill guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:09 AM
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Not everyone is in a niche hyperliberal queer community that only runs in certain areas of large cities and not everyone is attracted to those types of people. For the vast majority of people who are less promiscuous or more monogamous, straight, and moderately or leaning conservative politically, it is a much different experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:50 AM
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It's crazy when women here act as if having basic hygiene and life skills will make you a girl magnet but a lot of guys who lack those things get plenty of girls and all of the girls on PPD and irl will have multiple exes who lacked these things. I know a guy who got fat because he would only ever eat out and would buy new clothes instead of doing laundry. He would go home so that his mom would cook and do his laundry for him. He's also rich 6'3 and white. Most guys who do well with women seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:27 PM
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Ive seen tons of women like this but never men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:20 PM
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The worst women on this sub are almost always engaged/married. The ones who are not tend to be a lot nicer and less hostile somehow. It's almost like a huge contingent of women who are looking to get married are parasites needing an emotional/financial support to leech off of, and the women who aren't like that just don't care as much about being marriage (because they actually don't need a man).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:19 PM
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Its not bad advice, its useless advice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:07 PM
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Women in this sub say stuff like this but irl most women are the opposite. They would rather date a guy outside their (large) friend group they barely know but is far more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:58 PM
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You ever seen those girls who are just one of the guys? I would bet they're more likely than average to be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:54 PM
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Men are usually diagnosed more than women because the most obvious sign of autism is the struggling to fit in with peers. This has to be noticed at a young age, and by far autistic men struggle more socially. Not just dating, but making friends in general. I don't think the ability to mask better explains it the gap by itself, men are penalized more greatly for social ineptitude. Since a lot of people are commenting on the dating aspect, the fact that it's so much easier for an autistic woman to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:50 AM
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Yeah I should have said socially stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:02 AM
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So many girls carry pepper spray and crocodile tears
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:47 PM
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I've met too many socially stunted dudes for it to only be 1-2%. Women are more easily forgiven for social ineptitude/anxiety and they aren't checked as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:59 PM
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In the early 2000s it was considered a joke to be a feminist and now in mainstream media it is assumed to be default. Life would be better if we can return to those days when feminists were recognized as the lunatics that they are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:23 PM
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The amount of 1% men with horrible dating lives I've seen irl is funny. It's always some 6'3+ broke Chad working minimum wage jobs that have harems. "you're telling me the guy that makes life changing money but spends most of his waking hours hanging around men all day isn't getting tons of women?" The idea of doctors getting all the girls is a long gone myth, most doctors are not banging girls left and right and definitely not the hot nurses. The nurses would more likely bang the (jacked) male …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:16 AM
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When I wear $400 designer brands, it's always guys that compliment my clothes. But when I've gotten complimented by women, I was wearing $10-$20 shirts/jackets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:11 AM
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It's funny how the idea that looks are extremely important is a controversial one these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:10 AM
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You live in Chad central, you should get out of there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:05 AM
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There’s a lot to unpack there but statistics don’t support your argument that most women don’t care about education or career. Women are now more college educated than men are. There's a few things the statistics say from the US census data- Based on bachelor's degree or higher - In BIPOC communities, women are more college educated than men. For White communities, educational attainment is about equal, and in Asian communities educational attainment is higher for men than women. At all educatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:33 AM
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you guys specifically focus on the trashiest examples you can find. My point is many people who value education/career don’t behave that way. You don’t have to be rich. Most women ARE trashy. Most women DGAF about education/career. Most women are dumb, uninteresting, mentally ill, irrational, toxic, promiscuous, lack morals and do not think about the future beyond what they're going to eat for dinner. Most men are not any better either, but for men who DO care about education and career, their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:28 PM
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Ugly couples are usually attractive people that got old and fat. They were usually attractive when they got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:09 PM
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So then you're privileged and out of touch with how most women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:18 AM
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The temporary marriage contract wouldn't be considered valid by most people, but yes every country in the world people are doing things they're "not supposed to"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:22 AM
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A lot of men could say the same about women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:34 PM
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In some ways being able to manage a huge part of your social life especially your dating life through text can make it easier than having to become a good conversationalist. But the bar is low for women. It is hard to find women that are interested in taking care of themselves and others and most are highly addicted to self satisfaction and hedonism. Partying, alcohol, eating garbage food, not taking care of themselves, binge watching Netflix, scrolling through social media constantly. It is har…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:20 PM
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Tl;Dr if looks status height and money aren't the most important things to women than what is? I don't fully agree with the rp/bp/mgtow perspectives because that would be like taking every opinion from those spaces as factual and leave no room for critical thought. But bluepillers never give good alternatives or counterarguments. They always say that "TRP is wrong about this" but then never says what the right thing or solution is. My life experience shows that height, attractiveness, and status…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:07 PM
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Based on aging genes in my family I would probably look young even in my mid to late 30s and if so I'll probably still get interest from women 18 to early 20s. The problem is that any girl under 23 looks too young now so who knows how it will be then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:37 PM
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I am saying that people who age shame just don't like the reality that tons of young and attractive women date and sleep with men 5-15 years older and that it's more common than they like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:08 PM
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It seems like the regular male posters here are more level than the ones who post less regularly and are mostly lurkers, but it seems like the regular female posters here are crazier than the ones who post less less regularly and are mostly lurkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:35 PM
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Those aren't the only criteria but they are by far the most important. Money is probably the least of those criteria and is enhanced with status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:32 PM
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This is probably the worst place for dating advice, but the way people with extreme views act irl isn't always the same as what they say here. Straight people who complain about the opposite gender still want to date the opposite gender, but they are mostly frustrated that there are some obstacles that make it harder to have a satisfying dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:06 PM
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What ive learned in this sub: most peoples opinions are based on the reality they want to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:04 PM
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When I was in school they always talked about the declining middle class, stagnating wages, higher cost of education and housing, and all these issues that also were common in the media but I didn't really understand it until I started working myself so it was lost on me. Now it seems like those talking points are all considered radical communist propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:59 PM
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You're one of the few old guys in here who get it. Unlike the delusional ones who say "even though I've been out of the dating game for 20+ years I know I would be killing it if I were single again, you kids have it so easy"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:56 PM
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If you want to laugh at people at a low point the NoFap sub is there. The amount of dudes that can't stop beating their dicks 3-5 times a day until their skin peels and they get ED in their teens and early 20s is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:54 PM
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I've learned that women have extremely high expectations from men but that was from real life experience and not this sub. The women on this sub are not normal. What the women on this sub have that isn't abnormal is complete ignorance towards men's feelings and experiences and an unwillingness to learn. They often go as far as to bully them and deny their reality. Tl;Dr if there is anything that can be learned about women based on this sub is that women live in a completely different reality and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:46 PM
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If you had the average man's libido and testosterone it would make more sense. It's an extremely powerful biological urge reinforced by society. Long before the pill stuff and even from a young age it's clear that in society there is a hierarchy for men based on the women they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:39 PM
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This seems to be inevitable of any sub as it grows. The quality declines
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:17 PM
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The first one is the easiest, the second one can be worked on but isn't easy, and the third one is probably the hardest because there's no straightforward path
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:13 PM
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That's fat as fuck. Bloated round face, pot belly, jiggly butt and child bearing hips with noodle arms physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:38 AM
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Suburbs are the reason insells exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:36 AM
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The smv difference changes more for women than men. It's like he said, the hottest women in the Midwest are average in a big city, they have more competition. Even though there might be more Chads, there are way more hot women to go around and they are not as special as if they were the hottest girl around for miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:35 AM
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Is this procedure a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:13 PM
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Is this procedure a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:08 PM
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It's reality ive seen it. Not across the world, across a few borders. It's not like these men are looking for a wife, they're probably traveling and looking for hookups. Rich and famous men have always had harems, and now Becky is part of them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:16 PM
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I don't know why some people here have this weirdly optimistic prediction, the trends point to things continuing to get worse than they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:05 PM
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Dude I've seen extremely average girls get arheleted/celebrities from other countries slide into their dms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:58 PM
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You need to give the TRP Field Report ™
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:57 PM
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He wasn't about to give up,he was taking a break from playing the field
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:38 PM
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I was also in a very conservative religious community, that's considered conservative by other religiously conservative communities Jehovah's witness? In those experiences, the beta guys in their communities face the same outcomes as beta guys in the larger community. The same applies for beta guys outside of those communities, trying to date within those stricter communities. The outcomes are going to be harder when you're the outsider. Part of why those communities are more accepting towards b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:36 PM
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The new generation is socially stunted. Don't know if you're another one of those middle aged married women on this sub who are far removed from modern dating, but over the course of my lifetime I've seen the way that younger generations social skills have declined. Interacting with older generations (35+ but especially much older, think gen X and boomers). is very different because they came up in a world without as many distractions as we have today with the internet and social media. So they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:18 PM
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What do online people all have in common? Internet access
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:40 PM
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I never said that. It's a large enough group of users and the data is already there, it's just safeguarded by corporate interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:11 PM
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What do you think trust fund babies are spending their money on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:24 AM
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Shes more likely to make it out of the projects than 6'3 225 lbs 11% bf Tyrone who is always one career ending injury away from making it into the NFL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:23 AM
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Certain types of people might be more likely to use dating apps but its not self reported. Its harder to make a meaningful study based on meeting in person because collecting that data is much more time consuming and prone to error. At least by seeing who women actually swipe more on than who they claim they would swipe on we can know an objective fact, versus relying on what they say. Some woman on this sub was trying to argue against guys who said that an objectively obese guy would struggle t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:20 AM
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If I could somehow get access to official data from dating apps and back up my claims you would still find a reason to deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:35 AM
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You said you're not attracted to him, you're just virtue signalling. How many fat dudes have you slept with anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:33 AM
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There is actually such a movement, it's called modern dating. Im surprised there hasnt been a study already, not that they're reliable, but I'm sure a much greater percentage of men who struggle to date are at or below average height than above.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:08 AM
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5'4 is bottom 1% height in men and 5'11 is half a foot taller than the average woman, 3-4 inches taller than the 90th percentile of women, and is actually taller than about 75% of men. And this is why we can't take women seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:10 PM
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He's fat enough to have health problems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:56 PM
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White westerners are so desperate to find a replacement for the lack of culture they grew up with that they become very extreme when they find some form of spirituality to cling to. Many people who were "born" into the religion and even still identify as a Muslim will suck, fuck, drink, smoke and eat pork, but these converts are interested in joining because they are drawn in by the extreme stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:17 PM
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It sounds like to me you need to suck, fuck, drink, smoke, eat pork and move on from your childhood trauma. It's survived this long and I don't see any reason it won't continue to survive much longer as the #1 fastest growing religion in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:15 PM
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This is what you don't get. People who are born and raised in societies with such different social and cultural norms behave very differently. Women might still have hypergamous instincts in a more restrictive/religious society, but they will be suppressed and they will have much more realistic standards and are actually required to uphold some standards themselves. They are much more likely to actually be virgins at marriage and not have ever slept around, willing to compromise and not leave th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:56 PM
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A lot of redpillers might be shocked to learn that sayings like "her money is her money and his money is also her money" didn't come from feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:46 PM
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It's not just about trying to get laid, but these white converts tend to be really extreme. It's so weird seeing all the manospherians who worship the ideals of muslims being strict and disciplined or something (like Andrew Tate saying Muslims actually practice their religion unlike christians) but really they are just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:44 PM
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Just 2 decades ago feminist was practically a slur. Who cares what they define as a victory? The west is falling apart because nobody wants to raise big families and participate in society, their economies are extremely and increasingly dependent on the labor of blue and white collar immigrants alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:41 PM
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My sister who is a doctor married a man she loved so much when she met him through Islamic dating that they waived the bride price. This dude was a 5 foot 7 lower level white convert corporate who made half her salary mind you. Is this why you are obsessed with white converts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:29 PM
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moreso if you're white man Where do you keep getting this idea? A girl who is not really religious might tend to want a white American partner, but most of the girls are more than happy to go with their own. Especially when you consider there is no shortage of tall Arab chads and some even look white.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:19 PM
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I don't how some of these dudes function after years or more of no action or having someone to love. Most will be married in their 20s and some might have a low sex drive. A lot of religious dudes are actually pretty alpha, but the difference I've seen is that beta males are more accepted in religious circles if they fulfill the provider role and other duties. Versus for non religious circles a lot of dudes are actually really beta but not as accepted, and what's considered alpha and admirable i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:17 PM
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I see these ginger neckbeard converts snagging good looking middle eastern muslim women when I used to be a muslim who went to mosque in my youth. Ive seen Asian converts attend mosques regularly be suggested a marriage of convenience to muslim girls within the same Islamic community. I've never seen such a thing . I agree that most of the time religion is the only thing that works against the kind of immoral dating culture we have today, and most of the time when you see a not that great lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:04 PM
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Newsflash: Most "religious" people do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:45 PM
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Maybe the women at sephora think you're gay too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:05 AM
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He looks like a Dyke, and without his shirt he looks like an albino beached whale
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:04 AM
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Because the bar is low for women. They live unhealthy lifestyles that take a toll on their appearance and use makeup to hide it. A lot of men especially these days live lifestyles where they workout, avoid drugs and alcohol, get good sleep, drink water and eat healthy but it seems that level of real self care in women is a lot less common if a man didn't teach them to be disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:03 AM
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Not at all, lots of girls underrate men's fitness level because of all the huge ripped dudes on gear on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:48 AM
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It is if he's 6'4"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:47 AM
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At this point you're just arguing with yourself, it's really tiresome
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:35 AM
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I can see why the AA community is antisemitic now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:02 AM
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You're the first gen American
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:42 AM
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So what you're trying to say is liberals are the reason black people are systemically disadvantaged today and use slavery as a ruse to downplay the fact that they benefitted economically and politically from destroying the south and paint them as the villains by saying they benefitted from slavery and that the effects of slavery linger today
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:47 PM
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You have to be from the deep south to think like this. The fact that there are people today who live 1% lifestyles solely on millions inherited from southern plantations is a contradiction to what you are saying. The South was hurt by the civil war but its crazy to say that it somehow just erased all the wealth and history of slavery. Slavery is a huge part of the history of the US. The majority of the wealth of the US is a result of wars, colonialism, slavery, exploitation of workers of all rac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:10 PM
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WOC have it significantly easier than MOC.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:55 PM
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The south was very rich. Most southerners were not rich. Did you not read my original comment? The goalpost is exactly where I left it. The entire history of the US is based on the oppression and exploitation of black, white, native/Latin, and Asian people alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:57 PM
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I know people today who live off of generational wealth built from slave ownership. Slavery didn't keep the south poor, it was rich af. It just created greater wealth inequality. And I'm not just talking about African slaves, I'm talking about white indentured servants, Chinese railroad workers, and all the collective people who toiled for scraps and made the country rich and powerful over the centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:26 PM
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This sounds like some kind of small business in the South or a 3rd world country
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:59 PM
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Men can never date up. What's interesting in the west is that women have a much higher ability to date up due to a relatively low supply of viable women. Meaning that a lot of women who would be considered undesirable in many parts of the world (poor, unattractive, unfeminine, and it is politically incorrect but darker skinned women are considered less desirable) can find a partner much more easily in the west and even date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:57 PM
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This isn't true at all. In middle class families, both genders have much more strict expectations on them than in the west but women still receive a lot of coddling from their parents especially their dads. At least men receive some benefits too, like receiving respect for being providers. But in poorer families/areas where women might be treated poorly life for men is extremely harsh. The life of the average man is working hard physical jobs 12+ hours for pennies an hour as little kids for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:53 PM
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He is saying that most discrimination he will face is based on mostly race and not so much his gender, but for women they would face discrimination from their race and their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:11 PM
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Did you just say nobody benefitted from slavery in the long run in the US? What the mother fuck? The entire history of the US is based on the oppression and exploitation of black, white, native/Latin, and Asian people alike. God fucking damn the women of PPD are rewriting history now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:07 PM
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only 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:34 AM
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The average male lives a sad, pathetic life. A guy already debunked your points, but younger generations have smaller social circles than ever, do less drugs/alcohol (less socialization opportunities), and he also made some other points. Most men do NOT have a big circle of buddies who have the means, money, and reliability to go on vacations with, party with, who have a big circle with single women to introduce to them, etc. Only a small proportion of guys in my circle have solid careers and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:53 PM
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You're describing the life of a significantly above average male tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:28 PM
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The suburban sprawl of America is the sole contributor to a lot of problems, especially socially
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:23 PM
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For white people it is. Median white household has 5-10x the networth of Hispanic/black households and a lot of their networth isn't from earned income unlike Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:57 PM
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This is false, the opposite actually happens. More of the weight will go to unflattering areas, but less of it will be in your face. Having more bodyfat in the face is more related to the tendency for people to be less active as they age.
/r/seduction01/02/24 06:55 PM
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Redpill is just the male counterpart to feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:26 PM
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Most women make awful partners and are chad obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:52 PM
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The vast vast vast majority of teachers especially in soft sciences that are more subjective are women. It was very easy to see how much they favored female students especially ones who looked like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:49 PM
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It's weird how if someone who is in their early 20s wants to join the military and die for their country, drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, get high, take out hundreds of thousands of dollars of loans for an education without any possibility that they can ever afford to pay it back, and do a whole bunch of other irresponsible and harmful things that are legal not only would nobody care, but most people would support their decision. But if someone in their early 20s is making the choice of who the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:56 AM
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Dating = sex unless you are dating for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:02 AM
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Same thing at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:50 AM
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Basically mean girls are sluts and sluts are mean girls, at least at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:23 AM
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This is a load of crap. At 5'6 you're smaller than 90% of men. At 6'2 you're bigger than 95% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:16 AM
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That's exactly OPs point. The guy looks like a dog but is tall and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:37 PM
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Barry keoghan made that movie what it was
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:34 PM
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You just said they're unattractive, how are they hot?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 05:29 PM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:43 AM
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This would also kill the motivation for any men to contribute to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:07 AM
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The bay area is the economic capital of the country. It's not practical to move to cities with far less opportunity (especially Minneapolis, what a shit hole) but are basically just as expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:57 PM
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Westerners are aging and need immigrants to do the hard work while they enjoy the fruits of imperialism. It's not an accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:55 PM
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Westerners are aging and dying because they don't want to have big families. Young able bodied men are imported to keep society running. There's no reason to import females because men who are sexually satieted are less incentivized to work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:49 PM
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There's pretty much nowhere in the world has a surplus of young women. Any country with a higher ratio of females are including 50+ age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:46 PM
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Western nations are aging and require able bodied younger men to keep society running.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:45 PM
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Hamza has some wholesome content, but he also has some really weird and unhinged moments. Like when he was talking about how he got an erection simply due to the height difference between him and Thai women being inherently attractive.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 08:42 PM
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I think the popularity of the red pill would make this obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:39 PM
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More like 1%, probably even less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:31 AM
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I've been talking with a couple LARPers in this sub claiming to be really rich or that they know something about making it rich. Capitalism and dating are very similar, IRL I noticed guys exaggerate their monetary status just like their bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:30 PM
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A lot of guys are like that. I think by default men are motivated to be ambitious and work hard, but in our dopamine chasing society where a lot of guys are addicted to porn, think they are all potential players or are overstimulated by all the sex related messages in the media, they have been taught to make women the center of their world. They don't have to worry about danger from other men or the environment, so their only "natural" motivation to improve left is to "spread their seed" and get…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:15 PM
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I would expect that guy to be like the wizards on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:15 AM
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These older women are not understanding at all, they are cyberbullies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:59 AM
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That's the reality of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:58 AM
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I meant to say that that's the gist of the memes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:56 AM
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What I said is still true. It makes the pleasant conversations mean a lot more with how vicious a lot of the women here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:23 PM
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I've probably spent too much time on this sub then, but I also spend too much time on the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:22 PM
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You'll see a guy who is really skinny who then becomes really jacked, or a guy who accomplishes a really crazy feat because he has the motivation and drive to work hard because he gets no girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:21 PM
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So should I type lies instead to spare your feelings? Reddit is very male dominated, and most of the types of women who do come onto reddit are not normal. A huge percent ARE sex workers, many are trying to promote their onlyFans, and there is TONS of porn on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:46 PM
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You are one of the most dishonest people on this sub lol. Most of the women on this sub are really dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:44 PM
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Most women have fewer sex partners than men. Most women have an average of 4 sex partners in their lives. The very first thing that you are TAUGHT in introductory classes on research is how easily it is manipulated. Self reported surveys inherently have bias in it, and women absolutely have no incentive to be honest about their hoeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:43 PM
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Yep, and that's why cheating and divorce is so common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:39 PM
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I'm not the same person who called you a hypocrite, I was agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:39 PM
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What the other girl said. Most "blondes" in the US are just bottle blondes following something that is the "republican" ideal of beauty (there's a term for it) but I forget. I never liked that fake blonde spray tan look, but I dislike it more now because I realized that most of these kinds of women are the racist white supremacist Trump supporting Karen types who want to appeal to the plantation old money Southern/Frat culture types and probably grew up in a white flight suburb away from minorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:38 PM
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As a young man who's worked in nursing homes and medical clinics I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:33 PM
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It's bitter, antisocial, angry men arguing with bitter, antisocial, angry women. It just makes them more bitter and angry. This same phenomenon applies to politics on social media too. Most of the men are young virgins and the women are older and married. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:29 PM
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Isn't it weird to you that this sub is mostly older married women who are scolding men young enough to be their kids for being virgins and struggling to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:29 PM
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Most of the women on reddit seem to be promoting an OnlyFans, and many of the women on this sub are either 1) literal karens (older white women, based on a demographics surey this sub is disproportionately young male virgins being condescended to by women old enough to be their moms) 2) extremely unattractive and fat (based on conversations) 3) literal sex workers (based on conversations 4) severely mentally ill (based on convos, I ran into this girls who said she had BPD and her profile would a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:28 PM
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Hot losers get laid the most. Guys who are successful don't have the time and energy to date around as much as losers and they also wouldn't have the looks to pull it off as well either so that's why they became successful in the first place, haven't you seen the "what no pussy does to a n1gg4" memes? This is what I've observed many times. The guys who were tall and desirable to girls early on had the least motivation for "self improvement." Most guys who are "successful" are workaholics with de…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:21 PM
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You either have dudes who go for the most hideous, fat women and have no shame or standards, or you have the Chads. The guys I know with the highest body counts basically all look the same, 6'2+, lean, handsome, full head of hair, white or white passing as a bonus, and probably party a lot. They don't even need to be the most socially adept guy because this is virtually ALL girls' ideal. Pretty much all the girls girls with a high bodycount I know are extremely mentally unstable and awful partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:13 PM
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Honestly I think most girls by the time they finish college at the most conservative already have more than a handful of bodies, if not double digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:06 PM
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20 isn't low at all, but not uncommon. You must hang around a lot of party girls/tinderallas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:05 PM
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There's definitely tells that a girl is a prude or a slut but girls are so secretive that you can't really tell to what extent. Some sluts are attractive, some are ugly, some look like girls next door. Real prudes are very rare, because even very conservative religious girls will have sex before marriage and at the minimum will have had sucked a few dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:01 PM
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Dating norms now days are weird, people think them seeing other people during the dating phase isn't disrespectful but it is Most people are self absorbed and narcissistic (which cheaters tend to be). They feel like they should have "power" in their relationships by keeping options open at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:57 PM
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most women are trying to date someone while fucking someone on the side. I’d say that’s even rarer than what I do. Nah most women have a category of guys they prefer fucking and they just use, they aren't that ethical that they don't take advantage of that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:54 PM
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I'm surprised anyone who isn't really religious or above the age of 17 waited that long
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:52 PM
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Guys don't hate sluts for sleeping around, they hate sluts for being inconsistent about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:52 PM
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Yes talking to women is the same as confronting them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:18 PM
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Did you go to a public school where most kids lived at home instead of living near the campus? I'll be honest with you it's very hard to build out a circle from scratch the older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:50 AM
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They were 4-6 inches taller than you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:04 AM
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Maybe it's because you're short
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:28 AM
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Dated d-cup and up before, this is definitely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:24 AM
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No shit, a hijab stands out in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:20 AM
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Says the woman who can't do math
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:16 PM
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Sounds like a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:59 PM
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Doesn't matter how great of a guy he is if a woman isn't physically attracted, she's not gonna fuck him just because he's a great guy. In fact women fuck unlikeable guys all the time because they're physically attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:52 PM
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Yes it is, the above poster is spreading just world fallacy nonsense as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:14 PM
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My timing for Real Estate wasn't ideal, nor was it a reflection of anything from 2008. The buisness is simple. Buy a list with filters that indicates a need to sale (e.g. Recently divorced, tax liens, fire damage... ect), The timing is exactly why you did so well. Many people in 2008 lost their jobs and were forced to sell their houses that lost a huge amount of their value and owed more than it was worth. I know lots of people who were working in real estate during that time and they made out l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:35 PM
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Getting poorer is for those who are down 800$ not up. I dont waste my money like that. I'm sorry if you can't afford spending $800 extra on a device you'll use for 3-5 years, or that you just have such a poor relationship with money that you can't part with that amount. Having more depreciating assets doesnt make one richer, and i dont know how some people still dont realize this thousand year old lesson. Clearly time hasnt made everyone wiser. If you make $800 in a day it's not that serious. Mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:45 AM
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I debunked that study you are quoting. By that definition, a man can earn 50% more than his wife and that's considered "equal". $70k/$47k, $100k/$67k, $150k/$100k. In those scenarios but especially the closer to average they are, the woman benefits more than the man does from the additional income, and arguably there would be far more couplings on the "egalitarian" side where men are earning more than the women because so much anecdotal and verifiable evidence points to women prioritizing financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:49 AM
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I agree. I know a lot of guys with tight knit circles, some small some a bit larger, and they might not go out of their way to socialize with everybody but they are picky about who they want to be around and do not easily add new people to their crew. It might be a bubble, but these guys seem to be the most comfortable with themselves and not clingy because they always have someone they know they can text or call out or hangout with at the drop of a dime. If they are a part of a very "popular" s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:39 AM
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They might not be going after ultra rich people, but the vast majority of women are married to a man that outearns them or have a higher earning potential in general. Financial stability is clearly a huge incentive for women to marry and has been cited as one of the main reasons for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:54 AM
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If you're talking about a guy who is making $100k+ by the definition of 80/20 you're right. But in the vast majority of marriages men do earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:52 AM
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Apparently everyone on the internet knows a chadlet. I have never once seen a slayer that is below average height. The vast majority are at least 6'1 and the vast majority of guys I've seen struggle are average or below average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:48 AM
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I rarely see men being the ones to make fun of other men who struggle to date or rarely get dates, have been single or sexless for years if not a lifetime. Its usually women who shame men for not being successful with women, which shows how much respect they have for most men. I've heard that analogy countless times around these spaces and its wrong. Let's assume there's validity to it - water can be separated from salt by boiling it and collected through condensation. Then you can save the salt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:17 AM
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You misrepresented your own source. In 6% of marriages, women are sole earners, 10% are breadwinners (make over 60% of household income), 29% are egalitarian (no partner earns more than 60% of household income), and I would assume that in most egalitarian marriages the man still is the higher earner. If a man makes $70k and his wife makes $47k they would be in this category. 31% of marriages men are the breadwinners (60%+ of household income) and a whopping 23% of marriages men are the sole earn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:03 AM
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Men struggling with dating = starving and being locked outside of walmart. Women struggling with dating = choosing to starve inside a walmart. Women can easily get sex AND relationships of better quality AND quantity than men can, dating is just easier for women and youre either stupid, oblivious, evil or all of the above to deny that. Women can have legitimate struggles but they are in a completely different reality than most men. If you don't think so it's because most men are invisible to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:25 AM
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I know very social guys that get no women. As in mid to late 20s virgins. It's funny how a 5'6 or shorter man is about as uncommon as a 6'3 or taller man but so many girls have 6'3 boyfriends and not 5'6 ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:23 PM
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Its easier to have a large circle as a girl. Even a lot of highly anxious, mentally ill and introverted girls have decent sized circles and in the worst case scenario they can still get a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:14 PM
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Sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:12 AM
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That was hilarious. It's the thought that counts right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:13 AM
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You're in your 40s and unmarried? You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:10 AM
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Convert to Islam and you will
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:29 PM
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Isn't that where the whole "where have all the good men gone" and "all men are trash" narratives come from? The really attractive guys that figure that they can get frequent casual sex from a variety of women without putting effort so they don't? Meanwhile some 5'3 asian nerd with a lisp is graduating with top honors in a really difficult subject and landing 6 figure jobs out of college/grad school/med school and getting 0 girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:08 PM
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Gotta find the conservstive religious men while theyre young
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:56 PM
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Ive seen plenty of Chads stoop very low to get their dicks wet. Girls exaggerate how hard it is to get a guy to commit, those are just the ones that want to keep hopping from bf to bf or they refuse to lower their physical standards (the preference many women have for tall men which seems to be 6'2 or above proves the 80/20 rule, in this case its the top 1%)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:30 PM
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But women raise standards for casual. Its not hard for a man to get in a relationship because girls are willing to drop their physical requirements for a relationship. A guy who can't get casual sex could still get a relationship with a decent enough looking girl. A guy who can get casual could get a relationship if he wanted, he just has to be willing to be tied down in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:19 PM
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Tons of people buy stuff from girl scouts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:16 PM
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But if he wanted to he would more easily be able to get in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:53 PM
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The phrase "you told on yourself" is one of the dumbest memes that PPD women are obsessed with. More stupid shaming language. I've said this elsewhere, but its clear that women like you just want to maintain power over men in dating by artificially limiting their opportunities to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:52 PM
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Based on conversations I've had with women I've been with who gave signals, it seems like a lot of the signals they throw out are not conscious, so if a girl is giving them to you, they are very likely to be enthusiastic about you approaching and a girl that is giving very standoffish vibes is more than likely going to be very unpleasant. Sometimes girls won't give any signals and seem very neutral until you approach them and actually talk to them however.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:32 PM
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I wouldn't want to waste my time on a pompous and snobby woman who thinks they are too important to have a short, casual conversation. Good thing they are usually easy to tell because their body language is as unpleasant as their attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:37 PM
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I feel for you that sucks but honestly I only have a finite amount of time to myself in my day and I don’t want to socialize ya know. Bar/club/party is different but if we’re talking like in the grocery store or on a train my mind is just not in “let’s flirt” mode Bar/club/party sucks for men. Women are more defensive and less approachable, many are looking to reject men or already have boyfriends, and there are tons of tall, good looking and fit dudes for them to choose from. Dating apps are ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:57 AM
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Even the mere act of approaching a woman you don't know conveys so much in that mere instant, that you are otherwise undesirable, that your social network is lacking, etc. It's just an immediate ick. Approaching a woman at a bar or a singles event is a completely different story. That's socially acceptable. You just said you don't want a man that can't find a woman in their own social network, so how is a bar or singles event any better? How is it better to cold approach at a bar full of alcohol…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:51 AM
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Sounds like a lifetime of missed opportunities young women have plenty of opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:45 AM
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A lot of career focused people either don't date or stay with one person for a long time. They don't have the time and energy to go on lots of dates and meet new people all the time, so either they stick to a loyal and stable partner or they don't put effort at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:32 AM
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If you are a woman, it is easier to get casual sex than a relationship. If you are a man, it is easier to get a relationship than casual sex. Any man who has a lot of casual sex doesn't get into relationships because they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:31 AM
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At that point they didn’t even know who each other were, mistaking each other for dead spouses from decades ago. It’s literally never too late until your genitals give out. You talk about it like this is a desirable outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:25 AM
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You had to work a salaried job for awhile, but most of your success is based on the year and location you were born since it meant that your prime working years coincided with a huge economic boom and you were able to get into two fields that, like anything lucrative, have become increasingly competitive and harder to break into. If you told someone to do what you did, which was become an RN, start a real estate wholesale business, and invest in crypto, they would never be able to make the money…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:18 AM
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This is the only sub I have seen on reddit where there isn't a single hivemind circle jerk. You have the feminists, the blue pillers, the BPs and RPers, and different sides that clash and don't always agree but you see both sides of the argument unlike the rest of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:42 PM
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There are nerds who look like this American Idol Season 9 Andrew Fenlon - House of the Rising Sun (youtube.com) I hate regulars that do nothing but gaslight men here and think they're too dumb to realize what's going on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:29 PM
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If you never got lucky from crypto you'd still be grinding. Plenty of smarter and harder working people never got lucky. Plenty of dumber and lazier people did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:59 AM
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The internet gurus would promote the voluntary life of poverty that you seem to want. When you make multiple six figures, $800 isnt a lot. That $800 invested will NEVER make you rich. Even in extreme outlier scenarios like buying $800 of bitcoin in 2016, that $800 today is worth $42.5k and after inflation $34k. A good amount of money but it is about $5k a year from 2016-2024. Thats $2.50 an hour at your job. And that's a best case scenario compared to what you're actually expected to make using …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:47 PM
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I mean you as a "professional" are discriminating against potential clients for being single men. I'm the furthest thing from a feminist, that's the actual correct use of the word sexist. It does seem to generally be the case that men are less interested in owning a home if they are not also settled down, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:27 AM
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Youre just making sexist assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:10 AM
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Do you have evidence parents are more likely to help women than men? They definitely have a bias towards women, but parents who actually have money will help out their kids regardless of gender. Why do you think that? In the years after buying a house when rents go up and up, she will be paying much less cash on shelter than she would if she rented. So it might make her low on cash at first, but within 5 years she’ll have more cash than any of her friends who are still renting. Most parts of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:33 PM
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Most girls would take a poorly groomed tall naturally good looking guy over a short well groomed not that good looking guy. A lot of girls will even choose an ugly fat guy that's tall over a fit good looking short guy. I dont like texting and social media. I do well in person and trying to do the same online is much more complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:11 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:37 PM
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As for Hollywood men, perhaps explain who is using steroids. It is such a sweeping statement with zero basis in fact. Leonardo dicaprio- nope. Tom Hanks-nope. Tom cruise-nope. Brad Pitt- nope. Chris Pratt- possibly but not long term. Chris hemsworth-possible but because of his role. I could keep going. And majority of these stars are no where near 6ft. Some are over but most are not. All those actors you listed are 5'11 -6'3 except Tom Cruise, who is exceptionally short for a leading male in Hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:34 PM
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There are plenty of men who are uglier and have less money than Jeff Bezos with better looking women. Lauren used to be a stunner but her looks have seriously faded. I've seen a lot of wealthy, older men who have been able to use their money to attract younger, good looking women and they aren't even close to Jeff Bezos' wealth (obviously). I have known a lot of fairly wealthy people (think 10s of millions and could be retired in their early 40s level of wealth) and the truth about these guys is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:19 PM
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I don't think any guy can handle an open relationship if they can't accept the fact that pretty much any girl will be able to more easily find partners than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:44 AM
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An economy that decouples the value of labor from wages and social media are much greater contributors
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:25 AM
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Mmm I've been around older and younger men (friends and acquaintences), neither care for themselves that great tbh. IME there's certain guys that can get away with being losers and still gets girls. Guys who are tall, rich and popular, specifically. Yeah true then they would have to just try to beat the war of attrition and try to keep the girls interest for the longest. Instead they have to be able to win over the girl with a few minute interaction, text over a few days or weeks, and go out on …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:58 AM
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Men tend to not look after themselves as much as women tbh. Women tend to have some skincare and drink less, have less worse habits. The older generation of men definitely, the younger generation seems to care a lot more about this. I think before you meet them its about looks, but once you meet its less about looks. Unless you find them repulsive lol. I agree, but that's why it's harder these days. Most people aren't getting the opportunity to platonically hang out as much as they used to, so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:43 AM
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Dating is never easy as a man, but it is generally easier for those reasons for men that make the best of their situation. I disagree with you on 1, if both men and women take care of themselves and especially if men don't go bald they age far more graceful than women (because they weren't "beautiful" to begin with). For 3 most dating today is much more looks focused because there are fewer opportunities to let women get to know your personality so that their interest can grow, and instead it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:51 AM
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This is why debates go nowhere in this sub, nobody especially not the women even bother reading or understanding the very basics of red pill/manospherian ideology. 1) men's looks improve with age, as they grow more facial hair, become more muscular, dress better, etc 2) financial success becomes more important for dating success with age, for many men they are in a much better position later in life and are able to leverage this 3) as women get older, they prioritize serious relationships more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:42 PM
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When I graduated college I was making six figures and dating an 18 year old rich girl who already had her own career making in the $50k-$70k range, would inherit millions, etc. It would have been very hard for her to find a guy her age that would have a similar work ethic and financial situation, it makes perfect sense why a HVW ™ who doesn't party, doesn't drink or do drugs and has ambitions and goals would prefer an older man that has his life together than an out of shape generation zoomer wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:29 PM
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BB is the norm in the east, the difference is that you get a better deal for being bb than in the west where many men are bb without even getting the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:17 PM
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Luck is the most important factor in making wealth for average people. I know many younger people who "made" money (anywhere from a few hundred thousand to about a million) from crypto/stocks during that time and most got wiped out. One guy made nearly half a million but lost it all and owed taxes on it (-$200k+), one guy made a few hundred but after taxes it wasn't much ($150k), another guy made a million, cashed out a bunch and lost some when crypto fell but still made out with a decent amount…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:59 PM
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You're evading the question, what did you do to retire at 31?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:04 PM
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Seeing the dorks with money that have trophy wives, this is complete nonsense. Most women in all of history including today do not marry men that fit their physical ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:00 PM
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I agree, he comes across as being immature for his age. I noticed he changed his post but I dont think someone who is in their mid to late 20s is too old to party.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:05 PM
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Older women who are interested in younger men have to feel that they aren't actually younger. Having muscles, a deep voice, chiseled face, facial hair, being tall etc and also being more mature and having your shit together than the average young guy is required. As far as cougars go, it's just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:05 PM
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I know a guy making just above $100k in a lcol area where the median home price is around twice that who is under 5'9 and 250 - 300 lbs with a legit 7. Go to any rich area and compare it to a poor area and youll probably notice that the richer areas are full of guys with wives and girlfriends who look noticeably better than them while in poorer areas or college towns you see girls choosing men for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:21 PM
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For an individual earner, $100k is very comfortable. $200k is probably enough for a family of 4 to be very comfortable. $400k is definitely much more comfortable than $200k, but is much harder to get to and besides saving for retirement faster it doesn't make your lifestyle drastically different the way going from $50k-$100k or $100k-$200k might.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:14 PM
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The girls I've known that have a lot of casual sex... Have the highest physical standards. They care most about height, dick size, and whatever superficial qualities they want. They don't care about a guy being nice or charismatic. A lot of these girls are not even very attractive, either. Unless you're talking about seriously obese women, I would be surprised to see an average dude getting women offering easy sex on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:37 AM
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1974 women had the right to open their own bank account. That was thanks to 2nd wave feminism, which as I said did good things for women while 3rd and 4th wave feminism has mostly been radicalization. There's no good changes for men due to 4th wave feminism, and paternity leave was never a feminist cause, it was championed by MEN. I'd argue there's still tons that are needed to be done for parental leave rights anyway. Marriage rates are the lowest they've been in decades and average age of firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:32 AM
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They already had a choice in 2nd wave feminism. The difference now is that 3rd and 4th wave feminism tells us to "believe all women" and puts men down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:37 PM
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This is just not true. Having lived around big liberal cities, these women are just as obsessed with men who are tall, built, and white as non liberal cities. If it was super easy for an average guy to get laid anywhere this sub would not exist, the red pill would not exist, incels would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:59 PM
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Which alternate dimension do you live in where you think a short, out of shape non white man can just go out to a club or bar and women will just offer to sleep with him? I really wanna know because either I can go up there and pick up a new girl every weekend or trip out on whatever it is you're taking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:52 PM
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Maybe relative to 1930, but not relative to the 1960s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:42 PM
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Casual sex was easier before dating apps and social media (for most men)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:39 PM
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It was one factor, but there were other important factors like the invention of the birth control pill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:38 PM
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Theres a big difference between 2nd wave feminism and 3rd and 4th wave feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:23 PM
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Theres a big difference between 2nd wave feminism and 3rd and 4th wave feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:23 PM
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1 and 5. Most of these are debateable but I'm shocked 1 isn't unanimous (especially from men).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:34 AM
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That's not the problem, the problem is that the 5'2 and below women want a guy at least 4-6 inches taller than her. Women have very superficial requirements for men, including that the guy has to be much taller than them. Everyone in the comments would be raging if men talked about women the way women do men and their bodies, and rejected them based on their boob size, ethnicity, vaginal tightness, butt size, hip width, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:53 AM
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Classy is not the word I'd use to describe most of these women, trashy is more appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:45 AM
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I have a friend who is extremely awkward but if a girl likes him they'll laugh at his lame jokes. I always knew it was obvious when girls would laugh at my lame jokes, but he's so weird that you know that the girl is just too attracted to realize how lame it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:49 AM
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Yes, most women have very poor social skills and exhibit antisocial behavior but still have lots of options
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:47 AM
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Maybe she's your coworker, or your friend's sister. Or a stranger. All of the above would respond similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:03 AM
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Fair enough. I had this one 5'2 friend who had a naturally aesthetic shape (v taper, forearms, etc) and I was surprised (back when I never lifted) that my forearms were bigger than his despite having no visible mass. He also had some of the most impressive calves I have ever seen on a natty, but he actually worked for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:02 AM
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Its not random strangers, its women you want to date, men who try to intimidate or disrespect you, etc. Having a worse body composition makes you less attractive and people wont say "oh he must be struggling to put food on the table or have some kind of disease, thats why hes skinny!" Maybe the guy is just a lazy loser, which is much more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:57 AM
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Different gyms have different demographics, but if you look at the overall gym population across all the gyms they shouldn't even bother because they perpetually just look like skinny fat or fat dudes who've never seen a gym before. The worst part is that I've seen a lot of dudes who are able to get respectable numbers on the bar (225 bench, 315 squat) and they still look DYEL because of bad genetics or excess body fat. Leanness is a huge part of looking good too, but a lot of the people who loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:23 AM
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People don't really give you a pass for that. They care about results. That applies for anything including school and the workplace. They don't care what obstacles you face, just that you give them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:14 AM
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Yeah similar to tall men without steroids. Much easier to look thick and muscular below 6' without steroids than above
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:36 PM
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How old is the general population? It seems in under 40 populations there are a lot more tall men and in older ones I see much more men that are average or below height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:35 PM
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Dated tall women with great curves. However it's easier for smaller women to have proportionately fat tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:02 PM
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Beards are natural and makeup isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:59 PM
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If it were so easy it would be more common. The average dude at the gym is a 25%+ body fat permabulker and few guys are jacked. And btw 18% is still much leaner than the average dude, it's not as fat as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:55 PM
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I think a genuine 6'5 is quite rare, but in a big city on a night out is not that hard to find. It seems everyday I see 6'3 guys though. Looking at the height of the average guy who girls tend to date/fuck/orbit though you would think the average height is 6'2 or taller. Everytime I see couples I swear most of the dudes tend to be well above 6' and a lot of the time when I see groups of single dudes they're all under 5'10. Rarely do I see really tall dudes without a girl in public unless they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:52 PM
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I've known tons of guys who can chat up strangers, have large social circles and female friends and have been single for many years. I'm talking guys who are in their late 20s and still virgins. And then are the guys who have few friends who are even worse. I've always been someone who never kept a lot of friends but would meet new people constantly, and despite a non existent social circle that didn't make talking to girls any more challenging. But these days I guess you can say I'm more like M…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:58 PM
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I could tell you as far back as middle school how obvious this was. Before middle school, most boys and girls played separately. Now all of a sudden boys are interested in hanging out with girls. What changed? Puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:41 PM
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It's basically Karen vs Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:34 PM
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That's so succinctly put. Women's minds are an obstacle to their bodies. Frankly when I fully realized "women are people too!" and that I hate most people, I lost a lot of interest in pursuing women. The difference however is that if I don't like someone, then even if they are physically attractive I don't want to touch them, and I am more attracted to someone who might not be as physically attractive if I grow to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:33 PM
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The worst women in this sub are the married ones, they're just as unempathetic as all the sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:28 PM
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I've known feminism was bullshit for a long time, just surprised people can still buy into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:26 PM
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A lot of those men would hide it from you and not tell you about it IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:21 PM
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This is how I feel about the women. So many of them are unempathetic to lonely men and they bully, mock, and put them down. Not even the extreme ones, just guys who say "I have a really hard time dating even though I am college educated, have my own place, a decent job and lots of friends" and then get attacked by harpies who insist "oh you must be a misogynist who deserves it because all normal men get to have lots of sex with beautiful women because they're good people who are kind and deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:20 PM
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Hypersexuality is actually a symptom of childhood trauma - isolation, neglect, emotional and physical abuse, etc. If you were to know people like this IRL the commonality they tend to have is that they had a bad childhood and little positive social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:14 PM
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Having met these type of dudes IRL some are so far deep its not really possible to help them out because they just drag you down with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:11 PM
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Pretty high sex drive guy here - I still have a high amount of desire but also disgust now because of socializing with women and understanding their mindset. Now I see them as not that different from men and am actually not so interested in even interacting with women much at all. Let me tell you, I agree that IRL I've met some really sex obsessed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:08 PM
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I expected when you started to acknowledge the disadvantage that short men face that you would be more aware of why it isn't that simple for men to overcome loneliness, but I'll come back to this and give you a longer response of you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:04 PM
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As an average height man, it's very apparent how being 6'+ (really 5'11 barefoot) is an advantage and every inch above that only seems to increase the advantage. I want to say that I've never experienced any issues as I've dated from 4'11 to 5'8 and I am taller than most girls (90%+) but I won't deny that the percentage of girls who are interested in me is much higher at smaller sizes. The height preference in women is very shallow and bothers me because dating is the only factor in my life wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:50 PM
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You're not missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:38 AM
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Even in the mainstream media, CNN of all places, they are talking about how men are struggling to date these days. On this sub and irl however it seems like most older married men are very ignorant towards young men's plight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:51 AM
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What do you mean he thought they were actors?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:43 AM
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He's dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:15 AM
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A company that only gives windows laptops are red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:11 AM
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That game has been dying for awhile now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:37 PM
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My inbox is blowing up with female android users, but no marriage proposals yet (jk)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:07 PM
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Why did you switch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:31 PM
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Are you into gaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:26 PM
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A lot of women who arent on reddit aren't normal either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:26 PM
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They all look and act very similarly but fewer of them are likely to have some kind of niche interest that they are interested in. Youll probably see more gym rats, gamers, skaters, surfers that are men than women and theyll also have a look related to that interest. Most women arent as interested in things like that and are less likely to have a style specific to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:24 PM
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Its a very popular major these days, and most of those girls are either nerds or 1st generation Americans. Definitely not the type OP is seeing or most people meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:17 PM
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I think you dont have to apply all those things exactly as stated - the general idea about most women being basic people who listen to basic music and have basic phones still applies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:15 PM
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Redditors are not normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:12 PM
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I like avocados too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:11 PM
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Yeah in the states everyone is obsessed with iPhone but in most of the world Androids are the norm because people dont want to pay double the price for the brand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:10 PM
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Most women aren't in CS either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:51 PM
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Finally someone with sense, this guy reads like he just blindly listens to a bunch of internet gurus about investing advice. Spending $200 versus $1000 on a phone isn't that big of a deal if you actually have money, the $800 you saved and/or invested won't make you rich and he has no understanding of how most ultra wealthy people got there and think they can just pull themselves up by their bootstraps just like Jeff Bezos who borrowed $500k in todays money from his dad to start a company.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:51 PM
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Being in the US is the most likely reason someone would be on a pill sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:44 PM
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That's cause you guys go after the same exact type of woman every time whether you realize it or not People keep mimicking this as a response but no one says what this type is or how to actually find the other types of women. If you want a gamer girl ,they are still a minority of women and are not likely to advertise that so how do you actually find them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:44 PM
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Most women are basic, so you're more likely to run into basic women than ones who are not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:42 PM
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Women on Reddit are definitely not normal women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:40 PM
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Cause not that many woman have Instagram young women are disproportionately the main demographic that uses social media (more in the states) and Instagram is one of the top 5 most used social media
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:34 PM
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Don't think I've met a female android user now that I think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:31 PM
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See ya, wouldn't wanna be ya
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:18 AM
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I have, and I'm not really looking for one anytime soon. I appreciate that you have an unusually upbeat and optimistic spirit around here, especially because it seems like a lot of the married women in this sub just like to bully the men here. I'm not the most cheerful person but the doomers on reddit and especially this sub are a whole other thing. Hope they don't get you down because more positive people are good to have here. Im always curious how some people seem to be in such high spirits a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:03 AM
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Thanks for the concern, next time leave the condescension at the door and maybe someone will take you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:59 PM
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Most women are NPCs, and I also do not like your insinuation about dogs. Seems like you're projecting your dirty thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:20 PM
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The red pill community has a much more realistic perspective on dating than the blue pill/main stream media narrative. I don't say that I am a red piller because in the late 2010s as it started gaining more traction I started seeing a lot more people IRL who openly use those talking points, and it's pretty clear that those people who have taken anonymous posts from internet strangers to heart like a Bible verse have some screws loose. Now it's so mainstream it seems like most younger men are rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:16 PM
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A less predictable one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:10 PM
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You seem to care a lot about what a stranger thinks despite what you say. You're also incapable of processing humor and are easily offended like most women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:10 PM
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I've never seen a relationship that is as egalitarian and ideal as you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:08 PM
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I always thought mid sized towns were the best middle ground. In small towns the lack of anonymity seems to limit hook ups and the competition and angriness of city people also makes it challenging. Mid sized cities are nicer than big cities and more anonymous than small cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:04 PM
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Typical NPC response from a ppd woman. It would be easy to make an AI that can generate 90% of the nagging and nastiness of the women on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:57 PM
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Most people in the world have that view of relationships, and those relationships tend to be more successful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:34 PM
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If there's anything I've learned from interacting with lots of people is that most people really are NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:33 PM
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So nothing a dog can't provide
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:24 PM
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This generation is incredibly antisocial
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:04 AM
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Age gap couples are very common. 3-7 years is pretty typical especially as women enter the 25+ range, and even 10-15 year gaps aren't rare either. I've seen gaps as large as 13 years where the guy didn't even look like an older dude. What's rare is seeing couples with large age gaps where the dude is obviously older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:32 PM
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There's always signs from the beginning and it doesn't take that long for more to keep showing. The vast majority of the time they are just ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:20 AM
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The planet will be just fine. Whether we are able to live on it or not is another story, but the planet will still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:22 PM
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It clearly didn't work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:17 PM
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You're describing them as being above average physicially and assuming they are the cream of the crop in terms of social skills and charisma. The disingenuity of women here is appalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:58 PM
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The OP was parroting a talking point about how its capitalisms fault dating sucks, my point is that a man's economic status isn't that important for dating success and women themselves should have more personal responsibility because they make things suck for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:56 PM
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It's not just working, it's living in an aging society where there are more middle aged and retirement aged people than teenagers and college age people and most of the country is just a very spread out collection of loosely tied suburbs where you have to spend hours of your life alone in a car to get anywhere, and as a result there's few places where you can live, go outside and walk around and be surrounded by your peers and make friends and meet partners organically instead of from the intern…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:59 AM
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I disagree on most of this. Most dudes out there getting with a lot of girls don't care about stability. Theres two kind of broke dudes, neither care about the future: the overweight, unattractive man child who lives at home and has no life, probably watches too much porn and masturbates a lot and plays video games or smokes weed. And two, the attractive broke guy whose only difference is he puts in effort in the gym and his appearance and his free time is spent chasing girls and getting laid. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:55 AM
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Don't see a lot of info from OP but it sounds like his wife isn't very into him so I agree he should leave
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:43 AM
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Being a good person is the least important factor in attracting a partner. Looks is easily the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:33 AM
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It's funny how hard women IIT are rationalizing that there has to be something wrong with Dan if he struggles to date, but the truth is that Dan is the exact profile of most guys who struggle. They refuse to acknowledge that women are incredibly harsh in evaluating men and ironically they are all going out of their way to criticize a guy who doesnt exist, which shows their disdain for the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:00 AM
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That isn't what OP described. They said someone who is more average than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:46 AM
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It's mostly about location, meaning you go out a lot and live in an area with a lot of young, attractive single girls. But looks are a huge factor too, meaning that being a very good looking guy will mean a lot of girls that wouldn't have been interested otherwise are very open to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:19 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hFm_0wQJ2eY&pp=ygURTmFydXRvIGJlbGlldmUgaXQ%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:35 PM
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Maybe those are the most likely outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:35 PM
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Well yeah duh. The smallest proportion of the population are young people in the dying aging west. The typical American is roughly 40 (about 50% of Americans are middle age or older, just being in your 20s puts you in less than 10% of Americans or something) and women are slightly older on average because there are more young males than young females (this is a fact). Compared to the Philippines something really high like 90%+ of the population is under 30 and they're mostly thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:34 PM
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Long dry spells, lots of rejections, few options, and not the best treatment from partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:29 PM
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Otherwise they will settle for a lifetime of involuntary celibacy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:04 AM
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I've gone from not to hot and back and forth and the way women treat men that are hot is way different than 90% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:03 AM
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This is reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:02 AM
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If you're an average man your ceiling for success is pretty limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:01 AM
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Yes, but no. Since more men compete, the bar to be above average is higher. A lot of girls with nice bodies don't even go to the gym. Im above average in most respects except height (average) and dating as a man is a race to the bottom just like every other part of capitalist society. Even if you win, you're still a rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:00 AM
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I already said the girl wasn't that attractive. And it's like I said, the guy has a scarcity mentality and will be alone for a long time if he leaves the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:26 PM
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God forbid that the only solution to loneliness for average men is going out of his way to get rejected by numerous lazy, unattractive, out of shape and entitled women until one of them who thinks he should be lucky she "gave him a chance" enters a one sided relationships where he pays for and plans all the dates, is her emotional support system, and gets pitiful maintenance sex while she barely lifts a finger, nags constantly, has numerous male friends hanging around her, wears down his self es…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:51 PM
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You do realize at 26 a six figure salary is basically top 1% for your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:08 PM
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In NYC the odds are better because of raw numbers. Other parts of the country where there's a higher ratio of Chads to Becky's are much worse because there aren't enough Becky's to go around for Billy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:04 PM
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I think that women who deny this either have little to no interaction with average men, or they have little to no empathy. I described it to a girl this way: If you don't walk past a guy (or on dating apps, scroll past him) and immediately think "he's cute" or "I'd date him" (or swipe right on him), then most other girls probably won't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:54 PM
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Yes I fetishize women who are the same race as me and hate American women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:35 PM
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That's why its on women's terms, they can cheat and leave for another man even when they have a loyal provider who treats her like a kween
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:28 PM
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White savior complex at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:11 PM
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In the real world I see average men who get turned down constantly and stay single for long periods of time unless they're willing to enter a long term relationship on women's terms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:01 PM
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This is basically what talking to feminists is like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:53 PM
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She's a stripper who wishes her dad would die, that's why (literally)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:13 AM
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You don't need to share what your therapist tells you with me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:04 AM
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Being a snobby bitch doesn't make you right, it just makes you a snobby bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:50 AM
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Religious women in the west are not an exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:00 PM
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Look at the ratios by location.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:30 PM
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Very few woman has slept her way to actual real power, where a man provides a woman with a literal powerful position Women do it all the time. Kamala Harris is a good example, and so are many women in the corporate sector. But I'm talking about romantic relationships, and most relationships don't have that kind of dynamic. The one who can more easily replace the other partner has more power over the other, and that is by default going to be the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:07 AM
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Women: It's a red flag if a man doesn't love his mother also women: it's a red flag if a man loves his mother more than me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:47 AM
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Autistic men and women are not the same, and autistic men especially tend to be mentally far behind their peers. Meaning, shut the fuck up and let him enjoy his relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:43 AM
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Her bf is also autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:42 AM
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What does similar place in life even really mean? I know women 10-20+ years older than me with a fraction of the mental maturity, and I've known women several years younger than me with more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:41 AM
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Anyone who has met an 18 year old knows they aren’t valued for their epically good decision making or life skills. Pervy old men know that and target them as prey. I've met plenty of 18 year olds (men and women) whose individual IQs are greater than all of the women in this sub combined
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:35 AM
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But even religious women (other than Islam maybe) have a nonzero amount of bodies. So do religious men. American women are American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:30 AM
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The western US has to be one of the hardest places to date for men. Bad ratios, huge surplus of extremely rich people and super good looking dudes, really spread out, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:20 AM
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I was surprised when she said she was 38, I thought she was much older
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:09 AM
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Your data shows there are more men than women. Because the population is so big, there are literally millions more dating age men than women in the states, and due to geographical distribution the ratios are even worse, I'm not reaching you're just another gaslighting woman in PPD who hates to acknowledge the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:07 AM
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Sure, but those might not be the guys that the girls will choose anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:59 AM
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What's gay men got to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:56 AM
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You're the only woman I've ever seen that's ever said die mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:55 AM
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Not exactly, go filter out the US census official data by location and age. Certain regions are more even and some have more women. But in other locations and overall, there are more prime dating age men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:54 AM
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No, there are more young men than young women. Since men are disproportionately the victims of premature deaths/violence the populations starts shifting towards more women around the 40s or 50s and after that there are more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:38 AM
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Its a weird double standard that women can say mean and unpleasant things and not face the consequences of their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:36 AM
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Relationships are work, and being in a committed relationship means giving more power to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:25 AM
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They just don't want to lose their power in the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:24 AM
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You think those men want to date old bitter women anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:24 AM
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They are obsessed with it in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:23 AM
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Most young girls date behind their parents' backs anyway, even the most goody two shoes religious conservative girls often date guys their parents don't approve of. Besides, most dads wouldn't approve of most men for their daughter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:23 AM
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I’m happy to continue to support, protect and warn young women off creepy old men who target them for their naivety. This narrative of old men "targeting" fully grown adult women and being manipulative predators is a joke. Maybe, younger women are more attractive and men of most age groups are just inherently interested in them over women who are older, less attractive and more unpleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:21 AM
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I'm fine, but the future of this country won't be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:20 AM
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Your last sentence is the reason why the west is falling apart, no kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:23 PM
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A woman who is 50+ isn't inherently smarter or more mature than one half her age. Old women complaining about men dating younger women is nothing more than gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:21 PM
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The power imbalance thing that libfems on the internet keep complaining about is a load of crap. Younger women have the most power in relationships while they are at their most desirable, unless you're talking about a middle age retail store manager dating a 16 year old cashier this is monsene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:14 PM
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If older men can easily get decent women 5, 10, or even 20 years younger then why would they want a woman their age who is washed up? The old bitter hags hate having to think about how low their real value in the SMP is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:11 PM
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As if the old bitter women are the ones who can afford to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:05 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Mhdvqm43m_M
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:58 AM
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A lesbian comic made a joke about neither her nor her date wanted to pay for their own meal at dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:31 AM
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One of the ways you can tell if you're in a nice neighborhood are the type of dogs people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:38 AM
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Yikes they really shouldn't allow just anyone to have pitbulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:35 AM
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Its true theres more risk now to getting women, but that means people with low inhibition like criminals and sociopaths are more likely to get action than a nerd in an office
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:58 AM
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Men used to be valued for being a provider. Now they are used for being providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:51 AM
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She has a point - to survive as a worker bee you have to be a spineless bootlocker, and in today's economy there is more stability in being a worker bee vs a risk taker
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:28 PM
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I explained this to a woman in this should and she kept trying to argue against it. A lot of people can't handle the truth, which is that there are hundreds of millions of men on the planet that will probably die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:18 PM
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Some rich men lead with their wallet because they have been conditioned to believe its what they're supposed to do. Other rich men are more protective of their wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:13 PM
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I'm sure a lot of these guys are probably already hitches and/or aware of the gold diggers strategy to meet rich men at expensive places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:17 PM
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The problem with approaching at the gym I generally see: 1) gender ratio 2) most of the women are taken 3) it's hard to tell the high school girls from the college/post college girls apart sometimes 4) gym cliques can be hard to break into 5) girls don't typically use the same equipment as men because they have different workout goals, so less opportunity to interact 6) I think a lot of people don't go at the exact same time or skip days, so I don't always see the same girl often or more than a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:16 PM
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People underestimate how often non famous, regular cute girl next doors fuck really famous celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:03 AM
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Every Time Naruto Says "Believe it" in Part 1 Naruto (youtube.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:50 AM
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You didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:27 AM
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I've lived in different areas where the average age was very young, very old, and in the middle, and by far the #1 factor that affects women's looks is their age. Women really do age like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:26 AM
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The hardest thing about being "ex-redpill" is that the more actual "touching grass" I do and experience with women/age I get the more it confirms that a lot about their beliefs are spot on. It's crazy seeing how those hot party girls that used to exclusively date 200+ lb white meat heads in her prime years is now going for a pudgy dad bod Asian guy now that she's getting older and looking to settle. By the way she has 6 figures of debt and hates working too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:23 AM
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A 35 year old with plastic surgery doesn't look as good as a 25 year old does naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:59 PM
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One way dating as a man gets harder is they're expected to have their shit together more as they age, but women are not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:03 PM
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How short is too short? Most people are painfully average. Let me explain. As someone who has spent a lot of time around smart and well off people, meaning successful millionaire next door types, the vast majority (men and especially women) are physically unremarkable. Maybe tall or short, but someone who you would probably walk past in public and not notice. The main thing is that they usually don't have good bodies and are out of shape and everything else follows - their style, posture, etc. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:05 PM
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When people see unattractive guys with attractive girls, what they don't see is the bus load of Chads she dated and slept with before that guy. After realizing that she won't get the relationship she wants with Chad, she lowers her looks standards while increasing others (money, respectfulness, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:51 PM
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Yes in the US there is a weird dichotomy between the extremely conservative and religious people who get married young (Utah which is dominated by Mormons has the youngest marriage age in the country) and the people who don't want to settle down and want to get multiple degrees and have a career first. Most of the US is also rural/suburban sprawl, so the opportunity to meet partners for a lot of people is much more limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:47 PM
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By what she says it sounds like she's refused to pay at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:54 PM
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American women are the lowest quality with the highest entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:50 PM
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Some men don't realize that it's not just women who can be gold diggers, men can be too. Except most men are willing/expected to pay for their women, while most women aren't expected/willing to do the same even if they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:46 PM
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She was blueballing him for commitment. Don't be stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:04 PM
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I didn't say being cheated on was ideal. I'm saying that for a man to actually get a quality partner that doesn't stray was definitely more likely then than today. So what if it's easier to catch them or find out about it? Women are doing it so much more openly and this reality is not so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:27 AM
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It's like the matrix. Choose to see reality for what it is or choose to ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:52 AM
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She would be socially shamed and not have the same amount of options she has today, it absolutely happens more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:42 PM
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The signs are usually obvious, it's just that pretty much all women have some amount of red flags so finding a girl that has enough signs that point to yes is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:26 PM
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The first scenario happens today, I know guys who died not knowing they raised Chad's bastard child. And you're assuming women cant have their cake and eat it too, they will cheat on you, take your money, and leave you to take care of the kids while getting fucked bareback by Chads using your money. That shit wouldn't have happened back in the day the way it does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:24 PM
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There's a higher chance of being cucked today then back then. I don't know why you think girls have the decency to break off a relationship where they're getting all the side dick they want and enjoy their loser husband's money who keeps her around because divorcing her will mean he loses all his money anyway. I've seen this so many times. At least back then it was possible to find a woman who wasn't cheating and had less opportunity/incentive to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:22 PM
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Are there girls who are in their 20s and older who are virgins and who aren't talking to a bunch of guys? Yes but the vast majority of girls are not and it's silly to assume you found the exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:59 PM
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It's not as if cheating didn't happen but there's no way that today where there's no consequences and it's easier to cheat than ever that it isn't happening more than it used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:55 PM
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No, now they cheat divorce their husband and leave them for the guy they were hooking up with and their husband's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:53 PM
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If women didn't want attention in the gym they wouldn't be wearing butt enhancing shorts/pants and sports bras
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:48 PM
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My life experience is sufficient evidence for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:57 PM
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When most of the chairs are made of creaky, unstable, moldy splintered wood and rusty nails sticking out, who would want to sit on one?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:27 PM
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Still not enough chairs to go around for all the single men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:09 PM
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So you're saying most women are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:58 PM
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Dating for men is like a game of musical chairs. Women are the chairs, and there aren't enough for them to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:12 PM
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Within about 2 generations the current marriage rate is a bit more than half of what it used to be. A good amount of those not getting married are having kids out of wedlock, but I'm not sure why you're so stubborn and defensive when your (false) worldview is challenged. A good amount of those getting married are more likely to be religious than people who don't get married. TBH in a society like a few decades ago when everyone was getting married and traditional expectations were enforced, it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:36 AM
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So you're saying the cause of male singledom is... male singledom? Do you have any logical explanation for why men cannot or do not want to get into a relationship with women interested in them or do you have another roundabout answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:10 AM
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Age of marriage is going up and rates of marriage are going down, so no they're not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:18 PM
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So most women are not worth getting serious with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:15 PM
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It's a big part of it. What's your explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:13 PM
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The problem is that there are more young men than women and there are more men "grinding" and self improving. Many more men are into sports, working out, and are working on their career. Most women dont do any of those things, and it is very hard to find a woman that is attractive and has anything to offer. A lot of women aren't even attractive but still have nothing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:55 PM
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If a man "ruined" a woman and wast caught hooking up or got her pregnant, he was usually forced to marry her. But there have always been kings and emperors with harems and figures like Rasputin that were powerful and influential and had as many women as they wanted. So the dichotomy between HVM and LVM always existed, low value men were always shamed while high value men did what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:40 PM
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You can literally fill multiple continents the size of Australia with the amount of excess dating age single men that exist in the world. It's definitely a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:35 PM
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Why would anyone want to get serious with a non religious or traditional woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:11 PM
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5'6" is tall for a woman, short for a man. You would probably unalive yourself if you tried to date as a man like Norah Vincent did. She was a 6' tall lesbian woman who tried to date as a man to expose male privilege and realized women are actually the privileged ones and struggled with depression as a result of her experience for 15+ years before she ended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:00 PM
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The founder of the eugenics movement was a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:53 PM
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Translation: the men you want don't want you and you don't want the men that want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:47 PM
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It's funnier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:12 PM
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At your height and weight you can definitely bring those numbers up but those are already fairly decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:43 AM
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Not a literal mommy, a figurative mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:42 AM
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You only know the truths you can observe to be true. A muscle mommy is a jacked woman because that is rare, since you said you lift daily and are like 5'9 165 that makes you one. You're also apparently 55+ so you're definitely a mommy. What's your total on the big 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:06 AM
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That's rough. Even now it's still hard for Asian men, the main difference is that they are working harder to compensate so a lot of white girls and kpop obsessed POC would take them over a mediocre white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:01 AM
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It's kind of hard to say how much of it is anecdotal versus factual. I think a generation ago for example especially because of their negative media depiction Indians had a hard time dating and blackpill/incel communities like to pick on "currycels" . But the younger generation is taller, richer, in better shape etc and in pretty much any major city I've been to I see so many Indian dudes with really hot (especially white) women. So it's not that I don't believe that it's just strange how I've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:22 PM
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Part of the problem is that nobody can see you or the women and men that exist in your life so they may as well be fictitious. How do I know that you're really a muscle mommy? How do you know I actually have vascular arms and a chiseled jaw? The majority if not all of the western relationships I have experienced and observed in others can be explained by redpill concepts, so it's very hard to believe that you can reliably prove that it is not that common place when I can't see the evidence for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:22 PM
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I'm not surprised either because most hapas I've known have racist white dad's and self hating asian moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:57 PM
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If anything the minority of women here are extremely vocal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:56 PM
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Too many FDSers/feminasties in this sub for that to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:56 PM
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This is a minority of the population though (people who have advanced education).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:53 PM
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Keep in mind white people are the majority. The bottom 80% of the white male population still means nearly 90 million potential incels/red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:49 PM
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You have to be above average as a POC man, because the average and below average POC women with inferiority complexes would rather have a mediocre white man than a mediocre POC man. When you see good looking white women with a black guy, they're always with a 6'3 muscular BBC, but they're also open to a 5'9 skinny fat white guy. Same thing with other POC men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:46 PM
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My friend is in his late 20s and is a virgin with a very ideal view of women. He has been in the friend zone for over a decade and he introduced me to her platonically. I always told him he needs to stop being so emotionally invested in her. After a few months of meeting me she wanted to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:38 PM
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So similar to the average redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:31 PM
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Not 80%, 80 out of 294
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:29 PM
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No, 80 out of 294 respondents. That's about a quarter of them. I'm surprised how many married/ltr are here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:26 PM
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Blackpilled af, how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:31 PM
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Game is bullshit. All you need are looks and confidence, with looks being much more important. If you have those, then you have your pick of women and really only have to compete for the best quality ones. For people who are not genetically gifted besides being a celebrity or something else that is nigh impossible for most people, you have to really drop your standards. I knew a guy who was facially really ugly even with some cosmetic help, but regularly got laid. He was a smooth talker and real…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:37 AM
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I've realized by talking to older people that some parts of human nature are very hard to change - life has always been hard especially as a man, in dating, financial success and other ways. Men have always had to prove themselves to society. The problem is that in the past few decades society has changed in such a way that men have to work harder with less opportunities, steeper competition and less reward. This really stuck in my head when looking at the kind of opportunities that the older ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:33 AM
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You don’t have to be terribly attractive, you just have to be willing to fuck a man or a woman even uglier than you. That’s literally all. The obstacle is all mental. Anyone can do it if they have no standards at all FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:58 AM
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Most unmarried families don't really resemble functional two parent households. Good for your friends for having it work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:01 AM
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Right but most people don't want to, and most children are born to unmarried couples
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:53 AM
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Didn't that generation have huge divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:53 AM
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This isn't true. Lots of women who do long distance relationships with men who are providers/coparents do this. It's more common in BIPOC communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:08 PM
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Lots of foreign workers pay into social security that they aren't entitled to ever receive. Social security pay outs are going down and contributions required are going up. Meaning that the current working generation is paying to a system that benefits the current retirees more, because we need young people to keep working and paying into the system for the current generation of retirees to get paid. Social security is a ponzi scheme, instead of being subsidized by our powerful government we spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:50 PM
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This is already what's happening in the west. Import younger immigrants who will work and have kids to support the aging white population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:50 PM
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You really have no clue if you think girls don't keep side dick. If anything girls do it more than guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:47 PM
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Watch what they say, not what they do. A lot of guys categorize women as relationship vs non relationship material (as do women to a much greater extent) but most guys aren't in the position to be that picky about looks and other factors than just looks determine if she's relationship material or not. Most of the guys here are just saying things because they're chronically online. They might say they want big boobs and have all these porn brained standards but in reality they would be turned on …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:44 PM
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Most men arent turning down women for their race, height, breast size, weight, or any superficial reason the way women do. That's the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:59 AM
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"Second, because you guys are throwing a hissy fit over not getting what you want, which is a sign of entitlement." Her entire premise is a roundabout way of saying exactly what I did, which is that wanting your looks match is entitlement. It's exactly what pushes men like the ones on this sub an a spiral deep into the arms of ben shapiro and andrew tate types, women constantly denying the reality that men experience. The reality is that there are 2+ million more men than women ages 18 to 55 in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:53 AM
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Ive already been asking you about how she holds men accountable and you've never given an example. Its very difficult to want to respond to women in this sub when the conversations are so one sided. But I will start with the entire premise of her post that if a skinny guy wants to date a skinny girl that's entitled being completely absurd rather than a reasonable preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:13 AM
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This is very vague and I disagree. She frequently makes out of touch and bizarre takes that make me wonder if she even talks to men irl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:16 PM
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Holds men accountable for what? In western society women lack accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:33 PM
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This is something I've been seeing for years. I've always believed for men's own sake that avoiding porn and masturbation is best, as young men today are bombarded by porn constantly. But the mainstream narrative against porn is all about how a very MALE problem affects WOMEN, that women are the real victims in all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:33 PM
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Most of the men you've been with were probably sluts too. Most men with lower N counts and even some with higher ones don't want a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:30 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story. Women in the west have been coddled too much and have an inflated ego, they need to be humbled and respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:28 PM
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Male genital mutilation is huge in the states, and in any country that practices female circumcision men are also circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:07 PM
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What comment are you talking about? Lilith is an infamous poster in this sub who consistently makes bad takes and stonewalls constantly to any opposition to her stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:58 PM
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Nope there's just a shortage of quality women. In the states, there are more than 2 million men in excess of women 18 to 55. The younger the age group, the greater the surplus. Certain regions have more noticeable disparities than others. Men are literally fighting for scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:51 PM
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Doesn't help when all women under 30 are addicted to their phones and use social media/ dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:20 PM
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I have a friend who has only been with his long term gf in his life and stayed with her for nearly a decade, and he said he's not tempted to break it off to explore because he sees how all of his average and slightly above average male friends who are perpetually single struggle. Knowing average or slightly above average women is a completely different experience. They get so much male attention and often from dudes physically out of their league and dry spells for them do not exist. I used to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:19 PM
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So you're telling me that most women are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:22 PM
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Fixed the typo, there are more men than women Most women are mediocre anyways, their male equivalent doesn't get showered with attention the way they do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:53 PM
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Most of PPD at this point is literally just a bunch of awkward virgins being gaslighted by man hating SJW feminists I swear. A lot of men are "maybes" to women. They have to convert that "maybe" into a yes with some effort. Women also care a lot about what their friends think, they are extremely hive minded. Meaning if a girl gets approval from their friends, then a guy can go from a maybe to a yes. But if a girl doesn't get approval from their friends, then the guy can go from a maybe to a no. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:36 PM
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The guys who get the most action are usually losers. They're just good looking and have the free time to chase girls. There are more men than women below 50 so if everyone woman paired off there would be many men who would still be alone. Women have an unfair advantage in dating and the women in this sub who deny that are either stupid or evil. Probably both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:31 PM
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Pretty much all middle class educated societies have some amount of pushback on gender roles these days
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:40 PM
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The dating game has changed quickly since you were college age, that much is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:45 PM
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Much of NC has more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:34 PM
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Engineering schools have at least 2 guys for every girl, and some classes are 90% male or more. And there are hardly any girls that are single/attractive anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:31 PM
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This isn't true. I get approached by women a lot and I've never found them unattractive and am always impressed by their willingness to overcome their social programming to try and talk to me, even though it's usually awkward. My longest relationship was with a girl who was direct in her intentions with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:29 PM
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You sound like one of the older out of touch dudes who dated before dating apps and social media existed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:16 PM
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Male competition in Cali is much higher than female competition and out of the million and half or so extra men in prime dating ages than women 25% of them are in Cali.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:13 PM
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Not anymore than normal. Where are you located where this is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:11 PM
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Omfg why hasn't OP been banned this is actually one of the dumbest threads I've seen on this sub and that's saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:18 PM
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Destiny is an objectively ugly dude but based on your list it sounds like you just follow eurocentric standards of beauty and are racist because all the other dudes you mentioned aren't hideous, they're actually above average but since they're not white they're ugly to you. Destiny is short and fat with an ugly face. He is the poster boy a stereotypical reddit soy boy left wing beta male. Adin is short chubby and goofy looking but he just has stereotypical Jewish features. Myron, sneako, and And…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 05:58 PM
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This is hard to come by in the states. What cities did you have in mind?
/r/ExRedPill19/11/23 12:41 PM
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Yep the wage gap is a myth. In all major cities women make as much as men, it's only in less educated poorer areas where women don't have access to cush jobs filling up a seat where most of the economy relies on hard physical labor do women earn less than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:39 AM
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You have to get them young, otherwise the pool dries up fast. Smaller towns seem to have a higher percentage of perpetually single dudes, and when those same dudes move away to bigger ones they tend to finally meet a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:09 AM
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In such countries the gap between the top and bottom men are even wider.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:06 PM
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I already did. Are you gonna counter it? Women like you describe a fake reality and blame men for losing in a world rigged against them. Why are you telling men to get ripped and rich just so they can fight over broke girls who don't go to the gym? Because that's what the reality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:56 PM
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And they don't understand why their ideal man won't commit... Because being an ideal man is hard work, and every woman wants that same ideal. He's not gonna just let any basic Becky lock that down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:43 PM
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You litter this sub with useless posts and stonewall 100% of users who try to engage with you. You're a clear cut example of what's wrong with western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:42 PM
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Why haven't you been permabanned yet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:40 PM
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If 9/10 apples in a basket are rotten...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:38 PM
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It's amazing how the women of PPD go out of their way to keep men living in a fake reality. If any man has beeb around women and not under a rock, including their relatives, friends, and girls they date, they can see that it's so much harder for men in the west to the point that the juice is really not worth the squeeze. I know very average girls who will have mediocre photos who can go on dating apps and in A DAY get hundreds of matches and lineup dates with literal athletes and models. Any man…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:00 PM
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But women still expect men to be white knights in shining armor who have the keys to the kingdom just for their special kweens who are totally not NPC bots like all the other kweens 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:56 PM
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It's very damaging because it's subtle. Most cartoons and shows aimed at children were never overtly focused on romance, but Johnny Bravo stood out because it was a recurring gag that he would flirt/hit on every attractive woman that existed and that was almost always met with very negative reception. I actually really like the show as a fan of 90s cartoons, and maybe part of the humor is that the kind of guy that a lot of women IRL would find attractive (a narcissistic and tall, well built blon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:53 AM
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Agreed, and the men running the “numbers game” are at fault for causing women to walk around with RBF, to suspect every man who insists on an audience, to wear masks, and to generally behave in an unfriendly, cold manner towards strangers. I think women being chronically plugged into social media is a much bigger contributing factor. A few women enjoy the attention, but even those few admit they don’t actually go out with randos who are desperate for attention. Cold approaching works and is 100%…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:13 PM
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That reminds me of Johnny Bravo, a cartoon about a muscular Elvis impersonator who lives with his mom who would consistently get viciously beaten/attacked for hitting on attractive women. Growing up with content like this is it surprising a whole generation is afraid of approaching women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:53 PM
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Any other cool stories about Hollywood you care to share? Is it as crappy as people make it seem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:43 PM
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Yes I'm sure average men are out there angry that an attractive and highly successful billionaire won't date them. 🤡 Taylor Swift has every right to only want a good looking rich guy, she just needs to stop crying that none of those guys will commit to her and pretend she's relatable rather than extremely rich and privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:36 PM
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Two of those guys are Jewish and one was literally the awkward geek in every movie for a solid decade
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:33 PM
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He's an UGLY dude with a whole lot of money to compensate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:33 PM
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Schrodingers chadlet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:03 PM
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Suburbs can be walkable. For example in the suburbs I grew up in, the 70s and 80s construction homes are actually very walkable to grocery stores, schools, parks, etc. But newer constructions are built much further away from the centers of the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:30 PM
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She's been pumped and dumped too many times by Chad and won't settle for Billy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:32 PM
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Actually it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:21 PM
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College is expensive but if you have $200k of debt then that's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:19 PM
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Women very rarely become surgeons or pilots. Even in 2023 when they have plenty of advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:18 PM
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Money definitely helps, but indirectly. Leading with your wallet is the definition of BB and explains pretty much every guy you see who is with a much more attractive girl. The way money helps indirectly is by affording you the free time to pursue women and the resources to improve your looks/attractiveness (clothes, hair, gym, etc). It also costs money to travel to venues, buy alcohol or tickets to events that let you meet women (college is a prime environment to meet women and that is increasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:12 PM
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$100k in 2023 is like $75k in 2011, that's just using inflation calculators that ignore the fact that real estate prices are at least 2x what they were back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:05 PM
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You're more likely to make more money in more expensive areas that tend to have more higher paying jobs. You're more likely to make $200k+ in an expensive city than a comparable amount in a cheaper one (say Seattle vs Minneapolis) but most people won't make that. Having been to all those cities I would much rather live in one of the expensive cities making $100k than $75k in Minneapolis, but being a high earner I think it's a very real effect that you'll feel poor by comparison of all the extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:58 PM
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I've been in relationships where I was taken care of (she paid for all the dates, dinners, movies, hotels, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:46 PM
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He spends too much time working to pursue women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:44 PM
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most people here aren't debating with redpillers but simply a bunch of tradcon and blackpillers Don't know why this sent chills down my spine. These days all the different type of manospherians have been lumped in together and packaged interchangeably as "incels," even though there are clear differences between PUA, Red pill, Black pill, MGTOW etc. The reason why we've all this debates is the fact people don't wanna do their research when coming to all this redpill principles/talking points, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:30 PM
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How would you know? I doubt you spend that much time around men in their early to late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:34 PM
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The men I know who get stepped on are actually decent guys who give everything they have to ungrateful women who can never have enough and just keep taking until there is nothing left to take. It's awful to see and I've never seen a man that has left a woman so disparate and so broken the way I have seen many women do callously to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:33 PM
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I had the misfortune to be born into a family full of severely mentally ill, narcissistic, selfish, ungrateful, hypocritical, disrespectful and toxic women. I don't know what a "good woman" looks like because I never had a good example of what that looks like. And the women that I have been with have pretty much all been toxic in one way or another. All women (AWALT as they say in the manosphere) have some combination of toxic traits, but until I can figure out where I can actually find a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:27 PM
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I’m really trying to be optimistic about what the next generation of young women will do with their hard won freedom I'm not nearly as optimistic as someone who is much younger, but we can hope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:34 PM
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Few women in my life has ever been a good woman. No matter what positive qualities they have, they are greatly overshadowed by their horrible ones. Parents, siblings, cousins, girlfriends, even my female friends who are good friends I recognize would probably not be good partners for me either but we get along because I avoid being romantically involved with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:21 PM
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Women face little accountability or consequences for their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:07 PM
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I made a distinction between virgin and inexperienced. A guy who had one or two one night stands in their early twenties or one relationships that lasted a few months is still inexperienced if he ends up sexless for the next 5 years especially relative to the women of his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:05 PM
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Women want men to commit, but don't want to be committed. They aren't loyal. Women tend to leave relationships when they get hard, and after a long enough amount of time they get bored and leave. I can't tell you how many women I've seen who are are as old as 40+ or 50+ just decide to cheat or up and leave their husband and kids. There's no real reason, they just decide they don't "love" their husband anymore, or decide to leave for another guy. It's rare for the reverse for a man to leave his w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:50 PM
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Notice how quiet she went when her bias was exposed. Most women are all on "team women" and will always come to the defense of other women ahead of men. Women who aren't apart of the herd mentality are called "pick me" girls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:39 PM
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This is the west elm caleb girl, she is the prime example of a Chad chaser
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:25 PM
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This is the girl who complained about West Elm Caleb, the 6'4 built white guy who pumped and dumped her and a bunch of other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:16 PM
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You realize this is the west elm Caleb girl right? She is literally famous for complaining about how she chased a 6'4 muscular white guy with options and got pumped and dumped, and I can assure you that for nearly 100% of women complaining about not being able to find a man, they are Chad chasers like her. They want the top 1% of men and their ego can't accept that they aren't the top 1% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:13 PM
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I just realized this is THE west elm Caleb girl. The one who was crying on social media about being pumped and dumped by a tall, good looking built white Chad. The gaslighting isn't just real, we really are in the matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:08 PM
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Marriages have been becoming less and less common. BUT also divorce rates for millennials have gotten down to 45% from the 55-60% we've seen from the generations before. That's still pretty high, especially considering that reduction is only because of the cultural shift from marriage being an expectation for everyone, which means there is no pressure for many people who would have not preferred to be married (like closeted gay men, asexuals, etc). Now the majority of kids are born to unmarried …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:45 PM
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The gaslighting is real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:19 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story, it was interesting to read
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:20 AM
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Af/bb is probably the most realistic part of the manosphere, except what you misunderstand is they don't recommend being a BB. Your conclusion about inexperienced men reeks of just world fallacy. I know plenty of men who are social, some extremely so, who are inexperienced/virgins well into their mid to late twenties. I know a guy who started a charity, volunteers, is athletic, has a large social circle and is in medical school in a big city, but has never been with anyone since HS. Oh, and he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:43 AM
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I strongly disagree that 2023 is the best year ever and your followup is factually incorrect. Marriage and dating has been on the decline for a long time. You sound really young and sheltered to be this optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:20 AM
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I assumed she chases rich 6'3 muscular white guys like every other Asian woman with internalized hatred. Her instagram shows a picture of her dressed up and having a picnic in Paris with a tall well built white guy who is a pilot and probably makes a lot of money. She lives in the most expensive city in the US and probably amongst the world and flashes an expensive lifestyle online. I'm sure she's choosing guys for their wholesome personality though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:30 AM
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In general by their core beliefs, a conservative traditional man is expected to be more assertive and active and liberal men are told it's ok if they do not conform to those traditional expectations. So it shouldn't be surprising that a lot of liberal men are passive and unassertive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:04 PM
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That's like saying a man can believe in feminism and body positivity for women but still want a hairless girl with quadruple D tits and a bubble butt and flat stomach. It goes against a bunch of the mainstream feminist rhetoric to expect women to conform to conventional beauty standards because they spend so much time saying its misogyny and the patriarchy to hold women to those standards. Women can like tall men with big muscles and big dicks and designer stubble but they should not be surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:02 PM
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You're stubborn and obnoxious to talk to and not worth the effort. You have the IQ of a brickwall but think you're really smart, and I'm not going to engage in a debate with you because you'll do so in bad faith and are unwilling to hear opposing viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:47 PM
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I hope you realize your sexist logic applies equally to women. Too many unintelligent, mentally ill, unambitious, lazy, unpleasant, nagging, overweight unempathetic, consumerist, burdensome, etc women who dont pull their weight in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:26 AM
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Not necessarily where I live, but many parts of the states is full of extremely obese (300+ lbs people) people, and where many of the women specifically who never went to college and has multiple kids from one or more men she may or may not have been married to
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:15 AM
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There's a reason you're infamous in PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:06 PM
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The women on this sub like you are really sick misandrists with no empathy. It's ironic that men who say we need to return to traditionalism, which means removing women's sexual freedom and privileges they enjoy today, would be considered misogynists. But women suggesting that we should dedicate scientific research and innovation towards altering men's biology? That's a great idea! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:52 PM
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I don't think you're the best judge of normal, and most people in this sub that have seen your posts would probably agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:20 AM
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What does a middle class lifestyle look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:00 AM
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Ngl but it's very rare for MtF to actually "pass" as a woman, I just think most people IRL don't tell that to their face. The misandry problem isn't as universal as doomers here say but it is very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:43 PM
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If everything you said about men was true you'd still be one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:31 PM
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You said people you knew who didn't live on campus and lived at home but still attended social events. What I said is that situation is a huge uphill battle and I've seen many people who may have started college shy and awkward but lived on campus away from home who blossomed from having that opportunity to be on their own and have proximity to their peers. There are so many people who forever struggle and never come out of their shell because they missed out on that experience and that is more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:18 PM
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Which is more normal than living in a high income low crime neighborhood area where I currently live. The median individual income is less than $50k, which is not enough to be comfortable in such areas
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:14 PM
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My cock is rock hard QFT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:14 PM
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Dating is really hard for men. Even for the guys who get a lot of girls and have great genetics it isn't just handed to them, there's still some effort required. The question is if you are willing to try and make the best of your situation or just be someone who complains for years without getting action because you don't want to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:01 PM
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Based on demographics this is actually closer to normal than a woman who is fit, mentally stable, and educated who has reasonable and healthy standards and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:56 PM
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Every basic becky wants 6'2+, muscular, perfect hair and teeth, chiseled jawline and designer stubble. Reasonable girls know that this is just an ideal and the same way most dudes realize a flat stomach with DDDs and basketball butt cheeks are not a requirement to finding a girl attractive and a good partner, but a lot of girls unironically demand all these things while being basic skinny fat and unambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:55 PM
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The vast majority of college kids don't get the "college experience." The vast majority are commuters like the above poster. One of the most social guys I knew was a commuter but he was definitely an outlier. People who lived on/near campus generally had far more robust social lives than those that didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:30 PM
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This country is now only a country of the top 10%. If you’re in the bottom 90 things are getting much worse and fast. Most people IRL don't seem to have niche opinions like on reddit, maybe because they live in bubbles (either rich or poor bubbles) but having lived in rich and poor areas I've seen that this is reality. Any place that has more available "3rd spaces" is usually in a very expensive area where most people can't afford to buy a home or rent. Very few areas outside of college towns an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:22 PM
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Most people live in suburbia, or exurbia, or whatever you want to call it where there's little to do and/or few people in certain demographics. Living in a safe suburb might be fine in high school, but not in your 20s where everyone moves away for college and/or work. Most places where this isn't the case are expensive to rent and the spaces to socialize cost money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:01 PM
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Meet at parties or bars. Flirt. Hook up. That's where most of the work comes in. Socializing is a skill. It takes time and effort to pick up and you don't realize it's work because you were already putting in the work. This generation for many reasons already discussed to death started pretty far behind and many of them get stuck and never improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:46 PM
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And lots of women see men as only one dimensional NPCs that are either useful or useless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:53 AM
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It's the truth ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:06 PM
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This isn't always true but I know most women assume this, just never say it aloud
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:00 PM
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That's major drawback, even 2 or 3 inches of height and life would be exponentially better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:56 PM
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Are you in europe? Where did the islam thing come from? Immigrants are needed in canada/europe/america because yt ppl have so much excess wealth, they just party and fuck endlessly and don't care about working hard or settling down until it's too late (only poor white people still work hard and have kids). The west relies on importing poor immigrants who don't have wealth who are willing to work hard and make babies but once those immigrants become wealthy they stop making babies and the few bab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:53 PM
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This is wrong. Poor people are having tons of kids. It's not the cost its the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:48 PM
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I've seen lots of broke dudes who hide their financial situation by going out of their way to pay in the beginning. Then you get in a relationships with them and the truth comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:59 AM
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I know many men who are absolute catches that at a minimum look outside their cities and often outside the country for a spouse because decent quality women are hard to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:44 AM
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You seem to want to justify porn use, if you want to feel good about beating your dick like it owes you money then justify it however you want. I would never advise or recommend to young boys and men that it's a good outlet for their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:46 PM
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My parents didnt influence me directly but there was a lot of pressure to be successful. Ive been a top 1% earner through most of my 20s. Sometimes jobs that pay more are less stressful than lower paid ones, but there is a lot of competition that makes it hard to get those jobs in the first place. As long as you're dependent on the check for your lifestyle, there's always the fear that you can lose your job and never make the same again. Imagine you're in your 50s making $500k+ and then you get …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:44 PM
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If you need someone to validate your desire to endlessly beat your meat have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:29 PM
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That was the most bs article ive ever read. None of these guys had substance abuse issues nor were overweight/sedentary. What they all had in common was porn abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:19 PM
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Since men who transition to women rarely pass for women the way women who transition to men do, they receive more external pressure that makes them want to detransition. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:07 PM
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You act like a high paying career is a cake walk. You have to put in the work, and the reward is a job where you have to put in more work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:55 PM
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Theres a reason theres so many more MTF and so many FTM detransition. IRL this is my observation too. Your post reeks of bs, men do not get respect by default, they have to prove a higher bar for competence. And most straight women would not date an FTM who no male genitals even if they pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:40 PM
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I like how the benefits of men are you assuming that you're a built high testosterone chad instead of a 5'6 low T nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:36 PM
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Being gay is acceptable for men too since they're not interested in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:33 PM
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Im sure there is some studies out there. But if there isn't, I've known many young guys (early 20s) that are porn addicts and they all have erection issues or other sexual dysfunctions (and many girls end up dating these guys) and that is enough evidence for me to know too much porn use is very bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:28 PM
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Similar to shows like Friends where completely average dudes are dating a new hottie every week. It's not the over the top adult rated content that was deceiving, it was the more innocent seeming stuff that made a fake reality. Everything in the media points to high school and college being the best times of their lives, but nobody talks about how many kids are really lonely and have a hard time dating in college, and many are just trying to copy what they're told is having a good time when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:15 PM
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You're an idiot. Men who struggled from 13-30 dont just magically become different men at 30. Those early experiences shape them for a lifetime. So what if single men (a still sizeable chunk) arent the majority after 30, they're still getting the short end of the stick with women past their prime. You're barely bringing up any new points or adding to the discussion, you're just a monkey beating its chest because it thinks flinging poop is titilating. Im sorry the fat hamster in your brain is wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:55 PM
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Rent is affordable in the middle of nowhere, yes. And trades are definitely not appealing to most people and are definitely not viable for women. And yes women get more financial support than men and if not they are more willing to take on debt to live it up. Big cities have always been expensive but even young experienced professionals have been priced out with the crazy rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:14 PM
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I guarantee my verbal intelligence is higher than yours. Your premise is that "because eventually men are able to get into relationships, men's singlehood is an overblown issue and not really a problem like people say here." What I pointed out to you, is that most men under 30 struggle to date. Just because they eventually get into a relationship doesnt mean this isnt an issue. Its more common than you think that many guys do not get their first kiss, or first have sex or even their first girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:11 PM
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Not as much as I used to but I go pretty consistently. DYEL?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:49 PM
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Most gyms probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:30 AM
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I've met people at the gym and know other people that did too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:30 AM
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Sounds like a good time for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:07 AM
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/u/TSquaredRecovers Either she has parents that support her financially, for example a lowly paid PhD who buys expensive luxury items and lives in an expensive apartment she couldn't afford without her parents help, or she has guys who pay for her dates including drinks, meals, drive her around (there are so many girls who refuse to drive and get free rides from friends/dudes) and if they have a boyfriend, he pays for a lot of her stuff and all of their dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:07 PM
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A good amount of middle class girls working fairly low paid jobs or are studying have a lot of financial support, if they don't they're usually more willing to take on debt than guys. Their parents don't even have to be ultra rich, just rich enough. The double standard I see between girls and guys in this respect is that the girls don't feel pressure to give their parents an ROI on their money and guys often do by working towards a very high earning career path. Most very high paying fields are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:29 PM
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I don't understand the antisocial basement dwellers on reddit who think like this because many people who go to the gym make friends there, and many people go to the gym mostly to socialize. And yes some people meet their SOs there too. I don't know what kind of awkward socially stunted person thinks "I hope nobody tried to flirt with me in this space full of young sexy fit people!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:10 PM
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You look like Matt Damon's autistic little brother you undersold yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:06 PM
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Which would be good advice except this generation is priced out. Harder to get into a decent job/career that will pay well enough to afford rent and save for retirement and it usually requires more education than before and school costs way more than it used to. So people start making money later and make lower real wages with more debt. I know tons of people who make decent money but they still live at home. Girls tend to go to cities more because they have someone funding their adventures and/…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:54 PM
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Standard in the midwest maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:43 PM
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Looks like a hicktown
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:37 PM
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I agree. The problem is that the opportunity to live in cities with a high % of young people with busy areas like gyms, restaurants, events etc to go out to, aka 3rd places, is diminishing in the states, thats part of where the struggle comes from in dating for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:28 PM
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Whatever alternate dimension you're in I'd like a one way ticket please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:45 PM
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Not very common
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:34 PM
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Literally everything else. Leading the conversation/interaction, providing, being interesting, paying bills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:00 PM
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When you're a teenage boy who's never had a girl touch his penis before you think about it all the time. After you're older and have experienced women and understand the world better its easier to control your urges even if you're still pretty horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:24 PM
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Look at her reply. The girls he gets with are also fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:35 PM
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You should have mentioned this earlier. Your brother is going after girls just as unattractive as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:35 PM
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Never seen anything like this irl. Also don't know what these women look like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:34 PM
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That's not much for what men are expected to bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:36 AM
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Not to mention that plenty of guys who watch porn are still interested in girls who are average/normal looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:43 PM
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Apex fallacy - most women when talking about men are thinking about the "elite" men because most men do not exist to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:15 PM
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Apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:13 PM
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Not as palpable as the irony of you being yet another NPC PPD woman trying to use shaming language because she has no actual argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:51 PM
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living in the most passive aggressive part of the US. Where would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:48 PM
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Men bring everything to the table, and women can't take enough from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:37 PM
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This is the comment to end the whole sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:39 PM
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You just described all women minus the suicide part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:37 PM
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By adapt to the modern times you mean let women step all over them? Women in other parts of the world know their place because men aren't spineless. They have balls and their women respect men for being men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:33 PM
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I feel the percentage of men who never get married are going to go up. It's not like those guys don't already exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:34 PM
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I've known several guys that had a gf in high school an even many years into adulthood never had a relationship since
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:28 PM
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That's the gaslighting we always see in this sub. Always assuming the men HAD to have done something wrong because WOMEN are so virtuous and pure and innocent! They can never be in the wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:22 PM
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You were trying to deny op's original claim, and I found in your article evidence supporting the idea that FAR MORE YOUNG MEN ARE SINGLE THAN WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:37 AM
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Where did you find the time to get 3 degrees and make a 7 figure networth by 24? Have you ever been skinny?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:28 AM
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Young men going back as much as 40 years or so haven’t wanted actual relationships. They want to “sow their wild oats,” to speak. This hasn’t changed recently. A lot of 22 year-old guys just want to fuck around and party, for example. I would argue the same for many young women, too, although I think this is far more prevalent amongst young men. Marriage sucks. Especially for men. If girls were classier, could cook and clean, and didn't just chase guys for their looks then maybe there would be m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:09 AM
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Now it makes sense why you have such weird takes. You're an old lady. You would have to link that data but theres a big difference in being able to have sex one or a couple times a year and having sex on a fairly consistent basis (multiple times a month). Only having sex a few times a year is only slightly better than no sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:53 PM
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People like you (mostly women) want to believe in a just world where everything is righteous and fair, because you are sheltered and insulated from how most people's live are and can't handle the truth. I do not make baseless assumptions on random people I know nothing about. Knowing many, many relationships, every toxic, abusive and unhappy relationship on the outside if you did not know those people personally looks normal to bystanders. You might see an ugly guy holding hands with a prettier …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:49 PM
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Cities like LA are the reason the redpill exists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:35 PM
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A quality woman is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:36 PM
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No true scotsman fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:35 PM
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A feminist woman from the middle east is still better than a feminist in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:22 PM
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Its way way higher than that. Nearly all girls 13- 25 are on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:20 PM
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I skimmed through that very long article, and everything I saw clearly supports my pov more than yours. "Among men, those younger than 30 are by far the most likely to be single: About half of men in this age group (51%) are single, compared with only 27% of those ages 30 to 49 and 50 to 64 and 21% of men 65 and older. Women, by contrast, are by far most likely to be single later in life – roughly half of women ages 65 and older are unpartnered (49%), while those ages 30 to 49 are the least like…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:15 PM
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Exactly. I know one guy who is average height, bald and fat and his gf is conventionally attractive. He lives in a relatively cheap area and makes good money ($150k+). The way they scream and yell at each other is scary. She stays because he can provide a good lifestyle and he stays because he gets to parade around having a hotter gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:04 PM
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Many people here lack nuance. Maybe in some areas like small town america in the middle of nowhere where most dudes are 5'9 and not rich. Some areas on the other hand there is such a high percentage of very rich, very tall, and good looking dudes that average men suffer. Like in many rich areas there is no shortage of 6'2"+ dudes and even literal celebrities living there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:01 PM
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Girls I know are ready to drop even a good boyfriend of several years for the slightest thing they dont want to compromise on. Too many women on this sub keep reviving the same stupid points because they never listen to the men. They think because "ive seen an ugly guy walking around a store with a female, that must disprove red pillers!" But what they dont consider is that in many hetero relationships, men get disrespected, cheated on, and are expected to put in more work than their female coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:45 PM
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Many people stay in bad relationships and do not get divorced or break up when they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:41 PM
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Most men you see dont have a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:39 PM
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You sound like the other NPC women on this sub giving fake pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:21 PM
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This sub has been overrun by delusional women similar to yourself, there's definitely a lot of people here who also disagree with you. I only feel the need to comment because your stupidity would otherwise go unchecked. Im slowly making my way out of here otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:36 PM
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You frequently say stupid stuff in this sub, so I was telling you that your advice is useless. And by the way, its not an accomplisment as a woman to be able to attract men or get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:40 PM
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If Sean O'pry is a 10, then there is no shortage of male 7s, 8s and 9s. I see no shortage of chiseled, 6'2" guys with full heads of hair. The female equivalent is very very rare. Say a 5'7"+ woman with at least a c cup a gym body and thick legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:29 PM
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It's the opposite. Hot guys are such a commodity that it's not special
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:24 PM
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Seeing you post here all the time, it's definitely you, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:13 PM
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We live in a world of massive wealth inequality largely perpetrated by men, so maybe men should begin addressing that instead of blaming women. There are plenty of really rich women in that exclusive club.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:42 AM
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Go outside, to Walmart, Disneyland, or to a public college campus if you don’t College campuses are the best example of seeing girls chase men out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:41 AM
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Definitely not true. Women in this sub have no idea what a roided physique looks like and doesn't realize that most dudes that are big and chiseled with a six pack are actually roided out and unattainable and that's what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:40 AM
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That's cheap AF. I forgot tho not everyone has $120k salary like i do There's nowhere decent where you only pay $800 a month with roommates. Sucks to be poor lol You tell me, $120k isn't really that much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:35 AM
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They get attention from different women than the roided dude and for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:29 AM
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In some nice places single men are not allowed where famililes and women go
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:45 PM
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What city would that be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:31 PM
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It's not because they live with their parents. It's because most people can only afford houses where there isn't an abundance of hot girls. If you parents own a home in the middle of nowhere with no major universities nearby of course you won't get girls because they don't exist. If your parents own a place in a big city/college town then you're better off living at home and bringing girls over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:30 PM
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This is one of the most real posts I've seen in this sub where I can see that you aren't just making stuff up. If you make $100k-$200k as a single earner you don't stand out because the concentration of high earners, multimillionaires and billionaires in that area is amongst the highest in the the country if not the world. You can't compete with all the business owners and people who have made hundreds of thousands if not millions of dollars from real estate there as a guy just making $100k-$200…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:29 PM
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Money only matters to the extent that it helps you meet women. For example if you are a 6'2 jacked broke dude but live with your parents in NYC where there's tons of women then you'll get more girls than a nerd living in the Washington suburbs making 10x as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:22 PM
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This. Girls hate nerds. Only guys who have the motivation to make a lot of money are nerds, because most guys are too horny and restless to do what it takes to go to a good school, get good grades, and land a solid job so instead are screwing around and just looking for a good time. Most people who make money, do it later in life (early 30s or older). Young guys who do it are usually from conservative/traditional/religious backgrounds who believe that being financially stable before marriage and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:20 PM
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Hahahaha only $800 a month hahahahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:14 PM
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Conventions.... What a broad term Frisbee golf is a sport for old people Dance practice - maybe Swimming? You're grasping at straws now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:26 AM
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The gender ratio is not equal. If you remove post menopausal women, for every age group 18 until around 50 or 55, there exists more men than women in every age category. That's why the competition for men is so stiff and why so many men are left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:08 AM
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It's funny how hard women IIT are fighting against OP when he's right. PPD has pretty much been overrun by woke feminists and is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:49 AM
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You are trying so hard to gaslight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:48 AM
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It also depends where you live. Some places there aren't enough girls to meet to even have a date lined up every week. But in big cities it would be possible to meet a a new girl each day and never run out of girls in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:25 PM
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You really don't understand anything about averages. It varies greatly by location. Average in some places might mean that most people don't have above a high school education and they make $15 an hour working at a factory. Average in others might mean that most people went to college and are making six figures. Average might mean that most people walking around have grey hair and big guts. Average might mean that most people walking around are in their 20s and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:59 PM
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Thank you. You might see an average couple and these people assume because they exist they are happy and functional, but what you don't see is: they were both more fit before marriage, got fat later on, no longer have sex, the woman feels like she settled, cheats on her husband, he found out, is staying for the kids, they threaten to divorce, etc. The worst most miserable relationships and couples I've ever known, might still occasionally go out and hold hands in public. But you do not know the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:52 PM
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It's not. I guarantee nearly 100% of girls interested in me IRL would have never picked me on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:43 PM
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Don't forget virtually everyone was thin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:35 PM
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Where in the south would this be? ATX?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:27 PM
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So is the average woman, but that doesn't stop them from having an active dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:26 PM
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The vast majority of people never move on from emotional trauma in early life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:10 PM
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I spent too much time worrying about school and working hard. Turns out luck has been a bigger factor than my own hard work in my success and its had a minimal impact on my quality of life. Getting girls was simpler when I was broke because I was around girls more often, and ripped. Muscles, money, drugs, looks and many other things attract girls. But the very thing that girls almost universally cannot stand are nerds. All those guys that think that the reason they are getting no girls is becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:01 PM
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It's funny a lot of guys will go for fat chicks thinking they're easy and because they have big boobs and butts. Then these girls think they're too good for average guys. This is why dating is messed up for average guys, average girls want hot guys because there's not enough hot girls to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:01 AM
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Girls will go to a broke college students dirty apartment to hook up and even hookup on an inflatable mattress if that's all the guy has. But tbh I've seen that if a guy can flex money it's a legit strategy and frankly the quality of girls will be better. The guy hooking up on an inflatable mattress was banging extremely obese (300+ lbs) girls. The guy with a dirty apartment was better looking so the girls were a bit more attractive but not knockouts. I knew this guy who was basically born with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:57 AM
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If all it took to get a girl was a house then it was definitely easier back then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:50 PM
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She's chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:37 PM
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You're an average chubby woman, getting lots of interest from horny men isn't the flex you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:37 PM
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The guy is weird looking, I guess JBW is true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:34 AM
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They're not bad people just because they're older and married, but you can't date or be a close part of their social circle as a young single guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:37 PM
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Typo I meant early to mid twenties but even up to early 30s these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:19 PM
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Not always Chads, just the guy that already had a girl coming into the venue. Meanwhile I've seen guys who fit blackpillers wettest dreams looking desperate because there are no girls to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:18 PM
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Even worse, in many areas you won't see many women who aren't with guys already and the amount of guys there drastically outnumber the girls there. And the dudes are always better looking and more fit than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:01 PM
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Old people don't need to worry about making wealth like young people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:59 PM
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1) choice of industry is gender specific and 2) young people are the smallest group in the aging western nations that import young immigrants to hide how bad it is really is. Meaning once you leave school where you were constantly around your peers your whole life, you realize this. The median age for example in the US is above 37 for men and just below 40 for women. So you graduating college and being surrounded by people much older than you is a common experience for people in your age group, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:58 PM
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Because all the major religions and cultures in the world believe in some form of fairness and justice that everything that happens, is as it should be. Karma, heaven and hell, all that. If you're a good person you earned it if you're a bad person you deserve bad things to happen to you. People don't want to admit that life isn't fair and is often random and due to chance more than just the result of our individual life choices. When you look at the reality that there is and for the foreseeable …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:39 PM
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Unless you have low testosterone you don't need juice to get a body women are attracted to. A lot of it also has to do with being lean to show your facial structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:06 PM
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Was he hot or mid tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:57 PM
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He said that when his wife left them, his friends wives had problems with their husband's helping him. And single men are mostly part of social circles of other single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:08 PM
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I'm saying you're dead wrong, having a casual conversation with women is not the same as dating/hooking up. It might make you feel like you know something about dating and like you've still got it to chat up random women but unless you're bringing them to bed you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:07 PM
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In bigger friends groups nobody is close with everyone and someone hates someone else and there's always arguments and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:06 PM
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His entrance to the circle in the first place was that he already had a woman. It's a known thing that society is more welcoming to partnered men, because partnered men expects less from society and contributes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:04 PM
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Big social circles don't like having single dudes in them. Single girls are accepted though, and they mostly don't date dudes in their circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:01 PM
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There's a big difference between going to say New York City and Kansas City.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:58 PM
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Enough with the gaslighting. There's a lot of social double standards men face and we don't need more people trying to bury that fact with useless platitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:48 PM
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Overall, the younger generation is socially stunted, but younger women are more so. Young women are especially undisciplined, not hard working, unempathetic and full of disdain for others. But they are more easily accepted for their shortcomings by virtue of being young women. Young men have to prove themselves to be considered worthy of others time. In order for young men to be accepted, they have to go out of their way to be all the things most women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:45 PM
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For every guy that is afraid to approach, there is more than enough guys "shooting their shot." and there's a big difference between a girl being open to conversation and actually being attracted to you and hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:36 PM
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You mean you want to be the person who is less invested in the relationship so that the power imbalance is in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:58 PM
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You mean you don't want men to treat you the way you treat them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:50 PM
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You mean you don't want to lose the upper hand that you have as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:23 PM
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Feminism isn't equality. That's egalitarianism. The name implies exactly what it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:06 AM
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One of the reasons I am averse to relationships is that pretty much all women want a "boyfriend" or "husband", but they don't want to be good partners and go through men like tissue paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:05 AM
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He's also black, the degeneracy of America started with the African American community. White people were just late to the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:38 PM
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By American standards she's hot but by Vietnamese standards she's slightly above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:34 PM
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You and other people would like having like minded people. No matter how much people act like they prefer having few/little friends, they all need some amount of social interaction to keep them sane, and that also applies to romantic ones. Maybe you don't need a marriage with kids or a live in partner, but if you found another similarly antisocial person who had the same desire for a non serious relationship that you do then you would prefer that to not having anyone. But your own antisocial nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:30 PM
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Doing well in your 30s means you likely are in great shape and not broke. You're more established and have more time and the means to date more easily than when you were younger, unless you were a star athlete or trust fund baby. When you're in college you're competing with tons of high value dudes even though they tell you it's supposed to be the best time of your life for dating. Most guys in college still have to work on their physique, looks, style, and their career, they won't have as much …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:50 PM
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I'm seeing this too. The conversation around age gaps is just bitter girls shaming men for having the opportunity to explore options and make them settle down sooner. I get older but the age of girls interested in me is the same, however girls who have lots of debt and have to work to pay rent start becoming more interested in settling down, usually around the ages you mentioned. Girls who are more jaded and have less to offer are more "selective" because most men aren't financially suitable for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:44 PM
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A white person who lives in Europe where the sun doesn't shine 90% of the year can look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:20 PM
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A lot of famous people get convicted and more often than not they actually did it. But there have been many famous cases of average Joe's who go to college and were falsely accused whose lives get ruined, and in real life I have seen many times where a guy is falsely accused and the excessive power the police state exerts over them all because a girl cried wolf (some of the girls even admit they lied about it, like a spiteful girl who was dumped by her boyfriend) and as a young guy I would have …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:19 PM
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Lots of injuries and deaths at my college happened from hazing. Some of the worst assholes I've seen in college were frat boys but it's funny because they still had girls coming to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:48 PM
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The negative reputation frats have doesn't change the fact that plenty of girls go for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:46 PM
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He's fat with facial hair and thin hair. And I'm older than him and don't have lines the way he does in a photo when I raise my forehead the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:38 PM
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I slur = incel r word = rapists bc in this sub they are used to stigmatize men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:06 PM
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The average 45 year old white person does look like a 60 year old compared to other races tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:06 PM
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That guys an exremely bad example. He looks like a 40+ new dad. But that 22 year old looks 30+ and tons of white kids look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:59 AM
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Dude you need to get off the internet and work on your self esteem and sexual guilt. Your post history reeks of why you're still a virgin and you badly need to heal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:54 AM
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These days you have more coomers than the I slur and R word. If anything so many men are highly motivated to work hard because they have a high sex drive and no outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:52 AM
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I said this same thing in a much nicer way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:50 AM
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A lot of guys talk about sex amongst one another, but a guy who would insult you for being a virgin is not your friend. Most conversations with guys are pretty easy going and in a lot of circles guys are even accepting of virgins. Girls might not judge you to your face, but things would be very different if you were trying to be romantically involved with them. Girls judge men's performance in the bedroom very harshly, and the reason girls are stereotyped as being gossipy more than men is becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:49 AM
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The other day there was a girl with a double digit body count under 25 saying women shouldn't be judged for their body counts in this sub.Her post history was crazy, talking about having bipolar and seeing posts ranging from her severe self esteem and fear of abandonment and then to erotica about her getting fucked by a tall bearded jacked younger guy she just met at a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:39 AM
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There are some people (I've seen more dudes tbh) who have tons of visible Grey's at 18. On the other hand some people don't grey at all until their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:15 AM
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Personally I've seen more women whose faces look young into their 50s, but their bodies sag even if thin. Men it's the opposite, their bodies hold up better because of the muscle mass but they usually won't be thin. But most of the time, I see way more guys in their 30s and 40s overall who look younger than their age than women in their 30s and 40s who look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:11 AM
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He looks like he could be in his 40s, he's not a good example. On the other hand I've seen guys in their mid 30s who look younger than the 22 year old OP showed us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:08 AM
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I see plenty of 22 year old white kids who already have forehead wrinkles and crows feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:07 AM
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How tall are you? If you're lifting the same weight, I would imagine you as a shorter guy would look more built than him. Just IME the guys who have the holy trifecta (height face and build, I guess hair too maybe) seem to have the best luck, if you're built and handsome I'm not sure why there'd be such a disparity between you two. I get picked over a lot of guys who are taller and more built than me (6'1+) but average looking in the face. Its pretty rare for really short (5'5) to do well with g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:53 PM
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This is what I see from women. All want tall built chiseled men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:46 PM
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You know now that I think about it as an average height man I think it's mostly insecure 6'+ guys who comment on my height and with girls (even girls my height or slightly taller) it's never once been an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:20 AM
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If he's getting that much attention he's also probably pretty good looking/muscular otherwise, height alone is a plus but definitely isn't the full story.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:18 AM
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You know I want to say as someone under 6' that height isn't as big a deal as black pillers say it is, but I see so many people on the internet that know many mythical "chadlets", and frankly I have rarely met a guy who is very short and fairly successful with girls (emphasis on rarely) to the point its disingenuous to say that height isn't a fairly important factor in dating. Being tall is an advantage, being average sized is default, and being much shorter than average (in the west 5'6 and und…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:16 AM
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That's most women these days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:23 PM
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This. If women want to screw around and rack up scores of partners that's fine, but they shouldn't wonder why marriage minded men who didn't rack up bodies would prefer a woman with more similar values and lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:20 PM
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I don't think more men care about self improvement, I just think that the difference between those who do and those who don't are more extreme. Guys today are using steroids, hair regrowth medication, and doing more than ever because they have to compete. But overall more of the population is obese, fewer men can afford their own place or have a decent paying job, and now there's a growing group of guys who just refuse to participate in the system altogether. I have realized awhile ago and now i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:11 AM
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That's nearly 1 in 3 men, what would you call it if we hit 40% or 50% in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:43 AM
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Keyword is attractive. Women are much harsher about men's looks than the other way around. Girls always have options, men often go long periods of time between them. Comparing naturally forming relationships between transactional and often illegal activities is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:13 AM
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It's like I said, social circles are dying. You're more likely to meet a girl at some concert than from a friend of a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:33 PM
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Same to you, and get a grammar book.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:20 PM
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Where do such women exist. It feels like 90% of the time even when girls hookup they want to trap a guy in a relationship still
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:46 PM
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Cold approach works better than social circle in most cases, unless you're very well connected. Social circles are dying out these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:31 AM
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Whatever guy is with you is definitely not the winner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:51 AM
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This applies to women as well. Key phrases like misogyny, the male gaze, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:24 PM
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No I am agreeing with you! I am quoting someone above you who was saying that they met high earners at a bar and implied that means they are meeting high quality people. But as you pointed out, bars are full of alcoholics. and as I mentioned, a lot of high earners that are alcoholics are still alcoholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:05 PM
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They said "I ’ve met tons of men and women who make 100k+ and are well adjusted people in these sorts of venues. " And I'm pointing out many high earners are functional alcoholics, doesn't make them a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:10 PM
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Most men are not as sociopathic as women are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:57 PM
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This is why they say not to listen to women for advice about women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:55 PM
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"Yall like I wanna be treated like a queen BITCH you better act like one" - Hopsin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:44 PM
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Exactly. Most women with high body counts seem to be tinderellas who are severely mentally ill who just don't understand why they keep getting pumped and dumped but refuse to change the way they approach dating. The vast majority of the time extremely promiscuous behavior is tied to problematic personality traits and non sexual behavior. I know one obese, unpleasant, stupid, etc pretty much every negative trait in the book in one girl who racked up 25+ bodies in one year on Tinder letting all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:06 PM
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Dating apps are a scam. From my experience and others you are much more likely to meet girls in person even in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:14 PM
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My friend started doing a dance class. He said 8 out of 10 people are girls and half the guys are gay. He was talking to a girl near him and she gave him her number after class.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:13 PM
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Plenty of high earners are functional alcoholics, to counteract the above persons point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:11 PM
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It's ironic because sometimes it feels like in recent years there is a greater obsession with virginity and prudishness is on the rise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:10 PM
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People keep bringin up sexual dysfunction. What age is that happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:30 PM
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What age does the ED thing happen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:27 PM
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Correction: women don't need to step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:42 PM
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That sounds like some boomer pull yourself up by your bootstraps bunk. Just blindly ignoring reality and thinking you can do anything if you just put your mind to it. And then you go on and make exaggerated comparisons. Fact of the matter is most men are never gonna be charismatic or good looking enough (nor in a good location) to make meeting girls in public places viable. Other means like school or extended social circles would be. I have seen how easy it is for a vindictive girl to get her ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:29 PM
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Good for you. Nobody is saying it's impossible, but 1) the standards for a "cold approach" are definitely higher than meeting girls outside that. Like the OP mentioned, he's talking about average guys. 2) unless you're talking about shitty minimum wage jobs full of aimless druggie and alcoholics, most workplaces that require an investment in education and skills actively discourage it, and the stakes are higher. Meaning that they care more about "sexual harassment" and if a workplace relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:31 PM
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I didn't read OP but this isnt what I think most people mean when they say workplace romances are taboo. If you're working a shit restaurant or retail job it's common to hook up with coworkers. It's low stakes and nobody cares. But the kind of careers where people invest a lot of money and time into a college degree and spend years to get raises and promotions are very different, and this is what most people likely mean. Some job at a gym where I'm paid $16 an hour? Sure. A job as a lawyer makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:20 PM
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I made a comment before but men in their 20s are like women in their 40s in terms of desirability - it's the age where they struggle the most to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:33 PM
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Seeing women act exactly the way the redpill describes them before even knowing redpill is what redpilled me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:28 PM
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I mean most girls eventually learn men are horny, but somehow don't want to recognize that the way they are dressing is literally provocative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:26 PM
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This is depressing. I have a couple of friends like this and wonder if they are doomed to being a virgin forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:22 PM
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A girl that thinks that has to be truly ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:19 PM
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Maybe you should... Touch grass like everyone tells men here to do.. And actually approach guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:17 PM
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Girls would take a downright ugly overweight 6'2 guy over a good looking under 5'5 guy the vast majority of the time. The difference between 6'2 and say 5'9 isn't really that dramatic so that might be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:15 PM
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Average is mediocre. Most guys failing at dating is the average, not the exception. All those TV sitcoms where completely average dudes are hooking up with a new model every episode is just fiction. There is a big difference between the guys who don't even try, who are short and ugly and just play video games and watch porn all day and never leave their room, and guys who go out and are ambitious and actively trying to meet people, and people who go out and are actually successful in meeting peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:13 PM
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I think it would have been more accurate to say that most people are not very unique looking and have typical features for their ethnicity. For example most Chinese men are going to have relatively the same eyes, nose, skin tone, proportions etc as the vast majority of other Chinese men and only so many like Yao Ming will have standout characteristics like his huge frame while the rest of them blend into a crowd. Same thing for White women, black men, etc. Even more broadly, someone withing your…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:57 PM
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This is spot on. A failed relationship has every much to do with the other person and not just you. Some people are bad partners no matter who they are with, if you end up with one then it doesn't matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:49 PM
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It's not so much that the majority of men will never reproduce or have the opportunity to reproduce at all, but that in order to do so for most men that means entering relationships where they are treated poorly or with women who feel like they are settling for them and end up miserable anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:46 PM
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Body language and a look on your face that looks like you will kill the next person who comes near you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:52 AM
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You realize you just gave a justification for OPs point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:13 AM
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You're probably like most women at clubs, unapproachable and unfriendly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:51 AM
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If you didn't fuck those guys shorter than you everything you said is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:14 AM
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How can you be a 6'3 virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:13 AM
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The vast majority of "ladies men" I have known are 6'2 or taller. Few under 5'9 and only one really short one around 5'5 or shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:12 AM
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Not just short, but average height guys. The vast majority of men are 5'7-5'11, actual 6' guys or taller are actually a small percentage of men. When I see most younger couples the vast majority of the time the guy is at least 6'2 if not much taller. Regardless of race this is only 1-10% of men. In a richer area this is likely much higher, I can only guess but it seems more like 25%-33%. IRL most guys I see struggle are below 5'10 and I myself around 5'9 get a lot of attention because I am facia…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:05 AM
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It's crazy how much girls worship height. I see fat ugly 6'2 dudes that do better than 5'7 thin decent looking dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:56 AM
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You misunderstood. I don't actively go out of my way to only date younger, but it usually ends up happening that more younger girls are interested in me than girls around 25+, since they are looking for much more serious relationships or marriage and I am just not there yet. A lot of older 40+ women are interested too who are past that stage in life but I'm generally not interested. I don't necessarily like the idea of being with a girl that has a long history and being the last guy who gets to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:41 AM
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I can't speak to the other guys, but Will Smith is one of the wealthiest, most successful actors of all time who had dozens of lead roles type casted as a macho stud with the peak of his career lasting at least 15+ years. He had apparently really gotten around during those years and apparently was an actual sex addict, so I am sure that promiscuity is something that he wouldnt mind in his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:53 AM
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Tldr it negatively affected things between us. Most guys who are ready to settle down young either slept around a lot already or they are religious. The most common issue I always hear between couples and from others talking about dating is that girls always want more from the relationship and want to take things further while guys are not ready. The reason for this is that girls start getting attention much sooner and have experience much younger. I would say that the average difference is easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:39 AM
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1) engineering is much more mentally and time consuming - it takes up a lot of energy outside of core work hours. In construction work stays at work. Same goes for engineering college curriculums generally being the most demanding. 2) a lot of engineers are abnormally short, ugly, poorly groomed, etc. It isn't surprising that I knew a guy who was living at home in his late 20s, was a 5'4 pudgy Asian guy who couldn't even be damned to shave his chin pubes, and was still a virgin. If he shaved, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:00 AM
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I think most people are miserable in general. Haven't seen a non miserable spinster, but being married and having kids wouldn't make them a happy and pleasant person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:19 PM
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Definitely a lot of average dudes who won't settle for average chicks and only want hot ones. It's fine to have standards but in this environment beggars can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:17 PM
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That's your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:56 AM
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Guys are definitely more private in general about social media, so I understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:54 AM
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You don't even know about basics of women's biology, 36 is hardly perimenopausal. You take everything so literally, are you neurodivergent or a non native english speaker? But that's neither here nor there - are you, in fact, someone who's extremely bitter because he can't be in a relationship? There's a difference between can't and don't want to be Mine is great tbh. I have a fantastic sex life, but this red pill shit is a cancer and I'm doing my part to challenge it ;) So you're a self righteo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:57 AM
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my dad also tells me every now and then to find a girl in Poland Might still be viable today, but I don't know a lot enough about Poland to say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:54 AM
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Female confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:22 AM
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The first girl I was with expected me to have 4-5 already
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:21 AM
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This why they say not to tell women you're inexperienced. Women generally get around a lot more than men, by mid 20s most decent looking girls have double digit body counts if they aren't married yet. Meanwhile most guys don't have that much experience. The first girl I was with was younger than me but more experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:16 AM
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Attractive women do approach believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:31 PM
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I WANT guys like you to think I'm insane. You are not the type of individual who's validation on my comments or views is what I'm looking for, quite the opposite, the fact that you have such problems with my views is indicative of the fact that I'm *right*. I can say the same to you queen And am I wrong? Are they wrong? Are you NOT a bitter loser who can't get girls? The obsession that a perimenopausal woman on a 1 month old reddit account has with a younger dude's sex life is really creepy. Say…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:26 PM
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Do you have a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:12 PM
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Do you have a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:12 PM
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or they're simply jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:01 PM
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What OP is saying tons of guys with gfs it will be obvious they are together but on the gfs page it is not obvious because she hides him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:48 PM
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It definitely isn't. LinkedIn isn't very useful beyond applying for jobs, and even then it's dogshit for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:46 PM
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Your comment made it click in my head why it's so hard to date as a man. Women have way more options and control in their dating lives no matter who they are or where they are, while men do not have a lot of universal or general advice that broadly applies to them. Think of older men who have been with a lot of women versus the ones who have been with the same woman forever. The first man might be able to help you meet women and sleep with them, but not how to keep a relationship with one for li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:38 PM
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One of my older relatives thinks that online dating is like ordering stuff from Amazon and that it would be easy to line up dates and pull girls from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:15 PM
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Because women nearly universally date older men. And it's very clear to see that many older women get extremely jealous of younger women for their youth and the attention they get from it. "I had fun and took advantage of the attention I got when I was young but you should be more responsible and do as I say not as I do!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:11 PM
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A lot of them are. I never see women here who are happily married and have families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:07 PM
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Why does your avatar have a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:16 PM
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36 and in a wonderful relationship, and that's what I bet probably kills guys like you the most Don't really care that much. Good for you though, let me know when the wedding and kids come along. you're still left lonely as fuck with your dick in your hand. These callused hands can't really do much in that regard I sincerely doubt this sub even aligns with your views, because the majority of men on here have an huge fear of being used for their financials and the majority don't WANT to be a prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:59 AM
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The founder of the eugenics movement was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:20 AM
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As if men don't sacrifice a lot for the sake of society and women? There's a reason men are "opting out" of society now. Below is my response to a similar comment: Women have an unprecedented level of freedom, privilege, and entitlement today to walk outside naked and talk down on men publicly and receive praise for it. Anything less than that is now "sexual slavery" apparently. Society once had checks and balances for men and women that placed certain expectations and societal norms for them to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:11 PM
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There are more than 2 options, no need to jump the gun there. Women have an unprecedented level of freedom, privilege, and entitlement today to walk outside naked and talk down on men publicly and receive praise for it. Anything less than that is now "sexual slavery" apparently. Society once had checks and balances for men and women that placed certain expectations and societal norms for them to follow. Men wouldn't go around the way they do pumping and dumping and abandoning their kids now, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:09 PM
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I think that everyone would ideally want to be partnered up. People who stay single have mostly just given up. This seems clear to me from seeing older people who are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:56 PM
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This is a very individualistic western mentality. You wouldn't exist if women before you thought this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:23 PM
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It's a mental issue. Most women are like kids in a Candy store with infinite options. But they are so picky that they can't decide on just one option, or want to try all the options and get a toothache. Women generally have a ton of suitors, women who are always single are either way older women who aged out of their options and let the candy store run low on stock or they're just women who are never satisfied with what they can get and so "never settle", or whatever excuse they have to disguise…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:18 PM
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they are competing with the single life, which for women is often pretty good. I don't think I've met more miserable women than ones who are permanently single. For most women, at least while young, being single means still having the option to enter a relationship or hookup whenever they want, and they will still get constant attention from men to keep them from feeling lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:57 AM
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A man with the same mentality would be called a manchild, but all women are children so there's not equivalent for womanchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:46 AM
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A growing group of men who feel angry at the fact that they aren't getting their fair shake is never good for society Women's main role is to birth and raise children. Men's main role is to take care of them and endure hardship on their behalf. Now we have a society focused on enriching a small exclusive club of people where most men are still expected to take care of everyone else but they get no reward for it, and many are opting out of participating instead of being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:44 AM
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Women don’t care. We’ve had to sacrifice sexually for all of human history by being with men we don’t find attractive. You had one job Let the birth rate go down. Let lazy and entitled white people fall off the face of the Earth and make more room for brown people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:41 AM
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An average woman is not a queen, but thinks she deserves to be treated like one. Since the average man is not prince charming she refuses to take what she can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:39 AM
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There are some genuinely spiteful dudes out there, but it pales in comparison to the misandry that has been normalized in mainstream discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:15 PM
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It's just one example. And big is relative, if you have a baseball bat in your pants it might be obvious. But is 7 inches really enough to punch her cervix and make her scream? These types of things would be especially confusing for a younger dude who has heard even from Hollywood movies about coke bottle dicks and 8 inches+.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:06 PM
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The problem with white lies is that I feel like women do it so much that you begin to question what she really thinks about you. If she does it very frequently then it feels like you are just being settled for. And whether or not she even likes you. For example, if a girl has smaller boobs than my ideal, I know that won't make me like or enjoy her body any less, but I know I wouldn't communicate that or make comments on her body. But if a girl tells my I have a big dick, I don't know whether she…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:05 PM
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My first and second boyfriends had dicks thicker than my wrist, and one was exceptionally huge and perfectly shaped. This is always hard to imagine but then I remember that women have considerably smaller wrists than men Boyfriends 3 and 4 insisted that I must be a virgin for reasons, until each discovered how tall and huge my first two boyfriends were. (Well over six feet) I don’t miss any of them and resent the hell out of their insecurity. Insecure in what way? That you had bigger boyfriends?…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:54 PM
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In small cities people pair off young. Extra guys that aren't already hitched or in a relationship are SOL because theres no girls to meet. At least in slightly bigger cities where people are more open to meeting strangers these guys have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:34 AM
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Major cities and probably the areas adjacent, not just directly in those cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:21 AM
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Most Americans outside these areas are content with a slower quality of life, including a less active dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:17 AM
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Tempe is not a small city. It's more like medium. And I know a guy who went to ASU who only hooked up with one ethnic chick 5'2 and 220+ lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:11 AM
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Living in a small city is really not great as a guy either. It seems like mid to slightly larger cities are better, but I haven't lived in an extremely big city so it's hard to say. It seems that no matter what women have options regardless of city size from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:04 AM
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Men's looks definitely peak later (developing muscle mass, growing more facial and body hair) and are easier to maintain longer. Women's looks decline sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:26 PM
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Girls have more experience with the opposite sex at the same age. Girls date guys their age and older and don't generally like going younger. Even if not a 10 year or even just 5 year gap, the vast majority of girls are open to 2-3 years older. When guys are about 18-20 this means a lot of guys are left with fewer options. In high school younger girls were interested in me, but I was 18 and they were 14 so that wouldn't have worked out for obvious reasons. But in college when I was a junior and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:23 PM
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So you're saying find women after their hoe phase not before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:07 PM
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It's funny how subtle their signals are. I was sitting next to my friend on a train where a girl across from me was eye fucking me hard and moving closer to me. I mentioned it to my friend and he didn't even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:19 PM
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Very few women are as blunt as the ones OP mentioned, even if they're attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:16 PM
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Reddit is a widely popular site, unfortunately a non significant proportion of women irl are female redditors. But I agree not to take what they say here seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:10 PM
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Are you really a 38 year old virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:25 PM
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Today at least we now have tons of content pushing back against the misandry of the 2010s, but today the misandry has really gone full force
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:13 AM
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There's nowhere in the US I don't see asian women with white boyfriends everywhere, except in Hawaii.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:12 AM
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I think that didn't have to do with the overall dating culture so much and more that Asian Americans as a whole hadn't been as accepted. Now they have more generational wealth and things like anime, kpop, even bollywood has made Americans fascinated with Eastern cultures and at least more young people are open to it. Its sad when I think of older Asian men's experience compared to now it was definitely a lot worse, my friends dad who is in his 60s and still ripped struggled dating in his youth a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:51 AM
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They can't complain irl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:30 PM
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Women are manipulative no matter what part of the world they are from. That's just in womens nature. At least a non American woman has upsides too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:28 PM
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Some people deserve the receiving end of my toxicity. Some people don't. So yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:30 PM
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That's what I mean. It's dog eat dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:29 PM
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This was just one group of people. He had plenty of other friends besides that group, too. They are pushovers, but you don't need to feel bad for everyone. Some were decent dudes whose kindness was taken for granted, others were enablers - they wouldn't call out his bad behavior because they like him, but would have no problem calling me out for minor details, as an example, as they didn't care about me personally like they did for him. They would never call him out for anything problematic that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:28 AM
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There's a reason there's a stereotype of napoleon complex. Small guys have to avoid getting trampled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:49 AM
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He's ugly af, but JBW I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:48 AM
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This is why I didn't bother to answer. You're only interested in having a one way conversation and being "right". You haven't even given a counterargument or definition of masculinity yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:54 AM
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You asked for the difference between the two, not the definition. It's been talked about to death especially in this sub, but a man who is masculine is in control of his emotions, is a leader, competent, looks manly and not feminine, and serves as a good role model and benefactor to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:40 AM
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This guy is a real version of the wojack meme
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:37 AM
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The difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity today is that - Everybody today expects men to be masculine, men and especially women alike. But toxic masculinity is shaming language used to diminish the reward that men get for being masculine so that both men who are not masculine enough stay in their lane and that men who are masculine fulfill their expected roles without expecting anything in return (so that others can take advantage of them).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:30 AM
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Are people supposed to know who those people are? They are talked a lot about on reddit. You can do a quick google search too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:04 AM
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I agree one hundred percent. I had a few friends in a group. There was a specific guy who was problematic and had something against me, but towards the others he was still a dick and pushed boundaries. The difference between them and me is that they liked him and thought he was cool, and they tolerated his bs even though it bothered them. I didn't tolerate it one bit. The most toxic trait he had was his superiority complex and he thought he was better than everyone and deserved special treatment…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:20 AM
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If you're "toxic masculine" and you look like Kyle Rittenhouse women won't go for you. If you're west elm Caleb it won't matter how much damage you do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:02 AM
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Being toxic isn't binary. Pretty much everyone has toxic traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:55 AM
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You can definitely see the effects of this on each generation of women becoming lower and lower quality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:49 AM
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I would consider it middle class if that's between two people, because that's just average in the states (a man making say $42k and his wife making $33k would be average) and that between the two working 40 hours a week with 2 weeks off a year that quality of life is decent but not great. $75k as a single earner is great, since that can reasonably afford nice cars, clothes, vacations, retirement, etc and a mortgage on a decent house in some parts of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:47 PM
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Most "milfs" in porn are still 35 or younger. And absolutely do not look like the average woman their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:27 AM
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Inherited wealth goes much further, and most people studying stem do it because it can make their kids rich some day. True upper middle class is generations of wealth that have accumulated and appreciated, which most stem lords do not have, especially because most of those fields are not as mature. I know families who are upper middle class who inherited plantation money, and of course they justify why they deserve their wealth. None of those people study stem, they just study whatever they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:25 AM
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It's really a matter of luck, but more often than not clubs/bars are packed with dudes. Once in awhile when the stars align there might suddenly be a decent ratio of girls in a venue but ive gone out enough to say most places you go anywhere in the west young single guys significantly outnumber women and you're likely to be surrounded by them on a night out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:09 AM
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Middle class but not truly upper middle class. The old money 6'2 born with a silver spoon in their mouth good old boy types will go into finance, law, etc. Stem is mostly immigrants and their kids who were educated and middle class from where they came from but not wealthy by American standards who make most of their wealth by working. Guys who are extremely short, unathletic, autistic, antisocial, poorly groomed etc tend to go into stem and similarly for most of the girls too tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:03 AM
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Above average in intelligence yes, above average in other ways, not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:42 AM
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There are more men than women in the world under age 50, when all the men prematurely dying evens the ratio out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:25 AM
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Blue collar work, physical labor in retail jobs, many many many fields are male dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:24 AM
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It's not dating apps, it's social media and texting. Women don't even need dating apps most of the time to find people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:38 AM
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That's everywhere. Women get into more exclusive house parties and most men are excluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:36 AM
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I only recently noticed that a lot of these powerlifting fatsos who look like crap basically just "cheat" instead of being actually strong. To be honest, I've known like 1 guy, probably 5'6 or 5'7 at 165 lbs to bench 315 without being fat. Every other guy in the 300+ club I've seen is quite fat, often obese. But the lean guy looked jacked. So you're probably on to something, because of underdeveloped tris (tricep extensions give me discomfort) I've had a poverty press for a long time (I can stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:56 PM
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A fat guy that has good genetics will still look like he lifts, because their traps, shoulders, back, and arms and entire upper body should still show under the fat and the added size will look good, especially if like in my case I still have significant vascularity at higher body fat. There are guys that pause bench 225 for reps and squat 405 for reps but still look small at a high bodyfat, that's just bad genetics. They cut down and look even smaller. Guys that are close to maxing their streng…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:11 PM
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Fat guys with good genetics would at least look like they lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:39 PM
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They're worried about a market correction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:21 AM
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Right but it's another explanation for what a lot of people here claim, which aligns to my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 AM
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Most people do have the genetics to gain a minimum of 30lbs of muscle. Fair enough. However I have seen a fair enough amount of guys who have been lifting for years, bench 300-405+ lbs, and still don't look like they lift to say that some people just don't have the genetics for aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 AM
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Is that the largest word in your vocabulary?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:07 AM
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It's weird that what TRP preaches is very consistent with my life experience. You see people matched with their own "SMV," or people with similar value. 20s girls with 30s guys (when men and women are at their highest value) and 20s guys with 40s women (when men and women are at their lowest value). I've known plenty of college girls dating or sleeping with guys in their mid to late 30s, and definitely many that are in their late teens with guys 5+ years older. The age gaps between younger men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:05 AM
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I’ve never met a guy that has multiple women all thinking they are in a committed relationship though which is what people are implying when citing this study. Sometimes the guy himself isn't pretending to be in a relationship. The girl assumes that they are in a relationship because they're sleeping together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:53 AM
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Hes extremely fit. Something everyone can do, but youre all just too lazy to do it. Goes back to my self improvement argument. Most people will never get extremely fit. As someone with visibly vascular arms and a prominent V taper that shows in clothes and who has gone to several gyms on and off for years now most people will never stay consistent long enough nor have the genetics for it without steroids to ever get an impressive physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:44 AM
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The question you're not asking is what do the girls look like.... but OP said below that his friend is jacked, and also 5'7" isn't that short either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:37 AM
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If you can't figure out how to not be poor and unhealthy and ugly Can't tell if you're playing along or serious anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:08 AM
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Height isn't even the best example of sexual dimorphism. A muscular big boned 5'7 man with thick facial hair and big hands absolutely is more sexually dimorphic than a 6'2 fine boned smooth faced man with small hands. Not to mention penis size isn't always correlated to height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:12 PM
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Not people, just women. It's amazing how frequently I've seen men empathize with womens struggles, but never in my life have I seen women have any sympathy for men's struggles or even recognize they exist. And on top of this most women demonize men for complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:07 PM
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I can think of two guys off the top of my head, both have very active social lives. The one who is more extroverted and confident hasn't had a gf in years but the other guy, who is very shy with girls, has been with a bunch of girls from the same friend group. The first guy is a <5'5" Asian dude and the second one is a 6'3" white dude. The guy calling you delusional is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:47 PM
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You're right bro just pull yourself up by your bootstraps bro you can be a millionaire if you just stop drinking $10 Starbucks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:45 PM
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This is wrong. I've known obese women who have no problems dating. Age seems to be a bigger factor against women tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:22 AM
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Seeing your comments it's not surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:51 AM
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I wish the taken girls would ditch girls nights. It's annoying to approach a group of girls and half of them have boyfriends. Younger girls this Gen blur the line on boundaries way more than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:50 AM
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And why men in their 30s can play the field and not commit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:44 AM
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No wonder why your ex didn't want kids with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:46 PM
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More effort than you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:32 AM
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That's just not true. The majority of people let themselves go
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:37 PM
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Don't see that either, but I do see black dudes trying to sell random stuff like shoe polish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:08 PM
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1) often the unkempt messy couple looked better when they were younger and got together. Now they're gross and not attracted to each other 2) being in a marriage or relationship like the average person is not a desirable outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:05 PM
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That's blue pill af
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:03 PM
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I don't see this at my mall ever.,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:00 PM
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It is weird because you put words in my mouth and assumed my meaning from my comment. Its relevant because it gives new information about our narrator above which is contradictory to what we initially knew about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:43 PM
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I hate seeing responses to well thought out comments that boil down to "yeah, but no." Overall, the vast majority of people these days NEVER leave with someone they didn't come with, and only a small % of people leave with someone they just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:00 PM
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Because dudes outnumber girls in nightclubs by a wide margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:54 PM
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And you think I have a problem with reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:31 PM
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It's funny how in this sub tons of women use insults and mean language but aren't crucified for it the way men are? You wouldn't call me stupid to my face so don't be a keyboard warrior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:30 PM
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I answered your question. Your put words in my mouth and assumed my meaning from my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:28 PM
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You making baseless assumptions as a response to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:08 PM
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It's weird that you wanna see it that way, all I am pointing out is that it is weird that someone's nsfw account decided to make a post about how they have deep childhood sexual trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:34 PM
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Quite interesting to see a post talking about sexual harassment and then seeing topless selfies and rape fantasies on their profile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:35 AM
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$70k and destroying my legs to be 6 feet tall. When you put it that way it actually sounds less crazy tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:12 PM
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Schrodingers chadlet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:09 PM
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NSFW TMI Graphic I am circumcised, but somehow most of my foreskin is intact and the most sensitive areas like the frenulum are still there. Apparently for some people it gets nearly all removed and they don't have all of the frenulum. But maybe I was lucky to have a female doctor who was inexperienced and left me with enough foreskin to cover my head. The little fold under the head that looks like the underside of your tongue is called the frenulum and is the most sensitive part and connects th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:03 PM
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Mother's are the ones making the choice to mutilate their sons and single moms are more likely to do so. Women have low empathy for men, even their own sons. https://thegrio.com/2013/08/22/fewer-parents-circumcising-boys/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:25 PM
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The US is the only place where non religious circumcision is the norm. The kind of doctors that perform circumcisions are generalists, which are very well represented with women in the US. Any part of the world that performed female circumcision is getting rid of the practice and rightfully calls it genital mutilation, but men do not get the same benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:43 AM
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That's horrible that it was pushed on your son that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:43 AM
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You mean doctors who could be either male or female? And don't make me laugh, as if there aren't more male advocates decrying male circumcision than female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:01 AM
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You implied I am emotional and have poor reading comprehension, neither of which are true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:45 AM
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Now you are insulting me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:07 AM
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You just insulted guys in stem and I told you women in stem are just as lame. OK then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:45 AM
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Stem women are just as lame as stem guys but don't think they are because of the 10 to 1 ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:24 AM
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This explains everything about you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:57 AM
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Old boys club = older white guys gatekeeping. Everyone in the corporate sector naturally sticks to their own and this is an unspoken rule, except when women do it we're supposed to be OK with that and let them trample over us while telling us they are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:39 AM
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Not at all. See tons of (white) girl bosses who band together and demand hand outs I mean recognition for existing I mean their hard work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:26 AM
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90% of my teachers were Karen's. It's not surprising that Karen is the #1 student today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:22 AM
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You beat me to the punch. She's delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:19 AM
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Who pierces baby girls ears? Their moms. And this is pretty insignificant compared to circumcision of baby boys. Most of your other arguments are bunk too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:18 AM
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Florida is a bit different, especially Miami
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:06 AM
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Sex work is worse than regular work. You are giving up your body for something made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:59 AM
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Yep, it's actually closer to a 1.5% difference in the US in the 18-39 demographic, which means 1.4 million more men than women. Also consider that the percentages are more skewed towards men in younger ages and women usually date the same age or older and it isn't until I believe 45-50 where women start to have an even ratio and the trend reverses. Also consider that gender ratios are even more skewed based on geography, for example the further west you go in the US the more male it is skewed. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:23 AM
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A relatively above average for an older woman is still less attractive than a relatively below average younger woman. Older women are thirsty for a reason, only a small percentage of older women are attractive, especially white women who don't get cosmetic work done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:21 PM
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Because you are obese
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:17 PM
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The west doesn't deplore them at all, there's just more competition for lower quality and quantity rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:47 PM
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Wouldn't be surprised to see something similar in the world. Don't know for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:10 PM
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You're wrong. Less than half of the US population work full time and women often work fewer hours at lower paying lower stress jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:14 AM
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Some men would take the hug but some men would try for more lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:24 PM
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My experience is that it takes a pretty long time for her to get off from penetration, if she's on top it's much easier. I don't know if overstimulation from sex toys makes it harder but I would imagine if most guys don't have the quick refractory period and stamina like I do then it would be hard for women to meet guys that can last long enough to satisfy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:20 PM
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It's honestly shocking to me how many guys I've known in their 20s with ED issues. I think that's the most insidious part about porn and masturbating. Porn is an artificial stimulus that makes guys excited play with themselves an unnatural amount and that affects their ability to have actual healthy sex lives outside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:09 PM
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Men have less and less to gain from approaching and the idea of having to "win" over a woman is not appealing when there's hardly a prize worth finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:16 AM
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The wall is pretty real. From talking to older women (40s,50s) who are not former models, it's not easy to date at that age. I think older women and younger men getting together is becoming more common, but it seems to me it's really more because those groups have similar "smv" so to speak. Girls in their 20s are very frequently with guys 5 to 10 years older (you usually can't tell just by looking) and visible age gaps with older men are definitely still more common than visible age gaps with ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:21 AM
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In some countries, 13 year olds are doing calculus, working full time, picking up groceries, driving cars and motorcycles. In the US, many adults in their 20s are called kids, can't cook, can't clean, can't do dishes or laundry, don't work full time etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:54 AM
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Many of the women here are of the two x and FDS variety
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:43 AM
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That's funny because more cute straight girls are at gay clubs than regular ones
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:37 PM
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What clubs have less than a 12 to 1 male to female ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:22 PM
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I hate seeing virtue signaling comments like this because in real life that isn't the way you see girls choosing their partners. You mean to tell me you are the one special true unicorn snowflake fairytale princess that isn't like all the others?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:19 PM
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Men ages 18 to 39 outnumber women of the same age by 1.4 million. Everything you say is wrong, there's more than enough brainwashed men on a wild goose chase going to the gym and trying to become a millionaire for every "soft" man who jerks off to lesbian scissor porn in their moms basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:08 PM
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the vast majority of college students in the states today are commuters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:02 PM
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I've known too many basic girls partying and sleeping with extremely famous and rich guys for this to just be cope. They would rather be groupies for "high value men" than be in a relationship with an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:01 PM
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Who says they deserve to have their standards met? Nobody ever asks this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:57 PM
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Never been to Australia but I'm not surprised she's from LA. Guys are that way because the male competition is really stiff. Drinks are also way more expensive in the states, the equivalent of 25-30 AUD or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:51 PM
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You don't get the point? If all you wanna do is sit at home and play video games while getting high and eating chili cheese fries all day then that lifestyle is always there for you. There's only so much time to achieve goals like training for a competitive sport, becoming a millionaire, getting a ripped gym body, etc until you are too old and it's too late to reasonably start. Forget that second best time to plant a tree nonsense. If you want to go to a top tier university or sleep with models …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:16 AM
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This is like a 10 year old sentiment from NoFap, it's not an original thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:10 AM
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It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:56 AM
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"sex work is work." It's exploitation, pure and simple. And it's especially galling when progressives are super skeptical about modern employment but do a 180 when the job involves sex. lefties: A corporate job is oppression, but it's empowering when women go into six figure college debt for low paying corporate jobs to serve her boss rather than get married and serve her husband, but it's also oppressing how women don't get paid enough so they are forced to go empower themselves with sex work t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:29 PM
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What is more disheartening is seeing those people at the finish line and and they don't seem happy or satisfied at the end of the race.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:26 PM
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He is saying that life is too short not to explore everything it has to offer and to live an easy and simple life is a waste of the gift of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:25 PM
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You forgot Investment banking. Fields like accounting and tech have less in common than OP thinks with crypto scams and NBA contracts than high finance. High finance has a much higher ceiling than other fields, but is much more excusive due to gatekeeping, getting in is much more about luck and fitting in to a small subset than the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:24 PM
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Exactly. $180k in your 20s makes you a 1% earner but it doesn't make your life like a rockstar. Like I said above, you can't buy the time and carefree attitude someone who has never had to work for their money has even if they aren't billionaires or high earners themselves. The amount of time and energy it sucks out of you working full time in high earning fields and advanced education actually hurts with girls if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:20 PM
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OP doesn't realize that most salaried workers, even those making $100k-$500k aren't some kind of mystical unicorn. They are a small proportion of people, but a lot of us aren't living lives that are drastically different from the average joe. It takes inherited/generational wealth for that. It's very different when you have to work fulltime and build your own wealth from the ground up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:16 PM
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The reason the Hank Hills of the world can be happily mediocre is because they are vestiges of a bygone time when being mediocre actually earned you a respectable life. It's a much more precarious situation now. The reason most men that are attracted to the manosphere are so angry is probably because they weren't asking for much in the first place -- A decent, livable income, a nice normal family, an average partner that loves and respects them -- only to find that even those modest expectations…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:54 PM
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My question has nothing to do with libido, sex drive, or how difficult it might be to make that fantasy into a reality Why are you narrowing the scope of the conversation? It seems like women here like to do this to maintain the narrative that they want to believe in and not stray too far from that. I'm telling you that your perspective on male sexuality is inherently limited because you and other women drastically underestimate the influence of our sex drives on our thought processes. If you co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:50 PM
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Your comment makes me wonder if you have a sister LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:05 PM
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Did you tell him that you wanted to introduce them or just do it without telling him beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:04 PM
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Are you a woman? I don't think you understand how powerful the male sex drive is on average. I had no interest in girls at all until puberty, can you imagine what kind of influence on brain chemistry that is? If my testosterone levels remained at what I had as a child, I could easily go my whole life without interacting with a woman because I would never think about them. Now imagine going from that to constantly think about woman because of a hormone. And don't act like an MMF threesome is comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:42 PM
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Everyone wants something from someone if they have something of value. Men are disposable and have no value by default, but once you have a lot of money or girls suddenly a lot of people are interested in you (your time and your money). Women are valued inherently for their bodies, they have tits and ass and pussy that men want even if they have nothing else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:48 AM
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The US is full of unhinged people, I absolutely believe it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:37 AM
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In the US people don't do this. In countries like Mexico, India they would. But people in the US are antisocial and selfish. At most the bouncers would step in but for the most part nobody would do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:34 AM
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The average man is below average according to you. There is a wide gap between have and have not. What an average man's dating life looks like is having a long term relationship every once in awhile interspersed with dry spells in between that can be measured in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:41 PM
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I am 100% sure you underrate those guys and if you objectively described them or shared pics they aren't actually 4/10 unless they're banging obese women, single moms and old ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:39 PM
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mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:13 PM
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Why do you stay then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:24 PM
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As a married woman I feel bad for your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:29 AM
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I have spent a lot of time in commercial gyms. There are always significantly more dudes in the gym than girls at any time in any section, maybe you live somewhere like the east coast where there's more women but there's a reason there's like 1 major female fitness influencer for every 50 male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:33 AM
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Most women in those classes are out of shape. Live laugh love types. Starving themselves and drinking on the weekend types.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:41 PM
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There are more men under age 50 than women. You're looking at survivorship bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:37 PM
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So basically starving themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:24 PM
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Maybe you don't live in one of the sausage fest metros (the further west from NY you go the more men there are) but this is absolutely not the case from what I've seen. Most men who are jacked are usually with women who are less physically impressive. The ones who are with bigger women are definitely more desperate than anything and usually chubby chasers are not necessarily gravitating (ha) towards the 300+ lb massive women I've seen some jacked guys with. A lot of muscular men are deeply insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:23 PM
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It's a huge difference when talking about 100 million+ people. And I'm also curious as to where and how those percentages were figured out, as seeing women who are actually in shape (and not just thin from starving themselves) is far less common than seeing men who are in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:04 PM
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we started hooking up before dating since I didn't want to be in a relationship at the time. As I got to know her I really liked her more and then we started dating. Knowing that if I had decided not to date her, stay "single" and keep hooking up with her and receiving girlfriend benefits while being allowed to bring other girls in bed with us, what would you think most guys in my position would have thought? Compared to being exclusive and not being able to sleep with other girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:00 PM
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There is a distinction between overweight, obese and severely obese. Men who are very muscular and have maxed out their potential would be considered overweight even though they are fit, and obesity and especially severe obesity is more common in women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:30 PM
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Not at all. Ive seen so, so many absolute units of men with skinny fat and obese land whales of women and rarely the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:24 PM
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More men are in shape than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:22 PM
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That was the deepest comment you've ever made
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:22 PM
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We already heard this "teach men not to rape!" crap, It doesn't work. If that's the case then really we need to hold women to higher standards and teach them to choose better, because nobody does that anymore. The prime example I can think of are those guys who sleep around a lot and catch sexual assault cases in college, but continue sleeping around because they are really good looking. Ive literally known girls who have ignored those facts and slept with those guys because they explicitly ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:19 PM
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I'll never understand the thought process - a girl I dated once said that she would only have a threesome with me if we were not in a serious relationship. Ironically she had very few boundaries in bed and that was pretty much the only one. Most girls seem to think like this and they don't realize that this type of behavior is off putting for people like me who would otherwise have been fine being in a relationship to realize that they get more from a girl if they avoid being boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:26 PM
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Men significantly outnumber women in the prime dating ages. There are not enough women for men. The median woman is approaching menopause, fat, has lots of debt, and children. Being a young, single, fit, childless, debt free man means your equivalent in a woman is less than 5% of the population if not much less, and there are many more men who fit that description. That's why any decent looking (but not model level or anything special) , young, thin girl can literally be fwb/one night stands/gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:22 PM
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Women are spoiled for options. When the median woman is 2.2 years older than men (roughly 40), fat, and has kids, saddled with debt and are outnumbered by men significantly in the prime dating ages, men just don't have the options. If you are a fit single childless man in their 20s in the US, your equivalent is less than 5% of the population, if not much smaller. This is before filtering for mental issues, character, and other important qualities in a woman. Compared to countries where the major…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:11 PM
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The odds are heavily stacked against men, it doesn't matter what they do. They either play by unfair rules or not at all, because there are literally more prime dating age men than women in the country (and the world) You can't expect men with different cultural and religious expectations to adhere to the same strategy and have a mass boycott of the low quality women available especially because of how powerful men's sexual urges are - there is always a hotter and hornier guy than you willing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:59 PM
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Reasons I don't like to pay 1) I feel like I am paying for a cheap, trashy, prostitute to spend their time with me 2) I don't feel genuine interest if I have to pay. A lot of women won't, and that specific girl you are with probably got with another guy with less hassle, meaning if I have to wine and dine her she doesn't like me as much. 3) There's no guarantee of anything just because of paying for a date, and I don't think there should be. 4) If you go on a lot of first or second dates and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:18 PM
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All of these women are completely normal looking and would not struggle to find a partner based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:07 PM
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But uh.... Statistically speaking there should be JUST as many 23 y/o boys and girls. that's how genetics works.* Wrong. It's been talked about in this sub and is a general fact that across the world the birth rate is 1.05 (on average) for boys to girls. Meaning for every 100 girls born, 105 boys are born. Since women outlive men and are less likely to die prematurely at the age of 45+ women start to outnumber men, but in the prime dating age which is below that there are more men than women, es…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:07 PM
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From a guys perspective a woman who is too aloof or "playing hard to get" comes off as disinterested. Ultimately the relationship going nowhere is time wasted. Women focus a lot on vetting men and it's the same way the justice system treats criminals. Guilty until proven innocent, but once the man has overcome the burden of proving his innocence the damage is still done. You're free to dissect and scrutinize men for as long as you want, and I'm sorry if it seems harsh but there's only so long th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:58 AM
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I must be doing a really terrible job at explaining my position. That can't be true because there are other people in here who understood it just fine. I understood you just fine, and many people in here disagree with you besides me. You are convinced I have disdain for most men. I disagree but that isn't even related to the point I'm originally trying to discuss. It's clear from the way you talk you are a know-it-all who looks down on most people particularly men. It's not reasonable to continu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:40 AM
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In this sub having bare minimum knowledge and understanding of groups like FDS, TRP, etc should be required. That's why so many threads where people have the same circular arguments that end in stalemates where nobody is willing to concede keep happening. The whole point of this sub is to discuss the topics that those groups focus on, it's like having a religious studies group who have no knowledge about Christians, Muslims and jews but want to feud endlessly about their differences. You make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:25 AM
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I'm still mostly of the opinion that looks are the most important part of the equation, but I will say that having low self esteem and no confidence/social calibration can also really hurt. Being ugly I still had high self esteem and had basic social skills and I've seen friends after high school who have physically grown up but are very awkward and unconfident and still do poorly with women. So to some extent I can see what you are saying, if you don't drop the "ugly" mindset you had before you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:06 AM
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Girls will mostly end up dating a guys that they don't like very much or aren't very attracted to. For most guy being extremely persistent and taking "no" to mean "not right now" or "not yet" is necessary to eventually get a "yes" because most guys are unlikely to end up running into a girl that is highly interested from the start and inclined to say yes right away. Many if not the majority of relationships, especially the ones you might see where the guy is average I know the girl initially sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:58 PM
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This isn't a nuanced take at all, this is literally what every FDSer believes, which is that every man needs to be heavily scrutinized to make sure that they're a "born winner" and not "self-made" and not to give men any slack or sympathy. And assumes that women themselves don't need to be scrutinized the same way :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:52 PM
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