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2

Do you have any friends? Go out with them and have them tell you what you're doing wrong that's turning women off.
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:14 PM
0

Don't approach cold. Make eye contact first and smile. You'll know pretty quick if they're receptive. If they make eye contact back, go talk to them.
/r/seduction06/08/21 02:29 AM
4

Good argument, thanks. Really cleared it up for me. You are quite the wordsmith.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 08:51 PM
3

How is it false? It seems pretty accurate to me.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 08:34 PM
2

I would assume it was a ploy to steal my kidneys
/r/seduction06/07/20 09:48 PM
2

Protip: Get the expensive multi day antiperspirants. Put it on at night before bed, then wash off the next day in the shower. You won't sweat and your shirts won't get weird yellow pit stains.
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:59 PM
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It's actually annoying when a salesman does it because I know it's fake and I know they're trying to manipulate me into buying something. Makes me think of a greasy used car salesman.
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:48 AM
0

I honestly can't tell if you are dumb or being purposely obtuse and trolling. Either way, this entire thread is absurd and I'm over it.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:30 PM
0

Nobody asked you for anything. You seem to be getting really defensive over nothing.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 10:17 PM
2

Perhaps because it costs $36 for access? But thanks for the snarky reply.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 10:10 PM
2

That abstract tells me nothing about what domestic work they are using. Are they just defining it as children rearing? Cleaning? Cooking? Mowing the lawn? The data is also from Australia. Are there cultural differences between Australians, Europeans and Americans?
/r/MensRights07/01/20 09:58 PM
3

I would like to see this "study" and how it was calculated.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 10:52 AM
1

Atheism+ was a shit show of far left feminist types and I certainly don't think they represent the majority of atheists. And the big names in the modern atheist movement, like Dawkins, Harris and Hitchens were extremely critical of it. Like you said, no belief system is beyond criticism, yet some feel we need to give deference to religion. I criticize religion the same way I would criticize any view point, such as a political view. And feel free to criticize atheism all you want. I'm happy to he…
/r/MensRights06/10/19 06:53 PM
1

If it remained a personal choice, atheists wouldn't have a problem with it. Unfortunately, religious folks often try to legislate their beliefs and demand deference.
/r/MensRights06/10/19 11:49 AM
2

Most atheists are careful to attack beliefs, not people. If your religion wants to deny rights to LGBT people, is anti-science, believes women who are raped should be stoned to death, etc... I'm going to attack and mock it. But that doesn't mean I hate Christian or Muslim individuals.
/r/MensRights06/10/19 11:37 AM
21

And we are too stupid to know that rape is wrong unless we are told.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 03:57 PM
12

To be fair, the pool of female chess players could just be far smaller.
/r/MensRights07/01/19 04:58 PM
3

This Act is pretty common knowledge. If you have a legitimate source that shows I'm wrong, please enlighten me.
/r/MensRights26/12/18 02:50 AM
7

It is not legal in any state. You cannot discriminate based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin. This includes private businesses. See the the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
/r/MensRights26/12/18 02:38 AM
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Except in this case, since it's 100% illegal, you will almost certainly win.
/r/MensRights25/12/18 04:09 PM
3

Or, if anyone asks, just tell them to fuck off.
/r/MensRights25/12/18 03:46 PM
55

Sex is a protected class in the US. If they tow it, you can sue them.
/r/MensRights25/12/18 03:41 PM
9

Call 267-SLYDIAL. It will connect you directly to her voicemail without her phone ringing. Hopefully her message has her name.
/r/seduction06/11/18 11:27 PM
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Was the comment highly upvoted? If not, then down vote and move on. Don't waste your energy on assholes.
/r/seduction08/10/18 11:40 AM
3

And with more .jpeg each time.
/r/seduction16/09/18 05:49 AM
4

And more jpeg each time.
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:23 PM
2

Just don't show more interest that she shows you. If you send multiple texts and respond immediately and she only sends 1 or 2 and waits a while before replying, you'll come across as desperate.
/r/seduction29/08/18 01:43 PM
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A quarter of women think men are better equipped to be firefighters I mean, on average, men are stronger and better physically equipped. This is just a fact.
/r/MensRights21/08/18 02:14 PM
55

I find it more disturbing that this garbage article was published by a serious news organization. Even if you disagree, it legitimizes this insanely sexist view. If I wrote an article suggesting that only women should be locked up, the editorial board would laugh at me and I would rightfully be regarded as a misogynistic asshole.
/r/MensRights27/04/18 11:21 AM
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It would be in the US. This is in India.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 02:54 PM
14

I'm surprised no one mentioned alcohol. If you are going out for drinks and then having problems, you may have "whiskey dick". Also after it's happened a couple of times, you are probably stressing over it, which can cause problems in and of itself. Does your dick get hard when you masturbate? Then your problems are probably mental. Relax, stop stressing and you'll probably be fine. And if it does happen again, don't sweat it, it happens.
/r/seduction18/02/18 03:34 AM
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Try meditation.
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:19 AM
7

What disturbs me more, is the fact that the Washington Post thought this opinion was an acceptable legitimate piece to print.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 05:30 PM
1

After a few days, any testosterone increase levels off.
/r/MensRights14/11/17 05:04 PM
17

If they change their prices based on sex, race or religion, they would have a serious law suit on their hands.
/r/MensRights05/08/17 02:19 PM
6

Where are these people getting acid from? That doesn't seem like something a person can just go down to Wal-Mart and buy.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 12:12 AM
1

Talking to people is something you just need to practice. Everyday, talk to a few random strangers. Talk to her with the comfort you would talk to a guy with. If you could talk to me in a bar, you could talk to her. Ask her questions about herself.
/r/seduction16/02/17 12:25 PM
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You need to initiate. If you are looking at someone, eventually they are going to look over at you and lock eyes. The key is doing it without staring and being creepy.
/r/seduction13/02/17 11:18 AM
15

It doesn't matter much what you say. "Hi, I'm..." works just as well. If she's making eye contact, she's already interested.
/r/seduction12/02/17 03:43 PM
93

Don't just randomly walk up and start talking. You need to start with eye game. Make eye contact, hold it for a couple of seconds and then look away and smile. Observe her reaction. If you see her looking back at you trying to make eye contact again, do it and then walk over and say "hi, I caught your eye" or something like that. If she's not receptive to eye contact, congratulations, you just saved yourself the embarrassment of rejection. Remember, it's not about what you say. Your body languag…
/r/seduction12/02/17 01:19 PM
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Make it clear to anyone who criticizes you that you are not sorry and would do it again in a heartbeat. Tell them their opinions are irrelevant. That should stop them from getting on your case and she will definitely think twice before hitting you again.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 02:45 PM
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I think neither one is condescending. That's just silly.
/r/MensRights13/01/17 02:05 PM
21

To be honest, this poster is sexist as shit against women, too. It treats them like children without agency.
/r/MensRights12/01/17 03:21 PM
5

I guess I'm somehow out of the loop on that one. Sucks for people actually named Angela.
/r/MensRights12/01/17 01:40 PM
9

But they would know the secret word too, so it wouldn't help much.
/r/MensRights12/01/17 01:20 PM
1

What do you look like? Are you in decent shape? Do you dress well? Is your skin alright? If not, improving these things will give you a huge boost of confidence and will increase your self image.
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:36 AM
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Even in same job vs same job, it does not account for someone taking more time off, hours worked, leaving for a year or two to start a family, etc... These factors can greatly affect ones salary.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 06:08 PM
1

I think the guy was from AC. She said 'Bob' from AC, NJ.
/r/MensRights22/12/16 02:26 PM
5

Just shit in the urinal. I bet the next event will have toilets for men.
/r/MensRights27/11/16 12:47 PM
8

"cellophane"
/r/MensRights27/10/16 01:50 PM
4

Eskimos?
/r/MensRights26/09/16 03:58 PM
1

People who say you should love yourself the way you are are idiots. You should be making yourself better every day. The way I look at it, you have to look in the mirror and identify things that you don't love about yourself. Are you fat? Poor hygiene? Bad at eye contact? Whatever you don't like, you have to change a little bit every day to be something you like in order to love yourself.
/r/seduction18/06/16 11:46 AM
5

If you grabbed a woman's arm, shoved her or touched her in any way, you would be arrested too. They use the loosest definition of assault to justify arresting the man in domestic disturbances, regardless of who's at fault.
/r/MensRights07/06/16 10:22 PM
3

Wow, the wage gap is now $0.70 to $1. They were claiming it was $0.80 not too long ago. I'm sure it will be $0.60 soon for white women and $0.25 for black and latina women or something.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 01:50 PM
3

Even my friends greet me with, "Hey asshole, what's up?" Getting insulted and put down is a normal part of being a man. I think women just aren't as used to it. I have crocodile skin. I'm impervious to insults.
/r/MensRights15/04/16 06:47 PM
1

In the US, it's generally not illegal if the child is over a certain age, such as 12. I mean, statutory rape is still illegal in these cases regardless, but not necessarily incest.
/r/MensRights13/04/16 10:56 AM
4

While I agree with your overall sentiment, I'm not sure if incest is actually illegal.
/r/MensRights07/04/16 07:40 PM
4

Use a moisturizer with sun screen every single morning, even in winter. Like others have said, don't smoke or abuse your body. Eat right and keep healthy.
/r/seduction12/03/16 12:53 PM
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This professor will probably sue. They're making sure they dotted their I's and crossed their T's. If more students accused of sexual assault sued, they would be given due process as well.
/r/MensRights26/02/16 12:54 PM
1

Some people feel they can't escape. It may sound harsh, but that is their problem. You still can't use that as an excuse to kill someone. Because we've allowed this defense, every woman who kills her husband claims abuse, whether true or not.
/r/MensRights16/01/16 04:06 PM
2

To be honest, you can probably deny everything in most cases. Unless there were actual witnesses in the room, you can just deny ever having sex.
/r/MensRights03/01/16 12:45 PM
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It's really sad that we're posting articles and celebrating people being granted due process. This is supposed to be the norm.
/r/MensRights10/10/15 02:21 PM
3

It's a kangaroo court, not a real court.
/r/MensRights10/10/15 02:18 PM
1

Many 'normal' people feel empty and alone on the inside. They're just good at taking it. Whatever feelings you're having are probably shared by lots of people around you. We all have our issues and hang ups. You aren't alone. You should really try to see a professional therapist if you can. It will help you immensely. Where are you from? I'm sure there are many people on this sub that would talk or hang out with you.
/r/MensRights04/10/15 01:50 PM
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This article is complete baloney. It states numerous times that women initiate divorce 66% of the time, and uses this as some sort of justification for the claims that marriage benefits men more. The reason men don't initiate divorce is because it is often financially devastating. It is men that must pay alimony, and it is men that often lose custody of their children amongst other things. There is often little to no benefit for men to get married.
/r/MensRights02/10/15 09:55 PM
2

It will be very uncomfortable at first. Like others have said, practice on retail employees and coworkers. Bartenders, the checkout girl at the grocery store, servers, etc... Try to determine if they wear contact lenses. Treat it like a game. It gets easier. You'll actually notice other people looking away.
/r/seduction18/09/15 06:03 PM
3

other lifestyle factors, such as increasing use of tight-fitting underwear, increasing room temperatures in American homes and offices during the past three decades Can anyone shed some light on how indoor temperature effect testosterone levels? And it wearing boxers over briefs really going to have any effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 02:07 PM
2

What abouts hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 12:48 AM
12

Use your judgment. Are you taking advantage if her? Is she an eagar and willing participant? Is she retarded drunk or just buzzed? In my book these are all important factors. The law however may say otherwise. Err on the side of caution, never take advantage of someone and deny everything if you get accused of something.
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:48 AM
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I would disagree. I think being aggressive in a video game is far different than the real world and most intelligent people know the difference between the two. Being aggressive online is easy and actually might add to the enjoyment of the game. Being aggressive in real life, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 05:18 PM
6

Fighting back is objectively better. Once the game is over, all the feelings associated with it are over as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 05:04 PM
4

Not to break the circle jerk, but these women are just terrible people. Most people, both women and men, would find this horrible and disgusting.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 12:02 PM
15

Maybe you shouldn't punch an elite athlete then. I certainly would think twice about hitting a large MMA fighter. And if I did hit him and he knocked my ass out, everyone would say I deserved it for being dumb. And they'd be right.
/r/MensRights08/07/15 04:11 PM
13

Can't he just, you know, deny ever even sleeping with this woman? Shit, if there's no kid, I would deny everything.
/r/MensRights15/05/15 02:15 AM
2

We should just keep serial offenders in jail.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 03:10 PM
18

I would probably insist on getting the mothers consent if you wanted "cum dump" on your sons head.
/r/MensRights01/04/15 02:52 PM
7

If there were actual puppies in the room, I would probably join them.
/r/MensRights22/03/15 02:35 PM
1

Go to a classy bar; the kind of place where you drink martinis or old fashioneds and the men are wearing suit jackets.
/r/seduction13/02/15 03:37 AM
1

The part that bothers me the most, isn't her ridiculous views, it's that they are published on what appears to be a legitimate media outlet and nobody bats an eyelash. If it was her tumblr blog, I would assume she's just some fringe feminist. By publishing it here, it gives her views legitimacy. It says that whether you agree or disagree, her views have some sort if intellectual merit as opposed to being sexist drivel.
/r/MensRights18/01/15 03:22 PM
2

What if you caught him cheating on you with your best friend? Would you be comfortable giving him half your earnings for the rest if your life? I can understand supporting him for a few years so he can get on his feet, but in many states it's for a considerable amount of time if not the rest of your life.
/r/MensRights31/12/14 11:58 PM
10

Here's a real life example of why the bread winner still gets screwed. My buddy makes about $140k a year. He got married, they bought a house together and eventually got divorced. He's been divorced for about 10 years. Not only did she get half of everything, including the house, he has to pay her about $50k a year alimony for life. He also owes her half of his retirement. The divorce was 10 years ago. He has since gotten remarried. He still has to work every single day, but instead of making $1…
/r/MensRights31/12/14 05:13 PM
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I used the genders in my comment because in the overwhelming majority of cases, the man is the bread winner. But it is irrelevant to the question I posed, which is "The person doing all the work and actually making all the money should get a larger % of it after a divorce, no?"
/r/MensRights31/12/14 04:37 PM
10

But she's not contributing 50% to the relationship. She's not getting up every day and running a company or running up and down a basketball court. The person doing all the work and actually making all the money should get a larger % of it after a divorce, no?
/r/MensRights31/12/14 04:18 PM
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I'm not even sure that splitting assets after they were married is fair. If a movie star gets married and then stars in a movie for $20 million, why is the spouse suddenly entitled to $10 million of that? What the hell did she do to make $10 million? Support him? Provide bj's? That hardly seems worth $10 million.
/r/MensRights31/12/14 03:40 PM
14

Eh, I get where you're going here, but they were killed, not kidnapped. Bringing them back would be quite a feat.
/r/MensRights16/12/14 07:32 PM
9

The punishment should be based on the extent of injury, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 04:34 PM
4

Maybe. Back in 2006, it was assumed she would run against Rudy Giuliani. Most people didn't really know a whole lot about Senator Obama. Things can change a lot in 2 years. I try not to assume too much about elections.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 08:45 PM
5

The elections are a long way off. Assuming that she'll even get the nomination is premature.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 02:04 PM
1

What's the difference between phenibut HCL and F.A.A.? The F.A.A. looks more expensive.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 11:14 PM
1

I understand it's small, but it should be zero. The same with the 18 year old that sleeps with his 15 year old girlfriend. These people represent no danger to society once they get out. We let murderers out without alerting the public and I would argue they are far more of a danger to the community.
/r/MensRights13/10/14 05:16 PM
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There shouldn't be any offender registries. If you've served your time, you should be a free man (or woman). If you're so dangerous that we have to alert the community and restrict where you live, then you should still be in jail. Serial pedophiles should be jailed for life. The guy caught peeing in public should pay his debt and live his life. He's not a danger to the community.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 11:55 PM
1

Pro tip: Use a moisturizer with sunscreen. I use Jergens Natural Glow. It has SPF 15 and it will give your pale ass face a little color.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 02:14 PM
1

Listerine Total Care + Whitening
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 02:10 PM
3

They also lack sense of humor and are offended by just about anything.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:41 PM
0

I would disagree with the line about competent attorneys getting you off the hook. You are generally assumed guilty until proven innocent and even without a breathalyzer, they just need an officer to say you appeared under the influence to get a DUI conviction. Prosecutors do not take DUI lightly in NJ and will fight tooth and nail for a conviction. Often, officers will charge you with a plethora of charges, such as reckless driving, careless driving, failure to maintain lane, no seat belt, cell…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:44 PM
0

DUI is not a criminal act in NJ. It's actually just a traffic offense with very stiff penalties.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:33 PM
2

Depends on which state you're in. In NJ, the penalty for refusal is worse than DUI.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:00 AM
4

Like most anywhere, the quality of food varies. There is both cheap unhealthy shit and some of the best food in the entire world, especially if you live near a large city like New York.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:20 PM
14

Let's be honest though. Men and women are still going to be having sex and many of those women will become preggers. I don't think this technology will change any of that.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 04:02 AM
2

Who the fuck is advertising on the Westboro Baptist website?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:52 AM
1

Slow down. When you talk, it should be slow and deliberate. Don't be afraid of silence. Use it to your advantage. Talk with your eyes.
/r/seduction02/06/14 01:00 AM
2

Not all psychopaths are strong charismatic people. Actually, many if not most psychopaths act pathetic and weak. They often want you to feel bad for them and give them what they want. They prey on peoples emotions and empathy.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 09:08 PM
1

I add a spoonful of chunky peanut butter to my oatmeal and it's great.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 09:50 PM
2

Why? Seems like a lot of effort and sacrifice just to be a homeless begger. Why wouldn't they just put the same effort into bettering themselves?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 01:24 PM
4

Drunken sex and morning regret isn't unheard of either.
/r/MensRights08/02/14 04:49 PM
4

Or near a playground, because everyone assumes he's a pedophile.
/r/MensRights12/01/14 12:47 PM
9

The FDA has to approve it. Big pharma has a huge amount of lobbying power.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 12:34 AM
4

I'm not going to get too excited. This is still a very long way from market, and because there's not a shit ton of money to be made from it, big pharma very well might squash it. They don't need competition in the birth control market.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 12:17 AM
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Just a friendly reminder, if you are ever accused of rape like this, keep your mouth shut and lawyer up. Never try to explain the situation to the cops.
/r/MensRights10/10/13 01:58 PM
3

Does a minimum wage job that you need so you can eat count?
/r/MensRights09/10/13 12:50 PM
1

Just FYI, one glass of wine does NOT equal three bottles of beer, unless you are drinking 12oz of wine. Most glasses of wine are about 4oz, so the glass of wine and the bottle of beer are about equal.
/r/seduction22/09/13 08:41 PM
13

It's dark in the bar.
/r/seduction08/09/13 10:23 PM
2

Or just give a fake number.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 07:49 PM
10

How about a NSFW tag for the ad with two guys fucking.
/r/MensRights21/09/11 01:58 PM
4

The other day I was driving through my friends apartment complex and I saw a little girl, maybe 6 years old chasing after a puppy. It looked like the dog may have gotten away from her and she looked distressed. My first instinct was to stop and try to help her, but then then image of a 34 year old man in a car asking a little girl if she needed help finding her dog popped into my head. I assumed that people would think I'm a predator and I kept driving without stopping. It retrospect, maybe I sh…
/r/MensRights22/05/10 02:24 PM
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