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what could i have lied about exactly? not sure i'm following....
/r/askMRP01/05/17 01:47 PM
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I've been so exhausted to adjust the behavior. I went with the flow. - it's my fault, put the work in reap the rewards, don't put the work in, suffer the consequences. "What are we going to do for me?" I asked - don't ask, just act? not sure i know the right answer here. "well, tell me one time, if you know you've faked you know you can think of one time when you have, tell me that time.” i ask - i should not care? and honestly its not the "faking part" i care about, i can see where that comes f…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 01:42 PM
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---- done.
/r/askMRP07/02/17 04:36 PM
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i wasn't clear. "not hitting goals" does not mean "can't stick with it." Lifting 3x per week on a 5x5 program i found and really like. Built a home gym, adding to my home gym, recent set back due to AC joint injury (not severe) and flu, but no major derailment i just have not hit the weight goals i have set for myself when i first stared this in October. Weight, 10 lbs away from my goal. Look and feel SIGNIFICANTLY different. everyone, and i mean everyone, has noticed and i have started getting …
/r/askMRP07/02/17 04:36 PM
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agreed, now, after taking the pill, it is easy and obvious. I wasn't raised this way and had never been exposed to this type of thinking. I was raised with the exact opposite mentality...the more abuse and the more you but up with, becoming a martyr, and that is what means you have good character, are a good person, and are doing good things. Basically, my parents and mentors were fucking stupid and somehow never developed critical thinking skills. i will not allow that to be passed along furthe…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 04:22 PM
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BTW, your link is exactly what i'm looking for, really helping things to click.
/r/askMRP07/02/17 04:12 PM
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How To Build Boundaries During Your Transition When you start enforcing boundaries, your wife might be upset and act up more. This is very frustrating. Just accept that it is your own fault: you gave her this territory because you didn’t defend it. Now you want it and she had internalized it was hers. It isn’t her fault, it is yours for not defending the terrain. It sucks for you, for her and for the relationship that you weren’t consistently defending it. So now you all pay the price of your ir…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 04:08 PM
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this is true. Product of environment to which i (and she) was born and raised.
/r/askMRP07/02/17 03:55 PM
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Her first words in the morning and last in the evening were along the lines "you piece of shit, you waste of time". All day long.< This is not my situation. this occurs when fights escalates to this point. At our current trends maybe once every 1.5 months-2 months that a fight will escalate to that point. the times it hasn't escalated, is when i've followed the advice given here. basically, when i STFU. You know what was the most fucked up? His son. Somehow, the daughter had the same attitude to…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 03:50 PM
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you walk away from comments like that? they honestly roll off your back? if a man talks to me that way he goes home with his teeth in a bag. seriously, what mental exercise do you do not to let it get to you. Maybe it isn't verbal assaults, but it is something, there is something your wife (or someone, at work, family, parent) can or could do that sets you off right? Maybe not anymore, but when you were still BP, still learning, still in my position. What was it that worked?
/r/askMRP03/02/17 03:21 PM
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i asked this same question just recently and received perfect feedback. heres the link so you can see how everyone responded. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5dl0bo/if_awalt_when_can_one_reasonably_expect_to_see_a/
/r/askMRP30/11/16 01:42 PM
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New to all this myself so take what i'm going to say with a grain of salt. Your post resonated with me bc i deal with the same shit. you feel like you do everything right but she isn't giving in and then it doesn't turn out how you want. its frustrating as fuck, bc she looks hot and you want to take her to Poundtown. Getting butthurt puts you in her frame. it sucks to act like IDGAF when you fucking DO because you want to get laid. In your head say, "fake it until you make it, IDGAF, it is her l…
/r/askMRP29/11/16 02:20 PM
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interesting. why did your list of things to change not include sex frequency or quality? is this not basically the "fuck me of fuck you" talk?
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:56 PM
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fucking A. thank you for commenting, i've listened to every one of your youtube videos probably 5 times each. every morning on my way to work and on my way home. thank you for making them as they have been instrumental in my undestanding and development. Your book is in my reading queue as well. cant wait to start it.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:54 PM
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close on both, very close. mental SMV is good but needs to be better with distinguishing between shit tests and comfort tests. really hard for me to differentiate. not an issue, i'm around women at work constantly and i know this will fall into place easily. non-issue, she is more self depreciating than anything. maybe need to build up her SMV more b/c she has said that after having kids she just "feels like a mom" and doesn't feel "sexy" ever. Need to build a game plan to lead her to feeling se…
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:49 PM
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i haven't tried the caveman as much as i need to, and i absolutely have not redirected my frustrations, but i am absolutely going to do this. i can see every reason why it will work and no reasons why i shouldn't.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:46 PM
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This one comment really hit me the hardest. such a great and simple response and you are 100% right. when i'm there she will be and if i'm not it is because i haven't worked at it hard enough yet to get there. I've probably repeated this line to myself every single time i have those moments in the car or before falling asleep when i am self reflecting about where i am and where i want to be. "when can an unattractive man expect to become attractive" fucking brilliant dude.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:44 PM
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Starfish form her = Caveman from me. got it.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:42 PM
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admittedly my fault it has turned into "all about her" and she doesn't want to be there half the time so it is lazy starfish. I understand, lead and take control and make it what i want. i know she will follow and i have to stop being lazy about it and stop expecting she's just going to all of a sudden turn into someone i want her to be. i need to lead her to the promise land and show her who i want her to be. if i have all my other shit in order, she will gladly be that person bc 1.she wants to…
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:41 PM
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great response. i guess this is why the red pill tastes bitter- because a huge motivating factor is to get more and better sex. it is truly shocking the layers upon layers of covert contracts that i just automatically setup. I can see how this could lead to the "fuck me or fuck you" conversation that BPP talks about-albeit very far down the road and deep into the MAP. learning to rethink why and how you do things and not have expectations is something that has been a HUGE wake up for me. how man…
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:37 PM
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eh, thats a good problem to have from where im sitting, lol
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:20 PM
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understood, you're right, and when i hear her say she feels alone i need to take this as the opportunity to game her. im not and im wasting opportunities. thanks
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:19 PM
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i'm not, i need to. i will remedy this immediately.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:18 PM
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ive felt this was the easiest thing for me to get. never had the "One-itis" a number of ppl seem to struggle with. I think its more of a covert contract that you should garner a certain level of appreciation or respect for what you provide. but its true, produce or go home and if you fuck up she will punish the FUCK out of you.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:17 PM
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'nuff said, lift and lead, you're right. It seems so obvious when i read the responses, but trudging through this shit you just aren't sure sometimes if your categorizing things correctly then taking the correct action.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:15 PM
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read- thank you, super helpful to get the link.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:13 PM
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in my mind im looking at 12 months to complete a total transformation in myself and my relationship.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:12 PM
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you're totally right and your comment really helped. I didn't think about it as something that SHE isn't trying to actively change. 100% right.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:12 PM
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ok! on month or two. on the MAP. thanks.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:10 PM
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hahah, "when she gives you the starfish give her the caveman" i will def. be doing this. love it. the little saying like this make it so much easier to hold frame when shit tests are flying and starfish sex is being offered.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:10 PM
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good point. I guess i am trying to place specific goals for myself along the way and to develop a better MAP to make sure im on track and can judge how well im doing. I'll make this my final goal.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:09 PM
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haha, funny, and...i tried it..worked somewhat but then she gave a bit of pushback, i should have pressed on and been a leader, thanks.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:07 PM
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good advice, got it....My responsibility is to make it what i want it to be. You're right, i need to be leading.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 02:06 PM
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