NSACOP Archive

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8	[discussion] Women with more "man brains"/logic over emotions, how did you come to terms with RPW? How has it impacted your relationships? You need to start working on yourself, cut off toxic people until your stable, get yourself a GOOD education, work on getting yourself a good job and slowly youll start being around stable adults who also are seeking the same thing (a stable home & a stable relationship). Both my man and I are extros. (capricorn/leo; Although I dont believe that has anything to do with it). Going through your history it doesn't appear you have "man brain"- your still healing from trauma & given your description …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/19 04:17 AM
1	What are the base requirements for marriage? It's super important to at least learn the basics. Especially when your extended family is monolingual in the other language. It will matter when you want to introduce your partner to your family and they can barely say hello to your grandparents or cousins. Or if you want children, will they be monolingual, bilingual, or trilingual? As long as you start them young it's possible.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/16 08:49 PM
10	What are the base requirements for marriage? While I'm not married, seeing as I'm fortunate enough to still be young, I've been with my partner for 3 years and 4 months. These are the qualities that made me realize I could one day get married to him: He knows Spanish- hate to be a culture snob, but I refuse to marry a man who won't put in the effort to learn my native tongue. I'm bilingual- I've already put in the effort to learn English. He's either educated or he works, I refuse to be with someone who isn't doing either/or. He knows what…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/16 10:12 AM
1	What counts as riding the 'cc'? I mostly just commented to show, it's possible for people to not end up with a negative life after the CCR. But it does depend on the female to get herself off and fix her issues, or in my case- get lucky. I've only met 3 other women with similar expiereces of luck and not being tarnished as "damaged", but they got off before they hit 20- before any real long term damage was done. Most people who stay on well into their 20's... They tend to have way less sucess.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/16 08:16 AM
1	What counts as riding the 'cc'? High >n count girl here if you go by the number 3. My family is really blue pill, so they saw sleeping around as no-biggie. I dated around in my early teens (around 14). But I met my current partner as a Sophmore in highschool, at 15. Now I'm a Sophmore in college and we're still together. Waiting on marriage till after I finish my degree. Some people would call me a reformed CCR I guess. Honestly I don't count it- but some people are more prude and would. If you're in your teens on the CC- it r…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/16 11:50 PM
1	"Take care of yourself"- Practical suggestions on how to do this please! I personally am a fruit person, but also the kid snacks work great especially when you're on a rush! And remember it's the small things that really add up- especially with self care. Small improvements tend to last longer than a dramatic change. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/16 02:09 AM
4	"Take care of yourself"- Practical suggestions on how to do this please! Never bring any fizzy drinks home unless it's for special occasions (like family parties). Even if you buy one for lunch when you're at work- you'll cut down a lot by not having them at home. Then the inconvenience of spending $2 on a fizzy drink every day will get expensive ($60 every month). Do the same with chips, chocolate bars, etc. Eventually the combo of chips, a soda, and chocolate bar will be around $6 to buy every time, or $180 a month. If it's an expensive habit- you're more likely to…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/16 09:07 AM
1	What are your experiences with birth control? Just chiming in here, because I've had a very different experience from most people here. My partner & I went from the pull out method, to condoms, to birth control, back to condoms, and ended up returning to the pull out method. I would prefer birth control, however the only reason I had to get off was because of low iron, and risk of anemia. Had I not had that effect though, I would have stayed on it. But a 10 day period with extremely heavy bleeding, followed by another period 12 days later w…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/16 01:15 AM
3	"im trying not to vent to u about it cuz i dont want my stress to rub off onto u" If he's into photography he could get a small digital cannon or start with film. Photography doesn't have to be an expensive SLR, Cannon, or Nikon. Or he could start with a mobile phone. The point of a hobby is to do something, even if it means crappy quality at the beginning. As long as you encourage him to pursue it, it'll be helpful. With LDR it can be hard to encourage them but you just have to stress on it, and it's good that your limiting buying him things, even though you have the resourc…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/15 05:54 AM
3	"im trying not to vent to u about it cuz i dont want my stress to rub off onto u" Are you able to send packages to him? Almost like a care-package? Even if it's something small like a movie he wants to see, some microwavable popcorn and a written note. My partner and I are sometimes two countries away for 1-2 weeks. When I know he's going to be lonely/stressed, I make sure to typically give him a few items that I know will cheer him up. Mostly random letters, with time zone changes, it's easier to send a letter via text or old fashion snail mail. This way when they least expe…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/15 03:06 AM
7	Meaghan Trainor - dear future husband Honestly it's notticable she's just jumping on the bandwagon of FA/HAES/Feminism. If she really believed that she wouldn't have lost weight, or anything else. She knows it's bullshit, but making songs about it makes her money. While I have little respect for her, at least she's making a good living out of exploiting such flawed movements. She has that going for her.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/15 02:11 AM
1	RPW with mental health issues. TL;DR: I'm batshit crazy and it's ruining my relationship. Has anyone successfully managed their mental health problems to have a happy red pill relationship? I have PTSD from trauma, and I would also go through many depressed episodes, in the past. My therapist was also very feminist and blue pill, I suggest first of all, trying different therapies for different situations/feelings/needs. One for your personal issues, one for your relationship, and one to learn how to deal with these situations in a more mature way. Regretfully I have gotten to the point where I was almost physical with my partner in the past some two times. I have to say, first you …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/15 11:34 PM